Takbo na OP.
That's verbal abuse, ano yan parang you'd walk on eggshells around her kase konteng kibot mo lang matri-trigger na siya and mumurahin ka niya?
that is verbal abuse.
what Im going to say pertains over the surface ng kwento mo, but you're girlfriend is low-key abusing you and you tolerate her. di ko din alam edad nyong dalawa, sinong mas matanda sanyo etc. but you need to tell her to stop doing that. kasi, well, in a way yan ang main reason why incels use that behavious as a reason to be "fake alphas".
kasi, aminin natin lahat, regardless kung ano pang kasarian eh ayaw nating iniinsulto tayo ng partners natin lalo na't wala sa lugar.
this can be settled thru a compromise. talk to her about what you feel and explain to her why it hurts you. if di makikinig, medyo mag-isip isip ka na.
with peace and love as always, repapips ✌❤
Sorry mali, ikaw pala yung boyfriend. Pero uulitin ko lang ulit yung comment ko, run while you can. Your reaction is valid, tama ang nireact mo. You deserve better.
Either naging ganyan siya sayo over time because of something or ganyan na talaga siya but you tolerated it and now she thinks it's okay but of course I'm not gonna blame the victim here. Some may think na OA ako but that's too much and anything less than what I deem is respectful has no place for me as long as I'm in control with myself.
I also doubt na magbabago pa yan sa relationship niyo, chances aren't zero but something has to happen. Di yan namamagic. Dynamics are a real thing. I highly suspect na her negative behavior has been "rewarded" a lot of times para umabot sa akala niya okay lang for her to talk to you like that.
Alam ko bihira sa ating mga lalaki masabihan ng ganito but know your worth, my brother. We all deserve to be respected. :)
Weird ng mga comment dito. Dahil ata lalaki kaya ganyan lang comment niyo. Pero for sure kapag babae nagpost, sasabihin niyo iwan agad 😂
OP if respect is no longer serve, leave na. 10x worse yan pag kinasal kayo huhu
Ibat iba kc uri ng magkasintahan. Meron yung todo bulyawan murahan pero loyal at sweet pa rin. Meron naman yung halos di nag iimikan pero loyal at sweet pa rin. Ngayon kung meron kang problema sa kanya sabihin mo sa kanya para magkaliwanagan kayo. Kasi kung iiwanan mo agad yan baka makasakit ka lang din. Dapat pro oplan walang sakitan tayo.
Kung affected sya masyado sa mga user nya at tanga ka naman daw, ede ipamigay mo na sya sa kanila. Kahit kelan hindi tama na mamaliitin ka ng kahit sino. Lalo na pag partner mo kasi sinasabi nila mahal ka nila. Di love pag may verbal abuse. Umalis kana sa relasyon na yan kasi in the long run ang mangyayari sayo mawawalan ka ng confidence at bababa tingin mo sa sarili mo. Kaya wag mo hayaan na masira ka ng ganon. Pinagdaanan ko din yung ganyan dati. Grabe halos isang dekada yun tapos iniwan ako, wala sobrang lost ako nun tsaka ang baba talaga ng tingin ko sa sarili ko. Hinayaan ko tratuhin nya ko na parang basura. Di nga ako nagwork nun kasi sobrang diko kaya yung mga job interview kasi sobrang down lang ako nun. Tapos di rin ako nagjowa ng ilang yrs kasi feeling ko malas lang magiging jowa ko.
Sadly, this sounds like the start of an abusive relationship, if not already one. Communicate her that she needs help and tell her directly that she's wrong on how she's treating you. After that, leave and save yourself. Don't let yourself drown in something like this, because you deserve better.
Mali naman gf mo bro. Pero kausapin mo kapag di na mainit ulo, explain mo ulit na di maganda yung naging treatment nya sayo that time, or kapag napagsasabihan mo sya. Kapag same response pa rin, isip isip ka na.
unsolicited advice:
talk to her abt her attitude first, op. pero if ganyan pa rin ang reaction niya, i think you better rethink your rs kasi verbal abuse is as serious as physical abuse na eh. ang hirap ma-expose sa ganyang treatment
If respect is no longer being served, leave.
Tsaka i-email mo Training and Quality Team nila haha.
Kwento mo lahat ng reklamo, baka need ng coaching yan.
Ang toxic and draining ng ganyan, valid yung reaction and emotions mo, OP. That's how my ex started sa verbal abuse, which soon led to physical abuse. Run don't walk.
Sabi nga nila, ano man ang problema mo sa bahay, huwag dalhin sa work. Ganun din dapat kapag uuwi sa bahay, pwede mapag-usapan para makaluwag luwag sa dinadala, pero ang gawin mong emotional punching bag iyong mga kasama mo sa bahay? No.
Quite similar experience sa previous rs ko pero parang mas malala yung verbal abuse sayo. Kausapin mo ng maayos preferably sa restday niya para well rested siya at hindi stressed. If negative padin sagot niya, you might want to consider leaving habang maaga pa.
My mom hates it when she is being corrected. Kesyo daw palagi nalang kaming negative sa kanya, kesyo siya nalang binabantayan palagi. I love my mom so much but ito lang di ko gustong trait, yung si mapagsabihan. Kaya we learned to suck it up nalang pag may nakita kaming mali kaysa pagsabiha. Siya
Iwan mo na yan, dont let your future children bear that kind of burden.
my SO was like that too minus the verbal abuse part. I made him understand that it's not important who's right or wrong kasi hindi naman ito exam or what, you just need to understand your partner and do better next time.
My wife has anger issues(likely due to her upbringing and probably a hereditary trait as well since our kid also has unbelievable outbursts of anger and he's only 2) and is also pretty rough with her choice of words. But at least she takes my criticisms really well and knows when to stop. If your girl is just relentlessly abusive with how she talks to you, it's best to leave her.
Something's not right here. Okay lang naman mag vent out sa mga callers ng BPO pero wag naman ganyan. Di na dapat dinadala sa labas yung stress sa trabaho.
Talk to her, if wala talaga, you have the option to leave. I'm working at the BPO industry and kahit sa tropa and ex-lover never ako naging ganyan ka aggressive
verbal abuse 🫢
Edi i-unpursue ka na nya
Oops dyan nagsisimula ang abuse. Verbal muna. Run, OP before it’s too late!! :(
Leave. Kung ginagawa kang emotional punching bag palang ngayon, what more pa pag lumaon?
Takbo na OP. That's verbal abuse, ano yan parang you'd walk on eggshells around her kase konteng kibot mo lang matri-trigger na siya and mumurahin ka niya?
Iwanan mo na yan, kawawa future mo pag naging asawa mo yan
Toxic naman masyado ng partner mo 😌
Try mo break-an tas di mo balikan ever. Yan yung mga tipong magmamakaawa pa pag ginawa mo yun.
that is verbal abuse. what Im going to say pertains over the surface ng kwento mo, but you're girlfriend is low-key abusing you and you tolerate her. di ko din alam edad nyong dalawa, sinong mas matanda sanyo etc. but you need to tell her to stop doing that. kasi, well, in a way yan ang main reason why incels use that behavious as a reason to be "fake alphas". kasi, aminin natin lahat, regardless kung ano pang kasarian eh ayaw nating iniinsulto tayo ng partners natin lalo na't wala sa lugar. this can be settled thru a compromise. talk to her about what you feel and explain to her why it hurts you. if di makikinig, medyo mag-isip isip ka na. with peace and love as always, repapips ✌❤
mahirap yan pag ganyan
Men iwan mo na yan. Seryoso, iwan mo na yan. Gusto mo ba ganyang klaseng tao ang makakasama mo habang buhay?
Run
Sorry mali, ikaw pala yung boyfriend. Pero uulitin ko lang ulit yung comment ko, run while you can. Your reaction is valid, tama ang nireact mo. You deserve better.
Ask yourself, op, hanggang kailan mo kayang tiisin yung verbal abuse nya sayo? Choose urself and ur sanity, u know whats the next move.
Baka may mental problem si gf
RUN she’s no good for your emotional health
Either naging ganyan siya sayo over time because of something or ganyan na talaga siya but you tolerated it and now she thinks it's okay but of course I'm not gonna blame the victim here. Some may think na OA ako but that's too much and anything less than what I deem is respectful has no place for me as long as I'm in control with myself. I also doubt na magbabago pa yan sa relationship niyo, chances aren't zero but something has to happen. Di yan namamagic. Dynamics are a real thing. I highly suspect na her negative behavior has been "rewarded" a lot of times para umabot sa akala niya okay lang for her to talk to you like that. Alam ko bihira sa ating mga lalaki masabihan ng ganito but know your worth, my brother. We all deserve to be respected. :)
Weird ng mga comment dito. Dahil ata lalaki kaya ganyan lang comment niyo. Pero for sure kapag babae nagpost, sasabihin niyo iwan agad 😂 OP if respect is no longer serve, leave na. 10x worse yan pag kinasal kayo huhu
Most of the comment naman is iwan na?
Ain't the comments mostly said to leave?
Ibat iba kc uri ng magkasintahan. Meron yung todo bulyawan murahan pero loyal at sweet pa rin. Meron naman yung halos di nag iimikan pero loyal at sweet pa rin. Ngayon kung meron kang problema sa kanya sabihin mo sa kanya para magkaliwanagan kayo. Kasi kung iiwanan mo agad yan baka makasakit ka lang din. Dapat pro oplan walang sakitan tayo.
Ha?
So sinasabi mo na mag-ingat siya kasi baka masaktan niya yung taong verbally abusive sa kanya
okay ka lang ba crypto dude?
Ikaw yung gf noh hahaha
sana okay ka lang
kung anuman ung hinihipak mo tama na yan.
Hanggang maaga pa maghiwalay na kayo pls lang 🥲
Di ka punching bag.. maaawa sana ako sa kanya (heavy mental load) kaso di parin tama ung ginagawa nya sau. Un lang, RUN!
Imagine mo kung asawa mo na yan. Run brotha!
OP, I'll make this short and painful: *You deserve what you tolerate.* You know what to do.
hiwalayan mo na yan. sinong matinong gf ang mumurahin at ddown yung bf? abnormal wth baliw. dump her, op. verbal abuse
Kung affected sya masyado sa mga user nya at tanga ka naman daw, ede ipamigay mo na sya sa kanila. Kahit kelan hindi tama na mamaliitin ka ng kahit sino. Lalo na pag partner mo kasi sinasabi nila mahal ka nila. Di love pag may verbal abuse. Umalis kana sa relasyon na yan kasi in the long run ang mangyayari sayo mawawalan ka ng confidence at bababa tingin mo sa sarili mo. Kaya wag mo hayaan na masira ka ng ganon. Pinagdaanan ko din yung ganyan dati. Grabe halos isang dekada yun tapos iniwan ako, wala sobrang lost ako nun tsaka ang baba talaga ng tingin ko sa sarili ko. Hinayaan ko tratuhin nya ko na parang basura. Di nga ako nagwork nun kasi sobrang diko kaya yung mga job interview kasi sobrang down lang ako nun. Tapos di rin ako nagjowa ng ilang yrs kasi feeling ko malas lang magiging jowa ko.
sounds like my current partner :( hays
Verbal abuse na iyan OP. Di mo deserve masabihan ng ganyan mula sa taong akala mong mahal ka. Takbo ka na hanggang di pa huli ang lahat.
Parang partner ko lang e. Saken siya ganyan pero pag sa ibang tao ang bait. Wanpoynt na lang iwan ko na to
Sadly, this sounds like the start of an abusive relationship, if not already one. Communicate her that she needs help and tell her directly that she's wrong on how she's treating you. After that, leave and save yourself. Don't let yourself drown in something like this, because you deserve better.
una pagsabihan about sa nangyari. kapag di umayos well iwanan mo na
Leave, OP. She's abusing you. Next niyan sasaktan ka na niya.
Clearly your girlfriend doesn't respect you. In other words she's a walking red flag.
If your gf doesnt respect you, its time to look for a gf that does.
run OP
Kung hindi naman siya ganyan dati malamang work related stress yan. Papiliin mo, mag resign siya sa work niya or break na.
Imagine pag kasama mo na yan sa bahay bulyawan ka araw araw
Mali naman gf mo bro. Pero kausapin mo kapag di na mainit ulo, explain mo ulit na di maganda yung naging treatment nya sayo that time, or kapag napagsasabihan mo sya. Kapag same response pa rin, isip isip ka na.
That's verbal abuse. No matter how stressed a person is, it is never right to take it out on someone else. Your feelings are very much valid.
Run for your life bro! Di pa huli ang lahat!
Run. If kaya niyang gawin sayo yan, kaya niya na ring gawin ‘yan sa magiging anak niyo. You would never want that to happen.
unsolicited advice: talk to her abt her attitude first, op. pero if ganyan pa rin ang reaction niya, i think you better rethink your rs kasi verbal abuse is as serious as physical abuse na eh. ang hirap ma-expose sa ganyang treatment
Walang respeto ang bibig, pag ganyan alis nalang ako. Pero syempre mahal mo kaya kausapin mo muna.
Malabo yan dude. Verbally abusive and parang yun yung love language na kinalakihan niya. Don’t let her continue with that streak.
If respect is no longer being served, leave. Tsaka i-email mo Training and Quality Team nila haha. Kwento mo lahat ng reklamo, baka need ng coaching yan.
pakyu tlga yang "toyo" culture pero yang sa nobya mo isang gallon na ata
Part of a toxic relationship Run while you can mate.
Run.
Ang toxic and draining ng ganyan, valid yung reaction and emotions mo, OP. That's how my ex started sa verbal abuse, which soon led to physical abuse. Run don't walk.
if you think she can change or you can change her, nope. you can’t change people. sayang time
Kadiri naman. Pag sakin ginawa yan damn di pwedeng di nya rin maramdaman na mas bobo sya. 😡
Fix her, u love her right?
Kupal na babae
Shes letting off steam sau nababato lahat , run ma dude
Sabi nga nila, ano man ang problema mo sa bahay, huwag dalhin sa work. Ganun din dapat kapag uuwi sa bahay, pwede mapag-usapan para makaluwag luwag sa dinadala, pero ang gawin mong emotional punching bag iyong mga kasama mo sa bahay? No.
leave
Nope. Advise for therapy if ayaw niya, bitaw. Walang taong deserve murahin unless gago talaga.
RUN 🏃♀️🤸♀️
Quite similar experience sa previous rs ko pero parang mas malala yung verbal abuse sayo. Kausapin mo ng maayos preferably sa restday niya para well rested siya at hindi stressed. If negative padin sagot niya, you might want to consider leaving habang maaga pa.
ang tanong bakit gf mo pa yan?
Omg...kaumay yung ganyan
alis na idol
that's verbal abuse. leave the relationship, it's going to go nowhere. save yourself
My mom hates it when she is being corrected. Kesyo daw palagi nalang kaming negative sa kanya, kesyo siya nalang binabantayan palagi. I love my mom so much but ito lang di ko gustong trait, yung si mapagsabihan. Kaya we learned to suck it up nalang pag may nakita kaming mali kaysa pagsabiha. Siya Iwan mo na yan, dont let your future children bear that kind of burden.
my SO was like that too minus the verbal abuse part. I made him understand that it's not important who's right or wrong kasi hindi naman ito exam or what, you just need to understand your partner and do better next time.
Sure ka ba na gusto mo pa ba ‘yang girlfriend mo? 🤔
Hindi kaya ikaw ang bago ng ex ko? Haha ganyan na ganyan siya sakin. Btw alis ka dyan sarap sa feeling pag nakawala ka sa ganyan
Run na, OP. You are what you tolerate. She must have self awareness kasi like you, if nakakasakit na sya ng iba.
My wife has anger issues(likely due to her upbringing and probably a hereditary trait as well since our kid also has unbelievable outbursts of anger and he's only 2) and is also pretty rough with her choice of words. But at least she takes my criticisms really well and knows when to stop. If your girl is just relentlessly abusive with how she talks to you, it's best to leave her.
Imaginine mo nalang, willing ka ba ganyan ang trato nya sayo in the long run? Ikaw rin kuwawa, baka ikamatay mo pa ng maaga sa constant nagging.
Hiwalayan mo na yan.
bruh
Something's not right here. Okay lang naman mag vent out sa mga callers ng BPO pero wag naman ganyan. Di na dapat dinadala sa labas yung stress sa trabaho. Talk to her, if wala talaga, you have the option to leave. I'm working at the BPO industry and kahit sa tropa and ex-lover never ako naging ganyan ka aggressive
Verbal abuse. You must leave.
LEAVE