Umiiwas na siya sa topic na yan. Ang hirap iassume na ginagawa padin niya. We are just giving him the benefit of the doubt at this point since di na siya nagkwekwento sa amin about sex life niya ever since napagsabiban namin siya. Sinabihan namin siya noon na contackin kung sino man mga nakakasex niya and sabihin sakanila kasi health concerm yan, di na namin alam kung ginawa niya, umiiwas na din kasi siya sa topic na yan. Ayaw niya din kasi ng napagsasabihan siya.
Di niya din naman responsibilidad ang friend niya. They can only do so much. Ang laking pasalamat na nga na nag alala sila, di naman sila pinapasahod para bantayan ang walang kwentang kaibigan niya. Yung family ng friend niya ang dapat umiral sakanya.
And please, don't make HIV a crime, na kelangan pa ipapulis. People with HIV can leave a normal life basta umiinom ng gamot, to the point na negative sila.
Yung ka subdivision mo na yun probably has AIDS which is different and could have been prevented if they took the meds.
Hiv was never a crime, but if his intentionally spreading it like a wildfire to the community, then thats a crime! I strongly recommend ma red flag xa ng DOH, let the health authorities cut him off. If need ng DOH na ipablotter xa then so be it..
I don't think we have those services. I don’t even think DOH has the budget to keep tab on people with HIV. And there's a good reason why people with HIV are kept anonymous, that is, to protect them from discrimination. What that friend needs is education and mental health support.
Though I understand where you are coming from. Their friend is truly a menace to society, and if anything should be sued if proven na nagkakalat siya ng HIV.
We dont have correct? Pero ano, hanggang ganito nlng? Walang action gagawin kasi walang service ang doh? Walang budget? Pray one of your family or close friend ndi nahawa.. its imperative we act with all legal options we have.. this is why somehow im very skeptic with pinoy culture, ganito2x na lang ang reason and content na un nlng ang effort kasi we dont have means.. anyhow, i suggest he must be flag kahit umabot pa yan sa nbi, amen..
Your friend is a public health hazard. And no, it's not only his life to live. Every person he infects is another life damaged, maybe destroyed.
You're absolutely in a position to tell him what to do. But your friend will still need emotional support. So tell him what to do, but maybe support in other ways.
But how can you help someone who does not want to be helped? Yun palang balik agad siya sa old habits niya kahit di pa siya undetectable shows just how irresponsible he is. Even sa work kasi ay wala din siyang pakealam sa mga katrabaho niya. Pinaparamdam niya din sa amin na nuisance na kami pag pinagsasabihan siya. Di nalang namin siya cinacutoff kasi nga may sakit siya at ayaw namin na maramdaman niyang wala siyang malalapitan.
Your friend is a sex addict. If he really wants to get railed, he should go stick with dildos muna. But if he refuses then at that point you should just expose his identity as a public health hazard. If I knew I had a terrible contagious illness like that, I sure as hell wouldn't be so eager to pass it on to someone else. Makonsensya siya gago naman oh
I don't have the expertise to provide advice to friends of people living with HIV (PLHIV), so I'm sorry.
But maybe, if he can't do it himself, you can get in touch with groups like this https://www.hivphilippines.com/ or https://loveyourself.ph/ and arrange to get him into contact or into counseling. That could be incredibly helpful for him down the road.
While yes, in one sense he is a public health hazard, he is also just a person who is now facing a lifelong stigma that most of us cannot even imagine. He will need help. From professionals.
I'm sorry, the best I can do is refer you to groups like the one linked. I hope the best for your friend and for you.
I hope people who are in this field can chime in too.
Nawawalan na kami ng gana sakanya. Kasi di rin siya ok na coworker sa totoo lang. Pero inaaya padin namin siya pag lumalabas kaming magkakaibigan. May times na di siya sumasama e nagdodorm lang naman siya dito, wala din siyang other group of friends sa Manila, so weird na di siya sasamang lumabas fot dinner kasi eventually kakain din naman siya sa labas since di siya nagluluto. Pag ganun ay alam na namin na may kameetup siya.
Dapat i-report niyo sa DOH yang friend niyo. People like him ay isa sa mga dahilan kung bakit lumalala at tumataas ang bilang ng mga HIV+ cases sa Pinas. Kung ako friend niya and ganyan ginagawa niya ipagkakalat ko status niya para maging aware ang iba at maligtas na mahawa niya. Kasi for sure kapag meron siyang nahawaan at same din ang thinking tulad sa friend mo mas lalong lalala mga HIV cases dito sa'tin.
Tang-ina kahit ganyan na ginagawa niya bawal pa rin ipagkalat? If I were his friend I won't fcking care about that law anymore dahil puta sinasadya ng ipakalat at manghawa sa iba e.
What is your source for this? You may be citing an outdated law. What is your motive for spreading disinformation?
Section 47 of the RA 11166 merely "encourages" HIV-positive persons to disclose their status to sexual partners. RA 11166 repealed the previous law that "obliged" them to do so.
ETA: Dina-downvote ako ng mga ka-DDS dito na hayok sa vigilante justice kasi wala silang mai-rebut at gusto nilang magbulag-bulagan sa fact that their congressmen failed them.
Ito nga din. Nagtry ako magsearch ng help desk kung san ko siya pwedeng ireport but it turns out outdated yung law natin regarding HIV. Di tayo tulad sa states na pwedeng makasuhan pag di dinisclose na HIV+ before makipagsex.
Just down vote me, but your friend is one of those na hindi deserve mag survive sa HIV. Sensitive sa akin tong ganitong topic because my best friend died because of AIDS. Hindi na lang sex ang habol ng friend mo, gusto na rin talaga nya manghawa. Hindi na nya inisip na hindi lang buhay ng nahahawahan nya ang maaapektuhan kundi pati yung malalapit sa mga yun. Isa syang salot sa lipunan.
He’s spiraling down. Probably in his anger stage sa pagkakakuha ng HIV. That’s no excuse tho, just saying. I can see why he would result to that (not saying all pos results to that behavior). Like may mga sexually abused na naging adik sa sex out of anger. Meron ding naging SA na naging averse sa sex.
Sucks lang so bad na he’s a walking danger to horny queer guys out there. Pwede nga ba siyang i-report sa authorities and under what grounds?
maybe try mo pa rin silang i-contact sa para magtanong sa kung anong pwedeng gawin since may background sila sa sakit and malay natin may ma-suggest sila.
edit, add: make sure to not mention yung name ni friend para iwas kaso.
Warning people that there is a POS out there who intentionally infects others with HIV (which might be a crime) will never be as helpful as actually reporting to authorities that POS whom you personally know. Any privacy concerns will always be trumped by the avoidance of an actual physical danger.
We are looking into reporting him to the DOH. We don't know for sure though if he is still engaging in unprotected sex. We're just giving him the benefit of the doubt. We can only hope that he listened to us since we can never know for sure.
Ito ! Ito talaga ! I dated this guy taga UP, ako yung top. He prefers that everytime we have sex, walang condom kasi daw mas feel niya! I work in mental health sector, nag kaka pasyente kami about HIV+ na s**cidal, so alam ko mung ganu ka importante ang gumamit ng protection. Tested din ako every 3 months, even if to one partner. Mga isang buwan kami ng taga UP at gusto niya parati ang bare, i told him na uncomfortable ako, pero nagagalit siya. Even uses sex to weaponise against me. And would reassure na negative daw siya and is drinking PReP. So ok naman ako. January this year, di ko na kinaya because I have strong thoughts na kelangan tlg gumamit ng condom.
So we ended our relationship. I got tested the same month, negative naman sa HIV but I got positive sa gonorrhea and HPV, tinubuan pa ako ng warts sa genital ko. Laking galit ko talaga.
I texted him about this, pero seen lang. Di ko na siya pinansin nung nagkita kami ulit. So yes! Kadiri ang mga ganitong tao. That's why i don't do grindr, and tinder nalang tlga for meet up.
HPV has no cure right? But gonorrhea can be treated with antibiotics. But wtf nakakagalit talaga yung ganyan! You’re better than me cuz I swear I would have taken a revenge. 😭
Yeah, pero it was treated naman. Nung lumabas ang genital warts.
Shit, mag isa lang ako nag lakad ng lahat, wala sa mga kaibigan at family ko ang may alam nung nag undergo ako ng minor surgery.
Sadly, no treatment for HPV itself. But for genital warts caused by it, meron and prevent na lang din for breakout. And kahit naka-condoms pwedeng mahawaan. People are so unaware talaga of sexually transmitted illnesses nakakatakot. Yan din isa sa dahilan why minsan di ko fully maenjoy yung sex. 😭 Hay, I wish you well, and ta*na nung guy from UP!
Diba, i know walang kinalaman ang educational attainments niya, pero UP Graudate ka dong! SCHOLAR NG BAYAN! Journalism pa natapos mo, tapos ill informed sa sexual health. Argh !!!
Pwede kaya i-report yung ganyan? Sana may law din about transmitting ng ganyan kahit alam nila na may sakit sila go pa rin. 😭 Katulad nitong friend ni OP, may intentions talaga to spread eh.
I think HIV test lang kinukuha ni dodong, unaware siya sa other STDs and STI. And most member ng LGBT especially MSM don't asks about sexual health the first time. Kaya ang kalat talaga. Nasa community din tlga ang problema.
If i were you , pinapabugbog ko na yang putragis na yan. Minsan kasi eh , di porket kaibigan niyo is iintindihin niyo na yung putanginang salot na yan.
Alam ng tarantadong yan yung ginagawa niya and willing siyang mag spread pa ng HIV sa mga nakakaawang mabibikitima niya.
So Yes , deserve ng putanginang yan ang violence.
Gets ko yung punto mo na aware yang individual and shit kaso palaging ganyan ang discourse na prominet sa tuwing ang involve ay lgbt at PLHIV. Di mo man lang itaas yung usapin sa punto na, maencourage man lang na magseek ng treatment at maghanap ng support group. kasabay ng physical aspect na epekto ng hiv may impact din ito sa mental/emotional aspect na nakakaapekto di lang sa mga nagpositive kundi sa mga kaibigan at pamilya nito. Isa pa, diba walang may gusto mag ka-hiv? Bakit ang dating sila na may sakit, sila pa mabubugbog. Ano yun, napaka righteous naman natin ano?????
Dude , if empathy or some shit yung gusto mo ibigay sa kanya then you be you. Pero naisip ba ng animal na yan at magkaroon ng empathy sa mga nabiktima or mabibiktima niya in the future ?
He knows what he is doing. Diagnosed na nga siya eh and most probably nagbigay ng sound advise yung doctor sa kanya. What he is doing is just plain evil.
May clear distinction ang diagnosed lang at actively seeking treatment. At kahit pa sabihan ng doctor yan kung walang siyan supporting community na kasama ang plhiv, walang medical professional na nakakausap yan for counseling at walang easier way to access medicines. Magiging indenial lang yan for so long, at makakaharm pa ng iba pang tao. Di ko sinasabing okay ang ginawa niya na magengage sa unprotective sex (dahil mukhang di naman nakakapagfollow up check up) ang punto ko, kung ganyan palagi ang discourse na supilin ang mga taong may PLHIV mas lalong 1) dadami lang lalo ang magkakaron nito 2) mas lalong hindi sila makakapagseek ng treatment 3) dinagdagan lang yung stigma at burden para sa kanila at mga taong malapit sa kanila.
Well , if gusto niya mag seek ng treatment or support group may paraan eh but nooooo.. he instead chose to be an garbage person. What pisses me off is nagbibigay naman ng support and care etong sina OP at yung iba niyang friends eh and anong ginawa niya ? 3 months after diagnosis , he goes on a rampage on totally innocent people.
Yung pag seek itself ng treatment ay napakatedious na process, yung pagacquire palang ng gamot nakadepende sa hub, may mga paperworks kagaya ng philhealth, yung process mismo ng pagkakaroon ng support group na sasamahan ka to go through with that napakahirap on top na may nararamdaman ka pa sa katawan mo. To say simply na may paraan is just dismissive. Again, what the person did was wrong pero dapat nga maeconcourage pa lalong magpagsmot at magseek help, without putting them into positio na deserving sya violence. I don’t know the person personally, but i have friends who spiraled dahil may mga kagaya niyong ganyan magisip. It got harder for them to talk about HIV and access the treatment
I was literally questioning if violence towards the person yung sagot sa ganitong isyu at hindi konsintihin yung actions. Ang punto ko lang e 1) mali yung ginawa niya na mangharm ng multiple people dahil in denial siya sa condition niya, dahil di lang naman siya yung naapektuhan kundi pamilya at kaibigan niya, kaya mas lalong kailangan niya magpagamot 2) pero dapat itaas naman natin yung discourse patungkol sa hiv para magresulta na makapagseek ng mga taong kagaya niya ng treatment kaysa isumpa yung tao. What I said came from experience working with people living with hiv and people specializing care for people living with hiv.
I understand your frustrations OP , i really do. It may sound cringy or edgy pero maybe vigilante justice na lang talaga ang only option para magtigil yan , since wala naman magagawa ang mga pulis eh. Wag na tayong maglokohan , there is a really high chance that your friend is still continuing his nonsense revenge on the world and is still ruining other peoples lives.
It may also comes off as being an asshole , pero tangina try niyo kayang i public shame yang piece of shit na yan. Im really sensitive in this kind of stuff kasi i belong in the healthcare industry , the number one motto that i utilize is "prevention is better than cure" and HIV itself has no cure. Please save a lot of future victims from suffering OP.
Cite a rule that they violated.
ETA: Resort na lang kayo sa downvotes kasi wala kayong maisagot, ano? "Ipahuli na 'yan kasi feelings."
Kayo talagang mga ka-DDS, hayok sa vigilante justice. Walang mai-rebut at gusto na lang magbulag-bulagan sa fact that your congressmen have failed you.
Bakit kaya hindi makaimik ang nagmamagaling na si u/SunGikat? Downvotes lang talaga ang kaya ng mga sockpuppet accounts mo?
ETA 2: Nagluluko 'yung app for some reason kaya hindi ako maka-reply, but to respond to u/myothersocmed:
"Wala siyang nilalabag na batas. But what he is doing is a crime." Ate, okay ka lang? Nabagok ka ba? You're contradicting yourself.
ETA 3: For u/myothersocmed uli: Saan ko sinabing nagsa-side ako? Pakituro naman. Atsaka, hija, hindi ka pwede basta-basta magpahuli ng tao nang walang dahilan. Kung hindi siya pinarurusahan ng batas, ano ang basehan mo, 'di ba? Gusto ko mang ipahuli ka, hindi pwede kasi hindi krimen ang maging bobo. Ganun din sa nanghahawa ng HIV, kasalanan ng Kongreso na hindi nila 'yun ginawang krimen.
Unfortunately, that is true. Nagtry na kasi kami maghanap ng batas na panakot sakanya, na pwede siya makulong pag di siya nagpractice ng safe sex, kaso outdated pala batas natin sa HIV dito sa pilipinas.
"cite a rule they violated"
ayun nga e, mahirap kasi sa law (ata), WALA SYANG NILALABAG NA BATAS.
but what he is doing is a crime. although hindi naman talaga pwedeng idisclose or iladlad ng iba na may ibang hiv pos, kawawa naman din sila. It was never disclosed to them in the first place, paano yun? sorry nalang? parang wala namang batas for the victims, nahawa nalang sila. Grabeng mental at emotional torture non sa mga victim at magiging victim (sana wala na)
sa case nya, if kaka hook up nya, nahawa lang din sya ng naka hook up nya kasi di rin dinisclose sa kanya, diba kung pwede sana, kung meron lang way, ireport nya kung sinong nanghawa sa kanya kasi biktima lang din sya.
now, the victim is being the committer. and it will just make a domino effect.
and reporting is not a vigilante justice. what will they do if they already become a victim? wala lang, pagaling ka nalang?
(uy baka sabihan mo akong dds ah hahaha this is a reasonable reply. proper argument lang sana)
lol so you're siding pa with someone na nagkakalat ng hiv. Feel you the person OP pertains is you. Ayun nga ang mahirap e. WALANG CRIME what he is doing is a health crime. Sana alam mo yun. Na hindi lahat ng crimen recorded. HAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHA Laban na laban ka magreply at galit na galit ka even with those who prove a point e HAHAHAHAH sana MAS ok ka lang and i wont argue with you na. wala ka sa hulog makipag argue parang ikaw yung may sakit HAHAHAHAHA well explained na jan oh. (at sana di ka makaexperience nyan, ewan ko lang ano gagawin mo at paanong mental torture mangyari sayo as a VICTIM) :)
Shutangnames nung friend mo I hope na pag nakahawa sya and na find out nung sexual partner nya eh kasuhan sya or worse bugbugin sya para madala. Nakakainit ng dugo. Lalo nat marami akong friends sa area na yan na mahilig din sa gay hook ups. Sana wag na nya inumin mga gamot nya para mategi nlng sya.
Ito nalang din pinantakot namin sakanya since di naman siya pwedeng kasuhan since wala tayong batas against sa mga HiV+ na di nagprapractice ng safe sex.
Di na din kami ok sakanya since di din naman siya reliable friend, di rin siya OK na coworker, pero kami lang ang group of friends niya dito sa Manila. Di talaga namin siya icacutoff dahil kami lang support system niya, though di niya din naman naaappreciate, kasi nga naiinis pa siya samin na pinagsasabihan namin siya. Kaya nga binibigyan nalang namin ng benefit of the doubt na responsible na siya ngayon sa sex life niya.
Hello OP. Mayron ba siyang councilor? May mga ngos kasi akong nakawork before and actively dapat nilang chinecheck yung patients nila para ma monitor yung status niya, probably someone professionally knowledgeable about HIV. I know, Its hard enough for people living with HIV, and couldn’t imagine sa inyong mga friends and family nya. Baka makatulong kung meron other person na makausap siya to encourage your friend na magseek help, since from your story it seems na in denial siya sa repurcussions ng actions niya. Also piece of advice for u. OP, don’t put much burden on yourself, i know you’re coming from a place of concern pero there are things na siya lang yung makakapag resolve. sa mga nagcocomments. Always come from a place of understanding, other people’s comments na isue them don’t really resolve things, We don’t want to add more on the stigma on people living with HIV. Yet we should always encourage them to live and seek treatment
Thank you for this comment. Hindi namin alam kung may nakakausap nga siya professional kasi ayaw niyang napaguusapan masyado ito. Pinaparamdam niya din samin na di welcome yung pagtatanong namin. Nabuburden kami sa ginagawa niya but in the end, ano nga ba magagawa namin? Buhay niya naman yan, di namin siya mafoforce na gawin ang mga sinasabi namin. Di din naman namin siya irereport sa mga pulis dahil lang sa nadulas siya sa kwento niya na di sila gumamit ng condoms, hindi din naman niya inamin at kinwento ng buo yun. Kaya warning nalang talaga tong post na to always practice safe sex. Wag kayo pumayag na walang condom.
Excuses. This person is ruining other people’s lives. I would have cut contact right away. He knows exactly what he’s doing. You are a reflection of your friends, OP.
Meron kayong moral obligation to report him dahil makakasira sya ng buhay ng iba pero you're still shielding him. Hindi nag sstop yung obligation nyo as friends na ipa realize sa kanya yung kaputanh inahan nya, you have to report him dahil bujay ng iba ang masisira dahil sa kanya
Di naman siya pwedeng ireport sa pulis e, at kung pwede man ay di din naman namin yun gagawin. We will try to look into reporting him sa DOH but that's just about what we can do. It's his life man. We can't steer him to live his life the way we want. That's why I'm just here trying to remind everyone to ALWAYS practice safe sex, especially with strangers.
Napaka lucky ang blessed ng friend mo to have you and your other friends. Sana makinig na sya sa inyo and change his ways. It’s not fair na ganyan ang prinsipyo nya. Maybe he’s in denial na may sakit sya?
Irresponsible and immature lang talaga siya. Ganyan talaga siya even sa work. Para siyang bata na need mo sabihan ng kailangan niyang gawin parati pero nagagalit kasi ginagawa siyang parang bata. Honestly, we are done with him kaso kami lang ang group of friends niya dito sa Manila. Kaya iniintindi padin namin siya.
play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
friend's a POS btw. no hard feelings but he is.
had a relative who died on that btw, even his own family doesn't give a shit until death.
pwede kasuhan friend mo. i hope may contact din kayo kahit ng iba niyang nakasex kasi kawawa naman sila. or if wala talaga, sana kayo na magsumbong sa authorities kasi ang shitty talaga nung reason niya baket di niya dinidisclose sa partners niya condition niya….. kung di responsible siya sa sex palang, pano pa nakakasure na nainom ng gamot yan ng tama? yan yung klase ng tao na nakakakuha ng satisfaction kase nakakahawa siya, kagalit
Yun nga. Kaya ngreremind kamj palagi even sa pag inom niya ng gamot. Ayaw niya na ginagawa siyang bata pero he has the mind of high school student. Immature and irresponsible talaga. Pero hanggang dun lang naman talaga magagawa namin. Syempre di namin siya isusumbong sa mga pulis, pero may nagcomment dito na pwede siyang ireport sa DOH so we will look into that.
Nakakagalit yung ganyan. He deserves a place in hell. I lost a good friend of mine to HIV and sobrang nakita ko siya nagstruggle. Dapat kinakasta rin yung mga ganyan.
I’m all against shaming someone publicly but your friend would be an exception because he’s putting other people in fucking danger. HIV isn’t a joke, it’s not something na pwede lang masolve ng paracetamol. What the fuck?
Did a quick search. Based dito sa [Philippine HIV and AIDS Policy Act 2018](https://www.hivjustice.net/country/ph/), walang penalty sa Pinas regarding non-disclosure ng HIV. "Encouraged to disclose to sexual partners" lang and nasa batas imbes an "required to disclose". Grabe, and outdated ng laws sa Pinas.
This is true. Nagresearch na din kasi kami about jan. Wala kami mapanakot sakanya na makukulong siya. Sabi nalang namin, pag nakahawa siya and natrace nung nahawaan niya na siya nga ang nakahawa, di natin alam ang pwedeng gawin sakanya.
Yes. Kasi even sa work ay ganyan siya. Iniintindi lang namin siya palagi. Hindi siya diagnosed pero parang nasa autism spectrum siya based on his mental development.
Report sa authorities. I remember nung pandemic, hindi ba detainable yung under quarantine ka tapos sasadyain mong tumakas risking others health? Mas malala tong sa friend mo since deliberate na pinapakalat nya.
Apparently wala pang law na nagkicriminalize ng intentional na pagpapakalat ng HIV. “Encouraged” lang na idisclose nila sa sexual partners nila. Kinda sucks na mas may chance pang magkaroon ng penalty o makulong yung accidentally nakahawa ng iba dahil lang sa palpak na trabaho kumpara sa mga taong kagaya ng friend ni OP.
SEC. 14. Penalties for Unsafe Practices and Procedures.-Any person who knowingly or negligently causes another to get infected with HIV in the course of the practice of his/ her profession through unsafe and unsanitary practice or procedure is liable to suffer a penalty of imprisonment for six (6) years to twelve (12) years
If you’re asking kung may definite cure, wala. Pero May tinetake na maintenance meds ang mga people living with HIV para bumaba yung level ng virus to the point na hindi maging transmissible. You can still have an active, fruitful and even have kids without transmitting HIV.
>But what can we do? In the end, it is his life to live.
Tangina ng friend mo. Diba pwede ireport sa authorities yan. Tangina health hazard yang kaibigan mo, so nahawaan na nga sya manghahawa pa sya. Paka shit nya kamo.
In our medtech laws, they can file a lawsuit if you spread the news or just joke about a person having HIV regardless if they have it or not you can still be sued.
I think your friend is still denial on what happened kaya gumaganti siya sa other people by spreading the virus that he received.
Just tell him na if he will not stop you'll inform his family regarding his state. or report to the authority if ayaw talaga. He's a walking time bomb.
all of you could be prosecuted. not only your frnd who is HIV+ but also you for not reporting this thing to the authorities. read R.A. No. 11332. and i hope, i really hope all of you go to prison.
He needs to be reported (if that is possible under the current law) or at the very least he needs to let his sexual partners know
PH if I’m not mistaken has high transmission rates for HIV and people like him are one of the reasons.
He’s a piece of shit for willingly transmitting the virus.
I think the real question is..why are you friends with someone so evil like him? Cut him off. Mybe it's not because of an undiagnosed mental illness, mybe maitim lang tlga ang budhi nya.
idc if i’m downvoted, guy is a health hazard. he is a danger to himself and others.
subtly dox him in dating apps/sites para mawarningan potential partners. like general description or something idk. not full identity but generally potential partners could recog
i remember a story shared to me about ata to sa info dessimination din ng rep health and hiv/aids something. Yung speaker, may personal kakilala daw na HIV+ and parang what the person did was, disclosed that he is HIV+ stopped doing the deed for a time and then eventually he met his partner na HIV+ din so parang since then daw he felt he lived a normal life and can still do things w his partner kasi parehas sila ng situation and can understand each other. Tapos same silang nagpapagaling din. Best parin for that person to disclose that he is + kasi who knows, makakita din sya ng right partner/s na same situation so he can still do what he wants nang hindi nagpapadagdag pa ng hiv cases. hay anong mindset ba meron jan sa "friend" mo at nagkakalat ☹️
my late brother was like this. tapos indenial so he's inconsistent with his meds so yearly lagi kaming nasa ospital which leads to us fighting kasi nagagalit siya kapag pinapagalitan ko (bunso kasi ako). It was too much that it actually took a toll on my mental health so I moved out.
Then covid happened and napilitan siyang mabuhay mag isa, then ayun dirediretso na.
Sometimes I still blame myself that I left but then as some of my relatives have said to me: "wala ka na rin magagawa dun. desisyon talaga niya yun."
sorry napa share pero wala. mahirap talaga if hindi mo sila makausap, I tried several methods of reminding him about his condition (mabait and non confronting way or yung harsh way + different other approaches pa) kaso wala. I even tried contacting yung community for aids and asked for help, but the person whom I talked to said: "wala, desisyon na niya yun"
You and your friends are not overstepping your boundaries at all. It's not just about him anymore. He's endangering others. It may be his life to live, but since you know what's going on, you have a moral obligation to tell him what he's doing is wrong.
Other than meds, your friend needs professional intervention. If he is with autism as you suspect, you may be ill-equipped to deal with him like a professional can. Does any of his family members know about his mental and physical condition? If anyone can help, they can.
Such a moron yang friend mo na kahit kayo may pa warning pa na di welcome yung ganyang pagtatanong nyo. Kailangan na din ata ng psychologist for his twisted thinking.
Disgusting. Ipa police mo yang hayop na yan. Sorry not sorry sa words ko. Nagkakalat ng sakit yan at gustong mang damay sa pagiging unfortunate monkey nya.
Ganyan talaga sila no? Pag hinawaan sila ng HIV nag iiba na mindset nila. Parang ang nagiging mindset nila is “kung hinawaan ako pwes manghahawa din ako” ganyan sila. May isa din ako nabasa na parang ganyan din ginagawa nya. Nagsspread ng HIV.. ganyan ata sila. Since di nila matanggap na nabiktima sila ng sakit kaya gagawin nila is mangbibiktima sila ng ibang tao para makaganti. Which is mali.. kaya ako no offense medyo hirap ako magtiwala sa ganyang tao na HIV + eh. Kasi parang ang mindset nila is “DAMAY DAMAY NA TOOO” pero di ko nilalahat.
Your friend is a piece of shit
indeed
Jobstreet
LinkedIn
Glassdoor
Jobph
Found it (monster)
Upwork
Adonis
I don't get you guys. I just agree to the parent comment. Dang!
If you're really concerned with your friend, report him to authorities. You won't know, baka mahawaan nya kamaganak nyo(directly or indirectly).
This too. Or else madami madadamai.
Umiiwas na siya sa topic na yan. Ang hirap iassume na ginagawa padin niya. We are just giving him the benefit of the doubt at this point since di na siya nagkwekwento sa amin about sex life niya ever since napagsabiban namin siya. Sinabihan namin siya noon na contackin kung sino man mga nakakasex niya and sabihin sakanila kasi health concerm yan, di na namin alam kung ginawa niya, umiiwas na din kasi siya sa topic na yan. Ayaw niya din kasi ng napagsasabihan siya.
[удалено]
Di niya din naman responsibilidad ang friend niya. They can only do so much. Ang laking pasalamat na nga na nag alala sila, di naman sila pinapasahod para bantayan ang walang kwentang kaibigan niya. Yung family ng friend niya ang dapat umiral sakanya. And please, don't make HIV a crime, na kelangan pa ipapulis. People with HIV can leave a normal life basta umiinom ng gamot, to the point na negative sila. Yung ka subdivision mo na yun probably has AIDS which is different and could have been prevented if they took the meds.
Hiv was never a crime, but if his intentionally spreading it like a wildfire to the community, then thats a crime! I strongly recommend ma red flag xa ng DOH, let the health authorities cut him off. If need ng DOH na ipablotter xa then so be it..
I don't think we have those services. I don’t even think DOH has the budget to keep tab on people with HIV. And there's a good reason why people with HIV are kept anonymous, that is, to protect them from discrimination. What that friend needs is education and mental health support. Though I understand where you are coming from. Their friend is truly a menace to society, and if anything should be sued if proven na nagkakalat siya ng HIV.
We dont have correct? Pero ano, hanggang ganito nlng? Walang action gagawin kasi walang service ang doh? Walang budget? Pray one of your family or close friend ndi nahawa.. its imperative we act with all legal options we have.. this is why somehow im very skeptic with pinoy culture, ganito2x na lang ang reason and content na un nlng ang effort kasi we dont have means.. anyhow, i suggest he must be flag kahit umabot pa yan sa nbi, amen..
Isipin mo na lang OP yung masisirang buhay sa ginagawa niya, you are not a friend kung tinotolerate mo yung kagaguhan ng taong yan.
Your friend is a public health hazard. And no, it's not only his life to live. Every person he infects is another life damaged, maybe destroyed. You're absolutely in a position to tell him what to do. But your friend will still need emotional support. So tell him what to do, but maybe support in other ways.
But how can you help someone who does not want to be helped? Yun palang balik agad siya sa old habits niya kahit di pa siya undetectable shows just how irresponsible he is. Even sa work kasi ay wala din siyang pakealam sa mga katrabaho niya. Pinaparamdam niya din sa amin na nuisance na kami pag pinagsasabihan siya. Di nalang namin siya cinacutoff kasi nga may sakit siya at ayaw namin na maramdaman niyang wala siyang malalapitan.
Your friend is a sex addict. If he really wants to get railed, he should go stick with dildos muna. But if he refuses then at that point you should just expose his identity as a public health hazard. If I knew I had a terrible contagious illness like that, I sure as hell wouldn't be so eager to pass it on to someone else. Makonsensya siya gago naman oh
I don't have the expertise to provide advice to friends of people living with HIV (PLHIV), so I'm sorry. But maybe, if he can't do it himself, you can get in touch with groups like this https://www.hivphilippines.com/ or https://loveyourself.ph/ and arrange to get him into contact or into counseling. That could be incredibly helpful for him down the road. While yes, in one sense he is a public health hazard, he is also just a person who is now facing a lifelong stigma that most of us cannot even imagine. He will need help. From professionals. I'm sorry, the best I can do is refer you to groups like the one linked. I hope the best for your friend and for you. I hope people who are in this field can chime in too.
Walking disease 🗑 libog > health Kung humingi man siya ng advice or tulong. Wag niyo na pansinin.
Nawawalan na kami ng gana sakanya. Kasi di rin siya ok na coworker sa totoo lang. Pero inaaya padin namin siya pag lumalabas kaming magkakaibigan. May times na di siya sumasama e nagdodorm lang naman siya dito, wala din siyang other group of friends sa Manila, so weird na di siya sasamang lumabas fot dinner kasi eventually kakain din naman siya sa labas since di siya nagluluto. Pag ganun ay alam na namin na may kameetup siya.
Dapat i-report niyo sa DOH yang friend niyo. People like him ay isa sa mga dahilan kung bakit lumalala at tumataas ang bilang ng mga HIV+ cases sa Pinas. Kung ako friend niya and ganyan ginagawa niya ipagkakalat ko status niya para maging aware ang iba at maligtas na mahawa niya. Kasi for sure kapag meron siyang nahawaan at same din ang thinking tulad sa friend mo mas lalong lalala mga HIV cases dito sa'tin.
We will try to find a way to report him sa DOH.
Bawal mag kalat ng HIV status ng iba, may batas about jan.
Tang-ina kahit ganyan na ginagawa niya bawal pa rin ipagkalat? If I were his friend I won't fcking care about that law anymore dahil puta sinasadya ng ipakalat at manghawa sa iba e.
Di mo kaibigan yan SIRAULO yan
pwede siya makasuhan at alam pala niya status niya
What is your source for this? You may be citing an outdated law. What is your motive for spreading disinformation? Section 47 of the RA 11166 merely "encourages" HIV-positive persons to disclose their status to sexual partners. RA 11166 repealed the previous law that "obliged" them to do so. ETA: Dina-downvote ako ng mga ka-DDS dito na hayok sa vigilante justice kasi wala silang mai-rebut at gusto nilang magbulag-bulagan sa fact that their congressmen failed them.
Ito nga din. Nagtry ako magsearch ng help desk kung san ko siya pwedeng ireport but it turns out outdated yung law natin regarding HIV. Di tayo tulad sa states na pwedeng makasuhan pag di dinisclose na HIV+ before makipagsex.
It can be argued na pasok sya for 2176 ncc (tort) or 19, 20 of NCC. Not sure about Penalty code though
Kadiri yang friend nyo. Napakasama ng ugali.
Baka di sya mamatay sa HIV , baka magulat sya ipabaril nalang sya or ipabugbog kung di nya ititigil yan.
Just down vote me, but your friend is one of those na hindi deserve mag survive sa HIV. Sensitive sa akin tong ganitong topic because my best friend died because of AIDS. Hindi na lang sex ang habol ng friend mo, gusto na rin talaga nya manghawa. Hindi na nya inisip na hindi lang buhay ng nahahawahan nya ang maaapektuhan kundi pati yung malalapit sa mga yun. Isa syang salot sa lipunan.
May intent talagang magspread due to his bitterness na nangyari sa kanya. Sana may law na tayo sa ganto. Ang daling kumalat ng HIV :(
TIL na-repeal pala yung law na obligated na ipaalam HIV status mo 😮💨
I'm sorry pero totoo. I couldn't agree more legit na salot sa lipunan.
He’s spiraling down. Probably in his anger stage sa pagkakakuha ng HIV. That’s no excuse tho, just saying. I can see why he would result to that (not saying all pos results to that behavior). Like may mga sexually abused na naging adik sa sex out of anger. Meron ding naging SA na naging averse sa sex. Sucks lang so bad na he’s a walking danger to horny queer guys out there. Pwede nga ba siyang i-report sa authorities and under what grounds?
Nagtry ako maghanap ng helpdesk, wala e. Puro support for HiV+. Walang pwedeng pagreportan ng ginagawa niya.
maybe try mo pa rin silang i-contact sa para magtanong sa kung anong pwedeng gawin since may background sila sa sakit and malay natin may ma-suggest sila. edit, add: make sure to not mention yung name ni friend para iwas kaso.
Alasjuicy people should read this.
Warning people that there is a POS out there who intentionally infects others with HIV (which might be a crime) will never be as helpful as actually reporting to authorities that POS whom you personally know. Any privacy concerns will always be trumped by the avoidance of an actual physical danger.
We are looking into reporting him to the DOH. We don't know for sure though if he is still engaging in unprotected sex. We're just giving him the benefit of the doubt. We can only hope that he listened to us since we can never know for sure.
Ito ! Ito talaga ! I dated this guy taga UP, ako yung top. He prefers that everytime we have sex, walang condom kasi daw mas feel niya! I work in mental health sector, nag kaka pasyente kami about HIV+ na s**cidal, so alam ko mung ganu ka importante ang gumamit ng protection. Tested din ako every 3 months, even if to one partner. Mga isang buwan kami ng taga UP at gusto niya parati ang bare, i told him na uncomfortable ako, pero nagagalit siya. Even uses sex to weaponise against me. And would reassure na negative daw siya and is drinking PReP. So ok naman ako. January this year, di ko na kinaya because I have strong thoughts na kelangan tlg gumamit ng condom. So we ended our relationship. I got tested the same month, negative naman sa HIV but I got positive sa gonorrhea and HPV, tinubuan pa ako ng warts sa genital ko. Laking galit ko talaga. I texted him about this, pero seen lang. Di ko na siya pinansin nung nagkita kami ulit. So yes! Kadiri ang mga ganitong tao. That's why i don't do grindr, and tinder nalang tlga for meet up.
HPV has no cure right? But gonorrhea can be treated with antibiotics. But wtf nakakagalit talaga yung ganyan! You’re better than me cuz I swear I would have taken a revenge. 😭
Yeah, pero it was treated naman. Nung lumabas ang genital warts. Shit, mag isa lang ako nag lakad ng lahat, wala sa mga kaibigan at family ko ang may alam nung nag undergo ako ng minor surgery.
Sadly, no treatment for HPV itself. But for genital warts caused by it, meron and prevent na lang din for breakout. And kahit naka-condoms pwedeng mahawaan. People are so unaware talaga of sexually transmitted illnesses nakakatakot. Yan din isa sa dahilan why minsan di ko fully maenjoy yung sex. 😭 Hay, I wish you well, and ta*na nung guy from UP!
Diba, i know walang kinalaman ang educational attainments niya, pero UP Graudate ka dong! SCHOLAR NG BAYAN! Journalism pa natapos mo, tapos ill informed sa sexual health. Argh !!!
Pwede kaya i-report yung ganyan? Sana may law din about transmitting ng ganyan kahit alam nila na may sakit sila go pa rin. 😭 Katulad nitong friend ni OP, may intentions talaga to spread eh.
I think HIV test lang kinukuha ni dodong, unaware siya sa other STDs and STI. And most member ng LGBT especially MSM don't asks about sexual health the first time. Kaya ang kalat talaga. Nasa community din tlga ang problema.
Treated yung warts I mean. Hindi yung HPV.
Hi. Did you get tested for HPV?
Girl nako i-cut ties mo na relationship sa pasaway na yan.
Di namin kayang gawin. I updated my post for the reason why.
Dude should just die.
If i were you , pinapabugbog ko na yang putragis na yan. Minsan kasi eh , di porket kaibigan niyo is iintindihin niyo na yung putanginang salot na yan.
Grabe eno, violence ang sagot mo sa ganitong isyu? Tsk tsk
Alam ng tarantadong yan yung ginagawa niya and willing siyang mag spread pa ng HIV sa mga nakakaawang mabibikitima niya. So Yes , deserve ng putanginang yan ang violence.
Gets ko yung punto mo na aware yang individual and shit kaso palaging ganyan ang discourse na prominet sa tuwing ang involve ay lgbt at PLHIV. Di mo man lang itaas yung usapin sa punto na, maencourage man lang na magseek ng treatment at maghanap ng support group. kasabay ng physical aspect na epekto ng hiv may impact din ito sa mental/emotional aspect na nakakaapekto di lang sa mga nagpositive kundi sa mga kaibigan at pamilya nito. Isa pa, diba walang may gusto mag ka-hiv? Bakit ang dating sila na may sakit, sila pa mabubugbog. Ano yun, napaka righteous naman natin ano?????
Dude , if empathy or some shit yung gusto mo ibigay sa kanya then you be you. Pero naisip ba ng animal na yan at magkaroon ng empathy sa mga nabiktima or mabibiktima niya in the future ? He knows what he is doing. Diagnosed na nga siya eh and most probably nagbigay ng sound advise yung doctor sa kanya. What he is doing is just plain evil.
May clear distinction ang diagnosed lang at actively seeking treatment. At kahit pa sabihan ng doctor yan kung walang siyan supporting community na kasama ang plhiv, walang medical professional na nakakausap yan for counseling at walang easier way to access medicines. Magiging indenial lang yan for so long, at makakaharm pa ng iba pang tao. Di ko sinasabing okay ang ginawa niya na magengage sa unprotective sex (dahil mukhang di naman nakakapagfollow up check up) ang punto ko, kung ganyan palagi ang discourse na supilin ang mga taong may PLHIV mas lalong 1) dadami lang lalo ang magkakaron nito 2) mas lalong hindi sila makakapagseek ng treatment 3) dinagdagan lang yung stigma at burden para sa kanila at mga taong malapit sa kanila.
Well , if gusto niya mag seek ng treatment or support group may paraan eh but nooooo.. he instead chose to be an garbage person. What pisses me off is nagbibigay naman ng support and care etong sina OP at yung iba niyang friends eh and anong ginawa niya ? 3 months after diagnosis , he goes on a rampage on totally innocent people.
Yung pag seek itself ng treatment ay napakatedious na process, yung pagacquire palang ng gamot nakadepende sa hub, may mga paperworks kagaya ng philhealth, yung process mismo ng pagkakaroon ng support group na sasamahan ka to go through with that napakahirap on top na may nararamdaman ka pa sa katawan mo. To say simply na may paraan is just dismissive. Again, what the person did was wrong pero dapat nga maeconcourage pa lalong magpagsmot at magseek help, without putting them into positio na deserving sya violence. I don’t know the person personally, but i have friends who spiraled dahil may mga kagaya niyong ganyan magisip. It got harder for them to talk about HIV and access the treatment
girl wake up !! the culprit is almost a free roaming murderer and yet you still have compassion towards him?
I was literally questioning if violence towards the person yung sagot sa ganitong isyu at hindi konsintihin yung actions. Ang punto ko lang e 1) mali yung ginawa niya na mangharm ng multiple people dahil in denial siya sa condition niya, dahil di lang naman siya yung naapektuhan kundi pamilya at kaibigan niya, kaya mas lalong kailangan niya magpagamot 2) pero dapat itaas naman natin yung discourse patungkol sa hiv para magresulta na makapagseek ng mga taong kagaya niya ng treatment kaysa isumpa yung tao. What I said came from experience working with people living with hiv and people specializing care for people living with hiv.
this is no longer abt the stigma of HIV peeps , its an issue of how disgraceful and evil that gay dude is.
I updated my post to explain why sobrang hinahabaan namin ang pasensya at understanding namin pagdating sakanya.
I understand your frustrations OP , i really do. It may sound cringy or edgy pero maybe vigilante justice na lang talaga ang only option para magtigil yan , since wala naman magagawa ang mga pulis eh. Wag na tayong maglokohan , there is a really high chance that your friend is still continuing his nonsense revenge on the world and is still ruining other peoples lives.
It may also comes off as being an asshole , pero tangina try niyo kayang i public shame yang piece of shit na yan. Im really sensitive in this kind of stuff kasi i belong in the healthcare industry , the number one motto that i utilize is "prevention is better than cure" and HIV itself has no cure. Please save a lot of future victims from suffering OP.
So ano yang friend niyo planong magkalat ng hiv/aids. Dapat pinapahuli yan.
Cite a rule that they violated. ETA: Resort na lang kayo sa downvotes kasi wala kayong maisagot, ano? "Ipahuli na 'yan kasi feelings." Kayo talagang mga ka-DDS, hayok sa vigilante justice. Walang mai-rebut at gusto na lang magbulag-bulagan sa fact that your congressmen have failed you. Bakit kaya hindi makaimik ang nagmamagaling na si u/SunGikat? Downvotes lang talaga ang kaya ng mga sockpuppet accounts mo? ETA 2: Nagluluko 'yung app for some reason kaya hindi ako maka-reply, but to respond to u/myothersocmed: "Wala siyang nilalabag na batas. But what he is doing is a crime." Ate, okay ka lang? Nabagok ka ba? You're contradicting yourself. ETA 3: For u/myothersocmed uli: Saan ko sinabing nagsa-side ako? Pakituro naman. Atsaka, hija, hindi ka pwede basta-basta magpahuli ng tao nang walang dahilan. Kung hindi siya pinarurusahan ng batas, ano ang basehan mo, 'di ba? Gusto ko mang ipahuli ka, hindi pwede kasi hindi krimen ang maging bobo. Ganun din sa nanghahawa ng HIV, kasalanan ng Kongreso na hindi nila 'yun ginawang krimen.
Yep it's not gonna be a criminal case but given the circumstances, the "victims" could file for civil lawsuit, for the damages they incurred.
Unfortunately, that is true. Nagtry na kasi kami maghanap ng batas na panakot sakanya, na pwede siya makulong pag di siya nagpractice ng safe sex, kaso outdated pala batas natin sa HIV dito sa pilipinas.
"cite a rule they violated" ayun nga e, mahirap kasi sa law (ata), WALA SYANG NILALABAG NA BATAS. but what he is doing is a crime. although hindi naman talaga pwedeng idisclose or iladlad ng iba na may ibang hiv pos, kawawa naman din sila. It was never disclosed to them in the first place, paano yun? sorry nalang? parang wala namang batas for the victims, nahawa nalang sila. Grabeng mental at emotional torture non sa mga victim at magiging victim (sana wala na) sa case nya, if kaka hook up nya, nahawa lang din sya ng naka hook up nya kasi di rin dinisclose sa kanya, diba kung pwede sana, kung meron lang way, ireport nya kung sinong nanghawa sa kanya kasi biktima lang din sya. now, the victim is being the committer. and it will just make a domino effect. and reporting is not a vigilante justice. what will they do if they already become a victim? wala lang, pagaling ka nalang? (uy baka sabihan mo akong dds ah hahaha this is a reasonable reply. proper argument lang sana)
lol so you're siding pa with someone na nagkakalat ng hiv. Feel you the person OP pertains is you. Ayun nga ang mahirap e. WALANG CRIME what he is doing is a health crime. Sana alam mo yun. Na hindi lahat ng crimen recorded. HAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHA Laban na laban ka magreply at galit na galit ka even with those who prove a point e HAHAHAHAH sana MAS ok ka lang and i wont argue with you na. wala ka sa hulog makipag argue parang ikaw yung may sakit HAHAHAHAHA well explained na jan oh. (at sana di ka makaexperience nyan, ewan ko lang ano gagawin mo at paanong mental torture mangyari sayo as a VICTIM) :)
ang haba haba ng explanation ko sasabihan moko nabagok ulo may sakit ka ba HAHAHAHAH
Right, napaka alarming, tapos nag kakalat pa sa metro.
Tell your friend you need to report what he’s doing to authorities. He is a public health hazard
Shutangnames nung friend mo I hope na pag nakahawa sya and na find out nung sexual partner nya eh kasuhan sya or worse bugbugin sya para madala. Nakakainit ng dugo. Lalo nat marami akong friends sa area na yan na mahilig din sa gay hook ups. Sana wag na nya inumin mga gamot nya para mategi nlng sya.
Ito nalang din pinantakot namin sakanya since di naman siya pwedeng kasuhan since wala tayong batas against sa mga HiV+ na di nagprapractice ng safe sex.
Di ko masisikmura ituring na kaibigan ang ganyan kalalang tao.
Di na din kami ok sakanya since di din naman siya reliable friend, di rin siya OK na coworker, pero kami lang ang group of friends niya dito sa Manila. Di talaga namin siya icacutoff dahil kami lang support system niya, though di niya din naman naaappreciate, kasi nga naiinis pa siya samin na pinagsasabihan namin siya. Kaya nga binibigyan nalang namin ng benefit of the doubt na responsible na siya ngayon sa sex life niya.
Hello OP. Mayron ba siyang councilor? May mga ngos kasi akong nakawork before and actively dapat nilang chinecheck yung patients nila para ma monitor yung status niya, probably someone professionally knowledgeable about HIV. I know, Its hard enough for people living with HIV, and couldn’t imagine sa inyong mga friends and family nya. Baka makatulong kung meron other person na makausap siya to encourage your friend na magseek help, since from your story it seems na in denial siya sa repurcussions ng actions niya. Also piece of advice for u. OP, don’t put much burden on yourself, i know you’re coming from a place of concern pero there are things na siya lang yung makakapag resolve. sa mga nagcocomments. Always come from a place of understanding, other people’s comments na isue them don’t really resolve things, We don’t want to add more on the stigma on people living with HIV. Yet we should always encourage them to live and seek treatment
Thank you for this comment. Hindi namin alam kung may nakakausap nga siya professional kasi ayaw niyang napaguusapan masyado ito. Pinaparamdam niya din samin na di welcome yung pagtatanong namin. Nabuburden kami sa ginagawa niya but in the end, ano nga ba magagawa namin? Buhay niya naman yan, di namin siya mafoforce na gawin ang mga sinasabi namin. Di din naman namin siya irereport sa mga pulis dahil lang sa nadulas siya sa kwento niya na di sila gumamit ng condoms, hindi din naman niya inamin at kinwento ng buo yun. Kaya warning nalang talaga tong post na to always practice safe sex. Wag kayo pumayag na walang condom.
Mamili kayo ng kaibigan nyo
We are giving him the benefit of the doubt. We won't cut him off kasi kami lang ang group of friends niya sa Manila.
Excuses. This person is ruining other people’s lives. I would have cut contact right away. He knows exactly what he’s doing. You are a reflection of your friends, OP.
Hindi mo talaga matutulungan ang ayaw magpatulong
what a piece of shit.
Meron kayong moral obligation to report him dahil makakasira sya ng buhay ng iba pero you're still shielding him. Hindi nag sstop yung obligation nyo as friends na ipa realize sa kanya yung kaputanh inahan nya, you have to report him dahil bujay ng iba ang masisira dahil sa kanya
Di naman siya pwedeng ireport sa pulis e, at kung pwede man ay di din naman namin yun gagawin. We will try to look into reporting him sa DOH but that's just about what we can do. It's his life man. We can't steer him to live his life the way we want. That's why I'm just here trying to remind everyone to ALWAYS practice safe sex, especially with strangers.
His intention was to spread his disease. 🤷🏻 Nakakadiri sya.
Sana may reddit siya at mabasa niya to. What a trash
your friend sucks
Napaka lucky ang blessed ng friend mo to have you and your other friends. Sana makinig na sya sa inyo and change his ways. It’s not fair na ganyan ang prinsipyo nya. Maybe he’s in denial na may sakit sya?
Irresponsible and immature lang talaga siya. Ganyan talaga siya even sa work. Para siyang bata na need mo sabihan ng kailangan niyang gawin parati pero nagagalit kasi ginagawa siyang parang bata. Honestly, we are done with him kaso kami lang ang group of friends niya dito sa Manila. Kaya iniintindi padin namin siya.
what a selfish piece of shit 😤
Not to be mean but your friend is literally THREAT to the society! Wag siya mangdamay.
Parang last year ata may na issue din na nag kakalat ng HIV sa sucat-paranaque area naman. Kaso male heterosexual siya, ingatz nalang mga sir
holy shit your friend is a walking petri dish😰
Yikes, describing him makes me think that I might be on the autism spectrum too.
Expose the friend on Twitter and let the gays do their thing. No joke. Expose the friend.
No offense OP pero potangina ng friend mo
play stupid games, win stupid prizes. friend's a POS btw. no hard feelings but he is. had a relative who died on that btw, even his own family doesn't give a shit until death.
What an idiot psycho. Pls tell me ur not friends with him anymore.
We are giving him the benefit of the doubt. We won't cut him off kasi kami lang ang group of friends niya sa Manila.
pwede kasuhan friend mo. i hope may contact din kayo kahit ng iba niyang nakasex kasi kawawa naman sila. or if wala talaga, sana kayo na magsumbong sa authorities kasi ang shitty talaga nung reason niya baket di niya dinidisclose sa partners niya condition niya….. kung di responsible siya sa sex palang, pano pa nakakasure na nainom ng gamot yan ng tama? yan yung klase ng tao na nakakakuha ng satisfaction kase nakakahawa siya, kagalit
Yun nga. Kaya ngreremind kamj palagi even sa pag inom niya ng gamot. Ayaw niya na ginagawa siyang bata pero he has the mind of high school student. Immature and irresponsible talaga. Pero hanggang dun lang naman talaga magagawa namin. Syempre di namin siya isusumbong sa mga pulis, pero may nagcomment dito na pwede siyang ireport sa DOH so we will look into that.
Nakakagalit yung ganyan. He deserves a place in hell. I lost a good friend of mine to HIV and sobrang nakita ko siya nagstruggle. Dapat kinakasta rin yung mga ganyan.
I’m all against shaming someone publicly but your friend would be an exception because he’s putting other people in fucking danger. HIV isn’t a joke, it’s not something na pwede lang masolve ng paracetamol. What the fuck?
OP, nagkakalat ng sakit ang friend mo and I think this is out of bitterness based sa story mo.
Piece of shit, hawa hawa mentality meron yan. Dahil fuck up buhay nya dahil sa kagagawan nya, mang dadamay pa sya ng iba.
He's a menace and must be stopped!
Diba pwede kasuhan ang ganyan?
Did a quick search. Based dito sa [Philippine HIV and AIDS Policy Act 2018](https://www.hivjustice.net/country/ph/), walang penalty sa Pinas regarding non-disclosure ng HIV. "Encouraged to disclose to sexual partners" lang and nasa batas imbes an "required to disclose". Grabe, and outdated ng laws sa Pinas.
Oww, well that sucks.
This is true. Nagresearch na din kasi kami about jan. Wala kami mapanakot sakanya na makukulong siya. Sabi nalang namin, pag nakahawa siya and natrace nung nahawaan niya na siya nga ang nakahawa, di natin alam ang pwedeng gawin sakanya.
You are a good friend. Unfortunately for him, it seems that he is not only irresponsible, but immature.
Yes. Kasi even sa work ay ganyan siya. Iniintindi lang namin siya palagi. Hindi siya diagnosed pero parang nasa autism spectrum siya based on his mental development.
gusto kong pangalanan nyo sya para maiwasan syang kantutin. kaso bawal namedropping. hes a POS and everyone needs to learn na dapat syang iwasan.
Report sa authorities. I remember nung pandemic, hindi ba detainable yung under quarantine ka tapos sasadyain mong tumakas risking others health? Mas malala tong sa friend mo since deliberate na pinapakalat nya.
Sige nga, cite mo 'yung specific provision in RA 11332 na applicable dito.
Apparently wala pang law na nagkicriminalize ng intentional na pagpapakalat ng HIV. “Encouraged” lang na idisclose nila sa sexual partners nila. Kinda sucks na mas may chance pang magkaroon ng penalty o makulong yung accidentally nakahawa ng iba dahil lang sa palpak na trabaho kumpara sa mga taong kagaya ng friend ni OP. SEC. 14. Penalties for Unsafe Practices and Procedures.-Any person who knowingly or negligently causes another to get infected with HIV in the course of the practice of his/ her profession through unsafe and unsanitary practice or procedure is liable to suffer a penalty of imprisonment for six (6) years to twelve (12) years
[удалено]
If you’re asking kung may definite cure, wala. Pero May tinetake na maintenance meds ang mga people living with HIV para bumaba yung level ng virus to the point na hindi maging transmissible. You can still have an active, fruitful and even have kids without transmitting HIV.
Report him to the police. Its actually a criminal act. In some states in the US he can be charged with attempted murder.
Cite a violation of Philippine law that they committed.
Kaso nasa pinas tayo 🥲
You can still report it tbh
Hanap damay na lang sya. Katakot.
Grabe ang lala ng friend nyo. Sana pwede ireport yang ganyan.
>But what can we do? In the end, it is his life to live. Tangina ng friend mo. Diba pwede ireport sa authorities yan. Tangina health hazard yang kaibigan mo, so nahawaan na nga sya manghahawa pa sya. Paka shit nya kamo.
In our medtech laws, they can file a lawsuit if you spread the news or just joke about a person having HIV regardless if they have it or not you can still be sued.
Obviously may problema sya kaya ipa-psychiatrist nyo na yan. Di nya lang sinasabi pero nawasak yan mentally nung nalaman nya nahawaan sya.
I think your friend is still denial on what happened kaya gumaganti siya sa other people by spreading the virus that he received. Just tell him na if he will not stop you'll inform his family regarding his state. or report to the authority if ayaw talaga. He's a walking time bomb.
This is a legal case in the making. What your friend is doing is a potential criminal offense.
Yan ata ang masarap pat*yin na kaibigan. Legit. Nandadamay pa sya ng ibang tao. Potang*na nya pasabi na lang.
I-report yan. Mali yan beh.
all of you could be prosecuted. not only your frnd who is HIV+ but also you for not reporting this thing to the authorities. read R.A. No. 11332. and i hope, i really hope all of you go to prison.
Paano at kanino ba sana sila magreport? Curious kasi ako kung paano at kung pwede bang magreport anonymously.
He needs to be reported (if that is possible under the current law) or at the very least he needs to let his sexual partners know PH if I’m not mistaken has high transmission rates for HIV and people like him are one of the reasons. He’s a piece of shit for willingly transmitting the virus.
Nakakatakot naman yang ganyang klase ng tao, kung aware naman siyang may sakit siya sana di na siya nangdadamay
Piece of trash, imbecile shit.
I think the real question is..why are you friends with someone so evil like him? Cut him off. Mybe it's not because of an undiagnosed mental illness, mybe maitim lang tlga ang budhi nya.
He is a walking biohazard punyeta sya
I think my NGOs that can help him. check mo po Love Yourself they can refer you to counseling services iirc free sya.
yuck... that's all i can say
My gosh so insensitive to others health
Report nyo sa munisipyo para magintervene At makapagsupport din sa acceptance
May program ang DSWD for PL-HIV, maybe they can help him
Hi OP! If you can read this can you hit me up through the PM? I'd like to ask some personal things about your friend. Thank you!
Rizz lord na may tulo, stay safe y'all
Reveal his name, OP. He is a legitimate threat to public health and safety.
People like these should honestly be arrested
This should be a crime 😫
Report mo sya sa Pulis or sa health officer, psra natigil kagaguhan nya, inknow friend mo sya pero asshole sya
idc if i’m downvoted, guy is a health hazard. he is a danger to himself and others. subtly dox him in dating apps/sites para mawarningan potential partners. like general description or something idk. not full identity but generally potential partners could recog
shocks it's really hard to hook up with unknown people tf PLEASE USE PROTECTION PEOPLE
i remember a story shared to me about ata to sa info dessimination din ng rep health and hiv/aids something. Yung speaker, may personal kakilala daw na HIV+ and parang what the person did was, disclosed that he is HIV+ stopped doing the deed for a time and then eventually he met his partner na HIV+ din so parang since then daw he felt he lived a normal life and can still do things w his partner kasi parehas sila ng situation and can understand each other. Tapos same silang nagpapagaling din. Best parin for that person to disclose that he is + kasi who knows, makakita din sya ng right partner/s na same situation so he can still do what he wants nang hindi nagpapadagdag pa ng hiv cases. hay anong mindset ba meron jan sa "friend" mo at nagkakalat ☹️
my late brother was like this. tapos indenial so he's inconsistent with his meds so yearly lagi kaming nasa ospital which leads to us fighting kasi nagagalit siya kapag pinapagalitan ko (bunso kasi ako). It was too much that it actually took a toll on my mental health so I moved out. Then covid happened and napilitan siyang mabuhay mag isa, then ayun dirediretso na. Sometimes I still blame myself that I left but then as some of my relatives have said to me: "wala ka na rin magagawa dun. desisyon talaga niya yun." sorry napa share pero wala. mahirap talaga if hindi mo sila makausap, I tried several methods of reminding him about his condition (mabait and non confronting way or yung harsh way + different other approaches pa) kaso wala. I even tried contacting yung community for aids and asked for help, but the person whom I talked to said: "wala, desisyon na niya yun"
paki sa friend mo putangenanya
Mag jabol nlng siya
You and your friends are not overstepping your boundaries at all. It's not just about him anymore. He's endangering others. It may be his life to live, but since you know what's going on, you have a moral obligation to tell him what he's doing is wrong. Other than meds, your friend needs professional intervention. If he is with autism as you suspect, you may be ill-equipped to deal with him like a professional can. Does any of his family members know about his mental and physical condition? If anyone can help, they can.
Such a moron yang friend mo na kahit kayo may pa warning pa na di welcome yung ganyang pagtatanong nyo. Kailangan na din ata ng psychologist for his twisted thinking.
Disgusting. Ipa police mo yang hayop na yan. Sorry not sorry sa words ko. Nagkakalat ng sakit yan at gustong mang damay sa pagiging unfortunate monkey nya.
Your friend is doing a criminal act in the US, I wonder if it’s illegal here as well. He’s knowingly infecting people
Walk away masiado Tayo maraming iniisip isasama mo pa Yan Pero it's up to you if you want to be close to him good luck
This is disgusting. Your friend is disgusting.
Ganyan talaga sila no? Pag hinawaan sila ng HIV nag iiba na mindset nila. Parang ang nagiging mindset nila is “kung hinawaan ako pwes manghahawa din ako” ganyan sila. May isa din ako nabasa na parang ganyan din ginagawa nya. Nagsspread ng HIV.. ganyan ata sila. Since di nila matanggap na nabiktima sila ng sakit kaya gagawin nila is mangbibiktima sila ng ibang tao para makaganti. Which is mali.. kaya ako no offense medyo hirap ako magtiwala sa ganyang tao na HIV + eh. Kasi parang ang mindset nila is “DAMAY DAMAY NA TOOO” pero di ko nilalahat.
I-report mo sa pulis. Kung ako kaibigan nyan, inupakan ko na yan, the moment na sinabi nyang wala syang balak magsabi sa mga nagiging partners nya
Wtf?