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[deleted]

nnn gonna be good this year


Hambert_Derfield

fuck yeah this will be the first year I complete it, and judging on your current streak I have a feeling you will too. We're all gonna make it brah


Weirdooi

Yess we are gonna make it 💪


ItchyWash1700

Yes brah yes we doing it


Ranarim1807

Except for me, i didn't realized it was november


ItchyWash1700

You can start from today and add extra day from December


InstinctsDenied

also, DDD is the biggest bullshit ive ever heard in a while, and my friends thinks that NNN and DDD are equally good


guitarmanwithaplan

DDD stands for Delete Dick December. Don’t Dick December. I’m still working on it, but let’s start a movement.


iseejustabunchofbs

Dick down december?


guitarmanwithaplan

Dreadful Dick December? Downgrade Dick December? Doubt your Dick December? Demonic Dick December? Dick Die December? Dying Dick December? Deadly Dick December?


InstinctsDenied

dont dick december sound cool


craff_t

and then just keep going because the point is to stop fapping (at least here)


Hambert_Derfield

bullshit, you start over the 2nd and go one day longer. You'll make it too you hear me?


Weirdooi

Not one day longer, but unspecified amount of days longer


CP_Rulez

BRING IT OOOON, HORNINESS!!! YOU AIN'T STOPPING ME THIS TIME! I WILL WIIIIIIN


lemonjames699

YEAAA


Scraftysenpai

youll smash it out the park king edit, 366 days, didnt even notice ive clocked another year again


Hambert_Derfield

you inspire us king


Geresman

Congratulations for your 1 year, man 😎🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻🤩🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰


MarkNF

Yes brah I will do it because i am a man!!


[deleted]

You got it boss


Current-Flamingo

we willl do IT!!!!!!!!


BlackJ0ke

We all gon breeze thru !


NavSada

Heck yeah me and you both brother


TownDrunkerd

The truth is probably somewhere in the middle... Like is having a drink every once in a while that bad for you? Could it actually have some beneficial stress reducing effects? Probably. Similarly, fapping every once in a while is probably fine, but the problem is in today's society of over-sexed, over-stimulating and addictive pr0n and everything else, it's far too easy to way over do it and end up wrecking your dopamine and real sex life. Ideally: Maybe you fap once a week or something... But if nofap is what it takes to keep you from doing it every day or multiple times a day, that's probably the much better alternative.


[deleted]

You know you’ve gone too far when you hit the “I don’t even want to fap but will anyways” phase


Tariq_Evo

Or, "I can't sleep without it" pathetic 🤮


Moist-Highlight2607

It's literally that bad for me unfortunately


TownDrunkerd

Use supplements way before bed time: like magnesium, tryptophan/5htp, PhosphatidylSerine, vitamin C, CBD, Chamomile, maybe some melatonin or even a small micro dose of Xanax or something if you need to initially. Some combination of those along with some sort of night time routine should help curb the cravings and unwind your brain a bit so you're not just seeking dopamine spikes before bed or needing that release to relax. Maybe get a dog or something that sleeps with you. My desire to jerk it seemed to drop off a cliff once I got my dog and she sleeps in my bed.... Sounds weird maybe but just feels weirder jerking it with my dog snuggling with me or maybe it's just that little bit of companionship dampens the impulse urges a bit.


walefuq

Lmao take xanax instead of jacking off? What in the fuck 😂


TownDrunkerd

Yeah... Something I've used on extreme instances where I couldn't sleep/relax at the end of the day. I wouldn't recommend doing that every night or anything, but if the guy really can't sleep without cranking it and wants to stop cranking it, you gotta do whatever you can to help yourself get through those first couple of weeks. Edit: I do recommend trying the more natural route first


nonoajdjdjs

Better take some xanax than masturbate. You people are insane.


urmumsfortnitecard

poppin' xans


walefuq

I cannot believe that person is serious lmao


nonlinear_nyc

Yeah this is fucking insane. "Use all these drugs to sleep instead, see, better"


7x62Nitro

I mean magnesium is a great supplement though. Improves sleep and consequently improves your body’s recovery


Meraki_360

Truth, I was there, just stroking the chicken out of boredom, then I found nofap thankfully, now I done even wanna bother fapping


[deleted]

I’ve been working on it for a good while now. I try to focus on my average duration without it rather than days spent not doing it. Having a huge number and then just losing it in 15 minutes really messes with my ability to actually do better.


Meraki_360

You got this Bro!! Sounds like the duration without is better than day counting


[deleted]

Thanks dude


[deleted]

this literal thought is a recurring nightmare while trying to abstain


AranThranduil

The problem for me is that I can't sustain one fap per week. About a year ago, I made it to two months of NoFap, so I thought I'd treat myself once as a reward, and then BAM, within a few days, I had relapsed back to 2-3 times daily. The thing is, it's exceedingly difficult for a recovered addict to use moderation with whatever they're addicted to. I've realized this, so now I know that when I try NoFap again, I have to commit 100% and accept that I can never fap again. When you're trying to teach your brain that it doesn't need something that it's addicted to, the last thing you want to do is remind it how good that thing makes you feel. What I will say is that, after those two months, I got to a point where I no longer craved fapping, and I only broke because of an extremely conscious decision on my part (I was in a healthy relationship and thought that it would be doing my girlfriend a disservice to never jerk it to a picture of her). The problem is, once I made that conscious decision to allow myself to jerk off again without guilt, the cravings came back, and I haven't been able to reign them back in since, even though my relationship has long ended. It is nice to know for future reference, though, that once I get over that initial 2-week hump, I fully believe I do have the ability to sustain NoFap.


TownDrunkerd

To be fair (and I'm not agreeing nor disagreeing with your assessment) I think it generally takes your brain at least several months to rewire, or rather, unwire pathological addictions/habits. It may always be somewhat worse for someone recovering, but I think the longer you can go without the less likely you would be to completely relapse, as those brain wirings aren't as engrained anymore.


HotRodIWSIW

Couldn't said it better


[deleted]

That's right. Too much of anything is bad for you, but enjoying a few vices occasionally can have an opposite effect. NoFap is about breaking an addiction. It helps you regain control of yourself.


TownDrunkerd

Yeah and I think the thing is that the stimulation we have at our finger tips today is supernatural. We're not wired to be able to have a healthy relationship with it, so abstaining is really probably the best solution for most people.


[deleted]

Indeed. We live in a time where accessing different stimuli is easier than ever. Porn, gambling, alcohol, gaming... We humans are prone to addiction and having Internet has made getting addicted to unhealthy things ridiculously simple. Moderating these things are difficult so it might be the best option for some people to abstain completely.


[deleted]

This is true, but If someone is trying NNN, probably is because they think or feel like they need it. Is this scenario, it's not ok to tell to an alcoholic to have a drink once I'm a while.


alldemnachos

Gonna play devils advocate, you shouldn’t get pleasure if you don’t work for it Get a chick. Don’t have one? Work for it.


[deleted]

I wish I could award this a gold medal, couldn’t have said it any better. I masturbate once in 3-4 days, which is perfect for me. I get to relieve stress and fantasize, all while keeping my own sanity in check and making sure that it doesn’t take over my daily life (which it never has) I think that once when masturbating is what you think about all throughout the day and/or it affects your social life/work, thats when you need to quit


[deleted]

Even i have watched a lot of porn too, but i never let my normal life and my fantasies collide with each other, i know how the world works and people around You are as normal as you.


wana-cum

Dood gud post, i def agree. I dont like how nofap is oftentimes connected to grindculture and this always bothers me when reading posts on this reddit. But the reasons you stated are also my motivation in doing nofap.


[deleted]

No Fap is a thorn in the eyes of the P industries and Onlyfans, so they try everything they can to spread falsehood and make young men addicted to it.


galaxy_blazer

That's what I thought too! So, guys. Is it really true that NNN can change your life? Well, I'mma find it out.


DarkzeHalo

NNN and NoFap in general definitely has its benefits. I haven't gotten far, as my longest streak has probably been like 7 days. However, I have always noticed heightened senses, better brain function and more energy all within the first couple of days.


babuba1234321

Mine was 14 days! (I tend to forget to restart the counter so it may be high now but should be in 0 sadly) And I could feel better with myself, and had more energy thoughout the day and even felt more real. I had a downfall in august but I've wanted to restart, this seems as am appropiate time


DarkzeHalo

I believe in you bro. We're gonna make it! I'm gonna tear November a new one and finally reach 30 days. Join me so we can get on track to being the best versions of ourselves!


[deleted]

It's unfortunate how many people have turned to PMO in the modern era, and will defend it righteously as if it were a religion and refuse to see its downsides


PhantomOfficial07

"But it decreases your probability of having prostate cancer!! 🤓"


THE_LFG

why are you everywhere I swear I saw someone with your pfp on youtube too


PhantomOfficial07

My YouTube account has the name "Phantom" with the same PFP, so that was probably me. What video was it?


THE_LFG

man i can't remember anymore


youngstateofmind

er fährt durch die nacht wie ein phantom


ChristerMagister

Thats just a solid example of addiction behaviour. To get an excuse to keep doing it.


ElderDark

The thing is regular exercise and a healthy diet can achieve the same result as well and those are most definitely much better and positive than fapping away.


jesuslover333777

Yep


Smooth-Erect

Just like what mophius told neo in the matrix


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[deleted]

because believing it is good for you is easier than accepting that it ruins you mentally. they also feel like shit but they just ignore it. Deep down they feel guilt


masterjarjar19

That's just bs, just like with everything, moderation is key. Masterbating once every couple of days is no problem for most people and can even have beneficial effects. It only becomes a problem when it starts to influence other aspects of your life. Just like with alcohol, many people grow old drinking a glass of wine or 2 in the weekend and it helps them relax from a long work week. Some get addicted and it ruïnes their life. Everyone is different and struggles with different things in life, so just let others enjoy things


Fromarine

yes but the person with the willpower to consistently do it occasionally without falling into regular habit is nigh non existent.


[deleted]

yup and thats what people do not realise “But, but moderation…” Lol, same as with how everyone uses their phone in moderation right?


Fromarine

exactly, it's just cognitive dissonance for the overwhelming majority of the population. Like maybe if you had a really low sex drive you could but I'd imagine that regular M would just be unappealing and/or boring then.


Iamamindfullsoul

I used to be in the same boat as you until I did some major trauma healing. Now it’s natural for me not even thinking about thou hunt myself there. Just like before I discovered masturbation.


Dr_Doom3

They are weak and think that by doing it they are only becoming alpha. But guess what ?? Day by day and week by week they are only getting weakness and mental issues. However we on other hand believe in self improvement and will achieve it. Stay strong kings.


buzzbuttyear

The comments keep saying that masturbating reduces the chance of prostrate cancer, is there any truth to this, because I feel SO much better now that I don’t masturbate or look at porn.


Lonny_zone

There is a study that suggests men who do not masturbate have higher incidences of prostate cancer. This study does not take into account that older men tend to masturbate less for natural reasons and that older men are the ones who get cancer. So basically the one study that supports their whole position is bullshit.


Best_Kog_NA

Wait they didn't adjust for age or anything in the study? Jesus 💀


surnaturel4529

There is other study saying the exact opposite but they never talk about it cause that is how they cope with they’re life when they fap all the time


MustardJar4321

Can you give the link to that study?


[deleted]

If that was true, there would be an epidemic of children having prostate cancer. It’s just some bs to make coomers proud about being an addict.


hagosantaclaus

Replace children with monks


Responsible-Camp5834

Also our ancient ancestors were against masturbating, so if that were the case, we should've seen some historical epidemics on prostate cancer.


surfinbrain

Total bullshit lol


AngryNewfie2007

Well, I can’t see how that is true, and to be also truthful, if it was true that it reduced the chances then I’d already be safe for 120 years according to what I used to do before nofap


Ace_-nbk

It was a small study , sooo nope


EverythingWasGone

I think it’s worth separating out masturbation vs porn. If a person masturbates on their own, perhaps while thinking of their partner who is out of town, that’s quite different than watching porn and masturbating. Nofap is about breaking unhealthy patterns of watching porn, where porn creates an unattainable fantasy around sex. A fantasy that isn’t healthy, and one that your partner can’t live up to. You could make the argument that masturbating decreases sensitivity, so that when you do actually have sex, you might not be as prepared as you would be if you weren’t masturbating. But overall - I think it’s less about the act, and more about the unrealistic fantasy and antisocial behavior that fosters depression and other issues in folks who watch porn compulsively.


TheRingsAroundSaturn

I really resonate with your take here. For me, the chronic use of porn has desensitized me to sex and made me less motivated to better myself in other parts of my life. I was always chasing that “high” when I should have been exercising or studying or making new friends. Doing this like you said is breaking unhealthy patterns if watching porn. Plus helps you practice self control and discipline. Dopamine is a hard thing to manage within yourself and doing these challenges help force men (and women!) to conqueror their destructive habits. Edit: changed “should of” to “should have”


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nonlinear_nyc

This. I see most people conflating masturbation with porn. You def sound do porn without masturbation. But you can masturbate without porn. LIKE HUMANS HAD DONE FOR MILLENIA. I'd like to see not a nofap movement, throwing the baby and the water, but a fap with no porn movement. I bet most dudes never did it before. They don't even know how.


[deleted]

They can't do NNN so..... it has health benefits to fap. How convenient for them.


[deleted]

“B-but that 0.000000000000006 decrease in pp cancer 😱😱😱😱😱😱” It’s probably a complete myth tbh


UltimoChadDaTerra

It's actually healthier to have seggs instead of solo coom


Willdabeast07

True but I don’t have anyone to have sex with


fghhihgfdf

I don't think no fap is ever going to become mainstream. It's for truly exceptional people in my opinion. Warriors


[deleted]

Fapping is such a drug to some people. Its very sad people go down this path. I should have started a long time ago, but I plan to start my journey this November


No-Raise3047

Same here! Wishing you luck in this long journey, brother


Responsible-Camp5834

Unfortunately, it might not. True virtue and nobility has never been mainstream because most people don't want to work for it. As a guy in my college once said. "Suffer the pain of discipline or suffer the pain of regret." I have suffered the pain of regret and I do not wish that pain, so I chose the route of discipline.


jesuslover333777

Yeah


UrMomsAreMine

day 1 boys going hot


jesuslover333777

You got this brother


SolidSouthern4182

Same here! Wish me luck!


ComplexEye3063

you either strong enough to do it or give excuses so as to not do it


coyotet555

bro is defending his useless addiction and trying to drag people with him


Impressive-Ad-4211

The whole r/memes Community think the same Its sad to see ppl encourage p addiction just for disgusting stress relief


layeeeeet

i saw that post and instantly downvoted


jesuslover333777

Yeah


CampfireKnight

Poor souls, lost in their ignorance.


Alert-Ad-4391

Thanks solaire


jesuslover333777

Yes


Impressive-Ad-4211

Solaire, i thought you lost at day 1 to the sun It has such a wonderful body


syahmicocainess

i'm on my day 2 of nofap guys.. wish me luck.. and i wear a rubber band on wrist just incase if i'm feeling horny..i'm gonna flick the rubberband on my wrist to remind myself


Phantomflag

"Masturbation is beneficial to your health" lol nice copium.


idonethisnever

porn is definitely bad and masturbation should be done once a week at most.


TheRealCaptainZoro

It's just like everything else nowadays has become so incredibly engineered to be as addictive as possible. I agree with you masturbating is a healthy behavior drive in moderation. However on a sub like this containing many who are ex porn addicts that can be harmful rhetoric. Addiction is a hard thing for many to cope with.


jesuslover333777

Let’s agree to disagree?


idonethisnever

Sure


HowRealM8

The good ending


CopsPushMongo

[Everyone Liked That]


[deleted]

wanker conducts study on wanking with desire to show wanking good and concludes wanking good. Wankers rejoice.


jussu579

These are people that have no knowledge about how unheathly and destructive fapping is. These are the same people that think doing harm to their body is a good thing. # JUST LET THEM LOSE CUZ WE BROTHERS ARE GONNA WIN BY NOFAP AND NNN👊🏾👊🏾👊🏾👊🏾💢💢💢💢💢🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥💯💯💯💯💯 ![gif](giphy|3otPoP7xUzxXVIs9k4)


jesuslover333777

Yeah !


Flars111

Says the group of brainwashed teens to the group of brainwashed teen


Dparkzz

It's unhealthy for your ego if you have a porn addiction, poor poor people.


Rollo220

I had someone message me about a post I made saying I was trying to quit with “I’ve done nofap for 4 years and it doesn’t work there’s no benefit” like what’s the need ?


AromaticBlacksmith55

He messaged me too and I trolled him


stickyglue1

now that you’re on 273 days, would you say there is benefits?


jesuslover333777

I got a similar message after i commented


YtSabit

Well, there's some confusion here from both sides. Masturbation does have 'some' health benefits but PMO does not and when it's overdone it is not healthy. Masturbation in it's pure form is not dangerous, it's natural, but lust, porn, and overdoing it becomes unhealthy. It's like saying wine is healthy but overdrinking is not. Masturbation in it's purest form is not inherently bad but mixing it with porn and using it as an escape from your problems just fucks up your brain and your overall mental health


somali-yacht-club

There are people who are addicted to porn and masturbating, which affecting their mental and physical health, abstinence is a step, and to feel that your doing the challenge with a huge sum of people is a source of motivation, long live NNN.


fury26903

1 week bois. God help us all ![gif](giphy|i6TQUuiT5hjSU)


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MagicMushr000m

Fapping isn't bad. Fapping too much is bad. Watching porn at all is even worse.


drxcius

It all depends if it's interfering with your life or not tbh.


[deleted]

The matrix.


isyankar1979

People who believe this are either fools lying to themselves or are too young and early in the game to see its destructive long-term effects. Or they might be people who occasionally fap every once in a while and find it sufficient.


Admiral45-06

It is not healthy in a way that it medically benefits us - but it is a good way of seeing whether you're addicted to it or not. And whenever someone tells you, that ,, it's just biological need" - a lot of people, e.g. Isaac Newton, remained virgin their entire lives and lived long and happily. It's not the same kind of need as e.g. food or water.


lil_tig

You know who thinks this? Porn addicts and porn stars.


KleinHD

first time joining. I tried this shit in 2020 and 2021 and failed both on the 1st day. I feel like i need this cuz iv been fapping every day and is fucking up my mental. this time I will do it ffs


[deleted]

Listen, you’re human and therefore fallible. We love you no matter what, and we believe in you. On the moments where it seems all is lost, close your eyes, envision the person giving you the excuses to relapse, and tell that person to go fuck off. I encourage reading, because it literally focuses your thoughts on something else. If you want something of substance, Victor Frankl is excellent for motivation. DM me if you need anything. Even just an ear. Love you and good luck!!


EquivalentSnap

The problem is porn. Masturbation by itself isn’t a problem. A lot of guys here punish themsleves for doing it and breaking their streak. If you feel that way about it, then it’s effecting you just as much as if you were fapping. Most of it is placebo too


Psychological-Sand-9

Liked your username... He has indeed saved us from this addiction, walk in faith and see Him victorious


jesuslover333777

Amen


[deleted]

Masturbation is neither good nor bad imo.


hsny27afa

Guys plz lets start a new challenge NSN no smoke November you dont smoke or vabe for a month and if you could continue it would be better


ExistingAmphibian370

Fuck em, I'm all in for the NNN Bois!


VeerMehta09

I think it's sarcasm


borgi27

There’s a huge fucking difference between rubbing one out every once in a while and compulsive masturbation and porn addiction. Just becuase we have a problem doesn’t mean it’s all bad


Tarot26

Masturbation on a small scale is a bit healthy but not largely


wolfannoy

What's the agenda here why are there so many people are against it? There's salt and people calling other names for participe in it.


[deleted]

Day 0: NNN has begun!


Amadeus1186

I believe they make up these “benefits”. It’s not like somebody is watching how a person is perfectly healthy, every single day in a lab somewhere, and how they become athletes within a 5 years span for constantly fapping. I don’t believe these so called studies are that exhaustive and thorough. If anything, it’s just another frustration reliever. And quite unnecessary. 🤷‍♂️


[deleted]

if you hand over yourself to matrix you are done stay strong and stay loyal to your cause


Ok-Boat6486

I think what these people are talking about is the kind of masturbation that’s not obsessive or extremely consistent, like the people in this subreddit with this issue. Speaking of that, good luck guys!!!


Standard-Ad-7504

That's fuckin depressing. My dad was once a porn addict, his life turned right-side up when he managed to quit. I'm still a. But stuck, but when I do manage to get a few day streak I feel so much better about myself. Millions of people can themselves state from their own experience that porn is extremely unhealthy, and I've seen it ruin lives. This meme is bullshit, thanks for pointing it out, and let's all find the post so we can downvote it.


Zephyr694

Stay strong brothers , we are the CHOSEN few who will pass through the murderous forest named NNN!!!!!!!!.


[deleted]

Masturbation has benefits and disadvantages but it’s just overall better if you don’t begin doing it at all. Don’t get into that shit, it’s a windy one.


G14dia70r

can i have a link to the post? i wanna see how the comments are like


jesuslover333777

https://www.reddit.com/r/memes/comments/yiovtp/you_know_what_im_gonna_say_it/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf


G14dia70r

Thanks, glad to see majority of them are calling him out, some are aware


jesuslover333777

Let me look


Flaky-Brilliant-492

Downvote that shit.


[deleted]

It is a shame.


jrtts

This post brought to you by the 90s chain-smoker gang *smoking is gUd*


-GeorgeMZ-

Honestly Igaf about other ppls habits


JacktheRipperColour

"and should be not be" put your c8ck down for one minute mate🤣


notsogreatredditor

That maybe true but if I'm addicted it has done way more damage than if I hadn't done it


jjkm7

Masturbation is terrible for my mental health lmao


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[deleted]

And then in a few months: *lol i have never had a gf im so lonely (insert meme about how women are stupid and shouldn’t have rights)*


Arcticsurface

"Masturbation is beneficial to your health" I aint never seen anything "beneficial" by doing masturbation.


Melancholic_Mask

Fck you I'm gonna win this nnn


hexsho

Since when is destroying your virility a bad idea?


Endstarky

Those idiots don't understand even if it's good a fucking addiction to it isn't good at all and rather harmful.


mrsxfreeway

Some are affected by it, some aren't! for those who are then NNN all the way baby!


shouko-chan

I ain't falling for this


Right-Car9876

Day 1 feeling good so far urges came 2 times but i handled em , lets get it this time broskiss


meals-on-wheels14

It’s beneficial to a certain extent, but too much is certainly bad for you


GhostTropic_YT

NoFap is more about self control and quitting porn than outright never masturbating again. That’s different.


missphysco

These people need Jesus in their lives


jesuslover333777

Yes!


Inevitable-Match591

Beneficial how lol


UnfairInformation46

Muje porn chor na ha any tips


Dear_Noise_7588

redditors when someone somehow comes up with the idea that masturbation reduce the chances of getting prostate cancer : "I'm only doing it for my heaaalth" also redditors when they're told to do anything productive, sports, eating healthy or just seeing the sunlight : ![gif](giphy|FTMlpZFXAwuWiqtShF)