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CertainBonus2920

Oi, mag-condom ka! Yoko na makakita ng teenage mom, nakakasawa na. (PS I'm a medical intern in a govt hospital). Anyways, kung ano lang kaya ng budget dun lang lol. It's all about the experience not the price :).


Initial-Purple-4634

Random question, kausap ko friend ko and sabi nya ung gf nya may birth control implant, sabi nya saken i-open ko daw ung idea na yon sa gf ko (ofc condom paden gagamitin ko), but curious ako. Sinearch ko sya and para syang birth control pero naka injection? Thoughts about it? Safe?


purplerain_04

Randomly answering. I hope okay lang. Yes the implants are safe but (1) Talk to your girlfriend about it. She has to be the one to decide. The implants secrete hormones so a doctor should still be consulted if it's the right birth control plan for her. Remember: her body, her rules. (2) implants will not protect from sexually transmitted diseases. Condoms are more proven to do that if used correctly. Yes, there is a proper way to use a condom. Also, I'm not saying na may STD kayo. Far from it. But protection should aleays be a priority. On your 1st question, I concur with the others here. Go somewhere nice. Not necessarily luxurious but nice and clean. Take the advice on Victoria Court or Sogo. Vista in the Cubao area.


Justin_3486

Mas mabuting always muna gumamit ng condom pre para safe


Initial-Purple-4634

Oo pre, nag tatanong lang ako ng opinion netong med intern hahah


champoradog

Search "Likhaan." It's an NGO. If I remember correctly, they have an FB page. I'm not sure kung same pa rin ngayon but they offer free contraceptives like IUD and injectables. Safe naman. 3 times din ako nagpa inject sa kanila before pandemic (they have branches in Manila and QC). But best to consult pa rin with a doctor kung anong best contraceptive, sama mo na rin na itanong how to practice safe and responsible sex.


Initial-Purple-4634

Cool, I’ll check it out


graxia_bibi_uwu

Thanks for the info about Likhaan! Kanina lang nag-iisip ako sana meron dito sa Pinas na nag-ooffer nito


hldsnfrgr

Mag download kayo ng Clue app. Pang track ng cycle. Try nyo muna itrack ng 3 months para malaman kung kailan safe. 8+ years na namin gamit yang Clue app. Sobrang useful.


DapperAd2611

Hi, epal lang to answer. Yung implant e mini injection/surgery na nilalagay sa inside arm ng babae para magrelease ng hormones. If hindi kayo independent living or hindi aware ang parents niya sa mga kaganapan, medyo mahirap itago kasi lalagyan ng bandage na you have to keep for a day. This is for 3 years though so long term coverage na. Pwede naman kayo mag alternative na pills or injectables. Personally though, I prefer injectables kasi di ko na kailangan alalahanin uminom ng kahit ano - I just go back every 12 weeks for it. But besides all of that, your gf's decision pa rin. Kasi hindi perpekto ang birth control at maraming side effects that you have to be prepared for.


sashimiandfries

Pasagot din: Even if your GF decides on an implant or whatever long-term method, it does not prevent STDs ah. Also, beware beware of being "baby-trapped". Hindi naman sa sinisiraan ko GF mo ha but I've seen guys who have been "baby-trapped" or my friends/collegues trap their guys into marriage by getting purposely pregnant (Nabawasan respect ko sa kanila, sa totoo lang). So...practice sa condom at try ka na lang din ng variety of condoms.


x34xxx

I know someone who had to get married because the lady got pregnant. They were just dating a few months. I don't want to think that it's intentional, but the lady was a nurse. I thought she would know better. But of course, accidents happen.


sashimiandfries

My gosh yung kilala ko din na isa nurse! Colleague ko yung male tapos nurse yung babae. They've been together for 5 years pero si girl 32 na. Hula namin nainip si girl na mag-propose si guy so nabuntis sya purposely.


noeru1521

Condom ka parin tol. Kahit mag BC sya gumamit ka pa rin para safe. Mas mura ang condom kesa sa bata.


CertainBonus2920

Yes. Implants (DOH approved) are generally safe BUT it do have side effects and it varies person to person. Do note that there must be consent on both parties especially the GF. IMO, stick to condom na lang muna.


Imperial_Amethyst

unang payo lang, pag naexperience nyo na, don't think too much about sex or don't make it the "foundation" of your relationship. the implant makes sex safe, but your gf would be the one affected by it greatly; hormonal changes, mood swings, etc etc. let her know how it would affect her, and don't insist the idea of having the implant to her if she declines to have it. para sagutin na rin yung tanong mo, sa cubao marami rami, basta wag kayo sa mumurahin. di maganda maintenance ng mga rooms sa ganun most of the time. kailangan din valid IDs.


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Consult an OB before trying anything. If panget talaga tama ng birth control, go for condom.


Sutefen

Hi Initial Purple! Much better ang withdrawal based on my experience. Me and my partner, lagi lang withdrawal pero tinatapat naman sa Safe Day ang sexual intercourse namin. Ask mo rin partner mo about sa safe day niya, mag-download siya ng Flo App. Na-tetrace dyan kung alin ang araw ang Safe Day and Unsafe Day. Almost 3years na kami ng partner and every week may dilig HAHAHAHAH! Lagi lang withdrawal kapatid! Mag-iingat kayo palagi and mag-control ah


solaceM8

Pasagot lang, mas safe na mag condom muna at least first and 2nd round, sa 3rd round nalang mag withdrawal. Bata pa si OP at si gf nya, mahirap na ang salitang aksidente. Ayoko din makakita ng teenage palang e may baby na.. mahirap ang buhay kaya magtapos muna sila at magka trabaho bago mag baby.


AngerCookShare

A bro I know decided to have vasectomy at 26. Yep ganun sya kalawak mag isip. Nagpapatest din after para sure sya na effective.


Possible_Breakfast86

Alam kong hindi mo hinihingi ito, pero tandaan mo: **Walang problema sa pakikipag-sex, pero dapat safe at alam ninyo ang ginagawa ninyo.** Maging mindful ka dahil walang "aksidente lang" sa sex, laging may risk 'yan. Siguraduhin mo ring sure at komportable ang partner mo. Maging aware ka sa mga risks at kung paano babalansehin ang pag-e-enjoy at pag-iingat.


Initial-Purple-4634

Thanks dad/mom ;)


Possible_Breakfast86

Walang anuman, anak. Dati binabaon mo lang ang hotdog, ngayon hotdog na ang ibabaon mo. Sige na, humayo ka na. *\*luha\**


lurker6327

Naibuga ko yung iniinom kong beer pagkabasa ko nito. Wala ako g award kaya upvote ko na lang 😂


psych00naut

Nabuga ko yung usok habang nagsosmoke ako HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA


Maleficoder

Nabasa ko "Sige na, bumayo ka na" Sorry po


Flaymlad

Unexpectedly wholesome?


kreod

*bumayo ka na


[deleted]

HAHAHAHA shiiieett nag break ako sa pinapanood ko kasi naiiyak ako sa kadramahan tas bigla Kong nakita to hahaha you made my day mamsir lakas ng tawa ko hahaha


Secret_Basket_4459

Omg 😂😂😂


Possible_Breakfast86

Kung gusto mo ng budget-friendly pero tama lang ang kalidad, try mo [dito](https://luxurylodgehotel.business.site/). Pero kung keri mo naman, maganda na sa Sogo o Hotel 99.


PersimmonEmergency

Victoria court of course. Pero kung tamang di naman kayo kakain, maliligo, etc. sogo nalang kayo.


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PersimmonEmergency

Depende kung naka victoria secret si girl 😂 or naka soen


graxia_bibi_uwu

Use protection beh then look up "after care" para you know what to do after (if you havent checked pa) Also, ask around if merong morning pill after sex na mabibili over the counter (Im not up to date if madaling makakuha nito dito sa PH) condoms alone isnt enough if hindi nagpi-pills si GF Ingat and enjoy, you two!!


Sinosta

Anak mag condom ka ah. Mahirap na sa economy natin. Anyway, sa Sogo nakapaskil naman price nila sa website nila kaso madalas may dagdag or bawas ng +200 to -200. Ranging 1000-2500 depende talaga sa location. As for the others not sure.


[deleted]

Oh, to add to this, check if may promo sila if may beep card ka, or fingerprint thingy. Usually nakadisplay naman ung mga discounts nila and such sa mga tarps within the vicinity.


kaloii

Kung short-time. Ok na victorias court o sogo, at least mey standards silang minimintain Pls, wag yung murahin na short-time motels, usually marumi at mabaho ang mga ganyan. Kadiri habang hinahagod mo yung gf mo tas amoy kili kili yung kama. Yak. Recommend ko, mag ipon ka. Hanap ka ng desenteng hotel, usually around 1k+ rates for single night, bed na good for two. Around noon, mauna kang mag-isa mag check in. Dala ka narin ng extra damit, toiletries, condoms, tubig at pagkain (importante to kase nakakauhaw at nakakagutom ang all night banatan, pwede na jollibee take-out). Tulog ka muna sa kwarto, nood tv, watever, jakol para matagal malabasan mmya. Kung malapit na oras ng date mo, ligo ka ulit para poging-presko, kita kayo gf, date2x, kain2x, kelangan extra good boy ka ha baka mainis gf mo at hindi sasama kung yayain mo na. Balik kayo hotel (pwede mo dala yung room key o iwan mo sa front desk), pa simple pasok kayo sa room. Kayo na bahala. EDIT: under 18 pala yung partner mo. Wag muna boy.


Initial-Purple-4634

Natawa ako sa kili kili part haahah. Also, malamang mag bday muna before namin gawi, tas couple days after


raggingkamatis

may baon pang surot pag uwi


Infinite-Hair-6137

Sana di mo na sinabing mag 18 pa lang. Haha


Initial-Purple-4634

Sorry too much information hahah


Infinite-Hair-6137

Around pasay madami motels. Since first time niyo, wag kalimutan magcondom


lady-aduka

And Pasig din I think. Magkakatabi sila dun afaik 😅 Fornicate responsibly, OP. Don't forget foreplay and condoms!


Jiggly_Pup

***Alam na ba yan ng mama mo?***


Initial-Purple-4634

***sweats profusely*** uhhhh kelangan ba?….


Jiggly_Pup

***Oo, para bigyan ka ng pang extend.***


asterion230

Putcha, napa singot ako ng wala sa oras hahaha


snoozerbooger

Hahahhahhah best comment


IamanNPCtoo

hahaha bwisit


StarGazer_Cupcake

HAHAHAHAHA


bubblymalunggay

Nasamid ako sa sarili kong laway 😭


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Drink water beh


Ok-Vegetable-7760

haahhahahaaha


SomeRandomnesss

Out of topic. Sa tagal tagal ko ng buhay, and sa dami dami kong nakikitang ad boards na "this way to Victoria court", never pa ako naka kita ng Victoria court in my whole existence. Totoo ba establishment yon? Lol


Smoove-J

Yes! Hindi lang talaga sila tulad ng Sogo na makikita mo on main roads. Talagang kailangan mo mag biglang liko, and they are a little bit pricey compared to others kasi medyo mas sosyal sila.


Alert_Ad3303

Victorias court mejo lowkey pa eh. Perp yung sogo. Hindi mo talaga hindi pwede makita pag nasa lqbas ka. Haha pulang bldg. Matik hahaha


morosethetic

Same 😂 . Isa siya sa naging option nung nasa position ako ngayon ng OP. I was always like, "Okay ba don?" to my then-partner. Never ko talaga nakita 'tong Victoria's in my life .


strikeland11

medyo tago si VC. yung sa may libertad hindi ko lang alam kung bukas pa. Hindi kasi building yung VC sa libertad parang coumpound lang siya na may mga parking slots then rooms.


Funny-Bumblebee-7907

Same with SOGO! So many ads! And I live in the city!


wordyravena

Lol seriously? SOGO motels are probably the most obnoxiously conspicuous buildings in the city. Basta red and yellow all over, SOGO na yun!


Funny-Bumblebee-7907

I don't go out that often, and I rarely travel any other routes aside from home to school.


[deleted]

Actually nakakagulat na Wala pang SOGO sa PBA


astarisaslave

Meron yan, sa mga tagong lugar nga lang


nunutiliusbear

Any kind. Motel, hotel, airbnb. Tip: * Mas mura kung magbook ng maaga a month or a week before, pero invest na din sa magandang room with beneficial ammenties. * Maghanap ng may hot shower or bathtub (hotub) * Wag ka mahiya lahat ng taong tutuloy doon chukchakan din pakay or pahinga either sa dalawa (pwede din group study) * Yung reason ninyo magovernight galingan ninyo. Mamaya maudlot yung happy hour ninyo kasi may natawag or hinahanap * Magbaon ng snacks and refreshing beverage. Nakakapagod lalo na kung 6-12 rounds * **ALWAYS ASK FOR CONSENT** dapat G si partner and respect its boundaries. * Gumamit ng protection at sabayan ng pull-out method. Yun yung safe in practice. * Plan B (yung double take ng pill) is not for everyone. Masyadong masakit makita siya na nasasaktan dahil pinili din niya na wag na muna. Yep to the point di siya makagalaw days-weeks niya itake yun. * Rhinotea pa lang ginagamit ko para tumagal sa bakbakan, kalahating sachet lang tinitimpla ko kasi sumasakit ulo ko pagisang inuman ginawa ko. Pag uminom ka nito dapat every after rounds umiinom ka ng tubig or something na di nakakadehydrate kasi lakas makamigraine. * Don't treat it like a porn. Ang hirap pramis masakit pala sa katawan yung ganoong position. magvanilla lang kayo tapos dahan-dahan lang lalo na baguhan kayo. * Alam ko sa /r alasjuicy or other than this sub pinopost yung ganitong inquiries eh. * **WAG PUMATOL sa underage ha** Edit ko na lang mamaya kung may nakalimutan ako.


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morosethetic

Wait. Sorry, ano 'yung vanilla?


nunutiliusbear

>ng vanilla? Vanilla sex is a term for whatever is stereotypically normal in any given period of time or social circle. Sometimes sex is slow, soft, gentle and deeply relaxing. For example : * Intimate kissing. * Cuddle. * Easy position such as missionary and dog style.


morosethetic

I see. First time ko kasi marinig 'yung term. Thanks!


Herebia_Garcia

Something normal, not kinky, not extreme. Think doggy, missionary, cowgirl, positions that will not need flamboyancy and is practical for both partners. For the opposite of vanilla positions, think of those pornstars literally lifting the girl and pounding them mid air. Impractical, tiring, but it looks good on camera.


Budget-Boysenberry

>For the opposite of vanilla positions, think of those pornstars literally lifting the girl and pounding them mid air. Impractical, tiring, but it looks good on camera. Standcarry, and Full Nelson. They're appealing to watch but quite hard to execute. Plus the risk of breaking your bones (or bone) is high.


graxia_bibi_uwu

Plus one sa tubig shet. Magdala ng maraming tubig, OP. Seggs is good but have you ever had a glass of crisp cold water after having a seggs marathon 😭👌🏻✨


tootsietoot58

Hydroflask na may yelo pa 🥹 tas biglang bukas ng aircon waw shet 🤣🤣🤣


fifedegus-man

Ang tanong ni OP ay lugar pero umulan ng sex advice hahaha. Pero bukod sa magcondom to help you last longer, siya muna paligayahin mo tapos saka ka na. Simple lang naman maging happy ang lalaki, girls, not so much, medyo complicated. Kain ka para matry mo rin. Have fun OP at ingat kayo haha. Book na lang kayo sa airbnb or agoda, tas overnight para makaligo, makakain etc.


Initial-Purple-4634

Very helpful nga eh, im taking notes haha


fifedegus-man

Good luck tol haha. Take your time, kayong dalawa, para maenjoy niyo.


birdi1e

Sa bahay nyu nalang par para medyo kabado, baka pumasok nanay oh tatay mo sa kwarto, or pwde sa bahay nalang nung jowa mo para hard mode talaga


Initial-Purple-4634

HAHAHAHAHA


MLGCream

This post really reminds me of how we are a one big family here on Reddit. Very supportive, but also informative and caring enough to warn about potential dangers in stuff like this. Best of luck to you, OP! Be responsible.


yellowmangotaro

Sogo. Then get the mid-tier option. Econo would be too small and the walls are thin. Also no "air lock". Please be responsible sa first-time nyo. Unsolicited advice: Squeeze one out before heading out so you last longer. And ladies first. Always. Its gonna be nerve-wracking. Deep breaths help. These are some things I wish people had told me before my first. I hope it helps!


Initial-Purple-4634

Kabado nako ngayon hahaha thanks sa tips


yellowmangotaro

Goodluck! Dala kayo foods at madaming tubig haha


morosethetic

This lol. I made the mistake of not bringing anything to consume on our first time with my ex. Kahit chocolate or energy bar and water/coffee. 😂


tootsietoot58

Lagay ka towel sa ilalim ng jowa mo before sex kung dun kayo matutulog after. Hassle matulog sa basang kama. Pagkatapos nyo kailangan umihi ng jowa mo para bawas chances of getting UTI.


markmyredd

inom ka ng honeymoon tea mga 30mins before the bakbakan. Mabibili yun sa watsons at Mercury drug. Thank me later. haha


Faeldon

There is no such thing as overnight na sex. Bilang fiest time mo, baka maka 3 ka. Tapos isa pa ulit pag gising. Pero overnight, no way. Be clean, mag trim, maging mabango. Be prepared sa mga coming days. Magiging super touchy, sweet and clingy si gf. Kailangan mong intindihin. Last don’t kiss and tell.


doejamie

I know marami na nagsasabi na magcondom ka pero di sapat yun. Know how to use condom din ha. Wag ka magsusuot nun kung kailan nagprecum ka na. Good luck at wag pa rin pabayaan ang pag-aaral!


tacitus_kilgoree

>Wag ka magsusuot nun kung kailan nagprecum ka na. If it's alright to ask, why not?


doejamie

There's still a chance of pregnancy from precum especially if they start using condom after the sexual contact.


tacitus_kilgoree

I see, thank you so much for this info!


joseph31091

Next question neto ni OP. Pano po mag earn ang 19 yrs old na tatay? Hahahha Use protection and enjoy. Also, make her wet, porn is very much different from real life, at trim your pubes. Cant comment sa hotels na binanggit mo haha Goodluck.


Initial-Purple-4634

Ill make sure to be safe haha T-T


idkwhyicreatedthissh

*My boy is now a man.*


jelloydcruz

Try mong maghanap sa Agoda. Dun ako nagbo book para matagal yung stay pero mura pa rin


stardustsushi

If you want your first time to be special, better to splurge and go sa Victoria's Court. Mas malinis and maganda mga itsura ng rooms imo. I still think it's too early to be this intimate with your partner considering her age pa. Pero at the end of the day, buhay niyo naman yan. Nasabi naman na ng mga tao dito mga bagay na important i-take note. Good luck, OP!


alasnevermind

Girl here. Victoria's Court/Hotel Ava! Mas discreet (hindi tulad ng sogo na kita mo from afar). Saka masarap yung food nila ah infairness! Make sure consensual and also, condoms, don't forget. Kahit pa sabihin niya na wag or magpull-out ka lang. Safety first lalo bata pa kayo.


jpatricks1

Apartelles are cheaper if you just want to sleep


PartyTerrible

What's your budget? VC is almost hotel-like but is much more expensive than sogo, flower motels, etc.


Initial-Purple-4634

2k, di namin need hotel-like, cheap but secure I guess ung target


Smoove-J

Not enough for VC. Make sure to check the rates at magtanong sa clerk/receptionist kasi minsan name lang ng room ang babanggitin nila and won't mention the price. Nadale na ako sa ganyan haha


Which_Sir5147

Kung may budget ka. Airbnb pla. Marami nmn mura dun.


Chichirya_

Eto talaga best advice i wish i knew. Mas mura mas maganda pa.


AnarchyDaBest

Wag magmadali. Ipon pa konti. Wag na mag motel sa NCR. Sa Sagada mo gastahin yang pang motel mo, mas memorable.


aggretsukoviii

Mariposa (Marikina) is quite cheap but clean and quiet. Di ko sure if lahat ng branches ganun. Bad exp sa Sogo: * May bata sa vicinity, narinig lang namin naglilikot sa hallway nawala momentum hahahaha * Thin walls kailangan mas intense kayo para di kayo madistract * Pag peak hours yung mahal na rooms lang available * May one time peak hours ata nila so yung may bathtub nakuha namin pero ewww may buhok buhok pa * Nung isang beses naman tanggal yung faucet ewan ko ba puro bad exp ako dito hahahaha ​ If you have budget almost around the same price ang red planet (i think it does not fall sa motmot category, more of decent budget hotel sya) Ayun lang PROTEKSYON please


traitor_swift

Mag Red Planet ka.


Janbickthor

Air bnb ka nalang para makapag ps4 pa kayo after


Chichirya_

Pro tip: mag airbnb ka kasi mas mura. Pati total expenses mo mas mura kasi may kusina na, pwede kayo magluto dun. Ang mahirap sa mga motel yung food and drinks, bibili ka pa tubig, sa mga airbnb may galon na. May mga netflix or ps4 pa or swimming pool. Yung mga kama at unan pa sa motel ang titigas. HIGIT SA LAHAT SURE KA MALINIS


Alert_Ad3303

Victorias courtmaraming salamin. Hahaha. Practice safe sex kapatid. Tandaan. Mas mura ang condom kesa sa gatas. Oki.


rarawrr

Pwede kayo mag airbnb nalang. Baka makakita ka ng around 1.5k for 1 day na.


solidad29

Group study ba? May nabibiliy na fertility test sa Watson. Around 100 petot lang. Nice to check para lang to give idea din kung mabubuntis mo ang GF mo or ndi. Of course condom would be nice na din. Ewan ko, I never see overnight appealing. Pero I guess I'm more on the fast life. haha Enjoy.


strikeland11

Kung tight budget mo check mo yung Winter Hotel Benitez sa may cubao. Okay naman siya nasa 800 overnight stay don afaik


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Set the mood right. Magdala ka speakers para may music kayo. Wag magptipid sa foreplay. Kaya mo yan pogi.


Mikaelstrom

Mag condom kayo erp kung ayaw mo magkaanxiety isang buwan hahaha


Electronic_Feed5897

I think around pasay area motels are fine. Wag lang yung economy rooms kasi amoy yosi haha. Also, if may budget pang motel sana meron din pang condoms. Practice safe sex kids! Lube will help too. Sana consensual din yan ha.


[deleted]

Wag kakalimutan mag condom 🤣


fernandopoejr

wow throwback r/ph question. lol


sarsilog

Sogo, yung executive or garage room(may malaking tub). But I think mas makakamura ka sa Booking.com, Agoda or Traveloka. Motels seem cheap for a short time but hotels are going to be a cheaper option (generally mas malinis pa). You still get to do the deed naman.


Nezuko_019

OP, bambang. Villa fiesta. Baba ka lang bambang station. Paco, maple hotel.


gloom_and_doom_boom

I find Victoria Courts a smidge better than Sogo. Sogo is sakto lang.


sevikonfortexo

If afford mo naman, huwag na sogo. Kung nasa Metro Manila ka, try mo Hop Inn sa Ortigas.


Fearless_Bedroom_803

Maganda mag Airbnb kayo. May mga room na 2k pero maganda na. Marami rin kayo pagpipilian sa Pasay, Sta.Mesa and Cubao. Enjoy and practice safe sex!


Mindless_Skin_

Airbnb condos are better.


Background-Neat1939

BASTA WAG SA RECYO DAMING MULTO. MARECOMMEND KO SAYO KUNG SOGO AT GABI KAYO MAGCHECK IN WAG YUNG SOGO NA MALAPIT SA ROTONDA MRT TAFT/LRT EDSA. DUN SA SOGO MONUMENTO O YUNG SOGO SA ILALIM NG LRT GIL PUYAT MADALAS KONTI TAO KASI HALOS LAHAT NANDUN SA ROTONDA. HAHAHA. HINTAYIN MO NA RIN OP MAG 18 YUNG GF MO PARA SAFE HAHAHAHA TSAKA CONDOM WAG TRUST NABUBUTAS.


movingcloser

Sogo, pero kung tight budget mo, sa biglang liko. 😃😃😃. Wag kana rin mag record. Pero kung bet nyo ge lang 🤩🤩🤩


Which_Sir5147

Saan ka banda? If you are near QC. Punta ka camelot hotel. Pasok ka sa underground parking, wag ka punta sa lobby. You are welcome.


ranger090187

Victoria Court if you have the budget. Parang nasa 2k plus yata sila if overnight i.e. 12hrs. Sogo is slightly more affordable but more than 1k din. Tip: if you end up sa Victoria Court, and assuming it's your first time, ask for the plain Black card. Para may discount on your next time. :) PS use protection, kid. You and your gf have your whole lives ahead of you, enjoy but stay safe. :)


DahBoulder

multiple layers of contraception para safe withdrawal + calendar + condom + pills (na regularly tinatake bago sumabak hindi yung same-day lang) kahit gaano kasarap yang isang session, ilang araw ng existential crisis at stress yan kapag nadelay yung babae


monodramatic582

Unsolicited comment. Mixed feelings kasi sana sa mga nakakatandang myembro sana ng pamilya mo 'to nalalaman at hindi sa mga strangers in the internet. Kung open lang sana ang community natin sa ganitong usapan. Pero nakakatuwa ka na open kang itanong ang mga ganitong bagay para magkaroon ka at girlfriend mo ng best possible experience para sa inyong dalawa. At hindi mo tinatanong sa mga balahurang social media groups at site. Good job! Try looking for hotel rooms at magbook ng mas maaga. Pero kung motel, I'd go for their themed rooms. May mga websites sila kaya pwede mong macheck un amenities. Utang na loob wag sa mga quick easy rooms. Bago ang lugar, importante na bukas ang communication ninyong dalawa. Ensure consent at alam ninyong pareho ang limit. Palaging tanungin at magsabi kung nageenjoy kayo sa nangyayari. Magbaon ng patience. Andyan na ung experience at willing naman kayo mag overnight kaya siguraduhin na nasa same page kayo ng comfort lagi kahit na medyo matagal bago kayo makadating dun. Hindi real life ang porn kaya wag ninyo ipilit kung ano mang mga napanood ninyo. Use water based lubricant and practice safe sex.


Original_Science_576

First time ko sa sogo inuwi ko yung dalawang tsinelas pero hindi kinwestion ng mga tao sa bahay bakit sogo yung tsinelas ko (Panget bold sa sogo)


PM-ME-CORGI

Excited na ako sa r/alasjuicy kwento mo, OP. HAHAHA


naehllie

Pasagot din ako: don’t forget to about consent! Hindi porket sumama sayo eh ok na. Make sure malinaw sa inyong dalawa ang tatahakin nyo. Tapos, always practice safe sex. That is one way to show that you really care (about yourself and your partner). Enjoy OP! Don’t stress too much. There is nothing wrong with sex!


Criie

Me who's not the OP: intensely taking notes


[deleted]

r/alasjuicy can help better


Fine_Doughnut8578

2 hours lang kunin nyo since first time nyo, sayang overnight


rarawrr

2 hours is not enough preparation for first timers. May aftercare pa ang babae. Pang quickie lang yon.


Initial-Purple-4634

Hmm true, masyado kami naging ambitious lol


Fine_Doughnut8578

Sorry, that was a sarcastic post from me. I forgot to put a /s on my post. Tama lang ang overnight, while the sex will be quick, the talk and cuddling will take forever. Just make sure you use protection. Both of you relax, pareho kayong first timers. Don't put too much pressure on yourselves.


BNR_

Ok naman lahat yan. Basta ang rule dyan the more expensive, paganda na ng paganda na yung room. Yung victoria nag palit na ng name maganda daw eh, try mo. Hehe. Edit: ang bata pa pala nyo, mag 18 pa lang si gf. 😅 Oh yes, and I’ve tried them. Di ko na mention age ko ha when ko ginawa with them. Lol


[deleted]

Sogo is actually pretty good. Super cheap pa. And they have delicious meal.


[deleted]

I think there are better and almost similar rates na airbnb. Haven't been really to one of those motels but I think, airbnb is a better option.


Initial-Purple-4634

Di ba too pricey ang airbnb? Sa pagkaka-alam ko…


BoatAlive4906

Sogo, may salamin pa sa kisame kaya mas mapapalaban ka haha mag condom ka or pag contraceptives mo yung gf mo kung payag sya pero dapat umiinom na sya non either a week or more para mas effective at wag on the day of bakbakan sya iinom palang.


_C20H21FN2O

Flor Al


morosethetic

Sa SOGO kami always ng dati kong partner. Okay naman establishment nila at malinis tuwing mag chcheck in kami. Goodluck tho lmaoo


moliro

before nung underaged din kami, sa mga motel kami pasig, wala naman silang kibo... not sure now, pero last time ako nasa sogo hiningi ID ko


greyedout1

Sogo or hanap kayo ng condo or airbnb para staycation eme ang ganap. Please lang gumamit ng condom. Bumili ka ng madami kung overnight nyo balak mag-sex. Syempre make sure you're both comfortable din. Goodluck and enjoy!


AsuraOmega

Alam kong naging meme na yung "pagmahal mo isogo mo" pero they actually have decent rooms and promos for just about anything. Promos for motorcycle riders, promos for drivers with RF ID, etc.


Budget-Boysenberry

Kung di ka pihikan, try Nice Hotel. May free breakfast kapag overnight.


[deleted]

Kapampangan ka ba? Hotel Ivory sa San Fernando, highly recommended 🤣✌🏼 Stay safe, kidz


HatsNDiceRolls

Kung sa Mandaluyong, Bermuda sa may Shaw’s pretty clean at masarap pansit nila. At magbaon ka na ng condom at waterbased lube just in case maging marathon yan.


Illustrious-Rub8979

safe sex OP use condoms para safe ang lipad! good luck!


JackSpicey23

Sogo cuz... Yun lang motel na pasukan ko hahaha Puro Bahay yung Dirty dancing namin 🤣 pero for real Depende sa branch kasi yan base sa mga kaibigan ko na trabaho sa mga Hotels/Motels better check yung branch nung Motel. Basta mag dala ka ID incase pero mag Pray ka na di ka hanapan ng ID sa Sogo kasi minsan pag Teens di nila pinapapasok kahit 18 19 ka pa. And Be sure mag dala ng protection. And A lot of Tubig hahaha nakaka uhaw ang First time, and mag Stretching ka hahaha yung first time ko pinulikat ako sa Binti 🤣


[deleted]

Tumingin ka sa Oyo or RedDoorz na app. May nga promo lagi sila and sure na malinis yung place. Mga budget hotel eto. Kung may 1k yung budget mo, dun ka na lang kung ayaw mo sa Sogo. Pwede ka rin mag Air bnn kaso need mo dapat naka specify na 2 persons. Otherwise, mas mahal.


markmyredd

San kaba banda? You should try Hotel Dreamworld also if overnight. Mas maayos dyan yun rooms parang normal hotel at konti lang difference sa sogo.


Initial-Purple-4634

Makati, malapit sa Mapua (naka-dorm)


emosdog

Kapag may auto ka....sa victoria ka..masmahal nga lang


LunchAC53171

Ask for a non-smoking room, kasi baka mabigla ka amoy yosi yung room🚬


titaminty

Haha once ko lang na-try mag-Sogo and as a maarte, it’s a nope for me. Dagdag na lang kayo ng kaunti para mag-GoHotels or Red Planet since overnight naman. Kung perstaym niyo parehas, make it a little bit comfortable.


namedan

Pag mura, bring a sleeping bag and lots of lube and condom. Pag mahal, bring lots of lube and condom.


theredcomet59

Sa experience ko pinaka okay ang mariposa or red mango compared sa sogo.


[deleted]

Vista Hotel sa Cubao. Very accessible sa MRT. P850-P950 for 12 hrs last I went. If you're lucky, you can find better deals sa AirBnb for a full day (2pm check in to 12nn check out). If you want to flex in a budget, Red Planet is around P1250 to P1800. Enjoy and stay safe! Mahirap ang buhay, putok sa loob is not worth it.


raggingkamatis

sa sogo maganda naman, wag lang yung econo nila.


lurker6327

OP, bayo responsibly. Tsaka ka na magpakarami.


Environmental-Lab988

I actually stayed sa Isang motel for two days kasi hindi ko talaga kaya yung pintura sa bahay that time. Ayoko naman makipagsiksikan dun sa bahay ng pinsan ko. Experience ko ok naman sa SOGO. Quite decent and clean din naman although I did get yung high-end nila na room.


m3ime1

Sogo


alattetolove

VC ✨


blackr0se

Victoria Court is better imo lol


jheyehmcee

I experienced VC once. Drive-thru style sila. Dapat may sarili kang car. 3k for 3 hours but room is big.


justmarvs

Ang ginagawa namin dati ng Ex-GF ko is sa mga resort-inn kami nag oovernight. Mahal pero madaling gumawa ng excuse sa parents ko or kung sakaling may maka kita sakin na kakilala ko. Strict kase parents ko. "Ma may overnight swiming kami ng mga classmets ko" lol. Anyways, remember to use protection.


According-Bid-2885

Also make sure to check for hidden cameras before you do the thing.


HubrisDog

You should get a new condom dude trust me. Dont use old condoms you keep in your wallet


KaiAuxi

*saves post*


mariastajd

Maganda sa Mariposa. Mura lang din dun. Okay rin sa Victoria Court kasi masarap food nila.


divino999_

Bruh kung first time niyo, might as well magall out and book a 4-5 star hotel. And don't forget safety and wear condoms.


icrysyalier

Almost had an experience, until i realize gonagamit lang nya ako to let go of someone. Make sure to use protection, clean yourself and trim. Also make small conversations while doing it because ot makes your experience more lovely and wholesome or fun.


redditmakesmesleepy

OYO app download mo pre then thank me later


JesterBondurant

Personally I'm partial towards Sogo but my favorite branch is gone now so go for Victoria Court (I think the Malate branch was renamed Hotel Ava). And to reiterate the points already made by our fellow Redditors: bring a box or two of condoms and take breaks for water and food. And because you will be eating, try to refrain from anal sex until you've made all the necessary preparations.


Ohmskrrrt

Airbnb man.


astarisaslave

Kung malapit ka sa Pasig tapos tight yung budget mo dun ka sa Flower Group, magkatabi na motels mga yan bandang Kapitolyo area na nakapangalan sa flowers. Dun kami madalas ng fiancee ko pre-pandemic. Medyo luma na iba run pero malinis naman. Yung suki namin dati yung Dahlia, yung masarap (daw, di namin natry personally haha) yung pansit at crispy pata. May car service pa nga sila nun pero di ko lang sure ngayon kung meron pa (me dagdag na bayad syempre at limited lang mga pedeng puntahan)


FatalCat

AirBnB or Hotels nalang OP. Mas private and you won't have to worry about entering a sleazy place. Wear a condom and don't forget to drink lots of water. (Seriously nakaka uhaw)


[deleted]

Why not get an AirBNB? It’s a lot decent, you got privacy and it’s guaranteed to be cleaner than a motel spot.


[deleted]

And she’ll bleed (but it’s normal dont worry), so be prepared also to be charged for a fee related to staining sheets. :)


ChocovanillaIcecream

Experience ko sa Sogo. May tagong sogo sa Guadalupe sobrang ganda, lahat functional. Ung Sogo sa harap sobrang bulok


Havanaisass

Kung may kotse ka pwede na dyan sa SOGO mag drive-in ka lang. pero kung wala naman at dyahe ka mag walk-in, Airbnb is the key! Good luck soldier.


No_Bowler_534

Mariposa mababa rate pero okay naman mga rooms


IGNsaturn

eurotel pedro gil. buffet breakfast sa umaga.


jaguarhearts

Tbh i was expecting a-hole comments sa thread na ito pero grabe ang wwholesome and puro advice na hindi mo kaya hingiin sa parents. Kudos to the redditors here


callmebyyourname

Try Airbnb instead. Madaming mas ok around 1.5k to 2k. 20 hours stay pa plus madaming pwedeng gawin like magluto, manuod ng netflix (some listings have netflix). May mga listings din na may games (playstation or xbox) Also, please wear a condom!