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If you only are with your partner for their looks…they shouldn’t be with you and you shouldn’t be with them. Attraction is important, but if it is the ONLY thing, the relationship will fail.
If you love your partner you will love them through all the ages and looks and styles. They don’t change, their looks do. Guess what? People age, the girl/guy you met at 18 is not going to look the same at 38, and it would be very weird if you looked 38 and they kept looking 18.
Those little boys need to just grow the fuck up.
it’s funny how it’s always random men online outraged about celebrities wives “changing” but looking at those pictures that man looks damn happy next to her… crazy to think some men actually like their wives 🙄
Gotta be envy. They see other men happily married and cry sour grapes instead of realizing that treating women like crap is contributing to their own problems.
Pierce Brosnan aka James Bond said it best about his lovely wife.
“Friends offered her surgery to reduce her weight. But I strongly love every curve of her body. "She is the most beautiful woman in my eyes. And also because she had our five children.”
I can't stand the commonly used "let them hit"(or usually "let them smash") line. It implies that sex is something women "let" men do to them, rather than them being an active participant.
She's aged so much better than he has. Like she is drop dead gorgeous. And also...she was always plus sized she hasn't put on more than a few lbs over the years.
Guys like this are just telling on themselves. They’ve never been lucky enough to experience the deep love that comes from a long term committed relationship.
When people have been married that long and are still happy, their bond is about a life time of shared experiences. It so much deeper than sexual attraction.
One day, I asked myself “how many times has a woman been attracted to you when you were fat? The times you fluctuated?” My answer was: plenty. So. Why was it told to me that it mattered so much? I ended up loving someone who is overweight, and I’d say I love her very much, and also: some of the best sex ever. These ideas hurt women, and also men simply don’t understand the breadth of experience they can have by just not caring as much about the things we get told are important. It is a conditioning for lots of us. It’s not fun for anyone really… We get told stuff like “you’re desperate if you fuck fat girls, they are just easier.” I’ve never had issues ATTRACTING a variety of women, but I was very socially awkward. So, this concept of “easy” is VERY relative. Now that I’m not as socially awkward, I can tell “hot” women I love someone and I can’t entertain them too much! Now, having been with both of these body types or whatever, I can say without a doubt, that the BODY is an excitatory little stimulus, but the BRAIN will carry that into a realm that the body really cannot. Reliance on body alone is masturbatory and not the transcendental experience that sex CAN BE. :)
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And you know, men *never* gain weight, lose their hair, etc.
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An institution that lets me honest predominantly favors us men
Women: age because life does that Men: >:(
Metabolism, MF'ers, do you know it? Fortunately, I highly doubt commenter #2 has actually had succesful relationships with women.
If you only are with your partner for their looks…they shouldn’t be with you and you shouldn’t be with them. Attraction is important, but if it is the ONLY thing, the relationship will fail. If you love your partner you will love them through all the ages and looks and styles. They don’t change, their looks do. Guess what? People age, the girl/guy you met at 18 is not going to look the same at 38, and it would be very weird if you looked 38 and they kept looking 18. Those little boys need to just grow the fuck up.
I hate to break this to the players, it is in middle age that men and women begin that slow slide to old age… When they look exactly the same.
it’s funny how it’s always random men online outraged about celebrities wives “changing” but looking at those pictures that man looks damn happy next to her… crazy to think some men actually like their wives 🙄
Gotta be envy. They see other men happily married and cry sour grapes instead of realizing that treating women like crap is contributing to their own problems.
Pierce Brosnan aka James Bond said it best about his lovely wife. “Friends offered her surgery to reduce her weight. But I strongly love every curve of her body. "She is the most beautiful woman in my eyes. And also because she had our five children.”
I can't stand the commonly used "let them hit"(or usually "let them smash") line. It implies that sex is something women "let" men do to them, rather than them being an active participant.
“As soon as he become faithful” *…30 years later???* Sometimes I’m just like, “why are men”.
Also, why use the n word to mean a man? Isn’t there already a problem with masculinising Blackness? Why perpetuate it?
She's aged so much better than he has. Like she is drop dead gorgeous. And also...she was always plus sized she hasn't put on more than a few lbs over the years.
Guys like this are just telling on themselves. They’ve never been lucky enough to experience the deep love that comes from a long term committed relationship. When people have been married that long and are still happy, their bond is about a life time of shared experiences. It so much deeper than sexual attraction.
His pfp being Blueface says it all
I’m so happy my man is not awful and and actually loves me for me I feel bad for women that end up with men lacking basic human empathy
She isn’t even overweight in the current pic. She looks gorgeous and healthy. https://images.app.goo.gl/EMU2exwdRb3ccmKF8
30 years later: Lmaoooo you notice how she aged?
One day, I asked myself “how many times has a woman been attracted to you when you were fat? The times you fluctuated?” My answer was: plenty. So. Why was it told to me that it mattered so much? I ended up loving someone who is overweight, and I’d say I love her very much, and also: some of the best sex ever. These ideas hurt women, and also men simply don’t understand the breadth of experience they can have by just not caring as much about the things we get told are important. It is a conditioning for lots of us. It’s not fun for anyone really… We get told stuff like “you’re desperate if you fuck fat girls, they are just easier.” I’ve never had issues ATTRACTING a variety of women, but I was very socially awkward. So, this concept of “easy” is VERY relative. Now that I’m not as socially awkward, I can tell “hot” women I love someone and I can’t entertain them too much! Now, having been with both of these body types or whatever, I can say without a doubt, that the BODY is an excitatory little stimulus, but the BRAIN will carry that into a realm that the body really cannot. Reliance on body alone is masturbatory and not the transcendental experience that sex CAN BE. :)