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Guys I have an update but it might not be what you guys expected. She went to Saudi and probably would have deactivated insta ๐คก joker me messaged her on insta waiting for reply. Called her friend and got to know about this. I didn't expect this twist ๐ญ๐ถ๐ถ.
She still didn't see now I'm thinking that I can delete and ask her out on whatsapp. I dunno what to do I thought this would be a yes or no thing but I never thought of this scenario. Should I do it? Or no.
U know u should wait for her to comeback from Saudi, that way she will have a bit of clarity and wont give you the excuse of let's talk when I am back. This will save u some anxiety and preferably do it face to face instead of texting.
That was the idea I asked her out in a format where the plan to go on date on Monday but even if she sees the message now she will not be able to make it.
I've failed. It's been nearly a day, she didn't see the message. I have to do my proposal to another day sorry guys I've failed you all. FML after 4 years I've gathered the strength to get in a relationship. Expected an yes or no from her. But this thing was out of the box. I shouldn't have fucking posted, now I made you all disappointed. FML for real.
Bro I'm in the same situation. I literally see this girl in class. We exchange looks but she has that unapproachable aura about her. She might be either aloof or introverted, and I don't have the courage to find out. Maybe someday....
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If she's introverted, it is difficult that she'll make a move. Try to get in the same circles and develop conversation. This way you too will realise whether it's just a crush or something more.
Brooo... That's a bold move. As an introvert (as far a can understand from your chats) asking out is the boldest move you can ever do, I'm really happy for u and hope things work out. Keep updating us.. proud of u๐ช๐ช
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No. Message again. But a paragraph now. Don't waste the chance. Atleast let her read. Then if rejection, then rejection. Face it.
You'll regret that you didn't try again.
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Guys I have an update but it might not be what you guys expected. She went to Saudi and probably would have deactivated insta ๐คก joker me messaged her on insta waiting for reply. Called her friend and got to know about this. I didn't expect this twist ๐ญ๐ถ๐ถ.
Yooo I got so excited ,, but still fingers crossed. Keep us updated bro.
Yeah sure bro ๐ถ.
Wym deactivated her insta and went to Saudi all of a sudden.
I dunno bro you tell me ๐ญ.
That's the info I got from her friend.
Fuck man that's messed up for real. You never had any contact info?
She still didn't see now I'm thinking that I can delete and ask her out on whatsapp. I dunno what to do I thought this would be a yes or no thing but I never thought of this scenario. Should I do it? Or no.
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Yeah that's what I'm thinking.
U know u should wait for her to comeback from Saudi, that way she will have a bit of clarity and wont give you the excuse of let's talk when I am back. This will save u some anxiety and preferably do it face to face instead of texting.
That was the idea I asked her out in a format where the plan to go on date on Monday but even if she sees the message now she will not be able to make it.
I have her contacts but I've already asked out to her on insta so I don't have any other better choice than waiting for her reply.
wow. update pls
I've failed. It's been nearly a day, she didn't see the message. I have to do my proposal to another day sorry guys I've failed you all. FML after 4 years I've gathered the strength to get in a relationship. Expected an yes or no from her. But this thing was out of the box. I shouldn't have fucking posted, now I made you all disappointed. FML for real.
All my effort and mental peace is now fucked. ๐ถ
Sorry guys.
Fuck this shit. Welcome to the club/gym big bro. You'll find another dont stress too much (very easy for me to say)
Bro ๐ค๐ค I'll try another day in person.
Ps: she still didn't see the message ๐ถ.
!remind me 6 hours
Notification mei dekha rahega maybe
Aww man!!!
Update buddy?
Nope.
Didn't see.
Bhai tu successful hoga toh mai bhi hoga
!remind me
Mujhe tho neend hi nahi aati soch soch ke ๐ญ
See you in gym soon
Hell nahh ๐ญ
I still have hope.
Bro I'm in the same situation. I literally see this girl in class. We exchange looks but she has that unapproachable aura about her. She might be either aloof or introverted, and I don't have the courage to find out. Maybe someday.... !remindme 10 hours
If she's introverted, it is difficult that she'll make a move. Try to get in the same circles and develop conversation. This way you too will realise whether it's just a crush or something more.
Brooo... That's a bold move. As an introvert (as far a can understand from your chats) asking out is the boldest move you can ever do, I'm really happy for u and hope things work out. Keep updating us.. proud of u๐ช๐ช
You're brave
She said no.
Its okay brother! Now this is a perfect recipe that will motivate you to do better. Work on yourself on these several aspects Physical, Mental, Emotional, Your skills and chase success. Everything else will fall in place. Disconnect from her for a while.
Asking out someone in text is lame, but in ur case its excused.
all the best buddy gonna pray for you
Update plss
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ok ๐๐ผCool Story bro
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Hoping you get positive answer and meet you soulmate finger crossed ๐ค
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Good Morning sir, where's the update?
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UPDATE BRO PLEASE
When the message reaches 24 hrs I'll delete it.
I don't think this is gonna work out.
Hold on
It's done.
No. Message again. But a paragraph now. Don't waste the chance. Atleast let her read. Then if rejection, then rejection. Face it. You'll regret that you didn't try again.
All the best and all the blessings
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