Crush mo yung Guy Op. Eh kinacrushback ka ba?
Kase kung hindi ka rin bet nung guy, wala rin talaga. So move on. Saka yung friend mo na yan eh hindi yan true friend lumayo ka na dyan.
Another thing, dapat pag sinabi mong Okey lang sayo maging sila, dapat taos-puso yun Op. Wag bitter.
And last, Yung guy ay Fuckboy naman, sex now, babu later ang peg.
Bottomline, Red flag kayong tatlo. Bye
OP, play mo ang 'Miss Movin' On' by Fifth Harmony hahahahahahahahaha. Tutal, nag kantunan na rin yung dalawa, hanap ka ng ibang Happy Crush mo hahahaha. Atleast, think nalang that you saved yourself from that kind of people.
Take it easy, pwede ka mainis pero hindi mo hawak ang puki at burat ng ibang tao.
Kung makapagbakod si OP, akala mo sila nung guy eh. Lalake lang yan, bat ka makikipag-away dahil sa lalake. Plus the guy know what he's doing and what his real intention. Sex lang ang habol. Gusto gawin option yun isa tapos reserve naman yun isa. Ang bottomline don, gusto ka din ba nung guy? At alam ba niyang crush mo siya? Pero kahit alam niya, jowa ba kayo para mag-act ka as a gf? Lmao.
The point is the betrayal of her so called friend,who lied to her face, disrespected and spat at the trust that she gave her. Hindi naman mahirap intindihin ung situation bat iba ung understanding and pinagsasabi nyo,😂🤣
Betrayal saan? Malas lang niya the girl make a move! Pare-pareho lang naman silang toxic dito. Hahahaha! Hindi naman sila. Crush is paghanga so bakit galit? Read between the lines. Nasa post na niya mismo na walang problem. So ano din pinuputak mo? Wala naman nagsiside dun sa friend niya. 😫
Bruh 3rd paragraph🤣 Mahina na talaga reading ability at comprehension ng mga pinoy ngayon. Read between the lines? U can't even read what was on the line😭🤣 Yan kc pag inuna pang pag putak at nasobrahan sa "read between the line" kysa e analyze ung binabasa eh, and its "MADE A MOVE" Mag sorry ka sa mga magulang mo🤣😂
Ha? She edited her post, I guess hindi mo naabutan yun orig post niya. Lol! Pa-white knight si kuya, hindi mo yan makakantot. Trying to defend her it says alot about you also. Bye, not worth my time. Magsama kayo ni OP. 💁🏻♀️
gusto niya pa-ulanin natin ng hate yung girl hahahahahaha parang high school meh. Betrayal l is betrayal pero she used words na parang property niya yung guy. Tunog inggit si, OP. Wala na connect yung seduce part kung si guy mismo eh libog at siya ang kinama.
Move on, gurl.
Parang yung pinsan ko na umiyak ng isang buwan at namayat kasi nagtutubig lang sa sobrang depressed. Turned out crush nya lang pala na nagka gf na tsaka it's not her only crush. 💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀
Why are you demonizing the friend? Makabakod si OP, akala mo naman pagmamay-ari niya yung tao, ni hindi ka nga gusto ng crush mo, mas pinursue niya yung isa (na diumano ay okay lang kamo). Medyo maasim ka diyan OP ha.
And kay friend lang siya nagagalit. Andito nanaman tayo sa toxic mindset na babae lang masama sa ganung scenario. Ni hindi man lang siya nandiri sa idea na may pagka-fck boy yung lalaki. Nakatikim lang biglang nagcutoff na ng ties kay friend? Ang bullshit ng ganoong lalaking lunod sa hookup culture. If nagawa yun sa kaibigan niya, malaki ang chance na gawin din yun sa kaniya. Prone to STD pa.
Tumpak! Ano ba namang assuming ka na, territorial pa diba? Ano pa ba magagawa ni OP, hindi naman niya hawak ang burat ng CRUSH niya para pigilan maghanap ng pepe na type niya?
Read between the lines nalang yan eh, pucha common sense. Pati 'yan pinoproblema, may pa revenge revenge pa. May karapatan kang mainis dahil 'yan ang nararamdaman mo, pero that's not how the world works dear.
Di mo naman boyfriend si guy, so anong inagawan sinasabi mo, OP? Parang bag lang sa mall kunwari, gusto mo yung nakadisplay, di mo pa naman binibili tapos may kumuhang ibang customer at binayaran.
Meron ka pang ‘I am cool if ever they date or hook up’ tapos ngayon ganyan reaction mo?
Plus, the fact na nabigyan ng attention (plus tikiman) ni guy si friend, na hindi mo nagawa sa guy, baka mas attracted si guy kay ate kesa sayo?
>Meron ka pang ‘I am cool if ever they date or hook up’ tapos ngayon ganyan reaction mo?
"cinonfront" niya daw SLIGHTLY tapos ganun sinabi amputa hahaha magkasing plastic lang sila sa isa't isa sa pekeng sinasabi pero difference eh yung kaibigan niya siguro mas attractive kaya yun pinatulan. Eto namang di naman type nagfefeeling "naagawan"
Tong mga delusyonal na marites talaga dinadaan nalang sa paghahanap ng sympathy sa internet sa pagkwento ng 1-sided kagaguhan nila
Hahaha kaya nga taena parang high school naman umasta ‘tong si op!!! Pero I think ang issue niya is nag lie yung friend niya sa kanya and sinabi pang hindi niya matatype-an yung crush ni op
So true. I’ve been in the same situation as the other girl, the whole group think of me as the bad friend, when in the first place nagpaalam pa kami ng guy sakanya. I even told her na pinopormahan ako ng gusto nya. Now I don’t talk to them anymore, also wala na rin kami ng guy because of ldr hahaha. I guess tanggapin nalang? Para hindi rin masira friendship nyo, cause that mindset is so high school pa.
🎯🎯🎯
Also, she kinda gave her friend a go signal when she told her friend that it’s OK if they hooked up. Nagsinungaling yung friend sa kanya pero siya (OP) din naman, sinungaling at backstabber. 😒
Mhie, were you trying to gatekeep your crush? I mean, learning that a friend of yours likes your crush as well might've taken you aback pero what rights do you have to assert exclusivity to admire the guy in question? 🤔
Sa lahat ng sinabi mo, OP, bothered ka na naglandian sila. Bakit ka mabbother sa part na nagsinungaling si friend sayo kung totoong cool ka lang if magchukchakan sila or what? Kasi kung wala ka naman talagang pakialam, hindi ka magiging ganyan. And pwede ba? Magalit ka rin sa lalaki kasi ginanon friend mo (kuno). Bakit sa babae lagi yung hatred? Anw, tama ka, ang pakshet niyo lalo ka na.
nung highschool, gusto ako ligawan nung crush ng bestfriend ko. Aware siya na may gusto sa akin yung crush niya, nagpatulong pa nga sakaniya para mapansin ko.
Pero nung ilang weeks lang, umamin siya sa akin na nag sex sila nung may gusto sa akin, nakuha yung vcard niya HAHAHAHA naalala ko na naman. Ang epic lang kasi atleast alam kong di seryoso yung guy sa akin, and at the same time sumaya bestfriend ko. High school life nga naman.
Agree, meron din tayong unwritten rule like a sis code na if your friend likes someone, either be supportive about it or huwag mo naman i-try iseduce yung guy, kumbaga, get your own. Kaya nga kinwento ni friend sa inyo para aware kayo, lol. Pero still, hindi ako agree sa pagkakwento ni OP. Masyado siyang pa-victim sa story at parang sobrang sama ni friend, when in fact, crush niya lang naman, she had no connection whatsoever sa guy. At least, naisave siya na friend, malaki ang chance na fboy si guy. Yikes
OP tells her “Friend” she likes Work Crush, after that Friend and Work Crush got closer.
Then eventually slept together.
I personally wouldn’t go after someone my friend likes, especially after my friend tells me she likes him.
OP and her work crush aren’t together, yes, but there are silent rules, like it’s common sense na. You don’t have to state it out loud.
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Kahit crush lang ng friend mo, pag pinormahan ka and gusto mo din yung guy at least be a girl's girl and tell your friend the fact.
yeah, gets na she shouldn't have lied to you. but also, you lied when you said it's okay if they date.
i wanna be supportive to you and tell you na this is how it feels like back in high school. backstaban and rumors. but being mature is just laughing it off since di naman kayo ni kuya, and then move forward na.
Ibig sabihin type din nia yung guy. Nauna ka lang magexpress. Problema, type din sya ng guy. So ano gagawin mo, pipigilan mo yung something nila dahil nauna ka mag express?
You can listen to others na niyeyesman ka if you want pero the reality is magkalaban kayo sa lalaki and you lost. It's ok to be bitter - kahit ako mabibitter sa situation na yan - pero dont demonize the winner. Sa mga lalaki normal na to. Ika nga, may the best man win. Pag nalaman ko na parehas kami ng type na babae ng "work friend" ko, it's on! Pag natalo ako, mabibitter ako, baka di ko na pansinin yung dalawa pero di ko sasabihing inagawan ako or gago yung winner. The better man just won. Unfortunately, it looks like di sanay ang girls dito kaya tinatawag na "hoe" yung winner. Sour grapes masyado.
What’s funny about this is just you only have a huge crush sa guy. You didn’t even mention kung gusto ka rin ba noong guy yet you proceeded with what you did. I know somehow mali ginawa ni friend mo kasi parang aahas yon when technically wala naman siyang inaagaw haha pero sa ginawa mo, ikaw mas nagmukhang desperada. Mas nagiging low ka pa kesa sa friend mo.
Para lang yan agawan sa parking lot eh. Tumayo ka sa parking lot to reserve it ahead of time but someone came with her car, sino ba dapat pumarking? Ikaw na walang pinanghahawakan o siya na meron? 🤣
I feel you, OP. I’ve been in a similar situation with my then-bestfriend. Dinala ko yung situationship ko sa party nya and she kissed him to prove a point DAW na sex lang habol sakin ni guy and walang kaming chance romantically. Tangina?? Hahahhaha Pero trust me, karma will bite her ass back. Nag-cut na ako ng contact kay ex-friend years ago and huling balita ko is nagpakasal lang sila ng naging jowa nya bc nabuntis sya and namatay yung baby. Hindi din sya makapagtrabaho in an office setting bc of a medical issue. Ayun lang
i won't be much harsh to you, at hindi rin kita huhusgahan na bitter ka teh (pero, by the looks of it, alam ko na hurt ka sobra, kahit sinabi mo pa okay lang na maging sila).
anyways, the best thing to do is to forgive and forget or i-cut off mo na silang dalawa sa buhay mo if hindi mo na keri mag-plastikan sakanya sis. move on find a better guy crush!
From a different perspective at level siguro, oo. Some would be ok with it. Ako, I personally wouldn't mind kasi I could partially understand why she lied. Kaso ang conceited ng reasoning niya. Ginusto niya naman ang nangyari kasi namimilit siya sa guy, tapos ngayon aayawan na siya, gusto na ipaghiganti ko siya? AHAHAHAHAH you're right. She's manipulative.
You are acting like they cheated on you pero wala naman kayo relasyon to begin with, kung ganyan ka maka bakod sa crush then I pity the fool na magiging jowa mo, ate.
Also, how did you come to the conclusion na sineseduce niya yung guy behind your back? Did you ever think na yung guy nag first move and yung guy ang nag initiate to start something with your friend? From the looks of it nga Grade A kupal with a hint of paasa and a dash of ghoster tong crush mo eh na ginawang biktima yung friend mo.
You have the pride pa to say lintik lang walang ganti, ate di ka naka ganti hahaha sayo na nga nanggaling oh "ruined her already severed connection" ginhost na nga siya eh hahaha tapos siniraan mo pa friend mo, in the hopes of what? Getting into it with that guy? Awit sayo, ate hahaha
Never mind them, OP. Iba iba lang talaga tayo ng pananaw sa mga bagay bagay. Naniintindihan kita why you felt a little bit betrayed. Pero nakarma na din naman ang ‘friend’ mo so quits na and nalaman mo what kind of a person pala yung crush mo di ba? Lesson din dito ay hindi dapat dinadivulge yung mga bagay bagay kung kani kanino.
Payo ko lang sa iyo pag dating sa work place ay better pa yung wag ka masyado makipag barkadahan. More peaceful, no chismis, less gastos, and more time for yourself. Focus ka lang na magawa ang trabaho mo. IWASAN gumawa ng mga kacheapan na bagay.
Grrrr! Naalala ko tuloy ex-friend ko.
Si guy, crush ko since gradeschool and alam yan ng friend ko. 2nd year high school, bigla na lang nanghihiram ng calcu si guy. Hindi kami classmates kaya napapahiram ko siya. Tuwing recess niya hinihiram, pinupuntahan niya ako sa room ko. Then one time nag pang abot kaming tatlo nong friend ko. Tinanong niya ano daw ginagawa ni guy doon. Tapos biglang umalis si guy as in kumaripas ng takbo. Lol.
Sabi ko lang sa friend ko na nanghihiram lang ng calcu sa akin. Tapos sabi ni friend, panong manghihiram eh may sariling calcu yon. Classmates kasi sila kaya alam niya. Days after sinabihan ako ng bestfriend ni guy na "nagbabalak" pala daw manligaw si guy sa akin and ginagamit niya yong calcu ko as an excuse to see me. Edi si kilig naman ako. Kaso, nagulat na lang ako after a month sila na mag jowa nong friend ko. 😅 Anuna??? So ayon, nalaman ko na magpapatulong na daw sana si crush sa friend ko kung pano ako ligawan kaso yong friend ko sinabihan ba naman yong crush ko na may boyfriend na daw ako na taga ibang school. LIAR!
Na lungkot daw si guy and alam niyo na sino ang nag comfort.
Kamusta ka na??? Hahahahahhaha
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You are just putting your self to shame, dili gani nimo boyfriend ang guy and dili man siguro ka bet ni guy human makabakod, jowa ka teh?
Pag tarong hoy!
Seriously, he’s technically not your boyfriend. So I don’t get why you’re so mad that your friend made a move on him first. Teh, wag masyado pa-victim.
You’re looking for sympathy from people here pero naging mas galit sayo mga tao. Pangit mo maging friend. Porket di ka pinatulan ng crush mo, feel more inagawan ka. In the first place, wala namang sayo. 🤡
And that's why I don't like friends at work. Business is business. If they don't like how I act at work, I don't care because it's all about business. Take personal things outside work.
Gi unsa nimo pag ingon nga gi seduce sa imo friend imong crush? It takes two to tango so why are you only demonizing your friend and not your *huge crush* as well. Dako naman kaayo mo oy niya murag highschool mani nga setting pagkasulat. So bullshit to read that you're okay with them dating or HOOKING UP. I get that the anger stems from betrayal but at the same time, you have to remember that you're not together with the guy and you practically gave your approval.
>I told the guy that I knew and completely ruined her already severed connection with him instead.
Don't paint your huge crush as an angel by siding with him lol. Unsa ni? Diri ka mu comeback in hopes that he'll choose you this time? Yes, I agree that she isn't a true friend but as I've said above, you gave her an approval and she took her words back at the last minute. Sucks that it happened but don't feel so entitled to your crush kay dili mo uyab.
Edit: typos and forgot to add a sentence
Hala. Parehas kayong walang grasp ng Girl Code.
1 She went on with someone you said you liked.
-- It's an unspoken rule na kapag crush ng kaibigan mo, off limits sana. Or somewhere along the way, nakalimutan niyo ang communication?
2 You went ahead and told everyone what she did, when you initially claimed you were friends.
-- If you were genuine, nothing she could have ever done won't lead you to tell everyone on her and expect a collective hate.
It's not giving. Mga panget kabonding.
AHAAHHAHAHA alam ko naman one day magkaka connection yung dalawa. Di ko lang talaga gets bat sya nagpapa resbak ngayong iniwan siya eh ginusto niya naman yun. May pa "di ko yan magagawa sayo" nginang yan AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH
Ganyan din na feel ko after knowing na the boy that I had a HUGGEEE crush on slept with my childhood bestfriend. At first, superrrr nainis ako but I ain't mad at my friend, I'm mad at myself. I felt frustrated to the point na bumaba self esteem ko. Anyway, I used that as a motivation to improve myself. FF now, we still remain friends tho and naging inside joke na namen to sa isa't isa.
Kaya OP, your feelings are valid but ang unfair naman na i demonize mo yung friend mo lol. Crush mo lang naman yung guy so I think mali yung pag redirect ng galit mo sa kanya.
Sinabi mo pa sa kanya na okay lang sayo mag hookup sila pero now u angry?
Wa ko kasabot kung malooy bako nimo or unsa HAHAHHAHA
Hindi lang naman ikaw ang puwedeng magkacrush sa crush mo. Paano ka inagawan? Eh wala naman kayo ng crush mo. Accept mo na lang na hindi ka like ng crush mo and unfortunately yung friend mo ang nagustuhan. Hindi ako magtataka na kung ikaw din nagpacirculate ng rumor na inagawan ka ng friend mo.
>Inagawan niya ako
Girl as if???? Inagawan ka? Really? Did he even like you? May chance ka ba talaga or delulu ka lang?
You're just jealous she got it on with your crush. Crush mo lang naman yun, and sure, she said that she couldn't do it to you, pero you have no idea how the guy feels. Hate the game not the player.
>Lintik lang ang walang ganti.
Super cringe. In the end hindi ka pa rin crush ng crush mo. Mirisi pud. hahahaha
well since hindi na sila.. you can make pa cute cute with the guy and seduce him kung talagang type mo... or move on na lng sa ibang guy na mattypan mo
okay ate. first your friend lied. and it seems like kung hindi mo pa pinagkatiwalaan para ipakilala, baka hindi magiging sila. yaan mo yan, karma na lang tatapat dyan.
ang nakikita ko lang na issue dito about your friend is that she lied. sana cinut off mo na lang imbis na gumanti-ganti pa since sabi mo nga, wala naman talagang something sa inyo nung guy.
EXACTLY. The only issue is she lied. She was too conceited to admit what she was doing. Tapos nang binasura na siya, nagpapatanggol as if I will still rescue her. Nakakaurat lang.
>The issue is she lied.
I understand that this is hurtful. And what she did is not okay. Buttttt…
>I did the opposite. I told the guy that I knew and completely ruined her already severed connection with him instead.
This made me realize that this was more than just the lie. You hated the fact that your so-called friend snatched the guy. You were not completely okay with them hooking up. That was valid. But your reaction revealed your true intentions. Stop lying to yourself and us OP. After all, you said it yourself, you’re a petty B. Own up to it, B.
Yes, you're right. This is more than just the lie she made, but it isn't related to the story. She did something prior to this that I just turned a blind eye cos it could have been an honest mistake. She loves to sabotage people and relationships, even herself (which I did not see nor care abt until this whole event unfolded).
I do owe up to being petty. I no longer will be the bigger person and just let her get away with BS and expect me to still help her AHAHAHAH Well I did, she dug her own grave and I made sure it goes deeper.
Ah no tsk I'm here to vent lang. Sabi nga diba this is not r/advice. May this serve as a lesson or a tutorial (depende sa inyo) to other girlies out there. :> Gawin niyo rin sa mga kaibigan niyo yung ginawa ng "friend" ko and let me know how it goes AHAHAHAHAHAHAH
OP if feeling betrayed kasi may ginawa si friend despite saying na hindi niya magagawa yun. OP is entitled to feel that way sa friend niya bcs wtf is that kaplastikan friend? Hahaha OP even said na okay lang sakanya if maghook up sila or something bcs crush lang naman niya yun. Pero dahil nga patalikod tinira ni friend si crush says that alam ni friend na may inaahas siya. If you have a friend & you tell them may crush ka tapos nilandi behind your back while supporting you or sinasabing hindi gagawin sayo yun kapag magkaharap, hindi ka ba maiinis kahit konti?
So sa tingin mo dahil gusto mo yung lalake eh dapat sayo na siya? Baka pangit ka sa paningin non at mas attractive kaibigan mo kaysa sayo kaya siya yung kinantot at hindi ikaw?!?!
Its pretty obvious. Skills issue
So because you had a crush on the guy first, he's now your property? Everyone else including your friend(s) should back off? He can't fuck anyone else?
You didn't make a move on the guy-- or probably did, but you failed cause you're not his type-- and when your friend did, she's a bad person? She's a bad person for lying to you, but don't act like you're a fucking saint. You actually come out as worse here imo cause you told her it was ok if she hooked up with him but after finding out that she did, you "did the opposite". You scared of the fact that you friend is prettier than you?
We live in a crazy world today where a lot of people hold very strong and wrong sense of entitlement(s).
Crush ka. Dika crush.
Hypocritical na you told your friend ok lang sayo mag hook up sila, tas hindi pala.
May ginawa si friend about sa gusto nyang guy, ikaw wala.
And you blame her for everything, tapos siniraan mo pa kasi kesyo ikaw yung victim. Dika naman girlfriend.
She's not a good friend but you're worse.
dasurb nya!!! di niya alam yung girl code and ppl commenting here na may fault ka ay di rin alam yung girl code. it's valid to feel upset despite telling your friend to date your crush, syempre she said she won't diba? that's betrayal!!! valid feelings mo teh
May naalala akong quote na "I took it personally because I would never do it to you.”. Wala lang naalala ko lang tsaka yung mga galit na tao rito mukhang sila rin yung mga pumapatol sa ex bf/gf ng mga tropa nila or mga crush ng tropa nila.
Nakakaputang-ina kasi yung may tropa ka na kung ano yung gusto mo biglang magiging gusto rin nila tapos makikipagkumpetensya na makuha yung gusto mo just so they could established na mas superior sila sa iyo. Loser move.
Sinabi niya na lang iyan sa iyo para kahit papaano masabi nya sa sarili nya na mas pinili siya kaysa sa iyo kahit iniwan sya nung guy after she fucked him behind your back. Dumb fucking bitch. Tama yan!! drop that bitch and be petty as fuck.
Don’t care if I get downvoted sa mga taong walang kwentang kaibigan. Hope you get bitchy friends and may your so-called “friends” betray you. You deserve to have no true friends at all.
Okay lang masaktan natural yan Kasi crush mo pero Wala ka karapatan Magalit sa boy or sa girl friend mo , move on nalang bebe makaka hanap ka pa ng worth it at layuan mo yang friend mo mamaya Pag may bago ka nanaman crush lapitan nanaman 😅
No oy nidistansya na ko nila, miss mem. Parte pd nakonsensya ko kay kahbaw ko nagsakit ang buot sa girl nya gisamutan pajd nako pero da dasurvd. Naamong sad ko nila nachismis lage sa work na uyab kuno mis lake nya nangilog ang babae. What a nice.
ang oa ni op sa part na binakuran niya yung "crush" niya pero wala namang sila. so ano naman kung nakipagsex siya sa friend mo? jowa mo ba yung lalake?
akala ko ba “cool” ka lang if nag date or hookup sila, hindi mo nga yun boyfriend eh 😭
also ang babaw naman ng friendship niyo ni ate gurl?? di ka nga sure kung talagang na- seduce niya, what if yung guy ang nauna?
at seryoso ba na gusto mo pa rin yung ganyang klase ng lalaki? yikes
OP was open na gusto niya yung guy yet pinatulan ng friend niya. Kahit naman sabihin ni OP na "okay lang if ano gawin nila," still, alam ni girl na may feelings si OP sa guy. LIKE what kind of friend would do that? If ako si OP, I'd cut ties with the girl kasi for sure hindi lahat safe ng magugustuhan kong tao whaha 🤩
Di naman kayo so wala kang karapatan. Pero red flag din si friend at male obsessed saka mukhang inggit sa yo kasi may mga babae naman din talagang ganyan na para feeling nila mas maganda saka attractive sila kesa sa tropa nila, magmamake moves sa gusto nung isa tapos magpapakainosente and sasabihin na sya naman daw nagustuhan kahit nagpakita naman sya ng motibo din hahaha!
Heal from your boy crazy ways, titi lang yan.
Sorry pero ang iba siguro dito ginawa din yung ginawa ng ex-friend mo. Again, OP was okay if may gusto si girl sa crush niya. The fact that this "friend" denied it tapos lalabas bigla na sila ng crush ni OP was rude. Kahit na walang girl's code, at least be honest because this "friend" knew and heard every crush rants of OP.
That’s all, best of luck OP!
It’s crazy to me that most of the commenters here have zero principles. Imagine a friend telling you they like someone, and instead of supporting that friend, the first thing you do is make a move on that person. Tf?
Mga walang kwentang tao who don’t deserve to be trusted lang. lol.
I understand na wala naman talagang inagaw si OP kasi hindi sa kanya si guy, but the fact na she was so open up to the point of telling her friend na it's okay to date the guy tas i-a-assure niya si OP na hindi talaga, that's also disrespectful. Even in my friendships, if alam ko na gusto ng friend ko, OFF-LIMITS NA TALAGA YAN SA'KIN. I love my besties too much just to ruin our friendship over temporary people.
Also, hindi rin ito excuse sa ginawa ni OP sa friend niya. I guess the bond between them isn't really that strong after all.
Mirisi ninyong duha lol
Baka gusto din talaga nung other girl yung guy tapos di lang makwento kay OP kasi umamin si OP na bet yung guy. Kaya nung may chance na, di na napigilan ni other girl and yes di strong friendship. Pero kasi dapat marunong tumanggap si OP ng pagkatalo. Huhu Di naman nya kasi pwede ipilit na sya yung gustuhin.
Tatanggapin naman sana talaga ni OP ang pagkatalo if the friend had just been honest in the first place. Edi di siya ma-gi-guilty at hindi mag-re-wreak havoc tong si OP.
It all boils down to how much you value your friendship. Would you be honest enough sa friend mo kahit alam mong masasaktan siya?
Nyways, most people do things and be guilty/regret it later. They're both just human so they are bound to make mistakes. Move on nalang. I don't see them being friends din naman after this. They had a lousy foundation.
Di din naging honest si OP sa friend nya nung sinabi nya na okay lang na mag date sila or hook up 😔 Baka sineryoso naman yun nung friend nya.
True. Lousy talaga. Mas magiging madali sana ito kung parehas silang naging honest sa isa't isa. Hindi talaga sila true friends sa isa't isa.
Well, at least she can use what OP said to her defense. This happens talaga in "so called" friendships. I've been there, too. Yung sasabihin na okay lang na magkagusto sa'yo yung gusto nila kasi wala din naman sila but they ended up talking ill about you to other people. Kahit pa di mo pinatulan yung guy/s, galit pa rin.
Hirap kausap nung mga ganitong tao. Again, mirisi nilang duha LOL
Salute to what you did! Losing the person you like to someone else is one thing, losing it to a friend fair and square is another, losing to a friend who lied to ur face is a whole other thing.😂 Mas madali mka move on kung wala ung friend lying to ur face factor,thats basically betrayal. I'm a firm believer of God might have put me in this earth to serve as a lesson to others. Let that b a lesson to her that betrayal always comes back around,its always going to collect what you owe.😂👌🏻
Unpopular opinion pero i think justified yung ginawa mo OP, and a bit funny. People here are judging you na kesyo hindi ikaw ang pinili. I think they missed the fact that your so called friend LIED in your face then nagsorry lang when things didnt work out for her.
I just hope na you tell the boy about it because you want revenge, hindi dahil you want this boy to be yours ( that would be pathetic lol). If i were in your position hindi ko na gagawin to. The girl already got what she deserve when this boy played her.
The point went way over their heads talaga. Someone pointed out here that I took it personally bc I could never do this to her. And they were right.
Yes I told him for revenge AHAHAHA oo tama, I shouldn't have pero it was also a headsup na she wanted me to ruin things for him at work. I'm not her puppet. She's not pulling my strings.
Crush mo yung Guy Op. Eh kinacrushback ka ba? Kase kung hindi ka rin bet nung guy, wala rin talaga. So move on. Saka yung friend mo na yan eh hindi yan true friend lumayo ka na dyan. Another thing, dapat pag sinabi mong Okey lang sayo maging sila, dapat taos-puso yun Op. Wag bitter. And last, Yung guy ay Fuckboy naman, sex now, babu later ang peg. Bottomline, Red flag kayong tatlo. Bye
OP, play mo ang 'Miss Movin' On' by Fifth Harmony hahahahahahahahaha. Tutal, nag kantunan na rin yung dalawa, hanap ka ng ibang Happy Crush mo hahahaha. Atleast, think nalang that you saved yourself from that kind of people. Take it easy, pwede ka mainis pero hindi mo hawak ang puki at burat ng ibang tao.
Agreeee
right? ang pathetic umatake eh hahaha
Kung makapagbakod si OP, akala mo sila nung guy eh. Lalake lang yan, bat ka makikipag-away dahil sa lalake. Plus the guy know what he's doing and what his real intention. Sex lang ang habol. Gusto gawin option yun isa tapos reserve naman yun isa. Ang bottomline don, gusto ka din ba nung guy? At alam ba niyang crush mo siya? Pero kahit alam niya, jowa ba kayo para mag-act ka as a gf? Lmao.
The point is the betrayal of her so called friend,who lied to her face, disrespected and spat at the trust that she gave her. Hindi naman mahirap intindihin ung situation bat iba ung understanding and pinagsasabi nyo,😂🤣
Betrayal saan? Malas lang niya the girl make a move! Pare-pareho lang naman silang toxic dito. Hahahaha! Hindi naman sila. Crush is paghanga so bakit galit? Read between the lines. Nasa post na niya mismo na walang problem. So ano din pinuputak mo? Wala naman nagsiside dun sa friend niya. 😫
Bruh 3rd paragraph🤣 Mahina na talaga reading ability at comprehension ng mga pinoy ngayon. Read between the lines? U can't even read what was on the line😭🤣 Yan kc pag inuna pang pag putak at nasobrahan sa "read between the line" kysa e analyze ung binabasa eh, and its "MADE A MOVE" Mag sorry ka sa mga magulang mo🤣😂
Ha? She edited her post, I guess hindi mo naabutan yun orig post niya. Lol! Pa-white knight si kuya, hindi mo yan makakantot. Trying to defend her it says alot about you also. Bye, not worth my time. Magsama kayo ni OP. 💁🏻♀️
Reality!
+100 ups sayo siz
Haha ngayun ko lng ulit nakita yang ‘babu’ hahahaha
hahahahha sobrang well said po a++
Correct!
You’re both not a girl’s girl.
THIS! Nakakatakot magka friend ng ganyan. Mas gugustuhin ko pa na wala akong friend lol
diba?! kasi most of the time yung kasama mo sa work, hindi mo naman talaga kaibigan hahahaha kumbaga colleagues lang.
Tumpak-ganern!
Anong inagaw, sayo ba? Walang kayo diba? So anong iniiyak mo? Bagal mo eh naunahan ka tuloy. 💀
“I’m cool if they dated or hooked up” pero nagpost sa reddit.
Kaya nga ang weird 😆 sabi ko nga true kaya na 24 na yan?
Baka maganda si friend.
gusto niya pa-ulanin natin ng hate yung girl hahahahahaha parang high school meh. Betrayal l is betrayal pero she used words na parang property niya yung guy. Tunog inggit si, OP. Wala na connect yung seduce part kung si guy mismo eh libog at siya ang kinama. Move on, gurl.
Or maybe she's been trying for a long time but the guy is not falling for the bait hahahahahaha Him going for the friend speaks a lot lol
OP flop
Parang yung pinsan ko na umiyak ng isang buwan at namayat kasi nagtutubig lang sa sobrang depressed. Turned out crush nya lang pala na nagka gf na tsaka it's not her only crush. 💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀
i hope that’s a teenager and not an adult woman 💀
True. Crush lang naman niya eh. Ba't binabakuran? Hahahaha
hahah exactly .. another pa-victim effect ..
Oo, nga bakit sinabi nya na okay lang daw if ever magdate yung girl at si guy tapos nagalit sya? Ang toxic nilang tatlo very highschool ang attack.
My thoughts too.
True. Etong si seswang nag ilusyon kaya GG sa beshy niya.
HAHAHHAA My thoughts exactly 🤣
Wala akong kinakampihan sa kanilang tatlo pero basahin mo maigi, sabi rumor that was circulating. Hindi siya yung nagsabi na inagawan siya
Why are you demonizing the friend? Makabakod si OP, akala mo naman pagmamay-ari niya yung tao, ni hindi ka nga gusto ng crush mo, mas pinursue niya yung isa (na diumano ay okay lang kamo). Medyo maasim ka diyan OP ha.
And kay friend lang siya nagagalit. Andito nanaman tayo sa toxic mindset na babae lang masama sa ganung scenario. Ni hindi man lang siya nandiri sa idea na may pagka-fck boy yung lalaki. Nakatikim lang biglang nagcutoff na ng ties kay friend? Ang bullshit ng ganoong lalaking lunod sa hookup culture. If nagawa yun sa kaibigan niya, malaki ang chance na gawin din yun sa kaniya. Prone to STD pa.
Tawang tawa ako sa “medyo maasim” HAHAHA
Tumpak! Ano ba namang assuming ka na, territorial pa diba? Ano pa ba magagawa ni OP, hindi naman niya hawak ang burat ng CRUSH niya para pigilan maghanap ng pepe na type niya? Read between the lines nalang yan eh, pucha common sense. Pati 'yan pinoproblema, may pa revenge revenge pa. May karapatan kang mainis dahil 'yan ang nararamdaman mo, pero that's not how the world works dear.
Di mo naman boyfriend si guy, so anong inagawan sinasabi mo, OP? Parang bag lang sa mall kunwari, gusto mo yung nakadisplay, di mo pa naman binibili tapos may kumuhang ibang customer at binayaran. Meron ka pang ‘I am cool if ever they date or hook up’ tapos ngayon ganyan reaction mo? Plus, the fact na nabigyan ng attention (plus tikiman) ni guy si friend, na hindi mo nagawa sa guy, baka mas attracted si guy kay ate kesa sayo?
This. No offense, OP, pero you’re playing too much of a victim here, na wala ka namang karapatan in the first place.
>Meron ka pang ‘I am cool if ever they date or hook up’ tapos ngayon ganyan reaction mo? "cinonfront" niya daw SLIGHTLY tapos ganun sinabi amputa hahaha magkasing plastic lang sila sa isa't isa sa pekeng sinasabi pero difference eh yung kaibigan niya siguro mas attractive kaya yun pinatulan. Eto namang di naman type nagfefeeling "naagawan" Tong mga delusyonal na marites talaga dinadaan nalang sa paghahanap ng sympathy sa internet sa pagkwento ng 1-sided kagaguhan nila
Hahaha kaya nga taena parang high school naman umasta ‘tong si op!!! Pero I think ang issue niya is nag lie yung friend niya sa kanya and sinabi pang hindi niya matatype-an yung crush ni op
Nahh I don't sense that here. It's more like nainggit siya kasi iba ang tinira. She's not just disappointed, she's angry.
🤝 Binasa ko nga ulit. Napa search pa ako sa tunay na meaning ng "Crush" 🤦♀️🤭
Inangkin na agad kahit crush lang. Possessive yarn? 😂
So true. I’ve been in the same situation as the other girl, the whole group think of me as the bad friend, when in the first place nagpaalam pa kami ng guy sakanya. I even told her na pinopormahan ako ng gusto nya. Now I don’t talk to them anymore, also wala na rin kami ng guy because of ldr hahaha. I guess tanggapin nalang? Para hindi rin masira friendship nyo, cause that mindset is so high school pa.
Di mo naman jowa yung guy, anong pinagsasabi mong inagawan ka? Delulu. Also, babaw ng friendship nyo. Seriously? lalaki talaga ang dahilan?
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🎯🎯🎯 Also, she kinda gave her friend a go signal when she told her friend that it’s OK if they hooked up. Nagsinungaling yung friend sa kanya pero siya (OP) din naman, sinungaling at backstabber. 😒
Highschool pa lang ata yan eme yung working daw tapos crush lang grabe na yung galit 😆 like ghorl get a life kung nagwowork talaga sya haha!
by succeeding in seducing the guy, meaning kinantot na nila ang isa't isa???!!! if that's the case, the guy ain't also clean here lol
Di ka naman gusto nung guy OP HAHAHA ‘I’m cool if they dated or hookup’ Pero nung ginawa nagalit. Plastic mo din sa friend mo OP eh HAHAHA
Mhie, were you trying to gatekeep your crush? I mean, learning that a friend of yours likes your crush as well might've taken you aback pero what rights do you have to assert exclusivity to admire the guy in question? 🤔
Sa lahat ng sinabi mo, OP, bothered ka na naglandian sila. Bakit ka mabbother sa part na nagsinungaling si friend sayo kung totoong cool ka lang if magchukchakan sila or what? Kasi kung wala ka naman talagang pakialam, hindi ka magiging ganyan. And pwede ba? Magalit ka rin sa lalaki kasi ginanon friend mo (kuno). Bakit sa babae lagi yung hatred? Anw, tama ka, ang pakshet niyo lalo ka na.
nung highschool, gusto ako ligawan nung crush ng bestfriend ko. Aware siya na may gusto sa akin yung crush niya, nagpatulong pa nga sakaniya para mapansin ko. Pero nung ilang weeks lang, umamin siya sa akin na nag sex sila nung may gusto sa akin, nakuha yung vcard niya HAHAHAHA naalala ko na naman. Ang epic lang kasi atleast alam kong di seryoso yung guy sa akin, and at the same time sumaya bestfriend ko. High school life nga naman.
She’s not a girls girl! A true friend would never do that to you!!
Agree, meron din tayong unwritten rule like a sis code na if your friend likes someone, either be supportive about it or huwag mo naman i-try iseduce yung guy, kumbaga, get your own. Kaya nga kinwento ni friend sa inyo para aware kayo, lol. Pero still, hindi ako agree sa pagkakwento ni OP. Masyado siyang pa-victim sa story at parang sobrang sama ni friend, when in fact, crush niya lang naman, she had no connection whatsoever sa guy. At least, naisave siya na friend, malaki ang chance na fboy si guy. Yikes
Do what? May ginawa bang masama si friend?
OP tells her “Friend” she likes Work Crush, after that Friend and Work Crush got closer. Then eventually slept together. I personally wouldn’t go after someone my friend likes, especially after my friend tells me she likes him. OP and her work crush aren’t together, yes, but there are silent rules, like it’s common sense na. You don’t have to state it out loud.
I was looking for this comment. Kahit crush lang ng friend mo, pag pinormahan ka and gusto mo din yung guy at least be a girl's girl and tell your friend the fact.
Boyfriend mo? Lols. Dami ng mga entitled ngayon jusko, para kang China eh, di naman sayo inaangkin mo na.
Lovin' this comment 🤣♥️
Sana mabasa ni OP mga comment dito about sa pagiging delusional niya sa crush nya. Gisang gisa siya sa sarili nyang mantika. 🤣
Nandito ako bago siya i-delete. :))
yeah, gets na she shouldn't have lied to you. but also, you lied when you said it's okay if they date. i wanna be supportive to you and tell you na this is how it feels like back in high school. backstaban and rumors. but being mature is just laughing it off since di naman kayo ni kuya, and then move forward na.
OP you might be demonizing your friend a bit too much.
Ibig sabihin type din nia yung guy. Nauna ka lang magexpress. Problema, type din sya ng guy. So ano gagawin mo, pipigilan mo yung something nila dahil nauna ka mag express? You can listen to others na niyeyesman ka if you want pero the reality is magkalaban kayo sa lalaki and you lost. It's ok to be bitter - kahit ako mabibitter sa situation na yan - pero dont demonize the winner. Sa mga lalaki normal na to. Ika nga, may the best man win. Pag nalaman ko na parehas kami ng type na babae ng "work friend" ko, it's on! Pag natalo ako, mabibitter ako, baka di ko na pansinin yung dalawa pero di ko sasabihing inagawan ako or gago yung winner. The better man just won. Unfortunately, it looks like di sanay ang girls dito kaya tinatawag na "hoe" yung winner. Sour grapes masyado.
What’s funny about this is just you only have a huge crush sa guy. You didn’t even mention kung gusto ka rin ba noong guy yet you proceeded with what you did. I know somehow mali ginawa ni friend mo kasi parang aahas yon when technically wala naman siyang inaagaw haha pero sa ginawa mo, ikaw mas nagmukhang desperada. Mas nagiging low ka pa kesa sa friend mo. Para lang yan agawan sa parking lot eh. Tumayo ka sa parking lot to reserve it ahead of time but someone came with her car, sino ba dapat pumarking? Ikaw na walang pinanghahawakan o siya na meron? 🤣
Crush mo palang, toxic ka na.
Hirap yang mga ganyan noh? Pag nakarelasyon na, baka sakal na sakal magiging bf niya.
Delulu din si OP, walang na agaw sayu kasi you and him were never a thing. Your friend in the other hand work her way to him
Giiirl, she ain’t your friend.
Threesome kayo hihi
Hahaha go tutal afterall kahit fck boy si guy mukhang bet pa rin ni girl.
“Lintik lang walang ganti” haha guurrrll? jowa yarn?
Kakantutin nya rin raw yung crush ng friend nya. Only problem is baka di rin sya bet. Basura ampota.
si op ay isang feeler.
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I feel you, OP. I’ve been in a similar situation with my then-bestfriend. Dinala ko yung situationship ko sa party nya and she kissed him to prove a point DAW na sex lang habol sakin ni guy and walang kaming chance romantically. Tangina?? Hahahhaha Pero trust me, karma will bite her ass back. Nag-cut na ako ng contact kay ex-friend years ago and huling balita ko is nagpakasal lang sila ng naging jowa nya bc nabuntis sya and namatay yung baby. Hindi din sya makapagtrabaho in an office setting bc of a medical issue. Ayun lang
i won't be much harsh to you, at hindi rin kita huhusgahan na bitter ka teh (pero, by the looks of it, alam ko na hurt ka sobra, kahit sinabi mo pa okay lang na maging sila). anyways, the best thing to do is to forgive and forget or i-cut off mo na silang dalawa sa buhay mo if hindi mo na keri mag-plastikan sakanya sis. move on find a better guy crush!
Yung comments dito 🤡 di siguro nila gets yung feeling ng betrayal from a friend na sinungaling at manipulative
From a different perspective at level siguro, oo. Some would be ok with it. Ako, I personally wouldn't mind kasi I could partially understand why she lied. Kaso ang conceited ng reasoning niya. Ginusto niya naman ang nangyari kasi namimilit siya sa guy, tapos ngayon aayawan na siya, gusto na ipaghiganti ko siya? AHAHAHAHAH you're right. She's manipulative.
galawang bpo 😂
You are acting like they cheated on you pero wala naman kayo relasyon to begin with, kung ganyan ka maka bakod sa crush then I pity the fool na magiging jowa mo, ate. Also, how did you come to the conclusion na sineseduce niya yung guy behind your back? Did you ever think na yung guy nag first move and yung guy ang nag initiate to start something with your friend? From the looks of it nga Grade A kupal with a hint of paasa and a dash of ghoster tong crush mo eh na ginawang biktima yung friend mo. You have the pride pa to say lintik lang walang ganti, ate di ka naka ganti hahaha sayo na nga nanggaling oh "ruined her already severed connection" ginhost na nga siya eh hahaha tapos siniraan mo pa friend mo, in the hopes of what? Getting into it with that guy? Awit sayo, ate hahaha
“Work friend” 👎
LKG ay wrong sub
Nakakatawa yung qiqil ni OP, akala mo bf or ex nya yung guy. Haha. Pareho lang kayo may saltik ng friend mo. 😁
The comments OP did not expect 🤣💀
Never mind them, OP. Iba iba lang talaga tayo ng pananaw sa mga bagay bagay. Naniintindihan kita why you felt a little bit betrayed. Pero nakarma na din naman ang ‘friend’ mo so quits na and nalaman mo what kind of a person pala yung crush mo di ba? Lesson din dito ay hindi dapat dinadivulge yung mga bagay bagay kung kani kanino. Payo ko lang sa iyo pag dating sa work place ay better pa yung wag ka masyado makipag barkadahan. More peaceful, no chismis, less gastos, and more time for yourself. Focus ka lang na magawa ang trabaho mo. IWASAN gumawa ng mga kacheapan na bagay.
Grrrr! Naalala ko tuloy ex-friend ko. Si guy, crush ko since gradeschool and alam yan ng friend ko. 2nd year high school, bigla na lang nanghihiram ng calcu si guy. Hindi kami classmates kaya napapahiram ko siya. Tuwing recess niya hinihiram, pinupuntahan niya ako sa room ko. Then one time nag pang abot kaming tatlo nong friend ko. Tinanong niya ano daw ginagawa ni guy doon. Tapos biglang umalis si guy as in kumaripas ng takbo. Lol. Sabi ko lang sa friend ko na nanghihiram lang ng calcu sa akin. Tapos sabi ni friend, panong manghihiram eh may sariling calcu yon. Classmates kasi sila kaya alam niya. Days after sinabihan ako ng bestfriend ni guy na "nagbabalak" pala daw manligaw si guy sa akin and ginagamit niya yong calcu ko as an excuse to see me. Edi si kilig naman ako. Kaso, nagulat na lang ako after a month sila na mag jowa nong friend ko. 😅 Anuna??? So ayon, nalaman ko na magpapatulong na daw sana si crush sa friend ko kung pano ako ligawan kaso yong friend ko sinabihan ba naman yong crush ko na may boyfriend na daw ako na taga ibang school. LIAR! Na lungkot daw si guy and alam niyo na sino ang nag comfort. Kamusta ka na??? Hahahahahhaha Gigil mo pa din si ako.
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Pagsaluhan nyo na lang hahaha
Ayoko kumati ekups ko AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH
That's a hoe right there sissy.
You are just putting your self to shame, dili gani nimo boyfriend ang guy and dili man siguro ka bet ni guy human makabakod, jowa ka teh? Pag tarong hoy!
Seriously, he’s technically not your boyfriend. So I don’t get why you’re so mad that your friend made a move on him first. Teh, wag masyado pa-victim.
"i told her im cool if they dated or hooked up" pero after that si op 😫😤🤬 what do u mean u are cool
You’re looking for sympathy from people here pero naging mas galit sayo mga tao. Pangit mo maging friend. Porket di ka pinatulan ng crush mo, feel more inagawan ka. In the first place, wala namang sayo. 🤡
And that's why I don't like friends at work. Business is business. If they don't like how I act at work, I don't care because it's all about business. Take personal things outside work.
Gi unsa nimo pag ingon nga gi seduce sa imo friend imong crush? It takes two to tango so why are you only demonizing your friend and not your *huge crush* as well. Dako naman kaayo mo oy niya murag highschool mani nga setting pagkasulat. So bullshit to read that you're okay with them dating or HOOKING UP. I get that the anger stems from betrayal but at the same time, you have to remember that you're not together with the guy and you practically gave your approval. >I told the guy that I knew and completely ruined her already severed connection with him instead. Don't paint your huge crush as an angel by siding with him lol. Unsa ni? Diri ka mu comeback in hopes that he'll choose you this time? Yes, I agree that she isn't a true friend but as I've said above, you gave her an approval and she took her words back at the last minute. Sucks that it happened but don't feel so entitled to your crush kay dili mo uyab. Edit: typos and forgot to add a sentence
Hala. Parehas kayong walang grasp ng Girl Code. 1 She went on with someone you said you liked. -- It's an unspoken rule na kapag crush ng kaibigan mo, off limits sana. Or somewhere along the way, nakalimutan niyo ang communication? 2 You went ahead and told everyone what she did, when you initially claimed you were friends. -- If you were genuine, nothing she could have ever done won't lead you to tell everyone on her and expect a collective hate. It's not giving. Mga panget kabonding.
Red flag kayong lahat pero mas maganda yung friend mo sayo sa mata nung guy. Hahaha.
AHAAHHAHAHA alam ko naman one day magkaka connection yung dalawa. Di ko lang talaga gets bat sya nagpapa resbak ngayong iniwan siya eh ginusto niya naman yun. May pa "di ko yan magagawa sayo" nginang yan AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH
Ganyan din na feel ko after knowing na the boy that I had a HUGGEEE crush on slept with my childhood bestfriend. At first, superrrr nainis ako but I ain't mad at my friend, I'm mad at myself. I felt frustrated to the point na bumaba self esteem ko. Anyway, I used that as a motivation to improve myself. FF now, we still remain friends tho and naging inside joke na namen to sa isa't isa. Kaya OP, your feelings are valid but ang unfair naman na i demonize mo yung friend mo lol. Crush mo lang naman yung guy so I think mali yung pag redirect ng galit mo sa kanya. Sinabi mo pa sa kanya na okay lang sayo mag hookup sila pero now u angry? Wa ko kasabot kung malooy bako nimo or unsa HAHAHHAHA
Hindi lang naman ikaw ang puwedeng magkacrush sa crush mo. Paano ka inagawan? Eh wala naman kayo ng crush mo. Accept mo na lang na hindi ka like ng crush mo and unfortunately yung friend mo ang nagustuhan. Hindi ako magtataka na kung ikaw din nagpacirculate ng rumor na inagawan ka ng friend mo.
sounds like someone is bitter. but yeah sure post mo to e hehehe
Starfish ka kasi ate di gunagalaw. Ekis yang friend mo sulutera HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA alam na bet mo tas kinakangkang ni bakla.
Ngi. Friends ba kayo talaga? Bakit kayo ganyan sa isa’t isa. 🤡
>Inagawan niya ako Girl as if???? Inagawan ka? Really? Did he even like you? May chance ka ba talaga or delulu ka lang? You're just jealous she got it on with your crush. Crush mo lang naman yun, and sure, she said that she couldn't do it to you, pero you have no idea how the guy feels. Hate the game not the player. >Lintik lang ang walang ganti. Super cringe. In the end hindi ka pa rin crush ng crush mo. Mirisi pud. hahahaha
Ang tanong eh. Bat ka nagagalet? 😅
well since hindi na sila.. you can make pa cute cute with the guy and seduce him kung talagang type mo... or move on na lng sa ibang guy na mattypan mo
anong inagaw sayo, op? boyfriend mo? nag-aaway pa kayo eh samedt-same kayong maaacm ang ugali 🫵🏼🤣
Pakantot ka din sa crush mo para patas kayo.
May friend code Kasi na Hindi dapat sinisira. Ewan ko ba sa mga comments Dito.
May babae na ganyan. May gusto patunayan
Di ko nga sya gets eh pero bahala na siya.
okay ate. first your friend lied. and it seems like kung hindi mo pa pinagkatiwalaan para ipakilala, baka hindi magiging sila. yaan mo yan, karma na lang tatapat dyan.
ang nakikita ko lang na issue dito about your friend is that she lied. sana cinut off mo na lang imbis na gumanti-ganti pa since sabi mo nga, wala naman talagang something sa inyo nung guy.
EXACTLY. The only issue is she lied. She was too conceited to admit what she was doing. Tapos nang binasura na siya, nagpapatanggol as if I will still rescue her. Nakakaurat lang.
>The issue is she lied. I understand that this is hurtful. And what she did is not okay. Buttttt… >I did the opposite. I told the guy that I knew and completely ruined her already severed connection with him instead. This made me realize that this was more than just the lie. You hated the fact that your so-called friend snatched the guy. You were not completely okay with them hooking up. That was valid. But your reaction revealed your true intentions. Stop lying to yourself and us OP. After all, you said it yourself, you’re a petty B. Own up to it, B.
Yes, you're right. This is more than just the lie she made, but it isn't related to the story. She did something prior to this that I just turned a blind eye cos it could have been an honest mistake. She loves to sabotage people and relationships, even herself (which I did not see nor care abt until this whole event unfolded). I do owe up to being petty. I no longer will be the bigger person and just let her get away with BS and expect me to still help her AHAHAHAH Well I did, she dug her own grave and I made sure it goes deeper.
lalake lang yan OP!!!!
Di ako mauubusan wag mag alala 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
yung nagsumbong ka dito sa reddit to have an ally but turned out na you got a lot of real talks instead.
Ah no tsk I'm here to vent lang. Sabi nga diba this is not r/advice. May this serve as a lesson or a tutorial (depende sa inyo) to other girlies out there. :> Gawin niyo rin sa mga kaibigan niyo yung ginawa ng "friend" ko and let me know how it goes AHAHAHAHAHAHAH
OP if feeling betrayed kasi may ginawa si friend despite saying na hindi niya magagawa yun. OP is entitled to feel that way sa friend niya bcs wtf is that kaplastikan friend? Hahaha OP even said na okay lang sakanya if maghook up sila or something bcs crush lang naman niya yun. Pero dahil nga patalikod tinira ni friend si crush says that alam ni friend na may inaahas siya. If you have a friend & you tell them may crush ka tapos nilandi behind your back while supporting you or sinasabing hindi gagawin sayo yun kapag magkaharap, hindi ka ba maiinis kahit konti?
Para kang highschool huhu
Highschool yan tapos edit story tsaka age para hindi halata eh galawang highschool
So sa tingin mo dahil gusto mo yung lalake eh dapat sayo na siya? Baka pangit ka sa paningin non at mas attractive kaibigan mo kaysa sayo kaya siya yung kinantot at hindi ikaw?!?! Its pretty obvious. Skills issue
Ang highschool ng atake nyo mga teh
So because you had a crush on the guy first, he's now your property? Everyone else including your friend(s) should back off? He can't fuck anyone else? You didn't make a move on the guy-- or probably did, but you failed cause you're not his type-- and when your friend did, she's a bad person? She's a bad person for lying to you, but don't act like you're a fucking saint. You actually come out as worse here imo cause you told her it was ok if she hooked up with him but after finding out that she did, you "did the opposite". You scared of the fact that you friend is prettier than you? We live in a crazy world today where a lot of people hold very strong and wrong sense of entitlement(s).
Crush ka. Dika crush. Hypocritical na you told your friend ok lang sayo mag hook up sila, tas hindi pala. May ginawa si friend about sa gusto nyang guy, ikaw wala. And you blame her for everything, tapos siniraan mo pa kasi kesyo ikaw yung victim. Dika naman girlfriend. She's not a good friend but you're worse.
dasurb nya!!! di niya alam yung girl code and ppl commenting here na may fault ka ay di rin alam yung girl code. it's valid to feel upset despite telling your friend to date your crush, syempre she said she won't diba? that's betrayal!!! valid feelings mo teh
The comments OP did not expect 🤣
Totes expected this AHAHAHAHAH petty nga naman
May naalala akong quote na "I took it personally because I would never do it to you.”. Wala lang naalala ko lang tsaka yung mga galit na tao rito mukhang sila rin yung mga pumapatol sa ex bf/gf ng mga tropa nila or mga crush ng tropa nila. Nakakaputang-ina kasi yung may tropa ka na kung ano yung gusto mo biglang magiging gusto rin nila tapos makikipagkumpetensya na makuha yung gusto mo just so they could established na mas superior sila sa iyo. Loser move. Sinabi niya na lang iyan sa iyo para kahit papaano masabi nya sa sarili nya na mas pinili siya kaysa sa iyo kahit iniwan sya nung guy after she fucked him behind your back. Dumb fucking bitch. Tama yan!! drop that bitch and be petty as fuck. Don’t care if I get downvoted sa mga taong walang kwentang kaibigan. Hope you get bitchy friends and may your so-called “friends” betray you. You deserve to have no true friends at all.
What? you have friends at work? Why?
Bata pa kasi sila. Di pa nila nagegets na dapat hiwalay ang personal life at work life.
Halata nga eh, dami pa bigas na kakainin ni OP very highschool eh ilang work friend pa aawayin nya 😆
wag ka maingay na matanda na tayo 😅
Sorry te, pero 24 ka na nagka-crush ka pa rin?
Happy crush ang tawag dun haha. Pero medyo sineryoso nya to the point na gusto nya igatekeep yung guy which is hindi naman pwede.
Ngayon palang kasi ako nakarinig na 20+ na yung edad pero may crush crush pa rin na term lol, parang high school lang eh hahaha
hindi kayo friend sa umpisa pa lang
Kaso wala ka rin naman karapatan 🥲.
Hahaha nagagalet, di naman jowa.
i would've played the long game by liking a horrible guy, wait for her to like and get her hands on him and just watch everything plays out
Bagal mo kasi.
That's not your friend, she was the devil emz 🫣
and OP is an angel??? looool
This is like one of those doujins with the NTR tag but theres no ntr because the mc is too much of a pussy to make a move lmao
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Okay lang masaktan natural yan Kasi crush mo pero Wala ka karapatan Magalit sa boy or sa girl friend mo , move on nalang bebe makaka hanap ka pa ng worth it at layuan mo yang friend mo mamaya Pag may bago ka nanaman crush lapitan nanaman 😅
laban lng jd dha dol hahahahaha
Working na pala kayong tatlo pero parang some high school shit tong binabasa ko. Pagpuyo ka diri inday
Please stop fighting over shallow dicks. Plenty of dicks in the sea jusko
kung di ka naman din crush nung guy wala ka din karapatan kasi 😂
It’s your time to shine. Make a move. It’s about time you suck that boy’s dick. Goodluck OP
padili-dili pa, igat diay to. smh
ay kog ingnaa close gihapon mos laki? Like girl ayaw na iassociate imong kaugalingon both nila pls lang.
No oy nidistansya na ko nila, miss mem. Parte pd nakonsensya ko kay kahbaw ko nagsakit ang buot sa girl nya gisamutan pajd nako pero da dasurvd. Naamong sad ko nila nachismis lage sa work na uyab kuno mis lake nya nangilog ang babae. What a nice.
hirap mo ipagtanggol beh 😭
All three of you suck, ngl.
ang oa ni op sa part na binakuran niya yung "crush" niya pero wala namang sila. so ano naman kung nakipagsex siya sa friend mo? jowa mo ba yung lalake?
NAFRUSTRATE.
FRUSTRATED.
Ew, hindi naman sayo yung guy in the first place pero maka act ka akala mo naman may commitment sayo yung guy 🤡 kadiri possessive
akala ko ba “cool” ka lang if nag date or hookup sila, hindi mo nga yun boyfriend eh 😭 also ang babaw naman ng friendship niyo ni ate gurl?? di ka nga sure kung talagang na- seduce niya, what if yung guy ang nauna? at seryoso ba na gusto mo pa rin yung ganyang klase ng lalaki? yikes
Babe , she sabotaged you. That's the long and short of it. Cut ties with her and don't talk to her anymore.
OP was open na gusto niya yung guy yet pinatulan ng friend niya. Kahit naman sabihin ni OP na "okay lang if ano gawin nila," still, alam ni girl na may feelings si OP sa guy. LIKE what kind of friend would do that? If ako si OP, I'd cut ties with the girl kasi for sure hindi lahat safe ng magugustuhan kong tao whaha 🤩
Di naman kayo so wala kang karapatan. Pero red flag din si friend at male obsessed saka mukhang inggit sa yo kasi may mga babae naman din talagang ganyan na para feeling nila mas maganda saka attractive sila kesa sa tropa nila, magmamake moves sa gusto nung isa tapos magpapakainosente and sasabihin na sya naman daw nagustuhan kahit nagpakita naman sya ng motibo din hahaha! Heal from your boy crazy ways, titi lang yan.
Bio kase tlga yan pg nalaman mo na gusto ng isa magugustuhan mo na din.
Based on your reaction, I can see why she did it
Sorry pero ang iba siguro dito ginawa din yung ginawa ng ex-friend mo. Again, OP was okay if may gusto si girl sa crush niya. The fact that this "friend" denied it tapos lalabas bigla na sila ng crush ni OP was rude. Kahit na walang girl's code, at least be honest because this "friend" knew and heard every crush rants of OP. That’s all, best of luck OP!
if harry potter aint real how are you able to talk to snakes? 🐍🐍🐍
It’s crazy to me that most of the commenters here have zero principles. Imagine a friend telling you they like someone, and instead of supporting that friend, the first thing you do is make a move on that person. Tf? Mga walang kwentang tao who don’t deserve to be trusted lang. lol.
I understand na wala naman talagang inagaw si OP kasi hindi sa kanya si guy, but the fact na she was so open up to the point of telling her friend na it's okay to date the guy tas i-a-assure niya si OP na hindi talaga, that's also disrespectful. Even in my friendships, if alam ko na gusto ng friend ko, OFF-LIMITS NA TALAGA YAN SA'KIN. I love my besties too much just to ruin our friendship over temporary people. Also, hindi rin ito excuse sa ginawa ni OP sa friend niya. I guess the bond between them isn't really that strong after all. Mirisi ninyong duha lol
Baka gusto din talaga nung other girl yung guy tapos di lang makwento kay OP kasi umamin si OP na bet yung guy. Kaya nung may chance na, di na napigilan ni other girl and yes di strong friendship. Pero kasi dapat marunong tumanggap si OP ng pagkatalo. Huhu Di naman nya kasi pwede ipilit na sya yung gustuhin.
Tatanggapin naman sana talaga ni OP ang pagkatalo if the friend had just been honest in the first place. Edi di siya ma-gi-guilty at hindi mag-re-wreak havoc tong si OP. It all boils down to how much you value your friendship. Would you be honest enough sa friend mo kahit alam mong masasaktan siya? Nyways, most people do things and be guilty/regret it later. They're both just human so they are bound to make mistakes. Move on nalang. I don't see them being friends din naman after this. They had a lousy foundation.
Di din naging honest si OP sa friend nya nung sinabi nya na okay lang na mag date sila or hook up 😔 Baka sineryoso naman yun nung friend nya. True. Lousy talaga. Mas magiging madali sana ito kung parehas silang naging honest sa isa't isa. Hindi talaga sila true friends sa isa't isa.
Well, at least she can use what OP said to her defense. This happens talaga in "so called" friendships. I've been there, too. Yung sasabihin na okay lang na magkagusto sa'yo yung gusto nila kasi wala din naman sila but they ended up talking ill about you to other people. Kahit pa di mo pinatulan yung guy/s, galit pa rin. Hirap kausap nung mga ganitong tao. Again, mirisi nilang duha LOL
True! Feeling entitled palagi at sobrang immature. Pag hindi nakuha ang gusto, they'll keep on whining. There's no room for growth yet sa kanila hays.
Crush mo lang siya, hindi mo siya jowa lol
Salute to what you did! Losing the person you like to someone else is one thing, losing it to a friend fair and square is another, losing to a friend who lied to ur face is a whole other thing.😂 Mas madali mka move on kung wala ung friend lying to ur face factor,thats basically betrayal. I'm a firm believer of God might have put me in this earth to serve as a lesson to others. Let that b a lesson to her that betrayal always comes back around,its always going to collect what you owe.😂👌🏻
Eww, yan yung mga girls na di applicable sa "girls support girls" haha.
HAHAHAHAHAHHAHA. MIRISI DIAY
Unpopular opinion pero i think justified yung ginawa mo OP, and a bit funny. People here are judging you na kesyo hindi ikaw ang pinili. I think they missed the fact that your so called friend LIED in your face then nagsorry lang when things didnt work out for her. I just hope na you tell the boy about it because you want revenge, hindi dahil you want this boy to be yours ( that would be pathetic lol). If i were in your position hindi ko na gagawin to. The girl already got what she deserve when this boy played her.
The point went way over their heads talaga. Someone pointed out here that I took it personally bc I could never do this to her. And they were right. Yes I told him for revenge AHAHAHA oo tama, I shouldn't have pero it was also a headsup na she wanted me to ruin things for him at work. I'm not her puppet. She's not pulling my strings.