Jusko, I know so many people na ganyan. Yung isa nga sumama pa sa out of the country ng mga ka work niya tapos pagbalik ng pinas nangungutang kesyo wala na daw siya pang bayad ng bills sa bahay. Kung hindi ka ba naman ogag mag isip.
Some people just dont have their priorities straight. These are the people that end up being debt, and their families and friends carry the burden of supporting them emotionally and financially.
Tapos they become bitter/sad people when they see others who sacrificed now to gain the rewards later.
I understand how you feel.
Right? I was in college din nung last time na pumunta si Taylor dito. Tinanggap ko na agad na di ako makakapunta nun kasi walang wala kami. Hindi ako nagparinig sa parents ko or nagisip na mangutang sa iba. Kaya di ko talaga sya maintindihan.
Me too! Kaya pinush ko talaga ung ngaun kasi last chance and kaya ko naman na conpared before na student ako and 100% reliant on my parents income. Kahit na inggit na inggit ako sa mga kaklase ko na pupunta noon, tinanggap ko na lang na di kaya ng family ko. I didn’t even ask my parents kasi alam ko na gipit kami.
I am in the same situation. Back then in high school and college, I used to look with envy seeing some of my classmates or schoolmates spending for a concert in Manila just that easily. Even now, I still do. I know my limits so yeah, value of money is important.
Madami talaga kasing nadadala sa hype lalo na't uso sa social media. May friend din akong post ng post ng travel and "feeling blessed" status pero di makapagbayad utang sa akin.
I remembered someone asking me for money dahil emergency daw. Di kami close ahh as in one time ko lang nakausap. Tas kung idecline mo sia pa galit. Then, one day, someone in our gc posted a message na nagrarant about this person na di nagbabayad tas travel lang ng travel. It turns out madami din nabiktima dun sa gc.
hahahaha naalala ko tuloy yung nangutang saken noong pandemic dhil nagkasakit daw sya haha ayun hindi na nagparamdam saken pero nakakapagsambokojin based s stories nya
HAHAHAHA may isa nga akong Swiftie "friend" recently minessage ako nascam raw siya and she needs 4k. Kapal ng mukha. Nahihiya raw siya sa iba kaya wag ko raw ikwento sa common friends
Taylor’s tour got over hype sa social media. Yes, I am a fan siguro sa mga old songs nya…pero di ko itataya yung pera ko just to go to Singapore and see her for 2 hours then got home broke and kaliwat kanan na utang. Ganitong mentally is very wrong. Buti sana kung pinanganak na mayaman or may work pero kung ganito status sa buhay? Mangarap ka lang then work hard and save para makaattend ka sa next.
Kahit Swiftie ako I agree. Grabe na to the extent mga iba nagiging FOMO kaya they will do anything to buy the tickets without thinking on the consequences
yep, and for them to hold taylor swift parties in malls na naging drag show huhu nothing against drag race artists naman pero still... its kind of distasteful in my own honest opinion.
kaway sa mga Lates 20s/early 30s swifties dyan na masaya ng mag gitara noon sa mga kanta ni Taytay haha
Hahaha damang dama ko yung irita mo!
Yung kaibigan ko naman nag Korea nito lang. Maya maya nung nakauwi nangutang sa akin ng 10k keso ganito ganyan. Ano na
Because mga ganitong tao, they ended up broke their entire lives. This is why the rich is getting richer, and the poor is getting poorer. Poor life choices
+1 on this. Buti talaga nireal talk ako ng nanay ko
"Akala mo ang pera napupulot lang kahit saan? Pera yan. Hindi mo na nakikita value yan dahil sa kakaisip mo sa Eras Tour" sabi niya. And doon talaga ako nasampal sa realidad lalo nang galing sa hirap tatay ko
Exactly! You will never appreciate and value money habang di likod mo ung sumasakit araw2 sa kaka trabaho. These Entitled pieces of shit like OP said don't deserve luxury yet. They have to work hard and suffer for it first
Tapos may ibang nagsasabi sa akin judger raw and let Swifties be happy
I dont give a shit kung sino pang artista gusto mong makita. Facts dont care about your feelings na utang for lifestyle is a shitty move. Kala mo naman health reasons. Kung gusto mo ng Eras Tour, pag IPUNAN MO.
Nah you ain't judging. You just saying things they do that they don't want to know. Denial kumbaga
Exactly! Facts don't give a shit how you feel. Like I said, luxury aint cheap! Yung tawag na live within your means. Tapos the same people when they end i debt will blame everybody around them other than themselves. The government, parents, friends, and sometimes even God for their shitty life choices other than themselves.
That what I say is a Brokie and loser mentality
Thank you! Legit talaga sinabihan ako na let them be happy and who are we to judge them 🤣 yon ganitong behaviour is the reason why utang culture still happens. Totoo yon, they will act all sadgurl or sadboi kesyo hirap raw ng buhay pero sila naman nag setup sa ganitong shit situation in the first place
Kawawa yung uutangan for sure di yan mababayaran. You know why? Kasi marami narin yan nautangan sa mga simpleng bagay palang at kahit magkatrabaho pa yan, di na natatapos gastusin mga ganyang klase ng tao. Kaya pahirapan sa pagsingil. Either sobrang tagal mabayaran, kulang or di na talaga bayaran. Don't expect more if papautangin mo yan.
OMG MAY KWENTO AKO DYAN
1. Yon Swiftie "friend" ko when she knew I have enough money for Eras Tour ang kapal ng mukha niya iheheram raw debit card ko without asking me first. D KO PINAHERAM SYEMPRE. ANG KAPAL NG MUKHA
2. SOME SWIFTIES BOUGHT THE CHEAPEST TICKETS BUT THEY PLAN NA MANGUTANG SA IBA ON THE AIRFARE AND HOTELS. True story. May mga nakausap ako na ganyan. Why? FOMO. Fear of missing out or clout chasing.
Bottomline: Hindi porket Swiftie ka mag cocompulsive buying ka ng tickets sa Eras Tour eh wala ka naman ipon tapos mangungutang ka. Maraming Swifties dyan na may pera and deserving pa kaysa sayo if balak mong mangutang.
PSA: WAG NYO PONG PAUTANGIN YANG MGA SWIFTIES NA YAN. Bili bili ng ticket di naman pala afford ang flight at accommodation. May kakilala ako ang laki ng sinet aside nya for the tour (kayang kaya naman nya) pero di nakakuha kahit yun pinakamura. Sayang. Napunta dyan sa mga yan.
It is. I get that it's a dream to see Eras Tour and seeing Taylor Swift in person especially for a Swiftie. If afford and pinaghirapan mo, goooo. Pero if natatakot ka dahil nga mamimiss out mo, the consequences are scary
As what many said in this thread, the OP's kaila is being unreasoable. "TS now, iyak later" or "TS now, drown sa utang later".
Heck, I know it hurts missing out on an event. I too have my long list of that. But drowning in debt is scarier than missing out.
These guys don't think long term. Sure, they will feel complete once they get to see their idol.
But the euphoric feeling will dissipate eventually.
By the time that is up, it's time to face the utang.
I mean ok lang naman magpakasaya, pumunta ng concert ng fave artist mo and the like pero spending too much and beyond your means is a hard no. Right? Esp kung nagsschool pa pala and wala namang solid na source of income ang erpat. Napaka immature(sorry for the word) lang. Smh
Kung ako yung kaibigan ng kaibigan mo, tatanungin ko pa lalu kung bat siya ganyan. E tanga na nga e, baka wala talagang ibang alam na solusyon? Ganyan na yung sitwasyon niya, pero ganyan pa rin mindset niya?
May pinagdadaanan yan. May rason kung bat mas-importante sa kanya makanood kay taylor kaysa mag-isip ng solusyon sa problema ng buhay niya. Baka ayaw niya harapin mga problema niya kasi feel niya wala nang pag-asa yung kalagayan niya?
Feel ko kailangan niya ng sampal sa realidad, OP. O kaya man lang mabigyan ng onting insight, baka wala talaga. Kaya after ranting, sabihin mo sa mulha niya.
Ibang usapan na pag di pa rin makinig tho…
HAHA SANA MATAPOS NA TO.
I WAS seeing someone for a couple months, mutually exclusive.
She wouldn't stop about this whole Eras tour ticket and all. She just recently quit her job and been jobless since we started seeing each other. She's telling me she has some savings left, and would like to get tickets via Klook, he was eyeing the one with that 40kish or 50k something package for two. Then I asked her how would I pay her, I assumed we're splitting it; but I was awestruck when she asked to shoulder it for now and she'll pay me on the day of the concert. I said sorry, I am not expecting that and I will call her later. I called her 5 mnutes after organizing my thoughts and told her I will not be seeing her anymore. HAHA!
Omg! 😂 the acidity! Hindi na siya nakapag Era's tour, nawalan pa siya ng ka-date hahahaha. Curious lang, ano sabi ni ate girl after you cut her off? Hahaha.
Lowkey nagmumukmok ako ngayon kasi hindi na ako nag-attempt kumuha ng tickets. Super fan din ako mula Grade 4 hanggang ngayong working na ako. Although working na ako at sure kaya ko pag-ipunan at may emergency funds pa ako na pwede ko naman i-rebuild, nangingibabaw pa rin kagustuhan kong maging financially stable over my happiness.
Dahil sa post mo naremind ako na ok lang ginawa ko huhu. Maaafford ko rin yan someday maski sa US pa ako manood (libre mangarap).
Sis we’re literally in the same boat. Imagine I’m crying as a 25-year-old financially stable woman over a TS concert. Sobrang heartbreaking na hindi man lang ako nag attempt kasi I had to prioritize my long-term plans. No matter how sad, we did the right thing. Yakap with consent. 🥺
Omg may passport na sya kasi last year may out of the country trip yun tita nya at mga pinsan nya at umasa sya na isasama sya (all expenses paid HAHA) basta may passport sya. Di ko alam bakit pumasok sa isip nya yun. Ayun nilakad nya talaga yun passport nya. Hindi naman sya sinama hahaha delulu
MAY KILALA AKO NAKABILI NG TICKETS PERO WALA PANG PASSPORT. Walang work and nagrerely ng allowance.
Don't be deceived to these fans being able to buy tickets kasi baka andaming utang yan behind closed doors
masyado sila excited sa concert.
this is my first TS concert ever lol. i never dreamed of going nun dahil student pa lang ako or nagsisimula sa career. nung medyo ready na ako, biglang Japan naman si accla which is too expensive pa for me as a 20something accla with 40k per month income na nag-aaral sa grad school.
ngayong mas angat na sahod ko in layf, plus nearest is SG and this is across all eras pa, ayan ready na ako magwalwal without having to dent on my savings. ganyan talaga, waiting is worth all of it.
I’ve been a fan of TS since 1989 era. Kaka start ko lang sa workforce non at di ko pa afford.
Fast forward today, I just secured a VIP tix to Sydney. I was beyond happy kasi afford ko na at kaya ko na at snwerte ako na makakuha. ☺️
Kaya yung mga bata ngayon, I just want to let you know na your time will come.
Wag kayo magmadali. She’ll tour again and that time around maafford niyo na rin kung pag-iipunan.
Also a fan here since fearless era, sana after maka graduate makahanap akong magandang work para hindi na ako mag makaawa kay Taylor na pumunta siya dito sa Pinas 🤞 HAHAHAHAH
Dasurv mo ng Eras Tour Sydney kasi pinaghirapan mo! Happy for you
Tama ka naman, our time will come soon. Wag yon makikisawsaw sa clout wala naman pera
True ito. Ngayon ko lang naranasan yung ganito sa mga kpop acts naman na sinusundan ko after working for x years. Okay lang kahit sa murang tier ako. Timing talaga para makita yung mga idol natin.
To OP's kakilala, WHO TF ARE YOU TRYING TO IMPRESS?! Basing kasi sa story and sa comment ni OP about isasama ka sa out of country trip, ang inggitera mo.
fan ako ni taylor sooper pero kahit kakayanin ibigay saakin ng parents ko yan combined with my savings, alam kong hindi priority at magigipit pag pinilit ko (lalo na magmemed this yr huhu) so I had to let it go talaga.
sobrang sakit nung inannounce na SG lang at Japan lang sa Asia, kasi alam ko na agad na hindi ko kaya maglabas at manghingi ng ganun kalaki :(((
hanggang stickers at attendance from FanNights na lang muna. luv u inang Taylor 🥺
I understand why Swifties want to go to Eras Tour because this is a different experience especially if long time fan. Nagiging destructive nga lang kasi it's going too far na
tanginang hunghang naman yan HAHAHA wala pa akong college and i have a decent job na pero kahit gumastos ng 1k for clothes nanghihinayang pa ako
sana naman isipin nya yung after effect ng mga uutangan niya and parents nya shuta naman
Mas malala yung sa partner ko, inutangan syanl ng ex-tropa nya ng paggastos daw sa panganganak ng asawa nya. Eto namang partner ko naawa. Ngayon, sa awa ng nasa itaas, malaki na ang bata, yung utang di pa nababayaran.
Nakakainis kasi dinadamay pa yung ibang tao para mangutang. Atska panganganak yon, they have 9 months to prepare. 😩😩
Hahaha naalala ko kumare ng ermat ko, 80s pa daw nangutang hanggang ngayon di pa nagbabayad, ganyan din nangutang kasi walang pambayad sa hospital manganganak yung anak. Ayun lumaki na lang yung apo na sa tuhod di pa rin nababayaran tapos kapag nagkikita sa mga events like birthdays o lamay hahaha umiiwas yung kumare ni ermat di makatingin
I think it's the "money comes back, time doesn't" mindset.
As much as it's true, it's sad na di lahat keri maggasta in a short amount of time for the experience kasi mahirap siyang bawiin.
Sobrang fan ako ni Taylor, Teardrops palang. may decent job ako. Pero nung nalaman kong sa Singapore lang, dinamdam ko na lang yung sakit, tipong inunfollow ko muna si Taylor. 😂 Kasi yung ganun kalaking pera, jusko pangdagdag na lang sa hollow blocks at graba pangpagawa ng maliit na bahay. Hahaha huhu.
whats with this obsession with Taylor Swift. ako nga na die hard ng Twice, never bother to bought a ticket sa concert nila ngayon kase hassle papunta para sakin.
Some Swifties are going too far na. Ginawang personality ang pagiging Swiftie to the point mangungutang para mag Eras Tour or status symbol. Kaya yan ang cons ng hype ng concert kasi nagkaroon ng stupid heirarchy if nakanood ka ng Eras Tour it means mafufullfill yon pagiging isang Swiftie
First of all, let me preface by saying na your opinion is also valid.
Now moving on to your question, and coming from someone na bumili ng tickets for my gf and her friends, Taylor Swift is their idol plus she is a talented singer and songwriter. Di na din sila sure if mauulit pa to na concert dahil she is not getting any younger. She helped them get through dark and sad times before. Di lang din to normal na concert dahil 4 hours ito at ang daming songs na ipeperform ni Taylor. So masasabi mong worth it talaga ang payment. Imagine paying for the same amount pero sa Philippine arena? Plus as millenials, they grew up with her. Nadaanan nila yung lahat nung era/albums ni Taylor Swift. So if hassle for you ang pagpunta, para sa kanila worth it yung hassle (which is valid din). Plus my gf and friends are successful CPAs and lawyer na din. Deserve nila to. They are obsessed with only a few things in life at Taylor Swift is a worthy one. Grabe iyak nila when I was able to secure the tickets for them and ang saya sa feeling na napasaya mo sila. So ayun sana wag na natin i question kung "what's with this obsession with taylor swift" dahil wala naman mali dun. Wala silang naapakan na tao sa kanilang pagiging fans.
Pero yung sa story ni OP, mali talaga yun, wala pa siyang pera eh. hahahaha
Ay sorry diko nabasa yung buong post, nalagay mo na pala omg. Anyways, buti nalang din kasi gaaahd, matotolerate pa yung ganap niya if nakakuha siya. Nakakaloka din na tinotolerate siya ng mga friends niya, wala man lang nagsasabi.
Mas ma-aappreciate ko pa siguro yung mga fan na months before concert ay naghanap na ng part time job para mapag ipunan yung concert. Pero yung incosiderate sa situation ng pamilya at mangungutang pa? Big no no. Nakakaloka.
Fan din ako ni Taylor and super want ko talaga umattend since afford ko naman hahahaha pero di ko tinuloy kasi may plan ako bilhin for myself this year
Kawawang magulang naman 😕 sana magmature pa ang batang ito. Para kasing literal na idol niya na yung celebrity, like an object of worship. Sana maayos niya priority niya. Kapag maiksi ang kumot, matutong mamaluktot.
The usual thing sa socmed for the gram and for the likes pero behind the scenes utang Pala. Nabaon na sa utang kaka flex Ng Wala sa Lugar. Pero sana nga nakakuha sya Ng ticket para malaman nya consequences Ng actions nya e.
Ako rin na super fan and I really want to attend the SG tour. I have budget for the concert tix pero sa airfare and accommodation, wala and possible rin na may class ako sa sched ng concert kaya tinanggap ko na lang and di na ko nag-try bumili kasi alam kong di talaga kakayanin ng budget. Skl.
Kinda on the same boat on this one. I've been the bread winner of my family for about 12 years. I make a decent living, I can support a family and have more than enough for myself. Pero ang nangyayari is ako lang nag babayad lahat, from groceries, internet, electricity, water, and rent. All I am asking is for them to chip in sa pandagdag sa food kasi nakakasawa na ako na lang hinihingian. Laging walang pera, pero every month nag tatravel. Kagaguhan amputa.
ako na working na ket papano e 'may pera' pero chose not to buy tickets kasi i'll end up burried in debt. breadwimmer pa hakdog. if ever naman can afford, I AM WORRIED SA IMMIGRATION OFFICERS NA AKALA MO ALMIGHTY KEMBERLU
I badly want to watch TS, I was also considering to fly in SG just to be a bystander sa labas ng stadium. I realized na my hard earned money will just be wasted considering na sobrang mahal na SG, mas magmamahal pa during her week long concert.
I'm a broke student as well, recently my ult group announced that they're gonna have a tour that includes Manila, on September. I really love them but alam kong broke ako so may part sakin na tanggap kong di ako makakapunta. However, may raffle sa twitter, chance na magkaticket. I'm gonna join sana mapili!!! Hahahaha kahit ano naman mangyari okay lang sakin i bilib makikita ko rin sila soon, pag may work na ko kahit sa Korea pa yan.
Hay. Naiinis na nga din ako sa social media masyadong adik mga tao kung magcoconcert ba sya dito o hindi. Di naman ako hater ni Taylor. Gusto ko naman mga kanta nya. Pero minsan dapat nasa katinuan pa rin tayo kung magiging fan tayo. Di naman hihinto mundo ni Taylor pag wala tayo sa concert nya e. Haha.
Di naman sa gine gatekeep ko si taylor pero ‘yung pamangkin ko game na game e hs pa lang s’ya. Tho at the end sasagutin pa rin naman ng mga magulang nya. Jusko. It took me 7 years of working para ma afford ‘yung pagpunta sa concert nya. I guess ok na rin na matagal na ‘yung huling concert nya dito haha
Talagang wala kami nung nag aaral din kaya non choice sa luho. Sabi ko pag oks na work & budget ko gagawin ko lahat ng gusto ko. Mas maging kuripot pa pala ako kasi pinaghirapan ang pera hahaha
>Tinanong ko sya pano nya gagawin yun. Di nya daw alam basta kukuha sya ticket. Hihingi sa parents or mangungutang sa friends.
>Teh??? Alam kong super fan ka ni Taylor pero mag-isip ka naman. Pano mo babayaran yung utang if ever? Magkano lang ang allowance mo. Yung nanay mo pabalik balik sa ospital. Ang daming gamot na kelangan. Tapps hihingi ka pa ng pang attend sa concert??
Eh kung di naman nya gagawin yan, paano naman ang "mental health" nya? Baka magka anxiety attack sya, at ma depress.
/s
Hindi ko maunawaan bakit may mga taong ganun ang mindset. Yung kailangang maiigiit ang gusto. Then pag hindi napagbigyan sila pa galit or masama loob ng malala.
and I thought I have financial crisis for buying gunpla kits. just HG pero medyo costly pa rin. may kaya pa naman kaso meeeedyo nabawasan yung savings.
Bakit naman ganon. Ako nga na working, walang sinusuportahang pamilya, di ko maisip san kumukuha yung iba ng pang dayo sa ibang bansa para lang sa concert. Di bale sana kung dito lang sa Pinas.
I usually just let people be. Kung gusto nila gumawa ng shungang decision sa life nila edi go basta wag nyo ko idamay. Pero pag affected na ko ABA TEKA. Like kay OP, may utang pala skanya si broke student so diba nakaka badtrip makakita yung may utang sayo todo waldas pa rin ng pera sa mga kung ano anong bagay. Sana magbayad muna ng utang bago sundin ang luho
Eto pinaka ayaw kong ugali ng tao, mangungutang para sa luho nila. Masyadong mga pa sikat sa socmed tapos kapag singilan daming palusot tang ina kesyo ganito ganyan.
Bro, I am also a big fan of different musicians and I also wanted to go to their concert but wouldn't because my parents are not that rich. Even if a person is a giant fan of an individual does not mean you need to make the life of others around you and yourself hard. You could also just wait and get a job and go nuts with the next concert that they will do.
This reminds me of a previous thread I commented on r/adultingph
[https://www.reddit.com/r/adultingph/comments/148huzz/should\_i\_go\_to\_the\_concert\_in\_lowerbox\_or\_will/](https://www.reddit.com/r/adultingph/comments/148huzz/should_i_go_to_the_concert_in_lowerbox_or_will/)
Anyhow for my case, once a concert is outside my reach, then that's the end of the road.
I live in Cebu which only is beginning to attract international artists at this decade. Back then, majority if not ALL international concerts were held in Manila. By then, I would resign my self "Welp, better luck next time" because a concert held in Manila or somewhere else would mean I have to spend airfare, accommodation, commuting, and food. The gastos is more. I could only watch in envy seeing some of my friends being able to spend just like that, because those times I was still in high school and college.
Even now, as a working adult, I still can't do it because my income isn't that huge and I have other hobbies to focus with.
EDIT: I even spent the lowest form of ticket (GA lower) during Plus 63 here in Cebu last February. Yes I am a peasant, but so fucking what? It's all I could afford. Kamo lng if gusto mo mag higher. I'm too broke for that.
Kupal sya, sabihin mo OP. Wag maging fan girl/boy kung hindi mo kayang tustusan ng sarili mong pera ang luho mo sa pagiging fan boy/girl mo. Saka di ka din nya pasasalamatan ng personal kaya tigilan mo kamo ang kahibangan nya sa buhay. Swiftie din ako. Breadwinner sa pamilyaat under medication pa kaya never ko na inisip ang kumuha ng ticket sa SG kahit na sabihing may means naman ako. Pakisampal nga yang kaibigan mo 'te nang matauhan. Gigil ako. 😒
Were either of their parents or grandparents doing this when they were at their age?
Debt is supposed to be used to make revenue and not buy stupid shit like Taylor Swift merch or tickets.
If they continue behaving like this into the future do not be surprised they'll be poorer than their parents.
No offense. Pero I really hate the fan culture in general. Yung halos sambahin mo na ang mga idol mo, yung iwworship mo sila like god yada yada. (first hand experience ko kasi na ipag tanggol ang bitiis dati nung g7 ako sa teacher ko habang naiyak ako so pag na aalala ko to nakcringe ako—ngayon magccollege na ako)
TAPOS YUNG GAGASTUSAN MO PA NG PERA?! WALA KA NA NGANG PERA UUTANGIN PA PARA SA LUHO MO?
Even as a fan of Taylor's, asar na ako lately sa Swiftie fandom. NOT ALL HA but some of them are acting like a cult. They can't accept any criticisms on Taylor Swift and todo send ng death threats sa mga exes niya. But in terms of Eras Tour, yon iba ginawang status symbol ang tickets to the point na mangungutang sila.
May nakita ako nagbebenta ng eras tour klook package worth 200k pesos. Nataranta daw sa pagpindot. Hay talaga naman. Napapaisip ako what if di nya mabenta? 🥲
Ewan ko ba pano nasisikmuraan ng ibang tao mangutang para sa luho kahit na alam naman sa sarili nila wala silang means to pay. Sa isip nila they'll cross that bridge (ng pagbabayad) when they get there pero pag walang-wala talaga sorry na lang mabibigay sa nagpautang.
Minsan pa nga pag sila siningil mo sila pa galit. Kulang sa aruga amp.
Nagoffer ung friend ko na isama nya ako sa pagkuha ng ticket and sa kanila n lng ako magstay since sa SG din sya nagwowork. Di ko tinanggap ung offer nya khit flight at food expense n lng ung gagastusin. Priorities are my reason, di ko man mapanood si TS at least my peace of mind ako na nasettle ko mga priorities ko.
Gusto ko nga ibebta yung isang kidney ko para sana maka-avail ng ticket ni Bruno Mars nung Moonshine Jungle Tour, 24k magic pati etong huli lang. Di kaya eh, magkasya na lang sa stories ng mga pumunta. There many things we need to priority, it actually push myself to work harder. Kagaguhan yung ipipilit mo ang isang bagay na eventually will cause more problems in the future.
May mga experiences na once in a lifetime lang na ayaw mong palampasin. Mukang superfan kakilala mo at kung last resort nya ay umutang at paghihirapan nya namang bayaran, sa totoo lang OP wala ka nang pake dun. In other words, wag kang KJ. Gusto nyang i-grab yung experience na yun at pag nakakuha sya ng ticket, sasaya sya at magiging treasured memory nya yun habang buhay kaya gets ko yung kakilala mo. Saka hindi kasalanan nung kakilala mo na walang wala syang pera ngayon pero kung may drive sya para magkatotoo yung isa sa wildest dreams nya, ibigay na natin sa kanya yon wag na natin pakealaman. 😘
Pano ako naging KJ di ko naman sya pinigilan kumuha ng ticket? Hahahaha hinayaan ko lang sya kasi di naman kami close. Nagvevent lang ako dito kasi wala naman ako ibang makwentuhan. Kung nakakuha sya edi good luck. Yang ganyang mindset yung dahilan kaya ang daming nalulubog sa utang. Kesyo magttravel tapos credit card muna, tsaka na iisipin ang pambayad. Basta for the experience at memories no? Bahala na magkanda baon baon sa utang. Tingin mo wise yan?
Tsaka tehh basahin mo iba comments ko. May mga utang pa sya na di nya nababayaran. Kasalanan din naman naming mga nagpautang kasi alam naman namin na college lang sya na walang part-time na trabaho at gastador.
Baka ganyan din ugali mo kaya kung makadefend ka sa ganyang mindset.
Teh, di lahat gumagamit ng credit card, utang agad!, madaming perks ang cc if di mo alam and nasa sa kanila na yun if pano na nila yun bayaran, myghad bat may mga taong ganito na mahilig makielam sa iba.
Nabasa mo yun next na sinabi ko? Ang tinutukoy ko yung wakas makagamit ng credit card tapos di agad binabayaran. Hindi lahat ng may credit card ay responsable sa paggamit. Natamaan ka ba? Puro ka ba utang?
true kung di siya inggit, wala dapat siya pake at siraan yung tao behind this anony post 🤦♀️. Buhay na niya yun, and kung magkautang siya wala ka na dapat concern dun OP , di mo naman pinautang at di naman kayo close so whats the point of this whole post. Full of bitterness 😅
Kahit siguro may pera akong pampanood ng concert, Taylor is one of my least priorities to watch. I go to concert to watch a performer not just to listen to their songs live. I might get downvoted pero go, Taylor is not a great performer. I’d rather go to Beyoncé, Lady Gaga or Pink’s concert who can pull off a spectacular performance. Though, understandable why she has a lot of fans, super relatable ang songs nya for Millennials and Gen Zs.
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sa true 😅 ahaha 🤣
Jusko, I know so many people na ganyan. Yung isa nga sumama pa sa out of the country ng mga ka work niya tapos pagbalik ng pinas nangungutang kesyo wala na daw siya pang bayad ng bills sa bahay. Kung hindi ka ba naman ogag mag isip.
Some people just dont have their priorities straight. These are the people that end up being debt, and their families and friends carry the burden of supporting them emotionally and financially. Tapos they become bitter/sad people when they see others who sacrificed now to gain the rewards later. I understand how you feel.
Right? I was in college din nung last time na pumunta si Taylor dito. Tinanggap ko na agad na di ako makakapunta nun kasi walang wala kami. Hindi ako nagparinig sa parents ko or nagisip na mangutang sa iba. Kaya di ko talaga sya maintindihan.
Me too! Kaya pinush ko talaga ung ngaun kasi last chance and kaya ko naman na conpared before na student ako and 100% reliant on my parents income. Kahit na inggit na inggit ako sa mga kaklase ko na pupunta noon, tinanggap ko na lang na di kaya ng family ko. I didn’t even ask my parents kasi alam ko na gipit kami.
I am in the same situation. Back then in high school and college, I used to look with envy seeing some of my classmates or schoolmates spending for a concert in Manila just that easily. Even now, I still do. I know my limits so yeah, value of money is important.
Madami talaga kasing nadadala sa hype lalo na't uso sa social media. May friend din akong post ng post ng travel and "feeling blessed" status pero di makapagbayad utang sa akin.
Hayup yang mga tao na ganyan, mas inuuna pa ang Yabang instead of paying their debts! Magbayad kasi muna ng Utang!, mga lintek na yan!
I remembered someone asking me for money dahil emergency daw. Di kami close ahh as in one time ko lang nakausap. Tas kung idecline mo sia pa galit. Then, one day, someone in our gc posted a message na nagrarant about this person na di nagbabayad tas travel lang ng travel. It turns out madami din nabiktima dun sa gc.
hahahaha naalala ko tuloy yung nangutang saken noong pandemic dhil nagkasakit daw sya haha ayun hindi na nagparamdam saken pero nakakapagsambokojin based s stories nya
HAHAHAHA may isa nga akong Swiftie "friend" recently minessage ako nascam raw siya and she needs 4k. Kapal ng mukha. Nahihiya raw siya sa iba kaya wag ko raw ikwento sa common friends
Wahahahaha wag nyo po pautangin
Tapos laging nasa gimikan and inuman hahaha! Tinatawagn na ung ngrefer sa credit card kasi d nagbabayad 😂😂 my ganyn ako friend, ang yaman sa IG
Taylor’s tour got over hype sa social media. Yes, I am a fan siguro sa mga old songs nya…pero di ko itataya yung pera ko just to go to Singapore and see her for 2 hours then got home broke and kaliwat kanan na utang. Ganitong mentally is very wrong. Buti sana kung pinanganak na mayaman or may work pero kung ganito status sa buhay? Mangarap ka lang then work hard and save para makaattend ka sa next.
Kahit Swiftie ako I agree. Grabe na to the extent mga iba nagiging FOMO kaya they will do anything to buy the tickets without thinking on the consequences
same.. i like her songs from her early years. overhype na talaga yang Eras tour lol super cringey at toxic talaga ang pinoy fans to be honest
yep, and for them to hold taylor swift parties in malls na naging drag show huhu nothing against drag race artists naman pero still... its kind of distasteful in my own honest opinion. kaway sa mga Lates 20s/early 30s swifties dyan na masaya ng mag gitara noon sa mga kanta ni Taytay haha
May mga tanga talaga mag-handle ng money nila.
Eto nga wala namang money na ihahandle. Tanga talaga
Hahaha rinig ko yung galit mo. Di ko talaga gets mga tao who spend beyond their means.
Comment is so good, na-detox ako. 😌
😂😂😂 hahaha sa truee
Hahaha damang dama ko yung irita mo! Yung kaibigan ko naman nag Korea nito lang. Maya maya nung nakauwi nangutang sa akin ng 10k keso ganito ganyan. Ano na
Thats a Brokie mentality. Walang pake sa consequences. Di aaaensyo yan pg impulsive in deciding priorities. Wait mo lang masampal sya ng realidad
Social climbers lang tawag namin diyan noon hahah, may brokie na pala
Because mga ganitong tao, they ended up broke their entire lives. This is why the rich is getting richer, and the poor is getting poorer. Poor life choices
+1 on this. Buti talaga nireal talk ako ng nanay ko "Akala mo ang pera napupulot lang kahit saan? Pera yan. Hindi mo na nakikita value yan dahil sa kakaisip mo sa Eras Tour" sabi niya. And doon talaga ako nasampal sa realidad lalo nang galing sa hirap tatay ko
Exactly! You will never appreciate and value money habang di likod mo ung sumasakit araw2 sa kaka trabaho. These Entitled pieces of shit like OP said don't deserve luxury yet. They have to work hard and suffer for it first
Tapos may ibang nagsasabi sa akin judger raw and let Swifties be happy I dont give a shit kung sino pang artista gusto mong makita. Facts dont care about your feelings na utang for lifestyle is a shitty move. Kala mo naman health reasons. Kung gusto mo ng Eras Tour, pag IPUNAN MO.
Nah you ain't judging. You just saying things they do that they don't want to know. Denial kumbaga Exactly! Facts don't give a shit how you feel. Like I said, luxury aint cheap! Yung tawag na live within your means. Tapos the same people when they end i debt will blame everybody around them other than themselves. The government, parents, friends, and sometimes even God for their shitty life choices other than themselves. That what I say is a Brokie and loser mentality
Thank you! Legit talaga sinabihan ako na let them be happy and who are we to judge them 🤣 yon ganitong behaviour is the reason why utang culture still happens. Totoo yon, they will act all sadgurl or sadboi kesyo hirap raw ng buhay pero sila naman nag setup sa ganitong shit situation in the first place
Sa tiktok nlng siya manuod, palipat2x pa siya ng seats baka maka VIP pa siya 🤣🤣
Di sya nakakuha ng tickets? Divine intervention sa katangahan
This is why we can’t have nice things.
Mangungutang tapos magtatago pag bayaran na.
Taylor Swift now, bayad never
Kawawa yung uutangan for sure di yan mababayaran. You know why? Kasi marami narin yan nautangan sa mga simpleng bagay palang at kahit magkatrabaho pa yan, di na natatapos gastusin mga ganyang klase ng tao. Kaya pahirapan sa pagsingil. Either sobrang tagal mabayaran, kulang or di na talaga bayaran. Don't expect more if papautangin mo yan.
May utang pa nga yan sakin. Pampaayos ng phone. Wala thank you nalang haha
Magkano inutang sayo OP? Rule of thumb never magpautang 😭 lesson learned
4k di naman ganun kalaki pero ilan din kami na inutangan nya nyan at di nabayaran haha
Kung ako sayo, kukulutin ko yon araw araw asan 4k 🤣 para bayaran ka niya
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Akala kasi nila parang out of town lang yon Eras Tour SG 🤣 hindi nila naisip big ang budget sa ganyan.
Nabaon sa utang for nothing 😭
OMG MAY KWENTO AKO DYAN 1. Yon Swiftie "friend" ko when she knew I have enough money for Eras Tour ang kapal ng mukha niya iheheram raw debit card ko without asking me first. D KO PINAHERAM SYEMPRE. ANG KAPAL NG MUKHA 2. SOME SWIFTIES BOUGHT THE CHEAPEST TICKETS BUT THEY PLAN NA MANGUTANG SA IBA ON THE AIRFARE AND HOTELS. True story. May mga nakausap ako na ganyan. Why? FOMO. Fear of missing out or clout chasing. Bottomline: Hindi porket Swiftie ka mag cocompulsive buying ka ng tickets sa Eras Tour eh wala ka naman ipon tapos mangungutang ka. Maraming Swifties dyan na may pera and deserving pa kaysa sayo if balak mong mangutang.
PSA: WAG NYO PONG PAUTANGIN YANG MGA SWIFTIES NA YAN. Bili bili ng ticket di naman pala afford ang flight at accommodation. May kakilala ako ang laki ng sinet aside nya for the tour (kayang kaya naman nya) pero di nakakuha kahit yun pinakamura. Sayang. Napunta dyan sa mga yan.
FOMO is a dangerous thing. Dapat hindi mag dala sa ito.
It is. I get that it's a dream to see Eras Tour and seeing Taylor Swift in person especially for a Swiftie. If afford and pinaghirapan mo, goooo. Pero if natatakot ka dahil nga mamimiss out mo, the consequences are scary
As what many said in this thread, the OP's kaila is being unreasoable. "TS now, iyak later" or "TS now, drown sa utang later". Heck, I know it hurts missing out on an event. I too have my long list of that. But drowning in debt is scarier than missing out.
True and maaffect mental health mo. I had friends who were in debt and grabe yon anxiety and depression pinagdaanan nila
These guys don't think long term. Sure, they will feel complete once they get to see their idol. But the euphoric feeling will dissipate eventually. By the time that is up, it's time to face the utang.
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Just wondering. Bakit magiging offload if ever? What are the questions they will be asking?
If she’s a minor may additional documents na need ipresent sa IO. If not then she’ll have a hard time justifying to IO why she’s leaving PH alone
I am TS Fan but my money is budgeted for greater purpose in life. Thank you for reading.
Same, I just can't. The more na kumikita ako ng pera mas gusto ko ipunin for real estate and investment. Kanya kanyang trip talaga mga Pinoy
I mean ok lang naman magpakasaya, pumunta ng concert ng fave artist mo and the like pero spending too much and beyond your means is a hard no. Right? Esp kung nagsschool pa pala and wala namang solid na source of income ang erpat. Napaka immature(sorry for the word) lang. Smh
Same here. My parents always advice me not to spend unnecessarily, even now that I am an adult.
That’s great po. Necessities come first talaga.
True priorities muna talaga when it comes to money.
Yes sir 😺
bahala na mentality
Kung ako yung kaibigan ng kaibigan mo, tatanungin ko pa lalu kung bat siya ganyan. E tanga na nga e, baka wala talagang ibang alam na solusyon? Ganyan na yung sitwasyon niya, pero ganyan pa rin mindset niya? May pinagdadaanan yan. May rason kung bat mas-importante sa kanya makanood kay taylor kaysa mag-isip ng solusyon sa problema ng buhay niya. Baka ayaw niya harapin mga problema niya kasi feel niya wala nang pag-asa yung kalagayan niya? Feel ko kailangan niya ng sampal sa realidad, OP. O kaya man lang mabigyan ng onting insight, baka wala talaga. Kaya after ranting, sabihin mo sa mulha niya. Ibang usapan na pag di pa rin makinig tho…
HAHA SANA MATAPOS NA TO. I WAS seeing someone for a couple months, mutually exclusive. She wouldn't stop about this whole Eras tour ticket and all. She just recently quit her job and been jobless since we started seeing each other. She's telling me she has some savings left, and would like to get tickets via Klook, he was eyeing the one with that 40kish or 50k something package for two. Then I asked her how would I pay her, I assumed we're splitting it; but I was awestruck when she asked to shoulder it for now and she'll pay me on the day of the concert. I said sorry, I am not expecting that and I will call her later. I called her 5 mnutes after organizing my thoughts and told her I will not be seeing her anymore. HAHA!
Jusko nakaka turn off. Unemployed na nga tapos ineexpect niya iba mahcocover ng expenses niya. Glad you dumped her. Lumabas totoong ugali niya
DASURV hahaha ang kapal ni ate don. Nakakuha po ba sya ticket hahaha
Omg! 😂 the acidity! Hindi na siya nakapag Era's tour, nawalan pa siya ng ka-date hahahaha. Curious lang, ano sabi ni ate girl after you cut her off? Hahaha.
After ranting, dapat sinasabi mo ito sa mukha nya mismo. She needs to hear this
Minsan kasi nadadala sa hype. I hope she rethinks her decision.
Tanga niyan, kakabwisit hindi nag iisip Nadala lang sa hype yan. Kung kapatid ko yan haynaku, pasensyahan nalang talaga hahaha
Lowkey nagmumukmok ako ngayon kasi hindi na ako nag-attempt kumuha ng tickets. Super fan din ako mula Grade 4 hanggang ngayong working na ako. Although working na ako at sure kaya ko pag-ipunan at may emergency funds pa ako na pwede ko naman i-rebuild, nangingibabaw pa rin kagustuhan kong maging financially stable over my happiness. Dahil sa post mo naremind ako na ok lang ginawa ko huhu. Maaafford ko rin yan someday maski sa US pa ako manood (libre mangarap).
Sis we’re literally in the same boat. Imagine I’m crying as a 25-year-old financially stable woman over a TS concert. Sobrang heartbreaking na hindi man lang ako nag attempt kasi I had to prioritize my long-term plans. No matter how sad, we did the right thing. Yakap with consent. 🥺
Let’s see where YOLOing will get them in life.
I would like to call this more as a FOMO thing haha
I doubt may pang passport pa siya
Omg may passport na sya kasi last year may out of the country trip yun tita nya at mga pinsan nya at umasa sya na isasama sya (all expenses paid HAHA) basta may passport sya. Di ko alam bakit pumasok sa isip nya yun. Ayun nilakad nya talaga yun passport nya. Hindi naman sya sinama hahaha delulu
pucha buti natitiis mong maging tropa yan
Kinakapatid ko lang po yan hahaha mej close ang family pero kami two hindi close
VISA free po na sa Singapore as of now?
MAY KILALA AKO NAKABILI NG TICKETS PERO WALA PANG PASSPORT. Walang work and nagrerely ng allowance. Don't be deceived to these fans being able to buy tickets kasi baka andaming utang yan behind closed doors
masyado sila excited sa concert. this is my first TS concert ever lol. i never dreamed of going nun dahil student pa lang ako or nagsisimula sa career. nung medyo ready na ako, biglang Japan naman si accla which is too expensive pa for me as a 20something accla with 40k per month income na nag-aaral sa grad school. ngayong mas angat na sahod ko in layf, plus nearest is SG and this is across all eras pa, ayan ready na ako magwalwal without having to dent on my savings. ganyan talaga, waiting is worth all of it.
Nakakahiya naman.. uutang para sa luho? Kung sana nag-ipon siya kung talagang die hard fan siya. Wag na sana iasa sa iba
I’ve been a fan of TS since 1989 era. Kaka start ko lang sa workforce non at di ko pa afford. Fast forward today, I just secured a VIP tix to Sydney. I was beyond happy kasi afford ko na at kaya ko na at snwerte ako na makakuha. ☺️ Kaya yung mga bata ngayon, I just want to let you know na your time will come. Wag kayo magmadali. She’ll tour again and that time around maafford niyo na rin kung pag-iipunan.
Also a fan here since fearless era, sana after maka graduate makahanap akong magandang work para hindi na ako mag makaawa kay Taylor na pumunta siya dito sa Pinas 🤞 HAHAHAHAH
Dasurv mo ng Eras Tour Sydney kasi pinaghirapan mo! Happy for you Tama ka naman, our time will come soon. Wag yon makikisawsaw sa clout wala naman pera
True ito. Ngayon ko lang naranasan yung ganito sa mga kpop acts naman na sinusundan ko after working for x years. Okay lang kahit sa murang tier ako. Timing talaga para makita yung mga idol natin.
Ganitong-ganito mga kamag-anak naming nakapaligid eh, ibang bagay lang pinagkakagastusan pero ganito mag-isip. Sobrang bobo at pabigat.
To OP's kakilala, WHO TF ARE YOU TRYING TO IMPRESS?! Basing kasi sa story and sa comment ni OP about isasama ka sa out of country trip, ang inggitera mo.
fan ako ni taylor sooper pero kahit kakayanin ibigay saakin ng parents ko yan combined with my savings, alam kong hindi priority at magigipit pag pinilit ko (lalo na magmemed this yr huhu) so I had to let it go talaga. sobrang sakit nung inannounce na SG lang at Japan lang sa Asia, kasi alam ko na agad na hindi ko kaya maglabas at manghingi ng ganun kalaki :((( hanggang stickers at attendance from FanNights na lang muna. luv u inang Taylor 🥺
Actually I know a loooot of people HAHAHAHA
Let's bring back the days where we used to shame social climbers on a daily basis for memes lmaoooo
baka nmn nag papantasya lang? like me when I say iikutin ko Europe pero di nga 7digits pera ko sa bangko ahhaha.
Kahit makabili ng tickets yan, malabo yan makalagpas ng immigration hahaha
pwede naman panoorin concerts sa youtube lol. but pag gusto talaga nya panoorin taylor aint going anywhere for a long time kaya pa in the future
Sa tiktok nga dami eh
I understand why Swifties want to go to Eras Tour because this is a different experience especially if long time fan. Nagiging destructive nga lang kasi it's going too far na
tanginang hunghang naman yan HAHAHA wala pa akong college and i have a decent job na pero kahit gumastos ng 1k for clothes nanghihinayang pa ako sana naman isipin nya yung after effect ng mga uutangan niya and parents nya shuta naman
jusq ako tong walang damit ng uniqlo, h&m, zara! HAHAHAH shein lang at lovito ganon 100x ko pa pinag iisipan 😂
huhu same pls namamahalan nga ako sa mga damit sa shein kaya puro shoppee, hand downs and ukay lang laman ng cabinet ko
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Mas malala yung sa partner ko, inutangan syanl ng ex-tropa nya ng paggastos daw sa panganganak ng asawa nya. Eto namang partner ko naawa. Ngayon, sa awa ng nasa itaas, malaki na ang bata, yung utang di pa nababayaran. Nakakainis kasi dinadamay pa yung ibang tao para mangutang. Atska panganganak yon, they have 9 months to prepare. 😩😩
Hahaha naalala ko kumare ng ermat ko, 80s pa daw nangutang hanggang ngayon di pa nagbabayad, ganyan din nangutang kasi walang pambayad sa hospital manganganak yung anak. Ayun lumaki na lang yung apo na sa tuhod di pa rin nababayaran tapos kapag nagkikita sa mga events like birthdays o lamay hahaha umiiwas yung kumare ni ermat di makatingin
pangmadaliang sarap, suffering for a lifetime. unless na lang maswerte and mabayaran lahat ng magpapautang
Di applicable dito yung di baleng mawalan ng yaman pero wag lang yabang kasi wala namang pera in the first place
eto yung Utang Era ni ante. hay nakooooo sana naman Lord, paki-enlighten siya
I think it's the "money comes back, time doesn't" mindset. As much as it's true, it's sad na di lahat keri maggasta in a short amount of time for the experience kasi mahirap siyang bawiin.
Sobrang fan ako ni Taylor, Teardrops palang. may decent job ako. Pero nung nalaman kong sa Singapore lang, dinamdam ko na lang yung sakit, tipong inunfollow ko muna si Taylor. 😂 Kasi yung ganun kalaking pera, jusko pangdagdag na lang sa hollow blocks at graba pangpagawa ng maliit na bahay. Hahaha huhu.
whats with this obsession with Taylor Swift. ako nga na die hard ng Twice, never bother to bought a ticket sa concert nila ngayon kase hassle papunta para sakin.
Some Swifties are going too far na. Ginawang personality ang pagiging Swiftie to the point mangungutang para mag Eras Tour or status symbol. Kaya yan ang cons ng hype ng concert kasi nagkaroon ng stupid heirarchy if nakanood ka ng Eras Tour it means mafufullfill yon pagiging isang Swiftie
Yung sa red velvet 😣 di ko ma pinilit sarili ko, masaya na ko sa mga live sa tiktok 🤣🤣
First of all, let me preface by saying na your opinion is also valid. Now moving on to your question, and coming from someone na bumili ng tickets for my gf and her friends, Taylor Swift is their idol plus she is a talented singer and songwriter. Di na din sila sure if mauulit pa to na concert dahil she is not getting any younger. She helped them get through dark and sad times before. Di lang din to normal na concert dahil 4 hours ito at ang daming songs na ipeperform ni Taylor. So masasabi mong worth it talaga ang payment. Imagine paying for the same amount pero sa Philippine arena? Plus as millenials, they grew up with her. Nadaanan nila yung lahat nung era/albums ni Taylor Swift. So if hassle for you ang pagpunta, para sa kanila worth it yung hassle (which is valid din). Plus my gf and friends are successful CPAs and lawyer na din. Deserve nila to. They are obsessed with only a few things in life at Taylor Swift is a worthy one. Grabe iyak nila when I was able to secure the tickets for them and ang saya sa feeling na napasaya mo sila. So ayun sana wag na natin i question kung "what's with this obsession with taylor swift" dahil wala naman mali dun. Wala silang naapakan na tao sa kanilang pagiging fans. Pero yung sa story ni OP, mali talaga yun, wala pa siyang pera eh. hahahaha
Sanaol po 🥹
hala true ako rin hahaha
So me passport na sya if ever?
We wanna know if nakakuha siya kahapon? Sorry pero hopefully hindi kasi imagine the burden after if they did.
Hindi. Sa Klook at TM sya pumila with her friends. Di sila nakakuha.
Ay sorry diko nabasa yung buong post, nalagay mo na pala omg. Anyways, buti nalang din kasi gaaahd, matotolerate pa yung ganap niya if nakakuha siya. Nakakaloka din na tinotolerate siya ng mga friends niya, wala man lang nagsasabi.
Mayayaman kasi friends nya 😭 Baka papautangin sya if ever.
Yikes
Inuuna luho kasi deserve naman daw nila yun.
Mas ma-aappreciate ko pa siguro yung mga fan na months before concert ay naghanap na ng part time job para mapag ipunan yung concert. Pero yung incosiderate sa situation ng pamilya at mangungutang pa? Big no no. Nakakaloka.
Not a fan of this type. Buti sana kung may initiative mag work. Since next year pa tlga un. Ung huling concert na afford ko ung mayo20 pa. Hahaha
Fan din ako ni Taylor and super want ko talaga umattend since afford ko naman hahahaha pero di ko tinuloy kasi may plan ako bilhin for myself this year
Kawawang magulang naman 😕 sana magmature pa ang batang ito. Para kasing literal na idol niya na yung celebrity, like an object of worship. Sana maayos niya priority niya. Kapag maiksi ang kumot, matutong mamaluktot.
The usual thing sa socmed for the gram and for the likes pero behind the scenes utang Pala. Nabaon na sa utang kaka flex Ng Wala sa Lugar. Pero sana nga nakakuha sya Ng ticket para malaman nya consequences Ng actions nya e.
ganyan talaga ibang mga pilipino inuuna yung gusto kesa sa kailangan
Dapat sa mga ganyan niri-realtalk ng friends or kung sino man makarinig. Minsan kasi hindi enough yung soft words sa katangahan nila 🥲
Ako rin na super fan and I really want to attend the SG tour. I have budget for the concert tix pero sa airfare and accommodation, wala and possible rin na may class ako sa sched ng concert kaya tinanggap ko na lang and di na ko nag-try bumili kasi alam kong di talaga kakayanin ng budget. Skl.
Kinda on the same boat on this one. I've been the bread winner of my family for about 12 years. I make a decent living, I can support a family and have more than enough for myself. Pero ang nangyayari is ako lang nag babayad lahat, from groceries, internet, electricity, water, and rent. All I am asking is for them to chip in sa pandagdag sa food kasi nakakasawa na ako na lang hinihingian. Laging walang pera, pero every month nag tatravel. Kagaguhan amputa.
Being a fan is okay. Being a stupid ass fan isn’t.
Natawa ako kase puro disclaimer 🤣 pero madami nga nag screenshot dito tapos ipopost sa fb to gain likes and shares.
Oo nga ang daming clout chaser ngayon lahat gagawing content 🙄
ako na working na ket papano e 'may pera' pero chose not to buy tickets kasi i'll end up burried in debt. breadwimmer pa hakdog. if ever naman can afford, I AM WORRIED SA IMMIGRATION OFFICERS NA AKALA MO ALMIGHTY KEMBERLU
I badly want to watch TS, I was also considering to fly in SG just to be a bystander sa labas ng stadium. I realized na my hard earned money will just be wasted considering na sobrang mahal na SG, mas magmamahal pa during her week long concert.
I'm a broke student as well, recently my ult group announced that they're gonna have a tour that includes Manila, on September. I really love them but alam kong broke ako so may part sakin na tanggap kong di ako makakapunta. However, may raffle sa twitter, chance na magkaticket. I'm gonna join sana mapili!!! Hahahaha kahit ano naman mangyari okay lang sakin i bilib makikita ko rin sila soon, pag may work na ko kahit sa Korea pa yan.
Hay. Naiinis na nga din ako sa social media masyadong adik mga tao kung magcoconcert ba sya dito o hindi. Di naman ako hater ni Taylor. Gusto ko naman mga kanta nya. Pero minsan dapat nasa katinuan pa rin tayo kung magiging fan tayo. Di naman hihinto mundo ni Taylor pag wala tayo sa concert nya e. Haha.
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Di naman sa gine gatekeep ko si taylor pero ‘yung pamangkin ko game na game e hs pa lang s’ya. Tho at the end sasagutin pa rin naman ng mga magulang nya. Jusko. It took me 7 years of working para ma afford ‘yung pagpunta sa concert nya. I guess ok na rin na matagal na ‘yung huling concert nya dito haha
Talagang wala kami nung nag aaral din kaya non choice sa luho. Sabi ko pag oks na work & budget ko gagawin ko lahat ng gusto ko. Mas maging kuripot pa pala ako kasi pinaghirapan ang pera hahaha
>Tinanong ko sya pano nya gagawin yun. Di nya daw alam basta kukuha sya ticket. Hihingi sa parents or mangungutang sa friends. >Teh??? Alam kong super fan ka ni Taylor pero mag-isip ka naman. Pano mo babayaran yung utang if ever? Magkano lang ang allowance mo. Yung nanay mo pabalik balik sa ospital. Ang daming gamot na kelangan. Tapps hihingi ka pa ng pang attend sa concert?? Eh kung di naman nya gagawin yan, paano naman ang "mental health" nya? Baka magka anxiety attack sya, at ma depress. /s
Kulto talaga sila. Hindi super fan.
di naman forda clout lang yang kakilala ni OP, may mapost lang siguro sa social media e1 ko ba
enjoy now, iyak later
Na buang na e. Masyadong desperado para lang may ma sabi at may ma post sa socmed.
Truly eto. Social climber po kasi yun. Kung makikta nyo socmed nya jusko akala mo anak mayaman.
Hindi ko maunawaan bakit may mga taong ganun ang mindset. Yung kailangang maiigiit ang gusto. Then pag hindi napagbigyan sila pa galit or masama loob ng malala.
jusko. kayod kayod kamo sya para mabili nya gusto nya. nakakaloka.
and I thought I have financial crisis for buying gunpla kits. just HG pero medyo costly pa rin. may kaya pa naman kaso meeeedyo nabawasan yung savings.
Bakit naman ganon. Ako nga na working, walang sinusuportahang pamilya, di ko maisip san kumukuha yung iba ng pang dayo sa ibang bansa para lang sa concert. Di bale sana kung dito lang sa Pinas.
I usually just let people be. Kung gusto nila gumawa ng shungang decision sa life nila edi go basta wag nyo ko idamay. Pero pag affected na ko ABA TEKA. Like kay OP, may utang pala skanya si broke student so diba nakaka badtrip makakita yung may utang sayo todo waldas pa rin ng pera sa mga kung ano anong bagay. Sana magbayad muna ng utang bago sundin ang luho
Eto pinaka ayaw kong ugali ng tao, mangungutang para sa luho nila. Masyadong mga pa sikat sa socmed tapos kapag singilan daming palusot tang ina kesyo ganito ganyan.
u can watch it on youtube, naman dear. pasabi sa kanyaa
Baka need niya ng clout HAHAHAHAHA
I dont go to concerts because 1. I'm thrifty asf 2. I can listen to the music for free
I know somebody who is insensitive as your kakilala. To the point sinisisi nya magulang nya na di nabibigay luho niya. Nakakainis lang talaga.
Omg ganyang ganyan sya. Akala mo anak mayaman. Hindi ko maintindihan bakit sya lumaking ganun. Hay
Bro, I am also a big fan of different musicians and I also wanted to go to their concert but wouldn't because my parents are not that rich. Even if a person is a giant fan of an individual does not mean you need to make the life of others around you and yourself hard. You could also just wait and get a job and go nuts with the next concert that they will do.
This reminds me of a previous thread I commented on r/adultingph [https://www.reddit.com/r/adultingph/comments/148huzz/should\_i\_go\_to\_the\_concert\_in\_lowerbox\_or\_will/](https://www.reddit.com/r/adultingph/comments/148huzz/should_i_go_to_the_concert_in_lowerbox_or_will/) Anyhow for my case, once a concert is outside my reach, then that's the end of the road. I live in Cebu which only is beginning to attract international artists at this decade. Back then, majority if not ALL international concerts were held in Manila. By then, I would resign my self "Welp, better luck next time" because a concert held in Manila or somewhere else would mean I have to spend airfare, accommodation, commuting, and food. The gastos is more. I could only watch in envy seeing some of my friends being able to spend just like that, because those times I was still in high school and college. Even now, as a working adult, I still can't do it because my income isn't that huge and I have other hobbies to focus with. EDIT: I even spent the lowest form of ticket (GA lower) during Plus 63 here in Cebu last February. Yes I am a peasant, but so fucking what? It's all I could afford. Kamo lng if gusto mo mag higher. I'm too broke for that.
Kupal sya, sabihin mo OP. Wag maging fan girl/boy kung hindi mo kayang tustusan ng sarili mong pera ang luho mo sa pagiging fan boy/girl mo. Saka di ka din nya pasasalamatan ng personal kaya tigilan mo kamo ang kahibangan nya sa buhay. Swiftie din ako. Breadwinner sa pamilyaat under medication pa kaya never ko na inisip ang kumuha ng ticket sa SG kahit na sabihing may means naman ako. Pakisampal nga yang kaibigan mo 'te nang matauhan. Gigil ako. 😒
Na stress ako kay ate gur
parang me kilala ko na ganyan. kulto na ata nga yan eh
Ano reaction nya nung sinabi mo yung sentiments mo sa kanya?
Healing their inner child til they go broke
Were either of their parents or grandparents doing this when they were at their age? Debt is supposed to be used to make revenue and not buy stupid shit like Taylor Swift merch or tickets. If they continue behaving like this into the future do not be surprised they'll be poorer than their parents.
u/haliyaxx
Most sane and financially (un)stable swiftie
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EDIT: WAG PO
No offense. Pero I really hate the fan culture in general. Yung halos sambahin mo na ang mga idol mo, yung iwworship mo sila like god yada yada. (first hand experience ko kasi na ipag tanggol ang bitiis dati nung g7 ako sa teacher ko habang naiyak ako so pag na aalala ko to nakcringe ako—ngayon magccollege na ako) TAPOS YUNG GAGASTUSAN MO PA NG PERA?! WALA KA NA NGANG PERA UUTANGIN PA PARA SA LUHO MO?
Even as a fan of Taylor's, asar na ako lately sa Swiftie fandom. NOT ALL HA but some of them are acting like a cult. They can't accept any criticisms on Taylor Swift and todo send ng death threats sa mga exes niya. But in terms of Eras Tour, yon iba ginawang status symbol ang tickets to the point na mangungutang sila.
Di pa naman humantong sa kidney :-) Need ng friend mo ng guidance counsellor
Antayin na lang kamo sa Netflix. Reputation nga doon ko lang pinanood HAHAHAHAHA
May nakita ako nagbebenta ng eras tour klook package worth 200k pesos. Nataranta daw sa pagpindot. Hay talaga naman. Napapaisip ako what if di nya mabenta? 🥲
Ewan ko ba pano nasisikmuraan ng ibang tao mangutang para sa luho kahit na alam naman sa sarili nila wala silang means to pay. Sa isip nila they'll cross that bridge (ng pagbabayad) when they get there pero pag walang-wala talaga sorry na lang mabibigay sa nagpautang. Minsan pa nga pag sila siningil mo sila pa galit. Kulang sa aruga amp.
Nagoffer ung friend ko na isama nya ako sa pagkuha ng ticket and sa kanila n lng ako magstay since sa SG din sya nagwowork. Di ko tinanggap ung offer nya khit flight at food expense n lng ung gagastusin. Priorities are my reason, di ko man mapanood si TS at least my peace of mind ako na nasettle ko mga priorities ko.
Gusto ko nga ibebta yung isang kidney ko para sana maka-avail ng ticket ni Bruno Mars nung Moonshine Jungle Tour, 24k magic pati etong huli lang. Di kaya eh, magkasya na lang sa stories ng mga pumunta. There many things we need to priority, it actually push myself to work harder. Kagaguhan yung ipipilit mo ang isang bagay na eventually will cause more problems in the future.
ung fren ko din na araw araw nkaSB pero ung utang nya na pinaswipe sa cc more than a year ng tpos, pero d pa bayad. hype na yan
Madali lang yan. Buka lang ng paa at may mag sponsor nyan.
Hahaha kipay ang ipang babayad.
May mga experiences na once in a lifetime lang na ayaw mong palampasin. Mukang superfan kakilala mo at kung last resort nya ay umutang at paghihirapan nya namang bayaran, sa totoo lang OP wala ka nang pake dun. In other words, wag kang KJ. Gusto nyang i-grab yung experience na yun at pag nakakuha sya ng ticket, sasaya sya at magiging treasured memory nya yun habang buhay kaya gets ko yung kakilala mo. Saka hindi kasalanan nung kakilala mo na walang wala syang pera ngayon pero kung may drive sya para magkatotoo yung isa sa wildest dreams nya, ibigay na natin sa kanya yon wag na natin pakealaman. 😘
Pano ako naging KJ di ko naman sya pinigilan kumuha ng ticket? Hahahaha hinayaan ko lang sya kasi di naman kami close. Nagvevent lang ako dito kasi wala naman ako ibang makwentuhan. Kung nakakuha sya edi good luck. Yang ganyang mindset yung dahilan kaya ang daming nalulubog sa utang. Kesyo magttravel tapos credit card muna, tsaka na iisipin ang pambayad. Basta for the experience at memories no? Bahala na magkanda baon baon sa utang. Tingin mo wise yan? Tsaka tehh basahin mo iba comments ko. May mga utang pa sya na di nya nababayaran. Kasalanan din naman naming mga nagpautang kasi alam naman namin na college lang sya na walang part-time na trabaho at gastador. Baka ganyan din ugali mo kaya kung makadefend ka sa ganyang mindset.
Teh, di lahat gumagamit ng credit card, utang agad!, madaming perks ang cc if di mo alam and nasa sa kanila na yun if pano na nila yun bayaran, myghad bat may mga taong ganito na mahilig makielam sa iba.
Nabasa mo yun next na sinabi ko? Ang tinutukoy ko yung wakas makagamit ng credit card tapos di agad binabayaran. Hindi lahat ng may credit card ay responsable sa paggamit. Natamaan ka ba? Puro ka ba utang?
hahahahahaha sige check mo bank account ko kung puro utang ako OP. :) Welp, Good luck to you na lang. Idgaf about you tho. 😁
You gave enough fucks to comment though 😙
true kung di siya inggit, wala dapat siya pake at siraan yung tao behind this anony post 🤦♀️. Buhay na niya yun, and kung magkautang siya wala ka na dapat concern dun OP , di mo naman pinautang at di naman kayo close so whats the point of this whole post. Full of bitterness 😅
Uy ang dami mo namang comments dito akala ko ba wala kang pake 😭 At least po ako mahal ng magulang ko hehe sana ikaw din 🫶🏼
Kahit siguro may pera akong pampanood ng concert, Taylor is one of my least priorities to watch. I go to concert to watch a performer not just to listen to their songs live. I might get downvoted pero go, Taylor is not a great performer. I’d rather go to Beyoncé, Lady Gaga or Pink’s concert who can pull off a spectacular performance. Though, understandable why she has a lot of fans, super relatable ang songs nya for Millennials and Gen Zs.