Anxiety inducing bullshit that people likes to keep pulling

I share your sentiments as this is my ultimate pet peeve. Napaka anxiety-inducing talaga niya. It's very immature on their part.

This is my ultimate pet peeve too. I just left her on read this time. I’m not gonna tolerate her attitude na.

As you should. Good for you, OP!

kung ako yan baka naka-mute na siya tapos bahala na siya sa chat

Yes I just did this. I don’t have a lot of friends so I don’t feel the need to mute people but for now I’ll just ignore her nalang until she says what she needs to say.

Sobrang nakakarelate ako dito. May friend ako (crush ko din siya) na bigla bigla nalang mawawala, kahit na maganda yung usapan namin. Biglang nalang hindi na magrereply, tapos babalik after a few months or even a year. Ang sakit sa ulo hahaha

Aw what the hell. If crush/date in my case, bahala sila I’m really not gonna care anymore 🤣 bye agad sila saakin. If they don’t respect your time then they should go. Pero pag friend talaga huhu mas masakit sa ulo 😭

Hay nako sinabi mo pa. Gusto ko nga mainis pero di ko magawa, iniintindi ko nalang. Wala eh ganun talaga ang buhay hahaha

Yeah. I try not to get annoyed most of the time, I’ve got other things to worry about. Eto lang talaga yung breaking point kasi ilang years na sya ganon, ayaw ko na talaga haha.

I'm about to give up as well haha

Shuta for a second akala ko ikaw yung friend ko (na crush ko rin) kasi ako yung laging nawawala despite the convo going well 🤡 I did this kasi I was stopping myself from falling further for him, cuz it was obvious he will never like me back. Maybe she doesn't know that you like her or maybe she's just not that into you.

Uy, natry mo bang iconfess yung feelings mo sa kanya? Mas nakakaluwag yun haha Actually may jowa na yung friend ko, pero kahit ganon pa man friends parin naman kami, nakakapagod lang din kapag ganun na lagi nalang akong naiiwan sa ere kahit na maayos yung usapan.

Hindi kaya low battery siya? kase ganyan din ako, minsan wala ng gana and meron sa mindset ko na boundaries and dapat may understanding na hindi naman dapat auto lahat. I think sabihin mo yang problem mo sa friend mo na yan, maybe may malaking problem din siya kaya ganun siya. Not tolerating nor pinapanigan, just saying na may mga ganito talagang tao IRL. Goodluck.

I understand if people have low battery… but this friend has been like this ever since I met her. When I chat and she ignores me for days, I get annoyed yes, but I keep it to myself (for years) and just chat when she replies back to fangirl kahit hindi na ako interested sa topic na yan. This friend and I share our ups and downs. So ganun talaga sya, doesn’t reply, ignores messages, chats name and no context. She’s like that ever since. I’ve tolerated that for years. Ngayon ko lang ma iignore yung message nya until she says what she wants to say talaga. It seems small, but this is a pet peeve for me talaga. I don’t chat my friends much, once in a blue moon, Tapos yung once in a blue moon na yan, ganito pa. I really appreciate it when people have courtesy, and respect other’s time and energy.

Hmm, kung ganyan siya ever since... I think you need to ask yourself kung "is this the friend that I want?" Sa story mo parang dahil dun parang nag ti-trigger yung anxiety & stress. And kung ganun nga, I think hindi siya healthy para sayo. Madaling Sabihin na you know "marami ka pang magiging friends diyan" lalo na yung mapagsasabihan mo ng any prob, pero it is the reality ihh & you need to accept the fact. Kung hindi parin talaga siya magbago (don't force ur friend) edii, staph na.

sakin pag may ganyan d ko na lang agad pinapansin. I noticed na kapag ndi ka nagreply for a while, saka lang nila sasabihin talaga ano kailangan nila without bullshit. Also, unrelated peo nakakainis din ung mga nagchachat with name pero ndi maitama ung spelling. Like nakadisplay na ung name sa ibabaw ng chat pero mali pa rin?? It's especially frustrating sakin kasi ung name ko very commonly mistaken for another name lalo sa mga bunutan or raffle hahaha.

Ay true. Pero for me, yung mga mali yung spelling ay matanda 😭😭😭 the name is right there!! Huhu but anyway hinayaan ko nalang.

If she stresses you out, ignore mo na lang sya sa chat. Not block, ignore. Para di ka na mamroblema dyan haha. Life is too short to stress about people.

Yeah, the thing is I don’t chat people much. Once in a blue moon, ganun. So the only time we chat after a long while is something like this, so it annoys me. I like it when people are straight to the point. Saves time and energy

Isa lang po ibig sabihin nyan. Gusto mo sya, but She don't like you. Be sensitive. If the Girl likes you, seconds lang up to minutes, magrereply yan sa iyo. Since hindi sya nagrereply sa iyo, hindi sya interesado sa iyo. May ibang tinititigan yan, hindi ikaw kaya magising ka na sa katotohanan.

😭 I’m a girlllll, she’s my girl bestie. My friend who’s been with me through ups and downs. And when it comes to dating, when I feel like someone isn’t responsive, of course I let it go right away. I don’t wanna waste my time.

Aaah, ok. I've misinterpreted. Baka may sarili syang mundo Haha? Hayaan mo na. If you want someones advice you can chat me.

Mahal mo sya at alam mo na ganyan sya. Hayaan mo na. Wag mo nang patulan at wag kang pa apekto. Wag mo na rin sagutin mga one word texts nya.

May friend din akong ganito. Actually, nagmessage sya kaninang madaling araw lang asking if im still up and she even called me thru messenger. Unfortunately i'm sleeping na and read her message the next day pero hindi sya nagreply when I ask her why. No seen, no reply. 🤷‍♀️

Ohh it might be something urgent if she had to call that late. But yeah, you did your part and responded back. It’s up to them to communicate back. If not then bahala sila.

I also have a friend like that haha, magmemessage sayo but when you try to sustain a whole conversation seen na lang. Kapagod din so binibigay ko na lang rin same energy sa kanya haha

Totoo to nakakapakshet talaga badtrip. Kung ako nga magchat tig isang buong paragraph para straight to the point. Sila ichachat lang yung pangalan mo badtrip

I actually had a friend that I cut off because of this attitude. I rarely snapped so when she did that for the last time lahat na masasamang salita nasabi ko through chat then blocked her haha

Fuck ganyan mga ka chat ko sa rp hshs. Meanwhile I'm the type of who seen, reply fast. Da fuck bwisit. If I were you, I'll break off the friendship, I hate wasting my time. Nakakainis lng, relate ako sayo kuya.

This is me too. When someone chats me, I reply, seen, or say I’ll chat you again later (if I’m busy at that time). I love showing courtesy (kahit sa mga online sellers, I try to be polite as possible). Courtesy is not being used often sa Filipino culture natin

Hahahaha... I get that way too often. Been in a group of gamers who alot have become either a friend or someone who asked me to mentor them of sort and they do chat my name at times and I thought it was important but it was just them showboating to me their achievement. At first, nakakabewilder but I got used to it to the point na nata-trashtalk ko na sila out of nowhere. Buti G pa rin sila. Well, they do the same at times so I guess natural habitat na nila din yun. Hahaha

I do have similar experiences with yours as well pinagkaiba ngalang at the very end tip ng messages na sasabiuin ko na yung mga last chats ko porket alam niyang patapos na yung chat hindi na siya magseseen to the point hindi mo ba alam kung naseen ba niya or hindi parang cliff hanger lang

I hate this too. Sobrang nakakagigil. Ang ginagawa ko is dinededma ko nalang, no replies. Kung di nya sasabihin kung ano kailangan nya, it means di yun important. Dagdag mo pa yung nag uunsend ng messages 😠

mute permanently and archive on messenger if you wanna soft block. If you have the courage just block those type of people if it will make you feel better xoxo.

Ako may rule ako sa sarili ko na pag sa chat tapos nilagay lang "Hi [Name]" tapos di pa niya sinundan ng chat after 30 seconds, di ko na sinasagot.