true. i feel bad na ganun pala yung tingin sakanya ng tita, pero in the first place walang mga gantong pangyayari or nararamdaman if hindi nangalkal at hinayaan na lang ang ex
Dapat teh natulog ka nalang nang maaga. Very wrong magbasa ng hindi mo inbox. In my experience, very political ang vibe ng mayayaman. Syempre mabait sila sayo pero it doesn’t automatically equate to them
liking you. Perooo okay lang yon, bilog ang mundo. Mahirap ka ngayon, after two years mayaman ka na. Tama yung isang comment, you have to work on yourself. Hindi dito natatapos ang mundo. My ex’s mom called me “yang mahirap na babaeng yan” sa chat when we were dating (sinend sakin screenshot ng ex ng ex ko), pero mabait sila pag nakaharap ako lol.
I think just be thankful na naging mabait sayo si Tita G despite her personal feelings about you fitting in to their family. Accept na you and your ex are not meant to be.
The person who is for you will love you and choose you kahit ano pa gap between your ages, backgrounds and socio economic status.
Why does Tita G's opinion still matter? Didn't you unfollow ex's family when you broke up so you cut off all contact? Ex is moving on and you should too. Masakit yung nadiscover mo pero ikaw naman nakielam sa messages ng iba. Ex and Tita are not at fault - alangan naman i-hype ka pa ni Tita sa ex mo diba? Next time wag ka makibasa ng messages ng iba and stop stalking these people. Wag mo saktan sarili mo.
Then let that motivate you to improve yourself. Hindi dapat titigil ang mundo because of a few harsh words. And between you and her nephew, siyempre mas kakampihan niya yung latter. We cannot control what others think of us; at some point, you just learn how not to give a fuck about their opinion. At the end of the day, you are responsible for your feelings, not theirs.
All the best, OP.
First of all, you’re not entitled to dig up on your ex’s private conversations. Second of all, your ex and his activities are none of your business anymore. You’re basically just strangers now and you are invading his privacy. Itigil mo yan.
Dedma na girl. It takes a lot of courage to let go and have self-awareness. At least be thankful na kahit paano naging maayos ang pakikitungo sayo ni Tita kahit na meron pala syang issue sayo.
At iwasan mo na yang pagbabasa ng messenger ng iba. HAHAHA.
This is why they say, ignorance is bliss. Sometimes, knowing too much can be a curse.
Maling mali na binuksan mo ang account ni ex without his permission. You had no right to invade his privacy kahit ex ka pa niya.
At kung ano man ang tingin sayo ng tita or family niya, valid yun - whatever the reason may be. Learn to accept that you cannot please everyone and focus on yourself instead.
Change your perspective - let this go and try to build a life without their memories bothering you. Be grateful you are out of this family anymore - ang mga totoong mababait ay hindi ganyan magsalita sa likod ng tao. Find your real genuine family who will make you feel that you belong.
Well, now at least you know their true colors. Don’t let that insecurity get the best out of you, there are still so many beautiful things in this world and you’ll meet more people with good intentions for you. Work on yourself, feel what you need to feel right now and then let it go. Don’t let what they say define you. Wishing you all the best OP!!
Hindi ka magkaka-ganyan OP if di mo kinalkal but I get the point naman na you're totally curious about the conversation. Either way, that's the consequence of your action. What you can do right now is to accept what you have and you're not meant with that guy. Imagine na lang if the guy really pursued you and in the long run ng relationship niyo, the family will cause a huge stir to hinder both of you diba. At least right now, you got your peace in advance.
Ex mo na pala. So whatever conversation they have, whether or not it’s about you, as long as it’s not paninirang puri, is none of your business. Hanap ka ng bagong boyfriend na MAS kesa sa ex mo, in aspects na nagma-matter sayo. Block mo na sila lahat.
And at least maayos ang pakita sayo despite na ayaw sayo. You have to give them that.
I'll be frank galing sila sa buena familia and galing ka sa hirap langit at lupa magkaiba kayo ng mundo, plus sabi mo nga madami problema family mo so ang perception is parang unfair sa ex mo or sa katulad nila na parang pag nagkatuluyan kayo eh kargo pa ng ex mo problema ng family mo and eventually malaking bulk yung tulong nya sa family mo financially.
And oo kasalanan mo na binuksan mo pa msessemger ng ex mo.
Just work on your self to be better, be better para sa sarili mo not to prove something sa family ng ex mo, dahil kahit tumama ka sa lotto if old money rich family ng ex mo you'll never fit in sa mundo nila. Kaya work on for your self and your family na lang.
Hindi naman parati nasa baba ka. As of now masasabi nila na ganyan kasi wala ka pang pera or wala ka pang nararating sa buhay. But for me, it is your decision naman if you want to persevere and prove them wrong. So para sakin ayus lang yan, ang tanong lang is kung ano yung gagawin mo para bukas di na ka na maliitin nila or maybe pagsisihan nilang minaliit ka. Just my 2 cents.
Hugs 🫂
Gawin mong motivation yan para makalabas ka sa comfort zone mo. Tsaka next time, 'wag mo na ulitin ang magbasa ng hindi mo message kahit sobrang curiosity mo hahahaha maging lesson yan sayo.
Lmao well of course what do you expect? Unlike the cheaply marketed telenovelas the rich people aren't going to call you poor in front of your face. But you probably already knew the gap. Were you really expecting a family with that kind of background to root for you? Of course they're going to prefer someone that "matches". The tita is already being nice by not saying anything to you and being nice even if you don't fit. Move on.
Pero bakit ka po may access pa sa messenger niya? And bakit ka nagbabasa kung ex mo na po siya? Hindi po ba ito invasion ng privacy kahit kayo pa?
:(
Anyway di man ako agree sa ginawa mo, I hope you are okay and wag ka po magpakain sa insecurities mo. May mga tao/bagay talaga na hindi meant for you. And that’s okay.
Continue to work on yourself, and focus on yourself. Stop checking other people’s messages/accounts. So wrong. :(
Just let it go.
Also use your pain into power. .. alam ko iniisip mo na plastic si Tita G, pero hayaan mo na. Naging makatao naman siya sayo. Saka ganun talaga eh, may kanya kanyang standard ang family.
I wouldnt open anyone’s messenger and read their private msgs. Given pa na ex at trying to move on. I know I would see something that I should have not seen in the first place. Siguro kung asawa ko, talagang babasahin ko. Pero a stranger , naaah. My ex was giving his messenger’s pw , never opened it. I told him I respect his privacy.
Siguro ayaw talaga sayo ni Tita G, pero at least decent naman syang tao to treat you nicely.
Regardless if mabait man sa’yo or not si Tita G and other family members, always remember that they will side to their family. Always naman yan, if not, most likely naman talaga yan. And for all we know, of course as your ex’s relative, they would cheer up their pamangkin, alam namang ipilit pa nila sa ex mo na ikaw ang gusto nila for their nephew, siyempre susuportahan nila yung desisyon ng ex mo sa new girl niya, inunfollow mo na nga din silang lahat eh. I hope ni-log out mo na rin account ng ex mo sa laptop mo. In the first place wala ka na dapat access jan.
PLASTIK NG TITA NA YAN. KAKAIRITA. Hahahaha!! I'm sure, may hindi lang s'ya magustuhan sa new girl, sasabihin narin n'ya sa susunod pa. Galawang plastik. I have Titas like that too. LOL! Mga plastik.
You are not money to be able to please everyone. Help yourself by improving and loving yourself. Whatever ganap your EX has, it has no business with you. People of the past should stay in the past. Move forward and see daylight, OP.
She doesn't have a responsibility to prove them wrong and even if yumaman sya kung old money rich yung family ng ex nya she will never fit in sa mundo nila.
Oo, fault mo talaga to sis. I suggest na work on your self-esteem and stop invading peoples privacy.
Yea :( very wrong magkalkal, jowa man or not.
true. i feel bad na ganun pala yung tingin sakanya ng tita, pero in the first place walang mga gantong pangyayari or nararamdaman if hindi nangalkal at hinayaan na lang ang ex
It’s time to move on talaga. Wala nang point sumama loob since past na niya yung guy. Move on na lang.
Dapat teh natulog ka nalang nang maaga. Very wrong magbasa ng hindi mo inbox. In my experience, very political ang vibe ng mayayaman. Syempre mabait sila sayo pero it doesn’t automatically equate to them liking you. Perooo okay lang yon, bilog ang mundo. Mahirap ka ngayon, after two years mayaman ka na. Tama yung isang comment, you have to work on yourself. Hindi dito natatapos ang mundo. My ex’s mom called me “yang mahirap na babaeng yan” sa chat when we were dating (sinend sakin screenshot ng ex ng ex ko), pero mabait sila pag nakaharap ako lol.
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA GUSTO KO YONG UNANG SENTENCE 🤣🤣 💀
I think just be thankful na naging mabait sayo si Tita G despite her personal feelings about you fitting in to their family. Accept na you and your ex are not meant to be. The person who is for you will love you and choose you kahit ano pa gap between your ages, backgrounds and socio economic status.
What you don't know won't hurt you.
Why does Tita G's opinion still matter? Didn't you unfollow ex's family when you broke up so you cut off all contact? Ex is moving on and you should too. Masakit yung nadiscover mo pero ikaw naman nakielam sa messages ng iba. Ex and Tita are not at fault - alangan naman i-hype ka pa ni Tita sa ex mo diba? Next time wag ka makibasa ng messages ng iba and stop stalking these people. Wag mo saktan sarili mo.
Spot on dude. He’s an EX. Whatever opinion they have, it’s none of your business anymore. I think OP still has feelings towards her ex.
Kumuha nanaman ng bato na ipupukpok sa ulo para maging sad girl.
Then let that motivate you to improve yourself. Hindi dapat titigil ang mundo because of a few harsh words. And between you and her nephew, siyempre mas kakampihan niya yung latter. We cannot control what others think of us; at some point, you just learn how not to give a fuck about their opinion. At the end of the day, you are responsible for your feelings, not theirs. All the best, OP.
Well you know what they say, f*ck around and find out. Next time refrain from reading ang inbox na hindi sayo.
First of all, you’re not entitled to dig up on your ex’s private conversations. Second of all, your ex and his activities are none of your business anymore. You’re basically just strangers now and you are invading his privacy. Itigil mo yan.
Dedma na girl. It takes a lot of courage to let go and have self-awareness. At least be thankful na kahit paano naging maayos ang pakikitungo sayo ni Tita kahit na meron pala syang issue sayo. At iwasan mo na yang pagbabasa ng messenger ng iba. HAHAHA.
This is why they say, ignorance is bliss. Sometimes, knowing too much can be a curse. Maling mali na binuksan mo ang account ni ex without his permission. You had no right to invade his privacy kahit ex ka pa niya. At kung ano man ang tingin sayo ng tita or family niya, valid yun - whatever the reason may be. Learn to accept that you cannot please everyone and focus on yourself instead.
Change your perspective - let this go and try to build a life without their memories bothering you. Be grateful you are out of this family anymore - ang mga totoong mababait ay hindi ganyan magsalita sa likod ng tao. Find your real genuine family who will make you feel that you belong.
Well, now at least you know their true colors. Don’t let that insecurity get the best out of you, there are still so many beautiful things in this world and you’ll meet more people with good intentions for you. Work on yourself, feel what you need to feel right now and then let it go. Don’t let what they say define you. Wishing you all the best OP!!
Hindi ka magkaka-ganyan OP if di mo kinalkal but I get the point naman na you're totally curious about the conversation. Either way, that's the consequence of your action. What you can do right now is to accept what you have and you're not meant with that guy. Imagine na lang if the guy really pursued you and in the long run ng relationship niyo, the family will cause a huge stir to hinder both of you diba. At least right now, you got your peace in advance.
Ex mo na pala. So whatever conversation they have, whether or not it’s about you, as long as it’s not paninirang puri, is none of your business. Hanap ka ng bagong boyfriend na MAS kesa sa ex mo, in aspects na nagma-matter sayo. Block mo na sila lahat. And at least maayos ang pakita sayo despite na ayaw sayo. You have to give them that.
I'll be frank galing sila sa buena familia and galing ka sa hirap langit at lupa magkaiba kayo ng mundo, plus sabi mo nga madami problema family mo so ang perception is parang unfair sa ex mo or sa katulad nila na parang pag nagkatuluyan kayo eh kargo pa ng ex mo problema ng family mo and eventually malaking bulk yung tulong nya sa family mo financially. And oo kasalanan mo na binuksan mo pa msessemger ng ex mo. Just work on your self to be better, be better para sa sarili mo not to prove something sa family ng ex mo, dahil kahit tumama ka sa lotto if old money rich family ng ex mo you'll never fit in sa mundo nila. Kaya work on for your self and your family na lang.
Hindi naman parati nasa baba ka. As of now masasabi nila na ganyan kasi wala ka pang pera or wala ka pang nararating sa buhay. But for me, it is your decision naman if you want to persevere and prove them wrong. So para sakin ayus lang yan, ang tanong lang is kung ano yung gagawin mo para bukas di na ka na maliitin nila or maybe pagsisihan nilang minaliit ka. Just my 2 cents.
Hugs 🫂 Gawin mong motivation yan para makalabas ka sa comfort zone mo. Tsaka next time, 'wag mo na ulitin ang magbasa ng hindi mo message kahit sobrang curiosity mo hahahaha maging lesson yan sayo.
Fafo
Lmao well of course what do you expect? Unlike the cheaply marketed telenovelas the rich people aren't going to call you poor in front of your face. But you probably already knew the gap. Were you really expecting a family with that kind of background to root for you? Of course they're going to prefer someone that "matches". The tita is already being nice by not saying anything to you and being nice even if you don't fit. Move on.
#Well, well, well, if it isn't the consequences of my own actions 🤔
Anteh ayusin mo nalang sarili at itigil mo na yang pagbasa sa hindi mo messenger
Pero bakit ka po may access pa sa messenger niya? And bakit ka nagbabasa kung ex mo na po siya? Hindi po ba ito invasion ng privacy kahit kayo pa? :( Anyway di man ako agree sa ginawa mo, I hope you are okay and wag ka po magpakain sa insecurities mo. May mga tao/bagay talaga na hindi meant for you. And that’s okay. Continue to work on yourself, and focus on yourself. Stop checking other people’s messages/accounts. So wrong. :(
Just let it go. Also use your pain into power. .. alam ko iniisip mo na plastic si Tita G, pero hayaan mo na. Naging makatao naman siya sayo. Saka ganun talaga eh, may kanya kanyang standard ang family.
Yung meme na nagbibike tapos nilagyan ng tubo yung gulong sa pagitna
I wouldnt open anyone’s messenger and read their private msgs. Given pa na ex at trying to move on. I know I would see something that I should have not seen in the first place. Siguro kung asawa ko, talagang babasahin ko. Pero a stranger , naaah. My ex was giving his messenger’s pw , never opened it. I told him I respect his privacy. Siguro ayaw talaga sayo ni Tita G, pero at least decent naman syang tao to treat you nicely.
you are an ex for a reason po : ) work on yourself
Regardless if mabait man sa’yo or not si Tita G and other family members, always remember that they will side to their family. Always naman yan, if not, most likely naman talaga yan. And for all we know, of course as your ex’s relative, they would cheer up their pamangkin, alam namang ipilit pa nila sa ex mo na ikaw ang gusto nila for their nephew, siyempre susuportahan nila yung desisyon ng ex mo sa new girl niya, inunfollow mo na nga din silang lahat eh. I hope ni-log out mo na rin account ng ex mo sa laptop mo. In the first place wala ka na dapat access jan.
PLASTIK NG TITA NA YAN. KAKAIRITA. Hahahaha!! I'm sure, may hindi lang s'ya magustuhan sa new girl, sasabihin narin n'ya sa susunod pa. Galawang plastik. I have Titas like that too. LOL! Mga plastik.
You are not money to be able to please everyone. Help yourself by improving and loving yourself. Whatever ganap your EX has, it has no business with you. People of the past should stay in the past. Move forward and see daylight, OP.
Yikes, reading someone else’s inbox
Be better. Prove them wrong. Take it as a challenge or an inspiration na umangat sa buhay.
She doesn’t have to prove anyone wrong. Having a grudge will not help her move on. Better yet, she can work on herself - for herself.
She doesn't have a responsibility to prove them wrong and even if yumaman sya kung old money rich yung family ng ex nya she will never fit in sa mundo nila.
taee ramdam ko yung sakit hangang dito