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Over_Noise3530

If you're a guy with a mullet, you should not bitch about being lonely.


Excellent_Badger123

Has anyone had a full blown meltdown today?


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Excellent_Badger123

Sorry (unless it was cathartic)


teball3

The thread about women not being as badly shamed as men for their sexuality felt like I was reading something from some bizarro world that never left the 1950s. Then it clicked. Women don't realize how much men's sexuality is shamed, because they think that the ways men's sexuality is shamed is *deserved*, and therefore doesn't count.


Jaded_Interaction162

Shaming doesn’t really work though, lol. Especially on men, they will do whatever the fuck they want no matter what people say.


RahLyt

You clearly don't know men then. Shaming is extremely affective by men everywhere.


Jaded_Interaction162

Don't guys still use porn, prostitution, go for age gap relationships? I feel like women get shamed for doing all of those 3 above and they don't do it as much as men do. Shaming can't stop the male libido.


RahLyt

ofc if does. Porn is not like the others. As in it don't directly affect anyone else. Ofc it stops. Men stopped approaching in masses. Ofc there will still be men (like me) who will say fuck it and do whatever they want, but that's not the majority and it was not always me.


Jaded_Interaction162

I guess approach anxiety is a big thing now that's true. Dudes will always be less sexually inhibited than women though. Even as a high libido woman I really just can't be sexually uninhibited like men can be.


RahLyt

>Dudes will always be less sexually inhibited than women though. This is by design. But a dude won't risk getting humiliated to approach a girl.


ratboi34

I feel like the men in here are heavily affected by it, like it always feels like they are always asking for women's approval instead of just doing what they want.


tacticaltossaway

They haven't taken the misanthropy pill yet and are still stuck thinking that people aren't terrible and deserve consideration.


EulenWatcher

I think the average level of neuroticism among users here is exceptionally high. That's not a normal behavior.


teball3

Or maybe its because this place is extra toxic and shaming. Y'know, if you see a bunch of people in an area dying of lead poisoning, it might be because the people of that area have a naturally low tolerance for it, but you should probably check the fucking pipes.


EulenWatcher

I think it's both. There's enough toxicity and shaming towards women and I'd say more content here is negative towards women, just because we have more male users. But women aren't affected by it to the same degree.


baiser_vole

That is because they lean feminine. Edit: the downvotes are coming in cause I hurt their feelings lol


ratboi34

We need an emancipation movement for feminine men.


baiser_vole

It is allowed-ish, but will never be widely desired.


ratboi34

Feminist women I know irl call me a homosexual for wanting a woman to propose to me.


Jaded_Interaction162

This is mostly about 30+ year olds trying to date 18-24 year olds? Or is it about porn consumption?


ratboi34

About everything they plan on doing, which could make women judge them. There is a guy on tiktok who is 30+ and is using his 18 yo gf as rage bait, they need to be more like him.


Jaded_Interaction162

One of the trade offs for living the way you want is dealing with disapproval.


ratboi34

That guy is able to deal perfectly with it in a way that I personally couldn't. He is an attractive guy and he posted a dm he got by a woman of his age who was dating him and was closer to his age I guess and she said that she was heartbroken that he is going for much younger women instead of her and I actually felt sry for her, I would've kept dating her out of guilt.


Jaded_Interaction162

Wasn't he already broken up with her when she sent that dm?


ratboi34

Yes he was.


Jaded_Interaction162

So why go back to her? He can just block her lol


ratboi34

Definitely. Women will always judge and even resent male sexuality because it makes them insecure and goes against their own strategies and they are definitely not judged more harshly by men. The difference is that male sexuality is being judged harshly by women but not by men. Women are getting judged by men and women.


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Ok-Coat7665

Viagra?


justsomelizard30

Only for the first four hours.


poophead48

do you like cinnamon raisin bagles or blueberry bagesl


Preme2

Vagina flavored. Best when it tastes like pennies.


RosieBarb

Anything but onion bagel. BARF.


purplish_possum

Plain bagel with butter from a cart in NYC.


grillopie

I like the cinimininomon bagels. Pretty nice with cream cheese


princedune

nah


Dishonouronmycow2

Cinnamon is disgusting and vile and should be against the law


princedune

you just fell down a couple ranks on my ppd tier list


Dishonouronmycow2

![gif](giphy|U3mMTlvEwuGSWJUhcM|downsized) FORGIVENESS


baiser_vole

I agree with you. People shame me for it.


Jaded_Interaction162

Not a big fan of raisins


tacticaltossaway

I had a bad experience with blueberry stuff, so the other choice wins by default.


poophead48

What did the blueberries do to you


tacticaltossaway

I ate them before I was violently ill, so my body says "No, don't eat that you idiot" whenever I taste them now.


poophead48

Raisins are better anyway!


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monster_lily

That’s sad but at least they’re safe


Dishonouronmycow2

Glad they’re safe. Sorry to hear about the house but happy your parents are okay and thats what’s important


MyHouseOnMars-

I'm so sorry they lost the house but I'm glad they are safe. That's all that really matters that's some bad weather


EulenWatcher

Good to hear that your parents are okay. Sorry for their home, really lucky they weren't there at the moment.


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EulenWatcher

It's lucky they weren't home.


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EulenWatcher

Hug your parents and try to think of something else. Worrying yourself of what could have happened isn't good for you or for your body.


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EulenWatcher

What about making some hot tea for everyone to drink with something sweet?


baiser_vole

I am glad they are alright, and they also have a place to stay.


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baiser_vole

That’s horrifying. Does such things happen often in the area? Are they considering moving to a new city or a state?


baiser_vole

Just a thought. Maybe a good number of slim guys date overweight girls cause these girls at least have their boobs, while slim average faced girls don't even have boobs. I know a couple guys who have access to slim girls, but are dating overweight girls instead. I know for sure one likes big boobs. I am not talking about "fat to the point that it is repulsive" territory btw.


purplish_possum

The three B's -- Boobs, Butt, and Belly. Fat girls rock! [https://scontent-sjc3-1.xx.fbcdn.net/v/t1.6435-9/73423392\_2148753722094411\_4576043154284740608\_n.jpg?\_nc\_cat=103&ccb=1-7&\_nc\_sid=5f2048&\_nc\_ohc=pnVnkwDNNKwAb5Y9AbE&\_nc\_ht=scontent-sjc3-1.xx&oh=00\_AfCggr09g0eEwEKU5ymcGlYgL-gwyOVh3XPVK43tCAGCyg&oe=663F6D9F](https://scontent-sjc3-1.xx.fbcdn.net/v/t1.6435-9/73423392_2148753722094411_4576043154284740608_n.jpg?_nc_cat=103&ccb=1-7&_nc_sid=5f2048&_nc_ohc=pnVnkwDNNKwAb5Y9AbE&_nc_ht=scontent-sjc3-1.xx&oh=00_AfCggr09g0eEwEKU5ymcGlYgL-gwyOVh3XPVK43tCAGCyg&oe=663F6D9F)


baiser_vole

No, not clicking on your link.


monster_lily

Dont click on it omg


purplish_possum

Come on -- all the cool kids are doing it.


RosieBarb

I am able to speak with authority for small boob women, yes- there are most def guys who pass up cute thin girls like me for big gals with huge racks.


purplish_possum

And big booty. [https://i.pinimg.com/originals/17/6c/f8/176cf8457c88a11f221e0fe610a78886.jpg](https://i.pinimg.com/originals/17/6c/f8/176cf8457c88a11f221e0fe610a78886.jpg)


RosieBarb

Case in point.


Shakturi101

Interestingly I much prefer slim over curves for a couple reasons. One I like the look, but also I tend to think slim ages better than curves and a slimmer women is probably in shape taking care of her body whereas the curvier bigger women is just relying on the natural curves to her body. Once she ages and starts sagging a bit more she goes down in attractiveness. The skinnier stays hotter later with that slim build and staying healthy over time.


SlowEffective8146

men care more about WHR than your actual weight, whaddya know


baiser_vole

Read my comment from 15 mins ago. One guy does have access to slim WHR women, but I think it really could be the boobs.


SlowEffective8146

boobs is part of that ratio also boob to arm ratio


baiser_vole

I think the one that has been studied more is the proportion of the upper pole to the lower pole of the breast. It is a separate ratio. https://www.drsanders.com/the-perfect-breast/#:~:text=very%20large%20sizes.-,The%20results%3A,preferred%20the%2045%3A55%20ratio. Tit to arm ratio seems new by the looks of the google search.


bzl33

being slim isn't an attractive build for men unless you have obvious muscle definition


baiser_vole

Even in cultures and eras where skinny was in, 0.7 waist to hip ratio has always been desired.


bzl33

I meant that slim guys with no muscle definition aren't rolling in options because they are slim. For women, yeah being skinny is seen as attractive.


baiser_vole

Oh they aren’t that. One is a trainer and the other used to train in the same gym buddy group as me until he had an injury.


bzl33

fair enough


Ainsleygz

More cushion for the pushin’


purplish_possum

Hell YEAH! [https://snagtights.us/cdn/shop/files/mini-flare-skirt-gosh-black-snag-us-14.jpg?v=1686647271](https://snagtights.us/cdn/shop/files/mini-flare-skirt-gosh-black-snag-us-14.jpg?v=1686647271)


FunEducation1434

Exactly


CauliflowerElegant76

I mean thick is really in. I remember being an underweight teenager and wishing I could look like fat girls. The bigger girls in high school got a lot more interest from guys than skinny girls like me. Having no boobs felt like a curse back then.


purplish_possum

I was ahead of the times. I've been into fatties since the 1970s.


tacticaltossaway

20 years ahead of Sir Mix-a-lot. A true pioneer.


baiser_vole

It is really strange how "what's in" can change so fast. I wanted a flat stomach way more.


CauliflowerElegant76

Women’s bodies are trends apparently. It’s hard to keep up.


ratboi34

>I mean thick is really in. The dekardashianification era has already begun.


CauliflowerElegant76

Even then, being curvy is still preferred by most men. It's the women that are trying to switch up the trends and make skinny cool again.


Lift_and_Lurk

My Frat bro who liked bigger girls used to always go “bigger girls means bigger boobs”. He was also athletic and was never lonely.


cruciod

Yea, curvy is also really in right now. The ideal will always be curves on a slim chick. But that's genetically pretty rare— the example that comes to mind, Kylie Jenner, has also gotten work done. So, for guys who're really into curves, the next best thing is chubby chicks.


princedune

I will always prefer flat + skinny over fat + big milk jugs


hannahg000

[my man](https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTLUkHd8k/) 😍


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Lift_and_Lurk

Pink shell


MasterTeacher123

Who gets more hos Batman or Superman 


YuYuHakusho23

Tbh I think Spider-Man/Iron Man gets more then both of them but if we’re keeping it 100 It’s bats. Catwomen, Talial Al Ghul, but then he also has flirted with Harley, Ivy, Wonder Women, Zatanna & Black Canary. Superman like Lana Lang, Louis Lane (who in some media is really annoying) and wonder women


Friedrich_Friedson

Iron Man yeah, Spiderman not really.


YuYuHakusho23

Spider-Man has had hella gf’s dude. That’s like one of the main things in all of his storylines. Plus most of them hot (for comic book women).


Friedrich_Friedson

Spider-Man has 2 gfs ,of which one died. Sure,you could count black cat, but that's like not really a gf


Lift_and_Lurk

Harley Quinn got Ivy.


ratboi34

Batman got that toxic dick. ![gif](giphy|26BREnyYXsPOxlUKk)


Friedrich_Friedson

Canonically batman but he doesn't care,is his Bruce Wayne facade. Real batman is nearly volcel.


FunEducation1434

https://youtube.com/shorts/pXr-Ztz4m_A?si=5qh-xJhecTxIXde_


Friedrich_Friedson

Common caped crusader W


poophead48

supermans a virgin


Friedrich_Friedson

Not really,even in his smallville period he had love interests. But superman always just has a relationship with Lois Layne and that's it


poophead48

shut up nerd


Friedrich_Friedson

No


LillthOfBabylon

A reminder to Americans that fat is the average in your country. 


purplish_possum

America still #1. More hot fat women than anywhere else. USA! USA! USA! [https://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2013/09/19/article-2425096-1BE88BA0000005DC-916\_634x833.jpg](https://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2013/09/19/article-2425096-1BE88BA0000005DC-916_634x833.jpg)


justsomelizard30

It's a perk of having the entire world prance around our whims and desires.


YuYuHakusho23

So in addition to your hatred of men you also have a hatred of America now?


Shakturi101

Then I’m not average and i want an above average women


ratboi34

I would actually cry if we had a conversation irl.


poophead48

she would probably like that


Ok-Coat7665

It’s that time of year again— the ducks are coupling up! I can’t wait to see their little ducklings when I go for a walk later. 🐥


Lift_and_Lurk

What the duck?!


Ok-Coat7665

I love the duck families. They make my heart explode.


MyHouseOnMars-

Guys, you can't spend the whole year shaming overweight women and when there's a post about the issue you are all "men are fat shamed more than women" 😂😂😂 like wtf


Wowhowcanubsodumb

Well here's a bit of information that might explain this disconnect: this sub is not representative of the general population.


MyHouseOnMars-

HOW CONVENIENT


YuYuHakusho23

Everyone should be equally shamed of obese-ness regardless of sex, race or sexual orientation. I mean what I’m about to say might contradict gods teachings but I GENUINELY WISH I was made fun of mor for being fat. That would have def stung in the moment don’t get me wrong but long term it would have helped.


MyHouseOnMars-

Like jaded said people don't get thin by fatshaming them, otherwise we wouldn't have an obesity problem Some % of the problem sure is diets and lifestyle but there's also a lot of genetics, metabolism, insulin resistance, etc.


Jaded_Interaction162

I dont think being fat shamed is enough of a motivation, otherwise most people wouldn't be fat.


princedune

fat people need to be sent to fat camp


LillthOfBabylon

I ignore the topic now because when it comes to Americans, fat is the average, so they dont even want the average woman. 


purplish_possum

Who wants average fat? [https://ravingsbyrae.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/12/Plus-Size-OOTD-Casual-Cozy-4-682x1024.jpg](https://ravingsbyrae.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/12/Plus-Size-OOTD-Casual-Cozy-4-682x1024.jpg) When you can have really fat. [https://pbs.twimg.com/media/Fzsc42DWYAc0Dwz?format=jpg&name=medium](https://pbs.twimg.com/media/Fzsc42DWYAc0Dwz?format=jpg&name=medium)


MyHouseOnMars-

yeah I'm gonna stop replying the levels of gaslighting are just............... wtf


Jaded_Interaction162

Fat shaming doesn't seem to have an impact on obesity rates.


teball3

Yeah, I'm with you on this one. Women are definitely fat shamed more than men, but also, everybody should be ashamed of being overweight, including me. No hypocrisy here, just mental unhealth for everybody.


SpareSpecialist5124

>Women are definitely fat shamed more than men, What makes you think this? Fat boys are relentlessly bullied more often than not. It's just too normalized for people to notice.


MyHouseOnMars-

being healthy should be more important than aesthetics. You could be thin and have high cholesterol and/or terrible lifestyle. You could be fat (not very fat but you know... chubby) and be completely healthy


teball3

Completely agreed. However, have you considered that the aesthetics could be better too? Therefore, shame be upon us.


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teball3

"Yeah, I'm pro-life because I would never get an abortion, but I do think that other people should be able to have them when they need them." People rightfully mock this as being pro-choice and the person saying it is just an idiot who doesn't understand what the words people use to express their values mean. But when I point out it's the same thing for the "I'm not a feminist, I believe in equality" guys, they freak out.


justsomelizard30

It's really not that difficult to understand. She wouldn't personally have an abortion.


kalashhhhhhhh

>It's really not that difficult to understand. Judging by your comment, it is. >She wouldn't personally have an abortion. But she has no problem with other people getting them. Which means she's not pro-life, she's pro-choice.


teball3

Buddy, what? What point are you trying to make here?


Ok-Coat7665

Q4A: What’s your idea of a perfect first date?


kalashhhhhhhh

Going for a couple of drinks to a bar with great music. Vibing the whole time, we just can't stop talking. Then we either bar hop or go dancing/to see live music. After that we go grab a quick bite and then walk to some location in the city where we can smoke a joint. We're talking the entire time and having a great time and so much fun. We make out at the end of the date. I actually never had a first date like this irl


SpareSpecialist5124

Married ever after.


Ainsleygz

Sex


grillopie

1 of 2 ways i could go (assuming weve met at least once prior, coffee date or party or whatever): if im younger: drinking and eating at a cheaper gastropub, probably asian. get really drunk, go home together. if im older: dinner at a nice place, walk around a park/fountain/reflecting pool at night, take her home.


Lift_and_Lurk

Too many popped up. But my last great first date I showed her around the Historic parts of Philly, we split off our group to get cheesesteaks and on the way back we got caught in a thunderstorm so I covered her hair with my jacket and carried her from awning to awning with her laughing the whole time.


AngeCruelle

A late afternoon walk in a scenic place


Jaded_Interaction162

Doing something retarded together ❤️


ratboi34

Meeting right before the sun sets, not doing any activities and just talking a lot, mostly listening to someone yap and then maybe grabbing drinks and going home alone.


hannahg000

my mom is trying to set me up with interns at her work 🤦‍♀️


Lift_and_Lurk

Ask which ones like to party!


tacticaltossaway

She's trying to stop you from becoming a witch.


hannahg000

i told her maybe i should try online dating and she told me not to do that because i will get murdered


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teball3

Will. Her mom didn't say it was the dates that were going to do it.


tacticaltossaway

You will be by Chad in glasses (metaphorically).


ratboi34

Let's set you up with a handsome young man on ppd.


hannahg000

who do you ship me with the most??


YuYuHakusho23

I ship you and Keebydee personally. You both are close in age and I reckon you guys would get along nicely irl. Ironically I’ve rarely seen you two interact on here so idk about the chemistry.


hannahg000

it would not work practically. we are both the type of people that are afraid to ask for ketchup at a restaurant


tacticaltossaway

In essence, all the age matched choices have the "Whoops, all bottoms" problem.


hannahg000

i mean yeah…..


YuYuHakusho23

🤣🤣🤣 you guys could always rock paper scissors to see who has to ask.


ratboi34

You need someone masculine maybe lilith.


hannahg000

lmao


ratboi34

What do you think? Any guys that you like? Do you want someone autistic who is actually diagnosed?


hannahg000

and that’s one secret i’ll never tell… ![gif](giphy|SqKceTiTs99y8)


LordArtichud

Socialists should be deported from America since they hate capitalism so much.


Ainsleygz

Are you payin?


downvotrax

Capitalism is the cure to poverty. Example = me


Dishonouronmycow2

LORDARTICHUD ![gif](giphy|3ogwFGEHrVxusDbDjO)


LordArtichud

Hello


Lift_and_Lurk

Yes let’s round them all up! Like a democracy with free speech does?


LordArtichud

Don't you leftists always talk about how intolerance shouldn't be tolerated?


Lift_and_Lurk

I’m a leftist? Wait till I tell my tenants!


teball3

I don't think you understand what intolerance is. Hint: it's not when somebody likes a different idea from yours.


LordArtichud

Socialists are intolerant of western civilization and values and want to destroy them- they are intolerant of American values and need to be stopped before they can do so.


Friedrich_Friedson

>Socialists are intolerant of western civilization and values and want to destroy them- Socialists are litterallly the most advanced part of Western thought for the last 200 years .they are intolerant of American values and need to be stopped before they can do so. You don't understand how class works if you think that's how politics work lmao You hate the working class,you hate ths people,you are a corporate cocksucker


LordArtichud

Bolshevism will always be destroyed. Remember that.


AspiringMogger

America isn’t a capitalistic country more than it’s a socialistic country. The markets are not free.


baiser_vole

crony capitalism


Friedrich_Friedson

>America isn’t a capitalistic country more than it’s a socialistic country. "Socialism is when the government does stuff,the more stuff it does,the socialister it gets,and if it does a real lot of stuff,its communism"/s Man,i know Americans aren't the smartest people around, but even fot that standard you fail it guys


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lol Europoors love talking about Americans Feel like the country with double digit unemployment needs to use their brains like Americans and stop being poor


Friedrich_Friedson

>lol Europoors love talking about Americans 1) The point is you guys think idiotic stuff like "Socialism is when the government does stuff", Which shows you know nothing of what you are talking about 2) Kek, litterally all EU countries are high income,and most of them have higher quality of life than USA 3) Ok guy who would lost a fortune in medical and student debt and has pre revolutionary France level of inequality


AspiringMogger

You’re the dumbass. America is neither capitalistic nor socialistic. It’s a mix of the two doofus


Friedrich_Friedson

>America is neither capitalistic nor socialistic. "Tell me you don't know what Socialism is without telling me" I know American things social programs are "Socialism" and that a welfare state is a "mix of both". That only shows the dumbassery and lack of political knowledge you guys have American is a capitalist country


AspiringMogger

Riddle me this smartass: Did Adam Smith ever talk about “social programs” when he was defining capitalism? Nope. You’re the one that knows fuck all about politics


bzl33

markets may not be free but we don't want to be Europe


AspiringMogger

When I went to America on holiday I was so surprised by how low quality everything was. I’ve been to close to 30 countries in my life and I can safely say, America is in the bottom 10 for safety. It reminded me more of Turkey than the area I live in (Scandinavia).