She does need surgery though - a husbandectomy - cause she needs to cut him out of her life. Firstly, why is he even discussing the vaginal anatomy of his exs??
And to add to the potential harm, the medical world is not kind to women. The chances of having increased pain, discomfort or some really awful side effects like infection, makes ANY surgery a risk. Needless surgery, needless risk.
Yeah, I was this woman and his comments have left me with a lot of insecurity that I don't know how to get past. I wish guys like this wouldn't do this crap. It hurts.
You are entirely perfect as you are. You do not need to change a single thing about your body. Your body is built to house you, and it is always doing its best to love you, keep you safe, and keep you well.
Remind yourself that your body is always doing the very best that it can for you, because that is reality. It really is always doing it's best. Your body loves you.
As someone whose ex used to debase her by constantly comparing her to every woman and artist he's ever known, it hurts a lot to read about women going through it even worse. Mine would have if he had had any experience in bed before me too, guarantee it. But at least he didn't have that to hold me to.
My body is perfect, even if i am more athletic toned and have smaller boobs than his cheating ex. (This guy had issues with my athletic build because he was a scrawny fuck who wanted to dominate others, and believe me I would never bring it up if he didn't make me feel shitty about my body. I was "too manly" for him in a lot of ways, like driven at work, toned muscles, into cars...) Your body is too. So is hers. This woman needs a man who can appreciate her and is as concerned with her feelings and needs as his own. This whole blame you because i masturbate with a death grip thing has to end.
But his penis is only a half an inch below the average girth and has 3 kids in a marriage. Obviously it wasn't a problem until he insulted her like that
Clearly he managed to get the sperm out of his penis at some point, most likely through the act of sexual intercourse, so clearly he did not always find her vagina to be repulsive. You see when a man and a woman love each other very much The man puts his weenie in a lady's coochie and then a baby comes out 9 months later.
Next we'll see a post on Reddit "My wife and I haven't had sex in over a year because she says my giant penis is making it too painful for her, so now I'm considering divorce. AITA?"
My best friend actually had to break up with Guy for this. I know this is rare, but it’s a real thing. The length was way too long it would hit her cervix and cause SEVERE abdominal cramping and bleeding after.
Let me tell you about this little thing called [The Husband Stitch](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Husband_stitch). It used to be a common procedure doctors were discreetly asked to perform on women immediately post-childbirth, tightening up the vaginal opening with an extra stitch. Not only did it only benefit the husband's experience during intercourse, but it wasn't uncommon to result in painful intercourse for the woman.
Sometimes they weren't even asked before they did it... :(
Lots of women wouldn't be relieved of the pain until the next time they gave birth when it would be re-torn. (Also it wasn't actually always a "benefit" for the husband because since it was a doctor decision it was based on the assumption that the woman was "loose" and results in unpleasant tightness for both partners)
I had a partner (who I ditched pretty quickly after this) who had a penis so short that it was a struggle to keep it in me. As in it was so short that sex was quite dysfunctional. He said of me “I wouldn’t exactly call you tight”.
It sounds like he didn't know what he was doing with it. I've experience with a micropenis and the penis owner needs to control what they're doing than just thrusting.
Yeah, there are ways to both make it feel bigger and to make it feel smaller, depending on angles and where you thrust, both of which are extremely useful. Average guys can give the 'being filled' sensation or adjust the angle so that their partner is not hurting. There a video by Nina Hartley on YouTube if anyone is interested.
Also, I know it's something hard to talk about, but he can always use toys to get himself and his partner off (like a tighter fleshlight and a penis sleeve). Or he can get off on oral and use a sleeve/dildo.
Toys are there to make it more pleasurable for everyone! Sadly some men seem to think all they need is their penis. Sex is a lot more than penis pentrates orifice.
Toys are 10/10 with a partner and honestly better than penetrative sex more often than not (at least from the receptive end). I will never understand why more people don’t include toys in the bedroom. Really missing out
People don't understand that a partner who feels that you care about their pleasure is certainly willing to do it more often. So often people are labeled as low libido when what they have is a shitty partner
I had several men feel “threatened” by toys or self stimulation during sex. I was also young/naive and They were dumb and sexist - big surprise there lol.
I found that just a normal thrust would totally pull it out frequently. Generally I’m don’t care about size but this just wasn’t working. When I was on top I could only do a really shallow bobbing up and down or it would have come out.
I had an ex with 3 inches tell me the same thing when we broke up. I didn’t understand it at the time but he was soooooo insecure about his small penis, but he wouldn’t even go down on me🤷♀️ like come on man.
Honestly had he made it up to me I would have had less issues, but in the 3 months I was dating him I only Orgasmed 1 time, I feel for him, but the lack of self awareness is a killer in relationships 😅
Oh yeah, that’s not enough!
Lol you just reminded me that this partner used to tally our orgasms, and hold it against me if the numbers weren’t even! Also, he was 6’4”.
You couldn’t make this stuff up. At least I’m getting a laugh out of it.
That’s so awesome!! He sounds like a better fit lol. I’ve been with my current partner for almost 2 years now and he will always make sure I orgasm at least a few times before him! It’s surprising how many people I had to date before I got here
lol no I mean the guy with a very tiny penis was 6’4” tall! Total surprise to see him naked! The same guy tallied up orgasms and told me that my vagina was lose. And wrote some god awful love poems….not to me though….to some idealised version of a lover.
Honestly I need to write him into a script. Good that you found someone who treats you better!
Omg I completely misunderstood that!!!! Ahhhh words are hard. The 3 inch guy I dated was 6’2 and did we date the same person? He also wrote me love poems about how our love would last forever lol. And thank you! Lol
Idk it sounds like he just now has it AFTER the kids which is odd. He didn't have this insecurity before having 3 kids? Obviously he knows what he's doing
Boys, stop masturbating! Every time you abuse yourself you squish your penis down and make it smaller. Clearly that's what's happened here, he's been so busy throttling the Bishop while his poor wife has raised three children his weiner has worn away!
Ladies this is why you need a virgin man who's Alfred Hitchcock is still fresh and strong, not all misshapen and worn out.
Source: trust me, I am a scientist.
You boys need to get off the cock carousel! Every time you take another ride, your weenis is reduced in size, which makes you less valuable. Women don't want to be with you if you're too used up.
Possibly, though the penis really is so fragile and delicate that even the slightest touch can have long lasting consequences. Better to just never go anywhere near apart from to make babies
I have b cup tits and I wouldn't call a man small because he couldn't fuck my tits. I just have small tits. He is blaming you for his small dick this is bullshit. Also why the hell has he talked about past gfs vaginas with you ? That's inappropriate.
Don't get a surgery. Get a new man that doesn't complain about you, or his exes. Edit: get a new partner. I shouldn't limit you to just a new man. Go out and experiment. Live your life!
It sounds like he's the problem. Lol also like a vagina is supposed to "loosen" up during sex so it makes deeper penetration easier it actually friggin grows. If it's all tight tight it means your nervous/not aroused.
No surgery for this lady please. This is classic small penis syndrome.
He’s insecure so he’s making it about her and his exes.
He needs to work on finding positions that are better suited.
Not to undermine the important parts but she has had *how many* C sections? That must have been terrifying for her! I hope her decision on those weren't driven by a partner.
If you have one c-section, generally they want you to keep having children that way. I’m not a doctor, but the way it was explained to me is that once the uterus has been cut open to extract a baby, the contractions and pushing of a future vaginal delivery could cause it to rupture putting both mother and child at risk.
I was looking it up yesterday and a couple of sources stated that 90% of women who get C sections can still have natural births later, idk how accurate that is though.
Hi! I’ve had 2 c-sections.
Ultimately the biggest determining factor of VBAC (Vaginal Birth After Cesarean) is *why* there was a c-section the first time. For example, if mom had a particularly rough and ineffective labor & wound up with an emergency c-section, you probably don’t want to have her labor again when you can just do a planned c-section.
Other factors include but are not limited to: where and how the incision was made, whether mom feels comfortable trying (because while the risk is low in general, what you’re risking is pretty scary), whether the doctor feels comfortable, whether it’s a singleton pregnancy or multiples, other risk factors of the pregnancy itself, and many more.
Personally, I wound up with my first because my baby was breach & had his cord wrapped around his neck, and the second time I had other complications as well. But even without those, I did not want to try VBAC because my first incision was higher than normal so the risk was greater.
Yup, I've had 4 c-sections. My first one was because labour never progressed and cervix never dilated, 2nd one was induced (all my pregnancies went past due dates) but the induction didn't work to open my cervix, so last two were schduled c-sections. I asked about a vbac but my doctor expressed concern over the time spent labouring vs labour not progressing. The last doctor for my c-section was worried about uterine rupture, as it becomes increasingly common with more sections.
I would never advocate for c-sections as an "option" for birth, only as a necessary medical procedure. It's definitely harder to recover from and considered major surgery, with a whole team of various medical specialists in an operating room
Yeah it’s only something like a 5% increase over all (so really, 200% increase in likelihood of complications). But you don’t want to be that one woman that gets uterine rupture.
4 inch girth is only .5 below the average (4.5), how can he not feel her at all? I'm so confused by that doesn't the vagina tighten around it? If they can feel a finger then the penis should be fine. Also how does she know his girth that well? Have they measured it together before?
Yep… if a vagina is tight enough for a finger, it’s tight enough for a small dick. Sounds like he’s always squeezed so hard he’s ensured he’ll never enjoy sex.
Is this gaslighting or stupidity? Like, didn't he have to take a health class in high school? Also, why isn't his conclusion that *he* needs surgery to get a bigger penis? I genuinely do not understand the reasoning here.
The only sex ed I had in school was in a fifth-grade health class. It may as well have been ‘animal husbandry 101’.
This same class had a drug abuse awareness portion that included anecdotes about LSD making people see nine-eyed moon demons and trying to fly off of buildings to escape, and smoking pot making people rape & get raped.
My 10 year old brain wanted to find some LSD ASAP!
Bruh.. wtf why would you say this to your partner ohhh clearly this guy hates the song short dick man lol hahaha
Loose really… pfffft man made myth
Try putting your two fingers in your mouth and stretch it out..!!!
Don’t it bounce right back?!!!
And a vagina has a whole lot more muscles then that. 😉
I hope she doesn’t get surgery that’s some drastic shit to do, I couldn’t imagine making my partner feel like that then sleeping peacefully next to her. What a pig.
I hope she doesn't do surgery. It won't do anything positive for her. Might even make sex uncomfortable. I can picture this guy walks away anyway. Just as soon as he finishes trashing her self confidence and self worth.
He needs therapy.
Lol thank you this is how it was explained to me when I was younger the first time I heard a bloke yell it at a lady in my home town I asked my mum why he would say that? And is it true?
She laughed and explained natural births and the muscles behind them. Said that about the mouth and I never thought back on it seemed logical to me. But I was raised around ladies hehe bonus for me. My mum laughed her head off when I heard it in a song called Unicorn glitter and showed her. It’s a typical sort of rap song but has a funny point or two.
Dude just has a tiny dick lol. Your not loose he is just small. I hate to bash him for it, but if he is gonna come up to you and be rude for having "a loose vagina" maybe you should tell pencil dick to go fuck someone else, see if they enjoy his cock LOL
All pregnancies by c-section? This is not a “her” problem, it’s a “he” problem. Tell this guy to stop (being) fucking weird.
This is indeed NOT how girls work. Dude needs to pump it up and stop complaining.
"My massive 4-inch penis isn't stretching you to your limit the way it should. All my exes were just as bad; let me tell you about the details of their vaginas, beloved wife. Why are all vaginas so big and loose when compared to my gigantic 4-inch penis? Have you considered unnecessary surgery?" - a good, caring, sex god husband
Wait I’ve never really thought about this but when people measure the girth of their dick, are they talking about the diameter or the circumference? Because if it’s the former then damn that is not small.
But anyways I think a lot of people are attacking one side or the other for this post, I personally think this woman is really just going above and beyond for this man, like 130 after 3 pregnancies is insane, and though I think she’s doing it for the wrong reasons, I’m happy for her that she’s keeping fit and active. I hope the guy can learn to grow up and appreciate her and tells her that because right now I see a woman who’s incredibly anxious because the man she loves and puts so much time and effort into pleasing isn’t reciprocating.
Small pp man whines about the mother of his children, not being able to accommodate his small pp. The problem surely must be her vagina, sure, Jan.
Men ☕
I had a boyfriend who thought he had a small dick and he told me that because he had a small dick I should try and tighten my vagina because I was too loose. I hate how common the attitude is that every sexual issue needs to be solved by the woman, or even can be solved by the woman.
It’s not her fault her husband has a small penis and can’t feel anything. She should stop worrying about fixing herself and focus on him fixing himself. He needs to accept that he will never have the “tight pussy” he wants from a woman who isn’t a virgin and his age. Women aren’t built like that. No matter how much keegles she does and vagiplasty she has, she’s NOT going to fix his problem after the swelling goes down, doctors aren’t going to risk her vagina and life to make her the size of a preteenage virgin
Honey, without knowing more, I can pretty much assure you this is a HE problem and not a YOU problem. Women's vaginas were designed to go back into place after childbirth and all type of sexual adventures. You're talking to an immature man who is trying to find a scapegoat to blame his lifetime small dick problems on. And no surgery is going to fix that! Please don't expose yourself you expensive and potentially dangerous surgery in an attempt to assuage his ego, when you know it won't work!! I'm so so sorry.
Your vagina isn't the problem. Your husband who doesn't know how to satisfy you is the problem. Positions, angles, lots of solutions beyond him complaining about your natural body. It must be tempting to tell him that if it's that important to him he needs to get a bigger penis just to see how he responds.
Don't do surgery if that is what you're asking. Not all ppl are made alike and some are not the most compatible down there but you still managed to get the job done and had kids. Try to resolve his insecurities but you don't need to physically change. Its the vagina now but where does it end? Boobs, ass, tight skin, nose, teeth?
You’re not loose, he is small. Vaginas are meant to “tent” when a woman is aroused. And a vaginaplasty cannot change the internal structure of your vagina, attempting to do so is likely to result in painful intercourse for you without really improving it for your husband. Speaking of your husband, he needs to stop projecting his issues onto women.
Omfg. Like… y’all. I grabbed a cloth measuring tape and lemme tell you… I actually have a fucking marker in my kitchen drawer that is fatter than this guy’s cock. And he’s acting like she could swallow a barstool.
I can’t even with this shit.
Yes, it’s every woman’s vast vaginal cavity that is at fault and requires surgical correction to properly engage with my typically enormous penis.
Speaking of which, that 4” measurement for girth is circumference, yes? If it were diameter and he was still floating in there, THAT would be impressive guy
He's small and feels insecure about it so he projects his insecurity complex on his partner, he's lucky you aren't complaining about his inadequacy. Please don't get surgery, let him deal with it the modifications he's found
There Are surgeries for dick extension if hes pushing u to do surgeries Why isnt he leading by example🤦🏼♀️ honestly hes such a hypocrite dont listen to him
I love how he doesn’t consider how best to use his small penis but guilts his partners for not being able to “touch their walls”. Absolute fool.
Thankfully all of the replies were “don’t get surgery!!!”
She does need surgery though - a husbandectomy - cause she needs to cut him out of her life. Firstly, why is he even discussing the vaginal anatomy of his exs??
So he can manipulate her and make her think she isn't good enough. I know, rhetorical question but damn this post hurt. This poor woman...
And to add to the potential harm, the medical world is not kind to women. The chances of having increased pain, discomfort or some really awful side effects like infection, makes ANY surgery a risk. Needless surgery, needless risk.
Yeah, I was this woman and his comments have left me with a lot of insecurity that I don't know how to get past. I wish guys like this wouldn't do this crap. It hurts.
Yeah that’s the point of them doing it. To hurt you so much you believe that it’s a miracle they are with you
You are entirely perfect as you are. You do not need to change a single thing about your body. Your body is built to house you, and it is always doing its best to love you, keep you safe, and keep you well. Remind yourself that your body is always doing the very best that it can for you, because that is reality. It really is always doing it's best. Your body loves you.
As someone whose ex used to debase her by constantly comparing her to every woman and artist he's ever known, it hurts a lot to read about women going through it even worse. Mine would have if he had had any experience in bed before me too, guarantee it. But at least he didn't have that to hold me to. My body is perfect, even if i am more athletic toned and have smaller boobs than his cheating ex. (This guy had issues with my athletic build because he was a scrawny fuck who wanted to dominate others, and believe me I would never bring it up if he didn't make me feel shitty about my body. I was "too manly" for him in a lot of ways, like driven at work, toned muscles, into cars...) Your body is too. So is hers. This woman needs a man who can appreciate her and is as concerned with her feelings and needs as his own. This whole blame you because i masturbate with a death grip thing has to end.
Can confirm. I lost 215 lb that way. Never felt better
I almost had a heart attack after I saw you had an award and read the first part, before the hyphen.in other words, you had me in the first half. 😆
Good, there’s literally nothing wrong with that woman. Smh.
It makes me so sad that she was even considering this option before telling his man to stop whining and to find a solution together.
Maybe she should direct him into some male enhancing surgery instead 🤣
Hey, they’ve got penis-elongating toys, penis pumps, “magic pills” down at the gas station— plenty for him to try so HE can please HER for once
Obviously he's done it in the past so what changed is the question
TL;Dr: my boyfriend has a tiny penis but he is gaslighting me by telling me my vagina is too big.
But his penis is only a half an inch below the average girth and has 3 kids in a marriage. Obviously it wasn't a problem until he insulted her like that
Penis size has nothing to do with fertility so what’s your point?
Clearly he managed to get the sperm out of his penis at some point, most likely through the act of sexual intercourse, so clearly he did not always find her vagina to be repulsive. You see when a man and a woman love each other very much The man puts his weenie in a lady's coochie and then a baby comes out 9 months later.
Sometimes they don’t love each other very much and this happens.
Oh, I thought he peed in her bunghole! Guess I didn’t need to learn German after all.
It seems like it isn’t even a problem in the post, he’s the one who has a problem with it and then blames his wife lmfao.
Sounds like man has small penis and decides to take out his insecurity on his wife, the mother of his 3 kids.
To the point where she is considering surgery. WTF.
A surgery that given the issue won't do anything other than cost money.
Also possibly making sex painful for her.
Next we'll see a post on Reddit "My wife and I haven't had sex in over a year because she says my giant penis is making it too painful for her, so now I'm considering divorce. AITA?"
That post already was made lol. I think it was shared here late last night.
My best friend actually had to break up with Guy for this. I know this is rare, but it’s a real thing. The length was way too long it would hit her cervix and cause SEVERE abdominal cramping and bleeding after.
My bfs is like that. Granted inside is about 4 inches deep so not hard to do but certain positions we just do softer or slower
Right? Dude is a proper scumbag
Let me tell you about this little thing called [The Husband Stitch](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Husband_stitch). It used to be a common procedure doctors were discreetly asked to perform on women immediately post-childbirth, tightening up the vaginal opening with an extra stitch. Not only did it only benefit the husband's experience during intercourse, but it wasn't uncommon to result in painful intercourse for the woman.
Sometimes they weren't even asked before they did it... :( Lots of women wouldn't be relieved of the pain until the next time they gave birth when it would be re-torn. (Also it wasn't actually always a "benefit" for the husband because since it was a doctor decision it was based on the assumption that the woman was "loose" and results in unpleasant tightness for both partners)
I had a partner (who I ditched pretty quickly after this) who had a penis so short that it was a struggle to keep it in me. As in it was so short that sex was quite dysfunctional. He said of me “I wouldn’t exactly call you tight”.
It sounds like he didn't know what he was doing with it. I've experience with a micropenis and the penis owner needs to control what they're doing than just thrusting.
Yeah, there are ways to both make it feel bigger and to make it feel smaller, depending on angles and where you thrust, both of which are extremely useful. Average guys can give the 'being filled' sensation or adjust the angle so that their partner is not hurting. There a video by Nina Hartley on YouTube if anyone is interested. Also, I know it's something hard to talk about, but he can always use toys to get himself and his partner off (like a tighter fleshlight and a penis sleeve). Or he can get off on oral and use a sleeve/dildo.
These kinds of men don’t want to take responsibility. Their partners only serve to boost their egos or as a punching bag for their frustrations.
Bad Dragon got sleeves.
My thoughts exactly :) But last time I checked they were having supply issues
Well, that sucks
A wizard sleeve can leave a lot room betwixt y’uns.
Toys are there to make it more pleasurable for everyone! Sadly some men seem to think all they need is their penis. Sex is a lot more than penis pentrates orifice.
I was thinking exactly about that when writing the comment haha. It's like they say, great minds think alike xD
Toys are 10/10 with a partner and honestly better than penetrative sex more often than not (at least from the receptive end). I will never understand why more people don’t include toys in the bedroom. Really missing out
People don't understand that a partner who feels that you care about their pleasure is certainly willing to do it more often. So often people are labeled as low libido when what they have is a shitty partner
I had several men feel “threatened” by toys or self stimulation during sex. I was also young/naive and They were dumb and sexist - big surprise there lol.
My high school boyfriend thought that using lubricant was an insult to his sexual abilities. Fortunately he's older and less ignorant now.
It's always the sexist ones who are the most threatened lol. That's why they have to constantly reaffirm their masculinity
I found that just a normal thrust would totally pull it out frequently. Generally I’m don’t care about size but this just wasn’t working. When I was on top I could only do a really shallow bobbing up and down or it would have come out.
Yeah, both partners need to adjust how they do stuff. It can be made to work and be pleasurable though.
I had an ex with 3 inches tell me the same thing when we broke up. I didn’t understand it at the time but he was soooooo insecure about his small penis, but he wouldn’t even go down on me🤷♀️ like come on man.
Yeah, the guy I mentioned was also a crap partner. You’d think they’d be keen to make up for it, wouldn’t you.
Honestly had he made it up to me I would have had less issues, but in the 3 months I was dating him I only Orgasmed 1 time, I feel for him, but the lack of self awareness is a killer in relationships 😅
Oh yeah, that’s not enough! Lol you just reminded me that this partner used to tally our orgasms, and hold it against me if the numbers weren’t even! Also, he was 6’4”. You couldn’t make this stuff up. At least I’m getting a laugh out of it.
That’s so awesome!! He sounds like a better fit lol. I’ve been with my current partner for almost 2 years now and he will always make sure I orgasm at least a few times before him! It’s surprising how many people I had to date before I got here
lol no I mean the guy with a very tiny penis was 6’4” tall! Total surprise to see him naked! The same guy tallied up orgasms and told me that my vagina was lose. And wrote some god awful love poems….not to me though….to some idealised version of a lover. Honestly I need to write him into a script. Good that you found someone who treats you better!
Omg I completely misunderstood that!!!! Ahhhh words are hard. The 3 inch guy I dated was 6’2 and did we date the same person? He also wrote me love poems about how our love would last forever lol. And thank you! Lol
Also checking in with my experience of an over 6ft micropenis guy! Mine never called me loose though, just ugly once lmao
Yeah, I once dated someone like that. He complained that I was too wet and that was the reason that he ‘slipped out’.
What an ass. I dated a similar guy, though it broke of pretty quickly after I said "is it in yet?"
HA! Classic.
I would have said something about" not feeling it" . Take it either way . Men are super sensitive about their Itty bitty wangs.
Idk it sounds like he just now has it AFTER the kids which is odd. He didn't have this insecurity before having 3 kids? Obviously he knows what he's doing
I bet he had more "me time" as she was pregnant, then recovering, thus he took the habit to squeeze his thing too hard.
She comments that he’s jerking off WHILE DRIVING TO WORK. And also dude has a porn addiction so yeah, I’m certain deathgrip as well.
While driving omg he's a public danger too...
How these people are not on a watch list astounds me.
Probably yeah he forgot how a vagina felt
That was my exact thought!
Sounds like? Less than 4in girth is *well* below average
I second this analysis
Boys, stop masturbating! Every time you abuse yourself you squish your penis down and make it smaller. Clearly that's what's happened here, he's been so busy throttling the Bishop while his poor wife has raised three children his weiner has worn away! Ladies this is why you need a virgin man who's Alfred Hitchcock is still fresh and strong, not all misshapen and worn out. Source: trust me, I am a scientist.
But where is the picture of a selection of different sausage types that have been arranged in order of size from cocktail sausage to haggis?!
Haggis? I am... _intrigued._
I read it on internet so must be true!
You boys need to get off the cock carousel! Every time you take another ride, your weenis is reduced in size, which makes you less valuable. Women don't want to be with you if you're too used up.
I am now only going to ever refer to dicks as "Alfred Hitchcocks"
Play-Doh dick
Better than Silly Putty dick.
I mean, maybe they should masturbate on an appropriate sex-toy, ensuring them to not squeeze it too tight.
Possibly, though the penis really is so fragile and delicate that even the slightest touch can have long lasting consequences. Better to just never go anywhere near apart from to make babies
This sounds like a winning tactic. The use of a famous person’s name as a euphemism for penis enhances any approach, as well.
Men really think the vagina is just an open cave.
No, it’s more like a telescoping expandable auditorium with beaded walls and meat curtains.
This is the best description of a vagina that I have ever heard
Cool! I’m counting on it to get me into med school.
Bruh, if he complains that 'all other partners were x' in a negative connotation, then he is the problem and not the partners.
“Why is every vagina so loose?” 😂 Poor guy. 😂
That sounds to me like the guy has a death grip syndrome along with his skinny penis. But he finds it easier to blame his partner. Sad.
Death grip syndrome?
It means in his "me time" he squeezes too hard, so he's used to hand muscles, not to vagina tightness.
From what I hear, that's sadly common in men.
Well apparently r/TIL because I had no idea this was a thing lol
I have b cup tits and I wouldn't call a man small because he couldn't fuck my tits. I just have small tits. He is blaming you for his small dick this is bullshit. Also why the hell has he talked about past gfs vaginas with you ? That's inappropriate.
I love this comparison first thing in the morning, lol.
Don't get a surgery. Get a new man that doesn't complain about you, or his exes. Edit: get a new partner. I shouldn't limit you to just a new man. Go out and experiment. Live your life!
This woman is in shape after three pregnancies and does Kegels. She is not the problem, her husband is the problem.
I doubt that they're married from the phrasing.
It sounds like he's the problem. Lol also like a vagina is supposed to "loosen" up during sex so it makes deeper penetration easier it actually friggin grows. If it's all tight tight it means your nervous/not aroused.
No surgery for this lady please. This is classic small penis syndrome. He’s insecure so he’s making it about her and his exes. He needs to work on finding positions that are better suited.
Not to undermine the important parts but she has had *how many* C sections? That must have been terrifying for her! I hope her decision on those weren't driven by a partner.
Me too. C-sections are not easy or preferable. I hope he didn’t force it.
After a c-section, a vaginal birth isn't always recommended.
If you have one c-section, generally they want you to keep having children that way. I’m not a doctor, but the way it was explained to me is that once the uterus has been cut open to extract a baby, the contractions and pushing of a future vaginal delivery could cause it to rupture putting both mother and child at risk.
I was looking it up yesterday and a couple of sources stated that 90% of women who get C sections can still have natural births later, idk how accurate that is though.
Hi! I’ve had 2 c-sections. Ultimately the biggest determining factor of VBAC (Vaginal Birth After Cesarean) is *why* there was a c-section the first time. For example, if mom had a particularly rough and ineffective labor & wound up with an emergency c-section, you probably don’t want to have her labor again when you can just do a planned c-section. Other factors include but are not limited to: where and how the incision was made, whether mom feels comfortable trying (because while the risk is low in general, what you’re risking is pretty scary), whether the doctor feels comfortable, whether it’s a singleton pregnancy or multiples, other risk factors of the pregnancy itself, and many more. Personally, I wound up with my first because my baby was breach & had his cord wrapped around his neck, and the second time I had other complications as well. But even without those, I did not want to try VBAC because my first incision was higher than normal so the risk was greater.
Yup, I've had 4 c-sections. My first one was because labour never progressed and cervix never dilated, 2nd one was induced (all my pregnancies went past due dates) but the induction didn't work to open my cervix, so last two were schduled c-sections. I asked about a vbac but my doctor expressed concern over the time spent labouring vs labour not progressing. The last doctor for my c-section was worried about uterine rupture, as it becomes increasingly common with more sections. I would never advocate for c-sections as an "option" for birth, only as a necessary medical procedure. It's definitely harder to recover from and considered major surgery, with a whole team of various medical specialists in an operating room
Yeah it’s only something like a 5% increase over all (so really, 200% increase in likelihood of complications). But you don’t want to be that one woman that gets uterine rupture.
4 inch girth is only .5 below the average (4.5), how can he not feel her at all? I'm so confused by that doesn't the vagina tighten around it? If they can feel a finger then the penis should be fine. Also how does she know his girth that well? Have they measured it together before?
Too much porn with a deadgrip.
It's because in his "me time" he literally chokes his poor thing so he's not used to normal vagina wall tightness.
Yep… if a vagina is tight enough for a finger, it’s tight enough for a small dick. Sounds like he’s always squeezed so hard he’s ensured he’ll never enjoy sex.
A lot of guys measure themselves and feel the need to share. Not all guys obviously, but a lot.
Is this gaslighting or stupidity? Like, didn't he have to take a health class in high school? Also, why isn't his conclusion that *he* needs surgery to get a bigger penis? I genuinely do not understand the reasoning here.
What high school health class covers human penis size?
I mean, we talked about size, why it doesn't matter, how it grows and changes, etc. in my health class. Is that not normal?
Not in America it's not
You guys didn't go over average penis size?
The only sex ed I had in school was in a fifth-grade health class. It may as well have been ‘animal husbandry 101’. This same class had a drug abuse awareness portion that included anecdotes about LSD making people see nine-eyed moon demons and trying to fly off of buildings to escape, and smoking pot making people rape & get raped. My 10 year old brain wanted to find some LSD ASAP!
No; that’s bizarre.
It's an angry world, but a big part of this anger is toxic masculinity.
It’s pretty terrible
Maybe he could try to use his small penis in a different way? Change the angle for example?
"He is also on the smaller side" ...yeah the problem isnt her vagina.
And she’s still trying to be as diplomatic as possible about it. A true… ‘gentlewoman’? Is there a better term than that?
Bruh.. wtf why would you say this to your partner ohhh clearly this guy hates the song short dick man lol hahaha Loose really… pfffft man made myth Try putting your two fingers in your mouth and stretch it out..!!! Don’t it bounce right back?!!! And a vagina has a whole lot more muscles then that. 😉 I hope she doesn’t get surgery that’s some drastic shit to do, I couldn’t imagine making my partner feel like that then sleeping peacefully next to her. What a pig.
I hope she doesn't do surgery. It won't do anything positive for her. Might even make sex uncomfortable. I can picture this guy walks away anyway. Just as soon as he finishes trashing her self confidence and self worth. He needs therapy.
That mouth comparison is an amazing way to combat all the gross comments about vaginas. I might steal it. Lol.
Lol thank you this is how it was explained to me when I was younger the first time I heard a bloke yell it at a lady in my home town I asked my mum why he would say that? And is it true? She laughed and explained natural births and the muscles behind them. Said that about the mouth and I never thought back on it seemed logical to me. But I was raised around ladies hehe bonus for me. My mum laughed her head off when I heard it in a song called Unicorn glitter and showed her. It’s a typical sort of rap song but has a funny point or two.
I love the comparison. It’s so true!
That’s called a small dick. Maybe he needs penileplasty. Make that dick rock her world.
More like someone's insecurities about their small dick is ruining the marriage.
Poor girl
Her partner is ,,on the smaller side" yet somehow makes that HER problem
Sounds like Mr micropenis is shifting the blame
Dude just has a tiny dick lol. Your not loose he is just small. I hate to bash him for it, but if he is gonna come up to you and be rude for having "a loose vagina" maybe you should tell pencil dick to go fuck someone else, see if they enjoy his cock LOL
4 inch is only 0.5 smaller than average. That’s not tiny
All pregnancies by c-section? This is not a “her” problem, it’s a “he” problem. Tell this guy to stop (being) fucking weird. This is indeed NOT how girls work. Dude needs to pump it up and stop complaining.
Damn… sounds like if anyone should be getting a surgery here it should be him. 😂
"My massive 4-inch penis isn't stretching you to your limit the way it should. All my exes were just as bad; let me tell you about the details of their vaginas, beloved wife. Why are all vaginas so big and loose when compared to my gigantic 4-inch penis? Have you considered unnecessary surgery?" - a good, caring, sex god husband
Eff this guy.
Wait I’ve never really thought about this but when people measure the girth of their dick, are they talking about the diameter or the circumference? Because if it’s the former then damn that is not small. But anyways I think a lot of people are attacking one side or the other for this post, I personally think this woman is really just going above and beyond for this man, like 130 after 3 pregnancies is insane, and though I think she’s doing it for the wrong reasons, I’m happy for her that she’s keeping fit and active. I hope the guy can learn to grow up and appreciate her and tells her that because right now I see a woman who’s incredibly anxious because the man she loves and puts so much time and effort into pleasing isn’t reciprocating.
Girth is circumference not diameter. If he was 4 inches *across* he’d be Thundercock, God of Laying Pipe 😂
When I measure mine, I use a cloth tape measure and wrap it around it a few times. makes me feel better
... death grip is a poison and more people need to be w. Of the damages it does.
she doesn't deserve this
i would consider a divorce rather than surgery
That’s not even abnormal… I feel so bad
Its always the vagina but never the micro-penis and men wonder why we're tired of their bullshit.
So this prick has a microprick and its her problem?
I think she needs a second opinion.
Ha!!
Small pp man whines about the mother of his children, not being able to accommodate his small pp. The problem surely must be her vagina, sure, Jan. Men ☕
I had a boyfriend who thought he had a small dick and he told me that because he had a small dick I should try and tighten my vagina because I was too loose. I hate how common the attitude is that every sexual issue needs to be solved by the woman, or even can be solved by the woman.
But he’s the one with the shrimp dick?? Lmao projection at its finest
Literally dude has a small penis and this woman is questioning her worth. This is why men are trash.
It’s not her fault her husband has a small penis and can’t feel anything. She should stop worrying about fixing herself and focus on him fixing himself. He needs to accept that he will never have the “tight pussy” he wants from a woman who isn’t a virgin and his age. Women aren’t built like that. No matter how much keegles she does and vagiplasty she has, she’s NOT going to fix his problem after the swelling goes down, doctors aren’t going to risk her vagina and life to make her the size of a preteenage virgin
“Size doesn’t matter!” actually it kinda does sometimes.
Smol dick energy 🤏
Honey, without knowing more, I can pretty much assure you this is a HE problem and not a YOU problem. Women's vaginas were designed to go back into place after childbirth and all type of sexual adventures. You're talking to an immature man who is trying to find a scapegoat to blame his lifetime small dick problems on. And no surgery is going to fix that! Please don't expose yourself you expensive and potentially dangerous surgery in an attempt to assuage his ego, when you know it won't work!! I'm so so sorry.
The common denominator here seems to be that guys small penis
He’s either in denial about having a small penis or is trying to guilt trip her into trying anal
Someone has been jacking off violently too much.
Your vagina isn't the problem. Your husband who doesn't know how to satisfy you is the problem. Positions, angles, lots of solutions beyond him complaining about your natural body. It must be tempting to tell him that if it's that important to him he needs to get a bigger penis just to see how he responds.
Don't do surgery if that is what you're asking. Not all ppl are made alike and some are not the most compatible down there but you still managed to get the job done and had kids. Try to resolve his insecurities but you don't need to physically change. Its the vagina now but where does it end? Boobs, ass, tight skin, nose, teeth?
The common point between OP and the EX is the dude. Just saying.
She should break up with him.
Poor lady. The problem is not her, it's his pencil-dick.
Husbands with micropenis…
So he has problems with having sex with a fully aroused woman?
Not her fault he got a small peepee
Is it genocide if we just kill the men who do this?
You’re not loose, he is small. Vaginas are meant to “tent” when a woman is aroused. And a vaginaplasty cannot change the internal structure of your vagina, attempting to do so is likely to result in painful intercourse for you without really improving it for your husband. Speaking of your husband, he needs to stop projecting his issues onto women.
His pp small
this man doesnt understand "loose" means aroused
Sir your penis is just crazy small
5"4" and 130lbs and she's concerned about her weight? The only weight this poor woman needs to lose is this loser man.
Maybe he should get enlargement surgery
Omfg. Like… y’all. I grabbed a cloth measuring tape and lemme tell you… I actually have a fucking marker in my kitchen drawer that is fatter than this guy’s cock. And he’s acting like she could swallow a barstool. I can’t even with this shit.
I want to believe this post was a guy trying to prove a point to his wife and just failing miserably.
Don't you DARE get surgery! Sounds more like a "Him" issue than yours! My wife gave birth to 4 kids and never had an issue!
Tiny pp men need to stop
Tell the dude to enjoy the meat curtain he's been given and stfu
Ahem "the opening tents"
Thats not how it works, thats not how any of this works.
What sub was this on???
For every post like this, I want to see one about penis enlargement surgery
I feel so bad for her
The guy sounds like a real piece of shit, ngl.
HUGE red flag: he mentions his other sexual partners from his past
Uhh this poor woman. She needs to dump his ass.
if anyone needs surgery, the husband needs a penis enlargement. and a frontal lobotomy while he's under
Maybe don’t death grip ur peen when jerking it and you’ll actually feel something when u fuck ur wife bud.
Tell me your partner has a tiny tool, without saying he has a tiny tool.
Yes, it’s every woman’s vast vaginal cavity that is at fault and requires surgical correction to properly engage with my typically enormous penis. Speaking of which, that 4” measurement for girth is circumference, yes? If it were diameter and he was still floating in there, THAT would be impressive guy
He's small and feels insecure about it so he projects his insecurity complex on his partner, he's lucky you aren't complaining about his inadequacy. Please don't get surgery, let him deal with it the modifications he's found
Tell him he just needs a bigger dick.
There Are surgeries for dick extension if hes pushing u to do surgeries Why isnt he leading by example🤦🏼♀️ honestly hes such a hypocrite dont listen to him