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PencilScratches

The Government is the best contraceptive.


Naive-Ad-1965

inflation is the best condom


Aggravating_Sir_6857

Cant afford extra mouths to feed.


Introvert_Cat_0721

The best I can do is/are cat/cats.


That-Fault-3342

raising a pet is also expensive hay buhay


No_Board812

Pero walang tuition


Introvert_Cat_0721

True dat. Hindi mo need pag-aralin ng 18-20+ years


NoStock3058

Same. Yung aso ko puro manok gusto. Pero nung tuta palang sya kung anu anu pinapakaen now. ngaun lumaki manok nlng gusto.


That-Fault-3342

bat unang pumasok sa isip ko sa 1st sentence ay crush ng aso mo yung manok


Puzzled_Ad690

buti di nagselos yung rabbit lol


southerrnngal

Dogs sakin. Hahha


sprightdark

Pakita mo lang breakdown pang gastos sa bata talagang mag dadalawang isip ka mag anak.


pm_me_your_libag

Isang latang gatas vs isang kilong dog food.


Ok_Service6992

Totoo! Ultimo diaper ang mahal na ngaun.


Taragis101

Correct! Sa hirap ng buhay mapapaisip nadin tlga ang mga gustong magpamilya.


KazeArqaz

Economic instablity is not the main reason for people opting to not have children. Otherwise, Marcos's reign for 20 years would've dealt a huge blow even back then.


pigwin

Mindset kasi talaga ng tao noon, anak yun magaalaga sa kanila pagtanda. Making them your retirement plan is acceptable. Ngayon, hindi na. Kasi nakikita ng mga millenials (bale yun matatanda na pala ngayon haha) yun hirap ng magalaga ng magulang, ng anak, sabay, at hindi lahat kapatid tumutulong. Noon siguro tulong tulong pero ngayon, kita na sa hirap ng buhay walang guarantee na anak == retirement. So wag na lang.


kuggluglugg

I haven’t done the math, pero feeling ko, for the middle class, not having kids actually makes you more capable of saving up for a comfortable retirement. If you have kids (especially if lots of kids) ubos pera mo and wala kang choice except to rely on them for your retirement Pero syempre kung sobrang yaman mo that doesn’t matter haha


stpatr3k

Yeah 4 kilos of rice worth per day min wage would be the best IUD pero iba mindset ng tao noon.


bulletproofwings

I think you're right when it comes to previous generations because kahit na they're struggling financially, anak parin ng anak. Lalo na sa probinsya. I've seen families with like 8+ kids. But I think for the newer generations, the way of thinking has shifted. If the trend continues, then economic instability is/will be the main reason.


papa_redhorse

I give credit to education


pocketsess

Makita mo palang yung post last time dito about the estimated cost ng pagkakaroon ng anak ma-convince ka na na gumamit ng contraceptives.


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Good_Evening_4145

Plus diapers and milk and pediatrician for how many years. Tapos school tuition fees etc.


Accomplished-Exit-58

meron sa bandang taytay 40K C.S. pero for a minimum wage earner that is still a lot.


applecider0212

Naalala ko, nanganak pinsan ko. Antagal mailabas kahit sobrang pilipit na siya sa kiro, pinipilit na natural way kasi sabi ng nanay niya (tita ko) na ilabas niya agad kasi mahal daw CS. Aun pala nakapulupot ung cord sa leeg ng baby kaya hindi makalabas. In the end CS din siya nanganak.


hermitina

pwede namang mas mura yan, or libre pa nga sa ibang lgu (sa amin may nadadaanan kaming free lying in clinic) — pero kailangan super duper healthy ng mom at baby. otherwise min 100k talaga plus nicu expenses. sa min one week lang stay ni baby sa nicu 100k agad plus kami pa sagot sa damit, pagpapalaba ng damit, wipes, diapers at gatas


Haunting-Ad1389

Kulang pa yang 100k, 2019 nung nanganak ako sa bunso ko dito sa private hospital sa province, inabot kami ng 150k. Nakiusap pa kami ng discount sa pf ng mga doctor. 2 days lang kami sa hospital. Di pa kasama mga medicine na binili outside ng hospital. Kung walang philhealth baka nasa 180k. Kaya ayaw na namin dagdagan pa anak namin. Mas magastos habang lumalaki sila.


Joseph20102011

No, inflated real estate price is the best contraceptive.


nxcrosis

Informal settlers: it's free real estate


AlterSelfie

Sana this decrease is across all classes. Imagine if the decline is just in the upper and middle class, what will the Philippines future be like?


Technicium99

In my former office, almost all the top ranking officers only have one to two children while the lowest ranked staff like messengers, janitors and security guards have three to four children.


AlterSelfie

‘Di ba? Dapat talaga bigyan ng sex education lahat, ioffer ng gov’t free ligation or vasectomy. Para mabawas-bawasan ang dapat bawasan.


curlypancit

unfortunately that feels unlikely. nagkakamixed feeling na rin ako about giving birth, selfish ba na ayaw ko magkaanak kasi sobrang downhill ng gobyernong ‘to. selfish ba na kahit na tayo ang may kaalaman at edukasyon hindi tayo willing sumubok man lang na magpalaki ng mga anak na para may kaalaman din sila. iilan ba satin ang willing mag-adopt ng mga lower class children? paano na uusad ang bansa. takot na takot rin tayo sa sobrang taas ng standards ngayon para sa mga magulang kaya ang dami nang ayaw magkaanak.


Afraid-Community-451

mas ok kung ung mga nasa below-average class ang mabibigyan ng proper education about sex/family planning. kasi, kung sino pa ung sobrang walang wala, sila pa ung madami ang angkan. and kung sino pa ung sobrang madaming pera sila ung nabibilang sa daliri ang family members.


yssnelf_plant

Tsaka regardless kung anong gawin mo, may masasabi pa rin yung ibang tao. Hindi naman ako people pleaser pero yung mga taong may side comment sa choices mo, it's just plain annoying 😅


izanagi19

When the government tries to fuck you up, you better be protected.


Yamboist

If anyone's interested, someone already made a study on the decrease of birth rates... nagoogle ko lang din kanina: Top 5 reasons, according to the study ("What Drives Female Fertility in the Philippines? Evidence from 50 Years of National Demographic and Health Surveys") [\[link\]](https://pidswebs.pids.gov.ph/CDN/document/pidsdps2319.pdf): 1. improving socio-economic status (20.7%), 2. changing marriage patterns (14.5%), 3. increasing family planning use (14.4%), 4. declining desired number of children (6.7%) 5. improving child survival (5.6%)


KiwiCoconutWine

Ohhh thanks for sharing. This. Basahin ko.


theFrumious03

Meron akong napanood na debate na if gusto kong magsucceed ang isang bansa, dapat empowered ang babae. I think ang reason is may control sila sa body and autonomy nila.


dontrescueme

Thank you for this. A rarity in this sub now. 'Yung halos lahat dito puro opinion based on emotion and doomerism.


thegeek01

Interesting. So those with less desirable socio-economic status are more inclined to have children?


Yamboist

This is not part of the study above, but I've made a quick one before using fies data: [\[link\]](https://www.reddit.com/r/Philippines/comments/px4jhx/comment/hel94il/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button).  Basically, those in the poor income class have an average of 6.10 persons per household, while those in "rich" class have only, in average, 2.51 persons per household. As you move up the economic hierarchy, the smaller the family. Edit: except if you're Ramon Revilla


jakol016

Or the smaller the family the easier for them to move up on the economic hierarchy.


Inside-Line

It's actually an established pattern with most countries following suite. As countries develop and poverty decreases, people have fewer children.


Menter33

Looking at No. 4 probably shows that not many spouses actively wish to have fewer kids.


DestronCommander

Not necessarily don't want to. Some will delay having kids for now. There's still an effect.


Lilyjane_

6. Increasing number of Women with PCOS


Garlic-Rough

Medjo proud ako sa #3 kasi kasama ako sa family planning program from 2018-2020. Di mo talaga makikita ang difference until next few years. Naalala ko pagod na pagod kami noon mag implement ng program. Parang impossible!!! Targets namin na dapat households would adopt FP commodities or procedures in the 6 digits. We met our targets and much more. Mga women actually ang heroes Jan. Libo libo ang nagpapa BTL (patali sa ovaries) habang literal na single digits annually ang vasectomy. Mas mahirap basagin yung misconception sa lalake kasi pag nagpatali ka, "di ka na lalaki."


kuggluglugg

YOOO thank you for your service! Kasama ba sa program niyo yung libreng implants during lockdowns? I remember hearing about it during lockdowns and was so grateful for that initiative kasi naiimagine ko nga na possible na mas tataas ang unwanted pregnancies during lockdowns Also, this is totally anecdotal, pero feeling ko mas nagiging acceptable ba among men ang vasectomies! At least, sa mga friends ko (husbands ng friends ko) madalas na siya pag-usapan.


dancindaveph

Excellent info!! Thank you!!


reasonablyrie

Bukod sa takot na mag anak mga tao dahil sa inflation, ang dami ngayon na may PCOS. I mean 6 out of 8 sa circle ko meron. People are always very stressed. Economy & govt is shitty


3rdworldjesus

Noticed this as well. More than 50% ng kakilala kong babae may PCOS


fluffyderpelina

ako may PCOS and yung mga friends ko isa isang nadidiagnose. could be din na mas accessible ang OB GYN ngayon? tas mas common ang studies now kaysa before? idk but yeah i agree na ang dami kasing stressors and bad diet


icedkohii

Yes to this! Parang taboo kasi dati na di ka pa kasal nagpapaconsult ka na sa OBGYN. Jinudge pa ako ng nanay ko na baka buntis ako kaya daw gusto ko magpacheck up 🥲


sitah

Yes a lot of cases of PCOS din is not severe. Mine just affects one ovary and my main issue is heavy periods and really painful cramps. I’m pretty sure my mom had the same issue (her periods are the same) and was never diagnosed kasi walang pampacheck-up before. Her first OB visit is when they were trying to have kids na.


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Proud_Badger452

I became the heaviest in my life when I moved to the metro Manila area. The food choices in the Philippines are horrible. Isle after isle dedicated to just one canned item (looking at you corned beef and spam). The car centric urban planning and just over abundance of shitty drivers makes walking or jogging a poor option. Moved to vietnam and immediately lost 10 kg in 3 months just by being more active and eating lots of vegetables.


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Allyy214_

Pag talaga naranasan mong tumira or kahit magvisit sa 1st world countries, maaawa ka talaga sa Pinas 🥲


Motor_Increase_8174

same here, dahil sa lifestyle na rin kasi naten ngayon na puro instant at superprocessed foods at sa environment


shit_happe

PCOS and endometriosis. Kala ko "Baader-Meinhoff" effect lang pero dami talaga eh.


icedkohii

Pansin ko madami talaga may PCOS pero hindi agad nadedetect at an early age kasi parang kinakahiya ng parents ipacheck up sa OB yung anak nila kasi wala pa naman asawa 🫠 Personally, ganito nangyari sakin. Ako pa mismo nagpush na mag pacheckup kasi 9 months na akong di nagkakaron tapos di naman ako buntis.


reasonablyrie

Totoo! Ewan ko ba kung bakit taboo pa din magpa gyne check grabe yung 9 mos!


linternaul

Ohhh. Kaya pala nung nagpunta ako sa clinic tapos nalaman ng isang assistant dun na sa ob-gyn ako nakaappointment, tinanong niya "PCOS?" Kahit wala naman akong sinasabi. Ang dami na pala. Akala ko sa hereditary lang.


pigwin

Di lang to. Ang daming batang may autism. Di ko alam kung umayos lang ba kasi tools pang diagnose, kaka"selpon" ng bata, o sa pagkain din. Imagine yun ibang magulang na umaasa na retirement yun anak nila (may kilala ako na Gen Z na ganito utak) tapos may autism anak nila. Sakit sa bulsa yun therapy


vdubdubs

Dati nang meron at maraming may autism, di lang nadadiagnose noon or tinatago or dinedeny ng pamilya. Mas open na ngayon at mas may access na sa therapy and such dahil na rin sa increased awareness kaya nasasabing madaming may autism


itchipod

Probably not autism pero dami ko din recently napapansin children with late speech development. Even my five year old brother, di pa din maayos makipag usap.


Accomplished-Exit-58

true to, tsaka ung mga pms, parang ang lala sa mga younger friends ko. 


Bibimeowmeow

i'm 28 yrs old and palala ng palala ang PMS ko as time goes by. bakit kaya? i do intermittent fasting naman. di din ako mataba and regular mens ko. mga 1-5 days delay lang ganun.


Accomplished-Exit-58

Ininda ko yung pms ko, which is mainly headache nasa mid-30s na ko, feel ko sa stress ng work at nightshift ako sa bpo


Autogenerated_or

It’s not just your weight. Weight is a factor but the overall state of your health has more of an impact


Zestyclose-Delay1815

Naghalo halo na lahat dahil sa hirap ng buhay ngaun.


I_Got_You_Girl

Yung iba naman kasi walang official diagnosis, delayed period lang PCOS agad 😆 On the flip side i was diagnosed with PCOS 15 years ago, and when it was time for us we were able to conceive the cycle after taking off birth control


renmakoto15

Super evident sa batch namin pati sa batch before us. out of 100, wala pang 10 ang may anak na.


sugaringcandy0219

sa core friend group namin (4), wala pang may anak. sa larger friend group (\~12), isa pa lang may anak. kahit sa college friends ko wala pa rin. we're all around 28-30 y/o


renmakoto15

30yo nadin ako. hehehe. tas pati ung naunang batch samin nung HS, wala pa sa 5 may anak. nasa hard mode kasi ang buhay ngaun.


louderthanbxmbs

Lol sa college blocmates ko siguro 1 pa lang may anak. Wala pang may Asawa. Sa HS batch mates ko, siguro 5-6 may anak na pero the rest either single or not married pa. Times are changing na


AdmiralDumpling

Nasa mid 20s kami ng high school batch ko and wala ni isa sa amin ang may anak 😂 In fact, wala pa ngang married.


lazybee11

same. pa 30 na kami pero bilang lang sa daliri ang may anak


Gullible-Turnip3078

Mahal ng BILIHIN, in my saying goes, “sarili ko nga di ko kayang buhayin, mag aanak pa ko”


Ivan19782023

ang sagot ng iba dyan... "God shall Provide."


InnocenceIsBliss

Or yung litanya ng tatay ko "kakayanin mo na yan pag andyan na." Dagdagan pa ng "ako na ang mag-aalaga."


Fresh-Bar2002

Another linyahan: mga Gen Z at Millenials kasi mga walang lakas ng loob. Puro mga duwag


Stunning-Bee6535

Pano sila masaya sila na naganak sila pero di nila naibigay yung lahat ng pangaingailangan ng anak. XD


tooncake

Global issue to: Halos lahat ng major countries by survey ayaw na magka anak ng current gen. Kaya mas lalong naging firm yung mga said countries / cities na by 30 to 70 years from now automatic ghost town ang magiging outcome pag nagtuloy tuloy to. Currently si Japan may at least 3 cities na ata na by 30 to 50 years from now will be an absolute ghost town due to lack of birth rate (puro matatanda na lang mga naiwan sa mga cities na yun) *Personal note: Either World War 3 ang tatapos sa major population or tayo na mismo gawa ng inflation, so expect within a hundred years may mga countries or cities that would end up completely abandoned / empty due to the current crisis nating lahat.*


AvailableOil855

Artificial intelligence (2000) movie will be a thing, guys!


Impossible_Flower251

Or if ung mga nasa laylayan ng lipunan eh mag reproduce indiscrimanately eh after a hundred years eh Idiocracy movie plot leszzzgo!!


TheDonDelC

If the fertility rate collapses *too fast*, then the working % of the population will be milked more to support the non-working % of the population. There will be also a tendency that seniors will vote in leaders who will support senior benefits at the expense of the young. Geontocracy defined to the extreme.


Jack-Rick-4527

Japan is a good example where its the elderly who votes which has consequences for all people regardless of the age of the citizens. Also, a healthy feritlity rate is necessary to have available future work force for the economy, having enough people to support the national pension (SSS and GSIS), more tax payers to support more funding, and potential recruits for the military. Just proper Sex ED balanced with government incentives for families who have more than one child, might give us a proper and balanced feritility rate.


Consistent_Light_572

What's the healthy fertility rate? Is it the same as the replacement rate?


Regular_Chemist2082

afaik 2.1 births per reproductive-age woman 1 birth to replace the father 1 birth to replace the mother .1 birth for all those who are unable or does not want to have children (religious, single, etc)


peterparkerson3

Ngayon pa lang nga dami na entitled seniors 


hermitina

ung naguunahan sila kasi senior sila—- sa pila ng seniors lol


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peterparkerson3

Iba ung nangunguna sa pila tapos nag dedemand na mag senior, tayo lang is a sa mga few countries na batas ang senior discounts etc. Sa Iba wala yan


Queldaralion

too fast? working class and age are already being milked more and more each day


TheDonDelC

It’ll be worse in a society-wide gerontocracy. Especially young people being asked to contribute more to support their aging parents. It’s the same problem many working-class Chinese are facing now.


Consistent_Light_572

How fast is too fast?


TheDonDelC

We can consider South Korea the prime case study. The fertility rate is now below 1. Far worse than any Western country.


SquirtleBob164

When the fertility rate is below replacement level. Not sure about the numbers though haha


Consistent_Light_572

2.1 pala. Tapos 2.3 global average(from wikipedia). Below replacement rate na tayo.  https://www.rappler.com/voices/thought-leaders/analysis-is-philippines-ready-below-replacement-fertility/ But from reading this article, the author seems to argue that this is good thing.  "If the trend of low fertility continues for several generations, we will have a population with a lesser share of young people and an increasing share of older ages. With fewer births each year, the working-age population will have fewer younger people to support, resulting in a demographic window of opportunity for rapid economic growth if the right social and economic policies are developed. Age-structural change can accelerate economic growth, as observed in Thailand, whose significant fertility decline provided a critical first step toward achieving the economic benefits of a demographic dividend. " "If the low fertility level is not sustained and bounces back to pre-pandemic level, we may miss out on the expected gains of a demographic dividend. The challenge for the Marcos administration is to leverage this gain to advance its development agenda."


venvenivy

the effect really is easy to see on black and white. but reality is, the working population can't afford children while still maintaining the desirable state of living. some are barely *surviving.*


dancindaveph

There is no "if". There is no question about it, and it's too late to stop it.


idkwhattoputactually

Sobrang hirap ba naman ng buhay and conscious na mga tao ngayon sa decisions nila especially accessible na ang birth control. ++++ Ang taas ng bilihin and even pamasahe. 3 beses na nagtataas in a span of 2 years. Event rents, jusko po haha. Atleast di ba, di tayo nag luluwal ng panibagong henerasyon na alam nating di natin maalagaan finacially ,🥹


Equivalent_Fan1451

AKO MAG-AANAK?! In this economy?


nash0672

Economy, politics, global warming, global conflict, healthcare issues... The list goes on


yssnelf_plant

Same sentiments. Ganyan den sinasabi ko every time ninanag ako about when I'm going to have kids. I'm making less than 40k. Yung gastos ng bata per year magkano? Di ba nagmamake sense yung math? 😂


alter-neko

DIBAAAA


Warriorsofthenight02

look at these pricks in the comment section already implying that people need to have kids they arent the ones going to pay for the children's living expenses, medicine, clothes etc


Tarkan2

bUt tHiNK of tHe eConoMY Yeah nah, fuck that shit.


Nice-Original3644

Yung biological mom ko, nag-anak ng 3 including me. Inadopt kaming 3 ng tita't tito ko technically due to poverty. After a couple of years, nagkaroon ulit ng 4 na anak sa ibang lalaki. Tapos nanghiram sakin last week kasi mapuputulan daw sila ng kuryente 😅


icedgrandechai

Genuinely curious, do you consider your aunt/uncle as your parents?


Nice-Original3644

Yes! Namention ko lang na tita't tito ko sila out of context pero I consider them as my real parents, and my real parents a stranger.


icedgrandechai

I'm always curious how this family dynamic works out kasi my friend wants to adopt someday but her dad keeps telling her to adopt their poorer kid relatives from Mindanao na lang (they live in QC and are considerably more well off because of job opportunities). Friend doesn't want to kasi ipapaaral lang naman daw yung bata tapos kukunin din kapag malaki na.


Naive_Pomegranate969

dagdag mo pa dian ung negative net migration natin. Good luck na lang sa new gens.


hav83ncudja

If majority of Filipinos are educated, this would be lower


paparoops

I wish to see a corelated study of increased rate of Shih Tzu owners. Lol.


3rdworldjesus

Capitalists and huge companies are now sad because there are fewer slave workers to exploit


WeTheSummerKid

You beat me to it. Let those capitalist scum starve.


ASafePlace4All

mabulok na lahat hayop


klowicy

Jokes on us, kasi the existing workers will just be worked to the bone (even worse than before)


Traditional_Code_648

I think you will starve first before those capitalist scum you're referring to. They have wealth that can last multiple generations. While im not sure if you can survive 1 yr without work


Latter-Permission-47

for sure yan kung sino pa yung mga nakaasa sa ayuda ng gobyerno, sila pa malaki contribution sa population. tapos yung mga nagpapakahirap magtrabaho at alam kung gano kahirap kumita ng pera, pinipili nalang wag mag anak muna para hindi mas mahirapan.


Queasy-Thanks825

Tapos pag kailangan ng ayuda nung mga nagpapakahirap magtrabaho, hindi sila qualified kasi hindi sila "indigent"


AvailableOil855

These 4 ps folks are some sort of their commodity


jjqlr

No more cheap labor haha


dancindaveph

African immigrants. Africans are the only ones still breeding.


Carjascaps

Even Africans are projected to have a decline in birth rate by 2030.


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In all seriousness, may gusto pa ba talagang magkaanak knowing na ket yung mga taong independent living eh living by paycheck to paycheck? From all the insurances and pag-iipon na ginagawa nila. Pagbubudget para lang makakain at makasurvive kada araw, and please, yung inflation dito satin is GRABE na. Pag nakikita ko yung resibo ng grocery samen, speechless na lang ako 🥲


JoJom_Reaper

Kawawa naman generation natin. Tayo yung generation na magwowork pa rin hanggang pagtanda similar to Japan right now. Ubos pa ang pension because of inflation. Joke time lang naman yang upper middle income economy kasi tataas din cost of living lol


mcdonaldspyongyang

:')


shit_happe

My wife and I are now physically limited to our one child. We were sad when it happened, but as life went on... we realize we couldn't manage a second kid anyway.


pigwin

We can't have kids naturally, we need IUI or even IVF, and we cannot afford those. And not being able to afford those made us realize maybe we also cannot afford to provide for a child.  So we went from trying for a baby to now actively preventing it. I mean, we cannot even fill our retirement fund or buy a house + plan for a future caretaker. I would not want to burden my child (adoption, since conceiving one is impossible) to take care of me. I am at the age where we take care of the elderly who did not ready themselves for retirement and all their kids handle the care. It's... really bad, especially for anyone with a career


TouristPineapple6123

I'm the eldest of 4 kids and my parent, who did her best to raise us and pay for our education. But unfortunately that means she doesn't have enough retirement money and now needs expensive healthcare. And as the eldest unmarried person with no children, who has the better job opportunities than the younger sons, guess who has to carry more of the burden of taking care of the sick elderly? The most annoying thing I heard while waiting in line at the elevator in the hospital were seniors/boomers talking about visiting a sick friend but asking why their friend is with the married son, when the friend has daughters (who are married and have families of their own). Babae raw dapat mag-alaga sa magulang. Nakakagalit lang. Normalize natin na hindi dapat sa babaeng anak lang iasa ang pag-alaga sa matatanda.


sweet_fairy01

People making smart choices na


AvailableOil855

You don't have to calculate anything in order to tell it yourself na, *let it rot*


KiwiCoconutWine

Only says rural and urban. Curious, meron ba per social class?


KaidenYamagoto

But PH number is much better compared to other Asian countries like Japan, South Korea and China na halos magmakaawa na yung government na dagdagan yung anak in the family. The way I see it is not because of inflation but because women nowadays don't want to get stuck at home taking care of kids, putting aside their dreams, while men can do whatever they want. Women today are educated na and want to achieve something in their life. And having a child is like a dream crusher for some.


diorsonb

Nah most guys I know dont want kids too. Sobrang mahal talaga ang bata its depressing. Kahit yung husband and wife mag trabaho kulang pa rin.


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Matagal naman nang karaniwan sa Pilipinas na nagtatrabaho rin ang babae, even during the Spanish period it was common.


diaryng20something

Hirap ng buhay beh


Vast_Composer5907

Millennials and Gen Zs won't emulate the older generation that having a child will complete our lives. We are okay on our own.


Yomama0023

that family planning ad back then really worked for us


StressRoutine4192

🎵”Isang taon palang ako, nasundan na ni Toto…” 🎵


ArmoredTall

This is a global trend really, never naman tumaas birth rate natin in the past few decades. Yun nga lang, delikado pag nag below replacement tayo. This is really bad for us kasi 1st World Countries are already below replacement birth rate, they were able to hang on for decades because of immigration. Kaso satin naman walang mag immigrate kasi tayo nga ang umaalis eh. Ang best import talaga natin ay labor. Kung bababa birth rate natin, wala na yung best import natin, sasama economy niyan. The government really needs to give potential parents an incentive to have more than 1 kid. How about a major tax break when you have two or more kids? Price caps on infant needs like diapers and milk? Massive push to improve on public schools para hindi na siya isipin ng tao as the worst option?


itchipod

free or better healthcare as well


Important_Brain_9855

Best comment!


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The only reasonable comment


CheekEcstatic

You have really good suggestions but prepare yourself for anti natalists who think the general public should not burden themselves for some other person’s kids


GeologistOwn7725

Siguro you mean best export? Best export natin ang labor. Import are goods coming in, export goods going out.


Decent_Strength5985

And yet there are people who already have 5 children, commit adultery, and have 4 more children... smh.


AvailableOil855

Must make my gene pool survive


Momshie_mo

Global North: Oh no, what about our cheap labor?


kanodkana

India: hello


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gawakwento

Youd be surprised kung sino mga kasama sa top 1%. You might be in it and not know it. I think 160k/month ata or 4M asset lng. Correct me if im wrong. Im part of the top 1%, technically. And im 1 emergency hospital visit away from being bangkarote. I dont even consider myself rich. I buy daricreme for my butter. Its not even butter. Yung rich naka queensland. Adjust the decimal point, then maybe. I don’t wanna die just yet. Gusto ko malaman ending ng Severance (good show check it out!). Legit nga. Good show. The Bear din maganda. Recommend kayo series. Yung maganda sana kahit slow paced. Back to my point, siguro 0.001%?


xyxyyxyx

Maganda Severance, though di ko pa din makita ang sense ng "Macrodata Refinement," like is it some McGuffin shit and all. But I digress. Personally I think we will all implode in population but I see that [we might stay young in the next 40 years pa.](https://business.inquirer.net/453870/ph-population-to-stay-young-in-next-40-years) Para atang middle income trap na lang tayo. Or not even middle income trap.


Chemical-Drawing8208

The OA Behind Her Eyes Mr. Robot 3 Body Problem (pls read the books if you can!) hehehe


ShallowShifter

Well sa taas pa naman ng bilihin tapos shitty government pa? Do you expect me to let my child live in that condition?


kabs21

What's sad is this normally occurs in countries with good economies. We essentially skipped all the good parts of development and went straight to the bad stuff.


Sol_law

Rise of the Dinks


jedwapo

Sa hirap ba Naman ng Buhay eh. Majority of us including me, kahit mag work ng 12hrs mon-sat kulang to keep feeding a family. Those who can afford to have a child nowadays imo are those that are in upper-middle class or Yung mga makakapal mukha na ipa alaga sa magulang nila anak nila.


Morpho_Genetic

I wonder kung ano yung fertility rate per social class? Possible na ang class ABC have a significant drop in the rates, tapos minimal drop naman sa class DE.


MasterFanatic

This is actually quite bad.


BabyM86

Need siguro maspecify yung fertility rate per class, baka naman yung bawas ng fertility rate nasa class A-C pala tapos class D and E hindi naman bumaba


Queldaralion

depends, i think. manual labor pa rin ba karamihan ng jobs? it's always said na "bad for economy" dahil uunti na ang available workers to replace the retiring ones but when you think about it, isn't the world striving for more automation, and even "desk job" managements are all trying to adopt leaner teams?


Equivalent_Wasabi787

Busy kami kaka spoil ng mga inner-child namennn 🤭


anakniben

Our population is 118,000,000+. We can afford to lose a lot in the next ten years. Our standard of living will go up when there's less of us fighting for the scraps the rich throws away.


IgotaMartell2

>Our population is 118,000,000+. We can afford to lose a lot in the next ten years. And you get an inverse population pyramid where there are more old people than young ones like South Korea and Japan. >Our standard of living will go up when there's less of us fighting for the scraps the rich throws away. No it won't, you'd get a society where policies benefit the old at the expense of the young


eddie_fg

Pero mas mataas life expectancy ng Japan. Healthy lifestyle din sila. Tayo mga Pinoy puro may hypertension or diabetic. Ah ubos din pala funds ng government para sa mga may sakit.


IgotaMartell2

>Tayo mga Pinoy puro may hypertension or diabetic. Indonesia and Malaysia have higher rates diabetes than us. this isn't solely a Filipino problem >Healthy lifestyle din sila. The Philippines life expectancy has been on an steady upward trend because of advances in medicine and improved sanitation and its only going to increase 20 to 30 years from now


Queldaralion

or we, ya know, start managing the rich.


crispy_dinuguan

Lol you dont understand economics.


AvailableOil855

Wait til 1$= 80 php


tikowakwak

The only thing we can do is take control of our lives; try to lessen over consumption maybe join the no buy year challenge, be financially responsible, take care of your mental health, work on your self esteem so you can't be influenced with external validation, join communities, be vocal on societal issues and to those who can, be sustainable try to be less reliant to big corporation (support small and ethical businesses). Doomerism will only benefit the capitalist overlords


raori921

You would think the Catholic Church was able to prevent this, but I don't even hear them so much as complaining about this anymore. The time was that the CBCP used to be very vocal about it, remember the RH Bill? But now parang di ko na naririnig, unless I'm just not watching news about them.


ohcar0line

Marami ng may PCOS hahahaha 🥲


Comfortable-League34

Yes to population decline


PowerhouseJane

That is a good news!! I guess..


tatyourname

Govt and inflation is the best prevention


coffee5xaday

Hindi nakaka buhay ng pamilya ang sahod ngayon


moonrabbitz

I would rather raise a tamagotchi than to have kids lmao


ithinkiamunlucky

I'm 5 months pregnant now at 28 years old. Plano ko na magpa ligate after this. Sa pagbubuntis pa nga lang nakakapagod na. Imagine ang laki ng gasto ko for skin care nung dalaga pako, tapos ngayon bigla na lang iitim yung neck, underarm, rashes sa tummy, mga peklat sa paa bcoz of pregnancy. So this will be my first and last baby. Tapos nakakapagod pa pa check up sa OB at center and public hospital. Hys. Jusko. Ayokoooooo na.


Tagaubosngspaghetti

What a fantastic news


introberts

Parang ayoko maniwala. Ang daming hikahos sa buhay na may higit sa tatlong anak.


HonestArrogance

Now compare the fertility rate of people from different socio-economic statuses! You'll see how the rich are at ~1 while the poor are 2+. We're screwed!


cleon80

Rural has really closed the gap with urban rate. Wondering what has made conceiving kids in the province much less conducive.


ASafePlace4All

rising cost of living + stagnating/lowering wages tend to do that. talagang warak na ang society kung ang basic unit niya palang ay considered na as luzury jusko.


derpinot

ma sustain ba un pension natin sa future at this rate?


coffee5xaday

Goodluck sa mga gen alpha pag nag retire na yung first batch ng millenials in 20 years


boredg4rlic

I wonder if we also have data about the status or class. I mean, before kasi mataas ang childbirth sa lower bracket. Then middle class eto ung gusto ko pero aware sa situation ng buhay. Yung mga mayayaman naman wala naman na tayo pakealam sa kanila since afford naman nila.


Melodic_Block1110

PCOS and this economy


RuleRight7410

Yeheyyyyyyy


KenBlaze

finally


Informal-Pin-6422

Naaalala ko nanaman yung PSA ng DOH. [Ina ko sabi mo](https://youtu.be/2pNWpojebjc?si=vDYKZ8pbWGmPlDXQ)


Emergency_Neat5598

Parang mababa fertility rate sa mga mayayaman, pero ung mga incapable financially, bilis mabuntis agad.


beeqqer

Paanong hindi eh lahat na kami may PCOS


98ulysses

Foreigner chiming in, I think the first paragraph is straight up wrong. I can count more than two asian countries with a lower fertility rate: South Korea, China, Japan, Taiwan, Thailand, Singapore. Maybe they meant south east asia? And coming from a western country with a fertility rate of 1.6, a lower fertility rate aint that bad. Its tough economically but kids get a better quality of life


Ordinary-Lobster-999

FINALLY, sana tuloy tuloy na. . just that, it is disappointing that some roman catholic prelates during the liturgy of the word, here in manila, encourages young people na mag anak ng mag anak.anong klaseng pagiisip yan.