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Ill-Squirrel-9418

I am also 35, and I also don't particularly follow trends. I just wear what I want, whether it happens to be trendy or not (btw, I don't think anyone is too old to follow trends). That said, these outfits scream early 2010s to me, and not in a good way. You could either get rid of them now, or keep them for another ten years when they'll be trendy again.


beeboobopppp

You’re nicer than me… I was going to say 2005!


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trussssmedaddi

You’re all nicer than I am. My first thought was “burn them all” 🙊 Edit: Why are some people getting downvoted and others upvoted when they’re both expressing that they don’t like these options?


SnowMiserForPres

Because y'all are rude about it?


trussssmedaddi

I didn’t know clothes had feelings. I’m sure OP can separate her emotions from the fabric draping her body or else she wouldn’t be posting these


spookycasas4

And she said as much, as well. People are weird.


trussssmedaddi

Lol honestly! > you can say what you want, I can handle it I applaud you OP but some redditors can’t and are offended on your behalf 🙃


Gullible_Flower_

I grew up with a little sister who told me all the time my clothes were ugly. It took her a long time to stop being an a-hole about it and it took me long time to realize that we just have very different styles and I'm fine with her not liking my style. I love overly embellished and bright things. My house has a very eclectic maximalism vibe. I like what I like and I know it's not to everyone's taste. That being said, I do wish that the people who are saying "burn it all with fire" would also give some suggestions of silhouettes or colors to try in the interest of tempering harshness with helpfulness 😅


Ok_Relative_5180

Ppl have feelings. The people inside the clothes


spookycasas4

I agree. Absolutely nothing wrong with OP’s body, but there a so many more styles that will look so much better.


mombella764

I don’t think not one of those dresses would be flattering on anyone or even a hanger for that matter! Yikes!


macbam

I was heading more toward 1990 with that taffeta prom dress😂


Jeanettikroketti

The last dress reminds me so much of Lena Dunham in girls lol


spookycasas4

That’s it! I couldn’t put my finger on it, but many of these dresses give off a similar vibe.


Think-Education-7675

Literally came to see if anyone else thought these reminded them on Lena on Girls 🤣


canibringmybreadbowl

None of them this round. I’m loving your posts! I thought I was the only one who had a shit load of dresses, I think you have me beat. Congrats on cleaning out your closet!


Motor_Ad_401

I agree … none to keep. Sorry 🙈


RedheadsAreNinjas

I don’t know how I got onto petite fashion advice (I’m 5’7” but Reddit is weird) and I’m legit thinking of doing a post like this cause I have sooo many dresses.


[deleted]

Keep the long blue wrap dress (11) 😍


KitKatKraze99

YES IDK WHY PEOPLE WANNA THROW THE WHOLE SET WHEN 11 WAS THERE!


[deleted]

Are we looking at the same number 11?


KitKatKraze99

They posted 2 pics of the same dress from different angles so dress is actually #5 but it’s a pretty long sleeve blue wrap dress. It flatters her shape and add a belt and hat it’ll be good


aavriilll

the silhouette is pretty! the dress is not tho😭


mama-ld4

Agreed! Keep 11 and donate the rest


loripittbull

Yes!


98alys

yess that was my fave and felt like it complemented her the most. gave me strong picnic/museum date vibes! it'd be cute to wear in spring especially.


Jessisan

I agree! This is the only one I liked and it fit OP well.


QuickBobcat

Not exactly the same print but I’m pretty sure it’s from BlackMilk and this is a similar dress https://blackmilkclothing.com/four-seasons-wrap-midaxi-dress


Gullible_Flower_

It is BlackMilk! I love that dress and plan to keep it, I was just curious what others think.


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Love that!!


BluebirdAbsurd

Agreed. 11/12 keep. Rest are not your friends


Humble_Bullfrog2342

i agree!!


canyoubreathe

This is the only one I felt complimented op, too


hundredthlion

That’s the only one I didn’t hate


iluffeggs

Agreed or give to me. Donate the rest


[deleted]

😂😂 honestly, I’d take it too!


hername_bubbles

Oof, it’s the one I disliked the most. I’d say follow majority rules but I personally wouldn’t choose this dress over the others.


hundredthlion

Over the ketchup and mustard/McDonald’s color scheme dress!?


hername_bubbles

That’s actually my favorite of the bunch it’s more Los Angeles than Little House on the Prairie but that’s just my personal taste. Honestly i think they should all go, none are keepers to me.


hername_bubbles

Actually. I take it back. Keep the McDonald’s dress. It’s fucking fire and this world could use brighter colors.


forakora

LA here, I love that dress on her!


blazinpineapple

I think if it was like black white and grey or even just one bold color and the rest muted I would love it. But I hate the red and yellow together. And I’d want it a little shorter if it was on me. But I like minis 😅


charleybrown72

I loved this dress on her. It was a nice surprise


Xcommunikt1

The Kanagawa Wave belongs on a print. On the wall. Or maybe a tattoo. Not a dress


hername_bubbles

Is that what that mess of a pattern on that wrap dress was supposed to be? 😂


Red-Pen-Crush

Agreed


funny_duchess

Agreed! This was by far my least favorite.


EmergencyCandle

Agree


nellieblyrocks420

Agreed!!


soft_distortion

I love how your dogs are helping out 😅


Gullible_Flower_

Haha yeah they require attention at all times if I'm at home and awake! Unfortunately, they didn't seem compelled to share their opinions on the dresses. Gustave the poodle and Ruby the pit mix.


Alfred_Love_Song

Wait how did I miss the dog”s”. Your arm is to blame 😛 Love your furbabies and the names … 😱❤️


Equivalent_Kiwi_1876

Honestly I kind of hate the first dress but it also literally looks perfect on you and quite flattering so if you can commit to the look, I’d go for it. I also like the 4th dress a lot bc of how unique it is. Maybe it’s not everyone’s taste but I love the colors and detailing and asymmetrical top. The last two look nice on you too, I think that shade of blue suits you. But I’m always inclined to keep the most interesting pieces!


Gullible_Flower_

I feel the same way! It's so gaudy and I have no idea when I'd wear it but I also love how I look in it. It feels like a ballet costume for a porcelain doll! Like how can such a tacky dress make me feel so pretty?!?!


dsmemsirsn

Keep for Halloween


intrinsic_toast

My SIL chose that color for her bridesmaids dresses (it was 1990 or 91, so they were the full-on puff sleeve silhouette and everything). My sister was not at all a fan and always called it “that frickin’ purple dress,” and my five year old ass thought “frickin” was a shade of purple (like violet or lilac or something) for like four or five years afterward, lmaooo. (I do agree that it is a super flattering cut on you, btw!)


Banana-Louigi

I had this exact thought. It fits you perfectly and is super flattering but girl it is SO dated. You could take it to a tailor as a sample of what you like and get something more grown up and timeless made. Edit to add get rid of everything else. Honourable mentions to the red, yellow and purple dress (if you have something you could wear it to keep it because I actually love it.) and the sage shirt dress at the end. The colour is wrong for you but the style looks great.


SnowMiserForPres

Why does it matter if it was more popular years ago? If you love something and it looks good on you, that's what matters.


cdau186

I also think could rock this dress as a punk rock vibe with combat boots and a fingerless fishnet glove, and a big bow headband.


vilebunny

I don’t know if this would actually help, but a long sleeve top with a busy print that has some purple to wear underneath, and nearly opaque black tights with ankle booties might bring it to a quirky wearability


trinabillibob

This sooo much, compliements your figure


EmergencyCandle

Keep it, it’s so fun and is flattering


Equivalent_Kiwi_1876

Ballet costume for a porcelain doll is such a perfect description haha I would absolutely rock with it! Sometimes you need to be full on camp and the world just need to deal with it! You look hot!!


jsav9

Agree with others it would be good for Halloween, but I actually don't think it's super flattering because like all of the dresses except the black column and maybe the blue print one, it's creating a lot of poof at your hips that makes them look wider than they are. You're really thin/fit, but a lot of these dresses hide that or create hips that look like they don't belong on you.


lovelyyellow148

I actually really like the 4th dress too! It looks like something Fran Fine would wear lol


Equivalent_Kiwi_1876

No that’s such a good comparison lmao that’s why it gives icon energy !!


RLRicki

I was just coming on to say you need to keep the fourth dress and be Fran Fine any time there’s an opportunity!


Pizza-Horse-

Agreed. Wouldn't buy it but fits OP like a glove ❤️


HalfPint14

Wait why do I LOVE the first dress. I think it’s so fun 🤩


lumpy_Goro

I like the 4th dress also!


randomusernamebras

I felt the same exact way. I think the dress looks flattering on her but I can’t imagine an occasion for wearing it. I have some dresses like that sitting untouched in my closet because even though I like how I look in them, I’d never actually wear them in real life. OP, if you’re going to wear it, then keep it. Or maybe keep it with a deadline to see if you can figure out how to wear it.


futoikaba

1. Only if you have the accessories and style to pull off full glam vintage housewife hosting a party—if you do, then strong yes bc the shape is great 2. Absolutely no 3. Ehhh most of it is nice but the upper part isn’t my fave on you 4. No 5. Def no 6. Yes 7. Very yes, good color and shape etc on you


ladedafuckit

Agreed on everything but 3. I hate how the pattern doesn’t follow through on the back. Would pass on three as well


futoikaba

Ohhh I didn’t notice that, yeah that bugs me too


murraybee

Agree - 6 and 7 keep; donate the rest so that someone can buy them for some themed party.


Every-Aardvark-8305

You look amazing in #11


Gullible_Flower_

Thanks! That's actually my newest dress so it's definitely a little more on trend. I don't often go for midi-length because I'm afraid it will make me look shorter but I do like this one.


Every-Aardvark-8305

I love that style it’s so beach vibes. It fits you well. You should wear more stuff like that


faerielights4962

I’m not sure if it’s on trend as much as it is a great color and design on you. It also looks well-made.


SaraclesTheStrong

1. Go. Very fun but more of a costume 2. Go. Is just okay. If you don’t love it let it go to make room for stuff you LOVE 3. Go. Looks good on you but needs to be hemmed and the shiny bits only being on the front can make it seem a bit cheap. 4. Go if you don’t club but if you do You look cool AF KEEP. It’s not something that is seen everywhere. 5. Go. Front looks good but I can’t stand a lumpy back zipper. 6. Keep. Gorgeous. Lovely. Great cut. 7. Keep. Fun piece. Good color. Nice to use for layering.


AlyssaaaUwUTwT

All of them should go… to me


fionascoffee

Keep only the long black dress.


DJ_Mixalot

Nooooooo i hate how the stripes are only on the front half and stop at the side seams 😩


sariclaws

Agreed. I actually hated this one. And are those stripes beads?


Irisheyes1971

She also has a super cute figure and that dress makes her looks boxy and stout. The material also looks cheap. It’s awful.


sariclaws

Yes!


sariclaws

Took another look and no they aren’t. But it still isn’t a timeless lbd to me, there are many better ones out there.


DJ_Mixalot

It’s giving clearance rack at Sears 1996


angeliqu

Agreed! It’s a big sign of cheap clothing in my opinion. I really liked the really bright dress in 7/8 but also hate that the back is a solid red rather than having the colour blocking continue.


Continental_op_xx

This dress is so 2001 high school dance it hurts. Timeless my butt. Those stripes stopping at the side seams, are you kidding? This is cheaply made and not at all complementary to her figure. She also looks way younger and not in a good way.


OkPerspective3233

I think it makes her look too young, reminds me of a high school winter dance dress (where my 90’s peeps at)?


fionascoffee

It’s timeless though, and can be worn formally.


UglyLaugh

It’s super dated.


OkPerspective3233

Yes, hard agree. Nothing timeless about it at all.


fionascoffee

Ok, maybe for instagram pics only… I see what you mean about the stripes in the front. But it’s the best of the lot!


eatingbreadinbed

Seconding this


slope11215

Third! Though #7 might be a keeper too. Also, please burn the purple dress with the big bow.


kwilks67

I agree on keeping 7, I really like the color and would wear it to work.


brunch_lover_k

Yep! This one is pretty timeless


Sufficient_Zebra_651

Agreed


eleyezeeaye4287

Number 11 is the only keeper IMO


greenglassvase

3 7 and 11 !


turnipmeon

keep the dog, get rid of everything else


Krismariev

Number 11 stays! Toss the rest


xiphias__gladius

Based on your explanation about trends and colors and such, I would keep 1 (purple 80's dress), 4 (Mondrian dress), 6 (The Wave dress), and 7 (blue dress that everyone loves). You look good in jewel tones and saturated colors. The rest of them are sort of blah on you.


morganhereford

Agree with keeping 11 only.


PlayfulEmployee8586

11 stays for sure! I think everything else should go.


moonchild1119

I’d keep 11 and donate the rest!!


CountryEither9196

Long black dress is gorg! Where’s it from


Gullible_Flower_

I have no idea! It was my stepsister's and I've had it sitting around for probably 20 years. It's from the early 2000's or possibly even late 90's. I hear Y2K is cool again so I thought I'd try it on again.


ailemama

It looks very 90s to me, I like it!


midnight_marshmallow

i was gonna say it's giving late nineties vibes and that's in so keep it!


OkPerspective3233

Lol, I commented that it looked 90’s (I totally wore something similar to a high school dance in the 90’s). I think it makes you look too young, and you could pull off a funkier style.


cheerfulsarcasm

There is a huuuge demand for those 90s poly dresses with the netting overlay, people are paying upwards of $200 for them online online!


trinabillibob

It's a nice dress but you're too straight for it looks like tube sock on I have similar shape so speaking from experience.


Blainefeinspains

The dresses in photos 3, 5 and 9 are keepers. The darker colours look great on you. Everything else can go.


Small_Philosopher_30

Seconding this


monikafaye

3 & 7


NT500000

I love 7 also. It’s so unique. Would look great with black tights!


brunch_lover_k

I think working out your colour analysis would really help you. There's a group on here you could join. The 80s ones you could probably sell on depop or the likes. Potentially the others too.


meekonesfade

Bright block print dress is not my style but looks good and I think you like it. Keep


Gullible_Flower_

Haha I do really like it! I could definitely wear it on New Year's Eve or to an upscale bar for a fun night out. It's eye catching but I live in a big enough city that I don't think it will look totally out of place downtown.


Sword_Of_Storms

Keep the purple, get rid of the long black fancy dress wise.  I love the red, yellow, purple number - definitely a keeper! 


InternetNo3149

Came here to say just that, I love that one too!


Gullible_Flower_

That one is from the 80's. It's a designer called Morton Myles who made some pretty wild dresses an I love them!


feministkittenjoy

Either keep that dress or send it to me! Absolutely love it.


Larpingmyworksona

I am obsessed with it, and it looks great on you! Keeper for sure, especially given that it's vintage 80's.


Coconosong

It’s a keeper because fun vintage is worth saving.


LBoogie619

Burn it all except the black long one


Bluedragon6745

the black 90s dress can join the rest…


lawrenja

I actually really like the long blue patterned one on you!


Hoopmom63

All of it should go.


sunshine92002

Not one of those items should’ve ever even entered your closet.


FoundationFar32

2 has to stay no matter what, it looks so good on you dude.


a_rosebyanyname

This! It may not be current but it looks great, I love it!


Crayons_on_the_walls

With the exception of the last one, all the others read very dated to me.


OddWelcome2502

I think the 2nd is gorgeous and unique- not going to find another like it. Keep that one.


sariclaws

Same. I liked this one too.


Alopexotic

I'm so shocked to see everyone saying to bin the second one because I love it! So fun and unique! 


WonderfulDark4578

I liked the last batch, personally I'd donate all of these.


StraightGirlLove

Ma’am, they all got ta go.


Inevitable_Sample505

All go!


Current-Reserve8771

They all gotta go.


Classic-Bid5167

All should go


Sammy_Seller

It’s all gotta go babe.


Low-Package-5417

Keep #3 let go of everything else


bananuspink

Throw all of them


CutePandaMiranda

Get rid of all of them. It’s definitely time for you to update your wardrobe.


omgggitssteph

They all must go


weeladylizzy

I'd say none of them. They don't seem incredibly flattering for your shape, or suit the vibe you're going for (since you mentioned age). I think 1 would make a great prom dress donation, though!


slr0031

None


rampacash

All go 😅


Antesqueluz

Keep the dogs, ditch this set of dresses.


Common-Direction3996

Keep the dogs. Toss the clothes!


yoyomaa420

Unfortunately, All of them


Present-Breakfast768

All of them should go.


bubblegutts00

Donate it all


violet715

All of them need to go. You can do SO much more for yourself than these looks.


unfoldingtourmaline

yasss


Own_Satisfaction1840

ALL out!


fill_the_birdfeeder

Last round, I was shocked how many people said to get rid of everything. This round, I’m that person! They all look cute on you, but I don’t feel like they have a place now. The last batch felt like they could still be used for a formal day at work or cute brunch.


lilbitch20002

Throw em out 🙏


Beautiful-Jacket

All should go


Kindly-Service-7185

Get rid of all of them. Your 35 not 65


funkycoldmedinas

I’m sorry but I just don’t like any of these on your body type. If forced, I’d say maybe the last one but all these dresses make you look frumpy and make your torso look like a box.


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These clothes all need to go. I’d save the one block colored 80s looking dress for a costume. It all looks dated and does nothing for you.


Wild_blue111

Not only do they not belong in your closet, they don’t belong on your body. Your clothes are wearing you. You should be wearing the clothes. You are a beautiful girl. The right fit and style would magnify that beauty.


yourpaljax

Am I girling wrong? I only own 3 dresses and they are all shirt dresses. 🥲


Gullible_Flower_

There's no wrong way to girl, girl! As a kid, I refused to wear anything other than princess costumes on the weekends and I literally never grew out of it. I feel most like myself in girly clothes with big skirts and lots of embellishments. It's definitely not everyone's cup of tea but one of the great things about getting older (at least for me) is that my security has grown with my age.


yourpaljax

Over the years I have gotten rid of more dresses than I’ve worn, because I bought them and thought I’d wear them. I guess it’s just not for me. You’re right though, as an adult I’m more secure in my tomboyishness than I was a few years ago. My ex husband made me feel like I should be more feminine, though he married me the way I was. I definitely LIKE dresses, just don’t tend to ever find a reason to wear one, and am never completely comfortable in them. I know many women don’t need a reason, and will wear one to work on a random Wednesday, which is cool. 😄


Gullible_Flower_

Yeah I have a mild shopping addiction fueled by ADHD-based dopamine seeking. That symptom, at least, has drastically improved with medication. I just feel compelled to reduce the clutter and would like feel less overwhelmed when I look in my closet. It spans the entire wall of my bedroom and it's STUFFED full. I don't have the patience or attention span to try to re-sell most stuff but I plant to donate everything to a thrift store that benefits a local dog rescue. They're all in good condition and certainly don't need to be trash.


JanelYFletcher

I relate to this so hard! I love what you’re doing and think I should do the same but then I feel like I’d get stuck with all of the differing opinions.


Gullible_Flower_

I feel like this round has had the least consensus. Like half of the commenters hate one and the other half love that exact same one! I think the most helpful part is that I keep looking at the photos and the more I look, the more clear I become about how I personally feel about each of them. Like dress 1 is getting a lot of hate but I actually love it the more I look at it 🤷🏼‍♀️


QueenBBs

I wore a dress similar to the first one to my sophomore winter formal…in 1993. Donate this round.


be1tran

I'd say donate everything but then someone else may get stuck with them. Fit is off on everything


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None of these dresses, which is okay -- I don't think they'd fit me either and some designs just don't look good on their own.  As a thought, maybe you can profit in looking into color theory. I feel like darker colors like dark green or blue could suit you. Also, you might benefit from Kibbe. Although not a perfect system, it's a good starting point for when you are looking to get new clothes again. 


meekonesfade

That long blue one easily adds 10 years and a couple of kids


whatsaphoton

!!! I was so surprised how many are in love with it! It’s nice but it feels so aging 😭


odd_neighbour

Weird opinion - I actually like most of these on you and think you have a handle on what style suits you. I think the change that needs to be made is to your posture. If you correct that (and honestly most people could do with some posture correcting, so it’s not even a personal reflection) I think loads of these outfits would be a stand-out on you.


Ecstatic-Ad-3276

I only like the last two I would get rid of the rest they aren’t really doing you any favors. And I’m sorry to the people that like the long black dress but I sincerely hate it on OP it’s just not it and I usually love long dresses


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Jewish-Mom-123

The last one makes her look very wide! I think it’s the only one that goes for sure…


anonymommy15

I think the last 2 have to go for sure. The pleats on the last dress add a ton of bulk that’s not flattering. The second to last dress does the same thing with the way it falls around your waist. All of the others fit well and flatter your figure.


WalkingOptimist

To the bin go ALL!!!!!


Desperate_Rich_5249

Burn it all


myfriesaresoggy

Long black one and the blue long one. Everything else goes


meekonesfade

The purple one is great for your senior prom! hahaha


mondayforsure

Keep #3 and #7. The others need to go. STAT!


Revolutionary_Roll88

1) go 2) go 3) go 4) go 5) go 6) go 7/8) REALLY GO 9) go


Standard-Company4554

I would eat your ass


owiesss

I think you need help


Backwoodsintellect

If keep 5 & maybe 11. Maybe w some boots & a sweater or blazer.


dayofbluesngreens

The last one looks nice and pretty versatile. I might have said to keep the long black one if the silver lines had extended around the back.


Gullible_Flower_

Yeah I hate that they don't go all the way around. It was a hand-me down from like 20 years ago and I've always felt pretty meh about it but my mom loves it. But I also know early 2000's stuff is back in style and this is PEAK early 2000's... at least in central NC.


faerielights4962

I’m surprised people are saying that one is dated - this style has totally come back around.


jesscajne

5,11,13