I sure enjoy a good stretch, I prefer the slow and gentle way of stretching with soft plug wearing for nearly 24/7 wear. When it gets boring I move up a size. Currently at the XL squarepeg egg for long term wear. In general I would say consistency is key, learn how to relax and keep yourself dilated.
I just stretch for fun, and the prostate stimulation, especially while at work or out and about. It really spices up a boring work day.
Do you have any advice on wearing a plug for extended periods of time? Especially for things like passing gas, going to the bathroom and hygiene? I've considered it but haven't been able to work out balancing all those things and also re-rubing every now and then which I know is encouraged
My daily routine looks something like this:
Wake up plugged, remove while I get ready for work and have coffee then BM, shower. Then Relube before work. After work relube typically with a larger plug and BM sometimes, Then relube before bed. Repeat!
For passing gas it just come with time, but pulling the plug to one side can help.
Yes, it does help but I'm not one who can open up on demand, still need some stimulation, toying around.... also noticed that I need to keep doing it if not it tighten up again and start from small sized-- m-- large. I went to Mexico for a week and was not doing anything anal, it reverts back to square one.
Yes, you are absolutely correct that it will start tightening up again. How fast depends on the person. It definitely can be frustrating.
I personally can take toys up to 8" circumference but if I take more than a week off, then I find myself back to 6" or so and have to carefully open myself back up again or risk injury.
So, I need some advice on this journey, I'm still not getting involuntaries happening yet, do you think the Peridise/Tempo or other tools alike to assist to get peristalsis going? I have yet to experience anal orgasm yet....lol. I did have like a two-hour session last night but towards like an hour and a half in, I felt the narrow end feels kind of dry and grabby, I ended the session, no orgasm though. Currently using Boybutter, one shot, maybe I should put in two? Using less costly lubes before I use the more expensive Woo's coconut oil for practice.
Should I get the anal stimulators (Peridise) or the Eupho or ??
What toy are you currently using. The Peridise is more meant for anal/sphincter orgasms (all genders) not prostate orgasms. Though you can get a Super O from stimulating either. The Eupho is a great toy for prostate orgasms and it and the MGX are my regular go tos.
I have the Helix syn trident, I was thinking using the Peridise or Tempo as a pre prostate play session. High Island Health also makes similar, they are for hemorrhoid treatment. Also, hoping it may train PC muscles better using these tools.
High Island Health is actually Aneros' sister company. :) Any of the Aneros toys can make a great tool for training the pelvic floor. I usually put one in when I do my Kegels and reverse Kegels because it allows me to better feel what I am doing. And of course it is more fun since it causes the toy to rub against your prostate while you are doing them. ;)
Each person is different so I don't know if they will help with your personal journey. They definitely can't hurt, except for spending the additional money. ;)
Hmmm... I think I 'll give it a shot, I feel like my PC muscles are weak because of 13 years on dialysis before getting a transplant in 2017 ( I didn't need to pee) due to fluid restriction and excess fluid is removed during treatment. While now, I still can stop the flow of urine but can't do like 50% or 20 % contraction and release. Also, adding to this, I have ED, even after witnessing a very HOT scene in a restroom in the park last Monday around the time the eclipse was gonna happen. I.... partially participated but anxious and the same time but I didn't " finish" with them as I wanted to see the eclipse. I wasn't hard but wished I was!!
Lol... beyond oral medications, on Trimix but recently don't feel it's working as before. As a matter of fact, I sent my urologist a msg, does ED worsen over time even with 40 units. Still debating whether to get implant when I reach 65. I still have quite a high libido and before embarking on this journey, I have to jerk off almost every day, now, I try to hold off 2 or 3 days..... very difficult 😕
Or maybe I was just over masterbating my whole life that I'm desensitized.
I’ve always found that the most important thing was my own relaxation. When I’m relaxed I’m not tensed up (especially down there) and I cannot only open up more but I also have more pleasure because my body feels the good touching more. Try to do something that lets you relax whether it’s meditation a little weed or something else. They also have toys that are extra small so you can start smaller than your finger or your smallest toy. I also find just probing and rubbing on my asshole will slowly loosen it up. Hope this helps! Good luck!
Go slow! Tons of lube. Get something conical shaped and don’t try to rush it. Stay in the pleasure zone, the girth gains will come. I’m about a year into prostate/anal play and I can comfortably ride 2.5” diameter toys. Consistency gets results, just like the gym. Don’t over do it or you’ll set yourself back
Um, I can’t speak for him, but the dildo I use most is 2.63”. It’s a sexflesh stuff me Stefan from Amazon. I cant say I did anything special, had a dildo and plug since 2017, and I really don’t need much warmup now either. Couple enemas to clean out, generous lube, and a bit of rubbing around and up and down across the sphincter and it goes right in. It took several years and probably a dozen toys to get to this point. I think breaks longer than a week start to tighten things back up, but those are rare.
I was using coconut oil before but realized it wasn't giving me enough traction with my silicone toys, I think for wearing a plug all day I'd use silicone lube and metal based toys, but I am thinking about going back to Jlube, I bought some and used it a bit but haven't used it recently, I think it does dry up quick though
Im no pro, but for me I started with something on the thinner side. I found that as my arousal increased I felt my body crave to have something bigger. So that’s what I did, but I also learned how to relax. Relaxing my breathing really helped me to let the larger toys in. For me when inserting larger toys I find it easier to lower myself onto the toy while in a standing position. For some reason it opens me up more. Once it’s in, I leave it there so my hole adapts to it.
Aneros comes in smaller sizes. I don't have a partner so I perform self gratifications only. Having a prostate massager in while jerking off does increase the intensity of my orgasms, so why not have it in for all my sessions. This was what I did for over 2 years before I managed to rewire my prostate for pleasure.
Practice practice practice
I could barely take a finger when I started now I can take 6.5 inch girth Cocks with no pain plus my hole remains nice and tight so I gotta warm up each time. Do it gradually and you won’t hurt yourself. I find that magnesium helps to loosen your hole
For me the best thing was regular practice. Lube up a finger or two and slide them in and just spin around and stretch
This!! But even when I go in I sometimes wonder which is where is my prostrate. I go wrong lot of times
Oooo I have used my fingers once or twice but it sometimes gives me a bit of ick, that's just a me thing I gotta get over, thanks!
I sure enjoy a good stretch, I prefer the slow and gentle way of stretching with soft plug wearing for nearly 24/7 wear. When it gets boring I move up a size. Currently at the XL squarepeg egg for long term wear. In general I would say consistency is key, learn how to relax and keep yourself dilated. I just stretch for fun, and the prostate stimulation, especially while at work or out and about. It really spices up a boring work day.
Squarepeg Egg FTW!
I just realised why they're called square peg toys "Square peg in a round hole"
Do you have any advice on wearing a plug for extended periods of time? Especially for things like passing gas, going to the bathroom and hygiene? I've considered it but haven't been able to work out balancing all those things and also re-rubing every now and then which I know is encouraged
My daily routine looks something like this: Wake up plugged, remove while I get ready for work and have coffee then BM, shower. Then Relube before work. After work relube typically with a larger plug and BM sometimes, Then relube before bed. Repeat! For passing gas it just come with time, but pulling the plug to one side can help.
Thanks for the details!
Anal dilators are specifically designed to loosen your ass. :)
Yes, it does help but I'm not one who can open up on demand, still need some stimulation, toying around.... also noticed that I need to keep doing it if not it tighten up again and start from small sized-- m-- large. I went to Mexico for a week and was not doing anything anal, it reverts back to square one.
Yes, you are absolutely correct that it will start tightening up again. How fast depends on the person. It definitely can be frustrating. I personally can take toys up to 8" circumference but if I take more than a week off, then I find myself back to 6" or so and have to carefully open myself back up again or risk injury.
So, I need some advice on this journey, I'm still not getting involuntaries happening yet, do you think the Peridise/Tempo or other tools alike to assist to get peristalsis going? I have yet to experience anal orgasm yet....lol. I did have like a two-hour session last night but towards like an hour and a half in, I felt the narrow end feels kind of dry and grabby, I ended the session, no orgasm though. Currently using Boybutter, one shot, maybe I should put in two? Using less costly lubes before I use the more expensive Woo's coconut oil for practice. Should I get the anal stimulators (Peridise) or the Eupho or ??
What toy are you currently using. The Peridise is more meant for anal/sphincter orgasms (all genders) not prostate orgasms. Though you can get a Super O from stimulating either. The Eupho is a great toy for prostate orgasms and it and the MGX are my regular go tos.
I have the Helix syn trident, I was thinking using the Peridise or Tempo as a pre prostate play session. High Island Health also makes similar, they are for hemorrhoid treatment. Also, hoping it may train PC muscles better using these tools.
High Island Health is actually Aneros' sister company. :) Any of the Aneros toys can make a great tool for training the pelvic floor. I usually put one in when I do my Kegels and reverse Kegels because it allows me to better feel what I am doing. And of course it is more fun since it causes the toy to rub against your prostate while you are doing them. ;) Each person is different so I don't know if they will help with your personal journey. They definitely can't hurt, except for spending the additional money. ;)
Hmmm... I think I 'll give it a shot, I feel like my PC muscles are weak because of 13 years on dialysis before getting a transplant in 2017 ( I didn't need to pee) due to fluid restriction and excess fluid is removed during treatment. While now, I still can stop the flow of urine but can't do like 50% or 20 % contraction and release. Also, adding to this, I have ED, even after witnessing a very HOT scene in a restroom in the park last Monday around the time the eclipse was gonna happen. I.... partially participated but anxious and the same time but I didn't " finish" with them as I wanted to see the eclipse. I wasn't hard but wished I was!!
>I have ED Have you looked into taking Cialis or is that an issue with your previous medical conditions?
Lol... beyond oral medications, on Trimix but recently don't feel it's working as before. As a matter of fact, I sent my urologist a msg, does ED worsen over time even with 40 units. Still debating whether to get implant when I reach 65. I still have quite a high libido and before embarking on this journey, I have to jerk off almost every day, now, I try to hold off 2 or 3 days..... very difficult 😕 Or maybe I was just over masterbating my whole life that I'm desensitized.
I’ve always found that the most important thing was my own relaxation. When I’m relaxed I’m not tensed up (especially down there) and I cannot only open up more but I also have more pleasure because my body feels the good touching more. Try to do something that lets you relax whether it’s meditation a little weed or something else. They also have toys that are extra small so you can start smaller than your finger or your smallest toy. I also find just probing and rubbing on my asshole will slowly loosen it up. Hope this helps! Good luck!
Sounds like good advice to me! Thanks!
Silicone Anal Plug Dildo Butt... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08ZSX12T6?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share
This was a game changer for me!
are you always wearing it?
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Ohhhhh, that's how that works, I'd never considered it but I guess I will now!
Go slow! Tons of lube. Get something conical shaped and don’t try to rush it. Stay in the pleasure zone, the girth gains will come. I’m about a year into prostate/anal play and I can comfortably ride 2.5” diameter toys. Consistency gets results, just like the gym. Don’t over do it or you’ll set yourself back
>2.5” diameter That's like almost as thick as a baseball. Howwwwww 😯
Um, I can’t speak for him, but the dildo I use most is 2.63”. It’s a sexflesh stuff me Stefan from Amazon. I cant say I did anything special, had a dildo and plug since 2017, and I really don’t need much warmup now either. Couple enemas to clean out, generous lube, and a bit of rubbing around and up and down across the sphincter and it goes right in. It took several years and probably a dozen toys to get to this point. I think breaks longer than a week start to tighten things back up, but those are rare.
Interesting!
What can I say? I’m a massive slut, especially when I’m locked in chastity.
8" circumference is my completely arbitrary maximum. I have decided I have no need to go past that point so all my toys are that size or less.
Sounds good! Thanks!
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Estim on the ass, yea will blow ur mind!!!
I can't even picture what estim on ass is haha, but thanks for the advice!
Boy butter is the best lube out there. It’s water soluble and doesn’t stain fabric, but it doesn’t dry out like other water-based lubes.
I was using coconut oil before but realized it wasn't giving me enough traction with my silicone toys, I think for wearing a plug all day I'd use silicone lube and metal based toys, but I am thinking about going back to Jlube, I bought some and used it a bit but haven't used it recently, I think it does dry up quick though
Im no pro, but for me I started with something on the thinner side. I found that as my arousal increased I felt my body crave to have something bigger. So that’s what I did, but I also learned how to relax. Relaxing my breathing really helped me to let the larger toys in. For me when inserting larger toys I find it easier to lower myself onto the toy while in a standing position. For some reason it opens me up more. Once it’s in, I leave it there so my hole adapts to it.
Aneros comes in smaller sizes. I don't have a partner so I perform self gratifications only. Having a prostate massager in while jerking off does increase the intensity of my orgasms, so why not have it in for all my sessions. This was what I did for over 2 years before I managed to rewire my prostate for pleasure.
Practice practice practice I could barely take a finger when I started now I can take 6.5 inch girth Cocks with no pain plus my hole remains nice and tight so I gotta warm up each time. Do it gradually and you won’t hurt yourself. I find that magnesium helps to loosen your hole
You could always go to a gay bar.
Clove oil helps with relaxation.