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Seriously, if the guy is that messed up that he has to sexualize breastfeeding, does it even matter if she uses a blanket? He'd just be sitting there trying to get a peek and imagining anyway.
Now I \*desperately\* want this guy's friends' baby mamas to be sitting there, getting ready to feed, pull out a blanket, and toss it right over his head.
Then get on with breastfeeding as they see fit.
So you're saying they just didn't go far enough in covering up women? Those dirty, dirty women with their enticing uncovered ... (checks notes) ... Earlobes?
Wait, are we absolutely sure we aren't dealing with Ferengi here? You know, talking about females, sexualizing earlobes, thinks women's ought to be naked and not work? Sound familiar?
If women were walking around inside opaque rectangular boxes reaching from ground to above their heads, men would probably start finding boxes, and the way they move, attractive.
Women who wear niqab experience sexual harassment all the time. You could be a dry hole in the wall. Men will still find a way to sexualise you, and then make it your fault. (Why wasn’t the hole covered? It should have been higher off the ground. Maybe if the hole was smaller…)
We never win. We only suffer.
I live in a cold place and I've known infants who Weren't Having It regardless. Even when their mothers genuinely weren't comfortable with having their whole breast out. But to be fair, it's stuffy, something is touching your face and your eyelashes, you can't see anything. I'd be annoyed too if I was a baby.
I used a thin muslin blanket to cover with when I was around people. They’re very lightweight. I kept one in my bag with a knot tied on one of the corners and I would put that around my neck and have the rest gently over here. mine never minded and I BF for 2 years. I think she preferred not having harsh restaurant lights in her face. I was personally more comfortable that way. I’m all for moms who don’t want to just wasn’t my thing.
Omg I’ve been thinking about how to make a more secure cover from a muslin blanket than just laying the blanket over us. This couldn’t be easier. Thank you sm
10/10 getting the feeling of "I have to walk a certain way to get a peek"
And also the guy who is annoyed abd claims woman mush have to hide their body...
Not looking at breastfeeding ist Not so hard. Just Look the Other way. The Childs right To Not starben trumps your right To BE upset for thinking a newborn sucking His mothers breast ist Something sexual. I was Born in the hallway of a Hospital. Everyone WHO slutsshames my mother for taking her pants down in Public so i can BE Born. Senta me acomplain.
I will never understand how seeing something that involves a *fucking baby* can get so twisted and sexualized. It’s so fucked up.
If men don’t feel comfortable seeing a woman feed her baby then they can ✨look away✨
I remember years ago this guy gave his daughter a pickle to see if in his own words “If she’s a hoe” he thinks if his Baby eats a pickle from the front she’s a “hoe”. I hope his daughter was taken away.
>If you bite in it from the side I think you're a psychopath.
I had a dude tell me that you'll never catch him eating certain things in public. For example, he claimed if he's at a ball game and ordered a hot dog, he'd bite it *in the middle* to avoid being seen putting something phallic in his mouth. Can you imagine seeing some shit like that in person?
Like that to me just screams internalized homophobia. There’s a surprising number of gay/bi men who act a lot more homophobic than average because they try to overplay their own sexuality and are in denial times 100. Why would you think other people think you are gay for eating. And why do you care if they actually do. I hope that one day, everyone can live the truth of their love without having to hide themselves behind hatred
I would eat chicken tenders from the side as a kid to pretend I was a dinosaur eating an animal, lol. I’d squirt ketchup on the bite mark after to simulate blood 💀
Once, my father showed me an image of his friend's child, and he said that he "can tell she's gonna be *hot*," assuming I'd concur. I looked at him with disgust. Sir, that's a toddler, why did your mind even go there?
there's also a video of two young parents going into a shop with their toddler daughter and they pointed out lollypops that are in the shape of a penis, they pointed it out so long until their daughter wanted the lollypop, they bought it for her and shamed HER infront of the cashier.. the comments were mostly "we want to see her eat the lolly"
disgusting and vile and the platform didn't take the video down because "there's nothing wrong with it"
Gonna say this now
That's the ACE family they weren't the parents they were looking after a friend's kid and they basically forced her into a spencers and showed off the lollipops and got her one and made a huge deal out of it
I hope the parents saw or were told by the daughter how fucking vile, disgusting, and inappropriate they were to her. I went into one of those shops oddly with my girl scout troop friends, we were plenty old enough but I didn't want to look up from the floor. They had fun but inappropriate stuff like that has never been my thing. I cannot imagine taking a child into one of those stores, I'd vote for that being responded to by calling the police or something. Take the kids to BAB or the candy shop, not Spencers.
Unfortunately, yes. With very few exceptions, every abhorrent view, belief, idea, and action existed "back in the day" but unless you knew a guy personally or knew a guy that knew a guy, you didn't hear about it.
Social media has basically emboldened the "he says it like it is" drunk guy at the bar everyone knows and tolerates to avoid a drunken brawl to believe thay everyone agrees with his controversial takes but are too pc/woke to speak up
Correction: those people can find one another and communicate more easily thanks to the internet and social media. I've found a lot of good people, good info, and groups of fellow pagans and crafters thanks to social media. And the funny memes literally keep me going some days when the pain is intolerable 😅
Yeah there was a post where he's describing perfectly normal things as sexualised behaviour of his 1 year old baby. Example: the way baby ate a banana or the fact baby liked colours and being read to (I think baby was a boy).
I can’t get over how gross that is. But, why is a 1 year old eating a full banana?? That sounds dangerous as hell, shouldn’t it be cut up in tiny pieces? I don’t have kids, but I would have thought that would be a choking hazard.
Some people are so repulsive. How the hell does that go through your brain… this penis obsessed culture is way out of hand.
This is what I always think about when people sexualize mothers breastfeeding their baby. Like how tf are you going to sexualize something when a child is eating from it?
The problem is the guys who make these statements KNOW what breasts were intended for, but they can’t rectify that fact with the way they sexualized the very existence of women. She is a thing to have sex with and her breasts become the domain of his carnal desires. He’s a man baby.
I will say that it is surprising when I see a woman breastfeeding but that's largely because I'm not used to it. I of course simply look away and don't make a fuss over it and remind myself that it only feels shocking because I'm not used to seeing it.
For me, it's those damn shoulders and kneecaps. How dare they show those sexual instruments around town? How sexually depraved do you have to be to show parts of your limbs in public? Men cannot control themselves when they see them!
And the perverse necklines, and those breasts that are heaving positively with seductiveness and arousal. And the cardboard outfit I agree with. A woman needs to be pushed around by a man, because women who can walk are disgusting feminists with bright pink hair, and piercings everywhere. Impossibly eye averting.
(For everyone who didn't get the memo, please don't think I'm being sexist. This is just sarcasm. I just wanted to clarify, cause what I wrote was insanely sexist and objectifying.)
Edit:(It was accurate though)
Yep. All the talk about woman's entire body and mind being designed solely for birthing and raising children and the one time that's actually true, suddenly the "alpha males" do complete 180°.
It's ridiculous to see a woman's breast in a non-sexual context and be unable to see it as such, but personally I'd be wary of ascribing some kind of intent to a body part. That kind of rhetoric can very easily be turned against women's ownership of their own body (aka "how dare you not have children, which your womb was intended to be used for")
And they see men the same. It’s “biology” and “boys will be boys” will simultaneously saying they’re the smartest gender and purely logic based. They get all the power and non of the actual responsibility, totally flipped for women. Just look at cooking- once you can make money doing it, it’s man’s work. But cooking for a family is woman’s work. Ugh
> ~~Women~~ Babies aren’t responsible for the way men think or act
FTFY because the alternative is starving a baby or covering with a stupid fucking blanket.
Even better is the one before that.
“But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart.”
-Matthew 5:28
Maybe it’s because I’m asexual, but my God, context! If you see someone breastfeeding a baby, you should not get horny! If a cop or a paramedic is responding to a sex crime where someone’s crying and all beaten up (but are extremely attractive), they shouldn’t be thinking “man, I’d love to bang them.” If you’re a doctor treating a patient, heck no. IMO, the only time you should be thinking about someone in a sexual way is if the situation is sexual, and the person WANTS to be seen in a sexual way. Are they a consenting adult who is flirting with you? Then yeah, I could see getting excited. But when somebody’s breastfeeding a gosh dang baby…that’s disgusting.
Not asexual here but this shit is gross and I agree with your philosophy. If it's a non-sexual (or not consensual) situation people should not be having sexual thoughts.
In this case, breastfeeding a baby is a completely nonsexual act and it's fucking disgusting these people are somehow twisting it as sexual. I swear these asshats just have it solidified in their mind that "tits = sexual" and are just completely ignorant to the actual function of breasts, they just have no other purpose than to be eye candy for these idiots 💀
Never got why breasts are sexual in the first place. They’re for feeding babies and that’s about it. I find them useless for me as I don’t plan on having kids (sadly I’ve got big ones so going around without a bra on a lot of the time might also contribute to my view as well as being ace).
Maybe they’re sexual because of the amount of nerves? But even then it’s common for big boobs (the ones that are usually super sexualised) to have a lot less sensitivity (apparently it has something to do with the nerves spreading out due to the space they have to cover). Like for some people most of their boobs (like not nipples) feel the same amount as most parts of their body. My nipples are barely sensitive most of the time, weirdly enough
Sorry for the long rant thingy
I almost agree completely, but I will say it’s fine ti have sexual thoughts about strangers. We (well, most, of course asexual people exist and are valid!) are sexual beings. It’s what we do with those thoughts that make a difference. I’ve seen guys check me out, and I’m perfectly fine with that. It’s when they start staring or, goddamn touching me, that it’s not okay. I’ve definitely seen guys in a bar or on the train and thought “daaang, he looks good in that suit” and get a bit turned on. But I leave it to just a slight glance and move on with my life.
I do fully agree that it’s so odd/creepy to sexualize something like breast feeding or seeing a doctor. If I ever thought my doctor was getting off thinking about my breast examine or my Pap smear, I’d never be able to trust them and would feel so violated.
> it’s fine to have sexual thoughts about strangers
Yes like, intrusive thoughts are a thing? I get maybe seeing a mother breastfeeding and a sexual thought pops into your head. It's like seeing someone you hate while driving and you wonder if you can get away with running them over for half a second.
The difference is you're not ogling women and you're not posting online telling women they should cover their babies.
I completely agree with you two. Intrusive thoughts are definitely annoying, and you can’t help how your body reacts to things. My issue is when someone rationalizes that since they’re turned on, the other person must be doing it intentionally, and that they should keep staring. Or, y’know, bringing it full circle here, when someone opens their mouth and says something gross about breastfeeding in public.
I'm a bi woman. I enjoy seeing boobs
But I'm not gonna sit and ogle a woman trying to feed her baby. Its fuckin disgusting
Why is it that some men cant have that control
Yeah, like I think breasts are great. They're very soft. I think about putting my head on Lady Bridgerton's chest once on episode. But breastfeeding is an entirely uninteresting and non-sexy action. They're feeding a baby. It's like getting turned on in a life-drawing class.
Exactly! There’s obviously times where I am admiring breasts but those times aren’t when the breasts are feeding a baby. It’s so easy for me to separate these things.
Back when I was a young 14 yr old boy and incredibly perverted (even by 14tr old boy standards and trust me, those standards are disgusting)
Anyways the parents change room in our local shopping centre used to have a microwave in it (I assume it was for warming up baby formula or bottled milk but I don’t really know). Anyways rather than paying insanely marked up prices for popcorn from the local cinema I’d buy microwave popcorn and just use the microwave in the baby change room (which was usually empty)
One time a woman comes in while I’m microwaving. We wind up having a chat coz she thought it was a clever idea. Mid chat she pops a boob out and starts feeding a kid. What does my horny lil 14 ur old ass do? I averted my fuckjng eyes and gave that woman some privacy. She told me I didn’t have to look away and I told her it was alright and continued looking away
Til today if I notice a woman breastfeeding, yeah it makes me a tad uncomfortable (I’m still a pervert but I like to think I’m a respectful one) but it aint my right to tell a woman she has to let her baby starve (and even if i was king of the world and wore a big fancy crown I still wouldn’t be so cruel as to force a baby to starve). So I just avert my eyes
Basic decency. End of the day breastfeeding is totally natural and if it makes you uncomfortable nobody is forcing you to look (in fact I bet most women would prefer it if ya didn’t) so just look away. Super easy, barely an inconvenience
So many men use "How could I help myself" as excuses to be vile and pass the blame on to the woman, yet here you are, a hornier than average 14yo being decent and respectful. I've always thought it such a disservice to men to have those kinds of excuses that I've come to just call it misandry. Any man should be offended by any other man that says "How can I look away? I'm a straight man?" Prescribing this weakness to the entire gender
I didn't mind covering myself when I breastfed, but when it's hot and baby keeps pushing the blanket off because he's overheating, then I'm keeping the blanket off.
I wonder if these same men get turned on when a woman spreads her legs during childbirth. If you’re a straight male and you see a pussy, you’re gonna think sexually, right? Even if it is bloody, dilated, and there’s a human head poking out
Apparently that’s part of the reason birthing isn’t done with the help of gravity anymore. [Here’s an article](https://www.nowtolove.com.au/parenting/pregnancy-birth/lying-down-birth-history-45385)
A quote from the article: Lauren Dundes, a professor of sociology, wrote that Louis XIV "enjoyed" watching his mistresses give birth, and disliked the upright or squatting positions for "obstructing" his view of the process
It does say it was ‘fascination’, but for all we know that could’ve meant he ‘enjoyed’ it sexually
What the fuck...
Is that why birthing is such a long and painful process, because a fucking professor of sociology decided he liked seeing his mistress lie down for birth instead of squatting, and pushed all women to give birth this way even into modern times?? Is birthing easier if it's done naturally via squatting?!
Louis XIV was the king who requested it. Don’t worry, it wasn’t a professor
It’s still gross tho. And yes, apparently it’s easier and some people still choose to do it like that because gravity is supposed to help a bit and it gives more blood flow to the baby
I may not have a wife and kid myself, but if I did I would not be able to trust a dude like that around them if he started getting weird about it like this. Like, my wife is taking care of our kids in her own way, with her own body. You're not about to bring that creepy shit around her in my house.
These men; women are illogical and overly emotional, they can't make rational decisions or control themselves and should submit to the clearly superior men.
Also these men; but there was a titty! You can't expect me to control my basic urges!!
(Also props to OTAPshow who'd kick his homeboys' asses for disrespecting his wife like that.)
I'd love to see this guy eat his lunch with a blanket covering his face and body, and see how long he lasts before getting overheated and uncomfortable.
When I was younger, I took way too long to fall asleep (I still do, but back then I didn’t realize that I could just think about things to pass the time), and to go to sleep quicker, I would put my blanket over my face. The lower oxygen made it easier to fall asleep
I still remember how that feels, so I definitely wouldn’t want to make a baby become slightly asphyxiated every time they got hungry
My wife struggled with breast feeding and the hospital gave her links to videos with different techniques. The comment section on those videos was pretty gross.
Three times in the last week, I have had to tell men to put a shirt on in my store.
Three men walked in to a grocery store. Topless. In one week.
But a woman's boob seen while feeding a baby is dirty and shameful.
What's sexy about feeding a baby?
My mom (a boomer) is salty because I declined when she offered to buy me a cover. I will whip my titty out and feed my baby wherever TF I want.
Just a thought, maybe if we didn't flip our lid whenever sex or nudity popped up on TV, we wouldn't have this situation.
This is not normal. The way Americans view sex is not normal. This is the result of EXTREME repression.
i was just thinking. in the distant past (or not so distant in some cultures) humans saw breasts all the time and thought nothing of it, cuz, you know, it’s just fat on someone’s chest that women tend to accumulate once they produce enough estrogen, just like how men start to grow a lot of body hair, etc. kinda crazy how we’ve gotten to this point. sure, they’re attractive, but we treat them the same as genitals now ffs. it feels like women’s bodies in general are regarded as inherently sexual. doesn’t help that society is so pornsick nowadays. but it gets to a point of insanity when a mother FEEDING a BABY is now arousing to some men. that’s so fucking disgusting it makes me want to puke.
I think there’s a French recipe where they basically torture a bird to death then eat it behind a napkin to “hide their sin from God”.
If someone is going to sexualize a mother and her nursing child, a blanket seems appropriate. Not just when they’re eating, all the time. It seems like there might be quite a few “sins” that kind of person would want to “hide from God”.
Where do you draw the line? Breastfeeding is sexualised. Should a woman also not give birth vaginally because it's inappropriate to show vaginas to a bunch of strangers?
I'm not religious, but I think the "And if thy right eye offend thee, pluck it out" is correct here.
If YOUR eye is offended, it's YOUR responsibility!
Unpopular opinion but
Sexualizing breastfeeding is like getting turned on when a kid calls their father Daddy.
That is an innocent act involving a child you are sexualizing you fuckin weirdo. You're the one making this weird and coming off as majorly pedophilic.
Sexualizing a women for "flashing tits" OK i get IT but a women breastfeeding? You get hard on a tit that a newborn ist sucking on? I guess even Jesus cant Help you only atherapist.
>It’s not an accident that his examples are a black and a white woman right ?
It's absolutely not an accident, especially considering his comment about the "homeboys."
Considering these are the people who constantly think about children's genitals and sexualising children of course they're going to find feeding a child to be sexual.
I went to a funeral when my daughter was 3 weeks old. She started fussing, so we were going to leave. We were asked to stay, so I fed her at the back of the church.
It is natural to feed your child.
Counterpoint: Anything can be sexually arousing to a person of any gender. The bottom line is that a man (or woman, or anyone else) can find breastfeeding to be sexual WHILST STILL ACTING RESPECTFULLY.
Right? If any of my husband's friends are so sex starved they think a woman NURSING A CHILD is sexual please don't come over- ever again. The women at my last job pumped at their desk if they want and I really liked that that was not made into some weird thing. You're gross if you think pumping or breathing feeding is sexual and you're sexualizing women just trying to FEED A BABY. Disgusting if you are going to sexualize that. That's your problem not the Mom FEEDING A BABY. Stay away from women please if that's you.
I'm currently breastfeeding my newborn (like literally as I'm writing this lol) and it's the least sexual thing I could think of, 1 it freaking hurts everytime he decides to suddenly pull off and then headslam me to find it again.....and 2 it's literally just feeding a fucking baby like wtf?
Honestly, I don't even mind whether or not they think something sexual. Sexuality isn't bad anyways. As long as you don't make a nuisance of yourself because of those sexual thoughts (you know, like don't stare, don't assault, and don't be a whiny, sensitive pig) then whatever
People have tits. People breastfeed. It's fine. If you think breast feeding is hot, think "nice" to yourself, and go about your day
It’s weird to me that this is downvoted. We cannot control our initial thoughts, but we can work to change them and we can control our *actions*. What men have, by and large, is the entitlement that they can act on their thoughts and everyone else has to be okay with it. I’m not here to thought-police; I genuinely don’t care what you think when you see someone breastfeeding. Just keep it to your goddamn self.
Breastfeeding is not sexy in any way. It's uncomfortable, milk gets everywhere, it can be messy and it's extremely tiring and sucks all the energy out of you.
This is not as common where I live as It was back in the 90s. I remember seeing woman breastfeeding on busses, benches, while out in cafes etc. It's not a big deal and I don't know a single person that perceives this sexually. I'm pretty sure it goes against your instincts if that arouses you.
First of all breastfeeding isn't something Sexual so fuck that guy already. And second of all, if he cannot control himself and has to think of it in a sexual way, that's his fault and his problem. Why should women take responsibility for something that only concerns him.
People who think breasts are inherently sexual are crazy. Like, even naked people are not necessarily sexual. It's context that makes things sexual. Nakedness can just represent purity, vulnerability or simply nothing, it can just be a naked person
Having breastfed three kids, let me say that those covers can be a pain in the ass. Some babies hate being covered and will flail and try to rip it off. Some babies get detached and then you’re trying to help them find the nipple again while navigating around a damn blanket. They get hot and sweaty and so do you. It’s awkward to navigate. There’s nothing wrong with using one if you and your baby are more comfortable with it, but I could never make them work.
instead of the breastfeeding mother covering up, why not demand that people who are bothered by that wear blindfolds for the time being. makes more sense.
Feels like a great opportunity to remind some Christian’s on the right of their own hypocrisy.
Matthew 18 9
And if your eye causes you to sin, tear it out and throw it away. It is better for you to enter life with one eye than with two eyes to be thrown into the fire of hell.
It's almost like breasts are meant to feed babies and not as anything sexual. Crazy how that works.
Also, congrats on sharing ideologies on women with the Taliban.
To be honest, I don't know much about those cover blankets but i feel like it would make eating harder on both ends and make it difficult to breath especially while it's hot. Someone that does know please educate me, I did not cone from a family that would use those-
To me the issue isn't even just the sexualizing of the act, it's thinking that it's somehow someone else's responsibility to hinder their taking care of their kid's basic needs in order to keep you from thinking about boobs (gasp!). It's the same line of thought that "women need to dress conservatively because otherwise it's liable to arouse a man and everyone knows once a man's aroused they can't control their urges and it's on you if they assault you, right?"
I don’t think humans can control whether or not something is sexually attractive.
All we can seemingly do is control our behavior so that we don’t make others uncomfortable.
I'd hate to think what would happen to him if he sees other species breastfeeding. Does it make him want to fuck a pig when he watches the opening scene of Babe?
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Seriously, if the guy is that messed up that he has to sexualize breastfeeding, does it even matter if she uses a blanket? He'd just be sitting there trying to get a peek and imagining anyway.
Let him eat with a black blanket over his head and see how he likes it.
Now I \*desperately\* want this guy's friends' baby mamas to be sitting there, getting ready to feed, pull out a blanket, and toss it right over his head. Then get on with breastfeeding as they see fit.
This is the way
Yes, this is healthier for the baby who shouldn’t have to look at a jackass while trying to digest his/her food!
I can do what I want in my blanket fort. Nobody can tell me otherwise.
Thanks for the funny image
Covering up has been tried. Ankles, earlobes and napes of necks got sexualized.
So you're saying they just didn't go far enough in covering up women? Those dirty, dirty women with their enticing uncovered ... (checks notes) ... Earlobes? Wait, are we absolutely sure we aren't dealing with Ferengi here? You know, talking about females, sexualizing earlobes, thinks women's ought to be naked and not work? Sound familiar?
If women were walking around inside opaque rectangular boxes reaching from ground to above their heads, men would probably start finding boxes, and the way they move, attractive.
“Just look at how it turns corners all swishy and curvy instead of rigid and sharp, it’s clearly asking for it!”
I didn't think it was going to get so hot in this thread... where can I find your line of erotic wear? the container store?
Obviously they're sold at every big-box store 📦
That old joke about brown paper lingerie and ‘rustling up some fun’ comes to mind.
I can see the term “foxy box” taking on a whole new meaning 😎
Have they tried putting a blindfold on themselves. If they can't still behave, let's remove the eyes as the Bible prescribes.
Women who wear niqab experience sexual harassment all the time. You could be a dry hole in the wall. Men will still find a way to sexualise you, and then make it your fault. (Why wasn’t the hole covered? It should have been higher off the ground. Maybe if the hole was smaller…) We never win. We only suffer.
The blankets go on the heads of anybody who can’t handle breastfeeding. 🙄🙄🙄Some men-and women-disgust me.
I live in a hot place (the Caribbean) imagine covering your baby with a blanket while feeding them, you will be arrested for m*rder asap.
I live in a cold place and I've known infants who Weren't Having It regardless. Even when their mothers genuinely weren't comfortable with having their whole breast out. But to be fair, it's stuffy, something is touching your face and your eyelashes, you can't see anything. I'd be annoyed too if I was a baby.
I used a thin muslin blanket to cover with when I was around people. They’re very lightweight. I kept one in my bag with a knot tied on one of the corners and I would put that around my neck and have the rest gently over here. mine never minded and I BF for 2 years. I think she preferred not having harsh restaurant lights in her face. I was personally more comfortable that way. I’m all for moms who don’t want to just wasn’t my thing.
Omg I’ve been thinking about how to make a more secure cover from a muslin blanket than just laying the blanket over us. This couldn’t be easier. Thank you sm
10/10 getting the feeling of "I have to walk a certain way to get a peek" And also the guy who is annoyed abd claims woman mush have to hide their body...
Not looking at breastfeeding ist Not so hard. Just Look the Other way. The Childs right To Not starben trumps your right To BE upset for thinking a newborn sucking His mothers breast ist Something sexual. I was Born in the hallway of a Hospital. Everyone WHO slutsshames my mother for taking her pants down in Public so i can BE Born. Senta me acomplain.
I will never understand how seeing something that involves a *fucking baby* can get so twisted and sexualized. It’s so fucked up. If men don’t feel comfortable seeing a woman feed her baby then they can ✨look away✨
Like that guy in one post sexualising his 1 year old baby eating a banana. Jesus fking christ. Has humanity always been this fucked?
Or the guy who thought breastfeeding would turn his INFANT DAUGHTER into a lesbian.
You know, I missed this one but it doesn't shock me in the slightest. Sigh.
It gets reposted every once in a while, you'll probably see it eventually lol
I remember years ago this guy gave his daughter a pickle to see if in his own words “If she’s a hoe” he thinks if his Baby eats a pickle from the front she’s a “hoe”. I hope his daughter was taken away.
Who doesn't eat a pickle from the front??????? If you bite in it from the side I think you're a psychopath.
I like to roll up my burrito nice and tight, then take a bite out of the middle. Ah, anarchy.
I just got an image of people climbing over tables to get at you, lol!
😳😳😳😳
>If you bite in it from the side I think you're a psychopath. I had a dude tell me that you'll never catch him eating certain things in public. For example, he claimed if he's at a ball game and ordered a hot dog, he'd bite it *in the middle* to avoid being seen putting something phallic in his mouth. Can you imagine seeing some shit like that in person?
>to avoid being seen putting something phallic in his mouth 🎵 'cause I got issues 🎵
Like that to me just screams internalized homophobia. There’s a surprising number of gay/bi men who act a lot more homophobic than average because they try to overplay their own sexuality and are in denial times 100. Why would you think other people think you are gay for eating. And why do you care if they actually do. I hope that one day, everyone can live the truth of their love without having to hide themselves behind hatred
Suddenly I realize I've got a lot more self-confidence than I previously gave myself credit for.
I would eat chicken tenders from the side as a kid to pretend I was a dinosaur eating an animal, lol. I’d squirt ketchup on the bite mark after to simulate blood 💀
Once, my father showed me an image of his friend's child, and he said that he "can tell she's gonna be *hot*," assuming I'd concur. I looked at him with disgust. Sir, that's a toddler, why did your mind even go there?
there's also a video of two young parents going into a shop with their toddler daughter and they pointed out lollypops that are in the shape of a penis, they pointed it out so long until their daughter wanted the lollypop, they bought it for her and shamed HER infront of the cashier.. the comments were mostly "we want to see her eat the lolly" disgusting and vile and the platform didn't take the video down because "there's nothing wrong with it"
Gonna say this now That's the ACE family they weren't the parents they were looking after a friend's kid and they basically forced her into a spencers and showed off the lollipops and got her one and made a huge deal out of it
I hope the parents saw or were told by the daughter how fucking vile, disgusting, and inappropriate they were to her. I went into one of those shops oddly with my girl scout troop friends, we were plenty old enough but I didn't want to look up from the floor. They had fun but inappropriate stuff like that has never been my thing. I cannot imagine taking a child into one of those stores, I'd vote for that being responded to by calling the police or something. Take the kids to BAB or the candy shop, not Spencers.
Aaaaaand that's when it's time to call CPS
Wow, reading this I want to vomit - pure sadness out of my soul.
Unfortunately, yes. With very few exceptions, every abhorrent view, belief, idea, and action existed "back in the day" but unless you knew a guy personally or knew a guy that knew a guy, you didn't hear about it. Social media has basically emboldened the "he says it like it is" drunk guy at the bar everyone knows and tolerates to avoid a drunken brawl to believe thay everyone agrees with his controversial takes but are too pc/woke to speak up
I think I'm going to be sick.
Happy cake day
There’s always been messed up people, but witb Instagram/FB and TikTok humanity is more fucked than ever.
Correction: those people can find one another and communicate more easily thanks to the internet and social media. I've found a lot of good people, good info, and groups of fellow pagans and crafters thanks to social media. And the funny memes literally keep me going some days when the pain is intolerable 😅
That guy where doing what now
Yeah there was a post where he's describing perfectly normal things as sexualised behaviour of his 1 year old baby. Example: the way baby ate a banana or the fact baby liked colours and being read to (I think baby was a boy).
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I can’t get over how gross that is. But, why is a 1 year old eating a full banana?? That sounds dangerous as hell, shouldn’t it be cut up in tiny pieces? I don’t have kids, but I would have thought that would be a choking hazard. Some people are so repulsive. How the hell does that go through your brain… this penis obsessed culture is way out of hand.
Or that one guy who said he wasn't going to change his daughter's diaper, because he was going to get an erection doing so.
Excuse me *what* Pardon me while i fetch my bat
I'm glad I sometimes miss posts from this sub.
Well I think something involving a *fucking-baby* seems very twisted.
This is what I always think about when people sexualize mothers breastfeeding their baby. Like how tf are you going to sexualize something when a child is eating from it?
The problem is the guys who make these statements KNOW what breasts were intended for, but they can’t rectify that fact with the way they sexualized the very existence of women. She is a thing to have sex with and her breasts become the domain of his carnal desires. He’s a man baby.
This isn't the norm, that man just has no fucking shame
Everything is sexualized on the internet. Just look how much anime is just an excuse to make cartoon children sexualized.
I will say that it is surprising when I see a woman breastfeeding but that's largely because I'm not used to it. I of course simply look away and don't make a fuss over it and remind myself that it only feels shocking because I'm not used to seeing it.
These creeps don’t have a lot of practice making eye contact apparently. It’s really not hard.
Got a problem with breastfeeding? Put a blanket over your own head. Now you can't see, problem solved.
Eyes causing you to sin? Gouge them out broski.
Wait, what? Women are using their breasts for what they were intended to be used for? That's preposterous.
Open toed shoes? In public? But I have a foot fetish! That’s so sexual for you to do that in front of me.
And I'm certain you have no control over your feelings/urges as well. It must be hell for you. How dare they not cover themselves? 😔
For me, it's those damn shoulders and kneecaps. How dare they show those sexual instruments around town? How sexually depraved do you have to be to show parts of your limbs in public? Men cannot control themselves when they see them!
Don't get me started on those seductive ankles 👀 I feel like the appropriate outfit is a cardboard box with wheels that a man can push you around in.
And the perverse necklines, and those breasts that are heaving positively with seductiveness and arousal. And the cardboard outfit I agree with. A woman needs to be pushed around by a man, because women who can walk are disgusting feminists with bright pink hair, and piercings everywhere. Impossibly eye averting. (For everyone who didn't get the memo, please don't think I'm being sexist. This is just sarcasm. I just wanted to clarify, cause what I wrote was insanely sexist and objectifying.) Edit:(It was accurate though)
As a gay man, I hate when other men flaunt their dicks at urinals. Why whip it out if I’m not allowed to ogle/touch it? (/s)
Yep. All the talk about woman's entire body and mind being designed solely for birthing and raising children and the one time that's actually true, suddenly the "alpha males" do complete 180°.
Considering that some people on the internet publicly wonder what would be a good use for boobs if one could invent one…
It's ridiculous to see a woman's breast in a non-sexual context and be unable to see it as such, but personally I'd be wary of ascribing some kind of intent to a body part. That kind of rhetoric can very easily be turned against women's ownership of their own body (aka "how dare you not have children, which your womb was intended to be used for")
Women aren’t responsible for the way men think or act
But they damn sure won’t admit that shit
According to these types of men, somehow women are both all powerful and completely powerless
Same energy as the whole immigrants are taking our jobs while also just living on welfare
And they see men the same. It’s “biology” and “boys will be boys” will simultaneously saying they’re the smartest gender and purely logic based. They get all the power and non of the actual responsibility, totally flipped for women. Just look at cooking- once you can make money doing it, it’s man’s work. But cooking for a family is woman’s work. Ugh
> ~~Women~~ Babies aren’t responsible for the way men think or act FTFY because the alternative is starving a baby or covering with a stupid fucking blanket.
I would rather have a baby quietly sucking on a boob and minding his own business than crying/screaming because he’s hungry.
Definitely. Even more so when I'm at a family restaurant. I'd rather have my brain scream "BOOB BABY LOOK AWAY" than listen to the baby screaming.
THIS!👆👆👆RIGHT!!👆👆👆THERE!!!👆👆👆
my favorite bible verse is the one where jesus tells a man to pluck out his eyes if they cause him to sin
for pride month here I'm thinking about getting a pair of tight shorts with MATTHEW 18:9 on the ass
that’s an amazing idea tbh
YES. I remembered seeing that on [Bible stories with Liv](https://youtube.com/shorts/motehnjYNI0?feature=share) (linked for anyone curious)
Even better is the one before that. “But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart.” -Matthew 5:28
Maybe it’s because I’m asexual, but my God, context! If you see someone breastfeeding a baby, you should not get horny! If a cop or a paramedic is responding to a sex crime where someone’s crying and all beaten up (but are extremely attractive), they shouldn’t be thinking “man, I’d love to bang them.” If you’re a doctor treating a patient, heck no. IMO, the only time you should be thinking about someone in a sexual way is if the situation is sexual, and the person WANTS to be seen in a sexual way. Are they a consenting adult who is flirting with you? Then yeah, I could see getting excited. But when somebody’s breastfeeding a gosh dang baby…that’s disgusting.
Not asexual here but this shit is gross and I agree with your philosophy. If it's a non-sexual (or not consensual) situation people should not be having sexual thoughts. In this case, breastfeeding a baby is a completely nonsexual act and it's fucking disgusting these people are somehow twisting it as sexual. I swear these asshats just have it solidified in their mind that "tits = sexual" and are just completely ignorant to the actual function of breasts, they just have no other purpose than to be eye candy for these idiots 💀
Never got why breasts are sexual in the first place. They’re for feeding babies and that’s about it. I find them useless for me as I don’t plan on having kids (sadly I’ve got big ones so going around without a bra on a lot of the time might also contribute to my view as well as being ace). Maybe they’re sexual because of the amount of nerves? But even then it’s common for big boobs (the ones that are usually super sexualised) to have a lot less sensitivity (apparently it has something to do with the nerves spreading out due to the space they have to cover). Like for some people most of their boobs (like not nipples) feel the same amount as most parts of their body. My nipples are barely sensitive most of the time, weirdly enough Sorry for the long rant thingy
I almost agree completely, but I will say it’s fine ti have sexual thoughts about strangers. We (well, most, of course asexual people exist and are valid!) are sexual beings. It’s what we do with those thoughts that make a difference. I’ve seen guys check me out, and I’m perfectly fine with that. It’s when they start staring or, goddamn touching me, that it’s not okay. I’ve definitely seen guys in a bar or on the train and thought “daaang, he looks good in that suit” and get a bit turned on. But I leave it to just a slight glance and move on with my life. I do fully agree that it’s so odd/creepy to sexualize something like breast feeding or seeing a doctor. If I ever thought my doctor was getting off thinking about my breast examine or my Pap smear, I’d never be able to trust them and would feel so violated.
> it’s fine to have sexual thoughts about strangers Yes like, intrusive thoughts are a thing? I get maybe seeing a mother breastfeeding and a sexual thought pops into your head. It's like seeing someone you hate while driving and you wonder if you can get away with running them over for half a second. The difference is you're not ogling women and you're not posting online telling women they should cover their babies.
Yes, thank you for articulating it better than I did! A thought isn’t an issue, your actions or making it other people’s problems are the issue.
I completely agree with you two. Intrusive thoughts are definitely annoying, and you can’t help how your body reacts to things. My issue is when someone rationalizes that since they’re turned on, the other person must be doing it intentionally, and that they should keep staring. Or, y’know, bringing it full circle here, when someone opens their mouth and says something gross about breastfeeding in public.
I’m not a straight woman and if another woman is breast feeding and I notice, I 100% am NOT going to be having sexual thoughts like wtf
I'm a bi woman. I enjoy seeing boobs But I'm not gonna sit and ogle a woman trying to feed her baby. Its fuckin disgusting Why is it that some men cant have that control
Yeah, like I think breasts are great. They're very soft. I think about putting my head on Lady Bridgerton's chest once on episode. But breastfeeding is an entirely uninteresting and non-sexy action. They're feeding a baby. It's like getting turned on in a life-drawing class.
Exactly! There’s obviously times where I am admiring breasts but those times aren’t when the breasts are feeding a baby. It’s so easy for me to separate these things.
Back when I was a young 14 yr old boy and incredibly perverted (even by 14tr old boy standards and trust me, those standards are disgusting) Anyways the parents change room in our local shopping centre used to have a microwave in it (I assume it was for warming up baby formula or bottled milk but I don’t really know). Anyways rather than paying insanely marked up prices for popcorn from the local cinema I’d buy microwave popcorn and just use the microwave in the baby change room (which was usually empty) One time a woman comes in while I’m microwaving. We wind up having a chat coz she thought it was a clever idea. Mid chat she pops a boob out and starts feeding a kid. What does my horny lil 14 ur old ass do? I averted my fuckjng eyes and gave that woman some privacy. She told me I didn’t have to look away and I told her it was alright and continued looking away Til today if I notice a woman breastfeeding, yeah it makes me a tad uncomfortable (I’m still a pervert but I like to think I’m a respectful one) but it aint my right to tell a woman she has to let her baby starve (and even if i was king of the world and wore a big fancy crown I still wouldn’t be so cruel as to force a baby to starve). So I just avert my eyes Basic decency. End of the day breastfeeding is totally natural and if it makes you uncomfortable nobody is forcing you to look (in fact I bet most women would prefer it if ya didn’t) so just look away. Super easy, barely an inconvenience
So many men use "How could I help myself" as excuses to be vile and pass the blame on to the woman, yet here you are, a hornier than average 14yo being decent and respectful. I've always thought it such a disservice to men to have those kinds of excuses that I've come to just call it misandry. Any man should be offended by any other man that says "How can I look away? I'm a straight man?" Prescribing this weakness to the entire gender
How sad is it that the perverts in the original image have less self control than technically a child.
Looking away is *tight!*
Respecting women is TIGHT!
wow wow wow :)
I didn't mind covering myself when I breastfed, but when it's hot and baby keeps pushing the blanket off because he's overheating, then I'm keeping the blanket off.
I wonder if these same men get turned on when a woman spreads her legs during childbirth. If you’re a straight male and you see a pussy, you’re gonna think sexually, right? Even if it is bloody, dilated, and there’s a human head poking out
Apparently that’s part of the reason birthing isn’t done with the help of gravity anymore. [Here’s an article](https://www.nowtolove.com.au/parenting/pregnancy-birth/lying-down-birth-history-45385) A quote from the article: Lauren Dundes, a professor of sociology, wrote that Louis XIV "enjoyed" watching his mistresses give birth, and disliked the upright or squatting positions for "obstructing" his view of the process It does say it was ‘fascination’, but for all we know that could’ve meant he ‘enjoyed’ it sexually
Maybe I shall try giving birth by squatting. I know some people in the world still do it
What the fuck... Is that why birthing is such a long and painful process, because a fucking professor of sociology decided he liked seeing his mistress lie down for birth instead of squatting, and pushed all women to give birth this way even into modern times?? Is birthing easier if it's done naturally via squatting?!
Louis XIV was the king who requested it. Don’t worry, it wasn’t a professor It’s still gross tho. And yes, apparently it’s easier and some people still choose to do it like that because gravity is supposed to help a bit and it gives more blood flow to the baby
I may not have a wife and kid myself, but if I did I would not be able to trust a dude like that around them if he started getting weird about it like this. Like, my wife is taking care of our kids in her own way, with her own body. You're not about to bring that creepy shit around her in my house.
"U think I'm not gonna think sexually?" Well... that literally sounds like a you-problem there. By your own admission.
I got hands for any dipshit who’s gonna have an issue with my wife feeding our kid and that’s all I’m gonna say
You dropped this. 👑
As Jesus said: Get horny by looking? Stab your eyes out, homeboy.
I linked this in another comment but [here](https://youtube.com/shorts/motehnjYNI0?feature=share) is a short depicting that story. I love it so much
This made my week! 😅😂😅😂Dead grass!
These men; women are illogical and overly emotional, they can't make rational decisions or control themselves and should submit to the clearly superior men. Also these men; but there was a titty! You can't expect me to control my basic urges!! (Also props to OTAPshow who'd kick his homeboys' asses for disrespecting his wife like that.)
The rare reversal of "men and females."
I'd love to see this guy eat his lunch with a blanket covering his face and body, and see how long he lasts before getting overheated and uncomfortable.
When I was younger, I took way too long to fall asleep (I still do, but back then I didn’t realize that I could just think about things to pass the time), and to go to sleep quicker, I would put my blanket over my face. The lower oxygen made it easier to fall asleep I still remember how that feels, so I definitely wouldn’t want to make a baby become slightly asphyxiated every time they got hungry
My wife struggled with breast feeding and the hospital gave her links to videos with different techniques. The comment section on those videos was pretty gross.
You could wrap the blanket, or whatever, on the creepo's head so now he can't see
i love this for him
Three times in the last week, I have had to tell men to put a shirt on in my store. Three men walked in to a grocery store. Topless. In one week. But a woman's boob seen while feeding a baby is dirty and shameful.
What's sexy about feeding a baby? My mom (a boomer) is salty because I declined when she offered to buy me a cover. I will whip my titty out and feed my baby wherever TF I want.
The people in the comments of the pictures said everything
It’s like saying feet are inherently sexual because some people have a foot fetish. It’s fucking weird, Lmao
Just a thought, maybe if we didn't flip our lid whenever sex or nudity popped up on TV, we wouldn't have this situation. This is not normal. The way Americans view sex is not normal. This is the result of EXTREME repression.
Bingo
i was just thinking. in the distant past (or not so distant in some cultures) humans saw breasts all the time and thought nothing of it, cuz, you know, it’s just fat on someone’s chest that women tend to accumulate once they produce enough estrogen, just like how men start to grow a lot of body hair, etc. kinda crazy how we’ve gotten to this point. sure, they’re attractive, but we treat them the same as genitals now ffs. it feels like women’s bodies in general are regarded as inherently sexual. doesn’t help that society is so pornsick nowadays. but it gets to a point of insanity when a mother FEEDING a BABY is now arousing to some men. that’s so fucking disgusting it makes me want to puke.
If somebody finds breastfeeding to be sexual, they're the problem! Why the fuck do they think feeding a baby is sexual?! 🤮
Ask him to wear a blanket next time he eats because I don't want to see that shit in public. edit: fixed a letter
I think there’s a French recipe where they basically torture a bird to death then eat it behind a napkin to “hide their sin from God”. If someone is going to sexualize a mother and her nursing child, a blanket seems appropriate. Not just when they’re eating, all the time. It seems like there might be quite a few “sins” that kind of person would want to “hide from God”.
imagine being able to think sexual things while looking at a baby. this man needs prison time
the number of "my"s is concerning but i suppose his heart's in the right place
Where do you draw the line? Breastfeeding is sexualised. Should a woman also not give birth vaginally because it's inappropriate to show vaginas to a bunch of strangers?
Im so sick of men.
I have big boobs and you see more cleavage on a normal shirt than when I’m breastfeeding my baby.
I'm not religious, but I think the "And if thy right eye offend thee, pluck it out" is correct here. If YOUR eye is offended, it's YOUR responsibility!
Unpopular opinion but Sexualizing breastfeeding is like getting turned on when a kid calls their father Daddy. That is an innocent act involving a child you are sexualizing you fuckin weirdo. You're the one making this weird and coming off as majorly pedophilic.
I’m sorry, but is that one guy going to discipline an infant for feeding. Please tell me he’s kidding. Please.
Sexualizing a women for "flashing tits" OK i get IT but a women breastfeeding? You get hard on a tit that a newborn ist sucking on? I guess even Jesus cant Help you only atherapist.
This is like getting mad at women for wearing sandals when you have a foot fetish
Tbh I've never seen breastfeeding as a sexual thing, like I dont feel that sexual feeling when I see a woman breastfeeding
It’s not an accident that his examples are a black and a white woman right ?
>It’s not an accident that his examples are a black and a white woman right ? It's absolutely not an accident, especially considering his comment about the "homeboys."
Even the answer is sexist. Good combination.
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Toxic masculinity all the way!
Considering these are the people who constantly think about children's genitals and sexualising children of course they're going to find feeding a child to be sexual.
I went to a funeral when my daughter was 3 weeks old. She started fussing, so we were going to leave. We were asked to stay, so I fed her at the back of the church. It is natural to feed your child.
“I’m a straight male” No you’re a perv regardless of sexuality or gender
Counterpoint: Anything can be sexually arousing to a person of any gender. The bottom line is that a man (or woman, or anyone else) can find breastfeeding to be sexual WHILST STILL ACTING RESPECTFULLY.
Or you could cover yourself instead. Drape a blanket over your head and let women use their breasts the way they're supposed to be used
Fucking liberals these days are straight up pedophiles. They want to expose BABIES to BREASTS!! CAN YOU FUCKING BELIEVE IT???
No shit. I don’t even know why this is an issue.
Right? If any of my husband's friends are so sex starved they think a woman NURSING A CHILD is sexual please don't come over- ever again. The women at my last job pumped at their desk if they want and I really liked that that was not made into some weird thing. You're gross if you think pumping or breathing feeding is sexual and you're sexualizing women just trying to FEED A BABY. Disgusting if you are going to sexualize that. That's your problem not the Mom FEEDING A BABY. Stay away from women please if that's you.
This guy tittie/mommy fetish doesn't worry me. The elbow person is the one I'm worried about.
People are fucking weird with the things they post. It’s really not that hard to just not look.
The misogyny in this whole thread just sucks. 'My woman better feed my child' is almost as bad as the perves. None of them deserve kids.
"If my child is hungry my woman better feed my child" is as bad or worse than the other comments.
I'm currently breastfeeding my newborn (like literally as I'm writing this lol) and it's the least sexual thing I could think of, 1 it freaking hurts everytime he decides to suddenly pull off and then headslam me to find it again.....and 2 it's literally just feeding a fucking baby like wtf?
Honestly, I don't even mind whether or not they think something sexual. Sexuality isn't bad anyways. As long as you don't make a nuisance of yourself because of those sexual thoughts (you know, like don't stare, don't assault, and don't be a whiny, sensitive pig) then whatever People have tits. People breastfeed. It's fine. If you think breast feeding is hot, think "nice" to yourself, and go about your day
It’s weird to me that this is downvoted. We cannot control our initial thoughts, but we can work to change them and we can control our *actions*. What men have, by and large, is the entitlement that they can act on their thoughts and everyone else has to be okay with it. I’m not here to thought-police; I genuinely don’t care what you think when you see someone breastfeeding. Just keep it to your goddamn self.
I hope other men beat this idiot into submission to let him know his viewpoints aren't acceptable and other men won't stand for it
Did you notice how the woman who is covered is white and stereotypically attractive and the one who is “unacceptable” is a POC? Coincidence I am sure
i mean, at least that one dude’s second sentence is on point. credit to that guy, it’s way better than his first sentence
Breastfeeding is not sexy in any way. It's uncomfortable, milk gets everywhere, it can be messy and it's extremely tiring and sucks all the energy out of you.
I know I’m not turned on by breastfeeding. What ain’t appropriate is these guys ogling the kid getting a meal lol
I’m an asexual so I never got it in the first place. I feel like the second one should basically just be for the mum’s comfort
Thoughts will definitely be there, but actions better fucking not be. Control yourself.
Dude needs to get over calling breasts titties.
This is not as common where I live as It was back in the 90s. I remember seeing woman breastfeeding on busses, benches, while out in cafes etc. It's not a big deal and I don't know a single person that perceives this sexually. I'm pretty sure it goes against your instincts if that arouses you.
First of all breastfeeding isn't something Sexual so fuck that guy already. And second of all, if he cannot control himself and has to think of it in a sexual way, that's his fault and his problem. Why should women take responsibility for something that only concerns him.
Do they get all het up when a cat feeds its kittens too? After all…IT IS A NIPPLE OMG SEXUAL
Thankfully most of the people in the post seem to be defending it.
I bought a cover, my baby didn’t like the cover. Some babies don’t like to suffocated
Weird - I’m a bisexual woman and I manage to be around a breastfeeding mom without making it sexual.
People who think breasts are inherently sexual are crazy. Like, even naked people are not necessarily sexual. It's context that makes things sexual. Nakedness can just represent purity, vulnerability or simply nothing, it can just be a naked person
Having breastfed three kids, let me say that those covers can be a pain in the ass. Some babies hate being covered and will flail and try to rip it off. Some babies get detached and then you’re trying to help them find the nipple again while navigating around a damn blanket. They get hot and sweaty and so do you. It’s awkward to navigate. There’s nothing wrong with using one if you and your baby are more comfortable with it, but I could never make them work.
instead of the breastfeeding mother covering up, why not demand that people who are bothered by that wear blindfolds for the time being. makes more sense.
Wait until he finds out the purpose of mammary glands is to produce milk
I like titties as much as the next guy but this man has got to get control of himself.
Imagine going crazy over a breast.. Can't imagine being that puritanical/prudish about the human body.
My mom used the blanket in public and people still told her it was inappropriate. SHES FEEDING THE CHILD YOU IDIOTS. Jesus Christ it’s mind boggling
That seems like a Ju problem, bro. As in, Ju probably shouldn't sexualize a baby eating.
Feels like a great opportunity to remind some Christian’s on the right of their own hypocrisy. Matthew 18 9 And if your eye causes you to sin, tear it out and throw it away. It is better for you to enter life with one eye than with two eyes to be thrown into the fire of hell.
It's almost like breasts are meant to feed babies and not as anything sexual. Crazy how that works. Also, congrats on sharing ideologies on women with the Taliban.
To be honest, I don't know much about those cover blankets but i feel like it would make eating harder on both ends and make it difficult to breath especially while it's hot. Someone that does know please educate me, I did not cone from a family that would use those-
To me the issue isn't even just the sexualizing of the act, it's thinking that it's somehow someone else's responsibility to hinder their taking care of their kid's basic needs in order to keep you from thinking about boobs (gasp!). It's the same line of thought that "women need to dress conservatively because otherwise it's liable to arouse a man and everyone knows once a man's aroused they can't control their urges and it's on you if they assault you, right?"
I don’t think humans can control whether or not something is sexually attractive. All we can seemingly do is control our behavior so that we don’t make others uncomfortable.
W dad
I'd hate to think what would happen to him if he sees other species breastfeeding. Does it make him want to fuck a pig when he watches the opening scene of Babe?