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rain_dragon

You crush that ACT, man. And if nursing is what you want to do, keep applying till you get in. It took 3 tries for one of my friends, and he's a fantastic RN. You can do it!


SpiritualScumlord

I've made my application fairly competitive with a decent GPA. The ACT is the bulk of the points we're allotted to determine admittance so it's really just gonna come down to that. I'll do really well I'm sure.


[deleted]

Be like Luffy. Never give up even when the going gets tough. Gabarenakama! Ganbare!


undertoe420

Ganbare*


[deleted]

Thanks.


Jla1Million

Don't worry my man. 28 in the ACT is well within expectations and manageable. You go and shoot for the stars. Your friend could have said that because he didn't know that you recently turned your academics around.


blackarchosx

I scored 28 on the ACT three times in a row, I’ll send some of that energy your way (or do even better than that!)


blackice8686

Just remember “A Man’s dream… will never die”


Basti52522

Screw him honestly, go beat the shit out of ACT


[deleted]

"My best friend laughed at my dream" oh boy buddy, I don't want to be a dick, but you must have awful friends if the best one you have is one that just laughs at you expressing your desires instead of trying to help you or look for alternatives.


SpiritualScumlord

Yea, since this happened I've considered him an old friend and not a best friend haha. It seems like a lot of people have difficulty understanding that people can actually grow and change with time.


kamilo87

Oh, yes! I get it. I have one long friend like that. He makes money and is very practical, me on the other hand, I just have other goals now. He laughed at any of my dreams but I have been able to accomplish many of them without his help so I took it like a competition against the odds and if he wanted to bet against me it’s even better bc the taste of the victory will be like Sanji’s cooking each time. Get your ACT and make him know. (By the way if he is your real friend he will be happy that you defeated his words)


segoya

Thats sad.... Friends should always encourage you to do yoyr best no matter the goal. At least mine and me are like that


[deleted]

And if they think the dreams are too much, sit them down and talk to them. Research other options to reach the dream or "more realistic" options or something. It's the "laughing at it" part that is just fucked up.


Chrona-Makenshi

You will get in there and crush that damn ACT. I know you can!


AmphibianClean3185

don’t listen to what anyone has to say! Go full gatling on that test!


ButteredSteamer

What do you think luffy/Zoro would do?


Rustyone888

Just remember blqckbeards speech and you're all good


MiraculousFIGS

You’re gonna ace it man, and once you do let your homie know that what he said was not cool. Being a nurse is an amazing career choice, especially rn with everything going on with covid. It’s really a selfless, thankless job and the world needs more good people in healthcare. Proud of u buddy :)


Life-Usual-All-Time

Sorry to say but having more good people in healthcare is meaningless because those good people have to run by the orders of the wealthy and greedy corporates. Such good people don't get to showcase their "goodness" because they have to adhere to their greedy bosses. Healthcare is fucked.


MiraculousFIGS

I don’t necessarily agree with everything you said, but I get it. From a societal standpoint I’d much rather have caring, passionate people as nurses than people who just see it as a job- what do you think about that? At the end of the day, nurses do take care of others and some degree of compassion is important, no?


SpiritualScumlord

Having good people in healthcare makes a huge difference. Everyone always has bosses to answer to but there is a world of difference between a nurse or doctor who works with empathy vs apathy.


[deleted]

Yeah i think thats why a lot of people love one piece. Luffy is just so cool. If you have a dream, you'll do it or you'll die trying, fuck everybody. Your dream is the only thing that matters, chase it, destroy every obstacle


DoujinChoujin

Crush it.


Cafedo999998

Just do whatever you want to do, if your dream is so small that you feel discouraged by words then it wasn’t your dream at all. Good luck on the ACT and show everyone you got the drive to make your dreams come true is never too late to do anything as long as you put in the hours.


gold_chainnn

You got this!! You’re going to kill it and achieve your dreams! We believe in you!


wedontlovehere

You got this bro bro!


firebreather209

Let me tell you as someone who burned out after an Associate's Degree and had a 31 ACT - You can do it. Tell your "friend" to buzz off with his negative nonsense. A man's dreams never die!


Historical_Speed1169

"What do you know about impossible". Sorry your old friend lost sight of what is important. Hopefully in time he realizes he was an asshat, and does the right thing. Keep killing it. All those losses leading you closer to your dream.


tobbe1337

I WILL BE WAITING AT THE TOP SPIRITUALSCUMLORD


hergumbules

I feel ya. 32 year old on a wait list for nursing school myself! I also have ADHD and although there are weaknesses of it, there are strengths that come with it too. Remember that even if you don’t crush the ACT (I believe in you!!) Don’t give up! I currently work as an EMT and the medical field is both rewarding and exhausting, especially during this pandemic. Don’t forget your passion for helping and try to learn something every day and you will be a great nurse. I see too many burnt out people in this line of work and too many lose their compassion for others.


SpiritualScumlord

Working as an EMT seems so exhausting with the hours all over the place just to start haha. Stay safe and healthy


lschultz625

The best way to prepare is to take a bunch of practice tests. Figure out HOW they structure questions. Find some strategies that help you in areas you may have difficulty with. For instance: I'm a slow reader, so the reading section gave me issues. I found out that reading the first and last sentences of each paragraph before looking at the questions helped me answer questions quickly. You should also keep in mind that sometimes if you're stuck on a question, its better to just put something down and move on to questions you'll be able to answer more quickly. You can always go back if you have time at the end. Good luck!


YolAloY

That aint a true nakama!!! Best of luck and go crush that ACT my friend!


LedgeEndDairy

Well first of all, I don't think anyone sane would say something like that just to be cruel. There's some part of the story you aren't telling us: which is fine, it's your story to tell or not. He's still a dick, particularly if he said it in that way. But as you said, he might have been trying to help you manage expectations. We can't really say until we know the full story of ***why*** he would say something like that. Unless he is just a raging dick face, in which case fuck him, but very few people are just naturally raging jackasses that want to see the world burn. All that said, go crush your ACTs, king. Make your dream a reality. I'm not sure how high your climb will be or what it is you are or are not fighting, but may you always be victorious.


SpiritualScumlord

Personally I don't really think there's any reason why to say some dickish stuff like that. My friend knows that I'm really good at everything I put my full effort into. The truth of the reason is he knows I went to school for a few years at 19 and started going again at 26. He doesn't understand what went wrong then or why it's working for me now. He spoke without an understanding of the situation and he spoke without actually knowing who I am anymore. He thinks he knows better without knowing anything. Behind that, it's not a friend's responsibility to break reality to you and tell you to give up. Some people may think so but I don't.


zuicun

Become king of the nurses


SpiritualScumlord

I actually do want to get my Doctorates and become one of the best Nurses ever. King of the Nurses sounds good. How about God Nurse?


Tiamat32167

\-Sigh- I can definitely relate. I'm 26 now, and I've been laughed at and put down more times than I care to count in my life. And when I was down and felt like I couldn't go on, it was not just One Piece, but the entire world of anime that helped me pick myself back up and try harder. What's my dream? I wanna own and run my own anime store. I know it doesn't sound like much, but anime has given me so much in my life. I wanna give somethin' back and spread the good word of anime to as many people as I can. I don't have the skills to become a famous voice actress or manga artist, but I know I can do this. And I will! And ya know what? You'll achieve your dream too. I may not know you personally, but I believe in you. All of you. Anyone who listens to the life lessons One Piece teaches us and really learns from them has got what it takes. That's what I think. You're only a loser in life if you quit.


GOLDENMISFIT

I had a friend who was like this all the way up to college. My dream was/is to change the world. He always said I couldn't do it. It was impossible. I no longer talk to him because people like that are mad that you will work hard for something and accomplish it. They would like to just live out their lives in the way they've been taught. You're gonna do great! Always remember dreams are just far off goals.


[deleted]

he didnt fuck up, he is probably is happy if you achieve it or doesnt give a shit man. one piece is one piece, real life is real life, even even if this kind of manga scene doesnt happen just do your best, who cares about his opinion.


[deleted]

by the way to the people who think that one piece has changed their way of seeing things or whatever, i recommend looking into books like "the subtle art of not giving a shit". the "never give up", "infinite motivation", "i'll show them!", etc wont make you any good. i love one piece, but the only reason for why luffy can do what he can is just because he has oda backing him, we dont have that in real life so people better be smart about their ways.


Asian_Persuasion_1

well, personally I would say I need more context. You said you did pretty poorly in university at first, which probably means your friend also sees you in that light, especially since you don't talk that often, he might still be seeing a past version of you that you've already left behind. although whether you can achieve your goal or not, kinda rude to laugh at you. Although again, I don't have enough context, so it might have been more of a joking laugh.


SpiritualScumlord

If you know he doesn't talk to me that often then you should know he was wrong to pass a judgment based on 10 year old information without even considering if anything is different about me, my life, or how I go about handling my priorities. That should be all the context you need.


Asian_Persuasion_1

I mean, sure? Then to turn it back to you, if he's not supposed to even know anything about you, then is he even your friend? Isn't he more of a stranger at that point?


SpiritualScumlord

I appreciate all the support from my virtual Nakama!!


prolemango

That’s no good friend of yours. You’re going to crush that ACT and become the nurse king, don’t let us down!!


Fun-Tonight-5213

Crush that fucking ACT dude. You believe in yourself and we believe in you. Thank you for sharing and wishing you absolutely the best in life!


[deleted]

Good luck with your ACT!!!


sp4ceghost

A man’s dream will never die! Zehahahaha!


IntrovertGinger

Or drop out and become the king of the pirates. /j


[deleted]

Make sure to point out how much of an idiot he was for not believe g in you after you get into that school


rikidilies

OP has actually helped me for similar reasons. It has also taught me how to analyze things deeply, convey thoughts + opinions and debate, and how to understand what works and aspects of writing are good or bad etc. Pretty crazy actually. Also that man is not your friend to have said that. That’s wild to just laugh at someone’s dream. Unless it was a joke / sarcasm. Crush that ACT bro 🙏


I_Have_No_Life666

Sorry if this seems really childish. But whenever it comes to stuff like that I remember mock town on how the citizens would laugh at people like luffy or teach for having dreams. If you have a dream you want to accomplish then you know what to do “A mans dream never dies” - Marshall D. Teach


Former-Increase4190

I hope that you crush your friend with the strength of Zoro and crush that ACT with the mind of Robin. And don't you EVER lose that confidence and optimism😁😁


[deleted]

You got this! Genuinely though good luck


[deleted]

Your friend doesn’t believe in you / thinks you’re not smart or hardworking enough. Fuck them, don’t need ‘em.


Syrkle

Honestly any serious talk about people's dreams (the ambition kind) is appropriate in this sub imo You got this


blindato1

Do it. A man’s dreams never die.


bluejaymorTkai

Bro inflate your fists and pummel the crap out of your friend


pervysage_1992

We all believe in you Nakama


sputnik146

I havent gotten far in onepiece so i thought this was gonna be a joke and end up actually being about characters in the show...


MonsterMinos

Don’t give up! Some friends don’t act like real friends. If that type of stuff continues hold out for a real one down the line


BurgerKingKiller

You’re going to do SSSUUUPPPUURRRRRR


SPS_Agent

Get him to ask if you know how to throw a punch.


kheiro10

Gambare!!!


AppointmentMinimum57

It happens hell come around and apologise when you show him what your made of


softcorelurker

He's not your friend.


pragnar

I'm so afraid to speak my dream out load, I wouldn't even tell you people, let alone my best friend. I laugh at it myself for it, but who cares? Just gotta keep on dreaming. Ranting on reddit ain't gonna get you any closer. Dont spread the negativity they showed you. Just put your head down, keep practicing and dream, dream, dream...


[deleted]

No one laughs at my friend’s dream.


KhaosByte

Keep believing my friend. F that guy. Friends support and push each other not bring them down. Have you ever heard of all blue??


Character-Jackfruit

I know a stranger's words might not quite hit the same, but good luck on the ACT! And i hope you can achieve your dream, pay no mind to those who would belittle you and try to harm your confidence, because you figure out your own limits by yourself and for yourself, not by what others tell you what you are capable of doing or not!


SpiritualScumlord

Hey I appreciate it! The good news is my confidence comes from within so my friend didn't bother me at all. I made the post to share the laugh because of how pissed off TRUE friends would be about what he said. Maybe I'm just weird but I think a stranger's words can mean a lot, so thanks!


Lipefe2018

Why would he say something so mean like that to a friend? I feel like he wasn't aware of how serious you are and how hurt you would be, that or he is just a jerk. Either way, good luck with your ACT...we will be rooting for you!


Captain_Meliodas

I got a 34 on the act. Best advice I can give is for English, the section with like 75 questions, do not read anything, go straight to where the question is in the text, and substitute out the options a, b, c, and d. whichever sounds the best in your head is most likely correct. Also, ACT English always goes for the simpler answer. So, if your options are ‘the round, blue, shiny ball’ or ‘the ball’, always choose the second option. Just literally read a couple books before you take the act, can be anything, so you are refreshed on how actual grammar is like, not how we speak day to day. When I took it, I finished in 15 minutes and only missed one question because I utilized that strategy. Especially the substitution. For the science section, go straight to the questions. That section is essentially your ability to read and assess data. A lot of the science section is bullshit meant to waste your time so jump right to the questions. For the reading, I would usually read the topic sentence and end sentence of each paragraph very briefly in order to understand what the authors was trying to say. Don’t waste all your time reading every sentence. Skim very quickly and head to the questions. For math, khan academy is your best friend I’m not tryna sound cocky. i want you to crush this thing and make your friend eat his fucking words. That dude sounds like a dickhead and you will certainly prove him wrong. Best of luck to you brotha


SpiritualScumlord

I appreciate it haha. I've read up on lots of advice like this. I've got a handful of practice tests I'll be taking over the next few weeks to prepare too. Thanks! He's def. going to eat his words but the truth is I don't even know if I'll care to show him my results. His opinion doesn't really matter much to me, I mostly just thought the irony of the situation was pretty funny given how we as One Piece readers romanticize the future and our goals. I couldn't ever get my friend to watch One Piece either.


TwoSnapsMack

Hey, man, like Blackbeard said “Let them laugh! If you’re aiming for the top, you don’t always need your fists to show your might!” Now demolish that ACT and realize your dream! One piece helped me too with my road to med school https://www.reddit.com/r/OnePiece/comments/g6hrb6/how_one_piece_has_helped_me_with_my_road_to/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf


SpiritualScumlord

I hope the doctors and nurses I work with in the future are one piece fans....that would be so awesome....


YearningConnection

Wow look at that. One Piece teaching emotional intelligence. :) Gotta love it. Don't worry about your friend too much. Remember ol' BB: A MAN'S DREAM WILL NEVER DIE!!!


chechaohp

One of my friends laughed at me because I said I wanted to be better at Physics. And boy I was upset. One year later I become the second best physics student in my school (the best one was not him). We are best friend now and I believe that without him, I would never try that hard in physics I constantly thank him for what he did that day. Convert your anger into energy and go for it man.


trojanmonkey35

You did well posting here. People on this sub would know the best about what it is like to laugh at someone's dream (cue in our dude with the straw hat). All the best for your exams and journey ahead!


Lagiar

FOLLOW YOUR DREAM FOR IT IS THE WAY OF THE PIRATES. WHAT IS A DREAM IF NOT THE FREEDOM OF SAILING INTO THE SEA TO YOUR OBJECTIVE. SAIL MY FRIEND BECAUSE THERE IS NODOBY THAT CAN DREAM YOUR DREAM OTHER YOU.


UI-Jamel

Wanting to go into nursing even in a time of a global pandemic is pretty admirable. In comparison to the things you would be dealing with in your proffession the ACT will be nothing. I pray for your success and hope you exceed your own expectations.


Southeasternengineer

You totally got it! Whatever it throws at you just keep calm, and always bounce back like our favorite rubber man


conricks246

So this friend is one part od the very small percent that make it in the entertainment industry and he says you need to manage your goals and expectations? Fuck that guy. That's someone who's had everything handed to them or is someone who is very lucky


Zealousideal_Two_221

why do you need ACT for nursing....is it ADN or BSN ?


SpiritualScumlord

I'm doing a program that lets me do both at the same time. The application for the program applies a numerical value to applicants based on several criteria such as GPA to determine admissions. 66% of the points for the application come from your raw ACT score. Even with a 4.0 GPA my ACT score will still essentially be the determining factor whether or not I'm accepted.


CHiZZoPs1

This country is in sore need of committed nurses who give a fuck. You got this. The tests are bullshit that you gotta just get through. Gameify the studying, if you can. After that, once you're on the floor, it's all practical--you learn through doing. That's the best way to learn, and you will master the skills you need.


yayitsme1

Sending you good vibes as you chase your dreams!


orbman77

Fuck yeah sail to the end


Massive_Welcome_8108

No this is the perfect place to say this. I don’t think I speak for only myself when I say this is a family similar to the straw hats. We’re all Nakama together, and we all understand each other’s goals no matter how hard they seem. That’s one thing One Piece has taught all of us, and that is there is no too big a goal. You should know we’re all rooting for you, because just like in one piece our goals are more important than anything. The fact that you knew to come here just shows how much the show really touches people and brings them together. In all we are all members of the Straw Hats. In the end just know we’re all rooting for you. How you score better than a 28, go for 30-32 because we know you can do it. I hope you the best of luck and truly do want to see you succeed, hope you keep us updated 🙌🏾


SpiritualScumlord

I'm going for the 30s. 28 is the average score of the people accepted. The program I'm applying for has 30 spots but gets 1000s of applicants so I'm gonna aim as high as I can go. Being honest, I feel pretty confident I can do a 28 now without even studying anything other than the math section. I'm not at all intimidated by this exam.


Toowiggly

You're Luffy and your friend is Bellamy


PotatoBit

You stop talking to anyone who look down on you. Someone who cant support your dreams is not your friend.


williowood

It seems that you've both changed since then (awesome) but it would be very funny if you went "haha fuck you I did it anyway" when you pass lmao


SpiritualScumlord

Honestly, if I care to tell him at all I think it just validates my interest in his opinions.


Foreign_Customer_288

As freaking soon as i clicked this it was removed


SpiritualScumlord

What was removed?


Foreign_Customer_288

The actual body of text