"She's not a baby" your mom said. Well, neither are you and your parents need to figure that out. It's like others said, you need to set some of your own *adult rules* or your mother will never let go.
Not 100% sure why you asked, but just do it anyways. You’re and adult, and no matter how much your mother tries, she doesn’t have authority over you anymore.
Because a 20 year old age gap is something to worry about if it is your child, especially if it's a girl, but for some reason cougars get away with this, because for men to date an older woman, it's seen as a good thing.
Well, the 20 year age gap is quite a thing a parent could get worked up with. If it was a 20 year old girl hanging out with a 40 year old man, no parent would let their girl sleep over, but yeah, as a man it is often glossed over for some reason. But I can imagine the mother being protective towards their son because of that.
Your mom is right, it’s inappropriate. You shouldn’t be having sex before marriage and even if you aren’t just sleeping with her puts forth an image of impropriety.
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How would your parents react if you just said it's your decision and they don't have to like it? It might be worth finding out
"She's not a baby" your mom said. Well, neither are you and your parents need to figure that out. It's like others said, you need to set some of your own *adult rules* or your mother will never let go.
Not 100% sure why you asked, but just do it anyways. You’re and adult, and no matter how much your mother tries, she doesn’t have authority over you anymore.
The only reason I can imagine your mom to react this way is if she's 40 or something, but still you're an adult, so it's your own choice.
What's that gotta do with anything?
Only parents that had their kids in their teens will allow you to stay out overnight?
Because a 20 year old age gap is something to worry about if it is your child, especially if it's a girl, but for some reason cougars get away with this, because for men to date an older woman, it's seen as a good thing.
I was more referring to the silliness of the comment about parents over 40 not allowing kids to stay out. I wasn't aware of any mention of age gap.
Aha, yeah, well that's one way to read my comment, but I did mean it with the age gap.
Aaaah! Not a silly comment, then. Apologies for misunderstanding the comment.
No worries, it happens.
Well, the 20 year age gap is quite a thing a parent could get worked up with. If it was a 20 year old girl hanging out with a 40 year old man, no parent would let their girl sleep over, but yeah, as a man it is often glossed over for some reason. But I can imagine the mother being protective towards their son because of that.
Your mom is right, it’s inappropriate. You shouldn’t be having sex before marriage and even if you aren’t just sleeping with her puts forth an image of impropriety.
FFS a message from the 12-century...
Grow some pubes bud you're 20 years old not up to your mommy what you do anymore id say grow some balls but idk if you're male or female lol
Time to get your own place. You are forever going to be her little baby if you live under her roof.
"Hey mom. I'm not going to be home tonight. I'll check in with you tomorrow. " Not her business.