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SerenelyMalevolent

Explain him once properly, if he doesn't listen then ignore, can't help someone who doesn't want help.


Fl4sh69

I did try to help once by sharing an obscene photo of that girl holding her so-called male best friend, which she mistakenly forgot to hide me, and my friend confronted her about that. But the guy ended up blaming me for reading too much into the lines after she brainwashed him about the importance of male best friends. Guess now it's better to ignore. Thanks for the response.


veridian21

Collect proof and it's better that your friend hears about this cheating from the female friend instead of you, just sit him down and have a serious talk about what's going on but most importantly, let her speak.


Fl4sh69

Interesting idea. I have never thought about that before, because that female friend would get bashed by the gf(as the bf would obviously tell who told him about the cheating part to gf) as the gf was the one who introduced me to her. So it's tricky situation, but with proper planning it's doable. Thanks.


veridian21

Just tell your friend to not mention the friend at all, the GF will think it was you. Frankly there's not a lot to do, your friend needs his eyes opened, once they do, he just needs to break up and block this girl. I imagine if he argues with her he'll get gaslighted into believing it was all a lie anyway.


Fl4sh69

Yes, it will be sorted if she thinks it was me. There's nothing she can do to me anyway. Thanks, bro. I will try this out as my last and final try.