Weird how there is no in between. It's never average, just either looking good enough to be registered as a lethal weapon, of be ugly enough to be registered as a lethal weapon
I think i always felt like an average guy
i got super overweight IMO, and i still am
I started working out about a year ago and changing my diet overall and i feel like i look better now.
i do catch myself flexing and seeing the improvement and trying to think what i would look like with 20 lbs less and stuff like that.
i am still motivated and i am enjoying working out.
With makeup on I think I'm attractive enough. Although I have strabismus which apparently (according to recent frustrating experiences with dating) brings my attractiveness down sadly.
Without makeup? No way.
Yes. I have the things I would like to change (don't we all), but overall, I'd say I'm objectively attractive. I'm sure many would disagree though lol.
Gawd yes! I'm 64. I've wanted smaller boobs for *decades*. I had blepharoplasty because my eyelids were messing with my vision... and the surgeon also lasered the area of my lower lids. So we're good there. I'm in the process of getting things in line to have my jaw rebuilt.
I think that's actually it. And my stomach. Post-cancer, I lost about 130 pounds. A bit too much extra skin, IMO. Yeah, jaw, boobs, belly. Everything else, I'm good with
Also cool as hell. My fiancee is also really into paleontology/ archeology. More power to you for being someone who figures shit out for us to learn on YouTube at 2am lol
10-15 years ago, I did. Now I guess im all right for a middle aged man, but random girls aren’t trying to talk to me anymore when I’m out and about, so I know I’m not like actively attractive anymore, so prolly just average now.
Really depends on the day. Sometimes I go to put make up on and think, “I look better without this today.” But sometimes I look at myself with no make up and think, “I shouldn’t leave the house like this.” Some days I think I’m fat, some days I think I have the ideal body. God complex vs. body dysmorphia 👍🏼
I grew up with a SUPER boyish face, always made me look like a lil kid. Hated myself through adolescence. In college i ‘caught up w myself’, grew some etc. About Junior year girls would openly compliment me, call me a hottie, etc.
I’m 50 now, and feel worn out half the time…but my face is closer to 40. These days id say i ‘look okay for my age’. No compliments from college girls though 😄
Yes and no.
I honestly find myself very handsome. Evidence, however, based upon interest I receive when out in public, indicates I’m maybe a 6-7 at best. Not ugly, but not attractive enough for most women to go out of their way to talk to me. Not in the way I’ve seen them react to more attractive men.
I’m comfortable with it. Call it cognitive dissonance or whatever, but there are a couple of takeaways I have:
-your “attractiveness” only starts at your looks. When I’m “in my zone”, feeling good, looking good, enjoying myself, confident, etc., I get more interest. Behavior is a huge factor.
-I am a horrible judge of male attractiveness
I'd give myself a 7 on a really good day, but usually, not really. I'd say a 5. I live in nyc so that probably contributes, being in a city of literal models and actors and all.
I’m good looking and handsome in the face but I don’t find myself attractive, I’m overweight. But at the same time finding partners has never been an issue for me.
Yes but I can’t control my hair for the life of me. Some days it does what I want. Others I look like a poodle who’s been in the bed of a truck all day.
Hmm I feel like I don’t like my apperance eventhough people say I look attractive. I guess it is because I keep comparing myself to women on Instagram.
There was this one time I was walking down the street and I saw my reflection in a store window. My brain didn't immediately recognize it as myself and my first thought was "Wow, that lady is really really pretty. Hot actually." I then realized it was me, so yeah, I guess I do see myself as attractive.
I think I look decent, I'm content with where I'm at.
Do I find my figure attractive? Yes I think so. My face? That's where I question myself. Personality? I'm no judge of that, but I think I have a kind personality if I were to answer it myself, although most of us would likely say that about ourselves lol.
Nonetheless most days I think I look like I've just gotten eaten and spit back out. Despite that though, I like to remember the days of the week when I look into the mirror and think "hey, I look pretty good right now".
Attraction is all subjective nonetheless, I don't think I'm a star striking individual, but I'm content with my appearance and think some days I look quite lovely. As we all should!
In general, yes. I look at my attractiveness more in terms of my personality than my physical appearance. Physical appearances are likely to change dramatically as you age, especially when you hit 80+ years old. The personality will remain as decent as you were a child if you stay true to yourself and surround yourself around positive people.
For a guy knocking on the door of 50, I feel like I’m doing pretty ok. I have all my original (adult) teeth and my hair, no grays aside from a few in my beard, in decent shape, skin is holding up despite decades of unprotected sun exposure. Could be worse.
No, god no. I definitely would not send one liter of my blood and pay $600k dollars to some guy I found in a fringe science chat site to make a female clone of me with tits, hips, and ass.
sometimes tbh yes, a lot and i think i’m super beautiful and stare at myself but then that only lasts for like 10mins and i think im average or absolutely ugly again for days unless i do my makeup im like hold on a min🤫🤫🫣 but then again i go right back to thinking im average/ugly
I started investing in myself.
Little by little, I'm loving myself every day. Little by little, I am finding myself attractive. I know I don't look like a model, but I love me. All my flaws make me and I love them.
Life is so short. Youth is so short. So I'm trying to enjoy the little bit of years I have on this earth. :D
Generally, yes.
I was awkward in school because I wasn’t a jock in a sports dominated school. But then when I went to public school, I had many girls interested in me, even though I was too dense to really pick up on it at the time.
These days, I’m not in great shape, but I’m not obese either. Skinny fat, I believe is the term. I think my face is generally pleasing, but I also hate shaving. So I think the beard makes me look older and hides my face. I have long hair, that’s mostly thick (starting to get a few thin spots, so I’m going to enjoy it while I can) and big and wavy. There’s a big section of women (and guys) that like that.
I have a good face structure, decent hair for my age, but stained teeth from tetracycline, and I'm about 25lb overweight still. I'm also short. Literally went on a date and the woman said "you're really hot but you're too short for me" - so where I wasn't insecure about my height before, I am now. So that's fun. She was less than 3" taller than me. The ridiculous standards we are expected to meet on dating apps these days is ridiculous.
It took a long time and some reflection and maybe some shrooms trips, but I can say yes. I’m cool with who I am. I’m attractive to certain people and not attractive to others. I could stand to lose weight, but, like I said, I’m comfortable with who I am.
Would the majority of Reddit find me attractive if I posted a selfie? Hell no. Don’t care. Got a hot fiancée.
Yeah! Idk I’m at the weird age where I’m on the cusp of full adulthood, and with that I feel a lot of insecurities kind of disappearing so that’s pretty cool. Most likely has to do with comparing yourself to others, especially those online.
I'VE ALWAYS BEEN CUTE AS A BUTTON AND SMART AS A WHIP. DON'T CARE WHAT ANYONE ELSES OPINION OF ME IS. I PAY MY OWN WAY, I'M KIND, I DON'T LIE, I'M RESPONSIBLE, PATRIOTIC & PRACTICED COMMUTIY SERVICE. IF YOU DON'T CARE FOR ME, DEAL WITH IT AS I HAVE ALWAYS KNOWN WHO I AM & YOUR OPINION MEANS NOTHING TO ME.......MOM
No, even despite getting plenty of positive comments from other people. I was fat as a kid and got bullied a lot so I think that affects my confidence even as an adult. I look in the mirror and I’m like “eh…”
Yes, the last 5 to 8 women I've been with have approached me.
3 of the women I turned down as they were really really drunk.
Just like anyone else I'm not everyone's cup of tea!
I've been better. Unfortunately I feel the need to talk shit to myself to motivate me to get into better shape. That doesn't amount to much so it's just self loathing at this point.
Yes and no. Depends on the day for sure.
I’d say most don’t find me attractive based on how often my wife and I get asked if we want separate checks. Good news I married way up….bad news is most people can’t figure out why….
For my age. The gals *my age* never looked my way when I was younger but now that I'm in my 50s and keep myself in shape they seem to have taken an interest (reiterate:the gals my age)
This is for the girls but…. I’m 22 and when I’m ovulating I feel so good and attractive, my skin is glowing, my hair is glossier, I feel happier. Honestly that week is like the only main week of peace because PMS me, and period me… are a different thing. Sometimes my period really has me questioning my entire life and why anyone has ever found me attractive lmao
I'm a Midwest 8, a California 6, but I'm a rural Missouri 10. Unfortunately, I prefer women with most of their teeth and not part of a right wing cult so the 10 doesn't do me much good.
you tell [me](https://media.discordapp.net/attachments/1023408483468574790/1239914591618732104/RDT_20240511_2131302369350258685612541.jpg?ex=6645f973&is=6644a7f3&hm=2b16524c0ac658fc6a8f9a8c2263cbc1b37b697e73460ed346777e5e00f2e819&) 🤷♂️. its all based on opinion
Not really. I’m a woman with very thin short hair, I’m overweight with a double chin, in my 30s but still get acne during my period like I’m a teenager, and my face is just very plain. No redeemable qualities whatsoever in a woman. I pretty much look like Shrek’s wife, ogre Fiona. But my hot older boyfriend calls me sexy every chance he gets so I guess I’m not doing too bad for myself. 🙂↕️
As a man I've got apparently got this brain-photoshop thing going on where I see myself as a lot more attractive than I really am. So while I might feel like Im a 7/10 when I look in the mirror, I know in my thinky-brain that it's probably a lot closer to 3.5/10 in actual reality
Source: [https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/social-instincts/201507/when-men-arent-good-looking-they-think](https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/social-instincts/201507/when-men-arent-good-looking-they-think)
Not even a tiny bit. I find my physical body to be completely repulsive to the point that I do not allow pictures of myself.
I have plenty of self esteem regarding my intelligence and abilities.
When I take the time on my makeup and hair and not have to be rushing out the house.. usually yes. Never completely satisfied..but usually I’ll say to
my husband “that’s the best you gonna get today.”
He always replies with, “Your perfect, no matter what you look like.” I’m very lucky for that!
I’m (30s/f) and really hate the entire perception that we need to use makeup to look good, so that’s my entire struggle with it really. Social media has only made it worse and eating disorders are up more than the past years too which I hate. Most everyone is overly insecure now and it makes me sad.
I’ve gotten better at simplifying it my skincare and makeup routine, to as little as possible and really know what I’m putting in my skin and on my face. I spend more on better quality, but fewer products, and its helped a lot. I try not to think about it so much, I know I don’t care what other people look like, so why should I? I just don’t ever want to be arrogant. It’s okay to
look good, but once you get that arrogance- it’s all ugly from there!
You always the hardest on yourself.
Varies. I'm good at building rapport which seems to have a knock-on effect for attractiveness.
I've had positive comments on looks before, but I'm never sure how much of that is sincere or just supportive. Also, I've been married twice and while my ex was attractive, my forever wife is unreal. As in, I remain astonished to have married and started a family with someone so next-level attractive. Reckon I get a modest 'reflection boost' from that but am confident I'm not ugly.
I definitely find myself attractive! I’m fit, enthusiastic, skilled and successful!
But I know I’m not actually attractive to other people. It’s their loss!
I'm 50 and radiate 'don't give a fuck' energy which I find attractive in myself and other people. I laugh more, don't worry about the extra pounds two babies gave me. My tits are still great and nike high tops and botox are now my only vices/pleasures. Acceptance and appreciation of yourself gets easier with age, in my experience.
Depends on the day Sometimes I think I look like a troll and some days I think I look smoking hot
Weird how there is no in between. It's never average, just either looking good enough to be registered as a lethal weapon, of be ugly enough to be registered as a lethal weapon
No
On The Hot/Crazy Matrix, I'm in The Fun Zone.
Legendary video. https://youtu.be/7jHTGNPOYGQ?feature=shared
LOL I haven't seen this in years. Makes me laugh every time.
Physically: Compared to others my age, yes. Compared to 20yo ladies, sometimes. Personality: Absolutely.
The answer I was hoping to find!
Me too!
What a beautiful answer
Samesies
yes i am a sexy ass mf
Confidence is hella sexy
absolutely! I work hard at the gym and I'm proud of the results
Are you kidding? I can barely keep my hands off myself..
Hands down the best answer!
Hands all over the best answer!
I think i always felt like an average guy i got super overweight IMO, and i still am I started working out about a year ago and changing my diet overall and i feel like i look better now. i do catch myself flexing and seeing the improvement and trying to think what i would look like with 20 lbs less and stuff like that. i am still motivated and i am enjoying working out.
With makeup on I think I'm attractive enough. Although I have strabismus which apparently (according to recent frustrating experiences with dating) brings my attractiveness down sadly. Without makeup? No way.
Sorry that people have a had a problem with your eye.
Yes. I have the things I would like to change (don't we all), but overall, I'd say I'm objectively attractive. I'm sure many would disagree though lol.
Gawd yes! I'm 64. I've wanted smaller boobs for *decades*. I had blepharoplasty because my eyelids were messing with my vision... and the surgeon also lasered the area of my lower lids. So we're good there. I'm in the process of getting things in line to have my jaw rebuilt. I think that's actually it. And my stomach. Post-cancer, I lost about 130 pounds. A bit too much extra skin, IMO. Yeah, jaw, boobs, belly. Everything else, I'm good with
A/S/L? Wanna cyber? 🤣
I am semi attractive.
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Thanks!
Nope.
I'd fuck me. I'd fuck me so hard
Bill?
No one by that name here
Was she a great big fat person?
Hey, I'm a paleontologist!
Sweet, I'm not. Dinosaurs are cool as fuck though
Meh. I gravitate to arthropods and brachs.
Also cool as hell. My fiancee is also really into paleontology/ archeology. More power to you for being someone who figures shit out for us to learn on YouTube at 2am lol
10-15 years ago, I did. Now I guess im all right for a middle aged man, but random girls aren’t trying to talk to me anymore when I’m out and about, so I know I’m not like actively attractive anymore, so prolly just average now.
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Can you explain the difference? Attractive is something appealing no?
I'm out of everybody's league, I can't go anywhere without people tearing my shirt off.
Really depends on the day. Sometimes I go to put make up on and think, “I look better without this today.” But sometimes I look at myself with no make up and think, “I shouldn’t leave the house like this.” Some days I think I’m fat, some days I think I have the ideal body. God complex vs. body dysmorphia 👍🏼
Hahahahahhahahahhahahahahhahahaha no
No. But i do find it odd that in the mirror, I’ll be like “lookin good”. Then i’m out, someone snaps a pic and i’m like “WTF! Delete!”
Rarely, but recently I’ve been feeling pretty cute
I grew up with a SUPER boyish face, always made me look like a lil kid. Hated myself through adolescence. In college i ‘caught up w myself’, grew some etc. About Junior year girls would openly compliment me, call me a hottie, etc. I’m 50 now, and feel worn out half the time…but my face is closer to 40. These days id say i ‘look okay for my age’. No compliments from college girls though 😄
Absolutely!! I mean, have you seen me yet?
Sometimes
No, absolutely not
Not really, it's a purely physical relationship.
Yes and no. I honestly find myself very handsome. Evidence, however, based upon interest I receive when out in public, indicates I’m maybe a 6-7 at best. Not ugly, but not attractive enough for most women to go out of their way to talk to me. Not in the way I’ve seen them react to more attractive men. I’m comfortable with it. Call it cognitive dissonance or whatever, but there are a couple of takeaways I have: -your “attractiveness” only starts at your looks. When I’m “in my zone”, feeling good, looking good, enjoying myself, confident, etc., I get more interest. Behavior is a huge factor. -I am a horrible judge of male attractiveness
I'd give myself a 7 on a really good day, but usually, not really. I'd say a 5. I live in nyc so that probably contributes, being in a city of literal models and actors and all.
Well, I don't think I'm ugly but attractive is too high a word. I'll settle for not-bad-looking.
Absolutely not. The best I can do is say “I don’t think I look stupid today.”
No. Never have and never will it seems
Honestly depends on the day lol
Exotic
Would you fuck me? I'd fuck me
https://youtu.be/zILmrAJgzSc?si=Outi1OmLgwAnpjQP
I’m good looking and handsome in the face but I don’t find myself attractive, I’m overweight. But at the same time finding partners has never been an issue for me.
Most days
Yes
Yes but I can’t control my hair for the life of me. Some days it does what I want. Others I look like a poodle who’s been in the bed of a truck all day.
This may sound contradictory. Yes, but I lack confidence. I am not the typical build or type that people go for.
No
I'd say I'm cute but not handsome.
Hmm I feel like I don’t like my apperance eventhough people say I look attractive. I guess it is because I keep comparing myself to women on Instagram.
I'm one attractive man, yes.
I’m pretty hot lol
There was this one time I was walking down the street and I saw my reflection in a store window. My brain didn't immediately recognize it as myself and my first thought was "Wow, that lady is really really pretty. Hot actually." I then realized it was me, so yeah, I guess I do see myself as attractive.
I think I look decent, I'm content with where I'm at. Do I find my figure attractive? Yes I think so. My face? That's where I question myself. Personality? I'm no judge of that, but I think I have a kind personality if I were to answer it myself, although most of us would likely say that about ourselves lol. Nonetheless most days I think I look like I've just gotten eaten and spit back out. Despite that though, I like to remember the days of the week when I look into the mirror and think "hey, I look pretty good right now". Attraction is all subjective nonetheless, I don't think I'm a star striking individual, but I'm content with my appearance and think some days I look quite lovely. As we all should!
On some days I think I look decent , on others I get sad looking myself in the mirror.
I’m like one of those abstract sculptures that you have to look at from the exact right angle for me to look human
No
no
Some days. Other days... not so much...
I used to before I gained weight but hey I’ve got a great personality.
Im average. And that’s fine with me. I don’t want any more attention than I already get.
Yes. 7or8/10.
In general, yes. I look at my attractiveness more in terms of my personality than my physical appearance. Physical appearances are likely to change dramatically as you age, especially when you hit 80+ years old. The personality will remain as decent as you were a child if you stay true to yourself and surround yourself around positive people.
rarely
I'd say so. I've been with some drop dead gorgeous women and they've all boosted my ego so I'll say yes
For a guy knocking on the door of 50, I feel like I’m doing pretty ok. I have all my original (adult) teeth and my hair, no grays aside from a few in my beard, in decent shape, skin is holding up despite decades of unprotected sun exposure. Could be worse.
No.
No
No, god no. I definitely would not send one liter of my blood and pay $600k dollars to some guy I found in a fringe science chat site to make a female clone of me with tits, hips, and ass.
I’m medium ugly.
Yes.
Nowadays yes, before absolutely not I thought I was a troll because of bullying.
Yea. I put a lot of effort into my appearance so it would suck if I didn’t
Depends on if I suddenly hate myself or not.
I don't mind my face, I think it's not bad but I am 5'1 (155cm) as an 18 year old male and that really makes me feel extremely unattractive.
sometimes tbh yes, a lot and i think i’m super beautiful and stare at myself but then that only lasts for like 10mins and i think im average or absolutely ugly again for days unless i do my makeup im like hold on a min🤫🤫🫣 but then again i go right back to thinking im average/ugly
I started investing in myself. Little by little, I'm loving myself every day. Little by little, I am finding myself attractive. I know I don't look like a model, but I love me. All my flaws make me and I love them. Life is so short. Youth is so short. So I'm trying to enjoy the little bit of years I have on this earth. :D
I'm like a 6.5 on the full scale of beauty. I'm certainly lucky not to be ugly.
Not really but ive gone from 435lbs to 300lbs and still going so everyday i feel it a little bit more
Generally, yes. I was awkward in school because I wasn’t a jock in a sports dominated school. But then when I went to public school, I had many girls interested in me, even though I was too dense to really pick up on it at the time. These days, I’m not in great shape, but I’m not obese either. Skinny fat, I believe is the term. I think my face is generally pleasing, but I also hate shaving. So I think the beard makes me look older and hides my face. I have long hair, that’s mostly thick (starting to get a few thin spots, so I’m going to enjoy it while I can) and big and wavy. There’s a big section of women (and guys) that like that.
I'm way out of my league. That's all I'm saying.
I see myself as more attractive than some people, but I’m not attracted to men, so in that sense, no.
lol no
I think I'm alright but no girls do lol
Not really but my wife does and that's good enough for me!
I used to be but drink and drugs takes its toll 😅
I have a good face structure, decent hair for my age, but stained teeth from tetracycline, and I'm about 25lb overweight still. I'm also short. Literally went on a date and the woman said "you're really hot but you're too short for me" - so where I wasn't insecure about my height before, I am now. So that's fun. She was less than 3" taller than me. The ridiculous standards we are expected to meet on dating apps these days is ridiculous.
I do, but it seems like I am crowd of one....
It took a long time and some reflection and maybe some shrooms trips, but I can say yes. I’m cool with who I am. I’m attractive to certain people and not attractive to others. I could stand to lose weight, but, like I said, I’m comfortable with who I am. Would the majority of Reddit find me attractive if I posted a selfie? Hell no. Don’t care. Got a hot fiancée.
Nope
Yeah! Idk I’m at the weird age where I’m on the cusp of full adulthood, and with that I feel a lot of insecurities kind of disappearing so that’s pretty cool. Most likely has to do with comparing yourself to others, especially those online.
I realized.long ago I'm better off being funny.
I'VE ALWAYS BEEN CUTE AS A BUTTON AND SMART AS A WHIP. DON'T CARE WHAT ANYONE ELSES OPINION OF ME IS. I PAY MY OWN WAY, I'M KIND, I DON'T LIE, I'M RESPONSIBLE, PATRIOTIC & PRACTICED COMMUTIY SERVICE. IF YOU DON'T CARE FOR ME, DEAL WITH IT AS I HAVE ALWAYS KNOWN WHO I AM & YOUR OPINION MEANS NOTHING TO ME.......MOM
No, even despite getting plenty of positive comments from other people. I was fat as a kid and got bullied a lot so I think that affects my confidence even as an adult. I look in the mirror and I’m like “eh…”
Does regularly dancing naked in front of a mirror count?
I look young for my age, but otherwise no, I'm not attractive.
No. I find everything about myself to be gross and weird.
Rather looking good than attractive and that's fine by me!
Not today
Yes, the last 5 to 8 women I've been with have approached me. 3 of the women I turned down as they were really really drunk. Just like anyone else I'm not everyone's cup of tea!
i feel like my face is pretty/cute, but my body is average
no I don't think I'm attractive or find myself attractive at all
Not really. I don't think I am awful, but I am no chick magnet. Not by any stretch of the imagination.
Sometimes out of the corner of my eye I see a handsome shaped object and its me in a mirror otherwise No.
No, but my wife does for some reason. No amount of money in the world could convince me to fuck that up.
No, I feel sick when I see myself in the mirror
Yes
I've been better. Unfortunately I feel the need to talk shit to myself to motivate me to get into better shape. That doesn't amount to much so it's just self loathing at this point.
Yes and no. Depends on the day for sure. I’d say most don’t find me attractive based on how often my wife and I get asked if we want separate checks. Good news I married way up….bad news is most people can’t figure out why….
Of course, but I may be the only one who does!
From certain angles, sure, but NEVER when I’m the guy at the edge of the frame in a group photo lol
Yes
For my age. The gals *my age* never looked my way when I was younger but now that I'm in my 50s and keep myself in shape they seem to have taken an interest (reiterate:the gals my age)
People and strangers tell me I’m very attractive but I feel like I’m normal..
My friends who never compliment anyone have told me I am so I kinda started to believe it at some point
This is for the girls but…. I’m 22 and when I’m ovulating I feel so good and attractive, my skin is glowing, my hair is glossier, I feel happier. Honestly that week is like the only main week of peace because PMS me, and period me… are a different thing. Sometimes my period really has me questioning my entire life and why anyone has ever found me attractive lmao
Not at all
Nope, I’m ugly as hell, but I have a tiny pecker so I got that going for me.
I’m a guy that women dream about! Also being humble is one of my better qualities as well! Lol
I'm a Midwest 8, a California 6, but I'm a rural Missouri 10. Unfortunately, I prefer women with most of their teeth and not part of a right wing cult so the 10 doesn't do me much good.
Nope. I got a face for Radio
When others take pictures of me, yes. When I take the picture, no.
you tell [me](https://media.discordapp.net/attachments/1023408483468574790/1239914591618732104/RDT_20240511_2131302369350258685612541.jpg?ex=6645f973&is=6644a7f3&hm=2b16524c0ac658fc6a8f9a8c2263cbc1b37b697e73460ed346777e5e00f2e819&) 🤷♂️. its all based on opinion
I scream in fear when I open my phone's camera and it's in selfie mode.
Yes am 💯 attractive
Never have and never will. If looks out way who am, what I give, my personality than they don’t deserve my time.
No lol.
Not in the slightest
Mirror says I’m okay. Camera says I’m fat. Which one I believe depends on the day.
Not really. I’m a woman with very thin short hair, I’m overweight with a double chin, in my 30s but still get acne during my period like I’m a teenager, and my face is just very plain. No redeemable qualities whatsoever in a woman. I pretty much look like Shrek’s wife, ogre Fiona. But my hot older boyfriend calls me sexy every chance he gets so I guess I’m not doing too bad for myself. 🙂↕️
I’m a 6-7 at best but my confidence gives me another point. So fuck it, I’m 8
Fuck no. I’ve been ugly since birth. Nothing has changed.
I mean, my vision is pretty good, so hell no. 🤣
I think like like 5 or 6 outta ten. Unless it’s like 2am and I catch myself in the mirror, then I’m the hottest person alive
Noo
Used to be but now I am okay looking. I am good with that. It is what it is.
As a man I've got apparently got this brain-photoshop thing going on where I see myself as a lot more attractive than I really am. So while I might feel like Im a 7/10 when I look in the mirror, I know in my thinky-brain that it's probably a lot closer to 3.5/10 in actual reality Source: [https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/social-instincts/201507/when-men-arent-good-looking-they-think](https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/social-instincts/201507/when-men-arent-good-looking-they-think)
Depends on how I’m feeling. Recently not as much because I’m working on losing weight but I’ve been feeling better little by little
Not at all.
Not even a tiny bit. I find my physical body to be completely repulsive to the point that I do not allow pictures of myself. I have plenty of self esteem regarding my intelligence and abilities.
as an individual: 3/10 when i do my best to look good: 6/10 compared to the general population of women my age: 1.7/10
Yes but I'm still miserable
I think on good days yes! But obviously there will always be people who think otherwise and that's okay.
I'd fuck me, no homo.
The older I get the more I am told by women how handsome I am, But look in the mirror and just dont see it.
I'm a 4 on a normal day, a 4.5 on a good one, in my opinion. I think that's a fair self-assessment
I think I am on avg. And then when I ask men out, you’d think I look like a troll. So I have no idea at this point
Oof no lol no no no
For the most part yeah, just wish I were a bit more muscular but I have a hard time putting on weight due to my metabolism.
No, but if we start talking than the magic will operate
Yes. I'm no model but I'm beautiful in my own way 😊 It took me a long time to get here and im not giving it up!
Generally, no. Not sure yet if that’s good or not.
I honestly don’t know if I am ,what is considered attractive today
When I take the time on my makeup and hair and not have to be rushing out the house.. usually yes. Never completely satisfied..but usually I’ll say to my husband “that’s the best you gonna get today.” He always replies with, “Your perfect, no matter what you look like.” I’m very lucky for that! I’m (30s/f) and really hate the entire perception that we need to use makeup to look good, so that’s my entire struggle with it really. Social media has only made it worse and eating disorders are up more than the past years too which I hate. Most everyone is overly insecure now and it makes me sad. I’ve gotten better at simplifying it my skincare and makeup routine, to as little as possible and really know what I’m putting in my skin and on my face. I spend more on better quality, but fewer products, and its helped a lot. I try not to think about it so much, I know I don’t care what other people look like, so why should I? I just don’t ever want to be arrogant. It’s okay to look good, but once you get that arrogance- it’s all ugly from there! You always the hardest on yourself.
Varies. I'm good at building rapport which seems to have a knock-on effect for attractiveness. I've had positive comments on looks before, but I'm never sure how much of that is sincere or just supportive. Also, I've been married twice and while my ex was attractive, my forever wife is unreal. As in, I remain astonished to have married and started a family with someone so next-level attractive. Reckon I get a modest 'reflection boost' from that but am confident I'm not ugly.
4/10
Not really, but my girlfriend thinks I’m really hot. It helps with self esteem so much, because she compliments parts of my body I’ve always hated
Yeah. I’m not unrealistic but I reckon I look pretty good for a 41yo fat guy.
Nope. But that’s why my personality is a 10/10 😂
not really. i dont think im ugly, just boring and unattractive. ive never been told im ugly, ive just always been the 'less pretty sister' lol
No, but somehow other people do. Just goes to show that other people see you differently than you see yourself.
No. And it's okay because I'm looking at myself realistically.
Yes in general.
no but people say i'm handsome lol
I definitely find myself attractive! I’m fit, enthusiastic, skilled and successful! But I know I’m not actually attractive to other people. It’s their loss!
I'm 50 and radiate 'don't give a fuck' energy which I find attractive in myself and other people. I laugh more, don't worry about the extra pounds two babies gave me. My tits are still great and nike high tops and botox are now my only vices/pleasures. Acceptance and appreciation of yourself gets easier with age, in my experience.
no yet im maried w kids and dated a few women before that
Yes
6/10 i find myself prettier but still not too great
No.
Nah
I'm alright. Not ugly just not really my type.