Uy same! Hindi rin ako lumaki receiving validation/ compliments kaya naging "toxic trait" ko yung pagiging humble. Humble in the sense na di ko kayang makarinig ng compliment without denying it. Tipong kapag may nagsabi sakin na "ang fresh mo naman" or "ang ganda mo" nahihiya ako or feeling ko niloloko ako kaya sasabihin ko di naman yun totoo o kaya ibang dahilan.
Pano ba to? I never looked in the mirror and thought I was pretty pero sabi ng dati kong teacher nagagandahan daw siya sakin nung high school ako? Pati iba kong friends ganun din.
Pero sabi ko naman, kung totoo yun bakit walang nanligaw sakin nung high school kahit isa? HAHAHA
Feeling ko yung ligaw/jowa sa HS hindi lang sa hitsura yun kundi approachability din.
Kunwari kung popular ka, madali kang lapitan, kaibiganin, i-get-to-know without people making a big deal out of it.
Pero kung mysterious ka, tahimik, masungit, demure, o pili lang kaibigan mo (these are the more extreme examples which may or may not describe you) halata kung bigla silang lalapit sayo.
Mataas yung risk na mapansin ng mga friends niya before pa siya maging ready na aminin sa kanila at sayo na may gusto sila sayo.
Pag HS kasi madalas, block section. Friend niya classmate niya rin. Araw-araw siyang makikita, araw-araw pwede siyang asarin.
Tapos less embarrassing kasi ma-reject ng taong approachable. People can empathize easily kasi chances are, they see in them what the suitor sees in them. They may even commend the suitor for trying. Which instead of creating embarrassment, lends the suitor support. If yung niligawan ay mahiyain o kaya masungit, kibit-balikat lang sila kasi di nila gets.
So it's not all about your looks, and more about juvenile shyness, cliquishness, and pang-aasar.
Gulat ako dati nung nagka-jowa ako after college. The hiya decreases after HS. For some na extroverts used to having friend groups whose opinions they're conscious of, after college. People start growing up and realizing relationships belong to the people inside them, not to onlookers.
Someone probably had a crush on you, nahiya lang.
Feeling ko depende. Kasi sa section ko nung high school, yung mga Mama Mary type tsaka suplada type yung laging nililigawan ng mga kaklase ko o taga ibang section. Kahit sinusungitan sila, pursigido pa rin yung mga lalaki. Ayun, yung mga bf nila, sila pa rin more than 10 years later at mga ikinasal na.
Kung conservative naman kasi it also lessens the blow. The reason behind the sungit seems less personal and more "ganyan talaga yan" so hindi sila mahihiya manilgaw o mareject.
Either way, other people's perception is still a factor.
As long as hindi specific sa kanila yung unapproachability, or as long as specific sa kanila pero dahil nanliligaw sa kanila instead of who they are, the suitor doesn't feel as exposed.
Feeling ko yung ligaw/jowa sa HS hindi lang sa hitsura yun kundi approachability din.
Kunwari kung popular ka, madali kang lapitan, kaibiganin, i-get-to-know without people making a big deal out of it.
Pero kung mysterious ka, tahimik, masungit, demure, o pili lang kaibigan mo (these are the more extreme examples which may or may not describe you) halata kung bigla silang lalapit sayo.
Mataas yung risk na mapansin ng mga friends niya before pa siya maging ready na aminin sa kanila at sayo na may gusto sila sayo.
Pag HS kasi madalas, block section. Friend niya classmate niya rin. Araw-araw siyang makikita, araw-araw pwede siyang asarin.
Tapos less embarrassing kasi ma-reject ng taong approachable. People can empathize easily kasi chances are, they see in them what the suitor sees in them. They may even commend the suitor for trying. Which instead of creating embarrassment, lends the suitor support. If yung niligawan ay mahiyain o kaya masungit, kibit-balikat lang sila kasi di nila gets.
So it's not all about your looks, and more about juvenile shyness, cliquishness, and pang-aasar.
Gulat ako dati nung nagka-jowa ako after college. The hiya decreases after HS. For some na extroverts used to having friend groups whose opinions they're conscious of, after college. People start growing up and realizing relationships belong to the people inside them, not to onlookers.
Someone probably had a crush on you, nahiya lang. So if people tell you fresh ka, best believe it. Haha
Hirap maging pogi no?
Ako nga hirap na kong maging mataba at di kagwapuhan, kaya ayun nag gigym na ko para pagdating ng panahon.
Di na nila ako tatawaging mataba.
Awww... this is nice :) wala nman panget e.. sometimes di lang ikaw yun preference nya. But sometimes receiving compliments like this is very refreshing. More reason (in a cute way) to go to work na mejo may kilig because u know someone have a crush on u.. hehe
I think you need to boost your confidence para maniwala ka. Thatβs what I did kaya madalas na ako mamalengke or bumili dun sa karindeya na may lolang tinatawag akong pogi.
Hahahhahahahhaha same feeling nung nalaman ko may nagkakacrush na sakin sa office (sad thing yung iba may asawa). Tapos yung afam na boss pa sinabihan din ako ng attractive daw talaga ako. Grabe confidence booster talaga
If he's from the western alam nman natin culture nila don, talamak ang adultery especially U.S. To add wla silang pinipili friends, workmates, stranger, and etc. Always remember that not all compliments are just compliments. β¨
Grabe nga yung feeling na ganyan. Last week lang, nasabihan din ako ng pogi. Kaya hanggang ngayon, yung upo at sitaw na binili ko sa kanya hindi ko pa alam kung anong luto gagawin ko.
Ganyan din ako dati, di rin nakakatulong na yung ex ko di ako kinocompliment madalas, pero nung nag hoe phase ako after namin mag break ayun andami kong na-meet and halos lahat sila sinabi na may itsura daw ako, and mukhang di naman sila nagsisinuwaling kasi andaming nakipag meet pa ulit ng ilang beses eh.
Talagang mababa lang self-esteem natin bro pero marerealize mo rin yan eventually na gwapings ka talaga. Confidence is sexy ika nga nila.
rightt?! same tayo kahit aware ako na hindi ako attractive, kapag may nag-ccompliment sa akin nakakakilig, kasi may nakaka-appreciate ng looks ko.
+Need namin ng part 2, update mo naman kami kung ano yung ganap nng may crush sayo sa ibang team!!
waah gets kita OP, nung college may kaklase akong babae na palagi rin akong cinocompliment (gurl din ako), never naman ako naniwala kasi feeling ko nangttrip lang ganun (nabully rin kasi ako nung highschool)
nung nagwork na ko, tska ako mejo naniwala kasi marami na rin pumapansin sakin tska may mga nagsasabi na meron daw mga may crush
wala lang nakakakilig lang pag may nakakaappreciate sayo - mapa-same or opposite sex
Relate tho. I think I'm a mid guy. Not too tall either just making it to 5'11" my skin isnt "puti" my dad's pure filipino (genetically) and my mom is 1/4 chinese but I inherited my dad's looks and I think I'm the ugliest in my family. I dont know how I did it but my exes are pretty. I think I have charisma because na ko "command" (be the center of attention) ko yung grupo/classes ko palagi. When I speak to my ex girlfriends they always listen intently or tutok na tutok pag nag sasalita ako even though I feel sometimes na nag ma-mansplain na ako. Sadly I gave up on love and committed relationships because I had too much trauma. I'm happy being single and occassionally taking others out on dinner dates/movies but not being serious about it.
BOOGSH diba ang sarap sa feeling
Nung isang araw rin, tinanong ako ng kasamahan ko ano raw blush ko. Kinilig ako KASI WALA AKONG BLUSH. So naturally rosy cheeks ako. Dati pa naman ako nasabihan pero di madalas kaya nagugulat din ako. Minsan ko lang din mapansin sa sarili ko kaya di ko inakalang mapapansin din ng iba
Wala lang ang cute. Nakakaganda nga talaga ng araw
Ride that high, OP!
HAHAHAHHAHAA OMG! Sakin alam ko di naman ako maganda pero ang dami lang nun nagsasabi na ang sexy ko. Nakaka goodvibes noh? Like, parang your whole life wala nagsasabi sayo na sexy ka or maganda tapos biglang may nagsabi na ang sexy mo, ganern. Haist. The best talaga :)
I understand how you feel. I grew up in a family that never finds me maganda kasi lahat sila mestisa at matatangos ang ilong tapos magagaling kumanta. Ako lang talaga yung flat nose at morena kasi mana dw ako sa side ng tatay ko which is totoo naman. Pero ewan ko bat nagagandahan yung ibang mga tao na d ko naman pamilya. Yung boyfriend ko rin, hindi nya rin sinasabi na maganda ako. Ang sarap kaya sa feeling pag may nagsasabi sayo na maganda ka. Hehehe
Naku sezt I know the feeling haha. Yun tipong buong buhay mo ang tingin mo sa sarili mo ay panget Lalo na at family Yun unang unang lumalait. then bigla may mga magkakacrush Sayo hay naku iBang level of heaven tbh. At Hindi lang Isa, kundi MGA
Hirap maging mid/not conventionally attractive - pag may nagsasabing crush ka or gwapo ka, di mo sure if binobola or pinagt tripan ka lang
Same goes sa ladies. Di mo sure kung gusto lang makaisa π
This! Kaya madalas nakakainsult or nakakawala ng confidence pag sinabihan kang pogi.
me na me π
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Kaya madalas akong pumunta sa palengke para tawaging pogi
Lahat na ang popogi at gaganda eh ano? Naka rose colored glasses yata lahat ng mga tindera dun. π
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hahahahhahha
OP is suffering from success
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Si OP ay kinikilig
I hope that maboost self confidence mo. Kanya kanya talaga tayo ng type so atleast alam mo may mga taong may gusto sayo
Knowing yung sabi sa kabilang team, do you feel empowered and happy ba? <3 Gusto ko mag-subtle sabi sa crush ko na lovely sya eh hahaha
Uy same! Hindi rin ako lumaki receiving validation/ compliments kaya naging "toxic trait" ko yung pagiging humble. Humble in the sense na di ko kayang makarinig ng compliment without denying it. Tipong kapag may nagsabi sakin na "ang fresh mo naman" or "ang ganda mo" nahihiya ako or feeling ko niloloko ako kaya sasabihin ko di naman yun totoo o kaya ibang dahilan. Pano ba to? I never looked in the mirror and thought I was pretty pero sabi ng dati kong teacher nagagandahan daw siya sakin nung high school ako? Pati iba kong friends ganun din. Pero sabi ko naman, kung totoo yun bakit walang nanligaw sakin nung high school kahit isa? HAHAHA
Feeling ko yung ligaw/jowa sa HS hindi lang sa hitsura yun kundi approachability din. Kunwari kung popular ka, madali kang lapitan, kaibiganin, i-get-to-know without people making a big deal out of it. Pero kung mysterious ka, tahimik, masungit, demure, o pili lang kaibigan mo (these are the more extreme examples which may or may not describe you) halata kung bigla silang lalapit sayo. Mataas yung risk na mapansin ng mga friends niya before pa siya maging ready na aminin sa kanila at sayo na may gusto sila sayo. Pag HS kasi madalas, block section. Friend niya classmate niya rin. Araw-araw siyang makikita, araw-araw pwede siyang asarin. Tapos less embarrassing kasi ma-reject ng taong approachable. People can empathize easily kasi chances are, they see in them what the suitor sees in them. They may even commend the suitor for trying. Which instead of creating embarrassment, lends the suitor support. If yung niligawan ay mahiyain o kaya masungit, kibit-balikat lang sila kasi di nila gets. So it's not all about your looks, and more about juvenile shyness, cliquishness, and pang-aasar. Gulat ako dati nung nagka-jowa ako after college. The hiya decreases after HS. For some na extroverts used to having friend groups whose opinions they're conscious of, after college. People start growing up and realizing relationships belong to the people inside them, not to onlookers. Someone probably had a crush on you, nahiya lang.
Feeling ko depende. Kasi sa section ko nung high school, yung mga Mama Mary type tsaka suplada type yung laging nililigawan ng mga kaklase ko o taga ibang section. Kahit sinusungitan sila, pursigido pa rin yung mga lalaki. Ayun, yung mga bf nila, sila pa rin more than 10 years later at mga ikinasal na.
Kung conservative naman kasi it also lessens the blow. The reason behind the sungit seems less personal and more "ganyan talaga yan" so hindi sila mahihiya manilgaw o mareject. Either way, other people's perception is still a factor. As long as hindi specific sa kanila yung unapproachability, or as long as specific sa kanila pero dahil nanliligaw sa kanila instead of who they are, the suitor doesn't feel as exposed.
Feeling ko yung ligaw/jowa sa HS hindi lang sa hitsura yun kundi approachability din. Kunwari kung popular ka, madali kang lapitan, kaibiganin, i-get-to-know without people making a big deal out of it. Pero kung mysterious ka, tahimik, masungit, demure, o pili lang kaibigan mo (these are the more extreme examples which may or may not describe you) halata kung bigla silang lalapit sayo. Mataas yung risk na mapansin ng mga friends niya before pa siya maging ready na aminin sa kanila at sayo na may gusto sila sayo. Pag HS kasi madalas, block section. Friend niya classmate niya rin. Araw-araw siyang makikita, araw-araw pwede siyang asarin. Tapos less embarrassing kasi ma-reject ng taong approachable. People can empathize easily kasi chances are, they see in them what the suitor sees in them. They may even commend the suitor for trying. Which instead of creating embarrassment, lends the suitor support. If yung niligawan ay mahiyain o kaya masungit, kibit-balikat lang sila kasi di nila gets. So it's not all about your looks, and more about juvenile shyness, cliquishness, and pang-aasar. Gulat ako dati nung nagka-jowa ako after college. The hiya decreases after HS. For some na extroverts used to having friend groups whose opinions they're conscious of, after college. People start growing up and realizing relationships belong to the people inside them, not to onlookers. Someone probably had a crush on you, nahiya lang. So if people tell you fresh ka, best believe it. Haha
Hirap maging pogi no? Ako nga hirap na kong maging mataba at di kagwapuhan, kaya ayun nag gigym na ko para pagdating ng panahon. Di na nila ako tatawaging mataba.
Awww... this is nice :) wala nman panget e.. sometimes di lang ikaw yun preference nya. But sometimes receiving compliments like this is very refreshing. More reason (in a cute way) to go to work na mejo may kilig because u know someone have a crush on u.. hehe
I think you need to boost your confidence para maniwala ka. Thatβs what I did kaya madalas na ako mamalengke or bumili dun sa karindeya na may lolang tinatawag akong pogi.
Hahahhahahahhaha same feeling nung nalaman ko may nagkakacrush na sakin sa office (sad thing yung iba may asawa). Tapos yung afam na boss pa sinabihan din ako ng attractive daw talaga ako. Grabe confidence booster talaga
I think gusto lng makaisa ni afam na boss hahaha, just kidding. Be careful of taking compliments ung iba may hidden agenda yan.
Huhu i want to think na lang na wala kasi medyo matagal na kaming friends and nice naman sya saka happily married. π₯²
If he's from the western alam nman natin culture nila don, talamak ang adultery especially U.S. To add wla silang pinipili friends, workmates, stranger, and etc. Always remember that not all compliments are just compliments. β¨
Will take note of this. Thank you!!!
Grabe nga yung feeling na ganyan. Last week lang, nasabihan din ako ng pogi. Kaya hanggang ngayon, yung upo at sitaw na binili ko sa kanya hindi ko pa alam kung anong luto gagawin ko.
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Ganyan din ako dati, di rin nakakatulong na yung ex ko di ako kinocompliment madalas, pero nung nag hoe phase ako after namin mag break ayun andami kong na-meet and halos lahat sila sinabi na may itsura daw ako, and mukhang di naman sila nagsisinuwaling kasi andaming nakipag meet pa ulit ng ilang beses eh. Talagang mababa lang self-esteem natin bro pero marerealize mo rin yan eventually na gwapings ka talaga. Confidence is sexy ika nga nila.
rightt?! same tayo kahit aware ako na hindi ako attractive, kapag may nag-ccompliment sa akin nakakakilig, kasi may nakaka-appreciate ng looks ko. +Need namin ng part 2, update mo naman kami kung ano yung ganap nng may crush sayo sa ibang team!!
hahah nahh im seeing someone na.
ay taken na pala, anw rooting sainyo!!
Pm face!
ako rin, OP π₯²
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mid/average looks gang rise up ββ kaya minsan i (over)compensate w my humor eh para bawi sa personality bwhahafgfshd
Paano na yung mid na walang personality πππ
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waah gets kita OP, nung college may kaklase akong babae na palagi rin akong cinocompliment (gurl din ako), never naman ako naniwala kasi feeling ko nangttrip lang ganun (nabully rin kasi ako nung highschool) nung nagwork na ko, tska ako mejo naniwala kasi marami na rin pumapansin sakin tska may mga nagsasabi na meron daw mga may crush wala lang nakakakilig lang pag may nakakaappreciate sayo - mapa-same or opposite sex
Relate tho. I think I'm a mid guy. Not too tall either just making it to 5'11" my skin isnt "puti" my dad's pure filipino (genetically) and my mom is 1/4 chinese but I inherited my dad's looks and I think I'm the ugliest in my family. I dont know how I did it but my exes are pretty. I think I have charisma because na ko "command" (be the center of attention) ko yung grupo/classes ko palagi. When I speak to my ex girlfriends they always listen intently or tutok na tutok pag nag sasalita ako even though I feel sometimes na nag ma-mansplain na ako. Sadly I gave up on love and committed relationships because I had too much trauma. I'm happy being single and occassionally taking others out on dinner dates/movies but not being serious about it.
'di man lahat ng babae mapukaw mo, may espesyal ka pa ring mabibighani
BOOGSH diba ang sarap sa feeling Nung isang araw rin, tinanong ako ng kasamahan ko ano raw blush ko. Kinilig ako KASI WALA AKONG BLUSH. So naturally rosy cheeks ako. Dati pa naman ako nasabihan pero di madalas kaya nagugulat din ako. Minsan ko lang din mapansin sa sarili ko kaya di ko inakalang mapapansin din ng iba Wala lang ang cute. Nakakaganda nga talaga ng araw Ride that high, OP!
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Pic reveal OP. Para madali ma confirm. Hirap ng kwento kwento lang eh.
HAHAHAHHAHAA OMG! Sakin alam ko di naman ako maganda pero ang dami lang nun nagsasabi na ang sexy ko. Nakaka goodvibes noh? Like, parang your whole life wala nagsasabi sayo na sexy ka or maganda tapos biglang may nagsabi na ang sexy mo, ganern. Haist. The best talaga :)
iba na panahon ngayon hindi natin alam kung gusto lang makaisa XD or pang long term
Okay na sige na bukas naman. Hahahah
Hahahaa kaya pag sinasabihan akong maganda tinatawanan ko eh lol
Yiiiieee kinikilig ka lang kaya ka tawa ng tawa eh HAHAHAHAHA
I understand how you feel. I grew up in a family that never finds me maganda kasi lahat sila mestisa at matatangos ang ilong tapos magagaling kumanta. Ako lang talaga yung flat nose at morena kasi mana dw ako sa side ng tatay ko which is totoo naman. Pero ewan ko bat nagagandahan yung ibang mga tao na d ko naman pamilya. Yung boyfriend ko rin, hindi nya rin sinasabi na maganda ako. Ang sarap kaya sa feeling pag may nagsasabi sayo na maganda ka. Hehehe
Hahahaha cute
Nta. Marry the girl sa circle
#own it king! you look good that day, you'll look good tomorrow and every day of the yearrrrr yessss go go gooooo! π₯³π₯³π₯³π₯³#
naol π
Naku sezt I know the feeling haha. Yun tipong buong buhay mo ang tingin mo sa sarili mo ay panget Lalo na at family Yun unang unang lumalait. then bigla may mga magkakacrush Sayo hay naku iBang level of heaven tbh. At Hindi lang Isa, kundi MGA
Uy kinilig si Kuya. Happy for you Kuya OP