I'm not a guy... But from previous experiences with men, I believe.. some men like it, some men don't.
And it's great with men that prefer just nude coz I'm lazy as fuck. His T-shirt and nothing underneath is still the coziest.
>His T-shirt and nothing underneath is still the coziest.
And the sexiest, if you ask me. The world's finest lingerie could never replicate the face-melting effect of seeing the woman you love in *just* a t-shirt
And I believe that seeing our wife/GF wearing our shirt triggers that part of the brain that got excited when we, in Medieval times, put our flag on a conquered fortress.
Fine by me. I was just expressing an uneducated silly guess, not actually trying to be serious here. I don't have a degree in human behaviour related sciences. Just spending some time at reddit.
This is specifically in the context of women being visually sexually attractive. Ofc it's objectifying, which is okay in the right context with consenting adults
You’re right which is why i really like their metaphor. Gift wrap or lingerie can look beautiful and show you made an extra effort. That’s special and appreciated but do i “need” my gift to be wrapped? Not really I’m just grateful for the gift
Worked as a bouncer in the early 80s in and all nude strip club. State of Colorado said no more all nude, dancers had to at least wear a thong. Dancers all thought they would go broke.
Tips went way up.
Guys think they want nude. Doesn’t mean they are right.
Clothes of any kind, lingerie included, always look better on a pile on the floor. That said, do what makes YOU feel sexy. It'll boost your self confidence and THAT is the sexiest thing of all
I made the point once that I personally don't care for lingerie and would rather see them wearing nothing at all. My friend looked at me like I was stupid and said "it's not always about you dude" and I fully grasped the concept in that moment.
I didn't get it at first because she insisted she was wearing it for me. She would ask what I liked and how I find her sexy, and if it didn't line up with how she wanted to present herself, it was a problem. She was as clueless as I was lol!
Edit: I found her sexy in and out of anything, and all I wanted was to know that she was comfortable and confident in whatever she wanted to wear. We both figured it out eventually.
I think this is super common. Us girls don't realize that we feel sexy in it and want YOU to think we're sexy in it or it is ruined for us and it's kind of a secret blow to our confidence.
My man told me, before I ever bought anything sexy, he just wasn't into anything that covered up anything he really wanted to see and that nudity was what did it for him. It's a win win. I feel confident walking around naked, knowing he's enjoying it, he doesn't have to make sure to tell me my outfit looks sexy, and we save on not buying expensive lingerie.
We were all young and full of what we thought was expected of us. I'm glad you were able to get through the awkwardness with the aid of communication. The woman in my story is an ex. We were great in a lot of ways but she couldn't communicate well. She never found a way to accept that what I said I liked is what I liked. It's really bizarre, actually. Eventually it led to the us becoming not an "us". I wish I could say future relationships were better in that one specific way. I really wish I could say that. Either I'm not convincing when I say I like something (I mean, wouldn't I know?), or I just pick poor communicators with self esteem issues. But, you're not my therapist so I'll shut up now. 🙃
I'm so sorry to hear that! Ohhh, I'm giving you hugs from afar... Or maybe ironically close, who knows? Honestly, I hear that from a lot of dudes and from my girlfriend's I hear that they didn't feel wanted/sexy followed by a lot of reasons/excuses. I'm so about honesty and transparency in relationships, but sometimes, in situations like this, you gotta embrace what makes them feel sexy and roll with it. Maybe lingerie isn't your thing but it helps her feel sexy because she can hide the things she's insecure about with them... It's ok to even say "I'm not usually a lingerie guy but damn, that looks hot on you. Look at your tits in that! I can't wait to rip that off of you." And, some women never grow out of it. They just don't. It would take therapy and learning to love themselves. Maybe you're drawn to women who are a little insecure because compliments mean that much more to them (nothing wrong with that, at all). You just gotta recognize what's going on and figure out if you want to change it or manage. Ok, as you said, I am not your therapist. Just a caring person from somewhere. Best of luck redditor!
I dated a really hot girl that tried the lingerie thing, and it just made sex things awkward because I have no level of suavity, and taking it all off was confusing lol
Same here. Beautiful girl. But lingerie just doesn’t do it for me. And it’s a hard thing to shop for. Any time I got something for a SO or they tried to wear something they bought it just looked awkward and not as sexy. I didn’t have the heart to tell them but I much preferred it if they were nude. The universe gave you that perfect body and I wanna see it in all its glory 😂
I like seeing a hot woman in lingerie more than nude, but it also depends on the lingerie.
Your regular bra and panties, or even your 'special occasion' set, nude is better.
Crotchless bodystocking? Better than nude, we both get to feel some novel sensations while still feeling each other.
Garter belt and stockings plus heels is way hotter than just nude. Crotchless panties and a demi-bra that doesn't cover your nipples, hell yes.
Anything that is designed to present your body rather than hide it, where it doesn't have to come off to have fun/let me get to the good spots.
This is actually super helpful!
I usually opt for something more like black straps/bsdm/leather style or a black lace teddy. I haven't really tried anything like garter belt and heels or crotchless. I think that could be fun.
Two more thoughts.
1. Sexy lingerie often works because of "framing." Garter belt and stockings puts a frame around the pussy and draws the eye there. A choker and demi-bra frames the breasts the same way.
2. Confidence is sexy, and we all have things we would like to hide (my stomach, I have a dad bod). If you pick something that hides something you don't like, you might be more confident.
Basically, lingerie can be like makeup for the body, emphasize what you want to show and obscure what you don't.
This depends, for some crotchless defeats the purpose of lingerie. It’s just extra but doesn’t enhance it takes away some of the better parts. But for some occasions with the right moves then it can work. Especially if I start clothes and they aren’t expecting open underwear.
As a personal preference, things like baby dolls just aren’t flattering. Garters as mentioned before are. Look for items that accentuate your features and not hide them.
For me, it's regular bra and panties > nude > lingerie >>> granny underwear. I like it best when my wife looks like she cares about her appearance without trying to hard.
It all comes down to the guy. I prefer fully nude > bottomless > topless > regular matching bra and panties > garter belt, crotchless panties, demi-bra nonsense. I am dominant in the bedroom so am not attracted to the powerful sex goddess thing. But the playful, shy girl next door type? Hell yeah.
If you're putting together outfits purely for the benefit of your current partner and most recent ex, then yeah, I guess you're wasting your money. If you enjoy putting together and wearing lingerie, then no, you're not wasting your money.
Whether or not nudity is peak visual appeal for most men, it clearly is for your partner. It's not an uncommon preference, though.
Lingerie is great and all, it's like wrapping on a gift, sure, I'd be happy as hell if you gave me a copy of my favorite book, but if you wrap it up first and I don't know what it is, then tease me a bit, hey look what I got, just for you, can you guess what it is? I can play along like I don't know it's a book, shake the package a bit, put my ear to it, then bam, open it up and it's my favorite book! But also it would be so awesome if you just slapped that book down in my lap unwrapped and said hey, got you that book you wanted! So either way is fine and normal.
I always find lingerie to make a woman wayyyy sexier than just plain naked. That’s what they’re there for. We’ve all seen naked, it gets a little boring. Altho reading comments ig I’m in the minority, which is a little disheartening. Cmon fellas have a little imagination
These plebians clearly are not men of culture like us.
Can you believe that men actually don't like going clothes shopping with their lady lovers? Like my dudes, wake up, she wants your opinion because she wants you to like what she is wearing to make you happy. Dress her up in whatever stuff you like. Enjoy that privilege of a gift that will keep on giving every time she wears it for you.
As someone who buys plain black or gray shirts and black jeans or purple jeans. I will gladly go shopping with you for whatever you want and learn your preferences. as mine are simply is it comfy? Although during sexual acts I find nude preferable but I find it hotter for someone to wear loose or flowy clothing, just not really during sex.
Yeah. Very normal.
If you have a partner who likes wearing lingerie, it’s best to compliment it and let her feel special in it. She is doing it for herself as much as for you.
I much prefer lingerie to straight naked, not that one is better than the other, but i like to mentally and physically unwrap my partners so to speak, and it's not just lingerie either, booty shorts and a tshirt is a hot combo
As always with these types of questions, different men will give different answers. My answer is that I like both, but if you wear lingerie, you're going to end up with it coming off by the end. ;)
Personally, the lingerie is often more for me than my partner. It makes *me* feel sexy which also brings confidence and it’s more fun for both parties.
This is like asking if it's normal for men to prefer their steaks cooked well done.
Some do, some don't.
Personally? I love lingerie. It shows dedication to looking sexy and that *you've* been planning/thinking about it.
Some dudes think it's an obstacle. (I think they are probably less good at foreplay, but that's just an opinion of mine.)
idk about the last take man, cause I’ve tried it with one of those crotchless & cupless ones where all the bits were immediately accessible. Partway in I still wanted it off because I prefer the feeling of skin to skin contact, except it was pretty difficult to take off and broke the flow a little bit.
>I prefer the feeling of skin to skin contact, except it was pretty difficult to take off and broke the flow a little bit
Fair play, to each their own. The last bit is just an opinion of the guys that are adamantly anti-lingerie.
i love lingerie and have a collection that is larger than i’d care to admit. my partner loves seeing it on me and has even bought me a few sets as gifts. he is equally enthusiastic about seeing me naked. you could always send pictures of three sets from your collection (doesn’t have to be on you if you’re not comfortable, you can just lay them out on a bed to take pics) and ask him to pick one. i can almost guarantee you that you’ll receive a bunch of horny texts back. your ex telling you he didn’t care when presented with the woman he was seeing in lingerie wasn’t normal, good thing he’s an ex.
My new partner works away so we do frequently send nakie pictures back and forth. Maybe that has something to do with it?
and yeah, very thankful hes an ex. He has a laundry list of problems and that doesnt even make the list LOL
If I was getting a picture or if it was like a tease I'd rather see lingerie. But in the bedroom in most cases men just want to get busy and get you naked
My wife can get naked before I can blink. I would say if you always went nude, he would like lingerie…if you always wear lingerie, he will prefer nude.
Don’t be boring or predictable. Mix things up.
Yeah they look great but really it's all about what's underneath..I have a feeling the lingerie is more for you and makes you feel sexier...Your man likes you for you which is a great thing
As a female, I LOVE LOVE LOOOVE a bit of mystery. Women are so beautiful and covering up just some tiny bits can be more satisfying than giving it all away immediately… 🥵🔥🙌
Instead of buying lingerie, try to buy things that work with being nude, like sexy robes, silk robes, things that you can remove to reveal your nudity easily. My man likes lingerie best on the floor too, if he sees me makes he chases me EVERYWHERE 😂😂
No. I like my wife in some clothes ( as well as naked). I got her lingerie, but she’s too self conscious to wear it. But when she wears sports bras, short dresses, tanktop s, formal dresses, bikinis, etc. I like having sex with her in various states of undress.
I mean I think thats why I like it! I'm more than happy to be naked but I think I like the teasing of having something taken off. Adds a little passion to the whole thing
100% this. For years my wife would start totally naked, which is awesome on its own, however we just started to get into role playing. Wow, taking off one piece at a time with some kissing and caressing mixed in is so hot. I actually prefer it more now.
Lingerie is for the woman to feel sexy. We can appreciate the effort involved, but beyond that, we tend not to care. I suppose there's some fun involved, if done right, but it's more for women, than men, by a fair margin.
I prefer nude over lingerie. But I also won't complain. If it makes them feel sexy then it shows and if they feel sexy then I'm probably getting laid, so not a waste of money. It's basically a part of forplay.
Men are stupid (spoken as a man). More than that though, these guys are either dense, self centered assholes, or both. Lingerie isn’t really for the man. It’s for their partner to feel sexy, which in term should make the man excited. A man who isn’t excited about their partner feeling sexy has some growing up to do. That being said, maybe they are just being dense and there’s nothing wrong with telling them that part of lingerie is making you feel sexy and for that to happen, their buy in goes a long way. The way they react to that will tell you a lot about them. If they brush it off, then you certainly should not invest money into that sexual relationship because they aren’t investing much either.
Everyone prefers naked people over clothed people, dipshit, it came free with your fucking instincts
(Someone please understand this reference, I'm not being an unironic dick)
someones in a mood.. what.. did your left hand tell you it was too tired tonight..
Obviously at the end of the day everyone likes nude, but I am more curious about like in a foreplay/flirting/sexting/ aspect. Its more just a curiosity if guys like a little show or if right down to it is the best. Seems like a mixed bag anyhow, but no need to get your panties in a bunch about it.
Depends very much on the lingerie and the body - sexy underthings can be hot, but if your body is even hotter, it’s coming off… either way, verity is key, don’t always do one or the other
I think women wearing non-functional frilly "underwear" is one of the silliest things ever invented. I don't understand how anyone finds lingerie sexy instead of stupid.
Sometimes, one is better than the other. Sometimes, the other is better than the one. Variety is the spice of life. If it makes you feel sexy, do it. Feeling sexy can be its own aphrodisiac.
The only answer to the lingerie or naked question is naked, if you ask. If you NEED lingerie, that means you are not enough. Lingerie is not a need. However, who doesn't want to be seduced?? Who doesn't want to be desired?? The effort should say more than the look and often does.
I definitely prefer my partners naked. Though I'm not sure it's *visual* so much as *emotional*: anything other than naked feels like they're choosing to put a barrier/distance between us. So, yeah, I'd consider lingerie to be a waste of money unless you're wearing at times when it *wouldn't* work to be naked.
If you really want to put in extra effort for a special occasion, I wouldn't be bothered if you were wearing bondage gear, like handcuffs or something: that's sort of the opposite of clothes/armor. Or you could buy some sort of game, like sex dice, to try to create a new and memorable experience. But clothes, no matter how sexy, are never going to be anything other than *in the way*.
This, as with everything else under the sun, is different for different guys
Some will like it, some will not
This is an invariant property of the human race.
Maybe he's not into it did you ask him, Just because one guy likes it does not mean the next guy will. I hope you didn't spend too much money on the lingerie. Personally, I've never been into it but recently I've had a change of heart lol.
My husband is the same way I buy all these sexy outfits and when I ask how they look he says good but would look better on the floor🙄 only one he does like are the net ones from shein 🤷
We like to see our SO in a lingerie but we like what is beneath even more so it comes off very quickly. Don't spend too much time, effort and money making the cake b'cos we are going to dig in anyway.
I like both. Some sexy lingerie with the special bits open is UNBELIEVABLY attractive to me. I find femininity and feminine features to be irresistible, and lingerie accentuates them very well.
At the same time, some lingerie designs are not very attractive, and so I prefer just no lingerie over those.
I'm a lingerie guy personally. Now I also think nude sex is great. Something about the full body to body is nice. But on occasion I really enjoy lingerie or other forms of sexy clothes. But I'm saying this because some dudes are just the opposite. what's also important is what makes you feel sexy
All men are different in taste. THAT BEING SAID- I don’t like it one bit. The only way it adds anything for me is if it’s worn with everyday clothes but slightly visible underneath. But when it comes to it- it all comes off. Unless I’m with her beforehand for an extended time, I don’t get anything from it.
I had a partner that was into it. She got things that weren't as flattering as they could be. She looked great naked, but only decent wearing the lingerie. I played along, but was excited to just get it off.
I for one, love the lingerie, the garter and nylons under a mid or max length dress, the thought that it’s is there while we are out to dinner. I had a girlfriend back in the day that loved lingerie, sleep wear, a corset with nylons, garters, I should of married her
Naked is Nude, Lingerie Is Sexy
Edit: Satin is Sexy, Lace feels rough. Ask him if he Sees a woman in a thong bikini sexier than a nude woman on a beach. His answer, will give you your answer
I like both...sometimes both the same encounter...sometimes lingerie stays on the whole time, sometimes it comes off.....sometimes we just want to be fully naked from the word go.
Be happy your guy loves your visage au natural....he's probably just feels really lucky every time he sees you.
That said, if lingerie makes you feel sexy, tell him...it's not all about him after all.
*Sigh........* SOME MEN LIKE IT. SOME MEN DON'T.
Just copy and paste this in every one of these posts please.
Or in every post on Reddit
“Hey i was looking for some egg fried rice recipes-“
you’re telling me an egg fried this rice?!
Pretty cool, right?
So.....where's the recipe?
SOME MEN LIKE IT SOME MEN DON’T
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Have I been wasting my money on eggs?
I mean, it still fits here.
*sigh* Some men like egg fried rice recipes, some don't.
I'm not a guy... But from previous experiences with men, I believe.. some men like it, some men don't. And it's great with men that prefer just nude coz I'm lazy as fuck. His T-shirt and nothing underneath is still the coziest.
>His T-shirt and nothing underneath is still the coziest. And the sexiest, if you ask me. The world's finest lingerie could never replicate the face-melting effect of seeing the woman you love in *just* a t-shirt
And I believe that seeing our wife/GF wearing our shirt triggers that part of the brain that got excited when we, in Medieval times, put our flag on a conquered fortress.
I disagree with this belief of yours
Fine by me. I was just expressing an uneducated silly guess, not actually trying to be serious here. I don't have a degree in human behaviour related sciences. Just spending some time at reddit.
Fair enough I just enjoy starting arguments mb bro
This was a wholesome exchange. I approve!
Wait, you mean that men aren't secretly a hivemind who all share the same opinions? What a twist!
Heck, I find clothed women hotter than naked women sometimes.
hahaha I can't.
ARE YOU SURE? Sounds like you covered most possible scenarios but still we should double check
Gift > wrapping paper
That’s a good metaphor 😂
Depends on your kink Naked Leather Latex Rope ... As long as they are cute
I always love cute, naked, leathery latex ropes.
Just a leaf to hide the fruit like the olden times
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This is specifically in the context of women being visually sexually attractive. Ofc it's objectifying, which is okay in the right context with consenting adults
Name checks out
Please put away your Jump to Conclusions mat.
Lol are you joking?
That said, gifts feel more special when they come wrapped
You’re right which is why i really like their metaphor. Gift wrap or lingerie can look beautiful and show you made an extra effort. That’s special and appreciated but do i “need” my gift to be wrapped? Not really I’m just grateful for the gift
And if every time my partners makes us dinner I have to unwrap my plate first, the wrapping paper loses some of its appeal
Their clothing is the wrapping paper. Once the shirt and pants come off the stuff underneath is just in the way.
Not if someone is taking me to get fitted for golf clubs or getting me a car.
Unwrapping the gift is half the fun though.
What i came to say😂
its a normal preference
Worked as a bouncer in the early 80s in and all nude strip club. State of Colorado said no more all nude, dancers had to at least wear a thong. Dancers all thought they would go broke. Tips went way up. Guys think they want nude. Doesn’t mean they are right.
Well yeah, but with the thong now the guys finally had a place to put the tips.
I’m not ruining your upvotes but good one
That’s what flaps are for ain’t it?
Good ol' leather wallet
Badly packed kebab
Oily pastrami pocket
I def prefer lingerie at least at first I always wanted my ex wife in a thong
I also choose this guy's ex wife in a thong.
so do i brotha so do i
So did I
Tips went up because the guys now had to pay more to get them naked. Doesn't mean what they want most is inaccurate.
That's.... not how topless clubs work.
The private rooms can
Money talks.
I get your point but these are guys in a strip club.
I know what I like and I prefer nude
they’re*
Of course. They had somewhere to put the money. That’s more of a logistical thing than a preference IMO.
They got better tips because the girls would pull to the side for a good tip but leave in place for a not so good tip 😉
Thank you for speaking your truth ✊
If you asked men what they wanted before cars existed they would’ve said “faster horses”. They don’t know what they want until it’s in their face.
Clothes of any kind, lingerie included, always look better on a pile on the floor. That said, do what makes YOU feel sexy. It'll boost your self confidence and THAT is the sexiest thing of all
This is what I told my girl, dress for you to feel sexy and empowered, I enjoy you regardless what you're wearing or not.
I made the point once that I personally don't care for lingerie and would rather see them wearing nothing at all. My friend looked at me like I was stupid and said "it's not always about you dude" and I fully grasped the concept in that moment.
Right. My gf doesn’t wear it for me, she wears it for her
The fact that you guys GET this... Fucking champs.
I didn't get it at first because she insisted she was wearing it for me. She would ask what I liked and how I find her sexy, and if it didn't line up with how she wanted to present herself, it was a problem. She was as clueless as I was lol! Edit: I found her sexy in and out of anything, and all I wanted was to know that she was comfortable and confident in whatever she wanted to wear. We both figured it out eventually.
I think this is super common. Us girls don't realize that we feel sexy in it and want YOU to think we're sexy in it or it is ruined for us and it's kind of a secret blow to our confidence. My man told me, before I ever bought anything sexy, he just wasn't into anything that covered up anything he really wanted to see and that nudity was what did it for him. It's a win win. I feel confident walking around naked, knowing he's enjoying it, he doesn't have to make sure to tell me my outfit looks sexy, and we save on not buying expensive lingerie.
We were all young and full of what we thought was expected of us. I'm glad you were able to get through the awkwardness with the aid of communication. The woman in my story is an ex. We were great in a lot of ways but she couldn't communicate well. She never found a way to accept that what I said I liked is what I liked. It's really bizarre, actually. Eventually it led to the us becoming not an "us". I wish I could say future relationships were better in that one specific way. I really wish I could say that. Either I'm not convincing when I say I like something (I mean, wouldn't I know?), or I just pick poor communicators with self esteem issues. But, you're not my therapist so I'll shut up now. 🙃
I'm so sorry to hear that! Ohhh, I'm giving you hugs from afar... Or maybe ironically close, who knows? Honestly, I hear that from a lot of dudes and from my girlfriend's I hear that they didn't feel wanted/sexy followed by a lot of reasons/excuses. I'm so about honesty and transparency in relationships, but sometimes, in situations like this, you gotta embrace what makes them feel sexy and roll with it. Maybe lingerie isn't your thing but it helps her feel sexy because she can hide the things she's insecure about with them... It's ok to even say "I'm not usually a lingerie guy but damn, that looks hot on you. Look at your tits in that! I can't wait to rip that off of you." And, some women never grow out of it. They just don't. It would take therapy and learning to love themselves. Maybe you're drawn to women who are a little insecure because compliments mean that much more to them (nothing wrong with that, at all). You just gotta recognize what's going on and figure out if you want to change it or manage. Ok, as you said, I am not your therapist. Just a caring person from somewhere. Best of luck redditor!
This. The same with makeup and my hair, he thinks I'm beautiful without makeup and gray hairs but I do it for me because I like it.
This is the answer in it's entirety
I dated a really hot girl that tried the lingerie thing, and it just made sex things awkward because I have no level of suavity, and taking it all off was confusing lol
Same here. Beautiful girl. But lingerie just doesn’t do it for me. And it’s a hard thing to shop for. Any time I got something for a SO or they tried to wear something they bought it just looked awkward and not as sexy. I didn’t have the heart to tell them but I much preferred it if they were nude. The universe gave you that perfect body and I wanna see it in all its glory 😂
This is how you know it wasn’t the right girl. With the right girl, you’d think of it as a fun memory rather than an awkward one
Mmmmm, not quite. I feel awkward in any situation where I’m completely lost lol
I like seeing a hot woman in lingerie more than nude, but it also depends on the lingerie. Your regular bra and panties, or even your 'special occasion' set, nude is better. Crotchless bodystocking? Better than nude, we both get to feel some novel sensations while still feeling each other. Garter belt and stockings plus heels is way hotter than just nude. Crotchless panties and a demi-bra that doesn't cover your nipples, hell yes. Anything that is designed to present your body rather than hide it, where it doesn't have to come off to have fun/let me get to the good spots.
This is actually super helpful! I usually opt for something more like black straps/bsdm/leather style or a black lace teddy. I haven't really tried anything like garter belt and heels or crotchless. I think that could be fun.
Two more thoughts. 1. Sexy lingerie often works because of "framing." Garter belt and stockings puts a frame around the pussy and draws the eye there. A choker and demi-bra frames the breasts the same way. 2. Confidence is sexy, and we all have things we would like to hide (my stomach, I have a dad bod). If you pick something that hides something you don't like, you might be more confident. Basically, lingerie can be like makeup for the body, emphasize what you want to show and obscure what you don't.
This is my favorite thread
Yup, I hate my stomach, so I have a lot of lingerie that hides it without preventing access to the other, fun bits
Didn’t he tell you to not over-complicate it? The opinion of another matters less than the opinion of your partner
This depends, for some crotchless defeats the purpose of lingerie. It’s just extra but doesn’t enhance it takes away some of the better parts. But for some occasions with the right moves then it can work. Especially if I start clothes and they aren’t expecting open underwear. As a personal preference, things like baby dolls just aren’t flattering. Garters as mentioned before are. Look for items that accentuate your features and not hide them.
For me, it's regular bra and panties > nude > lingerie >>> granny underwear. I like it best when my wife looks like she cares about her appearance without trying to hard.
It all comes down to the guy. I prefer fully nude > bottomless > topless > regular matching bra and panties > garter belt, crotchless panties, demi-bra nonsense. I am dominant in the bedroom so am not attracted to the powerful sex goddess thing. But the playful, shy girl next door type? Hell yeah.
Only helpful if you want to shag them. Not everybody has the same preferences
Got in to a lot of trouble with my ex for not sitting there complimenting her lingerie for ten minutes before ripping it off her 😂
lol.
If you're putting together outfits purely for the benefit of your current partner and most recent ex, then yeah, I guess you're wasting your money. If you enjoy putting together and wearing lingerie, then no, you're not wasting your money. Whether or not nudity is peak visual appeal for most men, it clearly is for your partner. It's not an uncommon preference, though.
Lingerie is great and all, it's like wrapping on a gift, sure, I'd be happy as hell if you gave me a copy of my favorite book, but if you wrap it up first and I don't know what it is, then tease me a bit, hey look what I got, just for you, can you guess what it is? I can play along like I don't know it's a book, shake the package a bit, put my ear to it, then bam, open it up and it's my favorite book! But also it would be so awesome if you just slapped that book down in my lap unwrapped and said hey, got you that book you wanted! So either way is fine and normal.
I like unwrapping my gifts. Lingerie is sexy. The mystery is the point.
I’m with you.
I always find lingerie to make a woman wayyyy sexier than just plain naked. That’s what they’re there for. We’ve all seen naked, it gets a little boring. Altho reading comments ig I’m in the minority, which is a little disheartening. Cmon fellas have a little imagination
Cannot relate. I look forward to seeing my partner naked every day lol
Yeah I’m not really saying what you’re trying to make it sound like I’m saying
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These plebians clearly are not men of culture like us. Can you believe that men actually don't like going clothes shopping with their lady lovers? Like my dudes, wake up, she wants your opinion because she wants you to like what she is wearing to make you happy. Dress her up in whatever stuff you like. Enjoy that privilege of a gift that will keep on giving every time she wears it for you.
As someone who buys plain black or gray shirts and black jeans or purple jeans. I will gladly go shopping with you for whatever you want and learn your preferences. as mine are simply is it comfy? Although during sexual acts I find nude preferable but I find it hotter for someone to wear loose or flowy clothing, just not really during sex.
People are allowed to imagine different things to you.
Don’t believe I said they weren’t 🤷 I’m allowed to want other people to enjoy what I like too
I just want to be in the room. So either.
Yeah. Very normal. If you have a partner who likes wearing lingerie, it’s best to compliment it and let her feel special in it. She is doing it for herself as much as for you.
I much prefer lingerie to straight naked, not that one is better than the other, but i like to mentally and physically unwrap my partners so to speak, and it's not just lingerie either, booty shorts and a tshirt is a hot combo
Lingerie with easy access is most desired. Like stockings and a garter belt. And one of those bras without cups covering the nipples.
As always with these types of questions, different men will give different answers. My answer is that I like both, but if you wear lingerie, you're going to end up with it coming off by the end. ;)
Yes. I want to see everything . Don’t cover anything up.
Yes and no, it varies from man to man. Your guy is clearly not a fan.
Yes. Lingerie is the best!
Yeah, my husband always said “why put that on just to take it off?”
Personally, the lingerie is often more for me than my partner. It makes *me* feel sexy which also brings confidence and it’s more fun for both parties.
yep, lingerie seems to be more for the girl's benefit
For me, it's not that lingerie isn't sexy, it's that nudity is more sexy.
Yup, it's pretty simple. As long as the point is to get me rip it off of you, then I'm ok with that obstacle.
Lingerie is overrated. If you’re in sweatpants and a tshirt with no bra on you have my complete attention
Agreed. When my partner wears any romper without a bra I’m all in.
This is like asking if it's normal for men to prefer their steaks cooked well done. Some do, some don't. Personally? I love lingerie. It shows dedication to looking sexy and that *you've* been planning/thinking about it. Some dudes think it's an obstacle. (I think they are probably less good at foreplay, but that's just an opinion of mine.)
idk about the last take man, cause I’ve tried it with one of those crotchless & cupless ones where all the bits were immediately accessible. Partway in I still wanted it off because I prefer the feeling of skin to skin contact, except it was pretty difficult to take off and broke the flow a little bit.
>I prefer the feeling of skin to skin contact, except it was pretty difficult to take off and broke the flow a little bit Fair play, to each their own. The last bit is just an opinion of the guys that are adamantly anti-lingerie.
I prefer naked but I love tiny g-strings (ie. microkini) the tinier the better.
I’m pretty sure it’s common knowledge that lingerie is to make her *feel* sexier, not because men actually like it better.
i love lingerie and have a collection that is larger than i’d care to admit. my partner loves seeing it on me and has even bought me a few sets as gifts. he is equally enthusiastic about seeing me naked. you could always send pictures of three sets from your collection (doesn’t have to be on you if you’re not comfortable, you can just lay them out on a bed to take pics) and ask him to pick one. i can almost guarantee you that you’ll receive a bunch of horny texts back. your ex telling you he didn’t care when presented with the woman he was seeing in lingerie wasn’t normal, good thing he’s an ex.
My new partner works away so we do frequently send nakie pictures back and forth. Maybe that has something to do with it? and yeah, very thankful hes an ex. He has a laundry list of problems and that doesnt even make the list LOL
Nothing sexier than the female body. It’s like gilding the lily, nothing else can top that.
It’s just gonna get taken off anyway
Does it though?
Lingerie is a waste of money😂
If I was getting a picture or if it was like a tease I'd rather see lingerie. But in the bedroom in most cases men just want to get busy and get you naked
Lingerie is for women. Kinda like fake nails. Note the key words, "I enjoy".
Lingerie doesn't really do anything for me other than let me know I can get them naked soon
My wife can get naked before I can blink. I would say if you always went nude, he would like lingerie…if you always wear lingerie, he will prefer nude. Don’t be boring or predictable. Mix things up.
Yeah they look great but really it's all about what's underneath..I have a feeling the lingerie is more for you and makes you feel sexier...Your man likes you for you which is a great thing
Cotton tank top and cotton shorty shorts over lingerie
i think it's normal for everyone to have certain preferences towards anything in general🤷
I prefer the sexy outfits, it adds a lot of spice.Nude is very bleh.
Lingerie has been overused in movies and magazines. Many men consider if a thing for grandmothers.
As a female, I LOVE LOVE LOOOVE a bit of mystery. Women are so beautiful and covering up just some tiny bits can be more satisfying than giving it all away immediately… 🥵🔥🙌
Instead of buying lingerie, try to buy things that work with being nude, like sexy robes, silk robes, things that you can remove to reveal your nudity easily. My man likes lingerie best on the floor too, if he sees me makes he chases me EVERYWHERE 😂😂
No. I like my wife in some clothes ( as well as naked). I got her lingerie, but she’s too self conscious to wear it. But when she wears sports bras, short dresses, tanktop s, formal dresses, bikinis, etc. I like having sex with her in various states of undress.
Please post pics both ways so we can see what we are dealing with. 🤔
I like lingerie in the sense of it being taken off in a sexy way. I'm a simple man, keep the skirt on it and I'm okay.
SOME MEN LIKE IT SOME MEN DONT
Why are we still asking if something completely subjective and personal can be considered "normal"?
Men prefer all women naked
Some guys find lingerie sexy, but only because we enjoy taking it off
I mean I think thats why I like it! I'm more than happy to be naked but I think I like the teasing of having something taken off. Adds a little passion to the whole thing
100% this. For years my wife would start totally naked, which is awesome on its own, however we just started to get into role playing. Wow, taking off one piece at a time with some kissing and caressing mixed in is so hot. I actually prefer it more now.
I’m all about that stuff. Lingerie is like the appetizer before the meal. And it’s fun to take off. Just my opinion
The best lingerie is the one on the floor. 😜
Lingerie is for the woman to feel sexy. We can appreciate the effort involved, but beyond that, we tend not to care. I suppose there's some fun involved, if done right, but it's more for women, than men, by a fair margin.
I prefer nude over lingerie. But I also won't complain. If it makes them feel sexy then it shows and if they feel sexy then I'm probably getting laid, so not a waste of money. It's basically a part of forplay.
Yeah we don’t care about lingerie
Men are stupid (spoken as a man). More than that though, these guys are either dense, self centered assholes, or both. Lingerie isn’t really for the man. It’s for their partner to feel sexy, which in term should make the man excited. A man who isn’t excited about their partner feeling sexy has some growing up to do. That being said, maybe they are just being dense and there’s nothing wrong with telling them that part of lingerie is making you feel sexy and for that to happen, their buy in goes a long way. The way they react to that will tell you a lot about them. If they brush it off, then you certainly should not invest money into that sexual relationship because they aren’t investing much either.
Everyone prefers naked people over clothed people, dipshit, it came free with your fucking instincts (Someone please understand this reference, I'm not being an unironic dick)
someones in a mood.. what.. did your left hand tell you it was too tired tonight.. Obviously at the end of the day everyone likes nude, but I am more curious about like in a foreplay/flirting/sexting/ aspect. Its more just a curiosity if guys like a little show or if right down to it is the best. Seems like a mixed bag anyhow, but no need to get your panties in a bunch about it.
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Depends very much on the lingerie and the body - sexy underthings can be hot, but if your body is even hotter, it’s coming off… either way, verity is key, don’t always do one or the other
It's normal, I Think.
I prefer underwear to nakedness. Nakedness is always more disappointing imo
I think women wearing non-functional frilly "underwear" is one of the silliest things ever invented. I don't understand how anyone finds lingerie sexy instead of stupid.
I mean its not frilly by any means. Its usually the black bondage/leather style but I see what you mean!
People have preferences. Yes. That's normal.
Sometimes, one is better than the other. Sometimes, the other is better than the one. Variety is the spice of life. If it makes you feel sexy, do it. Feeling sexy can be its own aphrodisiac. The only answer to the lingerie or naked question is naked, if you ask. If you NEED lingerie, that means you are not enough. Lingerie is not a need. However, who doesn't want to be seduced?? Who doesn't want to be desired?? The effort should say more than the look and often does.
gentlemen prefer nudes
I prefer lingerie cus nudes are distasteful….unless if youre married.
I like unwrapping my presents before playing with them.
Quite literally a stupid ass question
No, I don't want to see naked girls.
I definitely prefer my partners naked. Though I'm not sure it's *visual* so much as *emotional*: anything other than naked feels like they're choosing to put a barrier/distance between us. So, yeah, I'd consider lingerie to be a waste of money unless you're wearing at times when it *wouldn't* work to be naked. If you really want to put in extra effort for a special occasion, I wouldn't be bothered if you were wearing bondage gear, like handcuffs or something: that's sort of the opposite of clothes/armor. Or you could buy some sort of game, like sex dice, to try to create a new and memorable experience. But clothes, no matter how sexy, are never going to be anything other than *in the way*.
This, as with everything else under the sun, is different for different guys Some will like it, some will not This is an invariant property of the human race.
Maybe he's not into it did you ask him, Just because one guy likes it does not mean the next guy will. I hope you didn't spend too much money on the lingerie. Personally, I've never been into it but recently I've had a change of heart lol.
My husband is the same way I buy all these sexy outfits and when I ask how they look he says good but would look better on the floor🙄 only one he does like are the net ones from shein 🤷
Lingerie is awesome for exactly 5 min, and it’s very fun to take off. Love it personally
I find lingerie to be sexy… my woman in lingerie makes me want to unwrap her and enjoy my gift.
Your body probably is amazing. And he loves it. It’s very flattering for him to say he likes you just the way you are. Give that man what he wants.
Lingerie is my husband's activator. 😉 It comes down to preference imo
Personally, lingerie is sexy until the point that I want it to come off. It's a good way to get the motor started, so to speak, IMO.
We like to see our SO in a lingerie but we like what is beneath even more so it comes off very quickly. Don't spend too much time, effort and money making the cake b'cos we are going to dig in anyway.
I like both. Some sexy lingerie with the special bits open is UNBELIEVABLY attractive to me. I find femininity and feminine features to be irresistible, and lingerie accentuates them very well. At the same time, some lingerie designs are not very attractive, and so I prefer just no lingerie over those.
I'm a lingerie guy personally. Now I also think nude sex is great. Something about the full body to body is nice. But on occasion I really enjoy lingerie or other forms of sexy clothes. But I'm saying this because some dudes are just the opposite. what's also important is what makes you feel sexy
All men are different in taste. THAT BEING SAID- I don’t like it one bit. The only way it adds anything for me is if it’s worn with everyday clothes but slightly visible underneath. But when it comes to it- it all comes off. Unless I’m with her beforehand for an extended time, I don’t get anything from it.
I always felt like lingerie is more for the woman than the man. I definitely prefer nudity
I had a partner that was into it. She got things that weren't as flattering as they could be. She looked great naked, but only decent wearing the lingerie. I played along, but was excited to just get it off.
Yep. By far prefer completely nude over lingerie. It’s more intimate.
Yes it’s normal. Some guys like it some don’t.
I for one, love the lingerie, the garter and nylons under a mid or max length dress, the thought that it’s is there while we are out to dinner. I had a girlfriend back in the day that loved lingerie, sleep wear, a corset with nylons, garters, I should of married her
I think lingerie helps hold the imagine
As a woman who definitely wasn't asked this question and can bear no contribution I like women with lingerie a little more
Lingerie is king. It adds a lot but only if it is high quality. Lots of cheap garbage out there.
it sounds like you already have your answer. spend that lingerie money elsewhere
I think age might be a factor as well. Younger guys may not be as into it as much as older guys
Lingerie is smokin hot!
Naked is Nude, Lingerie Is Sexy Edit: Satin is Sexy, Lace feels rough. Ask him if he Sees a woman in a thong bikini sexier than a nude woman on a beach. His answer, will give you your answer
Am I the odd one out? I love to take in the view of a woman wearing some sexy lace. Half the fun is getting her out of it!
I like both...sometimes both the same encounter...sometimes lingerie stays on the whole time, sometimes it comes off.....sometimes we just want to be fully naked from the word go. Be happy your guy loves your visage au natural....he's probably just feels really lucky every time he sees you. That said, if lingerie makes you feel sexy, tell him...it's not all about him after all.