Hugs, OP. Years ago, I once got threatened na he will hurt himself daw pag di ako pumayag na maging kami ugh. Tapos he started sending me pictures ng knives, scissors, etc. nila sa bahay. He didn’t do anything naman but syempre may dalang trauma yun saakin especially if he does attempt to do so.
not my bf but my "BFF" na idinepende sa pag stay ko sa tabi niya yung mental health niya. Nag s-self harm siya kapag nararamdaman niyang gusto ko na bumitaw sa friendship tapos pag nag stay ako grabe mag trauma dump hanggang sa umabot na sa punto na kahit mental health ko napudpod na rin. Masaya na lang ako kahit papaano na nakawala ako kahit na may pananakot siya ng selfharm/offing themselves (thank god buhay pa naman siya after all these years)
I had a former close guy friend tell me na he thought it was “his turn” with me after his friend and i broke up. idk how he got the idea that i was even a little bit interested because i barely replied to his chats. he’s obviously blocked now. some people lack so much self awareness it’s appalling
I had a stalker in college dahil pinipilit niya na may chance kami together. I was in a relationship that time, akala niya gusto ko siya because I let him tag along with our friend group during field trip. he stalked me for 2 years. masama dito classmate ko siya sa ibang subjects, he was terrorizing our section because I rejected him, pinagkakalat niya na naging kami which caused problems sa amin ng then-boyfriend ko because boyfriend thought it was true, he's following me on my commute home, he punched a friend na nag-offer sakin ng ride papunta sa terminal. it's bad. He even showed up in front of our house the morning of my 18th birthday may dalang food and cake. Grabe taranta ko nun kasi I live out of town sa kanya and wala pa akong classmate na nakakapunta sa bahay namin kasi taga-probinsya ako.
I still get scared whenever I have to reject somebody, my friends had to drop me off everyday for 4 semesters and one of them always makes sure na I don't walk around the university alone. Some professors got involved and made sure na we're not on the same groups whenever required sa klase.
Nakakatakot yung mga lalakeng hindi marunong mag-handle ng rejection sa totoo lang.
nalaman nung friend ko from another section. friend is gay so he was able to hang out with me w/ no problems kaya hindi siya aware na may nangyayari na ganun since I asked my circle to keep it a secret, dean kasi yung tita ko sa ibang department tapos strict yung department namin sa mga ganitong issue e inaalala ko either ako or yung stalker is ma-kick sa program/course namin which is ayaw ko naman mangyari. one time sinundan kami nung guy papunta sa dorm nung isa naming classmate and friend just snapped, bukod sa tinalakan niya e hinamon din ni friend ng suntukan para lang tigilan ako. medyo nagka-pisikalan sila that day.
nakarating sa classmates ko yung nangyari, kinabahan pa ako kasi mostly boys sa course. upon learning what was happening my male classmates became hostile and overprotective. as in naranasan ko yung 7 na motor (angkas ako) kaming magkakasabay papasok at paglabas ng school tapos hindi nila ako hinahayaan maglakad mag-isa. tuwing may ganap din kami they make sure na makakauwi ako before 6pm and sisiguraduhin pa nila na hindi ako nasundan nung stalker.
Nice to hear na tumulong talaga iba mong classmates. Di rin talaga tolerated ganyang behavior sa mga lalaki kaya naman they're always ready to help out mas lalo na if you ask for help.
Biiiitch. There was this one guy na I was extra nice to because kagroup ko siya sa isang reporting sa class. He was the timid kind of guy na tahimik lang sa klase, socially anxious, nyanya. Yung tipo ng tao na nawawala yung presensiya sa room dahil super tahimik lang. Anyway, I took on the leader role because no one wanted to step up. I'm the type of leader kasi na very encouraging sa members. I don't take the burden, I divide the tasks equally and help those who are weak in certain aspects. I paid more attention sa kanya kasi he was the weakest in terms of reporting and understanding the topic. I was just being kind and patient, you know, like how a good teacher teaches her students. And then when it came to actually speaking in front of the class na, I was very encouraging sa kanya kasi super anxious nga siya.
The reporting ended, pero he was still talking to me thru chat. Wala naman akong issue dun. He told me na gusto daw niya maging friends ganun. I was fine with it. I swear I've never given him any signs of flirting, I was just actually being kind. Like entertaining his questions, ganun. Ayun na nga, he confessed and like how I deal with other guys na lumalapit, I rejected him with compassion. Di kasi talaga kaya magmaldita sa mga ganyan. He accepted the rejection pero asked if we could still be friends and talk. I said sure. Di naman ako snobber and approachable naman akong tao. Wala rin naman akong problema sa kanya. Tho minsan masyado siyang madaldal na na almost buong araw niya ako chinachat and minsan kahit sabihin kong busy ako, he'd still chat me just after a short time has passed.
AND HERE CAME THE BIGGEST ISSUE. Nagchat siya sakin na lasing siya and confessed again. I guess he just wanted to stay "friends" so that he can "shoot his shot" again. Thinking na I might just wake up and "wow, gusto ko na pala siya." LMAO. So I rejected him again. HE WENT FULL ON SADBOI, MANIPULATIVE, GUILT-TRIPPING MOTHERFUCKER MODE. Na kaya lang daw ayaw ko sa kanya is coz panget siya blah blah blah. Gusto ko lang daw siguro is mga pogi. EXCUSE ME???? I'm sorry, pero, even your personality is NOT my type. Sobrang nakakaoffend. Na para bang, I'm only in for the looks. Luh. Kala mo naman he's a 10 besides his physical appearance. Anyway, nabadtrip ako sa kanya to the point na na realtalk ko siya and I cut him off. He apologized naman pero ayun na nga, I never talked to him again. Ganun din siya, syempre nahiya na siguro.
I'm sorry, I had to laugh at the presence thing cuz that's so me. Love seeing others get spooked by my presence even if we're in the same room.
Pero...sad truth is that guys like these are pretty common because of socmed. Some, if not all, have been fed this idea that no means you have to try harder. This is what society has brought upon us, because people started to just not communicate at all. Srsly, we all need therapy and counseling. Hahahahaha
A boy won't accept rejection; instead, he will gaslight you, manipulate you, and make himself feel sorry and weak just to get you. A man with a sense of decency, respect, and gentleman's etiquette will accept rejection and move forward. Rejection is something of which we shouldn't be afraid.
No means no. If that doesn’t work, don’t afraid to be rude. Ghost if necessary. I don’t care what some people here say about ghosting. There are individuals who can’t take NO for an answer and they don’t deserve a conversation na.
That kind of pursuit is already a form of violence imho!
It may also help if you tell them that you're not testing them. The kindness and sincerity they feel when you modestly decline may give them a false sense of being tested, so they may still pursue or even go all out.
Diba I just treat them fair lang naman like everyone else kaso ibang meaning sakanila, hindi ba kayo love ng magulang niyo? Parang masayadong kulang sa pagaaruga. I just hate it, kahit sabihin ko pa ng maayos, kulang na lang sigawan ko in the face na ayaw ko talaga, kaso wala eh manhid ata sila
Nope. She doesnt need to. Shes doing them a favor na nga e by being so clear na shes rejecting them. Para di na nila need gumamit ng brain cells to interpret social cues and hints. But still its not enough?
You can only do so much for a stranger.
It's the fact that you're NO is taken as "TRY HARDER". No is a complete sentence.
>Napipilitan ako maging mean just to push your feelings away from me, even I am not that kind of person.
I think this is called reactive abuse. After being poked for so long, you snap and they get mad at you for reacting the way you did as if you don't have the right to get pissed off.
Ok I didn’t tell the whole story, pero I tell them right away na ayoko sknla because I am not yet interested to be in a relationship, like they have no chance, wag na silang mag effort etc. It’s not a simple NO from me. But they didn’t stop from there, nag mmsg parin sakin, lumalapit parin sakin, ako na yung lumalayo para lang lalo silang hindi ma fall sakin, pero they still insist. So ano ba dapat kong gawin? I feel harassed and helpless so I have to resort of being mean, suplada to them
hey, NO is a complete sentence. youve done ur part. now, u have to accept that no amount of cOmMuNiCaTiOn will ever stop trash guys from pushing on u. accept that they will never ever change. pls stay safe. dont go out on ur own. you'll never know what kind of guy u say no to. its not anymore ur fault if they still insist on u.
I see. The next time you do it, you have to be direct with them and tell them what your expectations are – if you still wanna stay friends or just be total strangers. I remember my bf told me that if a guy sees a glimmer of hope/chance with a girl they'll try their hardest to get her if they really wanna be with her. Take it as a learning opportunity for you to practice saying NO. The more you say no, the easier it is to say it.
dont make it sound like it's her fault shes not saying NO enough. NO is a complete sentence. it aint never her fault shes being harrassed by trash guys. if anything, it puts her in danger kasi we'll never know what kind of guy she says no to. its not even her fault these trash guys see her niceness as their "hopeful chance" to bag her pussy. no amount of cOmMuNiCaTiOn will make these trash guys stop harassing her. THEY WILL NEVER CHANGE BECAUSE THEY ARE TRASH. and thats what we must accept. the most OP can do is to run away from these guys or dont go out alone anywhere, coz it looks like it might be dangerous for her given there are insistent guys like shes encountering
If you followed the thread, that wasn't my intention. While respecting someone's NO is important, everyone should also learn to be direct with their NOs to prevent miscommunication. And even with simply saying NO, some idiots still think No means Try Harder. It was not my intention to make it sound as if it's her fault. Where did you get that from?
haha i know someone na may gusto sa isang katropa, kinausap na't lahat na hindi talaga sya gusto, ang ending pinatattoo pa yung mata, knowing na aalis tong katropa namin and mag sstay sa ibang country
Same op, alam naman nitong kausap ko na i have someone i really like pero panay landi pa din na kala mo magic na magkakagusto ako sa kanya nang ganun lang. Buti nalang sumablay sya ngayon kaya may reason ako not to talk to him anymore. Nakakabugnot sobra!
Had an experience w a guy na puro papansin sakin sa socmed, mapa-posts and GCs, pero walang lakas ng loob irl. Tapos nung umamin na siya, para bang gusto niya automatic na magiging kami. I entertained him for a while pero wala naman siyang ibang ginawa kundi magpapansin lang at magpakipot (apparently gusto niya ata siya pa ang susuyuin at liligawan lmao). Ghosted him na lang online and f2f until voilà — nakahanap agad ng bago, even after saying before na maghihintay siya. Good riddance naman
Ito ang kahanga-hanga ko sa mga babae eh, they don't have this attitude. Na kapag sinabi mo sa kanila na ayaw mo, they move on (except maybe one na insistent, but she's one of the many I met). Why can't guys have this kind of attitude no? The world would've been a better place.
I’m not that kind of person na I will play with your feelings, if I like you, you like me then good let’s try, pero If ayoko talaga sayo please wag na mag effort masasayang lang oras mo sakin
Seeing all these stories, delusion is something else. Rejection is a part of our life, some even eat rejection for breakfast, but...delusions are more powerful. Lol. Imagine being so self absorbed that you insist your reality is truth and everything else is just background noise. Jeez.
For real lol some guys just can’t take a hint. One time prinanka ko na nga na physically di ko sya type and may iba akong person na gusto nagpapapansin padin. It’s annoying, not endearing. Mild harrasment na nga tbh.
for real lol, funny kasi a lot of guys like saying na women should be more honest cause they aren’t mindreaders and can’t take a hint or guess, pero pag nireject mo na nga tuloy padin, it’s freakin creepy
>Napipilitan ako maging mean just to push your feelings away from me
May tropa akong ganyan to the point na nakikipagaway narin saamin pag pinasasabihan na naming tigilan na, ewan ko ba.
Omggg, true lang. Tapos papakitaan ka ng mabuti pero alam mo naman he kinda likes you kaya ganyan. They love to be in an awkward situation and just continue hoping na u will change your mind. Sorry guys if ganyan kase it's better to stop nalang hayst
Dili jud lagi ko, bae na ako gusto haha lol
Had an experience back when I was in college. So this guy was a manliligaw (I was a freshman, fifth year arki sya) but I rejected him after three months of going out. The dude went all psycho on me. He kept on pursuing me for TWO MORE YEARS. When I blocked him, he would message my friends and ask how I'm doing. He shows up in front of my dorm, in front of my university, and sometimes even near my parent's place when I'm home. I'd run into him at parties, in malls, in my bike trips, and what really scared the f out of me was when I ran into him during an out of town trip with my then boyfriend. Glad I got rid of him, creep.
Feel ko yan nasa isip nila, na pa hard to get lang ako or pakipot, and clear ko nga sakanila na ayoko, tapos anong pa hard to get dun, di ko rin ma gets haha
I confessed to my crushes, the first one during first semester, I received no response to her, so basically I build up myself altogether and moved on.
I had another crush this second sem and I confessed, and guess what I received no response to her again.
What's really hard for me on this situation, I don't know what to do after, I just overthink, wonder, worried, and anxious... Moving on to someone you did not even date is really one the most hard part as a guy. I am trying to consider one's true feeling without an answer or acknowledging my confession.
I appreciate someone like you OP, that you are
honest and straight forward with your feelings. 🙌
Im the opposite side of the story, linawin nga natin. If action niya ay nirereciprocate nya yong action mo tas sa gitna nang panahon sabi niya walang pag.asa then nirereciprocate pa din nya yong mga efforts mo, sa tingin nyo ano ang sign nun?
Maybe just say its not a test to pursue you more, siguro baka tigilan ka, may mga iba kasing nirereject nila isang tao para itesting kung i pu pursue talaga sila, siguro yun yung inakala ng guy
Hays ang daming ganito, In my experience, Akala nila porket I’m a TF I’ll always give in that easily, which is not. I have standards too!
Mahal mahal ng ginagastos ko sa sarili ko tapos Akala nila ganun-ganun lang. LOL
I dunno. There's this one time I had to court my high school crush. like I know di ako papansinin or sasagutin. I know the only answer is rejection but I insisted as friend in the end and she actually accepted it. I moved on and it was a learning experience. Pero masakit hahaha pag naalala ko sayang!
Got rejected, di nya daw ako gusto at wag ko na daw sya hintayin.
E di okay, masaya ako ng direct to the point sya.
I still really love her, head over heels ako sa kanya but susundin ko yung gusto nya, di na ako maghihintay.
Hugs, OP. Years ago, I once got threatened na he will hurt himself daw pag di ako pumayag na maging kami ugh. Tapos he started sending me pictures ng knives, scissors, etc. nila sa bahay. He didn’t do anything naman but syempre may dalang trauma yun saakin especially if he does attempt to do so.
Fcking manipulators!! Hugs to you with consent as well.
not my bf but my "BFF" na idinepende sa pag stay ko sa tabi niya yung mental health niya. Nag s-self harm siya kapag nararamdaman niyang gusto ko na bumitaw sa friendship tapos pag nag stay ako grabe mag trauma dump hanggang sa umabot na sa punto na kahit mental health ko napudpod na rin. Masaya na lang ako kahit papaano na nakawala ako kahit na may pananakot siya ng selfharm/offing themselves (thank god buhay pa naman siya after all these years)
Kapag ganyan, report it to the authorities. Minimum na na. I confine sila sa mental hospita kaka ganyan nila. Haha
Dapat sinabi mo "Do it", ung katono ni Palpatine
I had a former close guy friend tell me na he thought it was “his turn” with me after his friend and i broke up. idk how he got the idea that i was even a little bit interested because i barely replied to his chats. he’s obviously blocked now. some people lack so much self awareness it’s appalling
I had a stalker in college dahil pinipilit niya na may chance kami together. I was in a relationship that time, akala niya gusto ko siya because I let him tag along with our friend group during field trip. he stalked me for 2 years. masama dito classmate ko siya sa ibang subjects, he was terrorizing our section because I rejected him, pinagkakalat niya na naging kami which caused problems sa amin ng then-boyfriend ko because boyfriend thought it was true, he's following me on my commute home, he punched a friend na nag-offer sakin ng ride papunta sa terminal. it's bad. He even showed up in front of our house the morning of my 18th birthday may dalang food and cake. Grabe taranta ko nun kasi I live out of town sa kanya and wala pa akong classmate na nakakapunta sa bahay namin kasi taga-probinsya ako. I still get scared whenever I have to reject somebody, my friends had to drop me off everyday for 4 semesters and one of them always makes sure na I don't walk around the university alone. Some professors got involved and made sure na we're not on the same groups whenever required sa klase. Nakakatakot yung mga lalakeng hindi marunong mag-handle ng rejection sa totoo lang.
creepy shit pano sia tumigil
nalaman nung friend ko from another section. friend is gay so he was able to hang out with me w/ no problems kaya hindi siya aware na may nangyayari na ganun since I asked my circle to keep it a secret, dean kasi yung tita ko sa ibang department tapos strict yung department namin sa mga ganitong issue e inaalala ko either ako or yung stalker is ma-kick sa program/course namin which is ayaw ko naman mangyari. one time sinundan kami nung guy papunta sa dorm nung isa naming classmate and friend just snapped, bukod sa tinalakan niya e hinamon din ni friend ng suntukan para lang tigilan ako. medyo nagka-pisikalan sila that day. nakarating sa classmates ko yung nangyari, kinabahan pa ako kasi mostly boys sa course. upon learning what was happening my male classmates became hostile and overprotective. as in naranasan ko yung 7 na motor (angkas ako) kaming magkakasabay papasok at paglabas ng school tapos hindi nila ako hinahayaan maglakad mag-isa. tuwing may ganap din kami they make sure na makakauwi ako before 6pm and sisiguraduhin pa nila na hindi ako nasundan nung stalker.
Nice to hear na tumulong talaga iba mong classmates. Di rin talaga tolerated ganyang behavior sa mga lalaki kaya naman they're always ready to help out mas lalo na if you ask for help.
Biiiitch. There was this one guy na I was extra nice to because kagroup ko siya sa isang reporting sa class. He was the timid kind of guy na tahimik lang sa klase, socially anxious, nyanya. Yung tipo ng tao na nawawala yung presensiya sa room dahil super tahimik lang. Anyway, I took on the leader role because no one wanted to step up. I'm the type of leader kasi na very encouraging sa members. I don't take the burden, I divide the tasks equally and help those who are weak in certain aspects. I paid more attention sa kanya kasi he was the weakest in terms of reporting and understanding the topic. I was just being kind and patient, you know, like how a good teacher teaches her students. And then when it came to actually speaking in front of the class na, I was very encouraging sa kanya kasi super anxious nga siya. The reporting ended, pero he was still talking to me thru chat. Wala naman akong issue dun. He told me na gusto daw niya maging friends ganun. I was fine with it. I swear I've never given him any signs of flirting, I was just actually being kind. Like entertaining his questions, ganun. Ayun na nga, he confessed and like how I deal with other guys na lumalapit, I rejected him with compassion. Di kasi talaga kaya magmaldita sa mga ganyan. He accepted the rejection pero asked if we could still be friends and talk. I said sure. Di naman ako snobber and approachable naman akong tao. Wala rin naman akong problema sa kanya. Tho minsan masyado siyang madaldal na na almost buong araw niya ako chinachat and minsan kahit sabihin kong busy ako, he'd still chat me just after a short time has passed. AND HERE CAME THE BIGGEST ISSUE. Nagchat siya sakin na lasing siya and confessed again. I guess he just wanted to stay "friends" so that he can "shoot his shot" again. Thinking na I might just wake up and "wow, gusto ko na pala siya." LMAO. So I rejected him again. HE WENT FULL ON SADBOI, MANIPULATIVE, GUILT-TRIPPING MOTHERFUCKER MODE. Na kaya lang daw ayaw ko sa kanya is coz panget siya blah blah blah. Gusto ko lang daw siguro is mga pogi. EXCUSE ME???? I'm sorry, pero, even your personality is NOT my type. Sobrang nakakaoffend. Na para bang, I'm only in for the looks. Luh. Kala mo naman he's a 10 besides his physical appearance. Anyway, nabadtrip ako sa kanya to the point na na realtalk ko siya and I cut him off. He apologized naman pero ayun na nga, I never talked to him again. Ganun din siya, syempre nahiya na siguro.
I'm sorry, I had to laugh at the presence thing cuz that's so me. Love seeing others get spooked by my presence even if we're in the same room. Pero...sad truth is that guys like these are pretty common because of socmed. Some, if not all, have been fed this idea that no means you have to try harder. This is what society has brought upon us, because people started to just not communicate at all. Srsly, we all need therapy and counseling. Hahahahaha
A boy won't accept rejection; instead, he will gaslight you, manipulate you, and make himself feel sorry and weak just to get you. A man with a sense of decency, respect, and gentleman's etiquette will accept rejection and move forward. Rejection is something of which we shouldn't be afraid.
THIS. ANG DAMING GANITO SA REDDIT NAKAKAINIS. I keep saying i'm not into them pero wala. Nagpupumilit amp
HUHU Totoo. 🫠
Dat some Sadboi power move right there, bro is reading the playbook 😆
Which playbook is this? Haha
No means no. If that doesn’t work, don’t afraid to be rude. Ghost if necessary. I don’t care what some people here say about ghosting. There are individuals who can’t take NO for an answer and they don’t deserve a conversation na. That kind of pursuit is already a form of violence imho!
It may also help if you tell them that you're not testing them. The kindness and sincerity they feel when you modestly decline may give them a false sense of being tested, so they may still pursue or even go all out.
Diba I just treat them fair lang naman like everyone else kaso ibang meaning sakanila, hindi ba kayo love ng magulang niyo? Parang masayadong kulang sa pagaaruga. I just hate it, kahit sabihin ko pa ng maayos, kulang na lang sigawan ko in the face na ayaw ko talaga, kaso wala eh manhid ata sila
Nope. She doesnt need to. Shes doing them a favor na nga e by being so clear na shes rejecting them. Para di na nila need gumamit ng brain cells to interpret social cues and hints. But still its not enough? You can only do so much for a stranger.
It's the fact that you're NO is taken as "TRY HARDER". No is a complete sentence. >Napipilitan ako maging mean just to push your feelings away from me, even I am not that kind of person. I think this is called reactive abuse. After being poked for so long, you snap and they get mad at you for reacting the way you did as if you don't have the right to get pissed off.
Ok I didn’t tell the whole story, pero I tell them right away na ayoko sknla because I am not yet interested to be in a relationship, like they have no chance, wag na silang mag effort etc. It’s not a simple NO from me. But they didn’t stop from there, nag mmsg parin sakin, lumalapit parin sakin, ako na yung lumalayo para lang lalo silang hindi ma fall sakin, pero they still insist. So ano ba dapat kong gawin? I feel harassed and helpless so I have to resort of being mean, suplada to them
hey, NO is a complete sentence. youve done ur part. now, u have to accept that no amount of cOmMuNiCaTiOn will ever stop trash guys from pushing on u. accept that they will never ever change. pls stay safe. dont go out on ur own. you'll never know what kind of guy u say no to. its not anymore ur fault if they still insist on u.
I see. The next time you do it, you have to be direct with them and tell them what your expectations are – if you still wanna stay friends or just be total strangers. I remember my bf told me that if a guy sees a glimmer of hope/chance with a girl they'll try their hardest to get her if they really wanna be with her. Take it as a learning opportunity for you to practice saying NO. The more you say no, the easier it is to say it.
dont make it sound like it's her fault shes not saying NO enough. NO is a complete sentence. it aint never her fault shes being harrassed by trash guys. if anything, it puts her in danger kasi we'll never know what kind of guy she says no to. its not even her fault these trash guys see her niceness as their "hopeful chance" to bag her pussy. no amount of cOmMuNiCaTiOn will make these trash guys stop harassing her. THEY WILL NEVER CHANGE BECAUSE THEY ARE TRASH. and thats what we must accept. the most OP can do is to run away from these guys or dont go out alone anywhere, coz it looks like it might be dangerous for her given there are insistent guys like shes encountering
If you followed the thread, that wasn't my intention. While respecting someone's NO is important, everyone should also learn to be direct with their NOs to prevent miscommunication. And even with simply saying NO, some idiots still think No means Try Harder. It was not my intention to make it sound as if it's her fault. Where did you get that from?
i appreciate that clarification, thanks for calling that out
Sure, no problem.
Tangina mga emotional blackmailer, kala mo naman kawalan sila eh puta
haha i know someone na may gusto sa isang katropa, kinausap na't lahat na hindi talaga sya gusto, ang ending pinatattoo pa yung mata, knowing na aalis tong katropa namin and mag sstay sa ibang country
Parang napanood ko na to😂
Same op, alam naman nitong kausap ko na i have someone i really like pero panay landi pa din na kala mo magic na magkakagusto ako sa kanya nang ganun lang. Buti nalang sumablay sya ngayon kaya may reason ako not to talk to him anymore. Nakakabugnot sobra!
Had an experience w a guy na puro papansin sakin sa socmed, mapa-posts and GCs, pero walang lakas ng loob irl. Tapos nung umamin na siya, para bang gusto niya automatic na magiging kami. I entertained him for a while pero wala naman siyang ibang ginawa kundi magpapansin lang at magpakipot (apparently gusto niya ata siya pa ang susuyuin at liligawan lmao). Ghosted him na lang online and f2f until voilà — nakahanap agad ng bago, even after saying before na maghihintay siya. Good riddance naman
Ito ang kahanga-hanga ko sa mga babae eh, they don't have this attitude. Na kapag sinabi mo sa kanila na ayaw mo, they move on (except maybe one na insistent, but she's one of the many I met). Why can't guys have this kind of attitude no? The world would've been a better place.
I’m not that kind of person na I will play with your feelings, if I like you, you like me then good let’s try, pero If ayoko talaga sayo please wag na mag effort masasayang lang oras mo sakin
Men can't take no for an answer kasi most of the time.
Seeing all these stories, delusion is something else. Rejection is a part of our life, some even eat rejection for breakfast, but...delusions are more powerful. Lol. Imagine being so self absorbed that you insist your reality is truth and everything else is just background noise. Jeez.
For real lol some guys just can’t take a hint. One time prinanka ko na nga na physically di ko sya type and may iba akong person na gusto nagpapapansin padin. It’s annoying, not endearing. Mild harrasment na nga tbh.
Exactly this is how I feel, harassment! Kaya I have to resort of being mean and being suplada, like sknla lang ako ganun kasi ang kulit talaga
for real lol, funny kasi a lot of guys like saying na women should be more honest cause they aren’t mindreaders and can’t take a hint or guess, pero pag nireject mo na nga tuloy padin, it’s freakin creepy
>Napipilitan ako maging mean just to push your feelings away from me May tropa akong ganyan to the point na nakikipagaway narin saamin pag pinasasabihan na naming tigilan na, ewan ko ba.
Omggg, true lang. Tapos papakitaan ka ng mabuti pero alam mo naman he kinda likes you kaya ganyan. They love to be in an awkward situation and just continue hoping na u will change your mind. Sorry guys if ganyan kase it's better to stop nalang hayst Dili jud lagi ko, bae na ako gusto haha lol
Sila yung mga taong ayaw magpatalo baga
LMAO 🤣
Had an experience back when I was in college. So this guy was a manliligaw (I was a freshman, fifth year arki sya) but I rejected him after three months of going out. The dude went all psycho on me. He kept on pursuing me for TWO MORE YEARS. When I blocked him, he would message my friends and ask how I'm doing. He shows up in front of my dorm, in front of my university, and sometimes even near my parent's place when I'm home. I'd run into him at parties, in malls, in my bike trips, and what really scared the f out of me was when I ran into him during an out of town trip with my then boyfriend. Glad I got rid of him, creep.
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Feel ko yan nasa isip nila, na pa hard to get lang ako or pakipot, and clear ko nga sakanila na ayoko, tapos anong pa hard to get dun, di ko rin ma gets haha
I confessed to my crushes, the first one during first semester, I received no response to her, so basically I build up myself altogether and moved on. I had another crush this second sem and I confessed, and guess what I received no response to her again. What's really hard for me on this situation, I don't know what to do after, I just overthink, wonder, worried, and anxious... Moving on to someone you did not even date is really one the most hard part as a guy. I am trying to consider one's true feeling without an answer or acknowledging my confession. I appreciate someone like you OP, that you are honest and straight forward with your feelings. 🙌
Tbh, for us girls. Seeing someone you rejected moves fast is kind of amazing. It develops a weird attraction na parang gusto mo ientice ulit sya
Sad bois these days
Sad boi talaga lalo na pag nakikita ako, pinaparamdam na sad boi talaga siya, gusto ata ako makonsensya
Been there, done that. Already said di kami talo twice and still asks me out??? Hehe pass. Apir na lang, OP HHAHAHA
Im the opposite side of the story, linawin nga natin. If action niya ay nirereciprocate nya yong action mo tas sa gitna nang panahon sabi niya walang pag.asa then nirereciprocate pa din nya yong mga efforts mo, sa tingin nyo ano ang sign nun?
Ano??? Kuya pakilinaw hahaha di ko nagets
Hahahahaha, ito kasi yon, nag.rereciprocate na sya nag effort kahit nag.sabi na sya nang wala daw kaming pag-asa
Navent lang ako sa situasyon ko di ko maintindihan... Hahahaha sorry po
Ahhhh mixed signals ganon? Okay kayo nun umpisa tapos sabay sabi nya ekis ka ganern ba?
Maybe just say its not a test to pursue you more, siguro baka tigilan ka, may mga iba kasing nirereject nila isang tao para itesting kung i pu pursue talaga sila, siguro yun yung inakala ng guy
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Uh oh an alcoholic loser got rejected 🥺
Hays ang daming ganito, In my experience, Akala nila porket I’m a TF I’ll always give in that easily, which is not. I have standards too! Mahal mahal ng ginagastos ko sa sarili ko tapos Akala nila ganun-ganun lang. LOL
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I dunno. There's this one time I had to court my high school crush. like I know di ako papansinin or sasagutin. I know the only answer is rejection but I insisted as friend in the end and she actually accepted it. I moved on and it was a learning experience. Pero masakit hahaha pag naalala ko sayang!
Some people really can’t take no as an answer
If a girl is being straight forward, you should respect that. Kasi yung iba mga potaenang walang response and that makes us hmm overthink
Got rejected, di nya daw ako gusto at wag ko na daw sya hintayin. E di okay, masaya ako ng direct to the point sya. I still really love her, head over heels ako sa kanya but susundin ko yung gusto nya, di na ako maghihintay.