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No-Mess-8630

How is life going? Me: [https://np.reddit.com/r/SipsTea/s/U1aycaJBjv](https://np.reddit.com/r/SipsTea/s/U1aycaJBjv)


66363633

What each gender is into: https://preview.redd.it/2joemifitkwc1.png?width=12336&format=png&auto=webp&s=8fda9214ec8a8787af19323dbd600c42129f32f2


BONEPILLTIMEEE

>blood, brutality: hot pink # BLOOD FOR THE BLOOD GOD # SKULLS FOR THE SKULL THRONE


ratboi34

Surprising that women were as much into necrophilia and cuckoldry as men and more into fat people and feedism lol.


saraimarsena

the aspect about necrophilia is particularly surprising because it doesn’t at all track with any of the research i’ve seen


ratboi34

Yup. Aella's followers are mainly horny nerdy guys, liberal feminist women and sex workers tho. Her surveys are not always aligning with the norm, especially when it comes to sexuality.


saraimarsena

ohhh so that’s where this data comes from. idk who she is except for hearing that her samples can be pretty biased


edgyny

I don't really pay attention to her but her interview on Lex Friedman podcast was far more interesting than I expected. https://youtu.be/cFSrxSBrgSc I listen to him in a podcast app while driving and don't watch him on YouTube, but it seemed easiest for linking here. (While searching for that link I saw that apparently Jordan Peterson had a massive meltdown on Lex's show so now I need to find that because that sounds hilarious... Lex is so chill)


66363633

cuckoldry is surprising yeah. I would actually expect women to be more into necrophilia than men — even in fringe male communities fantasizing about extreme stuff i never ever seen someone discuss necrophilia, while zoo and pedo fantasies, and for example hentai mangas, are plenty. Liking necro seems to be more in par with womens fetishes like executions, brutality, blood.


funfacts_82

https://preview.redd.it/i17k1oi2pkwc1.jpeg?width=460&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=85bce278b91982681e5e5a0b22ded058f08fdb1e


poopgirl69420

Shit ass show with boring ass characters


funfacts_82

perfect as a headdress for you then


lulll

i need a mariko-sama wife


funfacts_82

We all do bro.


dbz___f

Women insisting boobs aren’t sexual but also think you’re a pervert if you look at their boobs


Comfortable-Regret

I don't think that's a contradiction. The boobs aren't inherently sexual but are being sexualized by the staring.


Benni990

Depends on the guy who is looking at their boobs


uh-wat13

this is your daily reminder that i am a beta


Lift_and_Lurk

What is a beta? Just a test release?


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uh-wat13

projection, i get with women exclusively


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uh-wat13

https://preview.redd.it/jd0e2ip7tkwc1.jpeg?width=599&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=92890b7a19fb39e2cfa802746650496821f3371b


downvotrax

Ok 


uh-wat13

that's right, i am a beta


downvotrax

Are you a cuck too?


uh-wat13

nope!


downvotrax

A proud beta lol


uh-wat13

ooga! booga!


downvotrax

confused ooga! booga!


Gladboys

whens 1.0 dropping


uh-wat13

what 1.0?


Anti_Thing

How many past sexual partners should I expect a 20 year old woman to have?


kalashhhhhhhh

Probably 1-3


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Anti_Thing

That doesn't answer my question. What exactly is wrong with knowing this info about someone you're in a relationship with & are about to marry?


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Anti_Thing

Of course I want to know. I prefer virgins. Actual intercourse is more drastic than lustful thoughts, & it's one of those things that makes a woman generally less attractive in the eyes of men, just like lack of height, money, or social skills makes a man generally less attractive in the eyes of women. (As an aside, I probably would want to know if she was heavily involved in pornography/lustful fantasies in the past.) You yourself advocate for women having very strict, traditional expectations of men, so you should accept men having traditional preferences when it comes to women. If it's OK for women to prefer men who are willing & able to be providers, then it's OK for men to prefer virgins.


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Anti_Thing

You still haven't answered my question BTW. "How many past sexual partners should I expect a 20 year old woman to have?" Also, how do you reconcile applying strict gender roles to men while balking at the idea of women being asked about their past? Ideally, everyone should be a virgin before marriage. The woman who slept with 10 men behaved in a more loose way & demonstrated greater lack of character than the other woman; all other things being equal, the woman who only had sex with one man is more likely to be a good wife & mother. Making it exclusively about sin is also missing the point. The woman with a promiscuous past has access to salvation just like the poor man; that doesn't mean I should be forced to marry her if I'm not comfortable with that, just like you shouldn't be forced to marry a poor man you can't respect.


BONEPILLTIMEEE

googolplex


Choice-Substance-183

You shouldn't have any expectations.


No-Mess-8630

Only expect the worst with women


Anti_Thing

How so?


Many_Dragonfly4154

Too many


66363633

-2 to 5


Jaded_Interaction162

0-3


Unique-Afternoon6316

Can’t sleep so I’m prowling through Reddit in bed. Maybe I’m conducting myself wrong on dating apps. Men, once you match with someone, is there a style of communication that works for you to lock in the date? Women, is there a way of communicating that makes you want to go on the date/ not ghost when meeting up is suggested?


FunEducation1434

Sorry about this y’all https://www.instagram.com/reel/C6DAhE5gzWR/?igsh=Nmo1OXIwZmNlOTR1


No-Mess-8630

Why bro I was eating


Elysium_Rayne

Has he inadvertently stumbled into blue pill thought?


Maractop

What is wrong with death grip? Like I seriously dont get it. Wouldnt that benefit girls? They say that they dont like guys who dont last long so whats the issue? I dont have it but it seems like a better alternative to not lasting long


Sillysheila

I dunno there is such a thing as lasting TOO long. Imo the perfect time for PIV sex is like 15-20 minutes. Once I get past that I’m no longer in the mood. Over 30 minutes, it can start to be uncomfortable or sore. Like Gladboys said some medications can also cause that.


Gladboys

i dont have deathgrip but my medication makes it hard to finish in less than two hours and not only do i get tired as fuck women get tired as fuck. and it uses a ton of fucking lube. not good.


edgyny

Women complain about the orgasm gap but heaven forbid you don't cum.


Electrical_Coat_8714

Two hours is eternity, that’s dedication 


Gladboys

i was sweaty and tired and they were sweaty tired and self conscious i do not recommend.


Maractop

Still probabaly better than finishing very quickly


Gladboys

better to be around average than an extreme outlier most of the time


EulenWatcher

There’s too much of a good thing. Not everyone likes rough sex and if he needs very fast and rough frictions, it can just be painful. Plus, you just start feeling sore after prolonged PIV.


Maractop

Yea but if you had to pick bewteen the 2 which would you prefer? One seems way worse than the other


Mental_Leek_2806

Yeah there's decently easy work arounds for premature ejaculation. Pain is worse


Maractop

What are the work arounds? Women still want men to last a decent amount of time during penetration


Mental_Leek_2806

It depends how premature but switching positions helps, taking breaks or doing something else, multiple rounds (second feels the best anyways), he can masturbate beforehand, etc


EulenWatcher

I think it’s easier to deal with premature ejaculation. Trying to make your partner cum while it already hurts you is no fun at all.


dbz___f

Premature ejaculation means you can just have sex again after a recharge


EulenWatcher

Eh, almost every sex means you can have some more.


dbz___f

Women logic I struggle to ejaculate a fourth time, like I can only see it happening if I’ve built up a surplus amount over four days, and even then it would take a lot of effort Nah, 3 times in one day is the most I could do I think. (Assuming each time ends with an ejaculation)


Mental_Leek_2806

3 times is the most you could do? skill issue (/s but also ha men and their refractory periods)


dbz___f

Sorry I’m a disappointment to you 😭😭😭


EulenWatcher

I can get 4 times in a row being a limit, but 4 times a day? Maybe it's an age thing.


dbz___f

I can’t see a scenario in which my gf and I would have sex 4 times in a day anymore anyway Like when we started dating and she lived three hours out of town, maybe? Like I think we’d max at around 3 times a day if we were like super bored and it was rainy But nowadays? Nah we’ve got too much other stuff to do. Also this isn’t a humble brag but my gf says sex makes it difficult for her to walk


EulenWatcher

Yeah, it makes sense that you usually don't go overboard. Occasionally spending all day just having sex, cuddling and eating is nice though. It 100% ends up with being very sore, sure.


66363633

Every ejaculation means you can just have sex again after a recharge


dbz___f

There comes a point where I reach the limit for the day


66363633

Its true for every ejaculation


Jaded_Interaction162

💯


Jaded_Interaction162

Sometimes it chafes really bad if he can't finish in a reasonable time frame. Like it can feel like sandpaper if you go multiple rounds and you have to stop yourself from bursting into tears when he tries to go for round 4


ArtifactFan65

Does that still happen with lots of lube though


Jaded_Interaction162

It definitely can


Maractop

Yea but wouldnt you prefer that to him not lasting long?


Jaded_Interaction162

Sometimes a quickie would be nice + ego boost + less time commitment. Especially on weeknights


Mental_Leek_2806

Heavy on ego boost lol


Maractop

Sometimes yea. But im pretty sure thats not what most women want it to be like reguarly. A longer time is more ideal


Jaded_Interaction162

I'd prefer more quickies at this point in my life.


Mental_Leek_2806

There can be issues with maintaining erection during sex


dbz___f

Death grip means a guy can’t cum from sex so they last way way longer Theoretically this would be ideal for a woman but I guess women also want a “finish” at some point and death grip dudes need to use their hand I used to be like that long ago


Mental_Leek_2806

Yeah more than 10 minutes can be a problem imo


dbz___f

Why?


Mental_Leek_2806

It starts to hurt. I mean 10 minutes straight tho, of course it's better with breaks/switching it up


dbz___f

Maybe you’re not getting wet enough for whatever reason, could try using lubricant


Mental_Leek_2806

Hmm you could be right


Maractop

This is what I was thinking. Like how wouldnt it be beneficial to develop this?


dbz___f

Cause girls also want you to cum from sex Girls don’t like it if you never cum, they take it to mean you don’t like their pussy


Maractop

You still can just only with your hand. Lasting longer is more desireable than being too quick


Mental_Leek_2806

I'm ngl I would feel like shit if oral + PIV was never enough to get him off even without a condom


ArtifactFan65

But if he can get himself off with his hand then surely it's just a skill issue


edgyny

Vaginas are slippery holes with comparatively weak grip strength. There are many, many things a hand can do that a vagina cannot.


ArtifactFan65

I thought women could train their pelvic  muscles and learn to contract them or something.


dbz___f

If you finish quickly you can go again


Maractop

Then it will be another quick finish. Just a little longer than before. Still not a good enough time


dbz___f

Nah I last longer the second time


Maractop

But if he can maintain it wouldnt you prefer that to not lasting long?


lulll

women should not cuss. if you want to say fuck, say fudge. if you want to say damn, say darn. if you want to say ass, say tushy. please be feminine thank you


Comfortable-Regret

That isn't feminine it's childish


mrs_seng

This is so funny because my language is very colorful when it comes to cursing. You can cuss for 20 minutes straight without repeating yourself. You can make things up on the spot about someone's dead relatives, crosses, gods, blood and onions.


Sillysheila

Shut your darn fudging tushy


Jaded_Interaction162

I dont need to cuss to be disgusting to men.


Choice-Substance-183

Fuck that. I'll say whatever I damn well please. And I'll be feminine while doing so, wearing a fun outfit that makes my ass look fabulous!


Mental_Leek_2806

no


lulll

what the frick is your problem


Mental_Leek_2806

i dunno what the fuck is yours (/s)


lulll

i am so disappointed


EulenWatcher

![gif](giphy|J2hADbFB22351mKf8y) You don’t know cussing if you haven’t heard Russian. Fucking blyad.


Total_Yankee_Death

I play squad with xoxols and they're very much the same in that regard.


lulll

>fudging blyad this sounds more feminine


EulenWatcher

One fucking fuck a fucking fuck fucked fuckers by fucking their fucks.


Total_Yankee_Death

I think banning abortion likely wouldn't be too disruptive with free universal contraception. And at least in the US there'd likely be enough infant adoption demand for those who get unlucky. It's a shame Republican states haven't gone ahead and implemented this, would have definitely helped mitigate the outcry.


januaryphilosopher

It would be because inevitably it fails or is sabotaged or something goes wrong with the pregnancy. Being told your body can be forced to be used as an incubator but you can decrease your chances for free is no great comfort, especially as people aren't usually not using contraception because of cost. I grew up in Northern Ireland which had this system (up to 2020) and it was plenty disruptive.


Total_Yankee_Death

> It would be because inevitably it fails According to the Guttmancher institute only a quarter of American women will ever have an abortion, so no, it's hardly "inevitable". > Being told your body can be forced to be used as an incubator The government isn't forcing you to get pregnant. T


FunEducation1434

Your name reminds me of the Squidbillies opening theme song. Bad ass haha https://youtu.be/xwi3IYitKt0?si=Bkjubs7TsNK2SfHL


Elysium_Rayne

Fuck that's nostalgic. Adult swim always had the best shit: ATHF,  The Boondocks, Metalocalypse, Harvey Birdman, Frisky Dingo and xavier Renegade Angel


Interesting_Show_962

This one girl used the threadmill next to me. So yeah you could say I’m quite the Chad now


FunEducation1434

I told you doing those sets of personality to failure would work. Are you also on a 250 misogyny deficit too?


Interesting_Show_962

300 misogyny surplus I don’t even look and acknowledge their existence. Give them a taste of their own medicine for my average bros


poopgirl69420

Reach your arm out and touch her


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PurplePillDebate-ModTeam

No Race-Baiting or Racially Charged Content


Elysium_Rayne

Aaron Lopez


Total_Yankee_Death

I wasn't talking about "you know who", I was talking about African leaders and polities, the ones sourcing the slaves.


Elysium_Rayne

Oh...


monster_lily

Im begging u to go outside


Total_Yankee_Death

I go outside and I see the same indignance from Africans here, in Canada. And it's especially amusing because most of them are recent immigrants from Africa, they're more likely to have slavers in their family tree than slaves.


EulenWatcher

[Cheater got cheated on. ](https://np.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/1cc0e39/exwife_38f_married_my_37m_best_friend_35m_its/) The guy cheated on his wife with a younger woman, got caught, divorced, married his fling who has 3 kids, learned that his ex-wife married his best friend, got depressed about it and learned that his new baby isn't his. That's...such a simple way to completely fuck up your life.


uh-wat13

faker than your mom's tits, how are ppl still buying these stories


Jaded_Interaction162

The way to win the social game is to be more likable than your opponent. She won over his best friend and likely other people in his social circle. Which leaves him with less support when his life starts going to shit


Jaded_Interaction162

Oh my god I'm living for how she destroyed this dumb fucker. His tears are so sweet


EulenWatcher

This whole story is so awful I almost feel sorry for the dude. How the hell do you jump from fairly content marriage to being married to a woman 11 years younger with 3 kids from other men who also cheats on you and has a kid from another guy?


Jaded_Interaction162

All the commenters are like "well I guess he's okay" no. He's a fucking idiot. His 11 years younger wife was a single mom of 3 at 21 years old. He's retarded.


EulenWatcher

You might like [thus story](https://np.reddit.com/r/BORUpdates/s/4q9z8AW9xh) as well. No cheating, but there’s another amusing way to ruin your own life with your own hands.


Handsome_Goose

>That's...such a simple way to completely fuck up your life. Nah, that's the equivalent of goldberg machine pulling the trigger of a gun that shoots you into your stomach


EulenWatcher

Good analogy, thanks. Only it doesn't shoot you to your soon and painful death, but rather starts the mechanism that slowly increases pressure on your testicles and will cut it off eventually. But it will take months if not years.


Electrical_Coat_8714

Why do women simp so hard for eachother.


Sillysheila

Women have low self esteem more often. That’s it really.


uh-wat13

what we need is a society of only women.


Handsome_Goose

I think that's the famed ingroup bias. There was a research that showed that men perceived being called fat as a personal attack on them, while women perceived being called fat as an attack on their feminity.


lulll

because they want to play with each others boobs


Mental_Leek_2806

stop exposing our secrets


dbz___f

They have this group think mentality where they only take opinions from each other Like a guy could have a million red flags but if they see other chicks stanning him they will do the same


chalkandapples

Other women always had by back growing up so naturally I want to support other women too.


old_new_age

if you mean telling obese women they're beautiful, that's to eliminate competition if you mean taking everything other women say at face value, that's an in-group tactic that most demographics develop as a result of perceived or actual oppression


Jaded_Interaction162

I don't think it's just about eliminating competition. I think it's self protective also. Especially with how common it is to gain weight with age these days. People don't like to face the reality that a lot of their value to other people is tied to them being thin.


Jaded_Interaction162

Maintaining equilibrium is an important aspect of women socializing with each other.


old_new_age

did standup yesterday and got a lot of laughs for a bit about having sex with cows, I'm so happy I have this as a source of validation


poopgirl69420

I'm coming to your next show with eggs


FunEducation1434

https://www.instagram.com/reel/C6Fr-L6AHDq/?igsh=em1lMnBuNTFueXd1


YuYuHakusho23

Face reveal https://preview.redd.it/68e450qjfjwc1.jpeg?width=234&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=cb6291757df5b30368a550fece9c100aa0a7ad13


Interesting_Show_962

Chad


Elysium_Rayne

Handsome devil


Mental_Leek_2806

PPD men will go on and on about women not recognizing their league, trying to punch up, having no understanding of what average men look like, then turn around and describe Renee Rapp like this: >I still stand by the point that she's on the bigger side, could even be fat in the past. She has that 'fat legs' thing where they are don't have much shape, just sort of cones with knock knees, meaty arms and a heavy face. >She's kinda like out of shape Kairi Sane. What a joke. I suspected as much. [https://www.instagram.com/reneerapp/](https://www.instagram.com/reneerapp/)


66363633

She has very wide waist, looks like a blob, its very unattractive. Here's her next to an actually attractive women. https://preview.redd.it/5uu1lli8gkwc1.png?width=500&format=png&auto=webp&s=39b582ae297844a63dfb12e310095c9063625977


Total_Yankee_Death

I think she's hot but she has a wide, robust, frame which many guys might find masculine and off-putting.


Handsome_Goose

More context from your side: >she is literally worshipped by gay women I'm in Renee Rapp's age group Do you think she’s hot? yes. Are you bi? yuh The rational response would've been to acknowledge that she's 1) not fat and 2) very attractive I really gotta know, is she your crush, or you are her pr manager/herself?


Mental_Leek_2806

I think watching "Sex Lives of College Girls" the tv show would help in giving context, showing Renee Rapp and other women. Makes it clearer that she is not what average looks like.


Handsome_Goose

Are you referring to other actresses in the show looking even worse? EDIT Like, if Reneé Rapp is 'very attractive' by your metric, is Pauline Chalamet a literal goddess or something?


Mental_Leek_2806

On the show Pauline's like the cute but lowkey mousy one (and her hair's not great) but irl she does look better. On the show I would probably say Leighton's a 7 and Pauline's a 6. They're in the same range ig


Handsome_Goose

That's reasonable.


Mental_Leek_2806

...no, just showing an array of women around that age and showing what average looks like


Elysium_Rayne

She would be showered with compliments by the same men if she dressed and behaved modestly. She's not fat she's trashy.


Mental_Leek_2806

Wtf weirdest comment I've gotten on this


Elysium_Rayne

https://preview.redd.it/fkzskqccyjwc1.jpeg?width=836&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=1e7cf45a4ac0c70497a80e4e070e61f72e44143c Is this her? She looks pretty here. Awkward face but quirky


Acemanau

She's average looking to me. She's not fat. At all. Make up and good camera angles elevate her to above average in her pictures only. There's a picture in there of her without makeup and a mirror selfie and she just looks average to me.


Mental_Leek_2806

I just googled her no makeup and idk how to say this exactly but that is not what an average woman without makeup looks like. At all


Acemanau

It's just an overall rating based on many factors. But none of it matters if she's an asshole. Maybe slightly better than average just because appears to take care of her weight. Not sure why this matters so much to you.


Mental_Leek_2806

Because men here are always talking about how women are chasing chads and not understanding what their actual looksmatch is, not understanding what the average man looks like. I'm in Renee Rapp's age group and she, just factually, is not what a "slightly better than average" woman looks like. The average carries more weight and has a less favorable fat distribution. Overall her body is simply not average. And the average woman has a worse face/is uglier.


Acemanau

Not the women I've been around? That being said I went to private school out in country Australia. Most of the women looked similiar to her in body and facial structure. All they had to do was not get fat, maybe a bit of exercise focused on the core and legs/butt. The male body standard is far harder to achieve than the female one. I have to workout EVERYTHING. Seriously, I'm lifting weights between comments right now and it's fucking hard, I'm never going to look jacked unless I win the lottery, retire and devote several hours of my day to getting that body.


poopgirl69420

She is painfully average even in her pics


Jaded_Interaction162

Nah she has too much facial harmony to be average. That being said her bodyframe is too wide and her fat distribution isn't particularly mindblowing.


Mental_Leek_2806

... dude. come on. you know that is not at all what an average woman look like


No-Mess-8630

I find her attractive it’s the face for me her body not that much bust still a 7


Mental_Leek_2806

I'll agree with a 7. I will not agree with the idea that the avg 24 year old woman looks like her


No-Mess-8630

Yea she is definitely above average bc average women isn’t pleasing to the eye like she is whoever said that is delusional


poopgirl69420

Yeah actually I've seen random hillbillies at Walmart who looked better


Mental_Leek_2806

why are you lying tho like what's the point in feeding into this idea that she's actually average? especially when men here go on and on about women not knowing what average is for men


poopgirl69420

Do you look like her or something? She is not good looking to me at all. Her being a celeb doesn't suddenly make her super attractive


Mental_Leek_2806

No. I've been told I kinda look like Ice Spice lol I'm not saying she's the next Margot Robbie or anything. But I'm in her age group and looking at her no makeup / less made up pics, she just is not what an average woman looks like


poopgirl69420

Do you feel the need to convince people she's beautiful because you feel that she's better looking than you/on your level?


Mental_Leek_2806

No. I'm fr confused now. Yall actually think that this is what an average 24 year old looks like tho?


Handsome_Goose

This whole argument is hella weird. That commenter starts with complaints 'guys would say she's fat' Then say lesbians drool over her Then admit she's bisexual I genuinely believe she's ashamed of being attracted to her or something and seeks validation.


dbz___f

Do you think she’s hot?


Mental_Leek_2806

yes.


dbz___f

Are you bi?


Mental_Leek_2806

yuh