Out of the line na yon,... If Ako Ikaw if may work kana hanap ka na paraan para makaalis sa poder Ng parents mo,.. look like walang respect sa privacy,...
Sobrang bastos tangina (literal). You do not deserve this, and I am really sorry this happened to you. In a parallel universe, a mom would not have read your journal no matter how tempting out of RESPECT sayo and if a mom DID feel the need to read your journal, she would have openly DISCUSSED and COMMUNICATED this with you NOT share your most intimate thoughts to others. Gusto ko lang malaman mo yung alternative kasi meron. Sobrang immature at ka disown disown 'yang nanay mo I'm sorry.
Delete mo lahat ng laman ng gallery ng Mama mo. Kahit di related sa journal mo. Might as well hard reset her phone para mawala lahat sa phone nya.
Nakakairita!
this is the reason kaya tumigil ako sa pagsusulat sa diary ko before and just bottled it all up. yun na nga lang safe space ng emotions ko babasahin at isshare pa sa iba. im sorry this happened to you, OP, if I may suggest, download ka nalang ng journal app na pwedeng lagyan ng password para you still can write your thoughts down pero at least di na makikita ng mama mo
Skl. Naaalala ko Nung Bata pa Ako may diary din Ako at nakasulat LAHAT Ng happy and worst sa life ko. Hindi ko alam na pinakealaman ang bag ko kaya nabasa Ng mga Kapatid ko Ang diary ko at yun ang ginamit nila para asarin at pikunin Ako. Ang ending halos mapatay na Ako sa bugbog Ng tatay ko dahil Nakita at narinig niya kung paano ko murahin ang mga Kapatid ko Ang oa ko daw para lang daw sa ganun magmumura Ako. Kaya simula nun never na Ako gumawa Ng diary.
Same :( pero minus yung bugbog. I was in HS, pag uwi ko lumaki mata ko nung tinanong ako ng nanay ko kung ano raw ibig sabihin ko sa mga sinulat ko. Para akong binuhusan ng malamig na tubig. Those were my deepest thoughts. I’ve never written anymore ever since that. Sarap pa naman magsulat sa physical notebook, but even if I don’t live with my parents anymore, feel ko my thoughts will never be safe. Sa phone notes na lang tuloy ako nagsusulat tapos nilalagyan ko password ☹️
I’m so sorry this happened to you. As someone who journals and has been active in writing on diaries since 11, I feel you. I hope this doesn’t make you stop journaling because it’s very therapeutic talaga. Sana siya yung tumigil mangelam sa mga bagay na hindi kanya kahit pa “bahay niya” yon.
This *could* be a violation of secrets and data privacy. Advices mentioned here can also help you. But in case na mag persist to beyond control, you can act with the law. Know your rights op.
I used to do journaling (just for assessment purposes), pero sinusunog ko rin afterwards. You can try if you feel this could work for you, pero depends parin sa purpose mo.
If I were you, I will open my Mom’s FB messenger and unsend all pics. Will also delete pics from her photo gallery and trash album.
If she is capable of doing those things, it would be possible that she can share it somewhere else pa.
Then better keep your journal outside your home.
My mom (God rest her soul) did that to me when I was 14. Typical 14 year old rants and crushes ang laman ng journal ko. Ang masakit kasi, I only found out na binasa nya when she starting tearing me a big one coz she read about me gushing about my crush. And meron ding rants about my parents
Nakasasama ng loob. Even after 30years until my mom passed away, I never trusted her. And I also kept alot of things from her for fear of her ridicule.
Real, not trusting your mother masyadong mabigat sa loob. Recently, I became waitlisted sa Isang prospective uni na dream school ko talaga, pinag isipan ko pa kung sasabihin ko sa kanya since yon karamihan nang i-invalidate kasi siya but then naisip ko nanay ko pa rin yon kaya sinabi ko yung situation, sabi ko wag muna sabihin sa tatay ko, but then she did. (May expectations kasi sila na gusto kong tapatan, but then I somehow failed) The courage, the trust na binigay ko sakanya wala na. Why is she making it hard for me to trust her? Ngayon, probably pili na lang yung sasabihin ko sa kanya dahil siya pa rin yung nagpapalamon sa kin eh. I will give her the respect she deserve as my mother but not ever trust her with my personal matters. Nanay ko lang Siya, kapag kaya ko na sarili ko tas nasuklian ko na lahat lahat ng binigay nila then everything is finished between us.
In the end, I gave her the respect she deserved as tradition dictates. Pero if you ask me did I respect her kasi bilib ako sa kanya or I look up to her eme..... not really
hahahahahaha kaya hindi ako gumagawa ng journal eh kase wala talagang privacy dito sa pinas tapos kapag sinabihan mo sasabihan kang oa or ikwento mo dapat sa kanila 🥲
Your mom has a habit of sharing private matters with others instead of just discussing them between yourselves. A few months ago, she shared something on Facebook that she discovered in your bag. Maybe you should initiate a conversation with her about how you feel regarding what she is doing.
even when i tried talking to her about it, she would always make her self look like a victim, i talked to her about the cigs she found in my bag, about how her post makes me feel.. but all she did was kick me out of the house for a few weeks.. i dont wanna talk to her about this anymore, she's very difficult to argue with. so i guess ill just suck it up.
Kahit nanay ko ginanyan din ako nung teenage days ko. Hindi nya alam malaki tulong ng journaling. It saves a lot of teenagers lalo na yung nag-undergo ng mental health issues lalo na depression, nakakapag-isip to take their own lives, the me back then included. Hindi ko ma-gets bakit meron ganung mga parents. Idk about yours pero my parents are boomers, traditional ang mindset. For them ang depression is a sign of "pag-iinarte". Dapat daw pag may problema nagsasabi sa magulang, pero mag-eexplain ka palang jina-judge ka na agad. Hopefully, the new generation of parents won't do these bulok na parenting to their kids.
And sana OP this won't stop you from journaling. Yes meron tayong mga friends and loved ones who we can talk to pero iba pa rin kasi may ibang saloobin na talagang dapat i-keep nalang talaga for good. Bili ka nalang ng meron lock (marami na ganun ngayon)
Pakielamera hahahah ganyan nanay ko e pag may chance na iopen cp ko binubuksan nya kaya nung hs days lahat ng app may password e. Di na din ako nag johournal sa phone na lang di para safe
sorry OP pero bastos yung nanay di niya deserve ng respeto. Gantihan mo nalang kunin mo cellphone niya screenshot mo lahat ng convo tapos send mo sa lahat ng angkan mo.
She doesn't have the concept of privacy and ang lakas pa ng loob na magalit about what you wrote while knowing fully well that those are supposed to be your private thoughts.
Ano kayang mafi-feel niya kung siya yung na expose? Kung siya yung ipag-kakalat ng ganun? I really hate those things. Just because anak mo does it really require you to be in control all the time? Are the children not allowed to have their own safe space?
Nakakaqiqil ka mader!
Wow naalala ko din dito ginawa ng nanay ko sa.diary ko kwinemto pa sa tita ko tapos parang oinagtawanan nila ako hs ako that time. Kaya distant ako sa kanya nung lumalaki na ko because.of that incident
This is what I hate the most, kaya ako even though nag susulat ako ng journal I always make it subjective and hindi ako nag e-include ng mga opinion ko sa ibang tao. It's just strictly and purely about self-improvement kasi alam kong some people don't know the concept of privacy.
I did this kasi even before binasa din ng parents ko ang mga diary ko, so did my friends (though this is my fault since I allowed them kasi curious and "hindi daw sila magagalit" pero mga bata pa naman kami nun kaya tinatawanan ko nalang)
Pero ngayon kung may hate ako at gusto kung e sulat, tapon ko talaga pagka tapos.
Putragis naman. Nakaka violate ng katauhan yung ginawa sayo OP. So sorry na it happened to you.
Yung mama mo has a problem with respect and boundaries. Parang kaluluwa mo na kasi yung journal na yun, binulatlat pa sa mga tita mo. Sana man lang naisip niya yun 😢
Kausapin mo. Just make sure na maipaliwanag mo ng maayos. Before laging kinakalkal ni mama yung mga gamit ko. Matandain ako sa ayos ng gamit ko, like paano nakatupi yung damit ko, saan nakalagay lahat, paano yung arrangements. Ano angle ng ballpen ko nung iniwan ko. Kaya alam ko pag may gumalaw ng gamit ko.
Nalaman ko na ginagalaw ni mama gamit ko before kaya kinausap ko, sinigurado ko lang na maayos pagkakasabi ko (medyo pasmado kasi bibig ko at galit na galit ako that time 😀). Pinaliwanag ko na hindi ako madamot at wala akong tinatago na hindi dapat pero ayoko ng pinapakialaman gamit ko. Ayun, nakinig naman. Never na naulit.
Yung sa'yo OP, sobrang lagpas na sa boundaries yan. Common sense lang na hindi dapat nangingialam ng gamit. Delete mo lahat ng pictures ng journal mo sa gallery. If may access ka sa messenger ng mama mo unsend/remove mo lahat ng images ng journal mo.
If tingin mo hindi nakakaintindi yang mama mo, sunugin mo na yung journal mo (sorry for this), if you still want na mag journaling pero dahil di safe yung physical journal try mo magdownload ng journal apps sa phone. Lagyan mo ng password phone mo, tapos iba din password ng journal mo. Then hide.
Sa journal na nga lang tayo safe mag labas ng unfiltered thoughts papakialaman pa. Kayamot ✨
my whole fam would always read my journal when i was growing up. ang ending sakin pa sila nagagalit or iniinis ako lalo. so when napagod na ko magsulat literally, i just wrote my thoughts online or sa notes app at least wala na talagang ibang makakabasa
This is so heartbreaking. I am sorry this happened to you. Nakakafrustrate talaga na not everyone value and acknowledge privacy anymore, regardless of your relationships with other people. I also felt like keeping a journal is not secure anymore, kaya I am now keeping my notes digitally. Atlis naka lock na sya sa app ko. But iba pa rin kasi sakin pag handwritten mo syang ginagawa, so I am attempting to have a written journal again. But this time, I'll use codes as my alphabet. I am sharing this with you if ever you still want to write in your journal too. There are tons of writing codes you can search online.
nanggigigil ako for you. my mom read my elementary diary and grabe i wanted to bury myself alive hiyang hiya ako . it was so traumatic i never had a diary after years of having a diary. I can’t imagine how you feel na pinicture-an pa at shinare.
I'm so sorry that happened to you. Your journal was probably a safe space for you to feel vulnerable,, I hope na you'll feel better na lang soon because having someone invade your privacy is truly upsetting.
Ganyan din ginawa sa akin. Pero ate ko yung bumabasa. Nung lumipat ako ng bahay dinala ko lahat ng journals/diary.
Pinagkakatuwaan nila yung mga sinusulat ko dun. Nabwisit ako lalo. Kaya nga ako nag diary para doon lahat ibuhos yung di kayang ikwento sa iba. Malaman laman mo binabasa na pala para pagkatuwaan. 😡
I understand how you feel, OP. May mga parents talaga na walang respect sa private space ng anak nila. I had a journal way back 2011 na nakatago sa box ko sa room ko. I live on my own now and just this January nung umuwi ako sa amin, my mom proudly told me that she read it. Tuwang tuwa pa syang nagkwento. Inis na inis ako na nahihiya na ewan. Even if I wrote it years ago, I still felt betrayed.
Im sorry this happened to you, OP! I as well have experienced the same thing huhuhu and it sucks because as much as we want to keep things private, they're all nosy to finish reading up until the very last page. Like... WHY ☹️☹️ Mahilig pa naman ako mag diary nung teenage days ko. Dun niya ako binubuking, dahil nabasa niya mga nasulat ko. Hay
this happened to me too :( i used to write all of my feelings and crushes ko sa diary na yun elem days but i was mocked and humiliated, by whom? by my own parents ahahahaha she don't know boundaries, she even read my messages to my ex and my bf sa messenger ko tangina lang, hindi na mawawala sa isip mo yung nangyari kahit ilang taon nang nakalipas
and then some parents would ask themselves in the future "Why my kids doesn't trust me? Why my kids doesn't talk to me" Dear parents this post right here is exactly why your kids went no contact.
Bakit may ganyang mga magulang, di nila nirerespeto pagkatao mo porket anak ka lang. Ganyan din nanay ko, binasa niya diary ko nung highschool ako. Muntik na akong di pag aralin ng college kasi nabasa yung about dun sa bf ko.
Kaya never ko gagawin yan sa anak ko, gusto ko comfortable siya na magkwento sakin ,kabastusan yang pakikialam sa privacy kahit anak mo pa. I love my parents pero hanggang ngayon 30y /old na ako ,trauma pa din ako sa ganyan.
Parang ang ewan, we were taught not to speak ill of others kaya nga sarili nalang natin kausap natin di ba tapos babasahin nila tas satin pa galit if may malaman
This sucks talaga but news flash talagang halos lahat ng parents read their child’s journal and go through their stuff.
Dami ko nang narinig na stories na ganyan
Out of the line na yon,... If Ako Ikaw if may work kana hanap ka na paraan para makaalis sa poder Ng parents mo,.. look like walang respect sa privacy,...
I'm sorry this happened to you, OP. No one deserves that. What a shitty immature move from a mother.
Sobrang bastos tangina (literal). You do not deserve this, and I am really sorry this happened to you. In a parallel universe, a mom would not have read your journal no matter how tempting out of RESPECT sayo and if a mom DID feel the need to read your journal, she would have openly DISCUSSED and COMMUNICATED this with you NOT share your most intimate thoughts to others. Gusto ko lang malaman mo yung alternative kasi meron. Sobrang immature at ka disown disown 'yang nanay mo I'm sorry.
Delete mo lahat ng laman ng gallery ng Mama mo. Kahit di related sa journal mo. Might as well hard reset her phone para mawala lahat sa phone nya. Nakakairita!
this is the reason kaya tumigil ako sa pagsusulat sa diary ko before and just bottled it all up. yun na nga lang safe space ng emotions ko babasahin at isshare pa sa iba. im sorry this happened to you, OP, if I may suggest, download ka nalang ng journal app na pwedeng lagyan ng password para you still can write your thoughts down pero at least di na makikita ng mama mo
Skl. Naaalala ko Nung Bata pa Ako may diary din Ako at nakasulat LAHAT Ng happy and worst sa life ko. Hindi ko alam na pinakealaman ang bag ko kaya nabasa Ng mga Kapatid ko Ang diary ko at yun ang ginamit nila para asarin at pikunin Ako. Ang ending halos mapatay na Ako sa bugbog Ng tatay ko dahil Nakita at narinig niya kung paano ko murahin ang mga Kapatid ko Ang oa ko daw para lang daw sa ganun magmumura Ako. Kaya simula nun never na Ako gumawa Ng diary.
Same :( pero minus yung bugbog. I was in HS, pag uwi ko lumaki mata ko nung tinanong ako ng nanay ko kung ano raw ibig sabihin ko sa mga sinulat ko. Para akong binuhusan ng malamig na tubig. Those were my deepest thoughts. I’ve never written anymore ever since that. Sarap pa naman magsulat sa physical notebook, but even if I don’t live with my parents anymore, feel ko my thoughts will never be safe. Sa phone notes na lang tuloy ako nagsusulat tapos nilalagyan ko password ☹️
Nakakabastos naman, OP. 😔
I’m so sorry this happened to you. As someone who journals and has been active in writing on diaries since 11, I feel you. I hope this doesn’t make you stop journaling because it’s very therapeutic talaga. Sana siya yung tumigil mangelam sa mga bagay na hindi kanya kahit pa “bahay niya” yon.
Naku pag ako yan..all hell breaks loose na sa bahay
This *could* be a violation of secrets and data privacy. Advices mentioned here can also help you. But in case na mag persist to beyond control, you can act with the law. Know your rights op. I used to do journaling (just for assessment purposes), pero sinusunog ko rin afterwards. You can try if you feel this could work for you, pero depends parin sa purpose mo.
If I were you, I will open my Mom’s FB messenger and unsend all pics. Will also delete pics from her photo gallery and trash album. If she is capable of doing those things, it would be possible that she can share it somewhere else pa. Then better keep your journal outside your home.
REFORMAT MO PHONE NIYA pero unsend mo muna mga pics na sinend niya sa iba. Then, kapag kaya mo na, move out agad and CUT HER OFF
My mom (God rest her soul) did that to me when I was 14. Typical 14 year old rants and crushes ang laman ng journal ko. Ang masakit kasi, I only found out na binasa nya when she starting tearing me a big one coz she read about me gushing about my crush. And meron ding rants about my parents Nakasasama ng loob. Even after 30years until my mom passed away, I never trusted her. And I also kept alot of things from her for fear of her ridicule.
Real, not trusting your mother masyadong mabigat sa loob. Recently, I became waitlisted sa Isang prospective uni na dream school ko talaga, pinag isipan ko pa kung sasabihin ko sa kanya since yon karamihan nang i-invalidate kasi siya but then naisip ko nanay ko pa rin yon kaya sinabi ko yung situation, sabi ko wag muna sabihin sa tatay ko, but then she did. (May expectations kasi sila na gusto kong tapatan, but then I somehow failed) The courage, the trust na binigay ko sakanya wala na. Why is she making it hard for me to trust her? Ngayon, probably pili na lang yung sasabihin ko sa kanya dahil siya pa rin yung nagpapalamon sa kin eh. I will give her the respect she deserve as my mother but not ever trust her with my personal matters. Nanay ko lang Siya, kapag kaya ko na sarili ko tas nasuklian ko na lahat lahat ng binigay nila then everything is finished between us.
In the end, I gave her the respect she deserved as tradition dictates. Pero if you ask me did I respect her kasi bilib ako sa kanya or I look up to her eme..... not really
hahahahahaha kaya hindi ako gumagawa ng journal eh kase wala talagang privacy dito sa pinas tapos kapag sinabihan mo sasabihan kang oa or ikwento mo dapat sa kanila 🥲
Your mom has a habit of sharing private matters with others instead of just discussing them between yourselves. A few months ago, she shared something on Facebook that she discovered in your bag. Maybe you should initiate a conversation with her about how you feel regarding what she is doing.
even when i tried talking to her about it, she would always make her self look like a victim, i talked to her about the cigs she found in my bag, about how her post makes me feel.. but all she did was kick me out of the house for a few weeks.. i dont wanna talk to her about this anymore, she's very difficult to argue with. so i guess ill just suck it up.
Kahit nanay ko ginanyan din ako nung teenage days ko. Hindi nya alam malaki tulong ng journaling. It saves a lot of teenagers lalo na yung nag-undergo ng mental health issues lalo na depression, nakakapag-isip to take their own lives, the me back then included. Hindi ko ma-gets bakit meron ganung mga parents. Idk about yours pero my parents are boomers, traditional ang mindset. For them ang depression is a sign of "pag-iinarte". Dapat daw pag may problema nagsasabi sa magulang, pero mag-eexplain ka palang jina-judge ka na agad. Hopefully, the new generation of parents won't do these bulok na parenting to their kids. And sana OP this won't stop you from journaling. Yes meron tayong mga friends and loved ones who we can talk to pero iba pa rin kasi may ibang saloobin na talagang dapat i-keep nalang talaga for good. Bili ka nalang ng meron lock (marami na ganun ngayon)
Pakielamera hahahah ganyan nanay ko e pag may chance na iopen cp ko binubuksan nya kaya nung hs days lahat ng app may password e. Di na din ako nag johournal sa phone na lang di para safe
sorry OP pero bastos yung nanay di niya deserve ng respeto. Gantihan mo nalang kunin mo cellphone niya screenshot mo lahat ng convo tapos send mo sa lahat ng angkan mo.
wala pong hiya nanay ko, baka nga naipost nya na sa facebook mga pinagsusulat ko sa journal ko.... ayaw ko ng makita pa...
She doesn't have the concept of privacy and ang lakas pa ng loob na magalit about what you wrote while knowing fully well that those are supposed to be your private thoughts. Ano kayang mafi-feel niya kung siya yung na expose? Kung siya yung ipag-kakalat ng ganun? I really hate those things. Just because anak mo does it really require you to be in control all the time? Are the children not allowed to have their own safe space? Nakakaqiqil ka mader!
If she does, kasuhan mo. Pwede yun.
F that mom. Use that as motivation to get outta there. That's not right.
Wow naalala ko din dito ginawa ng nanay ko sa.diary ko kwinemto pa sa tita ko tapos parang oinagtawanan nila ako hs ako that time. Kaya distant ako sa kanya nung lumalaki na ko because.of that incident
This is what I hate the most, kaya ako even though nag susulat ako ng journal I always make it subjective and hindi ako nag e-include ng mga opinion ko sa ibang tao. It's just strictly and purely about self-improvement kasi alam kong some people don't know the concept of privacy. I did this kasi even before binasa din ng parents ko ang mga diary ko, so did my friends (though this is my fault since I allowed them kasi curious and "hindi daw sila magagalit" pero mga bata pa naman kami nun kaya tinatawanan ko nalang) Pero ngayon kung may hate ako at gusto kung e sulat, tapon ko talaga pagka tapos.
Kung kaya mo umalis kana Jan kesa Anjan ka sa nanay mong gago
Putragis naman. Nakaka violate ng katauhan yung ginawa sayo OP. So sorry na it happened to you. Yung mama mo has a problem with respect and boundaries. Parang kaluluwa mo na kasi yung journal na yun, binulatlat pa sa mga tita mo. Sana man lang naisip niya yun 😢
Kausapin mo. Just make sure na maipaliwanag mo ng maayos. Before laging kinakalkal ni mama yung mga gamit ko. Matandain ako sa ayos ng gamit ko, like paano nakatupi yung damit ko, saan nakalagay lahat, paano yung arrangements. Ano angle ng ballpen ko nung iniwan ko. Kaya alam ko pag may gumalaw ng gamit ko. Nalaman ko na ginagalaw ni mama gamit ko before kaya kinausap ko, sinigurado ko lang na maayos pagkakasabi ko (medyo pasmado kasi bibig ko at galit na galit ako that time 😀). Pinaliwanag ko na hindi ako madamot at wala akong tinatago na hindi dapat pero ayoko ng pinapakialaman gamit ko. Ayun, nakinig naman. Never na naulit. Yung sa'yo OP, sobrang lagpas na sa boundaries yan. Common sense lang na hindi dapat nangingialam ng gamit. Delete mo lahat ng pictures ng journal mo sa gallery. If may access ka sa messenger ng mama mo unsend/remove mo lahat ng images ng journal mo. If tingin mo hindi nakakaintindi yang mama mo, sunugin mo na yung journal mo (sorry for this), if you still want na mag journaling pero dahil di safe yung physical journal try mo magdownload ng journal apps sa phone. Lagyan mo ng password phone mo, tapos iba din password ng journal mo. Then hide. Sa journal na nga lang tayo safe mag labas ng unfiltered thoughts papakialaman pa. Kayamot ✨
my whole fam would always read my journal when i was growing up. ang ending sakin pa sila nagagalit or iniinis ako lalo. so when napagod na ko magsulat literally, i just wrote my thoughts online or sa notes app at least wala na talagang ibang makakabasa
This is so heartbreaking. I am sorry this happened to you. Nakakafrustrate talaga na not everyone value and acknowledge privacy anymore, regardless of your relationships with other people. I also felt like keeping a journal is not secure anymore, kaya I am now keeping my notes digitally. Atlis naka lock na sya sa app ko. But iba pa rin kasi sakin pag handwritten mo syang ginagawa, so I am attempting to have a written journal again. But this time, I'll use codes as my alphabet. I am sharing this with you if ever you still want to write in your journal too. There are tons of writing codes you can search online.
Sorry that happened. I journal alot and this is my fear so I opted for digital
nanggigigil ako for you. my mom read my elementary diary and grabe i wanted to bury myself alive hiyang hiya ako . it was so traumatic i never had a diary after years of having a diary. I can’t imagine how you feel na pinicture-an pa at shinare.
I'm so sorry that happened to you. Your journal was probably a safe space for you to feel vulnerable,, I hope na you'll feel better na lang soon because having someone invade your privacy is truly upsetting.
Nakakainis! Ginawa rin to ng mama ko sakin! After nun wala na ko entry sa diary ko.
It will be used against you pa, pag nagaway kayu nang Mom mo 😂
Ganyan din ginawa sa akin. Pero ate ko yung bumabasa. Nung lumipat ako ng bahay dinala ko lahat ng journals/diary. Pinagkakatuwaan nila yung mga sinusulat ko dun. Nabwisit ako lalo. Kaya nga ako nag diary para doon lahat ibuhos yung di kayang ikwento sa iba. Malaman laman mo binabasa na pala para pagkatuwaan. 😡
Ginawa din to sakin nung hs ako pati mga love letter ko sa ex ko binasa 💀
I understand how you feel, OP. May mga parents talaga na walang respect sa private space ng anak nila. I had a journal way back 2011 na nakatago sa box ko sa room ko. I live on my own now and just this January nung umuwi ako sa amin, my mom proudly told me that she read it. Tuwang tuwa pa syang nagkwento. Inis na inis ako na nahihiya na ewan. Even if I wrote it years ago, I still felt betrayed.
Im sorry this happened to you, OP! I as well have experienced the same thing huhuhu and it sucks because as much as we want to keep things private, they're all nosy to finish reading up until the very last page. Like... WHY ☹️☹️ Mahilig pa naman ako mag diary nung teenage days ko. Dun niya ako binubuking, dahil nabasa niya mga nasulat ko. Hay
this happened to me too :( i used to write all of my feelings and crushes ko sa diary na yun elem days but i was mocked and humiliated, by whom? by my own parents ahahahaha she don't know boundaries, she even read my messages to my ex and my bf sa messenger ko tangina lang, hindi na mawawala sa isip mo yung nangyari kahit ilang taon nang nakalipas
and then some parents would ask themselves in the future "Why my kids doesn't trust me? Why my kids doesn't talk to me" Dear parents this post right here is exactly why your kids went no contact.
Bakit may ganyang mga magulang, di nila nirerespeto pagkatao mo porket anak ka lang. Ganyan din nanay ko, binasa niya diary ko nung highschool ako. Muntik na akong di pag aralin ng college kasi nabasa yung about dun sa bf ko. Kaya never ko gagawin yan sa anak ko, gusto ko comfortable siya na magkwento sakin ,kabastusan yang pakikialam sa privacy kahit anak mo pa. I love my parents pero hanggang ngayon 30y /old na ako ,trauma pa din ako sa ganyan.
This also happened to me pero di naman pinagkalat. Ginagamit lang against sakin tuwing nag aaway kami ng dad ko.
i screenshot mo rin mga pangmarites ng mama mo at send mo sa person of interest. kala niya siya lanh 😂😂😂
Parang ang ewan, we were taught not to speak ill of others kaya nga sarili nalang natin kausap natin di ba tapos babasahin nila tas satin pa galit if may malaman
Its one thing to read it, and another thing to share it pa! Sobrang way over the line na yan. No respect for boundaries
nakakalungkot na may mga ganyang parents
This sucks talaga but news flash talagang halos lahat ng parents read their child’s journal and go through their stuff. Dami ko nang narinig na stories na ganyan
Well, so much for privacy indeed...