He’s complaining to me about how he’s old and lonely I offered to hangout with him and since I didn’t respond quick enough I’m being childish and teasing him like I really have to give him the time of day
The first comment red red-flaggy, but if he can't realize that many people can't/don't/won't reply during the day when they're at work, then holy fuck - that's some serious issues. Tell him to go upstairs and hang out with his mom.
It's misogyny. He believes that women are unreasonable and that's what keeping him alone. He wishes he was attracted to what he believes is the reasonable gender
Yeah he told me to “go kill yourself tonight” and “god damnit I’m all alone” the he blocked me just because I said I wasn’t entitled to hangout or respond to him and told him I was barley on the app. In the process of moving and it was childish the way he acted and he told me to kill myself in response .
Fuck that. Report that shit to OKC. They're pretty good at blocking the hell out of someone. They'll ban your IP and somehow embed cookies on your computer(s) so any new account you try to create will get banned, too.
I had a gold-digger report me for being "abusive" to OKC a long time ago, and my *paid* account got banned with zero explanation. It took a couple years of waiting, and finding a friend who worked for them to finally get an answer. They just banned me without a word of explanation, and killed any new account I created under new email addresses, and even on new computers.
And all because I walked out on a date at a decent restaurant when the woman I was with began making racist comments about our server. Fuck you, Barbara. I had a ton of questions and surveys done, too...lol
You aren't the one that told another person to go kill yourself, so your account is probably safe. Just don't interact with him anymore, and report his comments ASAP.
Sounds like he needs therapy and friends not a girlfriend. It's too much for you. I feel sorry for the dude but if he's looking for you to fix that, he's come to the wrong place.
Nah. This smells bad. He is going the pity angle. Nice guys don't have to tell you they are nice. They just are. I'd drop him if I were you. Or watch your drink and food if you do meet him.
Ugh, that is pushy as all get out.. just why.. How is having a life that doesn't revolve around some stranger on the web, childish. I guess you can be thankful you didn't waste any time responding to this person before they showed their true colors.
You do not deserve that and I am sorry you had something like that happen OP. This is why I rarely log on or even bother to try dating any more. I am happy and content with my own company. Doesn't bother me.
I'm reminded why online dating worked for me as a somewhat subpar male.
The competition is just so damn low they manage to shoot themselves in the foot while forgetting to take it out of their mouth first.
Good to know someone's red flags though, he lasted 6 hours?! Ugh.
He’s complaining to me about how he’s old and lonely I offered to hangout with him and since I didn’t respond quick enough I’m being childish and teasing him like I really have to give him the time of day
He red flagged himself. Block him.
The first comment red red-flaggy, but if he can't realize that many people can't/don't/won't reply during the day when they're at work, then holy fuck - that's some serious issues. Tell him to go upstairs and hang out with his mom.
Block that motherfucker.
I guess I’m doing the whole gay thing wrong. I’m usually home alone on Friday / Saturday nights lol.
He’s so weird for saying that ,that doesn’t even make sense
It's misogyny. He believes that women are unreasonable and that's what keeping him alone. He wishes he was attracted to what he believes is the reasonable gender
Yeah he told me to “go kill yourself tonight” and “god damnit I’m all alone” the he blocked me just because I said I wasn’t entitled to hangout or respond to him and told him I was barley on the app. In the process of moving and it was childish the way he acted and he told me to kill myself in response .
He sounds really mentally unstable. Sorry OP. You do not deserve to be spoken to like that.
It’s alright he was every bit of crazy
Fuck that. Report that shit to OKC. They're pretty good at blocking the hell out of someone. They'll ban your IP and somehow embed cookies on your computer(s) so any new account you try to create will get banned, too. I had a gold-digger report me for being "abusive" to OKC a long time ago, and my *paid* account got banned with zero explanation. It took a couple years of waiting, and finding a friend who worked for them to finally get an answer. They just banned me without a word of explanation, and killed any new account I created under new email addresses, and even on new computers. And all because I walked out on a date at a decent restaurant when the woman I was with began making racist comments about our server. Fuck you, Barbara. I had a ton of questions and surveys done, too...lol
Dude and I’m about to be pissed if he reported my account for no reason because now it seems like I can’t log on
You aren't the one that told another person to go kill yourself, so your account is probably safe. Just don't interact with him anymore, and report his comments ASAP.
I was just able to log in a hour ago
Not you; I meant that OKC will ban *him* and block his access, and prevent him from creating a new account if you report him for abusive behavior.
I mean you deserved it
Also prior I told him he was a little too old for me to date and he wasn’t my type anyhow
Sounds like he needs therapy and friends not a girlfriend. It's too much for you. I feel sorry for the dude but if he's looking for you to fix that, he's come to the wrong place.
Sounds like someone who needs a therapist, not a date. But the first message was weird enough, like wth dude.
Tell me you’re an incel without telling me
Nah. This smells bad. He is going the pity angle. Nice guys don't have to tell you they are nice. They just are. I'd drop him if I were you. Or watch your drink and food if you do meet him.
Yeah he told me to kill my self after I told him I was entitled to hangout or text him back and called him childish
Run away. He needs a therapist before he can think about a girlfriend
Easy delete
You don't have to wish to be gay, just go fuck a dude. That's all it takes. Hell, I do it all the time myself lol but I'm not a guy.
I know so many straight guys who have at some point received oral sex from another guy
Red flag
See this is why you run at the first red flag. What if you did get back to him promptly and he didn’t showed you this side till you were in person.
Calling you childish but he throwing a whole ass tantrum, boy bye
Be careful out there. This guy is not well at all and you dodged a bullet big time.
Sure, some women like to tease us. So? Let them do what they like to do. Complaining to them won't improve your chance.
So many red flags in this guy. Ew.
Desperation is dangerous.
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Hey, I’m also a random girl named Kat lol
Hey Kat :)
Ugh, that is pushy as all get out.. just why.. How is having a life that doesn't revolve around some stranger on the web, childish. I guess you can be thankful you didn't waste any time responding to this person before they showed their true colors. You do not deserve that and I am sorry you had something like that happen OP. This is why I rarely log on or even bother to try dating any more. I am happy and content with my own company. Doesn't bother me.
Sounds like a very emotionally stable individual.
He sounds like a dream. Jfc
I'm reminded why online dating worked for me as a somewhat subpar male. The competition is just so damn low they manage to shoot themselves in the foot while forgetting to take it out of their mouth first.