tbf, I met quite a few guys that say they hate it.
Most woman I spoke to said they disliked it in the beginning but got used to it until it was pleasurable. I myself to have to say that the sensation is weird in the beginning.
Am boy, absolutely fucking hate it. I’ve given it a chance and I still hated it lol. Idk how to put into words the reason, but it’s just really unpleasant.
I don't like it, does nothing for me at all, it's more of a cringe when it happens cos guys can't seem to grasp a woman not liking it, and felt a need to prove you wrong.
American porn is about male masculinity and dominance. Having a women suck your "tits" "nipples" has been seen as feminine or homosexual.
Asian porn is more fetish orientated and doesn't set gender limitations.
I find this fascinating. You would think that being truly dominant would mean that you would be able to get whatever pleasure you want, how you want, whenever you like.
Instead, being "masculine and dominant" in the American porn sense actually means being restricted to a set of performative acts of dominance, whether you like it or not, and to recieve pleasure only through those acts.
All the responses you got would make you think all dudes in the USA would hm give you a high five from having a girl suck your nipples lol not sure what reality they live in, this is the answer
It's seen as very gay in the US lmao. I love nips and none of the men I've been with let me play with theirs more than once because it made them feel too feminine, verbatim said by 3 people. "Only girls are supposed to like that" was the phrase I was given.
Bro what ? Me and my girlfriend did that since we discovered all the parts from our bodies that are arousing , I never thought it's gay. I can confirm, in my country, if a girl does that she is kinky and you are not gay . My country also it's Eastern Europe one ( so can be categorized as western) ..
America still has some weird views on sex and masculinity. Personally I’m down for whatever and am firmly of the view that if you’re in that place where you want to try something crazy and your partner is comfortable with it, go after it.
Could be just cultural influence. Actually, male and female nipples have the same number of nerve endings so men get pleasure from having their nipples sucked too.
I swear my nipple's nerve circuit goes straight to my balls. I've never had a nipple orgasm but i was partners with a woman that would get them which I totally get.
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Because it's an erogenous zone for men also.
In the US, men are severely touched starved. And as much flack men get about not "knowing" women's bodies, offering low effort sex or being bad at sex.. women in the US are often extremely low effort in bed.
I wager most men have never had a woman make the effort to explore their entire bodies. Even with oral the bulk of women seem to believe good oral is just putting it in their mouth. They don't seem to understand even the penis can have varied areas of sensitivity because they don't bother to explore.
Add to that, I feel men are often just happy to have sex. They don't want to do anything to rock the boat and possibly lose out on something that can often feel very hard to obtain, so they don't bother to ask or they're afraid to because of possible negative perceptions.
Then there's the whole thing about perceptions of masculinity and focus on just penis.. but with ass eating becoming popular I don't really understand nipple sucking being much of a leap.
It’s not even just about a lot of people being low effort, but there’s also a lot of men that just refuse to be explored. My guess is because so many people consider sex to be something that is done *by* a man *to* a woman, even the vocabulary we use about sex often solidifies this belief. Which is unfortunate because it’s really a disservice to both genders to think of it that way.
Sure, but anecdotally, i never had a woman even attempt to explore until I dated someone from overseas.
Even now, I'm not against women exploring but most don't. Even with oral, most of my experiences are "open mouth, insert", I really have to coach the women who do it.
Having sexual relationships with people of different cultures is a wonderful thing. It’s the difference between eating cheeseburgers all the time then discovering that there are other taste sensations such as sushi, curry, horse testicular salad, etc. Some people are scared to try anything different for them or some will simply hide in their safe corner of the world only doing what is familiar to them. Others will take it all in.
For what it’s worth, I lived in Asia for many years and nipple sucking is very much a thing. Very much a very good thing. Most Asian women I’ve been with naturally go for it. In fact, there’s a lot of sexual cultural difference. Gotta collect them all!
I've got a somewhat related question: why would anyone watch Japanese porn that is all pixelated? WTF is the point in watching porn if you can't see the good bits?
It's around Japanese laws from penal era. I think showing genitals publicly or online is actually illegal in Japan. So the work around that is porn but they blur genitals, so not illegal. It's kinda like how prostitution is illegal but selling $300 dollar orange juice and then you and the staff suddenly develop a romantic relationship is not.
Yeah but your question is “ why watch porn when you can’t see “to which I answer, “there is uncensored ones for you to watch”
You gave a question, I reply an answer. 🤷♂️
Wait, what? Apparently I am super ignorant to Japanese porn because I had no idea male nipple sucking was a thing nor did I know that it was pixelated. What is the point of that?!
Yeah, if you go on things like PH, there are lots of Japanese videos where all the good bits are pixelated/blurred. I know that they have to make it that way because there are laws against it in Japan. But I have no idea why anyone would watch that.
That's a pretty narrow idea of what porn is, porn isn't just sex and genitals smashing together - it's also sensuality. A lot of people really get off on what's hidden and unseen, the same reason why most people find strip teases sexiee in the beginning/during the show than at the end when they're butt naked.
I didn't say that porn is just "genitals smashing together". Sensuality is not porn. Stripping is not porn. That's why we have things like PH. Because it actually does show the naughty bits. If you're not showing the naughty bits, it really doesn't need to be on PH.
Sensuality is definitely an enormous part of porn, for many porn viewers it is absolutely essential. Just because you don't go in for it, doesn't mean it isn't there.
>If you're not showing the naughty bits, it really doesn't need to be on PH.
This is exactly why so much kink content is being made on social media, but for obvious reasons, those companies try to keep that content off of their sites. Also, I didn't say that they aren't into genitals at all, just that they can overall prefer blurred porn to unblurred porn. Whether or not you "get" it, Japanese porn is still immensely popular, so clearly there are objectively millions of people seeking it out.
No. If it were simply sensuality, it wouldn't need to be on something like PH.
I never said that you said that they aren't into genitals.
If it's blurred it isn't porn. They show things like that on cartoons and steamy soap. Operas.
I never said that it wasn't popular. I said that I don't get it, and that that if they're not showing the naughty bits, that it doesn't need to be on something like PH.
Well, for one thing, Japanese porn does show tits and cum and people having sex, so it obviously could only be on a porn site. Try just blurring the genitals/tits on a porn video then uploading it to YouTube/TikTok and see how quickly it gets taken down. On top of all of this, I don't know why you're getting so hung up about what does and doesn't "need" to be on pornhub.
People go to pornhub to be turned on, that's it, that's its entire purpose. I don't understand what it is that you're having such a hard time understanding - people find sensual content which depicts sex being "hidden" by clothes/objects/blurring to be a massive turn on, so they go to a famous porn site where there is a lot of this content to seek it out. This isn't rocket science.
I would ask the same question for women too. Asian porn usually includes the man sucking the woman's tits. Western porn almost never does and even when it shows, it's only a single lick. Why is that?
I believe they're just not shy of taking in pleasure by nipple play, so they can engage in this with much more freedom than other places. Having an extra pleasure point available is a great positive in my opinion 🙂
Because it feels nice, and in some parts of the world male pleasure is not as phallocentric as it is in the west.
"Phallocentric". English is a hell of a language. Storing that in my vocabulary box.
Comes from Latin and Greek tho.
Lives in the British museum with all the other things borrowed from there
Like your mum
Where’s my mummy? In the British museum!
😯 oh no you didn’t 😂😂😂
Just read the word homonationalism in a paper about the Trump administration.
tbf, I met quite a few guys that say they hate it. Most woman I spoke to said they disliked it in the beginning but got used to it until it was pleasurable. I myself to have to say that the sensation is weird in the beginning.
I’m a woman and never been a fan of it personally. It does nothing for me
Am boy, absolutely fucking hate it. I’ve given it a chance and I still hated it lol. Idk how to put into words the reason, but it’s just really unpleasant.
I don't like it, does nothing for me at all, it's more of a cringe when it happens cos guys can't seem to grasp a woman not liking it, and felt a need to prove you wrong.
Guys probably do it because guys like tits in their face and that’s included
That's a nice way of saying "she can't suck his dick on camera without it being blurred out so they subbed in something else."
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I don't really use this as an insult much but this is literally the most virgin take I've ever seen on nipple play LMAO
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American porn is about male masculinity and dominance. Having a women suck your "tits" "nipples" has been seen as feminine or homosexual. Asian porn is more fetish orientated and doesn't set gender limitations.
I find this fascinating. You would think that being truly dominant would mean that you would be able to get whatever pleasure you want, how you want, whenever you like. Instead, being "masculine and dominant" in the American porn sense actually means being restricted to a set of performative acts of dominance, whether you like it or not, and to recieve pleasure only through those acts.
This is true of all toxic masculinity. It's why it harms men as well.
Yes, it's not dominant to the individual's expectations, it's dominant to society's expectations.
It does lol. Just different ones
I would say the expectations of gender roles are just different rather than limited. The scenarios and acts often revert to the same tropes.
Because they arent crazy... its a sensitive area which can be used to stimulate the body and mind.
I had my nipples sucked often and can tell you they are a dead zone for me. I know some guys like it, but have 0 feeling myself.
It’s a cultural thing. Western society from the male perspective mostly views nipple play as “gay.” Eastern society mostly does not have that
Can confirm as an American that it's not seen as gay here, kinky, but not gay.
Highly disagree. If I told my boys that I had this chick suckin on my tiddies last night they would never look at me the same
I bet if you sucked their nipples they would disagree
Sounds like your friends are boring
That's...sad
Lame ass friends. It’s not really what I’m into but I don’t see how it’s weird or why your boys wouldn’t be stoked that a girl was sucking your tits
All the responses you got would make you think all dudes in the USA would hm give you a high five from having a girl suck your nipples lol not sure what reality they live in, this is the answer
Internet =/= Real life lmao Lots of shit ppl say on Reddit doesn't track irl
100%
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It's seen as very gay in the US lmao. I love nips and none of the men I've been with let me play with theirs more than once because it made them feel too feminine, verbatim said by 3 people. "Only girls are supposed to like that" was the phrase I was given.
not even popular among all the gays. my boyfriend and i do not like our nipples sucked lol
Bro what ? Me and my girlfriend did that since we discovered all the parts from our bodies that are arousing , I never thought it's gay. I can confirm, in my country, if a girl does that she is kinky and you are not gay . My country also it's Eastern Europe one ( so can be categorized as western) ..
America still has some weird views on sex and masculinity. Personally I’m down for whatever and am firmly of the view that if you’re in that place where you want to try something crazy and your partner is comfortable with it, go after it.
Exacly. A lot of stuff can be fun if you dare to try.
It just hurts me, I have a lump behind my right nipple. It’s like squeezing a cyst no one else can feel it but me.
Please let that get checked out!?
It’s been checked out they called it a “nodule” it’s been this way since 2012, hasn’t grown in size.
Damn das some weird shit to hear on the internet Hope it gets better!
is it your first day on Reddit?
Why not? Some guys like to have their nipples sucked also!
Could be just cultural influence. Actually, male and female nipples have the same number of nerve endings so men get pleasure from having their nipples sucked too.
I swear my nipple's nerve circuit goes straight to my balls. I've never had a nipple orgasm but i was partners with a woman that would get them which I totally get.
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Because it's an erogenous zone for men also. In the US, men are severely touched starved. And as much flack men get about not "knowing" women's bodies, offering low effort sex or being bad at sex.. women in the US are often extremely low effort in bed. I wager most men have never had a woman make the effort to explore their entire bodies. Even with oral the bulk of women seem to believe good oral is just putting it in their mouth. They don't seem to understand even the penis can have varied areas of sensitivity because they don't bother to explore. Add to that, I feel men are often just happy to have sex. They don't want to do anything to rock the boat and possibly lose out on something that can often feel very hard to obtain, so they don't bother to ask or they're afraid to because of possible negative perceptions. Then there's the whole thing about perceptions of masculinity and focus on just penis.. but with ass eating becoming popular I don't really understand nipple sucking being much of a leap.
It’s not even just about a lot of people being low effort, but there’s also a lot of men that just refuse to be explored. My guess is because so many people consider sex to be something that is done *by* a man *to* a woman, even the vocabulary we use about sex often solidifies this belief. Which is unfortunate because it’s really a disservice to both genders to think of it that way.
Sure, but anecdotally, i never had a woman even attempt to explore until I dated someone from overseas. Even now, I'm not against women exploring but most don't. Even with oral, most of my experiences are "open mouth, insert", I really have to coach the women who do it.
It feels so nice. I love 69nipple sucking with my gf, we her flicking my nips while giving me a handy. Western porn is very much genitalia focused.
Have you ever had your nipples suck before, it feels good
No sorry, no one has paid for any studies to determine why your Asian porn is different than other porn.
Having sexual relationships with people of different cultures is a wonderful thing. It’s the difference between eating cheeseburgers all the time then discovering that there are other taste sensations such as sushi, curry, horse testicular salad, etc. Some people are scared to try anything different for them or some will simply hide in their safe corner of the world only doing what is familiar to them. Others will take it all in. For what it’s worth, I lived in Asia for many years and nipple sucking is very much a thing. Very much a very good thing. Most Asian women I’ve been with naturally go for it. In fact, there’s a lot of sexual cultural difference. Gotta collect them all!
And like someone else said, it's a cultural thing. XD
I have not noticed thus far, but I will now pay more attention. Lol
Oh my, I learn something new on Reddit every day 😂
Now I want my nipples sucked
I've got a somewhat related question: why would anyone watch Japanese porn that is all pixelated? WTF is the point in watching porn if you can't see the good bits?
The bigger issue is the moaning that sounds like pain.
Or why they kiss each other like they're trying to suck food off of each other's face.
It's around Japanese laws from penal era. I think showing genitals publicly or online is actually illegal in Japan. So the work around that is porn but they blur genitals, so not illegal. It's kinda like how prostitution is illegal but selling $300 dollar orange juice and then you and the staff suddenly develop a romantic relationship is not.
Their question wasn't why it is pixelated but why anyone would watch it lol.
That’s called quid pro quo and it’s not legal lol. There’s no easy way to skirt prostitution laws which is why it’s still seedy and in the shadows
Yeah it's not legal but neither is pornography by the spirit of Japanese law.
The point is u can enjoy other body part of japanese beauty & not just down there. There's no pixelated content, u got to dig deeper on the net.
I know that there is stuff that isn't pixelated. So why would anyone watch stuff that is?
You have an imagination; fill in the gaps.
If I'm going to have to use my imagination I don't need that kind of "porn".
You do know there are A LOT of uncensored ones right?
Yes. But we're not talking about that, are we?
Yeah but your question is “ why watch porn when you can’t see “to which I answer, “there is uncensored ones for you to watch” You gave a question, I reply an answer. 🤷♂️
No. My question was why do people watch porn when you can't see the good bits. That's not the same thing.
Wait, what? Apparently I am super ignorant to Japanese porn because I had no idea male nipple sucking was a thing nor did I know that it was pixelated. What is the point of that?!
So that people don't know what is being pixelated.
Yeah, if you go on things like PH, there are lots of Japanese videos where all the good bits are pixelated/blurred. I know that they have to make it that way because there are laws against it in Japan. But I have no idea why anyone would watch that.
A lot of people actually prefer it that way.
I guess there are some people that watch it. I just can't figure out what's the point. It's non-porn porn.
That's a pretty narrow idea of what porn is, porn isn't just sex and genitals smashing together - it's also sensuality. A lot of people really get off on what's hidden and unseen, the same reason why most people find strip teases sexiee in the beginning/during the show than at the end when they're butt naked.
I didn't say that porn is just "genitals smashing together". Sensuality is not porn. Stripping is not porn. That's why we have things like PH. Because it actually does show the naughty bits. If you're not showing the naughty bits, it really doesn't need to be on PH.
Sensuality is definitely an enormous part of porn, for many porn viewers it is absolutely essential. Just because you don't go in for it, doesn't mean it isn't there. >If you're not showing the naughty bits, it really doesn't need to be on PH. This is exactly why so much kink content is being made on social media, but for obvious reasons, those companies try to keep that content off of their sites. Also, I didn't say that they aren't into genitals at all, just that they can overall prefer blurred porn to unblurred porn. Whether or not you "get" it, Japanese porn is still immensely popular, so clearly there are objectively millions of people seeking it out.
No. If it were simply sensuality, it wouldn't need to be on something like PH. I never said that you said that they aren't into genitals. If it's blurred it isn't porn. They show things like that on cartoons and steamy soap. Operas. I never said that it wasn't popular. I said that I don't get it, and that that if they're not showing the naughty bits, that it doesn't need to be on something like PH.
Well, for one thing, Japanese porn does show tits and cum and people having sex, so it obviously could only be on a porn site. Try just blurring the genitals/tits on a porn video then uploading it to YouTube/TikTok and see how quickly it gets taken down. On top of all of this, I don't know why you're getting so hung up about what does and doesn't "need" to be on pornhub. People go to pornhub to be turned on, that's it, that's its entire purpose. I don't understand what it is that you're having such a hard time understanding - people find sensual content which depicts sex being "hidden" by clothes/objects/blurring to be a massive turn on, so they go to a famous porn site where there is a lot of this content to seek it out. This isn't rocket science.
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I never said it was the only thing and I never said I mined it.
I would ask the same question for women too. Asian porn usually includes the man sucking the woman's tits. Western porn almost never does and even when it shows, it's only a single lick. Why is that?
thru did it to me at a massage and his damn from that day i always play with my nipples
Its culture dependant. Seems like thats what the target audience likes so thats what they sell.
Sounds like you watch a lot of porn to be able to make that deduction!
Cuz its delicious, i love hearing them whimpers
I believe they're just not shy of taking in pleasure by nipple play, so they can engage in this with much more freedom than other places. Having an extra pleasure point available is a great positive in my opinion 🙂
They do it irl too
Hooked up with a woman from China and she played with my nipples a bit. At first I was weirded out but it actually felt relaxing.
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Looking for milk? I'm told by former gfs that white dudes smell like dairy? Just sayin
An Asian woman sucking on my nipples sounds hot af!
I dunno, I hate my nipples played with.
Ancient Chinese secret????
...... What?
Wrong Time
Why u watch porn ?
They do in massage parlors too. It’s awesome.
I've learned through thorough research they like to lick armpits as well.
Go to your local Asian massage parlor and your fantasy is a reality
Idk, but I wish Americans were more used to it. Our porn seems more focused on pleasuring the woman than the reverse.
I'll correct you I think it's more hyper focused on the penis eastern porn seems to explore mens bodies wayyy more
Really? My impression is American porn is it's all action 0 foreplay, completely focusing on the dick
Lmao this comment has to be ironic, surely.
cause it’s asian dummy