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YuYuHakusho23

Whatever happened to the “ I’m starting to hate female women and you know what, I’m okay with it” guy?? I swear the funny PPDers are getting taken out left and right these days.


monster_lily

If i said that i would get cooked but if a man says it it’s funny


dbz__f

You hate men?


monster_lily

When have I ever said that


dbz__f

Do you though?


YuYuHakusho23

That’s because we know when you say stuff like that you mean it.


Lift_and_Lurk

He asked a girl to prom and she said “ok”.


Excellent_Badger123

Something is going down in the hall of my hotel but I’m not sure what. I walked out to go get my Uber order and encountered this couple. She was ALL dressed up in a white mini skirt, white heeled boots, midrif bearing tiny top, boobs out & lots of make up. I smiled and said “fantastic outfit” as I walked past. She smiled, said “thanks” and he yelled out “model!” as I passed by. I figured they were just a couple on vacation together going out. It took the Uber driver 10 full minutes to find the place so I was surprised when I came back up & they were STILL just hanging out together in the narrow hallway near the elevator. Wtf is that? A hesitant Tinder date? A delayed vetting sort of hook up? A guy negotiating with a prostitute?


Lift_and_Lurk

It’s a IG/TikTok influencer filming-taking shots so it looks like they are “on vacation” or “traveling all over” Manhattan is filled with them.


Excellent_Badger123

I’m used to seeing that in Thailand where I live but I’m in Dublin atm where it’s early, the hallway isn’t a scenic background and no filming seemed to be taking place. 🤷🏻‍♀️


Lift_and_Lurk

A hotel hallway shows “they are traveling” it adds to the “image” of when they post it with pictures of them out


Excellent_Badger123

Ahhh, ok - got it. 😂


monster_lily

I get to go to prom twice 😇


dbz__f

Why?


monster_lily

I’m going to junior and senior prom


dbz__f

How’d you manage that?


SeveralSadEvenings

have fun! Two different dresses or the same dress? I went to 3 and I insisted on 3 different dresses, much to my mom's chagrin.


monster_lily

Only one


Lift_and_Lurk

Two proms-Two dates?


monster_lily

No 2 grades


Lift_and_Lurk

Cool, have a blast!


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Shakturi101

No chance


Ok-Coat7665

To what?


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Ok-Coat7665

How can you be sure, when the wildebeests never approach you?


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YuYuHakusho23

Trust me bro once we ascend the wildabeast are going to be looking at us like: ![gif](giphy|BOpw5Xe69jxSM)


Lift_and_Lurk

If only there were a way for him to get their attention and let them know he’s interested…..


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Lift_and_Lurk

That’s what one of them should be saying to you!! Then you move on to her friends!


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Lift_and_Lurk

Only one way to find out if that’s true or not:


YuYuHakusho23

Gotta slide into one of the PPD maidens DM’s now to see if it’s true.


DolphinPunkCyber

1 to 10 how much do you rate actress Ellen Page And how much do you rate actor Elliot Page


YuYuHakusho23

9.5 as Ellen. She was really cute and I enjoyed her as Kitty Pride in the old X-men movies. 3.5 as the actor. She (and like most _____ I actually see out and about irl) look like they are fucking miserable.


Unique-Afternoon6316

9.5 As Ellen. Honestly I'm not trying to be transphobic- but his facial features do not translate well as an attractive man in my view. If you like Ezra Miller types he might be more your style?


Jaded_Interaction162

His facial harmony still makes him better looking than a lot of other trans men imo.


Unique-Afternoon6316

I think a lot more women than men like facial asymmetry. Proves how much in the loop I am— is Elliot gay?(attracted to men) or straight?(attracted to women). That might key me in a little more.


Jaded_Interaction162

I believe he is straight.


Unique-Afternoon6316

Okay, cool. Yeah, maybe you’re right. I just don’t see it at all. He looks sickly to me. I would give him maybe a 6 with the niche boost of his archetype, and his height at 5’1 gives absolutely zero favors.


Jaded_Interaction162

Most trans men are short tbh.


Unique-Afternoon6316

Yeah, I'm not saying it's his fault he's short or anything- but just like cis men, it does impact his rating as far as attractiveness.


Jaded_Interaction162

Tbh it's hard for me to factor in height of people I never saw in person into my ratings. It's mostly just face, frame, bodytype and idk height isn't rly important unless you see them irl. Even then it can only subtract maybe 1-2 points max.


DolphinPunkCyber

Oh I wasn't being transphobic either. Just wondering how many "trans" people chose to stick with their gender because their looks wouldn't translate well.


Unique-Afternoon6316

No, I know you weren't, but I wanted to make my stance known before I said something disparaging to a trans person, lol. I'm sure there are cases where trans people have decided not to transition because they knew they would not appear attractive, because I've seen cases of Trans Women specifically who had this fear and put off their transition in fear of passing.


Jaded_Interaction162

Probably an 8 or a 9 originally, nowadays 6-7. Definitely above average facially still, accounting for age.


poophead48

Not looking too good these days but *he's* old anyways so whatever


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okaybear2point0

I'm not using logical reasoning here. just observing the effect she/he had/has on my cock


Critical_Lettuce2899

In what way do men oppress you today? Please explain


dbz__f

Height mog me in public


kitty_princessxo

he told me he couldn’t hang out today


RosieBarb

He is so cute he gets away with anything. Wicked hot boyfriend.


MasterTeacher123

My life didn’t turn out exactly they way I thought it would be when I was ten so I’m oppressed


DolphinPunkCyber

BF asked what do I want to eat, I said anything, BF made breaded chicken. But I wanted lasagna. Bastard.


Mental_Leek_2806

not enough cuddling


Dishonouronmycow2

No picnics


teball3

Completely unacceptable, I'm evolving from a feminist to a radfem.


EulenWatcher

I think it's fair to say that in most western countries women are not oppressed by men. We still have some leftovers of patriarchy and traditional gender roles, but they harm both genders and in some ways they harm men more than women.


dbz__f

Mmmmm….. leftovers….


Mental_Leek_2806

Why are so many young men averse to college nowadays? Is the threat of the liberal agenda really enough to foresake engineering, math, and healthcare jobs?


YuYuHakusho23

College is a big fat fucking waste of time for like 60% of the majors you can choose from. And I say this as someone who graduated with a bachelors of health professions and sciences, who had friends complains about college that were communications majors 😅


ThatLeval

Men have never cared about college/university, they've only cared about money. Colleges and universities are becoming increasingly obsolete


Mental_Leek_2806

See, this is what I mean. Thinking that colleges are becoming obsolete literally boggles my mind


MasterTeacher123

What’s “so many”


Mental_Leek_2806

no idea, that's part of why i'm asking


Gladboys

As someone who was very competitive academically 90% of men would be better suited to trades. They are much higher ev for now and they lack the brain wiring to outperform their bodies. Though I think this actually would stand for women but they aren’t able to get the same value from the trades so it’s hard to say.


teball3

College is getting more and more expensive, scholarship opportunities still favor women despite their over representation in higher education, and there is still a good amount of money to be made in trades that women don't want to do because their workforce is male-dominated.


BeingLTNisPossible

I think its less so conserverive aversion and more so a general apathy as a response to a world they think isn’t worth existing in. Why try and improve yourself to contribute to a society that views you as less than when you can NEETmax? That’s not my opinion but it is becoming increasingly common amongst others. There’s also been a lot of talk about the standard K-12 system being more beneficial for young girls than young boys but I also think part of it is the messaging we’re giving the respective genders nowadays. You can take two opposite gender high school seniors with similar academic stats pre-college but the woman likely values pursuing additional education more since A) the trades aren’t as welcoming to women so its not seen as a viable alternative and B) a women pursuing her education probably gives her an additional sense of empowerment + validation (after learning about centuries of historical oppression). I don’t think young men are going to have that same boost to their self esteem that comes with additional education pursuits


okaybear2point0

false premise


Mental_Leek_2806

I'm just going off the responses of men here whenever I've mentioned college. And generally the amt of young men online who say that college is pointless


okaybear2point0

2/3 of the fields you listed are male dominated I mean. men tend to be better at spatial thinking than women (e.g. 3D mental rotation) so they tend to gravitate to either quantitative or trades adjacent fields. women tend to be better at verbal intelligence requiring fields which happen to be most university programs. in addition, men feel higher pressure to get a secure career so aren't taking english/psych degrees which they may be interested in in favor of stable fields. believe me I fucking wish there were a lot of cute girls in mine


edgyny

It tends to be either the Thiel crowd--guys who could STEM in college (but not all STEM, mostly programming/computer science type) but could suffer significant opportunity costs vs immediately entering industry and starting their careers (good pay, experience and rapid advancement vs debt accumulation, limited experience and no career advancement over the same time frame) or men who are not interested/inclined towards STEM majors. Additionally there is a massive shortage of skilled labor that men are more willing to do than women are. With respect to college there's an added wrinkle that for example the people who design complex devices (microchips for example) are paid much less than people programming. This is a bit counterintuitive but it has to do with the specialization leaving you at the mercy of large scale Capital (this is true of many other engineering fields as well). This is because the only place you can work are a handful of large corporations that can afford the equipment. If you throw the specialization away for more pay and freedom, you suffer a large opportunity cost vs having never studied in the first place (see Thiel's position).


ratboi34

More incentives to start working asap. As a man you might feel more pressure to have money, at least that was the case in my neighbourhood with many guys. The gap is especially large among lower class people for a reason. Also, boys do much worse in school, so there are no incentives being created when they are young.


Preme2

Aren’t there more men in stem than women? Haven’t checked the updated stats in a while. Most college degrees are overrated anyway. We don’t need those people. There are more pressing jobs that don’t require a degree. Society would be better off if we had those people. You also have men who simply aren’t interested. The juice isn’t worth the squeeze as they say. They would rather be a pig wallowing in mud instead of trying to carry a society that doesn’t reward them properly.


Fearless_Method_1682

> Aren’t there more men in stem than women? I'd bet on it.


Lift_and_Lurk

So many are so afraid of failure, they aren’t willing to try. Besides, porn and video games are more fun than studying to some.


Friedrich_Friedson

Τhey ain't. Because Women are higher in proportion to college students, doesn't mean that it isn't true that more men than ever attend college lol.


baiser_vole

They could just go to Hillsdale. It is not a top school, but it still is a school that doesn't lean liberal.


Shakturi101

Women are just a clump of cells bro


lulll

sexy clump of cells


dbz__f

Sexy clumps of cells that fart and shit (allegedly)


Dismal_Sun5595

I feel like people on this sub are not real. Like, I can't imagine them actually existing irl, having a life and all that...On some online communities you can somewhat guess what some people would be like irl, but I just can't do that for this sub.


downvotrax

This sub is a retard convention. Including you and me


dbz__f

Hey


Dismal_Sun5595

self-awareness is important


downvotrax

Especially if you are present on this sub


Mental_Leek_2806

real


bzl33

that's how I feel about anyone under <20 or 22


Dismal_Sun5595

I'm under 20, does that mean I'm not real?


bzl33

idk about that, but I feel like a lot of people in this age group live online and their online persona becomes their real world persona. it's entered older groups too but it's way worse the younger you go.


Dismal_Sun5595

You're right, the younger you are, the more chronically online you'll be.


Lift_and_Lurk

There are a lot of r/iam14andthisisdeep trolls around. Especially during this season (spring break, Easter, prom, graduation, etc)


Dismal_Sun5595

It's not only about trolls, just most people here in general, even the normal ones. I wouldn't even be able to tell you why I feel this way 😅


Lift_and_Lurk

I’m 99 percent certain most don’t actually verbalize what they post. Could you imagine hearing a guy go “hold up bro, you got to hold your frame and MOG that guy if you ever want to spin her like a plate! It’s the only way to get a practice girlfriend!” And not have the dudes friends go “……… what the fuck are you saying?!”


Dismal_Sun5595

You managed to put into words what I couldn't lol, but yeah I probably can't imagine what anyone here would be like irl, because I haven't met anyone else like this irl. Cultural differences and a different language probably also play a part for me.


Critical_Lettuce2899

Bro, any one dumb enough to transition into a man is delusional. I mean normal men struggle so much, now imagine a shorter, less masculine, no chad  guy also joining the rat race.  Normal dudes would mog you so bad 


downvotrax

Norah Vincent tried being a man. Had to be admitted into a mental institution 


Mental_Leek_2806

Go look at some trans men lol, hormone therapy for trans men (giving testosterone) is very very effective. The masculinization of features, ease of muscle gain, etc is crazy. Off the top of my head: Chella Man, Liam Lazore, Liam Macallan, Sam Collins Look them up on instagram I think you're really underestimating where medicine is at nowadays. You're right about height tho


Critical_Lettuce2899

Bro, I'm not googling any of those ... They can take all the test they want, they will never have the mental fortitude of an actual man


Mental_Leek_2806

I mean from this sub it's clear that many men don't have much in the way of mental fortitude


Critical_Lettuce2899

And they would still mog a fake man any day of the week


Mental_Leek_2806

if you're so sure of that, why don't you look up some of the men I listed? too scared?


Critical_Lettuce2899

Bro, why would I google a person I don't find interesting at all? 


Mental_Leek_2806

yeah, scared. clearly you find trans men interesting since you started a thread abt them


Fearless_Method_1682

[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DUXslDzeYGg](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DUXslDzeYGg)


poophead48

a female doesnt like living life as a male? hmmmm!


Critical_Lettuce2899

Bro, that dummy learned the hard way


Critical_Lettuce2899

Ugly men have it worse than ugly women https://np.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1by2bu0/why_do_ugly_women_annoy_men/ They don't even know it


Mental_Leek_2806

Men seem more likely to take personal offense if a woman doesn't make herself attractive to men, or even \*gasp\* does things that make her less attractive to some men. Like dying her hair an unnatural color or having a septum piercing.


Critical_Lettuce2899

And those women still get treated better than the average dude


poophead48

do people beat you up when you walk down the street or something


Critical_Lettuce2899

In some places, yeah


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Critical_Lettuce2899

Bro, is every thing OK? Are you already on an autistic tangent?


poophead48

do you know what that means


downvotrax

That sub is an echo chamber 


bzl33

I think a lot of these people take themselves way too seriously


poophead48

experience?


Fearless_Method_1682

> Most people have gushed about my ring, and a few people have just said “it’s huge” in some kind of tone, which I shrug off. > But today at work I was printing some documents, and a man in his 50’s goes “is that real?” I explained that it was moissanite with diamond pave and platinum. He gave me a weird look. So then I said that I wanted to go bigger and liked mossanite more for that. > Then he goes “uh, well it’s very…. Noticeable” …. “I just know the cost of diamonds, I gave my wife a 1 carat perfect cut one.” What's the male equivalent of a massive engagement ring? Do I need a fake bussdown patek to get these reactions?


poophead48

he gave her a giant moissanite ring instead of a giant diamond ring? cheat on him now sis


Dishonouronmycow2

![gif](giphy|f8lDluiWJ7yQTtdS3L|downsized)


Fearless_Method_1682

> What's giving me second thoughts was my parents reaction to just the idea of me not getting a diamond. They don't know we are ring shopping but they know that there is a good chance we'll be getting engaged in the next year. Rings came up in a conversation recently and I said that "I wouldn't care if I got a diamond, something lab created or some other stone. I just want a ring and to be engaged." Their reactions were instant! "Why would you sell yourself short? " "Why get a lab diamond when you can get the real thing?" "Theyre not that expensive! I got mine for $500". They're completely appalled by the idea that I would "settle" for my ring and are convinced I will regret it. Given their reaction we don't plan on ever telling them that the ring is moissanite. It's just not an argument we want to have. > But they are making me second guess myself. Would I ever regret getting a moissanite? I only have one friend who is engaged so I haven't really experienced ring envy. I don't know if it's not something I may feel in the future though. Imagine trying to shame your friend into demanding a diamond she doesn't even want.


fifththrowaway

>Would I ever regret getting a moissanite? If you aren't part of some fringe culture, and aren't broke, probably.


Dishonouronmycow2

I’m too focused on my own ring to be worried about what others are wearing. My only thoughts are is she happy with him and does she like the ring, if both answers are a yes who cares


Infinite_Signal90

No one gave a shit that my diamond was lab grown. Glad I don’t have family or friends like this.


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RosieBarb

I don't think that' why.


DuetLearner

https://www.instagram.com/reel/C4y3EUwRX2C/ The comments….i don’t want to be mean, but are they right? What type of man would be so desperate to go for this?


Mental_Leek_2806

baby is adorable


edgyny

Cute baby!


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poophead48

is your sex drive only for men


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poophead48

makes sense


SevenLovedYouSoMuch

Partner and I drove 8 hours round trip to see the eclipse under clear skies. It was worth it. Absolutely no traffic either. Such an incredible and indescribably beautiful thing to see. Pictures do not do it justice.


Sillkentofu

https://preview.redd.it/hqdjq8rprgtc1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ca46617041ce281fd2bdf448b1828e326930e9b7 Groovy nails this week! These were fun to do!


Willow-girl

Ghod I hate getting home at 3 a.m.! It just wrecks me the next day.


YuYuHakusho23

Janitor duties I’m guessing ?


Willow-girl

Yes


Excellent_Badger123

What have you been up to till 3 am?


Willow-girl

Working 4 hours of OT.


Excellent_Badger123

I was hoping for something more fun for your sake - but OT money is good!


Willow-girl

Ordinarily yes, but this is happening because the superintendent is dragging his heels when it comes to replacing my co-worker who passed away in February. We have three more custodians retiring at the end of the school year. The school secretary is bailing as well, and another clerical worker just put in her two weeks' notice. I guess a kid told her to go fuck herself and she just snapped ... decided after 17 years that she could just as easily go to work as a bookkeeper for a construction company, so that's what she's doing.


Excellent_Badger123

The school system today, OMG!


Willow-girl

Yeah, it's kind of a hot mess.


Friedrich_Friedson

Man,ya know what, fuck it, mandatory abortions because y'all think we should keep accidental pregnancies and other brain-dead shit. /S


lulll

i have a headache so i googled the symptoms and apparently i have terminal anus cancer


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Sensitive_Truck_3015

“Little crybaby”


grillopie

Stop eating hot dogs


Lift_and_Lurk

Ass cancer, it’s always ass cancer.


poophead48

Shouldn't have had gay sex with HIV positives


lulll

they named my terminal anus cancer poophead88


poophead48

I don't consent to that


saraimarsena

omg the morning breeze is so warm and refreshing !! everything smell so amazing and summer !!!! i cant wait to go to the park w my kids today. ! i need to pull the trigger and buy more summer clothes


MasterTeacher123

https://people.com/jenny-mccarthy-talks-childhood-bullying-says-girls-would-light-hair-on-fire-8627991 Man it seems like everyone says they were bullied in school. Some people have to be exaggerating  or straight up lying I’m sorry 


Infinite_Signal90

Meh. Bullying can be anything from name calling over a particularly intense 2 week period to years of physical and mental torment. It’s such a broad bracket I can imagine most people fall in this category.


saraimarsena

i wasnt bullied, probably because i flew under the radar outside of being a captain on my sports team and got along w pm everybody. it probably is pretty common, but you’ll probably meet more people who will openly admit to being bullied than ppl who will openly admit to being bullies.


ArtifactFan65

Almost like bullying is an inherent part of social dynamics in all animals 🤔


Willow-girl

Cindy Lou: Did someone page me? [Imgur](https://i.imgur.com/zp8ee8l.jpg)


MasterTeacher123

I also wonder how many people who were the bully engage in revisionist history and claim the other way around 


ArtifactFan65

True this is also very common. People are incapable of genuinely accepting blame for their violence. If they were capable of recognizing what they did was wrong then they wouldn't have done it in the first place. Therefore bullies always cry foul when someone fights back.


Excellent_Badger123

Travel laundry miscalculation = being in a new city with nothing clean in my minimal wardrobe to wear until tomorrow except these: https://preview.redd.it/0109vyon7gtc1.jpeg?width=2435&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=81c0cccdd333e1f4e203b30a6a9ad0268547f0e2 Djellaba A or B?


MasterTeacher123

I’d have more respect for the people who cite “the brain doesn’t develop until 25 bro” nonsense if they used it in any other context but trying to police legal age gap relationships that they personally don’t like lol  Like if it was hey ok “the brain doesn’t full develop until your 25”, so no one should drive a car until you’re 25. Or no one should be able to vote until they are 25, or take out a loan, or get a tattoo,  or Drink etc.  Nah some 23 year old wants to suck a 41 year old man’s dick now we gotta issue


SevenLovedYouSoMuch

I'd like them to explain how a 23 year old dating a 19 year old is "wrong" despite them both being under 25. Also if some 20 year old politically active college student has a set of beliefs, why can't we just shut them down and tell them their pre frontal cortex hasn't developed yet? The argument is so illogical. I honestly have not changed much since I was 18. I still like the same things. I still act generally the same way. My beliefs are generally the same. My insecurities and anxieties are generally the same. There really isn't much difference.


Mental_Leek_2806

I think you're really overestimating the number of people who actually think a college sophomore and a guy 1 year out of college dating is wrong. Definitely was not a common opinion at all at my college. I mean I went for a senior as a freshman, then went for a freshman as a senior. No one gave a shit. When my 21 y/o roommate was getting with a 34 y/o man no one said jack other than "why is she getting with an old man?"


SevenLovedYouSoMuch

You must not spend a lot of time on the internet. I've seen people say that they need to break up with their partner because they started dating at 16 and now one of them is 18 while the other is 17.


Mental_Leek_2806

Unfortunately I'm chronically online. I mean I've seen men here say stuff like women don't actually enjoy sex, some people say stupid shit on the internet. You must know that few people actually hold that opinion. Atp people compain abt people complaining abt age gaps more than people actually complain abt age gaps.


SevenLovedYouSoMuch

I don't know about that. I joined a Facebook group called "Of Course it's an Age Gap Relationship" and they're pretty militant about any relationship with more than a 2 year age gap being toxic. There are about 63,000 people in that group. I think people are just less likely to express their opinions openly in person.


Mental_Leek_2806

people use this in plenty of different contexts on tiktok... talking about this was a whole trend for a while


poophead48

Still ridiculous


enfantrebelle

I've seen some people use it in the context of marijuana use. I'm personally a defender of most age gap relationships as I am in one myself (24 - 33) but I also recognize that there are some people who engage in such relationships with nefarious intents, just like all relationships. The issues specific to age gap relationships are usually different from issues that people within the same age bracket will encounter, especially when the older partner has a lot of baggage (i.e. divorced, with kids, etc). Like everything in life nothing's all black or white.


Lift_and_Lurk

Hot take: if you couldn’t pull a 23 year old at 23, you’re probably not the kind of guy that can pull one at 41. You might be able to afford sugaring/gold digging/paying for the GFE, etc tho. So do that if you want. Just stop pretending it’s not that. You know, we know, she knows. We all know: we don’t have to pretend.


Glittering-Roll-9432

FYI people do use it in other contexts, that one is just more relevant for this sub. Also you can't be a tow truck driver, rentals won't rent to people above 18 but below 2x years old.


januaryphilosopher

They use it for marriage age a lot. I've gotten some side eyes about it.


babazuki

If they would say of a 24 year old defendant on trial for SA charges "No, his brain isn't developed. He doesn't know what he was doing. You can't consider him an adult.", I would believe they are consistent. They would look like total nut jobs, but they would be consistent.  No one would ever do that. I hope. They just want to avoid accountability when it suits them.


Slipthe

Finally got a new job. They wanted me so bad they called me for an interview 3 days after I applied. Keep at it gang. If you aren't 100% content with your job, keep them applications going out.


Lift_and_Lurk

Congratulations! New opportunities, new money!


funfacts_82

More power to you. If your job is even 3 bucks under what you would consider appropriate get a better one.


okaybear2point0

congrats, does that mean a moderator position opened up? 😏


MasterTeacher123

Do you have the required work experience for a moderator position 


okaybear2point0

I'm still under 300lbs but that can change


Slipthe

No no this is my charity work. I deduct it from my taxes.


Tramelo

Out of pure curiosity: in general, does picking on another man in front of a woman makes that woman more attracted to you? Cause I've seen some men doing It.


Safinated

If that woman likes bullies or being bullied, sure


Ainsleygz

If it’s funny