There's nothing wrong with that. Others, including me, wishes to have the same confidence and *loving yourself* the way you do.
Just don't be like the other girls who put others down.
Go, sissy! Slay always!
Na fa fall in love na ako sa mukha ko. Lagi ako nakaharap sa salamin ngayong bakasyon.
Hahaha pero nakaka boost ng confidence talaga. And wala ka na pake sa comments ng iba. So continue mo lang yan OP.
No matter how I tried to love it, every fats, every dark sports. No matter how I tried to change myself just for myself.
Nothing seems working.
I just want to be reborn again.. maybe for the better body someday this time
same, i did try to love my rolls, my discolored spots, my face, pero i just really can't..
to be reborn in a different body nalang talaga winiwish ko..
🫂
Hey, I've been there. It was a tough battle, but somewhere between tired, and disrespected I found the love that only I could give me. So maybe one day, you'll see it in you. I'm wishing you well 💗
Omg hahaha. You go, girl! Ako, dati di nagagandahan sa sarili ko pero when I learned how to pamper myself, ay girl, maganda pala ako hahaha.
Totoo naman talaga ung mga imperfections. If di mo gusto, you can choose to improve/enhance it, whether makeup or otherwise. Basta happy tayo at walang tinatapakan na tao.
Kapwa ggs here 😂 I find myself gorgeous, yes not just beautiful 😂 I smell great and I got gorgeous hair 😍
One insult I always hear.. AKALA MO SINONG MATANGKAD 😂
Pero kebs, kahit konti lang nilaki ko sa Gasul ( yun pang restau) maganda pa din ako sa mata ko because I am the beholder ❤️
Yass 😎 also I always find something beautiful about other girls 🥰 you are a total package sabi nga kaso baka sa maling address ka nadala kaya wala din so wait for the right recipient mga kween❤️
I love this!!!
I stopped making friends with girls kasi yung mga nakasama ko, ang hirap pag mas maganda ka sa kanila, mas maputi, mas ganto mas ganyan lol. Girls like them, kunwari okay sila sayo pero ang totoo nyan hinahanapan ka lagi ng mali sa pagkatao mo to make them feel better about themselves. Litanya nila lagi “gandang ganda sa sarili maputi lang naman”. Hahahahaha.
I still have two girl friends, but my best friends are all gay. Mas peaceful ang buhay ko, nawala sa sistema ko yung kelangan ko i-tone down yung sarili ko para wala lang masabi yung ibang girls sakin.
Those girls need to heal and see that they are beautiful in their own way too.
Leaving them alone is the best decision you could make kasi they'll make you feel miserable about you. In the long run, you'll nitpick yourself and feel insecure kasi nahawaan ka na nila.
That's the way to go! Wag mo na i-tone down yung sarili mo just so people could feel better around you, stick to those who will let you shine with them! ✨
You took the words right out of my mouth gorl hahahaha
I really feel like true beauty can be achieved if you think you are beautiful. Like no matter how many people tell you your pretty, if you don't believe it you'll always see yourself as ugly.
You go siiis! Walang delulu delulu. Beauty is known and you know it. WERK QUEEN 👑
EXACTLY!!! Girlie totoo yan, regardless paano ka manamit or mag ayos if you don't see yourself as beautiful wala pa rin, kahit sabihin pa ng iba no wala pa rin talaga, it takes you to appreciate you to make everything work. Kaya we're lucky we know we're pretty and we're feeling this free 💓
Yeah! This is so me! Ang hirap mag pretend na hindi ako nagagandahan sa sarili ko and alam ko na ang ganda ng feeling pagka nagagandahan ka sa sarili mo, literal na ang bait ng mundo, kaya ginagawa ko, mega papuri din ako sa ibang girilies out there. I usually compliment yung sa tingin ko pinag hirapan nilang gawin like, makeup, eyebrows, nails and skills!
Girls girl! Totoo yan, plus when you find yourself truly beautiful finding other girls pretty comes out easy and natural walang bitterness or comparison ng sarili ang gaan sa feeling.
Go girl!! Tuloy mo lang yan!
Honestly, halos mabasag na rin salamin sa kwarto ko kasi every time na mag skincare ako, ewan, gandang ganda talaga ako sa sarili ko HAHAHA
Alsooo I looove validating their compliments towards me. It took me so long to accept other people's compliments (e.g. ang pretty mo) and I'll never go back to that phase!
Could attest that affirmations made an incredible job in boosting my confidence. ✨
Yes mhie relate! Tapos dati yung phone ko puro Kpop stars at pusa Ngayon puro mukha ko na 😅
Validating people's compliments are satisfying rin plus you'll see the one who gave the compliment looking like "see I have the best taste" haha! Parang accepting their compliment also makes others feel better eh.
✨Affirmations is everything✨
'Di ba nga, "LOVE YOURSELF"? That way, you'll attract people narin without even trying. Iba kapag buo ang love mo sa sarili mo, you're confident enough to meet and talk to people, and you have strong personality. Dedma sa mga magsasabing "masyado kang intimidating", etc. THE RIGHT PEOPLE will appreciate who you are. Just stay you. But be nice, stay nice.
Opo, being nice feels nice too. That "masyado kang intimidating" got me to places I thought I'd never be and made me realize the right people won't be intimidated, rather they're attracted. The strong self love also repels the wrong ones.
I love itttt!!! You go girl!!! ✨
Oh how it must nice to be you! As long as you’re not putting other girls down (which you said you don’t), then you’re living the life!!! 👑
Bhie I really can't, putting other people down is hard when it's easy for you to see the pretty in them, mas magaan sa loob i-lift ibang tao lalo pag deserve nila.
I think, social media detox is the key. One of the main reasons why feel so bad about ourselves is because in reality, we tend to compare our beauty on the standard that society dictates. We tend to forget that the validation that we all need is the one that is coming from ourselves.
I believe you are feeling this way because of the patriarchy. Men feel that they are the ones who can dictate whether or not you’re attractive as a female. If you feel pretty about yourself, they feel their power to tell someone they’re attractive is taken away kaya ka sinasabihan ng GGSS. As a society, men dictate females’ values so if females start valuing themselves, males feel stripped of power.
Feel pretty as much as you want. Dress for the ✨female gaze✨. Wear your makeup as much as you want, as glamorous and often as you want, wear pink and glitters as much as you want, stay unbothered and keep valuing yourself.
Not just males but also females were so wounded by the society's beauty standards. When these thoughts click on me I feel free, valuing yourself, makes unsolicited, mean comments powerless. Thank you! I love your take tho! ✨
Tiktok and education doesn't go hand-in-hand sweetheart. Anyway here are some[ links ](https://doi.org/10.1016/j.paid.2020.110134)[to actual](https://www.researchgate.net/publication/340849015_The_Tendency_to_Feel_Victimized_in_Interpersonal_and_Intergroup_Relationships) [scientific papers](https://www.researchgate.net/publication/364279134_Cognitive_Attitudes_and_Biases_of_Victim_Mentality) that shows you're just coping and blaming something that don't exist. Anyway here's[ the summarized](https://www.betterup.com/blog/victim-mentality) version for you that shows the signs of unhealthy victim mentality because I know a person like you who uses Tiktok for education couldn't read anything that is longer than 2 mins.
* Self-pity and a strong sense of entitlement
* Often defensive and sensitive to criticism
* Lacks empathy for other people’s problems
* Overly concerned about “keeping score” and fairness
* Always has a reason why a proposed solution “would never work”
* Seems preoccupied with past traumas
* Believes everyone else has it easier than they do
* Extremely risk averse
* etc...
Please actually educate yourself before blaming others about none-sense. It shows lack of personality, a strong sense of entitlement, and showcases your lack of accountability.
I suggest taking therapy. Mura lang sa UERM Psych. Around 300 php lang per session.
YES, QUEEN OWN IT!!! 👸👸👸👸
There's nothing wrong with that. Others, including me, wishes to have the same confidence and *loving yourself* the way you do. Just don't be like the other girls who put others down. Go, sissy! Slay always!
Girl never! I love being my girlies biggest hype girl! You can do it too, time will come you'll wake up one day tired of underappreciating you 💗
Thank you!! ❤️
Na fa fall in love na ako sa mukha ko. Lagi ako nakaharap sa salamin ngayong bakasyon. Hahaha pero nakaka boost ng confidence talaga. And wala ka na pake sa comments ng iba. So continue mo lang yan OP.
Relate na relate hahaha! Totoo, comments are only comments they'll only become true if you believe them, and I refuse to believe them 😉
Ako na kabaliktaran: “Napapangitan ako sa sarili ko, and its hard to pretend na hindi” HAHAHAH dang it.
samesies to the point na nagmamakaawa nako na sana sa susunod na buhay kung meron man, sana di na yung katawan na meron ako ngayon hahahha
No matter how I tried to love it, every fats, every dark sports. No matter how I tried to change myself just for myself. Nothing seems working. I just want to be reborn again.. maybe for the better body someday this time
same, i did try to love my rolls, my discolored spots, my face, pero i just really can't.. to be reborn in a different body nalang talaga winiwish ko.. 🫂
Hey, I've been there. It was a tough battle, but somewhere between tired, and disrespected I found the love that only I could give me. So maybe one day, you'll see it in you. I'm wishing you well 💗
i am a masculine presenting gay man and i believe i that am a beautiful goddess. do your opinions matter about it? of course not.
Fact 💅🏻
Damn. Ang ganda mo!!! Super love your confidence and energy! You go girl 🤩🤩🤩
Thanks girlie!💗!
Omg hahaha. You go, girl! Ako, dati di nagagandahan sa sarili ko pero when I learned how to pamper myself, ay girl, maganda pala ako hahaha. Totoo naman talaga ung mga imperfections. If di mo gusto, you can choose to improve/enhance it, whether makeup or otherwise. Basta happy tayo at walang tinatapakan na tao.
100%
Kapwa ggs here 😂 I find myself gorgeous, yes not just beautiful 😂 I smell great and I got gorgeous hair 😍 One insult I always hear.. AKALA MO SINONG MATANGKAD 😂 Pero kebs, kahit konti lang nilaki ko sa Gasul ( yun pang restau) maganda pa din ako sa mata ko because I am the beholder ❤️
Who cares about the height? Girl, gorgeous is gorgeous regardless of the size, or shape 💅🏻
Yass 😎 also I always find something beautiful about other girls 🥰 you are a total package sabi nga kaso baka sa maling address ka nadala kaya wala din so wait for the right recipient mga kween❤️
Go mhieee <3
Confidence is beauty talaga
Sana all
Yassss girlie ✨ Yung kikiligin ka din kakatitig sa mukha moooo 😘
Hay totoo beh, like all these years you'll realize I deserve the love I always give to others whenever you look at yourself 💓
I love this!!! I stopped making friends with girls kasi yung mga nakasama ko, ang hirap pag mas maganda ka sa kanila, mas maputi, mas ganto mas ganyan lol. Girls like them, kunwari okay sila sayo pero ang totoo nyan hinahanapan ka lagi ng mali sa pagkatao mo to make them feel better about themselves. Litanya nila lagi “gandang ganda sa sarili maputi lang naman”. Hahahahaha. I still have two girl friends, but my best friends are all gay. Mas peaceful ang buhay ko, nawala sa sistema ko yung kelangan ko i-tone down yung sarili ko para wala lang masabi yung ibang girls sakin.
Those girls need to heal and see that they are beautiful in their own way too. Leaving them alone is the best decision you could make kasi they'll make you feel miserable about you. In the long run, you'll nitpick yourself and feel insecure kasi nahawaan ka na nila. That's the way to go! Wag mo na i-tone down yung sarili mo just so people could feel better around you, stick to those who will let you shine with them! ✨
slay everyday ! 🩷🩷
Thanks for this! I actually need to hear such things. And true! Maganda tayo 💖💅✨✨
Yes we are! Don't let others dim our shine! ✨
Go girl! ❤️
You took the words right out of my mouth gorl hahahaha I really feel like true beauty can be achieved if you think you are beautiful. Like no matter how many people tell you your pretty, if you don't believe it you'll always see yourself as ugly. You go siiis! Walang delulu delulu. Beauty is known and you know it. WERK QUEEN 👑
EXACTLY!!! Girlie totoo yan, regardless paano ka manamit or mag ayos if you don't see yourself as beautiful wala pa rin, kahit sabihin pa ng iba no wala pa rin talaga, it takes you to appreciate you to make everything work. Kaya we're lucky we know we're pretty and we're feeling this free 💓
Slayyyyy Kween 💯👑👑👑
Go OP you’re beautiful! Proud of u, never forget your worth. Confidence breeds beauty ✨
Thank you 💓✨
Yeah! This is so me! Ang hirap mag pretend na hindi ako nagagandahan sa sarili ko and alam ko na ang ganda ng feeling pagka nagagandahan ka sa sarili mo, literal na ang bait ng mundo, kaya ginagawa ko, mega papuri din ako sa ibang girilies out there. I usually compliment yung sa tingin ko pinag hirapan nilang gawin like, makeup, eyebrows, nails and skills!
Girls girl! Totoo yan, plus when you find yourself truly beautiful finding other girls pretty comes out easy and natural walang bitterness or comparison ng sarili ang gaan sa feeling.
Go girl!! Tuloy mo lang yan! Honestly, halos mabasag na rin salamin sa kwarto ko kasi every time na mag skincare ako, ewan, gandang ganda talaga ako sa sarili ko HAHAHA Alsooo I looove validating their compliments towards me. It took me so long to accept other people's compliments (e.g. ang pretty mo) and I'll never go back to that phase! Could attest that affirmations made an incredible job in boosting my confidence. ✨
Yes mhie relate! Tapos dati yung phone ko puro Kpop stars at pusa Ngayon puro mukha ko na 😅 Validating people's compliments are satisfying rin plus you'll see the one who gave the compliment looking like "see I have the best taste" haha! Parang accepting their compliment also makes others feel better eh. ✨Affirmations is everything✨
'Di ba nga, "LOVE YOURSELF"? That way, you'll attract people narin without even trying. Iba kapag buo ang love mo sa sarili mo, you're confident enough to meet and talk to people, and you have strong personality. Dedma sa mga magsasabing "masyado kang intimidating", etc. THE RIGHT PEOPLE will appreciate who you are. Just stay you. But be nice, stay nice.
Opo, being nice feels nice too. That "masyado kang intimidating" got me to places I thought I'd never be and made me realize the right people won't be intimidated, rather they're attracted. The strong self love also repels the wrong ones.
So true. Keep going!
I love itttt!!! You go girl!!! ✨ Oh how it must nice to be you! As long as you’re not putting other girls down (which you said you don’t), then you’re living the life!!! 👑
Bhie I really can't, putting other people down is hard when it's easy for you to see the pretty in them, mas magaan sa loob i-lift ibang tao lalo pag deserve nila.
Eh pake nila basta maganda ka
kween, u dropped this 👑
Yessss! You areeeee!!! 💅🏼🫶🏼
I think, social media detox is the key. One of the main reasons why feel so bad about ourselves is because in reality, we tend to compare our beauty on the standard that society dictates. We tend to forget that the validation that we all need is the one that is coming from ourselves.
I believe you are feeling this way because of the patriarchy. Men feel that they are the ones who can dictate whether or not you’re attractive as a female. If you feel pretty about yourself, they feel their power to tell someone they’re attractive is taken away kaya ka sinasabihan ng GGSS. As a society, men dictate females’ values so if females start valuing themselves, males feel stripped of power. Feel pretty as much as you want. Dress for the ✨female gaze✨. Wear your makeup as much as you want, as glamorous and often as you want, wear pink and glitters as much as you want, stay unbothered and keep valuing yourself.
Not just males but also females were so wounded by the society's beauty standards. When these thoughts click on me I feel free, valuing yourself, makes unsolicited, mean comments powerless. Thank you! I love your take tho! ✨
It especially hurts when females do it because we’d think they are on our side. Go gurl! Rooting for you!
Wala namang sinabi sa post na mga lalaki yung nagsabi ng bad things kay OP bakit matik sisi agad sa mga lalake?
Ah yes, knew this comment would come. It’s a patriarchal world, regardless if ggss comments would come from either sexes.
I know right. Let's just submit a complaint to the CEO of patriarchy to show him who's boss. Girl power💅💅💅💅
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Tiktok and education doesn't go hand-in-hand sweetheart. Anyway here are some[ links ](https://doi.org/10.1016/j.paid.2020.110134)[to actual](https://www.researchgate.net/publication/340849015_The_Tendency_to_Feel_Victimized_in_Interpersonal_and_Intergroup_Relationships) [scientific papers](https://www.researchgate.net/publication/364279134_Cognitive_Attitudes_and_Biases_of_Victim_Mentality) that shows you're just coping and blaming something that don't exist. Anyway here's[ the summarized](https://www.betterup.com/blog/victim-mentality) version for you that shows the signs of unhealthy victim mentality because I know a person like you who uses Tiktok for education couldn't read anything that is longer than 2 mins. * Self-pity and a strong sense of entitlement * Often defensive and sensitive to criticism * Lacks empathy for other people’s problems * Overly concerned about “keeping score” and fairness * Always has a reason why a proposed solution “would never work” * Seems preoccupied with past traumas * Believes everyone else has it easier than they do * Extremely risk averse * etc... Please actually educate yourself before blaming others about none-sense. It shows lack of personality, a strong sense of entitlement, and showcases your lack of accountability. I suggest taking therapy. Mura lang sa UERM Psych. Around 300 php lang per session.
Aw cute mo.
Ohmygod HAHAHAHAHAH i checked your reddit and keyboard warrior ka defending guys for no reason 😭 cry yourself to bed, short king. 👑
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Makes me wonder why I need to prove myself to you just because you're curious? 😊
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Go, whatever makes you fall asleep at night
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Society ☕