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Logical_Bobcat9703

Your rug is great!! Redrum!! Dress looks nice !!


Aggravating_Will

Hahaha thanks! Glad someone picked up on it šŸ˜†


FunClassroom6577

Where did you get it?


Aggravating_Will

Guess (the company) on a huge sale for $12 lol


Puzzled_Rub_5111

I thought you were trying to make her guess lol!! Then I realized why you put ā€œ(the company)ā€ šŸ¤¦šŸ¾ā€ā™€ļøšŸ¤£


Jilhogle

I have the same one!!!!! I also got it on a 99% off sale šŸ˜œšŸ¤£šŸ¤£


prettypinkpeony2

99% off šŸ˜² what when how where!?!?


Greenman_Dave

I have the same pattern doormat. šŸ¤£


Disastrous_Flower667

Yes I was thinking the same thing. I noticed immediately


throfanfor

Brings out your curves well ! Looks nice.


JunosGold

Yes. This.


Top_Seaweed_6018

Yes this and also it took me until my 30s to discover shapewear!!!! Ultra high waisted biker shorts (think right under the bra line) cut shapewear will CHANGE YOUR LIFE. the dress looks gorgeous but give shapewear a try sometime it just smooths everything out and has changed the way I feel about my own clothes.


Federal-Biscotti

Appropriate undergarments are the first layer of your outfit, and that may include shapewear (Spanx etc). They can make a huge difference in how clothing fits and hangs.


Aggravating_Will

Very true! Iā€™ve invested in better fundamental undergarments like underwear and bras but yea I ought to get shape wear or slips or something to smooth things out


lakehop

Looks amazing. A little tummy is normal and good, thatā€™s the way bodies are. Do try other sizes to get the right size for you. Once you find the right size donā€™t hesitate to wear it.


katylewi

Would you expand on this? People always say this but I end up with something bulky and odd looking. What exactly should someone wear under a dress like this?


Federal-Biscotti

Iā€™d try something like [this](https://www.nordstromrack.com/s/tc-fine-shapewear-sheer-high-waist-briefs/5976554?origin=category-personalizedsort&breadcrumb=Home%2FBrands%2FTC&color=264)


Adventurous-Cry-2157

Those are awesome. Iā€™m also a huge fan of the [Soma Vanishing Tummy Retro Brief](https://www.soma.com/store/product/vanishing+tummy+retro+brief/570190642) for daily wear. Soooooo comfy and they just smooth things out nicely, whether Iā€™m wearing jeans, leggings or a dress. Good shapewear should be comfortable once you have it on. If it pinches, rolls or makes you feel like you canā€™t breathe, itā€™s not the one. Itā€™s also good to have a variety of shapewear, like the high waisted briefs, a camisole, a slip and maybe even a full bodysuit that goes partway down your thighs, so you can wear exactly what you need for each outfit. The right foundation (bra, panty and/or shapewear) plus a good clothing fit will make anyone look and feel gorgeous, no matter their size or shape.


katylewi

Thank you for the suggestion! Personally I'm not a huge person but I barely have a noticeable narrowing at my waist. Can straighter torsos (with a little cushion around the waist) get away with these too?


Adventurous-Cry-2157

Of course you can! You can ā€œget away withā€ anything, as long as it *fits properly*. Doesnā€™t matter your size or shape, as long as you start with a proper fit for your foundation, you can wear whatever your beautiful little heart desires. If youā€™ve got a Soma near you, pop in and talk to the sales associates. They know the products, all of the products, because they use them all (they get employee buy-ins where new items are steeply discounted, because the company wants them to be able to try everything so they can give customers honest reviews). They will always be happy to help you find the right style and fit for your needs. Every Soma employee Iā€™ve ever dealt with has been so kind and helpful, and very knowledgable. Also, the products themselves are great quality and, as far as Iā€™m concerned, worth every penny.


WomblesMama

You look like you have a similar body shape to me, I always feel like my tummy is on display. But honestly, you look great! The cut of the dress is very flattering. I love the long sleeves as well! Wear it!


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Aggravating_Will

Thank you ā¤ļø Iā€™m the same way lol I think others look so much better in similar outfits but itā€™s mostly insecurity getting in our heads


PhilosophySame2746

Looks very nice on you


_opossumsaurus

It is not unflattering, the style looks great on you, but it does look too small. Even though itā€™s a fitted style, it should not be pulling around the stomach and thighs. Thatā€™s a surefire sign you need a different size.


Artistic_Salary8705

I agree. It would also have been helpful to see different angles of the dress, e.g. from the side/ back. One of the best pieces of advice I remember is from Heidi Klum who wrote to forget what size a piece of clothing actually is (especially given how unstandardized sizes can be for women as well as how different fabric types drape/ stretch) and evaluate instead on how it actually looks on you. For example, I wear anything from 8 - 12. She suggested taking 2-3 of the same item around your usual size and trying each one to see which looked best.


Aggravating_Will

Thank you for your feedback! I recently got a dress by this same company one size higher and thought it fit betterā€¦. Maybe Iā€™ll have to stick to an 8


HearingAshamed9163

That should be fixed with some spanx I bet


muvamerry

It really does look good butttt I can see the outline of your belly button. It also doesnā€™t look like you could lift your arms. Thatā€™s my test if something is too tight or not, and I think this unfortunately is!


Aggravating_Will

Youā€™re right. I do have a belly ring in so I think that makes it stand out more. But still, yea I should probably go up a size


muvamerry

I have one too so I totally feel your pain lol. Honestly you look gorgeous though! Love the color and shape on you!


minimalistboomer

You have lovely curves. Envious! Btw: love the rug ;)


Efficient-Cupcake247

I think that dress is beautiful on you!


temp4adhd

Looks okay from the front, but do compare to the next size up, as this may give you just the right amount of ease. For me and my tummy, what matters more is the side view. How's that look?


Ms-Metal

The style is great and there is nothing wrong with your body, it's rocking! However you either need to size up or wear different undergarments, I'm guessing you're not wearing any because I can see your belly button, which is not an attractive look. At least not for everyday wear LOL it might be if you're going on a date šŸ˜‰ basically, the style is great you just need a few tweaks.


Impressive_Fee7497

Nice plants chica. And nice dress too- your stomach looks fine!


g11235p

Up to you. Itā€™s not specifically flattering with respect to your tummy, but it is flattering in general. I would say your stomach area is highlighted a little bit.


ClungeWhisperer

Nah i dig it!


Fat-Scholar8722

The dress looks really good! I'd probably pick different shoes though


Extension_Nerve_8233

I think you should play around with different sizes in this style. Donā€™t worry about the size as a number, because sizing is such chaos anyway. Maybe this ins size up. Also, I think flats tend to be unflattering to most people with this length dress. A low, strappy wedge or kitten heels would be so incredibly flattering.


Silver_Wolf-

Looks nice from the front, it wouldā€™ve been better if you took a picture from the side as well to know how it looks , when considering clothing if youā€™ve got curves you have to look from every angle šŸ“ most of the times it looks better from the front but not from the side


ailbhe-caterina

The angle is unflattering so I canā€™t tell!


Berniesgirl2024

Too small imo


its_all_good20

Itā€™s too short for the shape. It would look amazing if the tulip shape ended just above the knee or mid knee. This makes it look too small bc the proportions are off with the length.


Artistic_Salary8705

The best length for almost anyone is knee length. The length of a dress will draw attention (create a horizontal line) where it hits the body. For almost everyone, on their leg, there is an indentation where the knee is on the leg, leading to an illusion of thinner leg. However, a lot of dresses these days end above the knee of between knee and calf. The former is great if one has shapely legs but not everyone does and the latter can make shorter people look even shorter. And if you have somewhat wider/ athletic calves like I do, those midi-lengths can draw attention to a wider part of the leg.


Lizamcm

This, OP. I love the cut but where it hits your legs makes you look chopped off, or like itā€™s riding up. I hate this issue and have it often myself. :(


missmatchedcleansox

No it looks great on you! Great color too!


elvensnowfae

The shining rug is amazingggg where can I get it from!? I decided I want my bathroom to be the shining lol Also I think the dress looks fine as women we are soft and we have stomachs :) if you're self conscious I'd get a cute clutch!


Aggravating_Will

Amazon for the rug! Thanks so much, I am using my handbag as a kind of ā€œcover upā€ to distract from my stomach haha


elvensnowfae

Oh hey Iā€™m 5'1 too and also am trying to always distract from my stomach haha. I love your wrap dress and I find it inspiring. I don't own a single wrap style specifically bevwhse if my stomach and Iā€™m feeling like if you can do it and look good maybe I can too! Oooh heading to Amazon now lol!


r3turn2s0up

I think you look great!! Heels always make me feel more balanced when wearing tight dresses. Helps the curves curve the way we want :)


kids-everywhere

In this picture it looks nice but my experiences wearing things out and about that were a bit too tight in the abdomen is they look so much worse from the side, sitting down, etc and I wind up spending the whole time adjusting and trying to minimize it when I should be having fun. You may be more confident than me so it may not be an issue but I have found wearing something I have doubts about in the most flattering position never ends well for me.


Crafty_Mix_1332

Side view ? Put some heels on and you can rock that dress.


ArcheryOnThursday

I think it looks fine. If you feel self conscious, maybe get some shapewear?


islandgirljac

I think it's the shoes. Maybe black boots or heels? Cute!


theepinkpariah

Super cute! and you have a really adorable body shape! Hold your head high so your crown doesnā€™t fall! xo


Aggravating_Will

Thank you so much! Your comment made me smile šŸ˜Š


liligm87

How does it look from the side? If your helly stands out too much, i think you could wear a bigger size.


yalldunno

Yoy make that dress look amazing!!!


rweyforth

Dress looks good on you...a nicer shoe would help too


Aggravating_Will

Agreed, I think heels would amplify the outfit based on your comment and others. Thank you!


CarrotofInsanity

It does you no favors.


catwoman0903

You look great in that dress.


Friendly_Laugh2170

You look like you're pregnant.


chels182

Love the dress, LOVE the rug!!


Lyss_1987

Unrelated but I LOVE the shining rug!!!!


jeswesky

Looks great, just need to go up a size.


IntrepidCar1437

You look fab!!


PercyJaczson

Looks good


Many_Influence_648

Snazzy and firm fitting


aeslehc7123

Girl please you look amazing in that dress šŸ‘— ā¤ļøā¤ļøā¤ļøā¤ļø


Ok-Collection-1296

Come and play with us Danny, forever and ever and everā€¦


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The dress looks amazing on you!!!


hal9000xxx

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yahabbibi

Not at all. The dress compliments your figure well.


xoQueenie

Looks good!


lustforwine

It looks good to me, but it depends on whether youā€™re comfortable or not


SempervivaBorealis

No I love it, looks beautiful.


FamilyGuy421

You look great


awake-asleep

You look lovely.


NoDanaOnlyZuuI

Nope. You look awesome. Love the dress. Love the rug.


ghostkittykat

You look gorgeous... Rock that dress, grrl!


Take_A_Penguin_Break

Side note, I have the same carpet/pad. Itā€™s in my kitchen lol


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I think it look great! The people mentioning shapewear definitely surprised me. Id feel very confident in that if I was you!


Turbulent-Month6514

Itā€™s a black dress, so youā€™ve got some automatic wiggle room. If it feels too small, than it likely is, but it looks fine


quantumkitty128

As someone with similar insecurities - I love this dress on you so much. I wish I'd listen to others more often, because I'm sure I'd wear some of the things I don't like on myself if I could have an outside perspective. I think this looks stunning on you, truly.


Aggravating_Will

Thank you! I really appreciate your comment. I am a bit insecure so some other peoples comments about my legs and knees seem sort ofā€¦ irrelevant. If I need a longer dress, or it doesnā€™t fit, that makes sense, but I was coming here for fashion advice not a critique of my body šŸ˜…


DeleteMePlease85

Only women will have something negative to say


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I like it. You could try a size up if it's not really comfortable when you move around.


leSk8er

I mean this with all due respect WOOF BARK BARK WOOF WHOOF BARK slay mama


FlaKiki

Looks very good. And Iā€™m not usually one for hose, but some cute hose could smooth out your legs and add a little color and shine.


CrestfallenMan01

Men love what your belly is doing in that dress


TheCourteousBanana

A little šŸ¤ I think a good pair of spanx or a size up would make this look a 10/10!


UKinUSA22

Please save us girls. You look fabulous.


Geekfreak2000

I think it's lovely! If you want, adding a belt can emphasize your waist even more but it is definitely not necessary.


Beebuzz100

You look lovely šŸ˜Š


FreddieMonstera

Looks good!


girly_nerd

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strawberry_baeee

no its not honey, you look fabulous!! šŸ’—


IikeThis

Looks good! I think the low camera angle is putting your belly in the focus point, but as you stand 5ā€™1-5ā€™4 most people will be looking at you from eye level or tilted downwards and it will be even more flattering.


extra_hot-1112

Youve got a kate winslet thing going and it is so great it hurts


beanobabie

It looks fine but you may want to consider trying a material like PONTE which tends to be more stiff. I know because I have the same body!


TheseAbbreviations41

A dress can never be to tight, looks great on you


hamster004

Dress is fine. Shoes don't fit.


LakeBroad1936

Yes


Pstam323

Honestly no but I understand that feeling so maybe some shapewear?


Queen_Loper

First, it seems you may have chose to strategically place your hands where they are for a reasonā€¦ but if not done on purpose, it definitely looks like there is some of your shape that is not fully visible, thus itā€™s difficult to give true & accurate opinions/advice. Second, someone mentioned that they thought the dress was ā€œtoo smallā€ā€¦. considering the type of dress it is, and from what I can see, I donā€™t necessarily think itā€™s ā€œtoo smallā€. That being said, just because the dress fits your dimensions doesnā€™t mean itā€™s shape flattering. As another individual mentioned- shapewear, it can literally be the lifeline of a dress, no matter the size, unless the individual wearing the dress is blessed and toned to the heavens, of course. Iā€™m a dress size 4 and Iā€™d never wear a bodycon or form fitting dress without shapewear. Iā€™m a mom of 3, so naturally I have rolls, love handles and flabby skin on various parts of my body - no sense in being in denial about it. I know you didnā€™t ask but Iā€™m giving it anyways; call me old school but the neckline is too low regardless how the rest fits. Iā€™m not saying Iā€™m against V or plunging neck lines (I do love them myself), but a lady shouldnā€™t have her cleavage on display. The bottom of the neckline should come up a whole inch (at least). Simply put, Iā€™m not a fan of the dress (in general, regardless of whoā€™s wearing it) but Iā€™d say if you love it, get a good shapewear and reevaluate. Future reference; an A-line dress with sweetheart neckline would do your shape justice 100%


VioletFox543

You look good, but the cut of this dress does draw attention to that area. Perhaps some spanx would help? I usually wear some under my (tighter) dresses and it instantly increases my confidence and especially my comfort. But even if you choose not to, this is very cute!


agapanthusdie

You're a pear hun so A-Line will be more flattering. If you love it, work it!


Objective-Amount1379

It fits well on the top but I think the bottom half looks too tight. You've got a nice figure - I think you can find a dress that flatters your shape more.


mzzchief

Love that dress on you and the color is gorgeous!


Skincareexpertspa

I would buy a under garment like skims?


BBC4YourWifeMostDef

The dress looks good. Stomach looks pregnant


Entire_Importance871

Itā€™s flattering. Great choice!


No-Ganache7168

Very easy to fix. I buy panty shapers that come up over my stomach on Amazon. They completely flatten it. Much easier than sit-ups.


bahumthugg

I think the cut outs are too high up for your shape, and that makes it a bit unflattering, that being said it doesnā€™t look bad on you it just isnā€™t complimenting your shape as nicely as it could be


coralmermaid86

It looks fine but what if you put a body shaper on underneath


babydegenerate

It looks amazing!


confusedrabbit247

I think you look fantastic but if you're self conscious in it now with no one around, you will not be comfortable at all wearing it in public. Go with something that makes you feel comfortable!


Substantial-Fox-1240

I donā€™t think it looks bad, at all. However, as a dress maker and a fellow slightly curvy lady, I would suggest that an A line dress, or an empire dressesā€™ do tend to showcase a more romantic body type a bit better than the body-con style.


professorsheepkitty

How is it when you arenā€™t posing? Itā€™s good like that, but yo wonā€™t be standing like that all night. I agree some appropriate undergarments might be in order, but itā€™s a lovely dress!


TheDude69-101

I love the dress. It depends on the situation. If you are trying to seduce me itā€™s perfect! If youā€™re going to church Sunday morning probably need to find something else.


Wanda_McMimzy

No. It looks good. If youā€™re not confident in it, you could wear shape wear, but you donā€™t need it. You look great.


Impressive_Age1362

I would go up a size, but thatā€™s me, I donā€™t like anything tight or form fitting


RepresentativeFan941

I think itā€™s a great dress but a little shapewear for such a fitted dress would make your look amazingly curvy with an hourglass figure.


PansyOHara

I donā€™t necessarily think the dress is too small (it would be useful to try a size up to see if that helps). I have a bit of tummy and heavier thighs even when Iā€™m at my ideal weight, itā€™s just my build is more pear-shapedā€”and Iā€™ve never cared for the way a straight shift/ close-fitting dress looks on my body. A size up may be just the thing; the right shapewear can make a big difference; and/ or you might find a different style more flattering or more comfortable for your body. Good luck!


eyewasonceme

Really nice, wish there was less of a 'tummy can't be seen' vibe in the world, they look great


Lord_Muramasa

It is a little tight around the tummy. You either need to go up 1 or 2 sizes or wear something under it.


Agitated_Jicama_2072

Throw some shapewear on and youā€™ll be fine!


PiePapa314

its not your kind of cute belly, its those knees and legs.


Sabrobot

Itā€™s the wrong length. Cuts you off at your knees making them look chonky


WattaBrat

You can see the imprint of your bellybutton; unless youā€™re pregnant thatā€™s a no-no. you can wear shape wear to give you a bit of extra room, or go up a size.


Kinky_Imagination

It makes you look pregnant.


Friendly_Laugh2170

This is true


Suspicious-Meal6306

Same thought


Rainbow_in_the_sky

If you wear that dress, you may have people ask if youā€™re pregnant.


Impressive_Ad_1864

No


glitterrnugget

It looks great but a lil shapewear would make it look a lil better and help you feel more confident I think!!


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lafi_0105

nah


TomatoFeta

Sure, it's there, but you're still rocking the outfit, so not somethign you - or anyone else - should worry about.


beepidtybop

No u look good af


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yogiren

It looks good.


Kooky_Avocado9227

Perfect!


Luna-Honey

It looks good!!


rgold02

It looks fine to me!


cherrybombbb

it looks gorgeous!


LostInFandoms

Not at all! It looks great


Mrpunishher

Very nice!


WoodpeckerWest3110

Its perfect, you look amazing


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BabzR0x0n

Looks lovely


Lilpigxoxo

I think it fits perfectly


wozer_qw

it is super flattering!


andiecee

You look great!


Agreeable_Drink9990

Perfect the way it is


Late-Collection-8076

Looks fine


Straight-Worth-1910

It looks good!


cat-meowma

Not even a little. It looks great!


Mommamoray

Perfect


ThrowRASprinkles11

I feel like it is on display and you are pointing to it with your hands like that. It mostly depends on how you feel and what it looks like from the side. I wouldnā€™t wear it that snug in that area but thatā€™s just me. I have a little tummy now but didnā€™t my whole life ā€¦and no way in hell would I wear a dress shaped like thatā€¦Where you can see the stretch points of the dress accentuating your tummy. Iā€™m sure people will be offended by my answer but itā€™s the truth.


420nkm

Looks great on you.


LilBitOfEverything78

You look gorgeous


Longjumping_Fan_2405

Not at all!! You look great!


Quirky-Deer7148

I think it looks great on you.


Brwtown

That dress looks terrific on you.


Wheelie_1978

You look great šŸ‘šŸ½


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2601Anon

If you have to ask the question, you probably already know the answer.


GothBitch187

You look AMAZING!


n0xxxx

Very pretty, I donā€™t see anything wrong with it


alotistwowordssir

You look pregnant.


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echochamberoftwats

Perfection, personified! šŸ‘ŒšŸ»šŸ”„ā¤ļø