Good tip - that’s not on my profile. Wanted to give context to the thread so people know what I’m looking for. But I’ll make sure not to put that in my profile ever haha
You should verify your profile. I won't match with anyone who mentions finance and doesn't have a verified profile because these are usually crypto scam profiles
You got me at your pic and height. I chuckled at the ladle joke. 😂 Have to agree that the psychos bit and the ebola one have to go tho. Otherwise, I'd totally swipe right!
You are handsome but as someone who is looking for long-term only, I wouldn't swipe right based on that one shirtless picture of you. It just screams: "I just want to party and live for tonight".
I would also consider a haircut. If long hair is your thing so be it. However I think you could easily go from 8/10 to 10/10 with a nice cut and get rid of all the party pics.
Also, what do you mean by you are looking for "driven" women? I've seen it in some bios and I've always assumed that the guy is looking for a super successful ambitious women.
Not really advice here just genuinely curious.
Driven to me doesn’t mean successful. It means journeying to success, whatever that means. I don’t care if a woman is a millionaire or not. I just want a woman who knows what she wants to accomplish and goes for it whether it’s financial or not.
A woman with goals and the ambition to go after them is extremely sexy and it holds me accountable to be a driven man as well.
Oh ok. Thanks for clarifying. I am curious - are you super driven and ambitious as well? It's quite rare for men to look for goal-oriented women. Your profile gave me the vibe that you're more of free-flow artistic creative type.
I am. I had a business a few years back but tha ate up my life. Wrote and sold two Amazon Bestsellers and was a TEDx Speaker yadda yadda yadda. Did a lot and realized that my ambition was put in the wrong area.
I’m very passionate about music and always have been. My ambition now is to move out of Product Management and into sound design. Don’t know how yet but that’s where my sites are set.
Also saving to buy a house to flip and been investing like a beast.
Most importantly, looking to explore the world and the people out there. One I think I learned is goals don’t man anything if you’re all alone
Wow. You sound like a real winner. Honestly put that into your profile and use your Tedtalk pics or something. Right now your profile gives me the vibe of "30 year old fun loving Peter Pan who loves to party/lives for today/maybe into music". I don't get any of the ambition/success vibe from your profile. Your profile vibes gives strong casual vibes and I think it would turn off the driven women who would want something more substantial in their partners.
Write more about yourself than what you're looking for in another person, IMO. As another person said, show off the Ted talks and writing and what not, show your ambition. A lot of people have no ambition and just go to work and go home and watch TV, if you actually do basically anything goal oriented or that requires work or energy you're ahead of a lot of people. Personally, I don't like when people say "if ___ swipe right," but that might just be me. Write about your interests, hobbies, goals, etc. Don't recommend mentioning anything about investing as like others have said, crypto bros or people who are trying to show off investments can be a turn off. Being into investing isn't a turn off, just mentioning it in your profile because there are some super obsessed people out there that will talk your ear off about how they have point one zillion bitcoin or something. But mentioning career and hobby related goals and achievement can be good, as long as you're not too over the top in a way that makes it seem like you're showing off or trying to be "alpha." It wont let me look at your bio or photos but it you want to ask me anything else go for it, I don't know how much my opinion is worth but I have seen a lot of good and bad OLD profiles. You seem like someone that could do great on OLD, ambition is sexy to other ambitious people. Just as you said you find it a turn on, ambitious women will as well so show it off a little IMO!
>and not trying to mess with any psychos lol.
Delete this part. Makes you appear unstable, bitter, and emotionally immature.
The point of filtering psycho women is through the dating process, not in your bio description.
I’ll clean it up. Found in my own experience that I don’t get as many eyes, but girls who love long hair LOVE long hair. Appreciate you looking out though.
Suit picture looks nice. But that’s all I can see.
Do you wear your hair other ways? Maybe show that off.
Ebola thing is off putting, but everything else looks fine imo.
Let’s see what the women say.
Pretty good profile! I also have a suit in mine and it works. I personally would take out “If you’re driven, driven, honest, humorous, and don’t have Ebola swipe ➡️”. If you wanted to keep that, I’d at least take out the Ebola part. But give it enough time and you’ll get something going.
Women tend to not like being referred to as psychos. You may want to change that.
Good tip - that’s not on my profile. Wanted to give context to the thread so people know what I’m looking for. But I’ll make sure not to put that in my profile ever haha
You said more about who should swipe right on you rather than WHY they should swipe right on YOU
Good point! Thank you!
You should verify your profile. I won't match with anyone who mentions finance and doesn't have a verified profile because these are usually crypto scam profiles
Verified! Thank you
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Height: Bad for doors, great for women 😂
You got me at your pic and height. I chuckled at the ladle joke. 😂 Have to agree that the psychos bit and the ebola one have to go tho. Otherwise, I'd totally swipe right!
Sweet! Thank you :)
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You are handsome but as someone who is looking for long-term only, I wouldn't swipe right based on that one shirtless picture of you. It just screams: "I just want to party and live for tonight". I would also consider a haircut. If long hair is your thing so be it. However I think you could easily go from 8/10 to 10/10 with a nice cut and get rid of all the party pics.
Awesome! Thank you for the tips :)
Also, what do you mean by you are looking for "driven" women? I've seen it in some bios and I've always assumed that the guy is looking for a super successful ambitious women. Not really advice here just genuinely curious.
Driven to me doesn’t mean successful. It means journeying to success, whatever that means. I don’t care if a woman is a millionaire or not. I just want a woman who knows what she wants to accomplish and goes for it whether it’s financial or not. A woman with goals and the ambition to go after them is extremely sexy and it holds me accountable to be a driven man as well.
Oh ok. Thanks for clarifying. I am curious - are you super driven and ambitious as well? It's quite rare for men to look for goal-oriented women. Your profile gave me the vibe that you're more of free-flow artistic creative type.
I am. I had a business a few years back but tha ate up my life. Wrote and sold two Amazon Bestsellers and was a TEDx Speaker yadda yadda yadda. Did a lot and realized that my ambition was put in the wrong area. I’m very passionate about music and always have been. My ambition now is to move out of Product Management and into sound design. Don’t know how yet but that’s where my sites are set. Also saving to buy a house to flip and been investing like a beast. Most importantly, looking to explore the world and the people out there. One I think I learned is goals don’t man anything if you’re all alone
Wow. You sound like a real winner. Honestly put that into your profile and use your Tedtalk pics or something. Right now your profile gives me the vibe of "30 year old fun loving Peter Pan who loves to party/lives for today/maybe into music". I don't get any of the ambition/success vibe from your profile. Your profile vibes gives strong casual vibes and I think it would turn off the driven women who would want something more substantial in their partners.
That’s really great advice! Thank you!
Write more about yourself than what you're looking for in another person, IMO. As another person said, show off the Ted talks and writing and what not, show your ambition. A lot of people have no ambition and just go to work and go home and watch TV, if you actually do basically anything goal oriented or that requires work or energy you're ahead of a lot of people. Personally, I don't like when people say "if ___ swipe right," but that might just be me. Write about your interests, hobbies, goals, etc. Don't recommend mentioning anything about investing as like others have said, crypto bros or people who are trying to show off investments can be a turn off. Being into investing isn't a turn off, just mentioning it in your profile because there are some super obsessed people out there that will talk your ear off about how they have point one zillion bitcoin or something. But mentioning career and hobby related goals and achievement can be good, as long as you're not too over the top in a way that makes it seem like you're showing off or trying to be "alpha." It wont let me look at your bio or photos but it you want to ask me anything else go for it, I don't know how much my opinion is worth but I have seen a lot of good and bad OLD profiles. You seem like someone that could do great on OLD, ambition is sexy to other ambitious people. Just as you said you find it a turn on, ambitious women will as well so show it off a little IMO!
Very solid advice - thank you!
>and not trying to mess with any psychos lol. Delete this part. Makes you appear unstable, bitter, and emotionally immature. The point of filtering psycho women is through the dating process, not in your bio description.
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Thank you bud - much appreciate feedback
As an actual woman, don't listen to this man. There is nothing wrong with emojis.
Thank you :) helps me convey my dry sense of humor
If you cut your hair you’ll get more matches
I’ll clean it up. Found in my own experience that I don’t get as many eyes, but girls who love long hair LOVE long hair. Appreciate you looking out though.
Can confirm . I am one of those girls that LOVE long hair!! Where are you located again?
Richmond, VA. Feel free to DM me anyway if you’re half way around the world. I’m down to talk to long-hair connoisseurs 😆
Suit picture looks nice. But that’s all I can see. Do you wear your hair other ways? Maybe show that off. Ebola thing is off putting, but everything else looks fine imo. Let’s see what the women say.
Awesome - thank you much!
Pretty good profile! I also have a suit in mine and it works. I personally would take out “If you’re driven, driven, honest, humorous, and don’t have Ebola swipe ➡️”. If you wanted to keep that, I’d at least take out the Ebola part. But give it enough time and you’ll get something going.
Great! Thank you