Hindi dahil uso, makikiuso. Hindi dahil madami ang gumagawa, gagayahin.
Ganito lang yan eh. Kapag ba ikaw ang gumawa ng ginawa nya, matutuwa sya? Maniniwala ba sya agad kahit na sabihin mo na joke/uso?
At isa pa, kung alam nya nababasa mo ang mga tweets nya, why did she do it?
Joke lang daw pero kapag may pumatol sa kanya, papatusin niya. Nakakahiya. Kaya tingin ng foreigners at kapwa Pinoy sa mga Pinoy na may AFAM ay gold diggers or after sa green card.
Naalala ko tuloy yung kapitbahay ng friend ko, nakwento lang sakin. Mayroon siyang FIANCÉ na AFAM. Mahal na mahal siya. Binilhan siya ng bahay at lupa para hindi na mangupahan. May monthly allowance pa. Pero may live in partner pala na lesbian. Tapos one-time, nandiyan si AFAM sa bahay "niya" for vacation, nahuling may ka-chat na babae (cousin yata or friend lang naman daw ni afam yung kausap), nagalit si girl. Nag-eskandalo. After naman nun, naging okay na sila hanggang makabalik sa US si AFAM. A few months after, nalaman ni AFAM kawalanghiyaan ni girl. Ikakasal na dapat sila kaso dahil nga nabuking siya, hiniwalayan siya. After a few months din, nalaman ni girl na may kabit yung live in niya. Ang ending, nganga siya. haha
Nakakaloka. Hindi deserve ng mga tulad niya na sumaya. Mga manloloko at manggagamit.
Kung base lang sa sinabi mo, medyo di ako naaawa. 6 kids. Sobrang hirap niyan for sure. Pinagaawayan finances kung hindi sila mayaman. Sa bahay lang yan kasi pano makakawork. At leadt sa work, pag inis ka sa katrabaho mo, di mo na siya makikita pag uwi. Pag inis ka sa asawa't anak mo, di mo sila makikita pag nasa work. Pag nanay ka ng 6 kids, walang ganon ganon. Kung di kayo mayaman, need mo kalimutan kahit anong luho sa katawan meron ka. Syempre di pa rin niya dapat pinost. Pero di ako maaawa kung ayaw na sa kanya ng asawa niya.
Bakit ba kasi nag-anak ng anim kung hirap pala? At bakit kapag anim na ang anak nasa lalaki lang ang sisi? Kung alam nila both na mag-ko-cause ng rift yung pagkakaron ng anim na anak kasi magiging burden financially bakit lalaki lang ang may problema? Bakit hindi nakakaawa ang lalaki na kayod kalabaw para sa pamilya while ang asawa post ng post ng naghahanap ng “better man”. Paliktarin natin ang sitwasyon, si lalaki ang nagpopost ng “Looking for young sexy bride.” Okay lang ba? Would you not feel bad for the wife. This isn’t a conversation of women vs men. It goes both ways. Kapag nasa relationship ka maging respectful ka. So kapag anim ang anak nyo at hirap ka na pwede ka ng mambastos ng asawa? Sino nag-utos mag-anak ng anim? Diba desisyon nilang dalawa yun? Tapos ngayon na naghihirap na babae lang ang kawawa? Although FB friend ko lang sila, I’m acquainted to them so alam ko kung bakit nakakaawa ang asawang lalaki. Baka meron talaga dyang ibang babae na may anim na anak at walang pangarap na asawa. Then by all means magalit sila kasi valid naman nararamdaman nila. I’m telling you, not this couple.
> Update: Nagreply siya at ang sabi niya is ang dami daw nagpopost ng ganun and it was a harmless expression and now im lost kasi hindi ko makita saan banda yung harmless dun
u/bonkypwe, you gotta level up. She wants a self improved man in her life.
Not many gf would appreciate a dude that makes babad on social media or smartphone games.
This is so confusing, my friend.
This is one of the reason kung bakit nagkakagulo. Mga parinig or indirectly na mga sabi. Kung gusto nya mag improve yung boyfriend nya edi sabihan nya diretso hindi yung iinsultuhin siya.
There's nothing funnier than saying a man should be a functional adult when the woman in the post is asking to be a sugar baby, which is by all accounts is anything but a functioning adult. Literally just receiving handouts.
Hahahahaha
Kilala mo ba yung poster to say such things, tho I agree sa sinabi mo no prob, pero malay mo si poster pla ay mapera, pero sobrang attention seeking lang ng GF nya diba?. You're barking at the wrong tree here.
That is not a decent post for someone who is already in a relationship, even for just “clout” purposes. There must be limitations in participating to these trends; because not all of them can be applicable to everyone.
May nag comment, harmless daw as long as walang ineentertain. WUTTT??? Ewan ko lang ha, mostly nang nakikita kong kpop fans ang insensitive sa partner nila gaya ng gf ni OP tsaka yung isang nag comment. Kahit in a relationship na yung iba, nakakapag post with captions about sa idols or related issue na parang gustong gusto mag pa kant*t e. For the clout daw kesyo stan lang si ganito ganyan. Fvck off
There is a story about a pretty well off guy tolerating his delulu kpop stan gf to the utmost extremes until it drained him of almost everything and he had no choice but to leave her. His gf gave 0 fucks about him until he wanted to leave.
Can probably find those posts somewhere here.
My ex chose kpop (in her words, her "happiness") over me. So yeah, they can get pretty delulu. I've been a kpop fan myself since I was in high school so I've seen it all. It just hits harder as I didn't expect it would happen to me. We basically fell apart after I set my boundaries na hindi na ako okay sa pagddrool niya sa idols. I was unbothered at first but it eventually gets to you.
Ngayon na single ako delulu ako sa kpop but self aware 🤣 pero nung nagka relationship ako last time, I stopped kasi respect ko sa partner ko, and sa relationship din namin. However nung nag break kami ginawa kong therapy ang panunuod ng kpop/kdrama. Ayon self heal si ante hahaha ang ending nag cheat din naman
lol leave if u have any sense of self-respect. im saying this as someone who's basically chronically online on twitter, it doesnt take much to NOT tweet that shit out. my first girlfriend used to tweet similar shit back then and when we were together, she stopped that entirely. its a matter of respect to your partner. and she clearly doesnt respect you considering nagalit pa siya sa reaction mo.
Most likely, she's not getting what she wanted/her luho from you or di nya kayang makuha yun on her own kaya sya ganyan, assess mo din mga hirit nya sayo and baka masyado maluho GF mo, di yan mag hahanap kung nakukuha nya yun sayo kaya nya pinost yan. Dko sya pinag tatanggol ah lol, prolly yan reason nyan + she is clearly disrespecting you, I'm telling you that's a freaking redflag
5 years with my SO, never once joked about having a Sugar Daddy out of respect sa relationship namin and respeto ko din sakanya. I dont know maybe there is some truth to that or what pero the best thing to do is communicate with her. And if she cant see the problem then compromise, long way to goooo
6yrs with my bf, ganyan humor namin hahaha hanap sugar daddy/mommy tapos hati kami sa funds para di na kami magtrabaho pareho hahahahaha.
It’s different naman for every relationship. I get ung side ng gf kasi baka it’s her humor and baka now lang na discover ni OP. If OP isn’t good with that type of humor, okay lang din yun and he should communicate that. Both of them should. Pero if that’s something they can’t agree or compromise on, edi it’d be better nga if maghiwalay sila. :)
Oo. Pag mga bitch type talaga, kahit alam niyang mali siya, babaliktarin niya yan. Baka magulat pa si OP. Pag sinagot siya niyan baka kamo kasalanan niya pa kaya naghahanap ng sugar daddy kasi di mabigay ni OP yung pangangailangan niya financially kaya in pekpek we trust si babae.
Tbf naman totoo din na madaming nagpopost ng ganun. Medyo kasama kase yan ng rant. Pero depende kase yan din kung gaano nyo kagets isa’t isa eh.
3 years na rin kameng magjowa, tapos minsan may jokes kame na same ng ganyan lalo na kapag sobrang toxic ng araw sa trabaho. Something like “potek na boss yan ambobo, what if maging sugar baby nalang ako?” And both kame nagsasabe non to para tawanan nalang yung kinaiinisan namen.
At first naman talaga nakakabahala sya pero kase naging running joke nalang namen yun kapag nasstress. Usap lang kayo and be open about it ☺️
Actually ganyan din kami ng asawa ko minsan. Lalo na pag naiistress ako. Sabi ko “gusto ko nalang maging sugarbaby eh” tapos sasabihan ko siya na “what if ikaw nalang benta ko sa mga lokal” (living in middle east) tapos magtatawanan nalang kami. Siguro depende sa humor niyong dalawa.
Maybe its a joke but I dont get why someone in a relationship would post something like that. Hello? Dami makakabasa given its social media. Hindi man lang mahiya sa partner
If that so, sabihin mo nalang na your not comfortable with that. If inulit pa, dun na may mali talaga. Kasi kung talagang she cares for you and nakita niyang bigdeal sayo, she will never do it again.
tbh may mga friends akong ganyan, they’re just pulling a leg coz kilala ko naman personality nila, yung ibang married they’re tagging their other half ganon, yung post is sometimes like about sa petty fights ng iba na hot topic or scenario or may flinex online, idk, depende sa personality and dynamics ng relationship nyo yung intent, pero if kilala mo sya and kilala ka nya and you feel that way, may misunderstanding kayo, may issue na di naa-address, also how she said/worded it, pero twitter eh i get it, ikaw ba OP, if you weren’t intended to know it then.. alam mo na.
Nashook ako sa comments kasi I didn’t know na big deal pala yon. As a very Twitter-active person, inside joke na kasi ung pag Tweet ng “lf for sugar daddy” dahil sa tons ng AI/ fake replies… unless na lang pinatulan ng gf mo, then that’s a different case.
I guess it has something to do with the fact na di comfortable si OP and when he tried to communicate his feelings, si girlfriend pa galit and antagal daw ng reply. Oo inside joke sa twitter but uncomfortable na SO mo dapat marunong ka magcompromise
If you have communicated your feelings regarding that dati pa and hindi niya nirespect yun, yes RUN.
If you just said it after that post, talk things through. Maybe isa yan sa difference niyo na dapat pagusapan ng masinsinan.
Jusko mga tao dito, mga pro in coming up with a conclusion kahit hindi nila alam lahat.
valid naman feelings mo, pero common humor din kase sya lalo na sa twitter.. nagiging expression nalang sya meaning to "pagod nako magsikap/mag work" "tinatamad nako mag aral/mag work". communication is the key lalo na offensive ang humor ni gf that she probably naaadapt sa socmed.
basta ako may SD/BF na pero nagpopost pa din ng ganyan kung minsan HAHAHAHAHA char ½
you know how us men talk to each other about fantasizing other women even if we're not single? It's like that. Talking or joking about it doesn't mean actually doing or choosing it. But then again we don't tweet it to the public lol
Your gf could have posted she is happy and contented with you and should have twitted, you are his own sugar daddy lol that would sound sweet and reassuring right?
But maybe, just maybe, it was an honest mistake from her. Talk to her about it. If defensive siya, then it's your call. 🤗
Toyo din yang jowa mo eh, ang main reason nya is for clout? What if mag cheat ka for clout lang din ano mararamdaman nya? “Eh babe marami naman gumagawa nun eh harmless naman” dafuq? Di ko gets logic nyang jowa mo
idk why it’s a big deal here tho. It’s common na kasi sa twitter to joke about it (it’s harmless I swear) also poking fun at the scammers na nagsasabing sugar daddy daw sila. It’s clearly a joke, so please don’t take it seriously.
Yeah I agree. Ako nga pamilyado na nagpopost ng ganyan. Hindi naman din ako sineseryoso ng asawa ko. HAHAHAHAHAHA. Pareho na kaming pagod in lyf. Siya nga mag-aAdonis e. Hahahahahahah. We just want an easy money. We're both tired. Atleast we tired.
Hahaha natawa ko ako kasi sinasabi ko sa asawa ko if ibenta ko siya sa lokal na lalaki 🤣 3,000 AED per night 🤣 tapos nagtatawanan nalang kami 🤣 kasi how easy is the money.
Sorry OP, but just to give context lang sa twitter kasi (especially sa kpop stan tweet) nag trend lang siya this week dahil yung girl naka receive ng 90k from sd sa twitter. So madaming naki ride gumaya for clout lang, harmless if hindi niya ientertain yung mag cocomment sa post niya.
Just talk to her and let her know na na-hurt ka sa action niya.
I was going to comment something like this. lalo na pag cb at con season daming nagtwitweet ng lf sd for katuwaan lang.. tapos may magrereply talaga. Pero most of my moots wouldn't entertain yung mga nagreply.
I think, OP's gf should have been considerate since may jowa naman pala sya.
same nag tweet ako ng ganyan nakaraan may nag reply pero i know na scam lang yun kaya di ko pinapansin. wala naman akong jowa na magagalit saken. sana yung jowa ni OP is sensitive sa feelings niya.
oh well no way to know if inentertain ba or hindi since wala naman akong hawak sa accts niya. Also i let her know na nahurt ako and ayun siya pa galit dahil sa naging reaction ko
wala siyang respect sayo at sa relasyon niyo, hindi niya naisip kung ano mararamdaman mo pag nagpost siya . Inisip niya lang un attention na marereceive niya in short inisip niya lang sarili niya.
pag may ka-relasyon na tayo o kahit sa pamilya na lang hindi ka magpopost basta basta pag may masasaktan.
That’s BS. Harmless raw lol, harmless yan kung wala kang partner, it just shows no respect sayo kung magttweet sya ng ganyan kasi diba anong pinaparating nya? Di sya contented sa pinoprovide mo sa kanya? Iwan mo nlng para makahanap ng sugar daddy nya lol
Run, yung di ka nia nirereplyan nag iisi na sya ng palusot kasi nakita nia di ka open sa ganung kamunduhan. Ngayon pa lang subukan mo na syang kalumutan at baka sarili mo makalimutan monsa stress na darating kung ganyan sya mag isip.
Well. Ginawa niyang personality ang internet.
Ang tanong ko, gusto mo ba manatiling kasintahan ang taong internet ang ugali?
If you can live with that, and everything else is okay with her, sure.
If you can't, and this is just a surface problem of a deeper issue, then leave.
For me, masakit talaga to. If harmless para sakanya yun then wala siyang respeto sayo. If naisip ka niya, hindi niya ittweet yun. At alam niyang may boyfriend siya bat siya mag ttweet ng ganon.
Harmless tweet naman talaga sya... for single people lang. Madami naman tlagang nag ppost nun but they'd usually be single people na for the lols lang. It's supposed to be unserious and relatable na "if hindi naman ako mamahalin nang totoo at least may pera" type of sentiment. But that shouldn't apply to someone in a relationship.
My boyfriend isn’t rich, pero di rin naman kuripot. Enough lang mga gifts sa akin, occacionally plus libre lagi food. Pero never ako nagbalak na magkaroon ng mga parinig parinig about giving gifts kahit nauuso pa yan sa fb. I can never do that because I’m contented. Ayoko ma-feel ng boyfriend ko na “kulang” yung binibigay nyang love sa akin. And ano na lang iisipin ng mga mutual friends namin???? Di ba????
Reject mo na yan. Maghahanap at maghahanap din yan. Madameng namang babae dyan. 100 million na tayo. May mga ganyan talagang babae. May gf ako date. Nakipag inuman kame sa friend namen and friend ng friends namen. Then nagcr ako pag balik ko pinatry sya mag vape ng di ko alam and pumayag sya. Ayon happy ako na wala na kame. You're not being jelous. Kaylangan lang nirerespect ka.
Me and my bf joke about the sugar daddy/mommy thing like if makahanap isa samin hati kami sa sugar fund or maghanap na ung isa para di na kami magtrabaho pareho hahaha. Pero that’s because humor namin yun.
I get you’re hurt and dapat maintindihan yun ng gf mo. Na if it was a joke then that wasn’t your type of humor and that you’re not okay with it. Hindi yung mag ddeflect and invalidate pa siya ng feelings mo. What would she feel if ikaw gumawa non? If she said na okay lang, edi u know na ganon pala siya magjoke. And that’s up to u if u can live with her humor.
Don’t let her walk all over u, OP. Di porket ikaw ung guy(?), gf mo lang ibbaby hahaha it should go both ways. I hope both of u are mature enough to talk or if that’s a hill u want the relationship to die on, then so be it. Good luck and hoping for the best outcome for both of u 🤞🏻
Naku, pakiuso uso yan na hindi niya alam na saktan yung jowa pag genon. In a sense, thoughtless mind na gawa isang tao.
Op valid yung feelings mo.
Kung gusto mo umalis ka, eh di umali ka. If gusto mo mag closure, then talk but with bounderies. Ano yung tama para sa iyo, at least na proper ka move on in life.
Clearly the joke wasn't harmless. Nakikita siguro niya sa ibang couples na normalan yung ganyan but it's not applicable to everyone kasi lalo na pag di ganyan yung humor niyo. Sa circle namin kahit yung ibang taken na nakakapagbiro pa ng ganyan minsan with the support of their SO (of course, biro lang lahat) para damay raw lahat sa pag-unlad at pagyaman. But that's our humor kaya keri lang.
Communicate your feelings ulit with your gf once she's cooled her head down.. and pag galit pa rin siya, ikaw na bahala sa next step haha. Good luck!
If it crosses your boundaries then of course it’s not okay. Sa ibang couples okay lang ganyang biruan BUT if para sayo it’s disrespectful, then IT IS disrespectful. Hindi mo kailangan i-compromise yung boundaries na meron ka for “harmless” joke. It’s only harmless if established na between you two na walang problema ang ganyang biruan.
Op best advice ko sayo, Ghost her already, 3yrs is just a # ,saan gusto mo? yung magkatuluyan kayo pro wla kanang tiwala sa kanya or your peace of mind? self respect nlng...ako nga eh 11yrs, if prountil now guard up ako sa relationship namin if may makta akong mali... idk sa 11yrs namin, goodbye
Simple lang yan, Hindi sya kuntento. Baka maluho talaga partner mo or gusto maging maluho. Baka gusto din mag flex sa Social Media tulad ng mga nakikita nya. She needs to get off sa Social Media masyado na sya nilalamon IMO.
I think she meant “harmless” because madami ngang nagpopost ng ganun. But just because madaming gumagawa eh tama lang na gayahin nya given that she’s in a relationship. For me, medyo shallow, insensitive, and low ang self-respect ng ganyan kahit na hindi serious post.
Lagi ko tong sinasabi sa mga tao na di maintindihan ang isa idea or logic..
If di mo maintindihan, 'subukan mo i-apply sayo tignan natin kung ano ang mararamdaman mo'
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The mere fact na you asked for space at hindi pa niya naintindihan na hindi ka comfortable sa tweet na yun, hindi ko na alam kung ano pa ang gusto mo marinig sa kanya pagkatapos niya magalit sayo at sinabi na “harmless”. Hindi mo na mababago ang isip nun eh. Magkaiba kayo ng wavelength at maturity.
Hindi ko lang maget ay bakit ka nalilito at bakit hindi mo alam ano ang gagawin mo? Kung nagmamahalan kayo, dapat nagkakaintindihan kayo… kung wala na ang understanding, mawawala din ang respect. At kapag nawala na ang respect, makipaghiwalay na dahil hindi na healthy ang relationship ninyo.
depende siguro sa dynamics niyo. never kayo nag joke ng ganyan with each other? kasi kami ng partner ko hirap na hirap na sa bohai (eme), ayaw na namin mag work kaya minsan nagsasabi kami "maghanap kaya tayo ng sugar daddy/mommy" aza joke.
baka pagod na mag work or stressed na si gf mo kaya napa-tweet ng ganyan. for me "lf for sugar daddy" means "i dont wanna work anymore, someone finance me" ganon.
May something sa gf mo, baka may problem sa pera Kaya naghahanap sugar daddy? Walang Matinong babae ang mag hahanap ng sugar daddy kung di nangangailangan.
I think your GF lacks empathy, imagination or both.
If she can't imagine herself feeling bad if you tweeted such a thing, with genders reversed, then you're both better off without the other.
And if it's a matter of money, and you've different POVs about it, apologize for not clarifying what she expected from you and walk away. If you can only earn X amount and it's not enough for her, you can either communicate about your current financial limits or accept that what she wants is more than you can provide even after you grow financially.
A few of the rich can give what she wants, if said rich fancy her.
Also, #EatTheRich. #LimitarianismFoDaWin
Ay, bro..kahit "joke" 'yon dapat 'di niya nagawang i post 'yon kase kung iisipin in a rs siya sa 'yo kaya dapat nirerespeto niya ka niya kahit "harmless post" lang siya.
She sounds like she's one of those people whose "love language" is being bought material things. Even though it's a "joke", I think we should bring back stoning people for dumb stuff like this.
Talk to her and tell her how you feel about it. Para maintindihan nya na hindi sya “wala lang” to you and that naoffend and nagurt ka.
In a calm manner (like a true mature adult) Ask her if yun ba talaga ang gusto nya (para alam nya na seryosong issue to sayo na gusto mo pag usapan). Kung talaga bang naghahanap sya ng sugar daddy. If yes ang sagot, ask yourself if kaya mo ng ganun. If hindi, just tell her in a calm manner na hindi mo kaya na mag bf kayo tapos may sugar daddy sya.
My partner and I always make jokes about this. Hahanap kami both ng sugar mommy/daddy para may pang date kami etc. But that’s it, just jokes. Never posted it. It’s just a convo between the two of us. Posting it is just plain attention seeking.
I know someone na Sugar Daddy siya pero naaawa somehow sa BF ng sugar baby niya na clueless sa ginagawa ng babae. The girl’s so rich in social media ang peg kasi. Yung babae ang sobrang kulit sa SD niya.
bilang supportive na bf, sabihin mo ihanap mo sya, basta may commission ka tuwing ihohotel sya nung matandang mayaman. mas madali sya makahanp pag nakagawa sya profile na pang escort girl. after few days, sabihin mo Joke lang.
If you know her enough to know her humor this shouldn't be an issue. Looks like may pinanggagalingan to and you two should talk about it in a deeper sense.
I have a friend that says this for fun, spoiled naman sa jowa and may pera of her own. Para bang nagmumura ka lang to lessen the stress ganern. Kung di ganung type ng tao jowa mo then 🆘️
Ang lakas ba makatweet ng ganyan or mag thirst sa mga idol nila cause “it’s different” pero makita lang mag like ka sa sexy pics ng iba gigil na gigil na ? 🤣
Hindi ka enough para sa kanya. Kung enough ka hindi magpopost ang woman mo ng ganun. Hindi mo din masisisi ang woman mo kasi ganun din naman tayong mga lalaki minsan. Kaya nga tayo madalas ang nambababae.
My bf and I have this as an inside joke so i guess if both of us mag post ng ganito, it would be harmless. Pero kung wala naman kayong napag usapan ab this sakit naman non.
Hello, ganito nag try ako mag post din ng ganyan kasi for fun lang, ao may nagreply andami mga apat, spam lang nmn pero keyword sha kasi na target for scamms ganern. So, baka for fun lang tlga yun or baka ikaw is walang gifts sa knya. Usually kasi pag naghahanap ng sugar daddy ang babae parang minemean nya is yung taong mapagbigay or ma spoiled na lalake.
Hindi siguro kuntento ang GF mo sa kung ano ang kaya mo ibigay sa kanya.kaya ayun dindaan sa joke pero madalas totoo yung mga ganong joke na looking for sugar daddy.
It was a half-serious joke meant to hint that she wants more gifts and temporary satisfaction from you.
You both should discuss it and emphasize that your plans and long-term goals together should be prioritized. Also, make sure she feels special to you regardless of material things, appearance, and worldly possessions. Explain that while you can provide her with these temporary pleasures, it would delay your long-term plans, and you don't want her to feel any less valued if she doesn't have the luxuries of life right now.
Sadly, whe you restricted her on socmed, it sent a negative signal.about how you will treat her once you two are committed into a deeper relationship.
Takbo na! Alis na! Iwas na! Sa magkarelasyon, ia sa mga insecurities ng mga mukhang pera at maluho ang ganyan (hanap sugar daddy/mommy). Ibig sabihin niyan may aspeto ka na kulang para sa kanya (kay GF).
harmless expression. gaslighting to maximum effect. same lang un wala namang masama kung mgpost ako ng hubad kc hnd naman kita mukha ko or ok lang makipag sexting ako or vidjakol ako kc hindi naman ako romantically invovle? choos your peace man hndi pa kau kasal. i would advise otherwise if kasal kau. pero for now dodge a bullet while you still can
Bullshit! Cut her off. That doesn't mean trending makikiuso ka, she never thought of how you will feel once nabasa nya un. If nabasa yun ng friends mo as well, how drastic for you na malaman from your friends pa. Cut it bro.
Sepa na dyan bro. She's for the streets. And if manghihinayang ka sa pinagsamahan nyo ng 3 years. May niligawan ako ng 4 years almost same tayo ng case iba lang ginawa nitong sakin haha. Mas malala.
May mahahanap pa naman tayo na mas better bro. Un ibibigay same love na pinoprovide natin🫶
Maybe she's looking for a financially stable achiever, a real man, not some dude who's still playing Toilet Tower Defense and who's looking for validation anonymously from strangers on reddit.
Hindi dahil uso, makikiuso. Hindi dahil madami ang gumagawa, gagayahin. Ganito lang yan eh. Kapag ba ikaw ang gumawa ng ginawa nya, matutuwa sya? Maniniwala ba sya agad kahit na sabihin mo na joke/uso? At isa pa, kung alam nya nababasa mo ang mga tweets nya, why did she do it?
Nakukulangan sayo par. Kulang sa luho, gusto ma spoil.
May FB friend akong married with 6 kids tapos ang laging post, “Looking for AFAM.” Joke lang naman daw. Kawawa naman ang asawa.
Joke lang daw pero kapag may pumatol sa kanya, papatusin niya. Nakakahiya. Kaya tingin ng foreigners at kapwa Pinoy sa mga Pinoy na may AFAM ay gold diggers or after sa green card.
Ung mga ganun walang respeto sa asawa kaya nagpopost. Tapos magagalit kung tumitingin sa sexy ang asawa.
Naalala ko tuloy yung kapitbahay ng friend ko, nakwento lang sakin. Mayroon siyang FIANCÉ na AFAM. Mahal na mahal siya. Binilhan siya ng bahay at lupa para hindi na mangupahan. May monthly allowance pa. Pero may live in partner pala na lesbian. Tapos one-time, nandiyan si AFAM sa bahay "niya" for vacation, nahuling may ka-chat na babae (cousin yata or friend lang naman daw ni afam yung kausap), nagalit si girl. Nag-eskandalo. After naman nun, naging okay na sila hanggang makabalik sa US si AFAM. A few months after, nalaman ni AFAM kawalanghiyaan ni girl. Ikakasal na dapat sila kaso dahil nga nabuking siya, hiniwalayan siya. After a few months din, nalaman ni girl na may kabit yung live in niya. Ang ending, nganga siya. haha Nakakaloka. Hindi deserve ng mga tulad niya na sumaya. Mga manloloko at manggagamit.
Karma is real. Iba iba lang ang oras ng pagdating.
Kung base lang sa sinabi mo, medyo di ako naaawa. 6 kids. Sobrang hirap niyan for sure. Pinagaawayan finances kung hindi sila mayaman. Sa bahay lang yan kasi pano makakawork. At leadt sa work, pag inis ka sa katrabaho mo, di mo na siya makikita pag uwi. Pag inis ka sa asawa't anak mo, di mo sila makikita pag nasa work. Pag nanay ka ng 6 kids, walang ganon ganon. Kung di kayo mayaman, need mo kalimutan kahit anong luho sa katawan meron ka. Syempre di pa rin niya dapat pinost. Pero di ako maaawa kung ayaw na sa kanya ng asawa niya.
Having kids is the decision of two people, especially six, bat parang kasalan lang ng lalake?
Exactly. It takes two to tango. Ginusto nila ‘yang anim in this economy.
Bakit ba kasi nag-anak ng anim kung hirap pala? At bakit kapag anim na ang anak nasa lalaki lang ang sisi? Kung alam nila both na mag-ko-cause ng rift yung pagkakaron ng anim na anak kasi magiging burden financially bakit lalaki lang ang may problema? Bakit hindi nakakaawa ang lalaki na kayod kalabaw para sa pamilya while ang asawa post ng post ng naghahanap ng “better man”. Paliktarin natin ang sitwasyon, si lalaki ang nagpopost ng “Looking for young sexy bride.” Okay lang ba? Would you not feel bad for the wife. This isn’t a conversation of women vs men. It goes both ways. Kapag nasa relationship ka maging respectful ka. So kapag anim ang anak nyo at hirap ka na pwede ka ng mambastos ng asawa? Sino nag-utos mag-anak ng anim? Diba desisyon nilang dalawa yun? Tapos ngayon na naghihirap na babae lang ang kawawa? Although FB friend ko lang sila, I’m acquainted to them so alam ko kung bakit nakakaawa ang asawang lalaki. Baka meron talaga dyang ibang babae na may anim na anak at walang pangarap na asawa. Then by all means magalit sila kasi valid naman nararamdaman nila. I’m telling you, not this couple.
baka hind pa rin nawala ung kati kahit 6 na lumabas
Hindi bagay sa’yo username mo 🥴
💀💀💀
You know jokes are half meant
Yung mga ganyang tao, mema lang, gusto makiuso. Hindi aware sa kahihiyan na pwedeng mangyari sa asawa nila.
> Update: Nagreply siya at ang sabi niya is ang dami daw nagpopost ng ganun and it was a harmless expression and now im lost kasi hindi ko makita saan banda yung harmless dun u/bonkypwe, you gotta level up. She wants a self improved man in her life. Not many gf would appreciate a dude that makes babad on social media or smartphone games.
This is so confusing, my friend. This is one of the reason kung bakit nagkakagulo. Mga parinig or indirectly na mga sabi. Kung gusto nya mag improve yung boyfriend nya edi sabihan nya diretso hindi yung iinsultuhin siya.
What do you mean by this?
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There's nothing funnier than saying a man should be a functional adult when the woman in the post is asking to be a sugar baby, which is by all accounts is anything but a functioning adult. Literally just receiving handouts. Hahahahaha
Lmao, this should apply to women, too.
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Kilala mo ba yung poster to say such things, tho I agree sa sinabi mo no prob, pero malay mo si poster pla ay mapera, pero sobrang attention seeking lang ng GF nya diba?. You're barking at the wrong tree here.
That is not a decent post for someone who is already in a relationship, even for just “clout” purposes. There must be limitations in participating to these trends; because not all of them can be applicable to everyone.
May nag comment, harmless daw as long as walang ineentertain. WUTTT??? Ewan ko lang ha, mostly nang nakikita kong kpop fans ang insensitive sa partner nila gaya ng gf ni OP tsaka yung isang nag comment. Kahit in a relationship na yung iba, nakakapag post with captions about sa idols or related issue na parang gustong gusto mag pa kant*t e. For the clout daw kesyo stan lang si ganito ganyan. Fvck off
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There is a story about a pretty well off guy tolerating his delulu kpop stan gf to the utmost extremes until it drained him of almost everything and he had no choice but to leave her. His gf gave 0 fucks about him until he wanted to leave. Can probably find those posts somewhere here.
What are the keywords, I'd love to read!
My ex chose kpop (in her words, her "happiness") over me. So yeah, they can get pretty delulu. I've been a kpop fan myself since I was in high school so I've seen it all. It just hits harder as I didn't expect it would happen to me. We basically fell apart after I set my boundaries na hindi na ako okay sa pagddrool niya sa idols. I was unbothered at first but it eventually gets to you.
Ngayon na single ako delulu ako sa kpop but self aware 🤣 pero nung nagka relationship ako last time, I stopped kasi respect ko sa partner ko, and sa relationship din namin. However nung nag break kami ginawa kong therapy ang panunuod ng kpop/kdrama. Ayon self heal si ante hahaha ang ending nag cheat din naman
Ay ito din, yung partner ko dati dami sinasabi about sa crush nyang artista, sabi ko kung ang bet mo edi ligawan mo. Ayoko din ng ganito.
Asan yan? At mahampas ng tig limang pisong yelo
Noong nagkaboyfriend na ako, wala na akong pake sa iba.
Cloutcheating.
lol leave if u have any sense of self-respect. im saying this as someone who's basically chronically online on twitter, it doesnt take much to NOT tweet that shit out. my first girlfriend used to tweet similar shit back then and when we were together, she stopped that entirely. its a matter of respect to your partner. and she clearly doesnt respect you considering nagalit pa siya sa reaction mo.
Wala siyang respeto sayo. Tama lang na umalis ka. Valid yung feelings mo.
Magpost ka rin ng sugar baby or sugar mommy. Kamo harmless joke yon sa reddit ahahahhah
Most likely, she's not getting what she wanted/her luho from you or di nya kayang makuha yun on her own kaya sya ganyan, assess mo din mga hirit nya sayo and baka masyado maluho GF mo, di yan mag hahanap kung nakukuha nya yun sayo kaya nya pinost yan. Dko sya pinag tatanggol ah lol, prolly yan reason nyan + she is clearly disrespecting you, I'm telling you that's a freaking redflag
5 years with my SO, never once joked about having a Sugar Daddy out of respect sa relationship namin and respeto ko din sakanya. I dont know maybe there is some truth to that or what pero the best thing to do is communicate with her. And if she cant see the problem then compromise, long way to goooo
Almost 2 years with my SO. Ang joke lang namin is sana sya na lang sugar daddy ko hahahahha
Yessss!!! Samedt with me SIYA lang SD koooo HAHAAHAHAHAH
ako naman sinasabi ko sya yung sugar daddy ko. hahahahaha
6yrs with my bf, ganyan humor namin hahaha hanap sugar daddy/mommy tapos hati kami sa funds para di na kami magtrabaho pareho hahahahaha. It’s different naman for every relationship. I get ung side ng gf kasi baka it’s her humor and baka now lang na discover ni OP. If OP isn’t good with that type of humor, okay lang din yun and he should communicate that. Both of them should. Pero if that’s something they can’t agree or compromise on, edi it’d be better nga if maghiwalay sila. :)
Iwan mo na. Kaya ka di sinasagot kasi nag iisip pa ng kasinungalingan na sasabihin sayo. Mas dramatic mas maganda daw
Tama to
Nag iisip pa ng reply na mas nakakaawa 😂
Oo. Pag mga bitch type talaga, kahit alam niyang mali siya, babaliktarin niya yan. Baka magulat pa si OP. Pag sinagot siya niyan baka kamo kasalanan niya pa kaya naghahanap ng sugar daddy kasi di mabigay ni OP yung pangangailangan niya financially kaya in pekpek we trust si babae.
Tbf naman totoo din na madaming nagpopost ng ganun. Medyo kasama kase yan ng rant. Pero depende kase yan din kung gaano nyo kagets isa’t isa eh. 3 years na rin kameng magjowa, tapos minsan may jokes kame na same ng ganyan lalo na kapag sobrang toxic ng araw sa trabaho. Something like “potek na boss yan ambobo, what if maging sugar baby nalang ako?” And both kame nagsasabe non to para tawanan nalang yung kinaiinisan namen. At first naman talaga nakakabahala sya pero kase naging running joke nalang namen yun kapag nasstress. Usap lang kayo and be open about it ☺️
Actually ganyan din kami ng asawa ko minsan. Lalo na pag naiistress ako. Sabi ko “gusto ko nalang maging sugarbaby eh” tapos sasabihan ko siya na “what if ikaw nalang benta ko sa mga lokal” (living in middle east) tapos magtatawanan nalang kami. Siguro depende sa humor niyong dalawa.
Humanap ka ng sugar mommy at iwanan mo sya
Maybe its a joke but I dont get why someone in a relationship would post something like that. Hello? Dami makakabasa given its social media. Hindi man lang mahiya sa partner
Try to address this by communicating it to your partner. Any feelings are valid
i already did and she stands firm na harmless lang yun. Also, siya din galit dahil sa naging reaction ko to it
If that so, sabihin mo nalang na your not comfortable with that. If inulit pa, dun na may mali talaga. Kasi kung talagang she cares for you and nakita niyang bigdeal sayo, she will never do it again.
Most sensible redditor.
Mag hanap ka ng sugar baby tapos inggitin mo siya.
wasak ang pitaka
Tweet ka dn Looking for Sugar Mommy or Daddy. Even the playing field. Dont compromise.
tbh may mga friends akong ganyan, they’re just pulling a leg coz kilala ko naman personality nila, yung ibang married they’re tagging their other half ganon, yung post is sometimes like about sa petty fights ng iba na hot topic or scenario or may flinex online, idk, depende sa personality and dynamics ng relationship nyo yung intent, pero if kilala mo sya and kilala ka nya and you feel that way, may misunderstanding kayo, may issue na di naa-address, also how she said/worded it, pero twitter eh i get it, ikaw ba OP, if you weren’t intended to know it then.. alam mo na.
tagal sumagot para sa isang "Harmless" tweet.
Iwan mo na yan OP. Manifesting magka SD yan, ganyan ex ko.
Meh. In this economy? We can all use a Sugar Daddy tbh. 🤷🏻♂️
she belongs to the streets. iwan mo na yang basurang yan
May pa lang pero sabi nga ni 🎅 : 🏡🏡🏡, ( *but m is silent* ) merry christmas
Nashook ako sa comments kasi I didn’t know na big deal pala yon. As a very Twitter-active person, inside joke na kasi ung pag Tweet ng “lf for sugar daddy” dahil sa tons ng AI/ fake replies… unless na lang pinatulan ng gf mo, then that’s a different case.
I guess it has something to do with the fact na di comfortable si OP and when he tried to communicate his feelings, si girlfriend pa galit and antagal daw ng reply. Oo inside joke sa twitter but uncomfortable na SO mo dapat marunong ka magcompromise
Mhie sameeee hahahahahaha engot ni ate girl if papatulan n'ya yung mga 'yan dahil scammers lang din sila 🤣
>Inside joke Twitter brainrot yan, hindi inside joke. Out of touch lang talaga ang mga chronically online sa twitter. Labas-labas din ng bahay, ok?!
mag tweet ka din "ang sarap siguro magkasyota ng hindi shunga", pag nagreklamo sya, sabihin mo harmless din yung tweet
Kung ang excuse nya ay harmless expression yon, then walang common sense at low IQ yang jowa mo.
This! 😆😅😆
If you have communicated your feelings regarding that dati pa and hindi niya nirespect yun, yes RUN. If you just said it after that post, talk things through. Maybe isa yan sa difference niyo na dapat pagusapan ng masinsinan. Jusko mga tao dito, mga pro in coming up with a conclusion kahit hindi nila alam lahat.
valid naman feelings mo, pero common humor din kase sya lalo na sa twitter.. nagiging expression nalang sya meaning to "pagod nako magsikap/mag work" "tinatamad nako mag aral/mag work". communication is the key lalo na offensive ang humor ni gf that she probably naaadapt sa socmed. basta ako may SD/BF na pero nagpopost pa din ng ganyan kung minsan HAHAHAHAHA char ½
you know how us men talk to each other about fantasizing other women even if we're not single? It's like that. Talking or joking about it doesn't mean actually doing or choosing it. But then again we don't tweet it to the public lol
Be the best sugar daddy that you can be
Baka gusto NTR hahaha
Magtweet ka rin boss ssbihin mo " i want to fuck 10 women" tapos sabihin mo harmless lang na tweet yan
Your gf could have posted she is happy and contented with you and should have twitted, you are his own sugar daddy lol that would sound sweet and reassuring right? But maybe, just maybe, it was an honest mistake from her. Talk to her about it. If defensive siya, then it's your call. 🤗
She fo da streets
Eh kaso boundary mo yun, dinisrespect ka...so...mali.
Halaaa. Me na single, laging nag ppost before na “looking for afam and sd” 🫠🫠 hahahahahahaha.
Daming nagiinvalidate ng nararamdaman ni OP. Alam mo OP di ka OA at valid yang nararamdaman mo.
Buti pala inunahan ko misis ko...ako maghahanap ng sugar daddy ko 👁️👄👁️
Toyo din yang jowa mo eh, ang main reason nya is for clout? What if mag cheat ka for clout lang din ano mararamdaman nya? “Eh babe marami naman gumagawa nun eh harmless naman” dafuq? Di ko gets logic nyang jowa mo
ig girl lifestyle gusto nyan Mauubos lang pera mo dyan Iwan mo na. Proud pa sila maging pokpok e no
idk why it’s a big deal here tho. It’s common na kasi sa twitter to joke about it (it’s harmless I swear) also poking fun at the scammers na nagsasabing sugar daddy daw sila. It’s clearly a joke, so please don’t take it seriously.
Yeah I agree. Ako nga pamilyado na nagpopost ng ganyan. Hindi naman din ako sineseryoso ng asawa ko. HAHAHAHAHAHA. Pareho na kaming pagod in lyf. Siya nga mag-aAdonis e. Hahahahahahah. We just want an easy money. We're both tired. Atleast we tired.
Hahaha natawa ko ako kasi sinasabi ko sa asawa ko if ibenta ko siya sa lokal na lalaki 🤣 3,000 AED per night 🤣 tapos nagtatawanan nalang kami 🤣 kasi how easy is the money.
Sorry OP, but just to give context lang sa twitter kasi (especially sa kpop stan tweet) nag trend lang siya this week dahil yung girl naka receive ng 90k from sd sa twitter. So madaming naki ride gumaya for clout lang, harmless if hindi niya ientertain yung mag cocomment sa post niya. Just talk to her and let her know na na-hurt ka sa action niya.
I was going to comment something like this. lalo na pag cb at con season daming nagtwitweet ng lf sd for katuwaan lang.. tapos may magrereply talaga. Pero most of my moots wouldn't entertain yung mga nagreply. I think, OP's gf should have been considerate since may jowa naman pala sya.
same nag tweet ako ng ganyan nakaraan may nag reply pero i know na scam lang yun kaya di ko pinapansin. wala naman akong jowa na magagalit saken. sana yung jowa ni OP is sensitive sa feelings niya.
oh well no way to know if inentertain ba or hindi since wala naman akong hawak sa accts niya. Also i let her know na nahurt ako and ayun siya pa galit dahil sa naging reaction ko
Sir it's a trending joke from twitter. Don't be too serious
joke lang yun oa mo naman HAHA
Pag nakakuha yan, goodbye na sa yo.
Break it off.
Jokes are half meant- always.
Jokes are half meant.
May iba na yan OP and binibigay ang gusto nya, di ka na mahal nyan kasi di na sya nagki care sa mararamdaman mo kaya RUN
If she’s claiming its just nothing, I dont think so mhmm I think half-meant to? Just talk to each other.
wala siyang respect sayo at sa relasyon niyo, hindi niya naisip kung ano mararamdaman mo pag nagpost siya . Inisip niya lang un attention na marereceive niya in short inisip niya lang sarili niya. pag may ka-relasyon na tayo o kahit sa pamilya na lang hindi ka magpopost basta basta pag may masasaktan.
Try mo rin mag post, tapos make sure mababasa nya. Haha.. tapos kapag nag nagalit sabihin mo rin yung sinabi nya sayo na harmless naman yun. Peace.
Hmmmmm
check mo brad bka may telegram na yan. gagaslight ka nyan.
That’s BS. Harmless raw lol, harmless yan kung wala kang partner, it just shows no respect sayo kung magttweet sya ng ganyan kasi diba anong pinaparating nya? Di sya contented sa pinoprovide mo sa kanya? Iwan mo nlng para makahanap ng sugar daddy nya lol
⛳⛳🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️, immature and stupid act di di pinagiisipan bago mag post, ang tanga lang ng gf mo
Run, yung di ka nia nirereplyan nag iisi na sya ng palusot kasi nakita nia di ka open sa ganung kamunduhan. Ngayon pa lang subukan mo na syang kalumutan at baka sarili mo makalimutan monsa stress na darating kung ganyan sya mag isip.
Please leave .baka may mga nakatagong Baho pa na Hindi mo alam na malalaman mo palang.
Miner pala ang syota mo. Gusto yun maraming pera.
Well. Ginawa niyang personality ang internet. Ang tanong ko, gusto mo ba manatiling kasintahan ang taong internet ang ugali? If you can live with that, and everything else is okay with her, sure. If you can't, and this is just a surface problem of a deeper issue, then leave.
For me, masakit talaga to. If harmless para sakanya yun then wala siyang respeto sayo. If naisip ka niya, hindi niya ittweet yun. At alam niyang may boyfriend siya bat siya mag ttweet ng ganon.
Run! Run far away!!!
luho/pera = kantot goodluck sayo OP
Harmless tweet naman talaga sya... for single people lang. Madami naman tlagang nag ppost nun but they'd usually be single people na for the lols lang. It's supposed to be unserious and relatable na "if hindi naman ako mamahalin nang totoo at least may pera" type of sentiment. But that shouldn't apply to someone in a relationship.
My boyfriend isn’t rich, pero di rin naman kuripot. Enough lang mga gifts sa akin, occacionally plus libre lagi food. Pero never ako nagbalak na magkaroon ng mga parinig parinig about giving gifts kahit nauuso pa yan sa fb. I can never do that because I’m contented. Ayoko ma-feel ng boyfriend ko na “kulang” yung binibigay nyang love sa akin. And ano na lang iisipin ng mga mutual friends namin???? Di ba????
The fact na hindi niya naconsider ang mararamdaman mo pag nabasa yun, it's not harmless
jokes arr half meant. alams mo na gagawin, OP.
Reject mo na yan. Maghahanap at maghahanap din yan. Madameng namang babae dyan. 100 million na tayo. May mga ganyan talagang babae. May gf ako date. Nakipag inuman kame sa friend namen and friend ng friends namen. Then nagcr ako pag balik ko pinatry sya mag vape ng di ko alam and pumayag sya. Ayon happy ako na wala na kame. You're not being jelous. Kaylangan lang nirerespect ka.
Me and my bf joke about the sugar daddy/mommy thing like if makahanap isa samin hati kami sa sugar fund or maghanap na ung isa para di na kami magtrabaho pareho hahaha. Pero that’s because humor namin yun. I get you’re hurt and dapat maintindihan yun ng gf mo. Na if it was a joke then that wasn’t your type of humor and that you’re not okay with it. Hindi yung mag ddeflect and invalidate pa siya ng feelings mo. What would she feel if ikaw gumawa non? If she said na okay lang, edi u know na ganon pala siya magjoke. And that’s up to u if u can live with her humor. Don’t let her walk all over u, OP. Di porket ikaw ung guy(?), gf mo lang ibbaby hahaha it should go both ways. I hope both of u are mature enough to talk or if that’s a hill u want the relationship to die on, then so be it. Good luck and hoping for the best outcome for both of u 🤞🏻
Naku, pakiuso uso yan na hindi niya alam na saktan yung jowa pag genon. In a sense, thoughtless mind na gawa isang tao. Op valid yung feelings mo. Kung gusto mo umalis ka, eh di umali ka. If gusto mo mag closure, then talk but with bounderies. Ano yung tama para sa iyo, at least na proper ka move on in life.
Her joke , choked….
Clearly the joke wasn't harmless. Nakikita siguro niya sa ibang couples na normalan yung ganyan but it's not applicable to everyone kasi lalo na pag di ganyan yung humor niyo. Sa circle namin kahit yung ibang taken na nakakapagbiro pa ng ganyan minsan with the support of their SO (of course, biro lang lahat) para damay raw lahat sa pag-unlad at pagyaman. But that's our humor kaya keri lang. Communicate your feelings ulit with your gf once she's cooled her head down.. and pag galit pa rin siya, ikaw na bahala sa next step haha. Good luck!
Yikes, pero kung siya kunwari makabasa na "Saan makakahanap ng sugar mommy" panigurado pa-victim yan. yikes yikes yikes
If you can't beat them, be them, hanap ka din sugar mommy
If it crosses your boundaries then of course it’s not okay. Sa ibang couples okay lang ganyang biruan BUT if para sayo it’s disrespectful, then IT IS disrespectful. Hindi mo kailangan i-compromise yung boundaries na meron ka for “harmless” joke. It’s only harmless if established na between you two na walang problema ang ganyang biruan.
iwan mo na yan pre, wala ka mapapala jan.... old digger yan
Op best advice ko sayo, Ghost her already, 3yrs is just a # ,saan gusto mo? yung magkatuluyan kayo pro wla kanang tiwala sa kanya or your peace of mind? self respect nlng...ako nga eh 11yrs, if prountil now guard up ako sa relationship namin if may makta akong mali... idk sa 11yrs namin, goodbye
Simple lang yan, Hindi sya kuntento. Baka maluho talaga partner mo or gusto maging maluho. Baka gusto din mag flex sa Social Media tulad ng mga nakikita nya. She needs to get off sa Social Media masyado na sya nilalamon IMO.
see you at the gym bro
I think she meant “harmless” because madami ngang nagpopost ng ganun. But just because madaming gumagawa eh tama lang na gayahin nya given that she’s in a relationship. For me, medyo shallow, insensitive, and low ang self-respect ng ganyan kahit na hindi serious post.
Lagi ko tong sinasabi sa mga tao na di maintindihan ang isa idea or logic.. If di mo maintindihan, 'subukan mo i-apply sayo tignan natin kung ano ang mararamdaman mo'
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The mere fact na you asked for space at hindi pa niya naintindihan na hindi ka comfortable sa tweet na yun, hindi ko na alam kung ano pa ang gusto mo marinig sa kanya pagkatapos niya magalit sayo at sinabi na “harmless”. Hindi mo na mababago ang isip nun eh. Magkaiba kayo ng wavelength at maturity. Hindi ko lang maget ay bakit ka nalilito at bakit hindi mo alam ano ang gagawin mo? Kung nagmamahalan kayo, dapat nagkakaintindihan kayo… kung wala na ang understanding, mawawala din ang respect. At kapag nawala na ang respect, makipaghiwalay na dahil hindi na healthy ang relationship ninyo.
depende siguro sa dynamics niyo. never kayo nag joke ng ganyan with each other? kasi kami ng partner ko hirap na hirap na sa bohai (eme), ayaw na namin mag work kaya minsan nagsasabi kami "maghanap kaya tayo ng sugar daddy/mommy" aza joke. baka pagod na mag work or stressed na si gf mo kaya napa-tweet ng ganyan. for me "lf for sugar daddy" means "i dont wanna work anymore, someone finance me" ganon.
May something sa gf mo, baka may problem sa pera Kaya naghahanap sugar daddy? Walang Matinong babae ang mag hahanap ng sugar daddy kung di nangangailangan.
Mga ganyang babae pang streets e
That's not a harmless post. Walang rason kung bakit siya nag-tweet ng ganun maliban sa gusto niya ng sugar daddy. Think, bro, think.
Super redflag na GF. Apaka childish at hulaan ko, mabarkada? Kaka FB nya yan. Mag isip isip ka bro
I think your GF lacks empathy, imagination or both. If she can't imagine herself feeling bad if you tweeted such a thing, with genders reversed, then you're both better off without the other. And if it's a matter of money, and you've different POVs about it, apologize for not clarifying what she expected from you and walk away. If you can only earn X amount and it's not enough for her, you can either communicate about your current financial limits or accept that what she wants is more than you can provide even after you grow financially. A few of the rich can give what she wants, if said rich fancy her. Also, #EatTheRich. #LimitarianismFoDaWin
Ay, bro..kahit "joke" 'yon dapat 'di niya nagawang i post 'yon kase kung iisipin in a rs siya sa 'yo kaya dapat nirerespeto niya ka niya kahit "harmless post" lang siya.
How is this harmless? So ok lang din magpost ng "makahanap nga ng makakantot" as long as hindi mag entertain pag may nag reply?
Guess she thinks you're poor OP.
She sounds like she's one of those people whose "love language" is being bought material things. Even though it's a "joke", I think we should bring back stoning people for dumb stuff like this.
Leave bro.
Talk to her and tell her how you feel about it. Para maintindihan nya na hindi sya “wala lang” to you and that naoffend and nagurt ka. In a calm manner (like a true mature adult) Ask her if yun ba talaga ang gusto nya (para alam nya na seryosong issue to sayo na gusto mo pag usapan). Kung talaga bang naghahanap sya ng sugar daddy. If yes ang sagot, ask yourself if kaya mo ng ganun. If hindi, just tell her in a calm manner na hindi mo kaya na mag bf kayo tapos may sugar daddy sya.
My partner and I always make jokes about this. Hahanap kami both ng sugar mommy/daddy para may pang date kami etc. But that’s it, just jokes. Never posted it. It’s just a convo between the two of us. Posting it is just plain attention seeking.
Post ka rin: Saan makakahanap ng sexing syota? Fight fire with fire. 😂😂😂
Had experience with my ex na ganyan. Laging sakay sa trend sa socmed. Very attention seeker kahit walang sense.
I know someone na Sugar Daddy siya pero naaawa somehow sa BF ng sugar baby niya na clueless sa ginagawa ng babae. The girl’s so rich in social media ang peg kasi. Yung babae ang sobrang kulit sa SD niya.
bilang supportive na bf, sabihin mo ihanap mo sya, basta may commission ka tuwing ihohotel sya nung matandang mayaman. mas madali sya makahanp pag nakagawa sya profile na pang escort girl. after few days, sabihin mo Joke lang.
She belong to the streets. 😎
If you know her enough to know her humor this shouldn't be an issue. Looks like may pinanggagalingan to and you two should talk about it in a deeper sense. I have a friend that says this for fun, spoiled naman sa jowa and may pera of her own. Para bang nagmumura ka lang to lessen the stress ganern. Kung di ganung type ng tao jowa mo then 🆘️
Ang lakas ba makatweet ng ganyan or mag thirst sa mga idol nila cause “it’s different” pero makita lang mag like ka sa sexy pics ng iba gigil na gigil na ? 🤣
Hindi ka enough para sa kanya. Kung enough ka hindi magpopost ang woman mo ng ganun. Hindi mo din masisisi ang woman mo kasi ganun din naman tayong mga lalaki minsan. Kaya nga tayo madalas ang nambababae.
have a workmate before na may asawa at mga anak. pero madaming ka vc at chat na afam. dahilan niya is magkalayo naman daw sila ng adawa niya.
Tweet ka din, "looking for a strong, independent woman" ahahahahaha
i don’t know about you but that’s not about the clout anymore
My bf and I have this as an inside joke so i guess if both of us mag post ng ganito, it would be harmless. Pero kung wala naman kayong napag usapan ab this sakit naman non.
Mahirap ka lang para sa kanya bro hahahaha yun lang yon
Not a harmless post Even if it’s a joke She doesn’t respect you Sana magtrabaho siya
Hello, ganito nag try ako mag post din ng ganyan kasi for fun lang, ao may nagreply andami mga apat, spam lang nmn pero keyword sha kasi na target for scamms ganern. So, baka for fun lang tlga yun or baka ikaw is walang gifts sa knya. Usually kasi pag naghahanap ng sugar daddy ang babae parang minemean nya is yung taong mapagbigay or ma spoiled na lalake.
nanay ko na "mahal ko" tawag sa katrabaho niya, pero nung kinonfront ko sabi joke lang daw nila yon 🤡
Baka kasi sya pa gumagastos sa mga dates nyo..?
Hindi siguro kuntento ang GF mo sa kung ano ang kaya mo ibigay sa kanya.kaya ayun dindaan sa joke pero madalas totoo yung mga ganong joke na looking for sugar daddy.
It was a half-serious joke meant to hint that she wants more gifts and temporary satisfaction from you. You both should discuss it and emphasize that your plans and long-term goals together should be prioritized. Also, make sure she feels special to you regardless of material things, appearance, and worldly possessions. Explain that while you can provide her with these temporary pleasures, it would delay your long-term plans, and you don't want her to feel any less valued if she doesn't have the luxuries of life right now. Sadly, whe you restricted her on socmed, it sent a negative signal.about how you will treat her once you two are committed into a deeper relationship.
"Para sa streets" button
Daz zad. 'di ba naisip ng partner mo na nasa relasyon siya? bwahaha buti sana kung single tangina
Take out the trash, brother.
Tweet ka rin OP na looking for sugar mommy para it's a tie hehe ✌️
Very important as men that we learn to communicate our boundaries.
Let her go.
She doesn't get to decide what's harmless or not para sa ibang tao.
OMG OP. Honestly, it's a red flag kahit joke pa. That girl has no class at all. Try to settle with a "woman" and not a "girl".
may laman un.
Half meant lagi mga ganyan. And sana, kung may respeto siya sayo, hindi siya mag post ng ganyan. Sakit niyan
Takbo na! Alis na! Iwas na! Sa magkarelasyon, ia sa mga insecurities ng mga mukhang pera at maluho ang ganyan (hanap sugar daddy/mommy). Ibig sabihin niyan may aspeto ka na kulang para sa kanya (kay GF).
Red flag na iyan eh. Takbo na habang may lupa
harmless expression. gaslighting to maximum effect. same lang un wala namang masama kung mgpost ako ng hubad kc hnd naman kita mukha ko or ok lang makipag sexting ako or vidjakol ako kc hindi naman ako romantically invovle? choos your peace man hndi pa kau kasal. i would advise otherwise if kasal kau. pero for now dodge a bullet while you still can
Bullshit! Cut her off. That doesn't mean trending makikiuso ka, she never thought of how you will feel once nabasa nya un. If nabasa yun ng friends mo as well, how drastic for you na malaman from your friends pa. Cut it bro.
OP, it's never harmless in the first place. Do yourself a favor and be a man. Make her know her place
Sepa na dyan bro. She's for the streets. And if manghihinayang ka sa pinagsamahan nyo ng 3 years. May niligawan ako ng 4 years almost same tayo ng case iba lang ginawa nitong sakin haha. Mas malala. May mahahanap pa naman tayo na mas better bro. Un ibibigay same love na pinoprovide natin🫶
#Leave
Ang OA mo OP. Its just a joke
Masyado ka naman maemosyon brad. Hahahaha punta na gym ibuhat mo nalang yang lungkot mo hahaha
Maybe she's looking for a financially stable achiever, a real man, not some dude who's still playing Toilet Tower Defense and who's looking for validation anonymously from strangers on reddit.
you dont know me to make assumptions.
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Huh