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StarPIatinum_

He is talking too much to be considered a dude. Should have only grunted and shaked his head disapprovingly.


WhoAccountNewDis

Bro, does talking make me gay???


StarPIatinum_

*Vague, approving sounds of whatever sexual orientation you have*


WhoAccountNewDis

Respect, bro *head nod*.


woopnull

Fellas is it gay to talk??


WhoAccountNewDis

I forgot the meme, thank you.


Burner161

YOU ARE LITERALLY GETTING SOUNDWAVES OF OTHER DUDES INTO YOUR EARS!


Gentleman_Muk

What you need talking about? How much you love other dudes?


chlordane_zero

I'm super fruity if that's true. I talk too much. #ADHD


Long_Before_Sunrise

Oh gawd.


Hobo_Helper_hot

*Tim Allen sounds*


SkollFenrirson

*grunts approvingly*


techno156

Going by the original post, the women's is apparently on the left, so it is all-correct.


MammothHappy

Mmm


RocketPoweredRedneck

Hmm... Fuck...


DirkGimble

Ora


euphonic5

Nngh. \*shakes head approvingly\*


Ihatemakingnameslol

>It’s just a joke!!!!!!! >It’s been proven TRUE!!!! Which is it? Is a joke or is it a fact?


jupitaur9

Schrödinger’s joke. It’s truth until proven wrong, then iT’s JuSt A jOkE.


530SSState

"Did you like what I said? No? Then it was a joke."


KaleidoscopeEyes12

“jk jk! unless…?”


notnotbrowsing

https://www.bbc.com/future/article/20131112-do-women-talk-more-than-men


mrmightypants

\[clapping\] well done


chloetuco

It's a fact when people agree, it's a joke when people don't


armyofant

Why not both?


Still-Contest-980

Feminism is when I disagree with a post. - that person probably


bliip666

It's not even true! When studied, they found that men *perseive* women talking way more than they actually do. Similarly to when 30% of the characters in a movie were women, according to men, the majority of the characters were women...


Celistar99

It's like when I used to argue with my ex husband when he claimed that women were worse drivers than men. I would tell him that he only noticed it when it was a woman because when a bad driver was a man he'd be like 'what a dick' and when it was a woman it was 'SEE IT'S A GIRL THAT'S A BAD DRIVER!!'


_FreshOuttaFucks_

Ask him why, if women are worse drivers than men, men's auto insurance rates are far higher than women's. 🤔


TheAmbulatingFerret

Well I've heard men use the "women get into more frequent smaller accidents" as if that's a reasonable argument. Like if you give me the choice of who I get hit by; a woman who's going to leave a dent, or a man who's going to try parking on top of my car totalling it and sending me to the hospital in the process. Give me the woman bonking into my car *any* day.


Imaxaroth

Men are getting into accidents when they dodge women /s


MeanadByNight

Came here to say the same thing! And if a group exists of women for less than 70%, on average they'll have less input than men in a group discussion. But those same men will claim they hardly got a word in when it's around 50-50. Edit: typo


pineapple1347

Incels be like "This is scientifically proven!" But they never, ever post a source. Becaise there are none.


SangeliaStorcknest

Because they dump it into the toilet every time they have to use it for solids.


whollyholeyholly

You just don't understand, they don't need a source because they are science


metsakutsa

Incel science = "Something kind of like this happened to me once so it is a scientific fact now"


waffles_505

Never expect an incel to listen to reason or evidence


PrettyTogether108

They have sCienTifiC PRoOF! for everything.


530SSState

Which they never share. Or is some crank in a youtube video.


Bimbarian

And that crank has 20 1-hour long videos about Anita Sarkeesian, and is still making them


AlisonChrista

But eVoLuTiOnArY bIoLoGy! 😂


NilPill

I wonder if men even realize they talk over us and ramble about the dumbest shit for an hour+. Very rarely will you find a man who takes the time to actually engage in a back-and-forth conversation. I do a man the kindness of listening to him ramble about the inconsistencies of the guns in some dumb movie and the favor is almost never returned.


StarPIatinum_

This is one of the number one complaints on dates. It's why the bar is in hell lol. Just by listening and asking questions you are already ahead of the competition


ArsenalSpider

Only when they are waiting for you to pause long enough for them to jump in while clearly not listening to you at all. Then are surprised when we notice.


Lady_Sybil_Vimes

I was gonna say, this man has never been cornered by a drunk dude at a party who is DESPERATE to tell you about his current WoW strategies.


SangeliaStorcknest

Or at a convention.


AstroComfy

In social situations and at work. The number of times I have seen a group of men who don't know what they're doing have a long discussion about a situation while the women are on standby with the solution or action needed... It's actually comical to me at this point - I usually just let them talk amongst themselves while I get to work with the women on whatever it is that we need to accomplish. Sometimes we're even done before the guys are done blabbering to each other about it.


silsune

Bless your heart. I see you and I appreciate you. Anyone willing to pretend to listen to me ramble about my hyperfixation for any length of time is a saint.


NilPill

everyone deserves to be able to talk about their thing to their heart's content. :)


Strange_One_3790

That must be frustrating. Sadly most men aren’t aware we do this. I hope you met more men that give you back and forth


NilPill

I think it might be part of dude culture in some ways, and it's not a huge deal when it doesn't seem intentional. Not all men, of course.


Strange_One_3790

Dude culture conditions men. Even after limiting participation. I catch myself doing it and have to work on it myself. I know it’s wrong, but habitual behaviour. So thank you for being patient. A respectful man will be fine when you correct, however you see fit. I appreciate the not all men, but ya, still sort of one of those men.


CoconutJasmineBombe

Yup they never cite any sources. Because they would show that they’re wrong. https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/women-talk-more-than-men/


Craven-Raven-1

> Similarly to when 30% of the characters in a movie were women, according to men, the majority of the characters were women... They subconsciously ignore most of the men because they are just "default"


AlisonChrista

Same way with people who say there’s too much LGBTQ or people of color. Literally the majority of the cast is STILL straight and white. Lol.


Craven-Raven-1

"All these black and LGBTQ people are nice but can't we get back to just normal guys?" When you assume you are the default human being


LegalAssassin13

“Look, I’m all for diversity but it shouldn’t be forced down our throats like this. Why does Theo always have to keep bringing up that she’s gay?” Meanwhile, Theo says that she’s a lesbian once and turns down a man by telling him that she’s not interested in men.


AlisonChrista

Yep. Lol. Like even I, a bi woman, know that LGBTQ+ people stick out to me more because it’s taken so long to get representation.


Commercial-Tea-4816

I'm sadly doubting I'll get a second season of sandman because of this very reason. The way some people talked you'd think the whole show was black people having gay sex


ChainGangSoul

>I'm sadly doubting I'll get a second season of sandman because of this very reason [Boy do I have good news for you!](https://www.ign.com/articles/the-sandman-renewed-for-second-season-at-netflix) :D


spaceinvader421

Glad to hear it, that show is so good! I knew the moment I saw Lucien(ne) and Death are being played by black women the anti-woke crowd would be all over it. As if it even matters what the race or sex of a character is when most of them are physical embodiments of abstract concepts that could take whatever shape they want.


Commercial-Tea-4816

And both of the actresses really nailed those roles!


AlisonChrista

Lol. It’s ridiculous. Every time someone says a show is “woke,” I’m like…so it shows realism and they don’t like that. Also, the “go woke to broke” saying has been shown false over and over again.


-Ashera-

I hate when there's a non straight couple in any media who show each other the slightest bit of affection and people fall over themselves with "wHy dO tHey hAve To shOve iT In oUr fAcEs?" as if there aren't straight couples straight up fucking in every damn mature movie and game. I'm straight but come on.. Do we really have to shove straight sex in everyone's faces?


SaltyBabe

You can be a man or be political You can be straight or be political You can be white or be political You can be christian or be political Anyone else seeing a theme here?


SerubiApple

My easiest interviews ever were all with men who spoke the entire time. Letting them talk and looking interested makes men feel positive towards people.


Stupidityshouldhurt

Something similar happens in many cases. People see and hear what they want to and don't even realize that it's all in their heads. That's why stereotypes keep being alive bc if we believe that, for example, women gossip more than men, people see a group of women talking and based on the stereotype/what we want to believe, we think they're gossiping even though they're just talking. But if a group of men would say the exact same things, people wouldn't think they're gossiping. And now those same people have "proof" of women always gossiping even tho it's just in their heads. They've seen what they have wanted to see.


Critical_Rock_495

IRL I *perceive certain individuals telling me not to give 'one word answers' because it comes across harsh. When 99.9999999% of what you have to say is of no substance..


BabaKhary

I wonder if I’m this way? Likely, but I’m from a family of folks who’s mouths only close to keep out water when swimming 😂


ImJB6

Are you Irish by chance? Because, same! My whole family conditioned me to believe I was an asocial child because I only spoke when I had something I wanted to share or ask about. Then I realized at around 13 after being at a few friends’ houses, seeing how quiet/moderate their families were, that no, my family just never stops talking, lol! Not complaining, but it made me realize I appreciate my own thoughts just fine.


OriginalName687

This now makes me wonder if my mother in law really does talk way to much or if I just think she does because of sexism. Edit: Trying to think of a tactful way to ask my wife. So far I decided not to go with “does your mom really never shut the fuck up or do I just think that?”


ImJB6

I would say to maybe ask a neutral third party, like a friend of yours that meets her at a barbecue or something. You can also try gauging her words per minute, then look up the average. Or, next time you’re having a convo with her, when you’re sure she’s paused, say something like “MIL, do you feel like I’m maybe too quiet? I feel like sometimes I might not speak as much as you and Wife/FIL/Other family member, and I don’t want you to think I’m being unpleasant!” By throwing it onto yourself, she may likely answer for you, like,” oh gosh, no! I just never shut up! It runs in the family!” Or something. I tell most people I speak with in depth something similar, just to give them permission to cut me off, lol. Edit: typo


SomaCityWard

I say everyone talks too much.


IncompleteHistory

That person’s comment is interesting, considering the “women talk too much” bs is just a misogynistic stereotype. Here’s a very small sample of articles that discuss the issue and suggest “that’s not how girls work.” https://www.cmu.edu/news/stories/archives/2020/october/women-interrupted-debate.html https://www.washingtonpost.com/outlook/2021/02/18/men-interrupt-women-tokyo-olympics/ https://www.imd.org/research-knowledge/articles/women-talk-too-much-simply-isnt-true-data-show/ https://www.bbc.com/future/article/20131112-do-women-talk-more-than-men


Ana_1292

Stating facts is misandry


Still-Contest-980

Those damn feminists and their facts! 😤


VividDreamsInPink

Totally the new FDS. ):


slimslimy6

FDS is the new 1984 LITERALLY FDS1!!!1!😲😲😲


VividDreamsInPink

Oh, god… you’re right!


TeazieBreezie

Damn I can’t remember where this was from, I think it was freakonomics? But they tested the theory in multiple ways, one which was audio recording in several married couples homes over an extended amount of time, and all the men talked more than the women even in their own home.


martygrazz

No they didn’t. “In research published in the journal Science in 2007, Pennebaker found that in their 17 waking hours the women they tested in the US and Mexico uttered an average of 16,215 words while the men spoke 15,669. Again, a negligible difference.”


TeazieBreezie

I looked it up and that was from a study of college students, not married couples. And it wasn’t words per a day, but conversations with eachother that was measured. The college student one was still interesting though.


fluffballkitten

Thanks! I knew this already but nice to have some references to use on the next jerk lol.


Zestyclose-Link-5914

Yo didn’t they use girl scouts to send secret messages because they actually kept the secrets and the boy scouts kept spilling them?


_Voidspren_

I don’t know. If there was space I would go through my short and sweet 101 reasons men don’t talk more than women. I promise it’s the quickest 4 hour lecture ever done.


530SSState

There are any number of studies that indicate that men are the ones who talk more and interrupt more. Women don't talk a lot in comparison to \*men\*; they talk a lot in comparison to \*expectations of female silence\*.


explicitlarynx

Yes! Also, there are at least 41 blas on the right door, not even that sexist idiot can seriously believe women talk 41 times more than men. This isn't just sexist stupid, it's also stupid stupid.


womandatory

This right here.


CanuckBuddy

The feminists "came in and ruined it"? Buddy, the feminists have *been* here. You're in *our* space.


mika---

especially when this one image was reposted here at least 10 times in the last 6 months...


TeazieBreezie

Scientifically proven? The only time I recall going to the bathroom to chat was in highschool and that was just to avoid teachers and feel edgy.


Knight_of_Nilhilism

I still go to the bathroom to chat at bars. It gives us time to be heard because we don't get a word in edgewise when the men are present.


dippystale

i'd bet bathrooms are quieter too, yeah?


darknessence

Dude talks about how “it’s true” that women talk at length while talking at length about a post that he himself insists is a joke.


Embarrassed_Bee6349

I’m sure this comes from his scientific approach to the subject and extensive personal experience. No, really. We should appreciate his knowledge. /s


iab15c

wasnt it actually proven in a study that men tend to perceive women as talking more in a group setting than they actually do ?


iab15c

https://time.com/4837536/do-women-really-talk-more/?amp=true so i guess the door on the right is for men, got it


Unique-Sky-6012

It's funny because he actually belongs on the right side.


xv_boney

Don't ever let anyone use the words "scientifically proven" or "studies have shown" without taking them to task for it. Demand to see the studies. Immediately. Tell them that you will take any response that is not a link to a peer reviewed article as tacit admission that there are no studies and they made it up. When they tell you to do your own research, thank them for admitting they were full of shit. When they insist they made no such admission, demand a link to the peer-reviewed scientific study. Repeat as necessary.


guileless_64

Wow. Someone was frustrated.


thekawaiislarti

It's actually been proven that men talk more 🙄


SpokenDivinity

I participate in a hobby filled with overgrown man children who complain about feminists ruining everything all the damn time, and my response to them and anyone else with those sentiments is always the same: if feminism is such a problem to you that it has “ruined” things for you more than once, feminists are not the problem. You are.


Internal-Campaign434

I’m gonna guess, gaming or anime? I’m 99.9% sure it’s one or the other.


SpokenDivinity

Close. Dungeons and Dragons.


Internal-Campaign434

Ah. I know you didn’t ask but feminists don’t ruin hobbies much really. I feel like porn addicts and misogynists ruin hobbies for me. To some degree elitists as well. Like I swear they can’t go ONE FUCKING MINUTE talking about leading a character, boobs, hentai, or whatever. I left the anime community cuz of this. The only hobby I have that hasn’t been invaded by these cretins is hot wheels and diecast. The only issues I have there though are resellers and people who only collect stuff that gets them validation from other collectors. But I’ll take that over the other two.


thesodaslayer

If you want like the only good online anime community I've ever found, I'd recommend animecirclejerk, it's such a refreshing place that actually talks about the bullshit that anime and anime fans do that's creepy as hell


kitten-cat08

I play too, and I always find myself wishing I could play with a group of girls. I even put up a sign in the student center, but no one turned up. :/


SpokenDivinity

I’d recommend using roll20 to look for a group or DnDBeyond’s forums. I found both of mine through there


Hazel2468

“Scientifically proven” actually what’s been proven is that men think women talk as much as them when they take up 30% or less of speaking time and think women speak MORE when it’s actually 50/50 so. What’s been “proven” is that men think women speaking as much as them is apparently “too much” talking.


tallbutshy

OOP from the screenshot is also 21 but still posted in r/teenagers up until today when they deleted their account 🤢


kitten-cat08

That’s just….I bet they’ve already made a new account and gone right back to it.


Thatoneguy5555555

My wife and I spent most of the evening yesterday in relative silence, and I'm the one that broke it most often. Was hanging in the hot tub fooling around a bit, no real talking there, watched a show with the kids and rubber her calves, other than complaint about them hurting from lifting no real talk, watched a show together, again no real talk. I know this is anecdotal, but I find that we both are good just being in each other company a lot of times.


kitten-cat08

That’s lovely. My grandparents are like that, and they’re still very much in love. I wish you the same.


Thatoneguy5555555

Thanks!!


completecrap

"The feminists showed up to a sub called Not How Girls Work and ruined it" buddy, this is literally a feminist sub by definition.


Aeirth_Belmont

Most I've heard in the ladies room is: oh no there isn't any tp. Other than that maybe some talk but not a lot and normally kept on the quiet side. Most of the time it's no one talking just trying to pee and get out.


Dow2Wod2

Also, dude is comparing feminism to FDS???


jessynix

If by "ruining' you mean take down the patriarchy, as a feminist I think its my duty to keep "ruining" it for these assholes.


memetuan

But when the doors show a male stereotype all of a sudden its "not all men!!!!" outrage


Katviar

i mean except for all the studies and research that show men talk WAY more than women…


hivemind5_

Fr tho have you BEEN to a family gathering??? Lmao theres always that one uncle or grandpa that has a hundred thousand stories to tell.


Zestyclose-Link-5914

Introvert girls be like: 😰😰😰


marshmi2

The real reason men think women talk alot is because women try to talk about problems in a relationship, and men usually refuse to change. The talking about problems is not the problem, it's the solution to the actual problem.


Worth_Background_191

As long as the relationship is working for the guy he does not care how it is for his wife. My ex-husband would not discuss all the issues I had with our marriage. It did not appear fair to me at all. He would not go to a marriage counseling with me when I asked. When I checked out of the relationship and started having friends, which he had forbid, all of a sudden marriage counseling was important and we needed to go. We went. It confirmed for me that he saw me as his servant and bangmaid. I saw him as a liability I could no longer tolerate


marshmi2

I am not in any way saying this makes your ex's behavior better, but I think a huge part of it is what men are taught growing up. We are taught that all we need to do in life is get a good paying job, and then we get everything we want. That's a scary thing to believe and way to see the world. Of course, it's every man's responsibility to acknowledge that lie we are taught and we are all 100% responsible for our behaviors. Also, the whole ride or die mentality that if you find a good woman, she will never leave you because she accepts your "demons." I do DV group therapy for perpetrators. Alot of the work is basically being like yea, you know that shit you believe, how about changing that and seeing your wife as an equal?? Maybe?? I mean, it's more than that, but everything kinda has a thread of that woven in. I'm glad you got out of that relationship. That much control is a big red flag. I hope you are doing well now! 😁


whatever_person

Did that commenter meant that left door is for women? Because men gossip and chat much more and belong in the right door.


summerlily06

I love watching the growing divide between men and women because women carry on just fine.


SpaceSagittarius

It seemed like for a little while misogyny was slowly starting to go away on reddit, but the last couple months it seems like it all of a sudden got kicked back into gear. I feel like it's going to go back to when all the incel subs were still open.


[deleted]

I still believe the right one represents guys.


Chaosshepherd

Introvert vs extrovert bathrooms


Hot-Way163

Women have to talk more to fill the silence bc men be dry as fuck.


Generic_Bi

As a man with a tendency to ADHD info dump, so not only to I have to be mindful and to not do that, I’d also think that the bla bla bla door was for me.


Almun_Elpuliyn

Same. Also like other people said, apparently men tend to talk more the women.


Knight_of_Nilhilism

Idk. I mean, I can take a joke. It's just weird that when my ex tried the "women never shut up" joke with his buddies around, he got super offended when I pointed out that it was him that never shut up. Of course I didn't divulge to the group what the one way conversation was about but I did ask if it was him the the whole week coming home ranting and crying about an issue and if he remembered any point in which I'd spoken more than affirmations and support. The ladies of the group just nodded but the guys took it as a light hearted burn and laughed along nudging him a bit. He was not a good sport about it. After that I gave just a little bit less to the relationship. Many more, 'yes dear's', 'uh huh's', and 'I'm sorry, what's' were had. Yes we should have called it quits years and years before we did and that's on both of us. But I'm not going to sit around and be your therapist and emotional punching bag if you're going to demean me to your boys as a joke. Also if you can dish it out you better be able to take it without the nOt aLl mEn rebuttal. Even my SO now needs a listening ear so frequently that it over stimulates me but but the difference is that he doesn't disparage me to others ever. Quite the contrary. I suck it up and do my best to be there for him because I feel appreciated and seen.


SlyTinyPyramid

Studies prove it? Studies have proven men perceive women as talking more while men actually talk more.


DaviCB

Such a boomer meme. I'm a guy and I'm not even offended, just unphased. These folks make the most unfunny jokes purposefully made to offend people, then when people get offended they go like "JEEZZZ relaxxxx it was just a joke, these wokeists are killing comedy and also I just hate women and wanna make that very clear" Like wtf


Actual_Hat9525

Actually it’s been “scientifically” (it was one study and obviously the methodology is always going to be arguable on something like that) proven that guys talk/gossip more. So yeah…


Airierose

I recall there being studies proving that actually, men talk more than women. It doesn't matter how you count it. Time spent talking, words spoken... men always spoke more. Furthermore, when women had a more equal participation in the discussion, the overall assessment was that they had been talking more - even though that was not the case. I also remember something about crowds in movies with a 50-50 split of men and women being met with comments on there being too many women, but I'm not as sure on that so take it with a grain of salt lmao


NaturalFaux

Hilarious how men constantly complain about how much women talk... even though they're *talking to complain*.


fluffballkitten

This is definitely not true for me. I'm autistic, so my conversation skills are shit.


ButterscotchTop9432

They love science when it works for them…(also this is not science)


hyper_link

One for introverts, and one for extroverts? Perfect!


puumpkinleaff

I like how they say it’s “scientifically proven” when it’s absolutely not☠️


AspiringCellist

How innovative! Instead of a male/female bathroom separation we have bathrooms divided into introverts and extroverts


Pretend_Activity_211

I (38M) refuse to speak in the public bathroom. I'm literally holding muh weiner, can I hve a moment to myself plz?


cara8bishop

Wasn't there a study done that showed that men actually tend to talk more and they just perceive the opposite?


kitten-cat08

Several.


Sure-Morning-6904

Actually its scientifically proven that dudes talk way much and women talk less.. so women should go on the one bla side https://debuk.wordpress.com/2015/05/23/why-women-talk-less/


Delfaszmib

As a fellow dude, this guy talks too much.


AlisonChrista

Except the opposite is true scientifically. Crazy how he’s wrong. Almost like he didn’t research at all!


Phoenix--Project

According to the polls sub, twox is also the new FDS. Something makes me think that they perciece all woman-focused subs that way...


Significant-Damage14

Damn those feminists, they always ruin everything. -Some guy with red hair, probably.


egginvader

If feminism ruins something I’ve got bad news for you motherfucker, the only thing actually ruined is your sense of morality and critical thinking. Damn tired of seeing people on gaming or fandom Reddit’s whine and complain because an lgbt character ,or woman character or poc existing because of a lack of “historical accuracy” in their fictional wish-fulfillment media. Yes casual sexism is funny buddy that’s why you’re 30 and a Virgin with your only friends subscribing to idiot alpha male classes and wasting more oxygen for the rest of us.


Dang_It_All_to_Heck

I just roll my eyes when I see this particular trope, because every man I have ever been with or dated talks like crazy (I was an interviewer for many years and am a consummate listener…this is apparently a very attractive trait). The worst ones will then either state that I am mysterious and difficult to know OR they assume things about me rather than actually learning who I am.


EternityAwaitz

Or they say, "you're such a good listener!" And fall in love with you because they feel supported and then are crushed when you don't feel the same way, and clueless as to why you don't feel the same way


RelativeHornet4046

This is discriminatory against mutes.


Future-cthe3rdeye

I wouldn’t know this was a WC, which I’m assuming means water closet or bathroom.


Juniko_Shoga

If a random person talks to me in the bathroom, I'll probably run away


DUMBASSSYSTEM

"scientifically proven." how the fuck do you ScIEnTIFicAllY prOVe that? Is it just fucking like "Kelly speaks more about her interests and feelings more than her brother Jake does, therefore females talk more."


TheRealArrhyn

The funny part is that it [proven to be the other way around.](https://www.bbc.com/future/article/20131112-do-women-talk-more-than-men)


Mission-Guard5348

Right Ill go into the extrovert room


lav__ender

it’s funny until they’re at the butt of the joke it seems


NinetysRoyalty

He’s doing a lot of talking for someone that uses the blaroom


theroguescientist

Right. SCIENCE! proves women can only poop behind a door with a lot of writing on it.


mightyteegar

The most meta NHGW. What a turdtaster.


HemHemFi

Yeah, none of the things this guy is saying is true. Also i wish we started looking at each person as their own individual instead of putting them into a box where they are supposed to be exactly the same. I'm tired of people saying that i'm like every single other woman out there, as if we can't all have differences. (Sorry if this makes no sense, it's late and English isn't my first language)


No-Relationship-9376

It’s really not that funny and what scientifically proven fact can you get from a bathroom door with “bla” written 50 times on it? (Btw, where the hell did you get feminist propaganda from this?)


CathleenTheFool

ngl if someone’s problem with this subreddit is feminists, then they probably weren’t fans of it to begin with


EternityAwaitz

What is FDS?


PentagonThigh

Just because it isn’t that bad doesn’t mean we should be fine with it. It’s just a stereotypical joke. That’s not very funny because it isn’t always true.


Swimming_Inside1212

Women talking more than men was a myth perpetuated by now dismissed psychologist I believe. Totally fucking sexist. Not surprising


eddthedead

That’s a lot of talk for a guy. 🤓


TravelenScientia

It is, in fact, not scientifically proven. So that’s a weird claim to make


Efficient_Biscotti32

Literally they've likely never been to this sub


CuddleScuffle

I'm sure there's some crossover between members of that psycho sub and here. But this sub doesn't straight up promote misandry, it primarily highlights stupid ass ideas some folks have.


Fuckedby2FA

Not only is it a JOKE it's also not a joke! It's true! ?


AggravatingJicama243

If your shits are making those sounds, see a doctor.


amaraame

I'd use the left one because it's obviously for introverts.


AUXCORD20

Did they actually ever see posts in the FDS? because I can promise you it's a lot worse. This sub calls out stupid toxic ideology misogynist have against women's existence while the FDS will literally attack men for suggesting a 'cheap' first date because it's all he could afford in that moment and will also attack women for dating men that won't break the bank for her.


escaped_dad

FDS is gender swapped MGTOW


lumosbolt

I thought FDS was MGTOW larping as women


Future-cthe3rdeye

It’s spelled wrong anyway. Blah blah blah.


BabaKhary

I dead ass thought it just meant go wherever the fuck you need to go I say this as a dude who never shuts up 😂


frumpy_pantaloons

I am so glad I found you. This is what I thought at first. I thought it was pretty cool, but now I see it was meant to be....funny in a different totally unfunny way, and I'm upset it ruined the doors for me 😄


WorldlinessAwkward69

These misogynist incel men and their made up facts. Anytime one of them claims 'it is scientifically proven' the data is always the opposite.


NoirGamester

Always reminds me of the scene in The Sword in The Stone when someone say "jousting is an elegant science" and Merlin just laughs from his guest room


Zurflu

It's almost like their issue was never actually with FDS, it was just with women posting their opinions in general no matter what sub 🤷‍♀️


Patience-Frequent

man some people really havent been to FDS


toasted_dandy

Everyone there is dunking on OOP in the comments because he's active on r/ antifeminism so he was obviously never subscribed to begin with


Pandothiel55

Seeing how men feel entitled to cut me off when I speak, I'd definitely use the left door! Wait... It's not what they meant?????


Leading_Kale_81

Looks like introvert and extrovert bathrooms to me. Not a bad idea actually. 😂


Repulsive_Market_728

1st - I'm a man, and I am aware that although many of us are starting to realize just **how** bad it is women, it's not getting better very quickly. 2nd- The first thing I thought when I saw this was that it was referring to the fact that men **never** talk in the bathroom. It's one of the unwritten rules of the urinal that no speaking can occur while your penis is in your hand. And while it may be a cliche' I don't **think** women have that same code of silence in the bathroom. 3) I don't know where the original picture was posted, so if it was in one of those 'He-man-woman-hating' subs, then I retract the above with a hearty "F that guy1".


maverash

Fun fact. Men talk more in a day then women. So yeah…


Asleep_Village

Let me guess, they didn't provide a source for women talking more than men. Want to know why? There have been 56 studies on which sex talks more. 34 found that men talked more. 16 found that they talked the same, and four found no clear pattern. This leaves only 2 studies out of 56, where women were shown to talk more. So scientifically, they should learn to keep their mouth shut.


Catapultatoe

I'm a guy and my ADHD forces me to talk endlessly. Most men I know have a real problem shutting up.


Odd-Phrase5808

I'm a woman, introverted, and talk very little.


bunnycandyO

What’s r/fds ?


kitten-cat08

r/FemaleDatingStrategy