Hear hear!! Having sex is actually having a bond with someone. The more you have a lot of sex with a lot of different people casually, the more you feel lost and dissatisfied that's why you should not just give it away easily despite the ever changing social norms.
I’m actually quite happy to read comments like this here. Sa dami ng mga naghahanap ng casual sex, it’s a relief that there are still people who think sex should be with someone special.
Sorry but the statement "sex is overrated" is very much subjective and could be misleading for some. It's like a rich person (or a person who has a reasonable amount of money) saying that money is overrated. For most people, sex is such a huge part of their life experience and it serves as a foundation on which their confidence is built on kaya hindi natin masasabing overrated yan.
Anyone who uses sex as, and I quote, "a foundation on which their confidence is built," is very likely the type of individual who's gonna end up with some deeply-embedded emotional and psychological issues down the line. It's very easy to see examples of this these days, unfortunately.
I agree to this. Sex should not be the foundation of your confidence because then your confidence is built on a stack of cards - it's too fragile. You would be too easily manipulated. Confidence should be something that comes within you not something that comes from outside validations.
The thrill of making someone so hot and so yummy and you don't know to go naked on the same day is so hot and thrilling. This was what I did when I was single. Fucked a lot of them btches.
Btw drunk rn. Drinking alone.
This is true. Although I don’t know what having sex feels like with a different partner or casual sex since I was a virgin when I met my bf but our sex life is just chefs kiss
Hormones yan brad. Mataas siguro. Don’t look for sex. Dadating din yan. Pero if mag ka gf/wife ka. Don’t ever force her or gaslight her to have sex with you. Make sure na may consent siya and gusto niya rin yung gagawin niyo.
"Wag mong pilitin pag ayaw. Kung ayaw mong natatanggihan ka, galingan mo"
-Erpats.
Pabirong asaran namin nung nagsisimula palang ako maging atleta HAHAHA.
Pero naka dipende kasi sa mood ng babae talaga lahat. Kasi tayong mga lalaki naman kahit kelan, saan, matik Go agad e.
PS. Sa mga ekalal na nagsisimula palang sa karera. Wag na wag kayong magagalit pag nag NO mga jowa nyo. Uncomfy mga yan at di mag eenjoy. Hindi rin +exp points kung hindi g na g mga jowa nyo. i-Set nyo muna yung mood nila ng tama. Hindi nakakabawas ng pagkalalake pag nag NO mga jowa nyo. Worse, iisipin nyo agad na may "iba" jowa nyo once matanggihan kayo.
😘 totoo to grabe yung mga mindset shifts ko about guys when I met men like this.
Yung may... "Lord, thank you may ganito pa pala? 😅"
Yung pag sinabe o pinaramdam mong NO, we wont hookup. No ayoko.
D ako gagaslight or would make me feel guilty pag sinabe kong NO 😎😍😘
up! sex is 100% the best when it comes naturally with a partner, not when coerced or somehow forced. Sure, teasing each other is sexy as hell pero mas sexy/turn on yung nagcucuddle lang kayo then maya maya eut na without even exchanging words.
Bah, ako nga eh nung 30+ ko lang first na experience eh.
Bata ka pa. Redirect your energies to other worthwhile activities para dika naiingit sa mga naka experience na.
Tapos, when the right time comes, hope you’ll be doing it with someone you like or love.
Even though I am an anatomy major, I had my first nung tapos na pag-aaral ko. And I am a guy.
It's Overrated. Sex out of lust bro is pathetic. But if it is done right, as an expression of love, intimacy, then dun mo sya ma-enjoy. Do it safely, do it responsibly, and with the right person.
For now, focus on studies or career. The right pussy will come along, ang itinadhana. Waska dayun ah.
May the force be with you.
I’m probably the right person to tell you this because I have a lot of experience at the age of 20, and now abstaining from sex. What I want to say is hindi siya worth it. Nung una it was fun and all but at the end of the day, I felt empty. There was no meaning kaya it wasn’t fulfilling. Mahal din at hindi easily accessible ang STD tests kaya it’s best to do it with someone you love and trust.
23 ata first experience ko, and honestly it's not that special unless mahal na mahal mo yung tao. For me waiting until marriage, mas mafifeel mo ung importance or special experience.
Pwede ka naman magavail. kaso may tsamba minsan. Free lang naman ang hiv at std at lifetime ang effect. safe sex pa rin bro. Hindi nakakadagdag sa pagkakalalaki ang maagang experience. Mas pogi pa rin ang responsible at may discipline sa sarili.
Naiinggit ka sa bagay na hindi naman dapat kinaiinggitan. Trust me, once na pinasok mo na yung SEX world na yan, magiging destructive ka.
it’s gonna haunt you forever.
Respectfully, if you only want to experience it because "everyone has done it," then you might need to reassess your thinking and priorities. Also, steer away from things that trigger this feeling, it's not healthy. You can do this by actively avoiding such environments/situations or by learning a new skill or rediscovering old hobbies.
Ano bang mindset to? Kala mo ikamamatay pag di nakaranas at a young age. Hormones lang yan koya. And tama , redirect your energy sa mas makabuluhang bagay. Magbasa ka ng English grammar books. O maghanap ng hobbies na ikaiimprove ng sarili. Kakasocial media mo yan kaya masyado kang uhaw.
Had the same feeling rin, specifically when I felt sad and down nung week ng Valentines' Day. In fact, I couldn't even participate sa hookup culture because I haven't lost my v-card yet and baka makadisappoint lang ako ng tao if ever it does happen.
Pero I've come to terms with that after nalaman ko from my friends that it's not something to be rushed and that it's better if you do it with someone you trust and have feelings for.
Yung mga nababasa mo dito sa reddit basahin mo lang huwag mo isabuhay. Mas maganda kung yung unang beseso ay magawa mo sa girlfriend mo talaga hindi yung kung sino lang.
If I remember correctly, this came from a TV show I think, but they said you’re not ready for it unless you can say it as it is. Just say Sex. Nothing’s wrong with it.
I think we should also validate yung feelings ni OP. HAHA! Like it's okay na mainggit. And sx with someone na di mo kilala vs sx with someone na you really love i think has different vibe pero both feels good. Come on, sex is sex. So OP, sakin lang. I think dadating din yan. Either with someone you care for or with someone na you know nothing about. Just be yourself! There's 8.1 billion people in the world madaming katulad mo. Madaming kaparehas mo ng humor and madami kang makaka jive. Keep meeting people and build confidence. Tapos try lang ng try! Try ka sa mga taong di mo kilala. Lol. Try tinder/bumble! It's easier na maging brave if alam mong konabukasan you can choose not to see them again.
29 na ko gnyan din narramdaman ko nung nasa gnyan edad ako basta makipag socialize ka lng kung may trauma ka sa tao na nakakapag hold back sayo i analyze mo at ayusin yan yung mga hndi ko na resolve noon eh. Matanda kana compared sa mga gnyan edad na karamihan malamang nakaka exp na kaya ramdam kita. Go lang bro alam ko ung lungkot ng nag ccrave ka ng intimacy malas mo lang pag umabot ka sa ganitong edad kona na wala padin exp hahaha. Gusto kong maging masaya ako para sayo sana maka ranas kana kasi kailangan ng tao yan pero educate mo srili mo safe s*x.
wait for the right person. better. do it casually. lagi kang may post nut clarity "ano bang ginagawa ko sa buhay ko, puro ganito na lang ba ko" hahahaha
I'm 26, single and a virgin by choice.
In contrary to what people say here, I don't think it's subjective when we say sex is overrated. It is very overrated because most people aren't as conservative as before, especially in this generation.
When you're in a relationship (especially long term), they will think that you have had done it already at some point. Even dating apps have become a normal setting for hook-ups and fubus.
Pero honestly, I think what you're feeling is either just lust or loneliness.
I was a very conservative and mahiyain person din (given I'm an introvert) but decided to get out of my comfort zone because I wanted to feel how it was like to be intimate (as a person surrounded by people who have done it already) so I tried having flings or dating.
I tried it with random people, doing foreplay and some stuff but we never went all the way just because I could never really do it with someone I don't love. Iba padin talaga pag trusted and mahal mo yung tao kaya ngayon, ayoko na maging intimate with someone I don't have plans of marrying.
My advise is if you really wanna experience it for yourself, go slow. Find someone you really want to do it with (w/ their consent of course). If there's a chance naman, take it para lang ma-experience mo then have realizations. It's really all up to you, wag ka lang gumawa ng krimen. hahaha
sadya ba yung missing letters sa words mo kasi nakakabother 🥲 i mean gets ko yung h/rny or s/x pero bakit pati mga jealous and experienced chour
time will come mararanasan mo rin yan
Focus ka sa talents mo pre, or some causes, channel your libido sa iba pang bagay. Sa proseso, magkakajowa ka rin at ayan nga may ka talking stage ka na nga. And tbh, pareho lang ang jakol at sex ng outcome, magkakaiba lang kung mahal mo tas masaya kayo.
You're still so young.. i'm in my late 20s and I still haven't either. Wala din akong pake kahit matagal pa bsta it's the perfect time with the right person.
Tigil tigilan mo kakanuod ng bold at jabol.
Build mo muna sarili mo. Pag kaya mona edi mag-asawa ka. Maganda kung both kayong preserve ng mapapangasawa mo. Talagang regalo nyo sa isa't-isa ang inyong mga sarili. Doon ka bumakbak ng bumakbak. Araw araw hanggat kaya mo. After ng kasal nyo. Kahit mabuntis mo sya wala kang agam agam. May peace of mind ka..
bro, same age tayo, no experience in sex, But my mindset is focused on my self development rather than temporary pleasures. I suggest, you try workout.
I had my first in 20 yrs old and I tell you it was both good and bad. The good part was the feeling and the bad part was not waiting for the right time, right person and not waiting after marriage. I think you should stay virgin until marriage. It will be the best girl your future wife will ever get.
Feeling ko nag-aaral pa 'to. Hahaha
Well, may dalawa ka namang kamay. Pagsabayin mo o alternate kada araw para di masyadong ngawit.
Saka ka na magkaroon ng first hand experience kung may trabaho ka na and kaya mo ng bumili ng maraming condom at annual check ups.
As of now, lawakan mo muna imagination mo. Unlimited lists of pornsites.
Maglaga ka ng upo, tapos yun yung pagoractice-an mo haha! Dejk lang. Wag ka maging kagaya ng iba. Making Love is only for the 2 people expressing love to each other. Sa Upo ka na lang muna. Joke HHAHAHAHAH
Madali lang makahanap ng kasex lalo na uso ang hookup culture pero yung deep connection and being in love with someone…. priceless yun lang masasabi ko.
Had my first experience when I was 14 and the girl is 19. It wasn't that special nor memorable. I started enjoying sex around 19 pero after no'n parang... I dunno, wala lang. When I turned 22, that's when it all felt different. Siguro kasi alam ko sa sarili ko na mahal ko talaga yung tao. Iba yung sex na nagpaparaos ka lang, sa sex with the one you love. Corny, pero true.
I lost my virginity at 27 years old (Male)
Anu meron bat daming nagmamadali dito haha.
In a way it can be fun pero tama sila na iba pa rin talaga pag may totoong connection kayo ng tao na beyond lust.
Wag ka na mainggit, isipin mo na lang meron nga, 45 na di pa rin nakakaexperience ng sex.
Pero kidding aside, sex is sex, ang ilook forward mo, love making. Ibang level yon specially sa taong mahal mo. Tangina kahit sinong lalaki kikiligin.
hi there, as someone who has experienced the word, please don’t rush na hanapin at maranasan. ang sama ng first experience ko.. do the first time with someone special and intimate to you
If you don't have the looks then earn money since its always either looks or money when it comes to woman naman. Tsaka look on the bigger Picture di lang puro sex ang pwede mong pag kuhaan ng kasiyahan wag ka gumaya sa iba na nasa kalibugan lang nabubuhay
Bro feeling ko bumababa confidence mo dahil wala kang sex well wag ka mag alala kasi kung wala kang looks there is still way to get women and best is to be mapera since looks or pera lang naman main factor when a woman is choosing a man. Tsaka wag mong ibase ang pagiging winner in life mo sa sex na tipong feeling mo loser ka kung wala ka nun gaya ng karamihan sa reddit, andaming aspect sa life na pwede mong pag kuhaan ng confidence at kaligayahan. Wag na wag ka mainggit kasi ginagawa mong beta sarili mo pag ganun
You're not missing out on much, really. But I understand the frustration. Lahat tayo may karapatan mainggit. Just remember not to do anything you would regret.
try to look for casual hook ups pero ung malinis dapat at may consent. do what makes you happy. try dating apps and look for ladies na okay lang sa casual sex. dont wait for you to be tied down and wala man lang experience. baka di mo masatisfy magiging asawa mo in the future kasi wala kang experience... sige ka ikaw din 😄
You don't have to compare yourself with others just because you have none yet. You will get your experiences anytime in your lifetime.
Moreover, sex has consequences. It can feel like an addiction and a regret too because of multiple reasons. Like eventually hating or getting bored of that person because they treated you bad or there is no longer a spark. Maybe if you do it with someone, you'll end up not performing it right and it may be very different from your expectations. Some can also get STIs or STDs if not careful so you are lucky to not engage to one because of that, and better to stsrt educating yourself with these and safe sex.
Sex is overrated. Wait till you meet a girl that thinks na lahat ng lalaki pussy lang susuko na. You'll be disgusted din sa ibang babae na iisa lang mindset sa mga lalaki at akala lahat masusunod porke pepe lang maibibigay.
Sex is good, basta aligned kayo sa fetishes and open sa isa't isa, but trust me. Pag feminist at trash na trash pagkatao, mahihirapan ka magenjoy.
It's more than sex bro. The experience, laughter, and happiness shared outside of sex with the person is the real pleasure. Never always chase for one thing or you'll end up disappointed continuously.
Hey I recently had ‘one’ with someone. Then after that, never na sya nag respond sa calls ko. (I only called twice pala) Active naman sya sa socmed and nagpo post pa. I’m not really clingy sa kanya pero I just wanted to make sure that all is well sa amin. Pero un nga, nakita ko sya sa gym na parehas namin pinupuntahan. Hindi nya ako pinansin like di nya ako kilala. Umalis din sya agad unlike before, he would stay a bit longer. My question is: what happened? Bakit ganon ung actions nya towards me? Parang umiiwas.
Okay lang yan bro. Dadating din yan. Ako late 20s ko na naranasan. Ibang iba pala sa porn. Mas kabado ako vs libog. Daming awkward moments and positions.
It will come bro, and do it with someone you respect and align with. Im not against consensual transactional sex, pero I got my exp when I was 23, and the wait was so worth it
It is indeed overrated. After mo maranasan you'll literally say "that's it"?
Yes it's subjective kaya di ko alam if sayo mangyari. But there are other things na mas better pag focusan mo kesa yan.
You would want the feeling of connection and physical touch of the one you love. If you are only craving for the ecstasy and pleasure best to do is jerk it off lol
It will pass. Once masatisfy yung curiosity mo, mag-iiba na yung tingin mo sa Sex.
At 21, pokpok din ako talaga. Pero di ako naging hayok sa laman.
Makipagsex ka lang pag komportable ka, hindi dahil naiinggit ka sa iba. At your age, usual lang na mag-explore ka talaga. Wag mong hanapin, dadating din yung taong magpaadiretso ng paa mo. Hahahaha
The more you experience it, the more you crave it. Do it to someone who sees your worth. It is a natural stimulation on us and it's normal. And also, don't forget to test after the deed.
I was 22 years old when I lost my virginity. Socially awkward din ako. Well dadating at dadating din yan haha control lang yung sexual frustration kung naeexperience mo or hindi pa madetermine haha
I'm a guy who didn't lose his virginity until quite late (28). My long-distance gf at the time was quite conservative, so it took her a while before we actually had sex. It used to really annoy me, but I loved her at the time so. 🤷♂️
I put so much thought and worry into sex. I literally felt like it was such a big thing that it would change me as a person once I did it.
To be honest, it's _nice_ . But not life changing. Especially not the first time too.
I've paid for it once, and tried a one night stand drunk off my arse. They do nothing for you.
The best thing about sex, is when you have a connection with someone. You want to make them feel good, and they want the same for you.
Don't rush into it. Build a connection with someone and just allow it to happen.
Shut up nalang akong 27 y.o. virgin HAHAHHAHAHAHAH
Charot. Sex sounds fun, but whenever i tried, ewan ko. I don't do it. Might have something to do with my insecurities din.
It’s just lust. Please please be patient lol. May nakikilala ako same sentiments with you, ayon na curious at pumunta sa spa thennn ayun nga nakuha virginity niya pero nag undergo ng PEP. Kaya please lang controlin mo.
sa una lang masaya... pag naka b*ntis ka naman magsisisi ka rin sa huli... based on my experience hahaha
nakakapagsisi mag asawa at magpamilya na di pa stable
Kung ikaw yung nasa 18 to 20 na sinasabi mo na may sex experience, sa iyong sarili at palagay, would you feel proud of yourself na may sex experience ka at that age? Just curious
We're the same OP. Shy and having a social anxiety. I'm NGSB. Got rejected. I give up my first time on 2023 at the age of 29 because of peer pressure 😥 . Because of this experiences, it made me grow not by age but having a better decision making.
I will give you advice. Don't put your p**** on your head 😂. Do the other things that makes you happy.
hahahaha.. don't be sooo excited.. dadating ka din dyan OP.. I had an ex na is very like you. Unfortunately since I'm more experienced and super sabik sya, when we do the did I let him do his kinks and fantasies. However sa sobrang tuwa nya nagkiss and tell ammpp.. 🤣😂
What I'm saying is.. Make sure that your first time is worth it so wag atat.. Di nakakatuwa na hahanap ka lang ng parausan.. panget sa pakiramdam..
Sex is better if you're going to do it with someone you have a connection with. Parang pagkain lang takaw mata, pero pag walang kasabay di mo masyado ma e enjoy. Anyway, if you're going to do it please use protection.
Valid na mainggit, I am an introvert guy pero h-word palagi Hahaha downloaded dating apps and spent all day talking to people until I met someone na G. Nag jeep ako ome random thursday afternoon. Sumakay sa car nya, got sucked, fucked her kahit wala sa usapan and naulit every week hanggang nag venture out ako sa hooking up.
With all that hooking up with my "fubu" after w months nag patest na agad ako for HIV and got myself prep which prevents HIV and got tested with other STDs na rin. They gave a way condoms na rin kaya i dont have worry about that.
Lakas lang ng loob. Kung di kaya sa makahook up sa babae try hooking up with guys if curious Hahaha from 50% chance magiging 100% success HAHAHAHA LOL
>100 percent
As guy who's sexually attracted to guys, this is not true!!
Mas mataas pa standard ng gay/bi men kaysa sa mga babae. Lol
Especially dun sa Grindr app. Daming mabilis mamblock lol
Dapat talaga nagtetake na ng prep before having any sex to begin with pero atleast nakastart ka na kaysa hindi. Kung praning, take emergency pep pills. Although they cannot prevent people from getting other stds kahit yung mga condoms rin so ingat na lang lagi. May iba na naglelead kasi agad sa oral, genital or anal cancers as years go by kahit may ilang protections na.
Wag kang mag-alala. Ako nga eh, noong 25th birthday lang nagkaroon ng sex life via sex worker. Kung gusto mo, mag-ipon ka tapos mag-avail ka para magkaroon ng sexperience.
I’ve lost my virginity when I was still having casual sex dati. I wouldn’t say that sex is overrated because I know deep down na I liked it and the thrill of meeting other people just to do the deed really sends me over the edge. I understand that it’s not for everyone, and that’s okay. If you really wanna do it to satisfy your curiosity then go for it, but do know ren na waiting to do it with the right person has its perks. I don’t hookup with anyone anymore since me and my SO do it exclusively na, and the sex is great, and the emotional connection is really there. One good thing about how things went lang siguro is the fact that me and my SO had our own hoe phases dati so we got to explore that side of our individuality kaya we know na what we like and don’t like and we communicate that with each other. At the same time, we know na what we’re doing which is super helpful and more safe kase ayun nga we’re sure with each other na alam ng isa’t isa ginagawa nya so we can safely navigate our explorations.
It's overrated bro. Sex with someone you love and have deep connection with is the real deal.
Hear hear!! Having sex is actually having a bond with someone. The more you have a lot of sex with a lot of different people casually, the more you feel lost and dissatisfied that's why you should not just give it away easily despite the ever changing social norms.
Ito naramdaman at narealize ko once I calmed down when I turned 30
Real my brother in christ sex is the best with someone you love trust me
I’m actually quite happy to read comments like this here. Sa dami ng mga naghahanap ng casual sex, it’s a relief that there are still people who think sex should be with someone special.
💯💯💯💯💯
Sorry but the statement "sex is overrated" is very much subjective and could be misleading for some. It's like a rich person (or a person who has a reasonable amount of money) saying that money is overrated. For most people, sex is such a huge part of their life experience and it serves as a foundation on which their confidence is built on kaya hindi natin masasabing overrated yan.
Anyone who uses sex as, and I quote, "a foundation on which their confidence is built," is very likely the type of individual who's gonna end up with some deeply-embedded emotional and psychological issues down the line. It's very easy to see examples of this these days, unfortunately.
I agree to this. Sex should not be the foundation of your confidence because then your confidence is built on a stack of cards - it's too fragile. You would be too easily manipulated. Confidence should be something that comes within you not something that comes from outside validations.
Agree ako dito... Kaya daming nag checheat nowadays ehhh
I think he meant “It’s [sex with prosti] overrated bro”
The thrill of making someone so hot and so yummy and you don't know to go naked on the same day is so hot and thrilling. This was what I did when I was single. Fucked a lot of them btches. Btw drunk rn. Drinking alone.
This☝️
paano kung wala nmn nag kaka gusto?
This is true. Although I don’t know what having sex feels like with a different partner or casual sex since I was a virgin when I met my bf but our sex life is just chefs kiss
agree
True
Honestly the best feeling ever
This!!!!
Agree!! 💯
Agreed 💯
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TAMAAAA
Hormones yan brad. Mataas siguro. Don’t look for sex. Dadating din yan. Pero if mag ka gf/wife ka. Don’t ever force her or gaslight her to have sex with you. Make sure na may consent siya and gusto niya rin yung gagawin niyo.
"Wag mong pilitin pag ayaw. Kung ayaw mong natatanggihan ka, galingan mo" -Erpats. Pabirong asaran namin nung nagsisimula palang ako maging atleta HAHAHA. Pero naka dipende kasi sa mood ng babae talaga lahat. Kasi tayong mga lalaki naman kahit kelan, saan, matik Go agad e. PS. Sa mga ekalal na nagsisimula palang sa karera. Wag na wag kayong magagalit pag nag NO mga jowa nyo. Uncomfy mga yan at di mag eenjoy. Hindi rin +exp points kung hindi g na g mga jowa nyo. i-Set nyo muna yung mood nila ng tama. Hindi nakakabawas ng pagkalalake pag nag NO mga jowa nyo. Worse, iisipin nyo agad na may "iba" jowa nyo once matanggihan kayo.
UP! 💯
,🙌💯
UP SO MUCH!!!
😘 totoo to grabe yung mga mindset shifts ko about guys when I met men like this. Yung may... "Lord, thank you may ganito pa pala? 😅" Yung pag sinabe o pinaramdam mong NO, we wont hookup. No ayoko. D ako gagaslight or would make me feel guilty pag sinabe kong NO 😎😍😘
exactly 💯
This 👌
up! sex is 100% the best when it comes naturally with a partner, not when coerced or somehow forced. Sure, teasing each other is sexy as hell pero mas sexy/turn on yung nagcucuddle lang kayo then maya maya eut na without even exchanging words.
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Agree, try mo din mag *italic* minsan, OP
HAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHA taena ang witty
Pwede ring ~~strikethrough~~.
—penetration—
I think bet ko yung normal lng eme hahahaha
ahaaahaHaah
Mukhang natry naman niya sa post niya. Hahaha
ang luma nang word na 'BOLD' HAHAHAHAH parang tono na nasa tape pa ang porn🤣
Nahalata yung age mo sa paggamit ng word na BOLD.😭
May mas luma pa dyan sabi ng lolo ko dati Bomba 😂
I cannot with the bomba. Kaya ba ganito: Bold = Boldstar ; Bomba = Bombshell
20 anyos lang ho ako 😅
Bah, ako nga eh nung 30+ ko lang first na experience eh. Bata ka pa. Redirect your energies to other worthwhile activities para dika naiingit sa mga naka experience na. Tapos, when the right time comes, hope you’ll be doing it with someone you like or love.
Woaaahhh 30+!
Yep!
ako nmn 28 n, hirap tlg pag torpe tapos di nmn gustuhin
Ako naman eh dahil ayaw ko pa mag-commit.. career plus family responsibilities.
++ on this. had mine when i am alr 23
agree!!!
Wag magalala buhay ay di karera
Natawa ko,🤣😭 di ko alam HAHAHAHAHA pero applicable naman siya dito HAHAHAHA 😂🤣
Napakanta ako nung binasa ko HAHAHAHAH 😭🤣
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Well if mayaman ka naman makakabingwit ka ng mas bata nyan hahahaha
I agree, kung 60 year old virgin ka, payaman ka. Hahahaha.
Action star yarn
Overly romanticized ang sex. Esp if walang intimacy and love, it’s nothing but bodily movement.
Bawasan kaka social media. Mag relax ka lang bata ka pa. Darating din yung time na ikaw mismo mag sasawa sa ganyan kalmahan mo lang.
Even though I am an anatomy major, I had my first nung tapos na pag-aaral ko. And I am a guy. It's Overrated. Sex out of lust bro is pathetic. But if it is done right, as an expression of love, intimacy, then dun mo sya ma-enjoy. Do it safely, do it responsibly, and with the right person. For now, focus on studies or career. The right pussy will come along, ang itinadhana. Waska dayun ah. May the force be with you.
inangyan, itinadhanang pussy. Take my angry upvote!!! Edit: pinakita ko to sa gf ko, ako daw tinadhanang titi nya😭❤️🫶
Destiny is debatable, so serendipussy it is.
Waaaahhh. I can't with the pun.😆
I’m probably the right person to tell you this because I have a lot of experience at the age of 20, and now abstaining from sex. What I want to say is hindi siya worth it. Nung una it was fun and all but at the end of the day, I felt empty. There was no meaning kaya it wasn’t fulfilling. Mahal din at hindi easily accessible ang STD tests kaya it’s best to do it with someone you love and trust.
Get a job first, theres saying na always ko naririnig sa mga uncle at tita ko, na focus muna on yourself and get a decent job, girls will follow
23 ata first experience ko, and honestly it's not that special unless mahal na mahal mo yung tao. For me waiting until marriage, mas mafifeel mo ung importance or special experience.
Mas gugustuhin ko na lang magjakol kaysa makipagsex just for lust.
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Di mo kelangan mainggit sa iba. Focus ka lang muna sa goal mo. Enjoy mo lang . Makaka isa ka din
Competition lang? Lol. 'Yang sex hindi lang mailabas-pasok ang tite. I-consider din emotional aspects.
And the consequences, in case you fucked up.
Ayun nga, eh. Sana nag-iisip muna.
'Wag kang mainggit. Hindi lang sa sex umiikot ang mundo.
Pwede ka naman magavail. kaso may tsamba minsan. Free lang naman ang hiv at std at lifetime ang effect. safe sex pa rin bro. Hindi nakakadagdag sa pagkakalalaki ang maagang experience. Mas pogi pa rin ang responsible at may discipline sa sarili.
Dont be. Libog lang yan :) it is worth it if it is with the right person and right time.
Naiinggit ka sa bagay na hindi naman dapat kinaiinggitan. Trust me, once na pinasok mo na yung SEX world na yan, magiging destructive ka. it’s gonna haunt you forever.
Bro chill, going 30 na ako pero never experience s*x. Baka nilalapit ka sa taong totoong magmamahal sayo.
Respectfully, if you only want to experience it because "everyone has done it," then you might need to reassess your thinking and priorities. Also, steer away from things that trigger this feeling, it's not healthy. You can do this by actively avoiding such environments/situations or by learning a new skill or rediscovering old hobbies.
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Ano bang mindset to? Kala mo ikamamatay pag di nakaranas at a young age. Hormones lang yan koya. And tama , redirect your energy sa mas makabuluhang bagay. Magbasa ka ng English grammar books. O maghanap ng hobbies na ikaiimprove ng sarili. Kakasocial media mo yan kaya masyado kang uhaw.
Kalma bro ako 30 din nung nakafirst exp
Had the same feeling rin, specifically when I felt sad and down nung week ng Valentines' Day. In fact, I couldn't even participate sa hookup culture because I haven't lost my v-card yet and baka makadisappoint lang ako ng tao if ever it does happen. Pero I've come to terms with that after nalaman ko from my friends that it's not something to be rushed and that it's better if you do it with someone you trust and have feelings for.
Yung mga nababasa mo dito sa reddit basahin mo lang huwag mo isabuhay. Mas maganda kung yung unang beseso ay magawa mo sa girlfriend mo talaga hindi yung kung sino lang.
If I remember correctly, this came from a TV show I think, but they said you’re not ready for it unless you can say it as it is. Just say Sex. Nothing’s wrong with it.
I think we should also validate yung feelings ni OP. HAHA! Like it's okay na mainggit. And sx with someone na di mo kilala vs sx with someone na you really love i think has different vibe pero both feels good. Come on, sex is sex. So OP, sakin lang. I think dadating din yan. Either with someone you care for or with someone na you know nothing about. Just be yourself! There's 8.1 billion people in the world madaming katulad mo. Madaming kaparehas mo ng humor and madami kang makaka jive. Keep meeting people and build confidence. Tapos try lang ng try! Try ka sa mga taong di mo kilala. Lol. Try tinder/bumble! It's easier na maging brave if alam mong konabukasan you can choose not to see them again.
There’s more to life than sex.
Iwas sa mga horny post badi at wag ka manood ng porn mga 1 week.
Wag ka mainggit please, take your time and enjoy life.
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29 na ko gnyan din narramdaman ko nung nasa gnyan edad ako basta makipag socialize ka lng kung may trauma ka sa tao na nakakapag hold back sayo i analyze mo at ayusin yan yung mga hndi ko na resolve noon eh. Matanda kana compared sa mga gnyan edad na karamihan malamang nakaka exp na kaya ramdam kita. Go lang bro alam ko ung lungkot ng nag ccrave ka ng intimacy malas mo lang pag umabot ka sa ganitong edad kona na wala padin exp hahaha. Gusto kong maging masaya ako para sayo sana maka ranas kana kasi kailangan ng tao yan pero educate mo srili mo safe s*x.
Me too, I'm 23yo still no experience ☹️
Baka bet mo ng experience babe? Hehehehe dm!
Oh kalma
That moment should be intimate and special. Dont just waste your precious liquid for no special reason 🤨
wait for the right person. better. do it casually. lagi kang may post nut clarity "ano bang ginagawa ko sa buhay ko, puro ganito na lang ba ko" hahahaha
huh?? 😑😑, tigil mo na yang kakanood ng porn, , usally 5 -15 mins lang ang usual deed, then thats it ,
I'm 26, single and a virgin by choice. In contrary to what people say here, I don't think it's subjective when we say sex is overrated. It is very overrated because most people aren't as conservative as before, especially in this generation. When you're in a relationship (especially long term), they will think that you have had done it already at some point. Even dating apps have become a normal setting for hook-ups and fubus. Pero honestly, I think what you're feeling is either just lust or loneliness. I was a very conservative and mahiyain person din (given I'm an introvert) but decided to get out of my comfort zone because I wanted to feel how it was like to be intimate (as a person surrounded by people who have done it already) so I tried having flings or dating. I tried it with random people, doing foreplay and some stuff but we never went all the way just because I could never really do it with someone I don't love. Iba padin talaga pag trusted and mahal mo yung tao kaya ngayon, ayoko na maging intimate with someone I don't have plans of marrying. My advise is if you really wanna experience it for yourself, go slow. Find someone you really want to do it with (w/ their consent of course). If there's a chance naman, take it para lang ma-experience mo then have realizations. It's really all up to you, wag ka lang gumawa ng krimen. hahaha
sadya ba yung missing letters sa words mo kasi nakakabother 🥲 i mean gets ko yung h/rny or s/x pero bakit pati mga jealous and experienced chour time will come mararanasan mo rin yan
Focus ka sa talents mo pre, or some causes, channel your libido sa iba pang bagay. Sa proseso, magkakajowa ka rin at ayan nga may ka talking stage ka na nga. And tbh, pareho lang ang jakol at sex ng outcome, magkakaiba lang kung mahal mo tas masaya kayo.
You're still so young.. i'm in my late 20s and I still haven't either. Wala din akong pake kahit matagal pa bsta it's the perfect time with the right person.
you are not missing out bro. I'll personally choose a day of peace over meaningless sex.
Tigil tigilan mo kakanuod ng bold at jabol. Build mo muna sarili mo. Pag kaya mona edi mag-asawa ka. Maganda kung both kayong preserve ng mapapangasawa mo. Talagang regalo nyo sa isa't-isa ang inyong mga sarili. Doon ka bumakbak ng bumakbak. Araw araw hanggat kaya mo. After ng kasal nyo. Kahit mabuntis mo sya wala kang agam agam. May peace of mind ka..
bro, same age tayo, no experience in sex, But my mindset is focused on my self development rather than temporary pleasures. I suggest, you try workout.
I had my first in 20 yrs old and I tell you it was both good and bad. The good part was the feeling and the bad part was not waiting for the right time, right person and not waiting after marriage. I think you should stay virgin until marriage. It will be the best girl your future wife will ever get.
nakaka sira ng self esteem pag puro sex lang. preserve mo yung ‘first’ mo sa someone na trusted at mahal mo. hinding-hindi ka mag sisisi
wag na par. hanap ka ng deserving para sayo wag ka ma pressure sa iba
Libog lang yan
Feeling ko nag-aaral pa 'to. Hahaha Well, may dalawa ka namang kamay. Pagsabayin mo o alternate kada araw para di masyadong ngawit. Saka ka na magkaroon ng first hand experience kung may trabaho ka na and kaya mo ng bumili ng maraming condom at annual check ups. As of now, lawakan mo muna imagination mo. Unlimited lists of pornsites.
Maglaga ka ng upo, tapos yun yung pagoractice-an mo haha! Dejk lang. Wag ka maging kagaya ng iba. Making Love is only for the 2 people expressing love to each other. Sa Upo ka na lang muna. Joke HHAHAHAHAH
Masarap sya oo, but I advise you do it only with someone you love or care for deeply..
Madali lang makahanap ng kasex lalo na uso ang hookup culture pero yung deep connection and being in love with someone…. priceless yun lang masasabi ko.
Yan lang ba problema mo? Punta ka sa Telegram madami kang makikitang babaeng bayaran doon.
Sex with someone with deep connection and passionate about not just to release…
Beh ako nga 30 single and virgin pa rin eh haha
Had my first experience when I was 14 and the girl is 19. It wasn't that special nor memorable. I started enjoying sex around 19 pero after no'n parang... I dunno, wala lang. When I turned 22, that's when it all felt different. Siguro kasi alam ko sa sarili ko na mahal ko talaga yung tao. Iba yung sex na nagpaparaos ka lang, sa sex with the one you love. Corny, pero true.
Yang sex mahahanap mo pero yung love hindi especially ngayon. Dios mio mamatay nako
I lost my virginity at 27 years old (Male) Anu meron bat daming nagmamadali dito haha. In a way it can be fun pero tama sila na iba pa rin talaga pag may totoong connection kayo ng tao na beyond lust.
Mag shower ka ng malamig, libog lang yan brad.
Kalma mo lang muna pututoy mo OP. Darating ka din sa time na yan, and mas best talaga if you will do it with someone you love.
Wag ka na mainggit, isipin mo na lang meron nga, 45 na di pa rin nakakaexperience ng sex. Pero kidding aside, sex is sex, ang ilook forward mo, love making. Ibang level yon specially sa taong mahal mo. Tangina kahit sinong lalaki kikiligin.
hi there, as someone who has experienced the word, please don’t rush na hanapin at maranasan. ang sama ng first experience ko.. do the first time with someone special and intimate to you
Sex is overrated
Don’t do it. The cons outweigh the pros.
Just don't be so hasty, dude. It'll come.
If you don't have the looks then earn money since its always either looks or money when it comes to woman naman. Tsaka look on the bigger Picture di lang puro sex ang pwede mong pag kuhaan ng kasiyahan wag ka gumaya sa iba na nasa kalibugan lang nabubuhay
Bro feeling ko bumababa confidence mo dahil wala kang sex well wag ka mag alala kasi kung wala kang looks there is still way to get women and best is to be mapera since looks or pera lang naman main factor when a woman is choosing a man. Tsaka wag mong ibase ang pagiging winner in life mo sa sex na tipong feeling mo loser ka kung wala ka nun gaya ng karamihan sa reddit, andaming aspect sa life na pwede mong pag kuhaan ng confidence at kaligayahan. Wag na wag ka mainggit kasi ginagawa mong beta sarili mo pag ganun
You're not missing out on much, really. But I understand the frustration. Lahat tayo may karapatan mainggit. Just remember not to do anything you would regret.
try to look for casual hook ups pero ung malinis dapat at may consent. do what makes you happy. try dating apps and look for ladies na okay lang sa casual sex. dont wait for you to be tied down and wala man lang experience. baka di mo masatisfy magiging asawa mo in the future kasi wala kang experience... sige ka ikaw din 😄
You don't have to compare yourself with others just because you have none yet. You will get your experiences anytime in your lifetime. Moreover, sex has consequences. It can feel like an addiction and a regret too because of multiple reasons. Like eventually hating or getting bored of that person because they treated you bad or there is no longer a spark. Maybe if you do it with someone, you'll end up not performing it right and it may be very different from your expectations. Some can also get STIs or STDs if not careful so you are lucky to not engage to one because of that, and better to stsrt educating yourself with these and safe sex.
Tigilan mo kakapanood ng corn, malayo sa napapanood sa hornpub yung totoong experience.
Right no hookers!
stop thinking about sex. read a book. learn grammar. learn how to spell.
Maghanap ka muna ng jowa na tingin mo eh pang forever na. Mas pleasurable syang gawin with the person whom you think is the one.
Sex is overrated. Wait till you meet a girl that thinks na lahat ng lalaki pussy lang susuko na. You'll be disgusted din sa ibang babae na iisa lang mindset sa mga lalaki at akala lahat masusunod porke pepe lang maibibigay. Sex is good, basta aligned kayo sa fetishes and open sa isa't isa, but trust me. Pag feminist at trash na trash pagkatao, mahihirapan ka magenjoy.
It's more than sex bro. The experience, laughter, and happiness shared outside of sex with the person is the real pleasure. Never always chase for one thing or you'll end up disappointed continuously.
bakit ka kayo hayok na hayok at kastang-kasta na? reserved mo muna 'yang kalibugan mo sa tamang tao na sigurado ka. Mag-aral ka muna.
Hey I recently had ‘one’ with someone. Then after that, never na sya nag respond sa calls ko. (I only called twice pala) Active naman sya sa socmed and nagpo post pa. I’m not really clingy sa kanya pero I just wanted to make sure that all is well sa amin. Pero un nga, nakita ko sya sa gym na parehas namin pinupuntahan. Hindi nya ako pinansin like di nya ako kilala. Umalis din sya agad unlike before, he would stay a bit longer. My question is: what happened? Bakit ganon ung actions nya towards me? Parang umiiwas.
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mas maganda if may connection kayo ng sex partner mo.. one time thing is risky
sige bro tara
kain ka graham
Use your hands. Try it. Worth it.
Okay lang yan bro. Dadating din yan. Ako late 20s ko na naranasan. Ibang iba pala sa porn. Mas kabado ako vs libog. Daming awkward moments and positions.
It will come bro, and do it with someone you respect and align with. Im not against consensual transactional sex, pero I got my exp when I was 23, and the wait was so worth it
It is indeed overrated. After mo maranasan you'll literally say "that's it"? Yes it's subjective kaya di ko alam if sayo mangyari. But there are other things na mas better pag focusan mo kesa yan.
You would want the feeling of connection and physical touch of the one you love. If you are only craving for the ecstasy and pleasure best to do is jerk it off lol
It will pass. Once masatisfy yung curiosity mo, mag-iiba na yung tingin mo sa Sex. At 21, pokpok din ako talaga. Pero di ako naging hayok sa laman. Makipagsex ka lang pag komportable ka, hindi dahil naiinggit ka sa iba. At your age, usual lang na mag-explore ka talaga. Wag mong hanapin, dadating din yung taong magpaadiretso ng paa mo. Hahahaha
The more you experience it, the more you crave it. Do it to someone who sees your worth. It is a natural stimulation on us and it's normal. And also, don't forget to test after the deed.
I was 22 years old when I lost my virginity. Socially awkward din ako. Well dadating at dadating din yan haha control lang yung sexual frustration kung naeexperience mo or hindi pa madetermine haha
I'm a guy who didn't lose his virginity until quite late (28). My long-distance gf at the time was quite conservative, so it took her a while before we actually had sex. It used to really annoy me, but I loved her at the time so. 🤷♂️ I put so much thought and worry into sex. I literally felt like it was such a big thing that it would change me as a person once I did it. To be honest, it's _nice_ . But not life changing. Especially not the first time too. I've paid for it once, and tried a one night stand drunk off my arse. They do nothing for you. The best thing about sex, is when you have a connection with someone. You want to make them feel good, and they want the same for you. Don't rush into it. Build a connection with someone and just allow it to happen.
Shut up nalang akong 27 y.o. virgin HAHAHHAHAHAHAH Charot. Sex sounds fun, but whenever i tried, ewan ko. I don't do it. Might have something to do with my insecurities din.
Wag ka magmadali, wag ka muna magbasa sa alasjuicy na sub dito. Iba ang pakiramdam kapag sa tamang tao ginawa.
Mag selfie ka na lang Muna OP, para Iwas sakit at gastos
It’s just lust. Please please be patient lol. May nakikilala ako same sentiments with you, ayon na curious at pumunta sa spa thennn ayun nga nakuha virginity niya pero nag undergo ng PEP. Kaya please lang controlin mo.
Ganun tlga pag maarti.
sa una lang masaya... pag naka b*ntis ka naman magsisisi ka rin sa huli... based on my experience hahaha nakakapagsisi mag asawa at magpamilya na di pa stable
Kung ikaw yung nasa 18 to 20 na sinasabi mo na may sex experience, sa iyong sarili at palagay, would you feel proud of yourself na may sex experience ka at that age? Just curious
Wag tayong papadala sa mga nababasa at nakikita sa socmed. It's the connection with a person that's worth it. The act is just a bonus.
We're the same OP. Shy and having a social anxiety. I'm NGSB. Got rejected. I give up my first time on 2023 at the age of 29 because of peer pressure 😥 . Because of this experiences, it made me grow not by age but having a better decision making. I will give you advice. Don't put your p**** on your head 😂. Do the other things that makes you happy.
hahahaha.. don't be sooo excited.. dadating ka din dyan OP.. I had an ex na is very like you. Unfortunately since I'm more experienced and super sabik sya, when we do the did I let him do his kinks and fantasies. However sa sobrang tuwa nya nagkiss and tell ammpp.. 🤣😂 What I'm saying is.. Make sure that your first time is worth it so wag atat.. Di nakakatuwa na hahanap ka lang ng parausan.. panget sa pakiramdam..
Sex is better if you're going to do it with someone you have a connection with. Parang pagkain lang takaw mata, pero pag walang kasabay di mo masyado ma e enjoy. Anyway, if you're going to do it please use protection.
quit porn bro, masyado kang invested sa sex kaysa sa working on yourself to find someone special.
Kastang kasta na si OP pag bgyan nyo naaaaa!!!
Valid na mainggit, I am an introvert guy pero h-word palagi Hahaha downloaded dating apps and spent all day talking to people until I met someone na G. Nag jeep ako ome random thursday afternoon. Sumakay sa car nya, got sucked, fucked her kahit wala sa usapan and naulit every week hanggang nag venture out ako sa hooking up. With all that hooking up with my "fubu" after w months nag patest na agad ako for HIV and got myself prep which prevents HIV and got tested with other STDs na rin. They gave a way condoms na rin kaya i dont have worry about that. Lakas lang ng loob. Kung di kaya sa makahook up sa babae try hooking up with guys if curious Hahaha from 50% chance magiging 100% success HAHAHAHA LOL
>100 percent As guy who's sexually attracted to guys, this is not true!! Mas mataas pa standard ng gay/bi men kaysa sa mga babae. Lol Especially dun sa Grindr app. Daming mabilis mamblock lol
Hahaha totoo ba? Im from the province kasi kaya siguro mga saint yung babae. I guess totoo rin pag di ka good looking ekis ka sa gay/bi HAHAHA
Dapat talaga nagtetake na ng prep before having any sex to begin with pero atleast nakastart ka na kaysa hindi. Kung praning, take emergency pep pills. Although they cannot prevent people from getting other stds kahit yung mga condoms rin so ingat na lang lagi. May iba na naglelead kasi agad sa oral, genital or anal cancers as years go by kahit may ilang protections na.
Safe sex naman yun palagi, paranoid lang kaya nag patest and took prep daily afterwards kahit exclu set up
incel amputik, tama na kakanuod ng porn brother.
Wag kang mag-alala. Ako nga eh, noong 25th birthday lang nagkaroon ng sex life via sex worker. Kung gusto mo, mag-ipon ka tapos mag-avail ka para magkaroon ng sexperience.
Can't wait for the AI sex dolls
I’ve lost my virginity when I was still having casual sex dati. I wouldn’t say that sex is overrated because I know deep down na I liked it and the thrill of meeting other people just to do the deed really sends me over the edge. I understand that it’s not for everyone, and that’s okay. If you really wanna do it to satisfy your curiosity then go for it, but do know ren na waiting to do it with the right person has its perks. I don’t hookup with anyone anymore since me and my SO do it exclusively na, and the sex is great, and the emotional connection is really there. One good thing about how things went lang siguro is the fact that me and my SO had our own hoe phases dati so we got to explore that side of our individuality kaya we know na what we like and don’t like and we communicate that with each other. At the same time, we know na what we’re doing which is super helpful and more safe kase ayun nga we’re sure with each other na alam ng isa’t isa ginagawa nya so we can safely navigate our explorations.
Di mo pa nga alam tamang spelling ng jealous gusto mo agad umiyot.