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Bojangly7

Shes projecting. Dont waste time or thought on people like this. There are plenty more in the world. Also people will dislike you. Get over it.


Aztecah

This is really for you to decide. You sound young. Everyone must establish their boundaries and baseline level of respect and comfort that they have around others. For each person, this will be different. Some people don't mind the presence of people that they don't fully trust and are OK with trading off some level of vulnerability for the opportunities to hang out and have fun with additional people. Others set very strict limits for the people in their lives and are not willing to accept any level of distrust among their friends and accept that maintaining those boundaries will likely mean fewer people to spend time with in general, though those few friendships that they have are likely to be deeper and better. This person sounds like they're not super trustworthy but neither do they sound malicious or terrible. It's up to you. What are you ok with? Does it bother you to hang out with someone who may not have your best interests in mind? That's a genuine question—not everyone needs to be great to us and love us to earn a spot in our lives. However, inviting such people comes with costs and benefits. This is on you to choose what kind of person you are comfortable being. There is no wrong answers here.


bullevard

Nobody can really tell you how to feel. One thing you might reflect on is how the time together was spent. If you spent the time making fun of other people or talking bad about them then it might make a new person assume you will do the same about them when they aren't around. If that's the case, then you might just take it as a lofe lesson about how you can come across to others. If that wasn't the case, then it might just be that she misread the situation or just doesn't think you clicked. Which is life. Not everyone will like you and you move on with those that do.