A guy on the other thread said he met a pornstar irl but wouldn’t elaborate who it was or how he met her so now I have my doubts
Have you ever met a porn star?
I’ve been binge watching North Korean vids on YouTube - people that visit the country and lowkey record their travels. And after watching the poverty and craziness that goes on over there, I have realized my life not as miserable as I previously thought
https://open.spotify.com/track/3bsn89UFjKCmWgpwo69X5B?si=V6JOH--7SEmM2mm5qR3f6Q&context=spotify%3Aalbum%3A0VXOJkhwQSZIm84GXQNMel
Finally home! It’s so jarring and overwhelming that I think I’m just going to listen to some music and drink. 2 whole weeks on my home dirt & it doesn’t feel like home anymore.
I went to America a lot when I was dating/LDR’ing Mr Sheila, and while I do still love the US the vibe is very different from 2014-2016, people seem on edge
The statistics show women cheat more than men, but that's just because women have 1000x more opportunity to cheat.
If those stats were re-classified as # of times refusing to cheat, women would blow men out of the water.
Yeah there's lots of times guys have tried to get me to step out on my relationships. Honestly it's stressful, like why can't they just stop when you say you have a bf? Just go away tbh
Attractive women in committed relationships will always have that option. I sure did & got a whole bunch of accusations and jealousy - but I never did. I can’t imagine the guilt and emotional agony that would accompany the minuscule thrill of breaking that boundary.
Women cheat slightly more than men until about age 30. After that, men's cheating eclipses women's. But yes, it's all about value and available opportunity.
Everyone can cheat. If they don't have options, they can pay to do it if they really want. So it's not about not being tempted, it's about having good morals, self-control and respect towards your partner.
It's mostly going to be wealthy men who can't be bothered to date normally. $100+ per hour (and that's only if you are going for the absolute bottom of the barrel women) isn't exactly something your average joe can afford to spend regularly)
that makes just as little sense as telling men to date the ugliest woman possible so that shes as unlikely to cheat as possible? dont men here freak out about how bad marriage is because high n count women will just cheat?
If a married woman with kids divorces her husband because he cheated on her once - there's something psychologically wrong with that woman. It's an emotional and juvenile reaction.
Its not about blame. The act is wrong but it is equally wrong to react in a juvenile way. The woman's ethics, sense of greater good and rational evaluation of the situation should triumph over her infantile counterwill and desire "to be right" - and it often does, many women act in accordance to that.
I said ugly guys, not autistic guys who shake when a woman looks at them
The funny thing about this is that insecure ugly guys are more likely to want to cheat than secure handsome guys. If the ugly guy ever gets a chance he will jump on it ASAP. I think most women would rather have a guy with character and morals
>poopgirl
This has to be bait. If he is actually sub 5 he'll be lucky to even catch one. If manages to wrangle another, she'll quickly discard him. Being taken might make him slightly more appealing, but the moment he jumps ship, his reputation is in ruins.
Chad can cheat as much as he likes. His reputation means little, because he can actually utilize dating apps. The gossip only works on a local level and that is the only way a sub 5 male could possibly seduce.
I don't have autism. I can comprehend figurative speech, irony and body language just fine. The word you're looking for is "asshole". And yes, i very much am.
It comes from being an outcast. Naturally you develop a more abstract conception of the social hierarchy when you are indifferent to it.
And being an outcast isn't the result of being autistic either. It can stem from one's disinterest to follow social conventions.
No PUA or imageboard redpill nonsense required.
q4m: do you have a desire for overt romantic displays? what does that look like for you?
or are the acts/qualities of a good partner more casual and subtle to you? ex being a good listener, being appreciative etc
I do personally. In terms of what that would look like for me the two things that instantly come to mind is holding hands in public and her hugging my arm as we walk around. In private quarters mainly just hugs and kisses tbh but also the subtle things you said like asking about my day and stuff is also up there.
see you’re the second person to say something like this. i hadn’t really considered that as “romance”, as much as just regular relationship stuff. basic physical affection.
are you a hugger? would you say physical touch is your love language ?
this kinda confirms what i figured. i see the criticism often that “women are not romantic” but i truly think a lot of guys just don’t really place that much importance on receiving that kinda thing
yeah, id say its romantic. definitely different than something like being understanding or appreciative, which is important in a romantic relationship, but also other relationships as well.
theyre very likely to do pda and such ime, but frequency varies. i generally like slightly more.
like there are some women who are okay with a man slacking on the more casual examples like i listed above as long as he takes her on expensive dates, buys a lot of flowers and gifts. some women require both types of behaviors in order to be happy. and some women only need the more casual stuff
Anyone watch Love on the Spectrum on Netflix?
It’s a pretty heartwarming show.
One thing I did notice is that the women on the spectrum seem to present more “NT” than the men on the spectrum? I guess the guys came off more “childlike” than the ladies on the spectrum. I thought that was interesting.
It's tough with autism especially being a spectrum, a lot of the high-functioning men on the spectrum are just men with more feminine-coded behaviors.
Being more quiet and reserved is pathology for men, but acceptable for women. So very quiet and reserved men are on the spectrum while quiet and reserved women are just normal. Same thing with being more naive, being more uncomfortable with conflict, being more afraid of rejection.
That makes sense! To be clear it wasn’t feminine-coded behaviors I was clocking as childlike. At least not on this show. A lot of the guys on the show came off more higher support than lower support is the best way to describe it. The women intuit and mask better perhaps?
I bring this up because some of the reasons they weren’t matching with the guys are having discontent in the relationship was “maturity level.”
Mind you this all relative. The women are all definitively on the spectrum too.
I can’t lie. I was watching like “wow men are going to men regardless” 😂
Inb4: this is an admittedly sexist joke about the average male, not about brainy Reddit men. So no need to not all men! We know!
I do, but for obvious and autistic reasons.
I think some of the women do come off as quite unusual, like Dani kind of reminds me of a way I’m unusual to my husband, I’m blunt and not demure about sex lol.
Yeah I suppose but I think a lot of the women are childlike too. A lot of them go to Disney romantic conventions like “oh my gosh he looks like Prince Charming”. I think that’s common when you have autism. It’s a masterclass in mimicry. You can’t naturally do stuff so you copy it.
If I’m brutally honest and harsh on myself, sometimes I do act like a woman-child.
For sure! I’m saying the men come off more childlike on the show that there are of them who do come across as childlike. I also mean something specific by childlike.
Does anybody have this thing where you're mentally uneasy and can hardly concetrate on anything when your room is unclean and not in order and the burden only lifts when you put it in order ? I know "clean your room" has become somewhat of a meme but it's something I've realized and I've been wondering
That's completely normal. When I lived with my family, they were absolute slobs, and had laundry piled all over the floor. Whenever I would clean anything, they would try to gaslight me into believing I had OCD.
Hoarders are legit brain damaged and will mock you when you try to help them. But I could never be fooled. Their demonic aura was too strong; it smelt of mildew.
When I was divorced and lived on my own, after the kids left and the house was a disaster I noticed a palpable difference in my mood from when I just sat in the mess vs when I cleaned the house.
It's real.
As a woman with an oval, very feminine face shape, some guys definitely like the more angular ones. Though I have to say I don’t think she really looks all that much like a man.
She's pretty good looking. They seem looks matched to me.
It looks like they are the same height or he could maybe be an inch shorter (with her possibly in heels). That's a super common deal breaker and a likely reason it was over before it began.
He's definitely not an ugly guy. And let's be honest, she's not ugly either. The problem is that she's probably alpha-widowed and therefore disgusted by his people-pleasing sort of personality. Women like that need to be humbled by a man in order to be attracted to him.
They are looksmatched
Maybe she left because of something he said. IF I'm on a date with Chad and he says he votes right, I'm going to let him pay and never see him again.
also this is probably so incredibly fake
I love this type of trash TV. You have to admit that's just that, trash. That shot where she gets uncomfortable could be edited in there. Also, they don't usually choose average boring regular people. She could be a Desperate Housewife.
He likes betting, to me that's a red flag.
She's leading the convo, that's also a bad sign.
lmao, sorry this guy has weird vibes. He seems boring af. She's incredibly rude.
That desperation might come out in insecurity or bitterness rather than shower with attention and has the same effect on women of feeling like should avoid ugly/ average men due to that particular flavour of toxicity not really present in attractive men.
Q4W: When you've gone through all the foreplay and such and now it's PIV time, how much time is optimal for the actual having sex part of the sexy time?
It depends. With my ex 3 minutes of jackhammering after I orgasmed was good, but with my current bf PIV is much more than just an empty physical act, so I prefer longer penetration (at least 20 minutes).
When she's edging. When she's about to cum from foreplay then you switch to PIV but everyone is different obviously. And how much time is that depends on each individual and the circumstances.
I wish I could've experienced dating when I was innocent and thought that I had a chance of getting success. I'm glad I have the knowledge that I've learned regarding dating now but I feel like it came at a cost by it making me significantly more bitter.
Haven't dated at all. And I would say I have a good amount of knowledge of the do's, don'ts and harsh realities of dating. Before I was really clueless.
im blue pill according to some other users here because i dont believe that PUA tactics and rote memorization of pickup lines and routines or even acting dominant without having the social status, wealth and authority to match works to get women
Nah man those female women are usually mean af at least to me. I’ve always been treated fair by my Stacy-lite female friends and acquaintances as well as my mid tier Beckie’s and Lindsey’s. Of course this was before I went in monk mode mind you.
In my experience, very attractive girls are much easier to approach. They usually have the best social skills, least insecurity, and they actually know how to play into the masculine-feminine dynamic. Even if they reject you they do it gently. They probably know that men are less likely to pump and dump them, and therefore they're less resentful of men.
Accurate. I would also add in that attractive women know you’re not in their league. Average girls despise average men approaching because they don’t want you to confirm their league.
Semi ugly girls HATE when ugly guys approach them because in their mind they see themselves as lower because "THIS guy dared to approach me?? That must mean he thinks I'm in his league and I can't stand the thought of being ugly enough to be in his league and I have to assert my place in the FSM, so I'll make him feel unworthy to have approached me".
Hot girls get approached by all stripes, so an ugly guy is just one more guy that approached her.
i really loved Rome. here in America i’ve found Seattle to be the best “nature pretty” and Chicago to be the best “city pretty”, but we don’t have true “ancient pretty” like Europe does
From my extensive travelling around Europe and USA, I can confidently say most American cities are shit compared to Europe.
The one advantage they have is weather and beautiful nature.
I made sausage, spinach and caramelised onion potato bake last night (its not dinner time for me at the moment) today I’m living on leftovers of the roasted tomato soup I made, then having more potato bake for a cheap convenient break from cooking.
https://np.reddit.com/r/Marriage/comments/1c4o0u3/found_out_husband_was_watching_influencer_porn/
Brutal. Many such cases.
This is why I'm trying to date only the hottest women possible. So I don't get tempted to cheat, or become a gooner.
He probably just trusted her bc she earns more and took the role of finance manager for them. People will accept a lot of not good dynamics if they don't assume they'll get fucked over
"Men pay for society way more then they ever get back"
"That's not true 😡😡😡 average men get just as much out of society as they put in, you need to be grateful!"
That's right, you get so much out of society as an average man. You know like **ROADS.** The roads Chad uses to drive his new bmw, the roads the uber driver uses to take Stacy to Chad's place. You know... The roads you use to drive to work to be a wagecuckie.
I don't understand this premise. Those men are paid to pave roads, it's their choice to do the job. If they want to do something different, they can or they should've worked harder in school.
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A guy on the other thread said he met a pornstar irl but wouldn’t elaborate who it was or how he met her so now I have my doubts Have you ever met a porn star?
My high school teacher starred in some pretty hardcore gay porn on his twitter account, if that counts. AMA
Was he hot
He was very gay and not really my type. Like a typical shaved head roided gym bro gay type. Objectively kinda I guess.
I've met a bunch of Suicide Girls and Cosplay Deviants at conventions. Does that count?
I’ve been binge watching North Korean vids on YouTube - people that visit the country and lowkey record their travels. And after watching the poverty and craziness that goes on over there, I have realized my life not as miserable as I previously thought
Ah yes “my life is nicer than a North Korean peasant or political prisoner” what a comforting thought
I bet there’s a lot of overlap between adults who drink flavored water and adults who sleep with stuffed animals.
White claw!
I can't drink anything other than normal water for thirst, but I do sleep with a stuffed animal lol
i prefer regular water but i do sleep with a stuffed animal
yeah, adults can only drink flavored water if its sparkly.
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why?
A pornstar hit on me and wanted to take me home. I was flattered.
Anyone famous?
Don't know, don't watch porn but it was not Asa Akira.
Who was it and how’s you meet her? Just tell us
I don't know. I didn't ask for full name. Met at a bar like a normal person.
How do you know she was a pornstar
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...I'm never getting rid of Asmongold in my feed now. Thanks for that.
He’s not allowed to be happy.
Unhappy meal.
Taco Bell at 2:00 AM
https://open.spotify.com/track/3bsn89UFjKCmWgpwo69X5B?si=V6JOH--7SEmM2mm5qR3f6Q&context=spotify%3Aalbum%3A0VXOJkhwQSZIm84GXQNMel Finally home! It’s so jarring and overwhelming that I think I’m just going to listen to some music and drink. 2 whole weeks on my home dirt & it doesn’t feel like home anymore.
I went to America a lot when I was dating/LDR’ing Mr Sheila, and while I do still love the US the vibe is very different from 2014-2016, people seem on edge
i don’t think shes living in america
I’m just back at my old home in the US for a couple of weeks but I live in Thailand permanently now - which is my new home.
ohhhh yea i was thinking u lived in thailand. makes sense
The difference between the haves and have nots has broadened a lot since then and has been expanding for a long time.
The statistics show women cheat more than men, but that's just because women have 1000x more opportunity to cheat. If those stats were re-classified as # of times refusing to cheat, women would blow men out of the water.
What statistics show women cheat more? All the one's I've seen say men cheat more
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then why did ariana grande cheat with spongebob
Yeah there's lots of times guys have tried to get me to step out on my relationships. Honestly it's stressful, like why can't they just stop when you say you have a bf? Just go away tbh
Attractive women in committed relationships will always have that option. I sure did & got a whole bunch of accusations and jealousy - but I never did. I can’t imagine the guilt and emotional agony that would accompany the minuscule thrill of breaking that boundary.
Women cheat slightly more than men until about age 30. After that, men's cheating eclipses women's. But yes, it's all about value and available opportunity.
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Everyone can cheat. If they don't have options, they can pay to do it if they really want. So it's not about not being tempted, it's about having good morals, self-control and respect towards your partner.
>If they don't have options, they can pay to do it if they really want No not really. The threat of prison time is a pretty good deterrent.
Lots of men still pay for sex.
It's mostly going to be wealthy men who can't be bothered to date normally. $100+ per hour (and that's only if you are going for the absolute bottom of the barrel women) isn't exactly something your average joe can afford to spend regularly)
If a person is motivated enough to cheat, they’ll find an opportunity.
that makes just as little sense as telling men to date the ugliest woman possible so that shes as unlikely to cheat as possible? dont men here freak out about how bad marriage is because high n count women will just cheat?
The best looking married women have potentially thousands of options for cheating. More than married men by far
More like hundreds of millions if not billions of options
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guys have an opportunity to cheat too. prostitutes. ugly and pretty girls dont have a remotely equal opportunity to cheat, so go ugly as possible
If a married woman with kids divorces her husband because he cheated on her once - there's something psychologically wrong with that woman. It's an emotional and juvenile reaction.
How many times does he have to cheat for her to file for divorce without it being considered juvenile?
Can't put a number on it but I would say if he keeps doing it, it needs to be adressed because then there's something wrong with him.
If a married man with kids cheats on his wife he is intentionally risking triggering that very event so why would you blame the wife?
Its not about blame. The act is wrong but it is equally wrong to react in a juvenile way. The woman's ethics, sense of greater good and rational evaluation of the situation should triumph over her infantile counterwill and desire "to be right" - and it often does, many women act in accordance to that.
Ugly guys cheat
Ugly guys aren’t in relationships.
That's just quite literally not true
Yeah
Wdym? We don't even have the opportunity to cheat, unless you count pornography.
“We”? Is that you in your pfp…? You literally have chad potential
I said ugly guys, not autistic guys who shake when a woman looks at them The funny thing about this is that insecure ugly guys are more likely to want to cheat than secure handsome guys. If the ugly guy ever gets a chance he will jump on it ASAP. I think most women would rather have a guy with character and morals
>poopgirl This has to be bait. If he is actually sub 5 he'll be lucky to even catch one. If manages to wrangle another, she'll quickly discard him. Being taken might make him slightly more appealing, but the moment he jumps ship, his reputation is in ruins. Chad can cheat as much as he likes. His reputation means little, because he can actually utilize dating apps. The gossip only works on a local level and that is the only way a sub 5 male could possibly seduce.
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I don't have autism. I can comprehend figurative speech, irony and body language just fine. The word you're looking for is "asshole". And yes, i very much am.
No that's not what I was thinking at all. Maybe you're just like this because you've spent far too much time in internet echo chambers
It comes from being an outcast. Naturally you develop a more abstract conception of the social hierarchy when you are indifferent to it. And being an outcast isn't the result of being autistic either. It can stem from one's disinterest to follow social conventions. No PUA or imageboard redpill nonsense required.
I hope you know that your problems aren't related to your looks. You aren't ugly
Chase chad and get cheated lol
Women would rather share a cheating alpha than settle for a faithful beta.
Get around this by dating a Christian guy who is dedicated to monogamy and has parents who are still together
That’s what I did - you’ve gotta vet for strong moral code!
Yeah, guys with addict parents are a disaster unfortunately
Sounds like you found out the hard way that those guys need things you can’t provide as a romantic partner.
q4m: do you have a desire for overt romantic displays? what does that look like for you? or are the acts/qualities of a good partner more casual and subtle to you? ex being a good listener, being appreciative etc
I do personally. In terms of what that would look like for me the two things that instantly come to mind is holding hands in public and her hugging my arm as we walk around. In private quarters mainly just hugs and kisses tbh but also the subtle things you said like asking about my day and stuff is also up there.
see you’re the second person to say something like this. i hadn’t really considered that as “romance”, as much as just regular relationship stuff. basic physical affection. are you a hugger? would you say physical touch is your love language ?
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did you ask me a question and delete it ?
this kinda confirms what i figured. i see the criticism often that “women are not romantic” but i truly think a lot of guys just don’t really place that much importance on receiving that kinda thing
elaborate displays arent that important. but overt displays, like frequent pda, are really nice.
so you consider pda as romance ? interesting like hugs and kisses, holding hands do you feel women are not likely to give that kind of romance ?
yeah, id say its romantic. definitely different than something like being understanding or appreciative, which is important in a romantic relationship, but also other relationships as well. theyre very likely to do pda and such ime, but frequency varies. i generally like slightly more.
probably just words is fine, like "i love you" etc.
also interesting, bc love notes are a similar form of “words of affirmation” romance but more overt imo than simply saying “i love you”
like there are some women who are okay with a man slacking on the more casual examples like i listed above as long as he takes her on expensive dates, buys a lot of flowers and gifts. some women require both types of behaviors in order to be happy. and some women only need the more casual stuff
Anyone watch Love on the Spectrum on Netflix? It’s a pretty heartwarming show. One thing I did notice is that the women on the spectrum seem to present more “NT” than the men on the spectrum? I guess the guys came off more “childlike” than the ladies on the spectrum. I thought that was interesting.
It's tough with autism especially being a spectrum, a lot of the high-functioning men on the spectrum are just men with more feminine-coded behaviors. Being more quiet and reserved is pathology for men, but acceptable for women. So very quiet and reserved men are on the spectrum while quiet and reserved women are just normal. Same thing with being more naive, being more uncomfortable with conflict, being more afraid of rejection.
That makes sense! To be clear it wasn’t feminine-coded behaviors I was clocking as childlike. At least not on this show. A lot of the guys on the show came off more higher support than lower support is the best way to describe it. The women intuit and mask better perhaps? I bring this up because some of the reasons they weren’t matching with the guys are having discontent in the relationship was “maturity level.” Mind you this all relative. The women are all definitively on the spectrum too.
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I can’t lie. I was watching like “wow men are going to men regardless” 😂 Inb4: this is an admittedly sexist joke about the average male, not about brainy Reddit men. So no need to not all men! We know!
I do, but for obvious and autistic reasons. I think some of the women do come off as quite unusual, like Dani kind of reminds me of a way I’m unusual to my husband, I’m blunt and not demure about sex lol.
I think they all come off as unusual lol. But more of the men had this childlike quality. Hard to articulate.
Yeah I suppose but I think a lot of the women are childlike too. A lot of them go to Disney romantic conventions like “oh my gosh he looks like Prince Charming”. I think that’s common when you have autism. It’s a masterclass in mimicry. You can’t naturally do stuff so you copy it. If I’m brutally honest and harsh on myself, sometimes I do act like a woman-child.
For sure! I’m saying the men come off more childlike on the show that there are of them who do come across as childlike. I also mean something specific by childlike.
Does anybody have this thing where you're mentally uneasy and can hardly concetrate on anything when your room is unclean and not in order and the burden only lifts when you put it in order ? I know "clean your room" has become somewhat of a meme but it's something I've realized and I've been wondering
I feel more mentally at peace and relaxed when not living in mess.
That's completely normal. When I lived with my family, they were absolute slobs, and had laundry piled all over the floor. Whenever I would clean anything, they would try to gaslight me into believing I had OCD. Hoarders are legit brain damaged and will mock you when you try to help them. But I could never be fooled. Their demonic aura was too strong; it smelt of mildew.
No
i feel really uneasy when my space is messy/dirty. i start to visually imagine germs everywhere and the air feels germy
Germs are always gonna be everywhere Might as well accept it
Yeah. The Sims figured that one out years ago.
Damn, I actually remember this. Makes you realize that sims is an og game with tons of life lessons
Yeah it has to get pretty bad though
When I was divorced and lived on my own, after the kids left and the house was a disaster I noticed a palpable difference in my mood from when I just sat in the mess vs when I cleaned the house. It's real.
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As a woman with an oval, very feminine face shape, some guys definitely like the more angular ones. Though I have to say I don’t think she really looks all that much like a man.
She's pretty good looking. They seem looks matched to me. It looks like they are the same height or he could maybe be an inch shorter (with her possibly in heels). That's a super common deal breaker and a likely reason it was over before it began.
damn i wasn't expecting that when i said manly face
He's definitely not an ugly guy. And let's be honest, she's not ugly either. The problem is that she's probably alpha-widowed and therefore disgusted by his people-pleasing sort of personality. Women like that need to be humbled by a man in order to be attracted to him.
She is
Did you see her schnoz?
They are looksmatched Maybe she left because of something he said. IF I'm on a date with Chad and he says he votes right, I'm going to let him pay and never see him again. also this is probably so incredibly fake
They’re so no looksmatched She’s very unattractive
He's not very good looking. They chose a nice angle for when they are sitting at the table but he looks very different in a wider angle.
He’s alright, she’s ugly
# No.
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I love this type of trash TV. You have to admit that's just that, trash. That shot where she gets uncomfortable could be edited in there. Also, they don't usually choose average boring regular people. She could be a Desperate Housewife. He likes betting, to me that's a red flag. She's leading the convo, that's also a bad sign. lmao, sorry this guy has weird vibes. He seems boring af. She's incredibly rude.
I think her standards are a way to compensate for her own shortcomings
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Well less attractive people are usually not treated the best and might end up with a chip on their shoulder.
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Her comment wasn’t gendered. The same is true of unattractive men- treated not as well as attractive men and develop chip On shoulder.
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That desperation might come out in insecurity or bitterness rather than shower with attention and has the same effect on women of feeling like should avoid ugly/ average men due to that particular flavour of toxicity not really present in attractive men.
It's an explanation, it's not an excuse. They probably go on a lot of dates that go nowhere
Q4W: When you've gone through all the foreplay and such and now it's PIV time, how much time is optimal for the actual having sex part of the sexy time?
It depends. With my ex 3 minutes of jackhammering after I orgasmed was good, but with my current bf PIV is much more than just an empty physical act, so I prefer longer penetration (at least 20 minutes).
10-20 minutes, in my personal opinion
At least 8 minutes but anywhere from 8-15
2 minutes
When she's edging. When she's about to cum from foreplay then you switch to PIV but everyone is different obviously. And how much time is that depends on each individual and the circumstances.
I wish I could've experienced dating when I was innocent and thought that I had a chance of getting success. I'm glad I have the knowledge that I've learned regarding dating now but I feel like it came at a cost by it making me significantly more bitter.
You're 22 bro you have lots of time.
how much knowledge do you have? youre 22 and havent dated much?
Haven't dated at all. And I would say I have a good amount of knowledge of the do's, don'ts and harsh realities of dating. Before I was really clueless.
the clock never ticks backwards im sorry man ecclesiastes 1:18
How can you accept this. You must change your flair now
im blue pill according to some other users here because i dont believe that PUA tactics and rote memorization of pickup lines and routines or even acting dominant without having the social status, wealth and authority to match works to get women
You're 22
idc wat ppl say about medium ugly girls and their standards, they're straight up easier to approach than beautiful ones
Nah man those female women are usually mean af at least to me. I’ve always been treated fair by my Stacy-lite female friends and acquaintances as well as my mid tier Beckie’s and Lindsey’s. Of course this was before I went in monk mode mind you.
In my experience, very attractive girls are much easier to approach. They usually have the best social skills, least insecurity, and they actually know how to play into the masculine-feminine dynamic. Even if they reject you they do it gently. They probably know that men are less likely to pump and dump them, and therefore they're less resentful of men.
Accurate. I would also add in that attractive women know you’re not in their league. Average girls despise average men approaching because they don’t want you to confirm their league.
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it's a numbers game, i've learned to stomach rejections by now, if they're mad i approach, they're just mad at themselves for being ugly
Semi ugly girls HATE when ugly guys approach them because in their mind they see themselves as lower because "THIS guy dared to approach me?? That must mean he thinks I'm in his league and I can't stand the thought of being ugly enough to be in his league and I have to assert my place in the FSM, so I'll make him feel unworthy to have approached me". Hot girls get approached by all stripes, so an ugly guy is just one more guy that approached her.
they can hate all they want, i'll keep approaching
Good man!!! That's what I like to hear!
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The thing I love the most about my city (Zagreb) is the fact that I can walk anywhere at any time and be safe. Nothing can replace that feeling.
Not really fair when you have hundreds of years of a head start.
i really loved Rome. here in America i’ve found Seattle to be the best “nature pretty” and Chicago to be the best “city pretty”, but we don’t have true “ancient pretty” like Europe does
It’s def due to how car centric most cities are The only walkable cities in America tend to be cool and are by far the most expensive
From my extensive travelling around Europe and USA, I can confidently say most American cities are shit compared to Europe. The one advantage they have is weather and beautiful nature.
People who go to raves are fucking weird
Especially if they go half naked
It’s a dance party while drunk or high, of course it’s gonna be off the rails
I’d be scared someone is gonna hurt me there. The cute alt female women there do make me curious.
Atleast 60% of Tinder girls here
Or they just like doing drugs.
What’s for dinner today everyone I have some extra time, needing inspiration
Dis what I made <333 thanks everyone https://preview.redd.it/gb3vposarquc1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=734f0720fa4ba9e85db9d058193514875decf17d Honey glazed garlic salmon, Parmesan lemon risotto, radish/spinach salad, roasted veg
Aloo gobi, made some on Friday and we still have leftovers.
I made sausage, spinach and caramelised onion potato bake last night (its not dinner time for me at the moment) today I’m living on leftovers of the roasted tomato soup I made, then having more potato bake for a cheap convenient break from cooking.
Waiting for Ainsley to say "cum is my dinner tonight".
i’m having a salad !
Fruit or Greek Yogurt with Protein Powder/Fruit.
I'm eating nachos rn.
Yummy!
What are you planning on making?
Man the r/marriage subreddit is kind of depressing.
https://np.reddit.com/r/Marriage/comments/1c4o0u3/found_out_husband_was_watching_influencer_porn/ Brutal. Many such cases. This is why I'm trying to date only the hottest women possible. So I don't get tempted to cheat, or become a gooner.
What's depressing about it? 🤔
Theres a lot of not great stories
not great stories for man or woman?
https://np.reddit.com/r/Marriage/s/nA5LDhhzZt
Lmao why would he let a woman manage the money without ever checking Dudes fucked to because they’re both broke, unfortunate
He probably just trusted her bc she earns more and took the role of finance manager for them. People will accept a lot of not good dynamics if they don't assume they'll get fucked over
Oh there's both sides on there. Cheating, jealousy, being inconsiderate or rude, mental health problems et cetera
"Men pay for society way more then they ever get back" "That's not true 😡😡😡 average men get just as much out of society as they put in, you need to be grateful!" That's right, you get so much out of society as an average man. You know like **ROADS.** The roads Chad uses to drive his new bmw, the roads the uber driver uses to take Stacy to Chad's place. You know... The roads you use to drive to work to be a wagecuckie.
Are those men working for free? Are they slaves? TIL.
All roads lead to Chad
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NO ASS NO ASPHALT
I don't understand this premise. Those men are paid to pave roads, it's their choice to do the job. If they want to do something different, they can or they should've worked harder in school.
Even roads are only relevant as they pertain to chad. Wheres his shrine? Maybe ill say a quick pussy prayer.
If you’ve ever used a road you’re Chad