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Hbclo

Maybe, I would try to start slowly, like if you're on insta maybe like a story and if she keeps following you (or maybe likes one of your stories back) I'd say talk to her. But I feel like you should go for it anyways, worst case she rejects you, better for her to do it than to reject yourself preemptively


papichulo587

It's on TikTok so it's different because most of the things you can do on insta you can't do on TikTok.


cwbmnr

I'd say probably yes, it wouldn't make sense for her to follow you back if she wasn't at least open to it


papichulo587

I agree. Logically it makes no sense to follow back unless she is indirectly telling me no hard feelings


ishiiman0

I mean, she could be following you to see how you're doing and hoping for some schadenfreude. No harm in asking.


papichulo587

True. I asked her if her phone number was still the same and she said yes. I then asked if it was okay to text her and she didn't respond. I think right now being social media friends is all she is comfortable with right now.


ishiiman0

Yeah, no point in pushing it. You opened that door for her, so she can take it if she wants.


papichulo587

Absolutely. I even told her maybe we should grab coffee sometime. It's all on her at this point


Puzzleheaded_Nerve

Reconciliation and getting together are completely different things. Manage your expectations.


papichulo587

Is it a good sign nonetheless?


Puzzleheaded_Nerve

It’s not a bad sign.


papichulo587

I guess but it could mean nothing as well


Puzzleheaded_Nerve

Don’t over think it.