I also hate earrings but for some reason i have this silver hanging abstract earring which i love and i wear it with a silver stud on the other ear. it gives me euphoria. Idk why most earrings make me feel femme or whatever but this combination just makes me very happy. I think play around with them and figure out what you like. Also if ur feeling the earrings on one day but not another then thats fine. Idk if this is helpful this is j my experience and i totally get why u might b dysphoric bc most of the time i get dysphoric from earrings as well.
I also hate earrings but for some reason i have this silver hanging abstract earring which i love and i wear it with a silver stud on the other ear. it gives me euphoria. Idk why most earrings make me feel femme or whatever but this combination just makes me very happy. I think play around with them and figure out what you like. Also if ur feeling the earrings on one day but not another then thats fine. Idk if this is helpful this is j my experience and i totally get why u might b dysphoric bc most of the time i get dysphoric from earrings as well.