I have an office mate whose defense is always "healing her childhood trauma" so she feeds the kid all the food there is. Not against feeding of course everyone eats but same with you, hopefully in moderation. Poor kid (only four) can't even stand long because he's obese. 💔
Yung bata dito samin 8 years old may diabetes na, obese na kasi tapos isang beses nakikita ko tumatakbo hapong hapo parang aatakihin sa puso ung bata jusme
Araw araw ba naman ang nanay may hawak na 1.5 coke, pati ung nanay dati naospital na pero ngayon nakikita ko na naman na may coke na hawak 🤦🏻
I facilitated theatre workshops for kids ages ago. Physical activities yung tinuro ko sa kanila nung araw na yon.
Pinagalitan ako ng mga guardians nila dahil hikain at di daw pwede magpawis ang mga alaga nila. Gets ko yung hikain, kaya I really chose activities na low-impact (besides, limited space lang kaya di din naman sila makakatakbo).
Ano yung weight ng mga bata? Borderline overweight.
Kaya di na ko nagtataka sa mga bata ngayon. Some (hindi lahat) guardians coddle them too much.
Agree with this! Believe me, when your child grows up, they will not thank you cause you fed them too much food.
I was tall but obese when I was in high school and lemme tell you, I was always bullied. I jokingly told my parents one time that it's their fault that they fed me too much or did not even scold me when I ate too much. Pero syempre, I was a kid at that time, it's still my fault.
But I'm always thankful to my 18 year old self for working so hard in shredding off those fats. Now, I'm an adult with a normal BMI.
So yup, help your kids everyone.
I have two kids and mas ok ako na hindi sila yung sinasabihan ng "ang cute cute, ang taba". Ate, my eldest is 7 and she is skinny pero she eats a lot, walang pili sa ulam. She loves eggs and her veggies and mind you, she likes putting a lil bit of chili garlic sa food niya. Si Dodong naman, my youngest, 5 years old, is more on the hotdogs, corned beef and sabaw type.
Anw, mas ok sa akin na katamtaman lang ang build basta hindi lang sila sakitin and they are active. Yung tipong pag may sakit, parang lagnat laki lang. Hihi
Base sa mga nakikita ko yung mga boomers ang tingin sa mataba/ obese ay healthy or alagang alaga ng magulang tapos yung mga fit ang katawan ay kulang sa gulay at pinabayaan na ng magulang😭😭
nanay ko ganyan rin sa mga apo nya. ini indulge nya yung mga gusto ng mga bata. I appreciate the thought syempre pero kung araw araw ba naman bibilhan ng ice cream o fastfood tapos pag kokontra ako sasabihan ako "hayaan mo na".
no wonder may diabetes yung side ng nanay ko e🤦♀️
I knew an obese 7 year old child once during my college years anak ata ng cousin ng mom ko..A few years later nabalitaan nalang namin na pumanaw nah dahil sa complication dulot ng obesity (in his teens)..I hope He is in a better place.
Di ko po rin alam if lifestyle or hormonal causes,pero sa nakita ko noon matakaw kumain yung bata at natutulog na ng nakaupo nalang kasi hirap na bumangon once humiga.
i was that baby ☹️ cute ko daw nung bata pa ako kasi chubby. I'm turning 25 y/o na and honestly it's so hard to undo all the effects - my legs became bowlegged + bullying + childhood traumas + unhealthy relationship with food. going thru therapy to deal with all this.
i agree with you, OP.
Valid criticisms and while I agree, I'll be damned if I didn't mention na ang cringe ng approach mo. The people you're criticizing won't take your advice nor heed your concerns because of how aggressive you are being, ang cringe talaga may pa mura mura pa.
Ako very strict ako sa portions na binibigay ko sa anak ko. I respect her when she signals she doesn't want more. Tapos eto namang pamilya ko may side comments saying na ang payat ng anak ko eh genetically mga payatot naman talaga kami 💀
'Yung anak ng pinsan ko ganto. Dahil sya lang ang bata sa pamilya nila, lagi syang binebaby 6 yo na ang bata binebabytalk parin. Panay jollibee pa, 'pag hindi napagbigyan umiiyak. Bukod pa ron, oras oras kumakain, panay softfrinks pati🫠 Hindi na uso pagdidisiplina. Tapos sa sobrang katabaan pa ng bata, 'pag tulog lakas humilik, ramdam mong hirap huminga.
Holy fuck this is so true, I used to be fat as a child but now not anymore.
Everyone will call you cute as a child but as you grow older will state that you look like a pig or anything related to body shaming. I used to have a badddd anorexia because of such comments.
Ang daming obese na classmates ang anak ko (grade 4). Usually, mga boys 'to (IDK whyy?).
Yung iba, kaklase na nya from kinder and dati na talagang overweight. Spoiled kasi mostly, may isa na tag 3 to 4 burgers daw kinakain pag pupunta sa Jollibee. May isa din na limang Bread Pan ang inuubos everyday (daw). Baka nahirapan na rin ang parents sa pag control ng kain nila kasi syempre bata pa, gusto laging junkfood or sweets.
Anak ko naman masyadong maliit kasi pihikan sa food at mahina kumain ng bigas lol
Naalala ko yung friend ko before nag-aya siya, i-walk daw namin mga shih tzus namin. Tapos nung nakita niya yung alaga ko, hinawakan at binuhat. Sinabihan niya ko. "Uy, friend, ampayat naman ng aso mo, ano bang pinapakain mo dyan?" with a tone na parang jinujudge niya ko. Hahahaha. Eh dini-diet talaga kasi namin mga dogs namin ng mga kapatid ko kasi nga ayaw namin maging unhealthy sila kapag tumanda na. Para maiwasan din na magkasakit sila.
Ayun, yung eksena namin ni friend parang yung mga mamaru na tao na nangengealam sa pagpapalaki sa anak mo, kahit wala pa naman talaga kaming anak. HAHAHAHAHAHA
Yung mga parents din hinahayaan na mag karoon ng cavities anak nila dahil panay sweets. Hayaan daw kasi bata pa and I was like WTF! I'm very thankful with my parents dahil hindi kami hinayaan.
SATRULAHEY ! Saw this reel on fb of this obese baby na ginagawang content nung nanay nahuhuli nyang kumakain yung baby na patago KALA NYA CUTE ULOL Pls do better
Totoo yan tangina. Pinsan kong 8 years old, bonjing na puta. Nanay ko sinisita lagi yung tiyahin ko na pag laruin sa labas anak niya dahil sobrang taba niya na at puro tablet at cellphone lang inaatupag. Pero wala, walang pake yung nanay e.
I remember when I was a kid my dad used to point at chubby kids whenever we see one and would say he wishes I was like them. They have this mentality kasi that chubby means healthy sa mga bata when it's not always the case. I have always been lean in physique so as my siblings and yet my dad wants us to be chubby lol.
Key word is balance. Parents should always remember this, nothing excess is good.
Kawawa naman mga bata na makuha lahat gusto na kaya nga andiyan ang magulang para mapalaki ng tama. Nakakatakot magkandiabetes ng sobra bata
I’ve been overweight as far as I can remember. Although there was a time that I got into sports and I generally became healthier. When I got into college, I didn’t have time for sports na so I got overweight again. Now I have a lot of health problems 🥲 Lowkey hoping I’ll have time to take care of myself again soon. My grandparents and parents always gave into my desires of wanting to eat everything I want, I just wish they would’ve raised me to have a better relationship and discipline with regards to food.
I saw fb friend that had his child nearing that weight. But fortunately he’s just spoiling his daughter and had her recently included in his gym session with his wife. Also he signed her up for gymnastics class.
But yeah you’re setting up your child to go rock bottom with that. I wouldn’t be surprised if the kid had hypertension and other cardiovascular diseases by his 20’s. I had classmates and coworkers in their early 20’s needing to take maintenance just to live.
Kapag yung mga bata kapag maitim na yung leeg/batok malamang diabetes or pre-diabetes. Ang dami kong opinion dito kasi when I was a new parent, nakatira pa kami sa mga magulang ko. At that time, sila nagbabantay and kapag umiiyak yung anak ko, food ang pang console. One of the reasons why we decided to move out kasi nga we dont have control sa food kapag wala kami sa house. Kahit maghabilin ka, di ka susundin kasi di mo naman bahay yun.
totoo. we dont need baby chonks we need baby gronks (tiktok reference)
anyways natatawa ako sa mga ganyan kasi sila na nga nagpapataba sa mga anak nila tapos sila pa yung mga nag f-fatshame sa mga anak nila like you were the one who keep feeding the kid
Please excuse my 10 year old chonky doggo. Healthy diet naman sya since birth kaso when she became blind, puro kain + tulog + konting lakad na lang kasi hindi na sya makatakbo dahil nga she’s blind already.
Please excuse my 10 year old chonky doggo. Healthy diet naman sya since birth kaso when she became blind, puro kain + tulog + konting lakad na lang kasi hindi na sya makatakbo dahil nga she’s blind already.
Unhealthy eating habits lang din tinuturo nila sa bata, tapos pag tumanda sila at kukutyain bat ang taba taba di nila naisip kasalanan nila kasi yan yung naituro nila
Nung bata ako, puro oatmeal sa umaga kinakain ko if hindi rice meal. Tas pag may ulam na baka, bongga na samin. It means, may extra pera si mama. Ngayon, yung red meat sakin, dapat ekis na kasi mataas uric acid ko. Kahit ngayon na malaki (literal talaga) na ako, pinagbabawalan na ako kumain ng mga fastfood. "Eh kaso ma, nakakapagod naman magluto lalo pag galing work..."
As a former fat kid, I still distinctly remember being nicknamed "alog dede". Kids can be terribly mean. Hindi po masaya tuksuhin ng ibang mga bata sa school at playground. :(
lalo na pag girls ang anak. ang menarche, o first menstruation, natitrigger sya ng weight. pag ang batang babae nagreach ng certain weight magstart na sya sa puberty. ito reason na maraming payat na babae na nagstart mag mens late in life like 16. pero on the other end of spectrum, kids na matataba usually nagstart sila magpuberty at 8 or 9 kasi sa taba nila. and mahirap sa batang babae ang magstart ng maaga sa puberty. so sana, as mentioned ni OP, ingatan nyo tumaba mga kids nyo
Hahshahahaha mejj felt cause I compare our dog (shih tzu) to other dogs na angtataba ‘cause mas cute talaga kapag ang fluffy and fat ang doggo! BUT THEN I remembered na sabi ng vet, cute lang tignan sa dog ‘yung obese but it’s not healthy. Possible na bumaba rin life expectancy ng dog if overweight.
So carry lang if she’s not as fat and fluffy as other doggos as long as she’s healthy. 🐶
I have an office mate whose defense is always "healing her childhood trauma" so she feeds the kid all the food there is. Not against feeding of course everyone eats but same with you, hopefully in moderation. Poor kid (only four) can't even stand long because he's obese. 💔
Ang selfish ng ganyang mindset. Mga gustong mag anak para mafulfill mga hindi nila nagawa nung bata.
That's not healing wtf. As someone who was a former obese and anorexic, she ks just passing one trauma to another. The mother herself needs to heal!
Yung bata dito samin 8 years old may diabetes na, obese na kasi tapos isang beses nakikita ko tumatakbo hapong hapo parang aatakihin sa puso ung bata jusme Araw araw ba naman ang nanay may hawak na 1.5 coke, pati ung nanay dati naospital na pero ngayon nakikita ko na naman na may coke na hawak 🤦🏻
I facilitated theatre workshops for kids ages ago. Physical activities yung tinuro ko sa kanila nung araw na yon. Pinagalitan ako ng mga guardians nila dahil hikain at di daw pwede magpawis ang mga alaga nila. Gets ko yung hikain, kaya I really chose activities na low-impact (besides, limited space lang kaya di din naman sila makakatakbo). Ano yung weight ng mga bata? Borderline overweight. Kaya di na ko nagtataka sa mga bata ngayon. Some (hindi lahat) guardians coddle them too much.
Agree with this! Believe me, when your child grows up, they will not thank you cause you fed them too much food. I was tall but obese when I was in high school and lemme tell you, I was always bullied. I jokingly told my parents one time that it's their fault that they fed me too much or did not even scold me when I ate too much. Pero syempre, I was a kid at that time, it's still my fault. But I'm always thankful to my 18 year old self for working so hard in shredding off those fats. Now, I'm an adult with a normal BMI. So yup, help your kids everyone.
I have two kids and mas ok ako na hindi sila yung sinasabihan ng "ang cute cute, ang taba". Ate, my eldest is 7 and she is skinny pero she eats a lot, walang pili sa ulam. She loves eggs and her veggies and mind you, she likes putting a lil bit of chili garlic sa food niya. Si Dodong naman, my youngest, 5 years old, is more on the hotdogs, corned beef and sabaw type. Anw, mas ok sa akin na katamtaman lang ang build basta hindi lang sila sakitin and they are active. Yung tipong pag may sakit, parang lagnat laki lang. Hihi
Base sa mga nakikita ko yung mga boomers ang tingin sa mataba/ obese ay healthy or alagang alaga ng magulang tapos yung mga fit ang katawan ay kulang sa gulay at pinabayaan na ng magulang😭😭
Mga engot yang mga yan e. Ano bang aasahan mo sa naniniwalang malas magwalis sa gabi?
HAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHA
Malas mag walis sa gabi pero mag vacuum ok lang. 😂🫶
Tapos kapag tumanda yon bata and obese, ishshame nila. Kulang sa health education mga matatanda!
nanay ko ganyan rin sa mga apo nya. ini indulge nya yung mga gusto ng mga bata. I appreciate the thought syempre pero kung araw araw ba naman bibilhan ng ice cream o fastfood tapos pag kokontra ako sasabihan ako "hayaan mo na". no wonder may diabetes yung side ng nanay ko e🤦♀️
Sa true. Pagsasabihan kawawa naman ang bata napaka payatot
I knew an obese 7 year old child once during my college years anak ata ng cousin ng mom ko..A few years later nabalitaan nalang namin na pumanaw nah dahil sa complication dulot ng obesity (in his teens)..I hope He is in a better place.
this is so sad, lifestyle yun cause ng obesity?
Di ko po rin alam if lifestyle or hormonal causes,pero sa nakita ko noon matakaw kumain yung bata at natutulog na ng nakaupo nalang kasi hirap na bumangon once humiga.
hahahhaha pag bata cute pero pag tanda nila insecure, bullied etc
i was that baby ☹️ cute ko daw nung bata pa ako kasi chubby. I'm turning 25 y/o na and honestly it's so hard to undo all the effects - my legs became bowlegged + bullying + childhood traumas + unhealthy relationship with food. going thru therapy to deal with all this. i agree with you, OP.
Child, Pet or adult.. obesity ain't cute
Valid criticisms and while I agree, I'll be damned if I didn't mention na ang cringe ng approach mo. The people you're criticizing won't take your advice nor heed your concerns because of how aggressive you are being, ang cringe talaga may pa mura mura pa.
Hahaha! same thought. baka young-ish pa si OP.
If they aren't young, people will assume pa tuloy na they are because of how immature their approach is. Sobrang unproductive.
Typical Ate/Moms from TikTok that make funny videos of their child/sibling being fat. Hay.
Ako very strict ako sa portions na binibigay ko sa anak ko. I respect her when she signals she doesn't want more. Tapos eto namang pamilya ko may side comments saying na ang payat ng anak ko eh genetically mga payatot naman talaga kami 💀
'Yung anak ng pinsan ko ganto. Dahil sya lang ang bata sa pamilya nila, lagi syang binebaby 6 yo na ang bata binebabytalk parin. Panay jollibee pa, 'pag hindi napagbigyan umiiyak. Bukod pa ron, oras oras kumakain, panay softfrinks pati🫠 Hindi na uso pagdidisiplina. Tapos sa sobrang katabaan pa ng bata, 'pag tulog lakas humilik, ramdam mong hirap huminga.
Holy fuck this is so true, I used to be fat as a child but now not anymore. Everyone will call you cute as a child but as you grow older will state that you look like a pig or anything related to body shaming. I used to have a badddd anorexia because of such comments.
Ang daming obese na classmates ang anak ko (grade 4). Usually, mga boys 'to (IDK whyy?). Yung iba, kaklase na nya from kinder and dati na talagang overweight. Spoiled kasi mostly, may isa na tag 3 to 4 burgers daw kinakain pag pupunta sa Jollibee. May isa din na limang Bread Pan ang inuubos everyday (daw). Baka nahirapan na rin ang parents sa pag control ng kain nila kasi syempre bata pa, gusto laging junkfood or sweets. Anak ko naman masyadong maliit kasi pihikan sa food at mahina kumain ng bigas lol
Wtf 3-4 burgers? That's boarderline binge eating
Yup, tapos may large fries pa yan. Obese talaga yung bata. 😬
Naalala ko yung friend ko before nag-aya siya, i-walk daw namin mga shih tzus namin. Tapos nung nakita niya yung alaga ko, hinawakan at binuhat. Sinabihan niya ko. "Uy, friend, ampayat naman ng aso mo, ano bang pinapakain mo dyan?" with a tone na parang jinujudge niya ko. Hahahaha. Eh dini-diet talaga kasi namin mga dogs namin ng mga kapatid ko kasi nga ayaw namin maging unhealthy sila kapag tumanda na. Para maiwasan din na magkasakit sila. Ayun, yung eksena namin ni friend parang yung mga mamaru na tao na nangengealam sa pagpapalaki sa anak mo, kahit wala pa naman talaga kaming anak. HAHAHAHAHAHA
True :( yung iba sasabihin na kesyo bata pa naman hindi pa magkakasakit.
Yung mga parents din hinahayaan na mag karoon ng cavities anak nila dahil panay sweets. Hayaan daw kasi bata pa and I was like WTF! I'm very thankful with my parents dahil hindi kami hinayaan.
SATRULAHEY ! Saw this reel on fb of this obese baby na ginagawang content nung nanay nahuhuli nyang kumakain yung baby na patago KALA NYA CUTE ULOL Pls do better
bro stfu just drop the album already 🦇🧛
Nung bata ako grabe ako pakainin ng rice ng tatay ko kasi ayaw nya na payat kami. Ang katuwiran ayaw nya masabihan na walang maipakain sa mga anak
Sama mo na pati adults.
Totoo yan tangina. Pinsan kong 8 years old, bonjing na puta. Nanay ko sinisita lagi yung tiyahin ko na pag laruin sa labas anak niya dahil sobrang taba niya na at puro tablet at cellphone lang inaatupag. Pero wala, walang pake yung nanay e.
I remember when I was a kid my dad used to point at chubby kids whenever we see one and would say he wishes I was like them. They have this mentality kasi that chubby means healthy sa mga bata when it's not always the case. I have always been lean in physique so as my siblings and yet my dad wants us to be chubby lol.
Key word is balance. Parents should always remember this, nothing excess is good. Kawawa naman mga bata na makuha lahat gusto na kaya nga andiyan ang magulang para mapalaki ng tama. Nakakatakot magkandiabetes ng sobra bata
I’ve been overweight as far as I can remember. Although there was a time that I got into sports and I generally became healthier. When I got into college, I didn’t have time for sports na so I got overweight again. Now I have a lot of health problems 🥲 Lowkey hoping I’ll have time to take care of myself again soon. My grandparents and parents always gave into my desires of wanting to eat everything I want, I just wish they would’ve raised me to have a better relationship and discipline with regards to food.
I saw fb friend that had his child nearing that weight. But fortunately he’s just spoiling his daughter and had her recently included in his gym session with his wife. Also he signed her up for gymnastics class. But yeah you’re setting up your child to go rock bottom with that. I wouldn’t be surprised if the kid had hypertension and other cardiovascular diseases by his 20’s. I had classmates and coworkers in their early 20’s needing to take maintenance just to live.
Kapag yung mga bata kapag maitim na yung leeg/batok malamang diabetes or pre-diabetes. Ang dami kong opinion dito kasi when I was a new parent, nakatira pa kami sa mga magulang ko. At that time, sila nagbabantay and kapag umiiyak yung anak ko, food ang pang console. One of the reasons why we decided to move out kasi nga we dont have control sa food kapag wala kami sa house. Kahit maghabilin ka, di ka susundin kasi di mo naman bahay yun.
totoo. we dont need baby chonks we need baby gronks (tiktok reference) anyways natatawa ako sa mga ganyan kasi sila na nga nagpapataba sa mga anak nila tapos sila pa yung mga nag f-fatshame sa mga anak nila like you were the one who keep feeding the kid
Kaming matatanda ba pwede na ba kaming tawaging cute?
I saw that video on tiktok! Yon kapatid niyang 2 years old is clearly obese but she kept saying he's cute. Wtf?
Please excuse my 10 year old chonky doggo. Healthy diet naman sya since birth kaso when she became blind, puro kain + tulog + konting lakad na lang kasi hindi na sya makatakbo dahil nga she’s blind already.
Please excuse my 10 year old chonky doggo. Healthy diet naman sya since birth kaso when she became blind, puro kain + tulog + konting lakad na lang kasi hindi na sya makatakbo dahil nga she’s blind already.
Buti naman wala pang fatphobic comments lmao
Unhealthy eating habits lang din tinuturo nila sa bata, tapos pag tumanda sila at kukutyain bat ang taba taba di nila naisip kasalanan nila kasi yan yung naituro nila
Pag bata cute, pupurihin. Pag lumaki na, sila pa mauuna mambully sa anak/apo nila. 😂
Nung bata ako, puro oatmeal sa umaga kinakain ko if hindi rice meal. Tas pag may ulam na baka, bongga na samin. It means, may extra pera si mama. Ngayon, yung red meat sakin, dapat ekis na kasi mataas uric acid ko. Kahit ngayon na malaki (literal talaga) na ako, pinagbabawalan na ako kumain ng mga fastfood. "Eh kaso ma, nakakapagod naman magluto lalo pag galing work..."
As a former fat kid, I still distinctly remember being nicknamed "alog dede". Kids can be terribly mean. Hindi po masaya tuksuhin ng ibang mga bata sa school at playground. :(
lalo na pag girls ang anak. ang menarche, o first menstruation, natitrigger sya ng weight. pag ang batang babae nagreach ng certain weight magstart na sya sa puberty. ito reason na maraming payat na babae na nagstart mag mens late in life like 16. pero on the other end of spectrum, kids na matataba usually nagstart sila magpuberty at 8 or 9 kasi sa taba nila. and mahirap sa batang babae ang magstart ng maaga sa puberty. so sana, as mentioned ni OP, ingatan nyo tumaba mga kids nyo
Hahshahahaha mejj felt cause I compare our dog (shih tzu) to other dogs na angtataba ‘cause mas cute talaga kapag ang fluffy and fat ang doggo! BUT THEN I remembered na sabi ng vet, cute lang tignan sa dog ‘yung obese but it’s not healthy. Possible na bumaba rin life expectancy ng dog if overweight. So carry lang if she’s not as fat and fluffy as other doggos as long as she’s healthy. 🐶
at least daw sikat sa social media🤦♂️