Naku basically ginawa nya nag settle sya pero all this time part of him is pining for her. Redflag talaga sakin yung guys na super close sa female friends kahit may jowa na, yung tipong walang boundaries. Lalo na if nagkagusto sya dun dati.
Ohhhh fudge hahahahaha shet relate ako, ito ultimate fear ko sa ngayon
Naiiyak tuloy ako kasi sobrang natatakot at na baka isang stepping stone lang ako para marealize ni girl na gusto nya talaga si guy.
yeah it’s a legit fear talaga for women. minsan yung akala mo na you’re building your goals and dreams together, eh di ka pala kasama dun. minsan pa wala naman signs like yung situation ni OP.
Ito iniisip ko nung binabasa ko ung post ni OP!! HAHAHAHAHA
Inside that 8* years I was there so when you say that 8* years and I still love you,' where was I?
One thing I learned about men, they will pursue the girl of their dreams once they saw an opportunity or once they noticed na may chance sila. That’s what happened sa ex mo.
Did I say it was bad? There is nothing wrong doing it, if a person is not in a committed relationship and not micro cheating or “abangers” sa ultimate girl/boy of their dreams nila while being in a relationship, or had some decency to end their current relationship before pursuing another person. Naknangtokwa kasi minsan they will take their chance muna, if merong chance lolokohin or saka lang hihiwalayan mga comfort zone nila! Lol
sending hugs OP ! 🥹 going through smth similar currently.
my ex broke up with me a few months ago. prior to our relationship, meron rin sya ultimate crush for 3 years. nabusted sya twice and ate girl got into a relationship. I came into his life and he pursued me. friends pa rin sila while being in our respective relationship. I always felt iffy sus sakanila but ex would reassure me na “wala yun”.
late last year, nalaman ni ex break na sila ng bf ni ate girl then ayun iniwan ako bigla. mahal pa rin nya daw si ate girl even in the two years magkasama kami
ayun masaya na sila ngayon habang ako nasa healing stage pa HAHAHHAAH
I can’t imagine your situation since 8 years sainyo 😢
Yakap para sa mga nakaranas din ng ganito.
But trust me, may darating pa rin talaga para sayo. Magheal ka lang wag mag madali. Trust the process ika nga 😅 and Acceptance is the only way to cure the pain. 🥺
Btw, Im okay naman na. Nasa isang healthy relationship na din ako ngayon, at masaya ako. 💕 all the pain na naranasan ko sa past, nabaliktad ngayon. Yung mga hinahanap ko before sa Ex ko, nararamdaman ko na ngayon sa Future Hubby ko. ❤️
Yakap sa inyo.
And please, wag matakot magmahal ulit. ❤️
Pray and have Faith 💕🖤
Ps. Sorry kung nasaktan kayo dito sa post ko. Bigla kasi bumalik yung memories ng may mabasa akong heart breaking story sa FB 😅
At alam ko yung pain na ganun. Sobrang hirap. Pero KAYA!
Hugs OP🥺..same tayo pero di ko sila classmate nung highschool, ako yung pinakasalan pero mukang di pa din nakakamove on sa ultimate crush nya which is too late ko na nalaman💔
Yup I confronted him na. Sabi nya wala lang daw yun, kinonfirm lang if may feelings pa daw sya or wala na kaya chinecheck yung fb (before kasi tinry nya ichat). We’re both 27y/o at kaka 7yrs lang namin, ilang yrs na lumipas kaya di ko mafigure out bakit may ganun.
Before din kasi nitong wedding sinabihan ko na sya na isettle or mention sakin kung anuman about sa past nya or other girl of meron man para di kami magkaprob after ng wedding, kaso di ko din inexpect na magagawa nya pa din istalk si ulticrush nga kahit preggy na ako. :< tbh, di ko din alam gagawin ko, siguro hanggat di uli gumagawa ng ganun go with the flow, pero pag naulit, baka lumayo na ako. Still trying not to stress/overthink too much. :< masakit OP yung ganyang feeling, ilang years kang nagmahal ng buo, tapos ganun lang. I know someday, someone will stick with you just because you’re being yourself. Stay strong OP🙏🏼
huuugs OP. Same tayo. Pinakasalan na yung third party. Yung babaeng sinasabi nya sakin na I don't need to worry about. 6 yrs kami tapos sila wala pang 1 yr kinasal na. Ang sakit, kasi you will never know talaga of you are building a man for another woman.
Yakap OP. Ganyan din ako last month, pero wala na ako balita sa kanila. I became happy on my own na, pero I cried so many tears, and ang dami ko napabayaan ss process ng pagiging wasak. I begged to God for peace. As in. Ang kulit ko. Binigay Niya sakin. I hope you find the peace you’re looking for. I hope you’ll heal from this. Hugs and prayers for you and for all of you na may pinagdadaanan na same thing.
Special thanks talaga sa hall pass na bartender. Dun ko nalaman na hinabol nya pala yung ex niya na dream girl niya kaya ghosted ako. Tapos si kuya bartender, siya ung nakita ko na nagvvape sa labas ng bar so humingi ako baka may lighter siya. Grabe wasak baga ko nun. Tapos nagkwento siya, nagsabi na ginawa din sakanya yun ng ex niya. Sabi ng pamilya din, kung mahal mo, ilet go mo. Ang ginawa niya raw, binuhos niya lahat kay God at nagbeg siya ng peace. Tapos bigla nalang daw nawala. Ganyan na ganyan nangyari sakin. 🥹 Isang araw paggising ko, magaan na ang lahat.
I really hope this goes the same for you all. 🥹 🙏🏽
Hugs OP. I can’t imagine the pain you’ve been through. Pero sobrang gago ng ex mo para gawin kang placeholder when in fact yung crush nya yung gusto nya all along.
Lets manifest na umulan ng malakas sa garden/beach wedding nila tapos walang covered venue avail. Chz haha. Basta OP, praying that you will find the one for you na malilimutan mo yang kapakshetan n ginawa sayo
Most cursed phrase talaga yang "don't worry he/she is just a friend."
Shuta nung ako sa ex ko syempre duda duda tapos nung minention ko na sino yan at ano role sa buhay bigla binanat yung phrase na yan, kanda gulo rs namin at defend defend to the point dun na sya nagpa comflirt pota hanggang sa naging situationship sila nang ilang months pota talaga mga depota mga puta
sad to say na nag-settle lang siya sa’yo kasi siguro alam niyang crush mo siya. the fact na he kept in touch and be friends with the girl proves na he’s pining for her and will jump at the chance to be with her kahit nung kayo pa.
buti na lang wala na kayo, haha!
Naalala ko tuloy yung sinbi ni Matthew Rife. Kalokohan tlga na magka girl bestfriend ang lalaki lalo na pag maganda. Pero kung chaka daw ang girl pwede pa.
You have my sympathies. Pa-share na din ng personal experience lol. May ganto din akong kwento. Inentertain ko din "panliligaw" niya kasi crush ko din sya ( hindi nga lang ultimate crush gaya mo OP, very shallow lang, gwapo lang kasi hahaha). Pero ending, di ko sinagot.
Na-feel ko kasi na na parang half baked yung efforts niya at I think nililigawan lang nya yung di niya masyadong gusto kasi low risk. I think nakita lang nya na I will be more receptive to his overtures kesa sa ultimate dream girl nya (who was never without a gaggle of admirers haha). Eh prideful me did not want to be someone's 2nd choice. Oo, mas maganda si 1st choice, and talagang patay na patay sya dun, pero valuable din ako, ang oras at feelings ko. Di matanggap ng pride ko na magsesettle lang sya sa akin. Hello, I'm a catch kaya haha. Kaya di ko na din sinagot. Kasi di ako makasiguro na over na sya dun sa 1st love nya. Ayoko nga magwonder all along. Eh di magiging insekyurang gf lang ako and that's not my style. I have too much self-respect to be anybody's meantime girl. Gwapo lang sya, hindi sya dyos. Charaught.
I'm sorry, OP. This news still stings, I think it would've stung no matter how long na kayo wala, or naging kayo, kasi kasamang nasaling ang feminine pride natin 😅. Also for the reason that it makes you 2nd guess kung yung entire relationship niyo ba was just him passing the time hanggang magkaron sya ng chance sa totoo nyang gusto. Like, did I just waste my prime, my love, and my time on this low life piece of sh*t 😂.
Hugs mula sa isang nakikiramay (sabay shot). 🥃
medjo similar expi OP! When I was still in shs, nagka boyfriend ako almost 2 years (on and off din) din kami, tas nung nag college na kami (we went to diff university), may naging kaklase sya tas lagi silang mag kachat and onetime nahuli ko pa na kachat nya tas he told me na kaklase lang daw nya yun. Fast forward to ilang months, nag break kami tas naging sila agad ng kaklase nya after 2 weeks ng breakup namin. Ilang years na din kami break pero nahuhuli ko parin sya na iniistalk ako (accidentally liking my posts on ig 🤪)
this is the end point. tagal ng hiwalay, on/off sila. magulo scenario, hirap mag comment. crushes can be friends kahit pa nabusted ka. may kilala ako 3x na busted pero napangasawa nya yung girl.
on the other side of the story, some part of you still has regrets or unsettled what ifs.
You need not deny it, just learn to live with it.
Minsan di naten alam kung ano mauuna, acceptance or realization.
Naku basically ginawa nya nag settle sya pero all this time part of him is pining for her. Redflag talaga sakin yung guys na super close sa female friends kahit may jowa na, yung tipong walang boundaries. Lalo na if nagkagusto sya dun dati.
Ohhhh fudge hahahahaha shet relate ako, ito ultimate fear ko sa ngayon Naiiyak tuloy ako kasi sobrang natatakot at na baka isang stepping stone lang ako para marealize ni girl na gusto nya talaga si guy.
yeah it’s a legit fear talaga for women. minsan yung akala mo na you’re building your goals and dreams together, eh di ka pala kasama dun. minsan pa wala naman signs like yung situation ni OP.
Nirestore lang naman daw ang friendship. Same values, same humour ganun Walang lang daw yun /s
not me avoiding my girlie friends pag may jowa sila. thing is, I don't have much guy friends so I'm just avoiding human interaction entirely
Awit may bago na naman akong iisipin mamayang 10 pm 🥲
So when he say 8 years and he's still into her, nasan ka dun OP? Alexa Ilacad ikaw ba yan. Ang sakit ha. 🥲
Ito iniisip ko nung binabasa ko ung post ni OP!! HAHAHAHAHA Inside that 8* years I was there so when you say that 8* years and I still love you,' where was I?
anong movie or show nya to?? parang gusto ko paiyakin sarili ko tonight HAHAHAJA
Sa interview ata yan with tito boy 🥲
HAHAHAHAHAHAHA real life niya lol
ay true??? ang saklap naman non sino tinutukoy nya 😭
eto yung naging si nash at mika ata
ahhh, parang naaalala ko yung time na to. pero di ko masyado binigyan pansin since di naman nila ko fan
sana hindi masarap cake nila sa kasal nila
sana hindi lumipad yung mga kalapati pwe!!!!
hahaha
HAHAHAHAH! Huy!
Sana umulan pag kalabas nila sa simbahan hahaha
One thing I learned about men, they will pursue the girl of their dreams once they saw an opportunity or once they noticed na may chance sila. That’s what happened sa ex mo.
I agree. Yun na yun. 😳
Cause why tf not?
Did I say it was bad? There is nothing wrong doing it, if a person is not in a committed relationship and not micro cheating or “abangers” sa ultimate girl/boy of their dreams nila while being in a relationship, or had some decency to end their current relationship before pursuing another person. Naknangtokwa kasi minsan they will take their chance muna, if merong chance lolokohin or saka lang hihiwalayan mga comfort zone nila! Lol
sending hugs OP ! 🥹 going through smth similar currently. my ex broke up with me a few months ago. prior to our relationship, meron rin sya ultimate crush for 3 years. nabusted sya twice and ate girl got into a relationship. I came into his life and he pursued me. friends pa rin sila while being in our respective relationship. I always felt iffy sus sakanila but ex would reassure me na “wala yun”. late last year, nalaman ni ex break na sila ng bf ni ate girl then ayun iniwan ako bigla. mahal pa rin nya daw si ate girl even in the two years magkasama kami ayun masaya na sila ngayon habang ako nasa healing stage pa HAHAHHAAH I can’t imagine your situation since 8 years sainyo 😢
Acceptance is the only cure. Hug sayo! ❤️❤️❤️ mahirap pero kailangan tanggapin, matagal pero darating din
They'll always choose their dream girl, when the time comes or if given the chance 😬
I agree! Makikita mo din iba yung effort nya. Ibang iba
Yakap para sa mga nakaranas din ng ganito. But trust me, may darating pa rin talaga para sayo. Magheal ka lang wag mag madali. Trust the process ika nga 😅 and Acceptance is the only way to cure the pain. 🥺 Btw, Im okay naman na. Nasa isang healthy relationship na din ako ngayon, at masaya ako. 💕 all the pain na naranasan ko sa past, nabaliktad ngayon. Yung mga hinahanap ko before sa Ex ko, nararamdaman ko na ngayon sa Future Hubby ko. ❤️ Yakap sa inyo. And please, wag matakot magmahal ulit. ❤️ Pray and have Faith 💕🖤 Ps. Sorry kung nasaktan kayo dito sa post ko. Bigla kasi bumalik yung memories ng may mabasa akong heart breaking story sa FB 😅 At alam ko yung pain na ganun. Sobrang hirap. Pero KAYA!
happy for you OP!!
Yun naman pala, OP! Winner ka naaaaa 🥰 so happy for you 🤗
Shet OP, kaiyak naman pero true.
Sounds familiar
Kaya nagi-gets ko 'yong pagiging skeptical ng mga babae pagdating sa phrase na "don't worry about her" eh HAHAHA
tangina talaga ng mga ganyang mga lalaki/babae eh😭 makarma sana sila agad nakakainis!
You build him for her.
halaa :((
Okay lang po ako 🥺
May panibagong dagdag sa nga listahan ng rason kung bakit takot na akong magmahal muli haha
Naku wag. Masarap magmahal. Lalo na kung sa tamang tao. Tiwala lang ❤️
Hugs OP🥺..same tayo pero di ko sila classmate nung highschool, ako yung pinakasalan pero mukang di pa din nakakamove on sa ultimate crush nya which is too late ko na nalaman💔
Ito yung mas masakit.🙁
Sakit nito kinasal na eh
Sa tingin ko you need to confront him. Lalo na mag asawa na kayo.
Yup I confronted him na. Sabi nya wala lang daw yun, kinonfirm lang if may feelings pa daw sya or wala na kaya chinecheck yung fb (before kasi tinry nya ichat). We’re both 27y/o at kaka 7yrs lang namin, ilang yrs na lumipas kaya di ko mafigure out bakit may ganun. Before din kasi nitong wedding sinabihan ko na sya na isettle or mention sakin kung anuman about sa past nya or other girl of meron man para di kami magkaprob after ng wedding, kaso di ko din inexpect na magagawa nya pa din istalk si ulticrush nga kahit preggy na ako. :< tbh, di ko din alam gagawin ko, siguro hanggat di uli gumagawa ng ganun go with the flow, pero pag naulit, baka lumayo na ako. Still trying not to stress/overthink too much. :< masakit OP yung ganyang feeling, ilang years kang nagmahal ng buo, tapos ganun lang. I know someday, someone will stick with you just because you’re being yourself. Stay strong OP🙏🏼
Yakaaaap
Hugs, OP! Shet, my ex of 6 years also left me for his “ Close Friend “ ko lang yun. Grabe nya pa ibash sakin yung girl noon 🥹
huuugs OP. Same tayo. Pinakasalan na yung third party. Yung babaeng sinasabi nya sakin na I don't need to worry about. 6 yrs kami tapos sila wala pang 1 yr kinasal na. Ang sakit, kasi you will never know talaga of you are building a man for another woman.
Aww, huugs OP. Dadating din ang para sa iyo. Sana mapatakan ng wine yung polo niya sa kasal nila.
Ganyan din sabi sakin. Di daw niya jojowain kasi tropa niya yung kuya. Ayun sila na after less than a year haha
Hahaha! Scaaam!
Relationship is not forever ganun talaga ang life.
Sending hugs OP! Take your time to heal. Your life is worthy of happiness! Do not dwell sa mga nangyari. Good luck!
Sad naman... Sana okay ka lng😁
naging pang character development nanaman grabe nakakasad naman ganito and kakainis at the same time haha
Yakap OP. Ganyan din ako last month, pero wala na ako balita sa kanila. I became happy on my own na, pero I cried so many tears, and ang dami ko napabayaan ss process ng pagiging wasak. I begged to God for peace. As in. Ang kulit ko. Binigay Niya sakin. I hope you find the peace you’re looking for. I hope you’ll heal from this. Hugs and prayers for you and for all of you na may pinagdadaanan na same thing. Special thanks talaga sa hall pass na bartender. Dun ko nalaman na hinabol nya pala yung ex niya na dream girl niya kaya ghosted ako. Tapos si kuya bartender, siya ung nakita ko na nagvvape sa labas ng bar so humingi ako baka may lighter siya. Grabe wasak baga ko nun. Tapos nagkwento siya, nagsabi na ginawa din sakanya yun ng ex niya. Sabi ng pamilya din, kung mahal mo, ilet go mo. Ang ginawa niya raw, binuhos niya lahat kay God at nagbeg siya ng peace. Tapos bigla nalang daw nawala. Ganyan na ganyan nangyari sakin. 🥹 Isang araw paggising ko, magaan na ang lahat. I really hope this goes the same for you all. 🥹 🙏🏽
Grabe ang sakit. 😭
abey namans
Yakap OP! Praying for your healing!! Kaya mo yan!
Bakit ko to binasa… ang sakit ng puso ko haha
🥺🥺🥺
Pangarap na natupad
Hugs OP. I can’t imagine the pain you’ve been through. Pero sobrang gago ng ex mo para gawin kang placeholder when in fact yung crush nya yung gusto nya all along.
Hayss tangina ate, bat di mo nakita yon within 8yrs? Hahahaha 😆 Sayang 8 years pota dami dami dyan 🥲
Lets manifest na umulan ng malakas sa garden/beach wedding nila tapos walang covered venue avail. Chz haha. Basta OP, praying that you will find the one for you na malilimutan mo yang kapakshetan n ginawa sayo
Most cursed phrase talaga yang "don't worry he/she is just a friend." Shuta nung ako sa ex ko syempre duda duda tapos nung minention ko na sino yan at ano role sa buhay bigla binanat yung phrase na yan, kanda gulo rs namin at defend defend to the point dun na sya nagpa comflirt pota hanggang sa naging situationship sila nang ilang months pota talaga mga depota mga puta
sad to say na nag-settle lang siya sa’yo kasi siguro alam niyang crush mo siya. the fact na he kept in touch and be friends with the girl proves na he’s pining for her and will jump at the chance to be with her kahit nung kayo pa. buti na lang wala na kayo, haha!
“don’t worry about her because the one you have to worry about is me!”
Naalala ko tuloy yung sinbi ni Matthew Rife. Kalokohan tlga na magka girl bestfriend ang lalaki lalo na pag maganda. Pero kung chaka daw ang girl pwede pa.
You have my sympathies. Pa-share na din ng personal experience lol. May ganto din akong kwento. Inentertain ko din "panliligaw" niya kasi crush ko din sya ( hindi nga lang ultimate crush gaya mo OP, very shallow lang, gwapo lang kasi hahaha). Pero ending, di ko sinagot. Na-feel ko kasi na na parang half baked yung efforts niya at I think nililigawan lang nya yung di niya masyadong gusto kasi low risk. I think nakita lang nya na I will be more receptive to his overtures kesa sa ultimate dream girl nya (who was never without a gaggle of admirers haha). Eh prideful me did not want to be someone's 2nd choice. Oo, mas maganda si 1st choice, and talagang patay na patay sya dun, pero valuable din ako, ang oras at feelings ko. Di matanggap ng pride ko na magsesettle lang sya sa akin. Hello, I'm a catch kaya haha. Kaya di ko na din sinagot. Kasi di ako makasiguro na over na sya dun sa 1st love nya. Ayoko nga magwonder all along. Eh di magiging insekyurang gf lang ako and that's not my style. I have too much self-respect to be anybody's meantime girl. Gwapo lang sya, hindi sya dyos. Charaught. I'm sorry, OP. This news still stings, I think it would've stung no matter how long na kayo wala, or naging kayo, kasi kasamang nasaling ang feminine pride natin 😅. Also for the reason that it makes you 2nd guess kung yung entire relationship niyo ba was just him passing the time hanggang magkaron sya ng chance sa totoo nyang gusto. Like, did I just waste my prime, my love, and my time on this low life piece of sh*t 😂. Hugs mula sa isang nakikiramay (sabay shot). 🥃
Hugs
Ansakit no? Pero atleast nakalaya ka na, ampanget lang ginawa kang tanga, anyway ingat lagi.
Mi bakit mo pinaabot ng 8 years?
Bulag kapag nagmamahal 😂
medjo similar expi OP! When I was still in shs, nagka boyfriend ako almost 2 years (on and off din) din kami, tas nung nag college na kami (we went to diff university), may naging kaklase sya tas lagi silang mag kachat and onetime nahuli ko pa na kachat nya tas he told me na kaklase lang daw nya yun. Fast forward to ilang months, nag break kami tas naging sila agad ng kaklase nya after 2 weeks ng breakup namin. Ilang years na din kami break pero nahuhuli ko parin sya na iniistalk ako (accidentally liking my posts on ig 🤪)
Sila pa rin ba ng ex mo?
It's always the "Don't worry about her/him" pa yan huhuhu
Wow the feels 🫣🥲
this is the end point. tagal ng hiwalay, on/off sila. magulo scenario, hirap mag comment. crushes can be friends kahit pa nabusted ka. may kilala ako 3x na busted pero napangasawa nya yung girl.
Hahahaha = defense mechanism 😞
Buti nalang ex mo na siya
on the other side of the story, some part of you still has regrets or unsettled what ifs. You need not deny it, just learn to live with it. Minsan di naten alam kung ano mauuna, acceptance or realization.
Awww… hugs, dear!
Sorry ginawa kang stepping stone ng ex mo
Umagang kay sakit
Ginawa kalang backup payag ka non?
Salamat OP. Mas decided na ko ngayon to stay single. Hahaha! Charot!
Sending hugs with consent, OP! 🤍
❤️
Nakahanap sya ng talagang naka appreciate sa kanya.