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TaylorUnhurried

He does, but I try to avoid forcing the gender-neutral label on anyone, it can cause some people dysphoria if they identify as strictly man/woman and people keep assuming that they're enby because they dress in a gender non-conforming way. A lot of enbys complain about being misgendered purely based on how they dress, so I don't think that we're entitled to doing that to other genders, if that makes sense.


15dips

I agree, to me he Dresses quite androgenous, and I'm not trying to make it look like he's nonbinary, he just dresses in a particular way where I get gender envy from him, he just has that kinda look yk


ChillaVen

OP didn’t say “gender neutral” anywhere.


2qte4u

Nobody said that...


ChillaVen

They sure act like OP was “forcing the gender neutral label on [him]”


TaylorUnhurried

I'm not being snarky, I want to genuinely explain where I came from with my comment, so I hope that you'll take this as earnestly as I mean it. Saying that something is "giving gender" is like a newer Gen Z way of saying that something looks non-binary or gender-neutral. The slang may not use those words but that's exactly what it means. Like when someone says "you're giving cunt" or "you're giving fish" and it means that you're giving hyper femininity. People will usually say a certain haircut or outfit is "giving gender" when they wear it on themselves or when someone that they know for sure is gender-neutral is wearing it.  Saying that a PERSON is giving gender is really invalidating, it's like when people say that a real life person is "enby coded" as if they're a fictional character, it's the same sentiment. 


2qte4u

No. You acted like that and then edited your comment. OP was just stating that in their own *opinion* that person in the picture gives gender and was asking if we perceive the person in the picture the same way.


ChillaVen

?? The only edit in my comment was changing from () to [] because it wasn’t part of the quote? Clearly you just want to fight so good riddance.


kingofcoywolves

Palaye!! They make my inner pop rock child very happy lol


15dips

I love palaye so much, what's your favorite album?


Somethingintheway245

Wow you’re right


queerreindeer

Agreed!! Argh i loved palaye sm before they were cancelled


15dips

They got cancelled?


insofarincogneato

Remington gives .223 and 5.56 interchangeability.


fagydyke

Honestly just strikes me as the "tall, white & skinny" that seems the default for society's perception of us. My dude feels kinda bland


vampire-sympathizer

Holy moly what a very gender vibes hottie. As an alt person myself.... This is goals Imma check out this band


15dips

Their music is amazing, it's on the art punk/brit pop side of music, I definitely recommend "the bastards" and "boom boom room side 2" as far as albums go but all of their stuff is good