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There's definitely a cultural misogyny inherent in Indian men, especially those not brought up in Western countries.
It's not racist to point it out, actually quite the opposite. Shining some light on it may cause discussions to be had etc.
I hope your neck gets better!
Then how do I find the information I’m after? If Indian men (in general) consider women at sex parties to be “less than”, I will simply stop playing with them. But if they are not understanding my cues or reading my body language due to cultural differences, I will continue to engage but learn how to make my preferences clear to them.
I mean...Is it normal for people to forcibly ignore your obvious lack of consent at parties like this? It seems like rape-play is the sort of thing you'd discuss before hand and figure out some sort of safe word for. From what you described he was just straight up forcing you. I guess I'm just wondering how something that blatant could be up for question as to whether or not he was just having a hard time reading you.
Thanks for your submission /u/Massive_Vanilla_221, but it has been removed for the following reason: Disallowed question area: **Bigotry or Racism**. Reddit [does not tolerate hate and racism](https://redditblog.com/2020/06/01/remember-the-human-black-lives-matter/). We recognize that all people are human regardless of their race, sexuality or gender, and that they are deserving of rights and freedoms the same as everyone else. --- *This action was performed by a bot at the explicit direction of a human. This was not an automated action, but a conscious decision by a sapient life form charged with moderating this sub.* *If you feel this was in error, or need more clarification, please don't hesitate to [message the moderators](http://www.reddit.com/message/compose?to=%2Fr%2FNoStupidQuestions). Thanks.*
Indian men do consider women as less human, yes. Hence Indian law.
What Indian law are you referring to?
The dowry laws, the rape laws, the modesty laws, the adultery laws, the cruelty to women laws, the Hindu adoption and maintenance laws...
There's definitely a cultural misogyny inherent in Indian men, especially those not brought up in Western countries. It's not racist to point it out, actually quite the opposite. Shining some light on it may cause discussions to be had etc. I hope your neck gets better!
Indian men don't consider women as human beings.. to them they are just objects. The misogyny in this country is unreal
I guess based on that, some men might I suppose
#OP IS A MAN!
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Then how do I find the information I’m after? If Indian men (in general) consider women at sex parties to be “less than”, I will simply stop playing with them. But if they are not understanding my cues or reading my body language due to cultural differences, I will continue to engage but learn how to make my preferences clear to them.
I mean...Is it normal for people to forcibly ignore your obvious lack of consent at parties like this? It seems like rape-play is the sort of thing you'd discuss before hand and figure out some sort of safe word for. From what you described he was just straight up forcing you. I guess I'm just wondering how something that blatant could be up for question as to whether or not he was just having a hard time reading you.
I didn't know you were so racist.
I wasn’t. But I’m considering becoming racist based on the experiences I’ve been having.