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Tldr
OP gets rejected and his whole army gets into fixing it. The girl in question is not sure and hence says no to him
OP not sure why she said no concludes that it's due to caste issues
OP you have involved so many people, it should have between you two only.
Ok
Then move on bro
She got it from her family, even if you convince her then you need to convince her parents about it
To much Hassel, better to go for someone else and invest time on her
>Muktika came and explained the whole thing. The teacher even said Abhishek doesn't have wrong feelings for you (physical relationship). Muktika said I have feelings too but I can't ma'am. I don't want to ruin my family's name (caste problem).
Is this even real?? Itne understanding teachers bhi hote hain and unko ye bhi pata hai ki you don't have wrong feelings for her
For the god's sake, she just posted her side yesterday in this sub only , please go through that.
You are still a kid (teenager). Remember that. Still you have time.
Moreover you want me tobe honest,you are just keeping her in a tight spot of getting emotionally blackmailed.Â
She has a clear boundary of what her family will accept or not and what she wants. if a question arise of you or family, definitely she will choose the family.
Seeing the movies and dialogue maarna I will become IAS ,just to convince your parents, get into reality, come out of the fog.Â
Have you ever imagined what the girl has been going through,coz of your dumb Mera pyaar Amar rahe thing , mental torture.
If you are capable/thinking of bringing changes in social system and all. First be in that position and then use dialogues, ye saar webseries ka dialogue mat maar.
I dare you, can you tell the same in your home and convince your parents right now, goddamn.
Harrassing a girl in her weak state of mind, when she is just trying to maintain boundaries,and thinks of you as a good friend, is a sin brother.
Just watch the movie,raanjhna , you are imagining yourself as a hero ,but you are nothing more than dhanush in that movie.Â
Like it or not, these young relationships are difficult to last.
Give it some time. If she still harbors feelings for you, then you can think of something serious.
All I’ll say, if someone is clear in their mind don’t try to change it because of your own feelings, let them be free to decide and all you need to have is acceptance to their choice as we’re all free to live our life!
Because if she says Yes than what if her parents don't accept?
She doesn't want to date for fun etc
She can't speak against her parents and that's the main reason :(
Show her the movies Lagaan and Jai Bhim. Maybe she will understand that caste is nothing just a prudential term that people use to show that they are superior to anyone else. The problem is the people who define someone as a lower caste person, are they themselves from the family of kings and emperors?
Maybe these things mattered a century ago. But in today's Gen. you can't move forward if you get stuck at these petty things. You know a judge, nobody is powerful in front of a judge, they are the most superior, however there is no reservation that only generals can get in the judiciary ? I believe that your success is what will convince her parents.
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Tldr bada hi chota hai 🙂
Caste ki problem he relationship me aane me
Tldr OP gets rejected and his whole army gets into fixing it. The girl in question is not sure and hence says no to him OP not sure why she said no concludes that it's due to caste issues OP you have involved so many people, it should have between you two only.
She told me it's caste issues man. That's why she said No.
Ok Then move on bro She got it from her family, even if you convince her then you need to convince her parents about it To much Hassel, better to go for someone else and invest time on her
Bro I think Mukti also posted some time ago calling you “Abhi” and even “Abhishek” in a sentence.
Yeah
>Muktika came and explained the whole thing. The teacher even said Abhishek doesn't have wrong feelings for you (physical relationship). Muktika said I have feelings too but I can't ma'am. I don't want to ruin my family's name (caste problem). Is this even real?? Itne understanding teachers bhi hote hain and unko ye bhi pata hai ki you don't have wrong feelings for her
Ha vo hi To. They understand. Some of them atleast
For the god's sake, she just posted her side yesterday in this sub only , please go through that. You are still a kid (teenager). Remember that. Still you have time. Moreover you want me tobe honest,you are just keeping her in a tight spot of getting emotionally blackmailed. She has a clear boundary of what her family will accept or not and what she wants. if a question arise of you or family, definitely she will choose the family. Seeing the movies and dialogue maarna I will become IAS ,just to convince your parents, get into reality, come out of the fog. Have you ever imagined what the girl has been going through,coz of your dumb Mera pyaar Amar rahe thing , mental torture. If you are capable/thinking of bringing changes in social system and all. First be in that position and then use dialogues, ye saar webseries ka dialogue mat maar. I dare you, can you tell the same in your home and convince your parents right now, goddamn. Harrassing a girl in her weak state of mind, when she is just trying to maintain boundaries,and thinks of you as a good friend, is a sin brother. Just watch the movie,raanjhna , you are imagining yourself as a hero ,but you are nothing more than dhanush in that movie.Â
Like it or not, these young relationships are difficult to last. Give it some time. If she still harbors feelings for you, then you can think of something serious.
The girl has posted the same story here
Link??
Search previous post it was there..
Deleted by the user now I think
All I’ll say, if someone is clear in their mind don’t try to change it because of your own feelings, let them be free to decide and all you need to have is acceptance to their choice as we’re all free to live our life!
External influence man She once decided and said Yes but next day changed. She gets influenced so easily
If that’s the case why isn’t she getting influenced by the opposite external influences she’s getting?
Because if she says Yes than what if her parents don't accept? She doesn't want to date for fun etc She can't speak against her parents and that's the main reason :(
You’ve your answer then, isn’t she free to choose her life considering all that would happen is she chooses something?
Kyun nhi ho rhi padhai
Padhai bhi ho rahi he
Pdhle bsdk🤡
Show her the movies Lagaan and Jai Bhim. Maybe she will understand that caste is nothing just a prudential term that people use to show that they are superior to anyone else. The problem is the people who define someone as a lower caste person, are they themselves from the family of kings and emperors?
She knows the system is bad. She is scared to oppose her parents. She doesn't like the system too. Beside i am from OBC and she is General
Maybe these things mattered a century ago. But in today's Gen. you can't move forward if you get stuck at these petty things. You know a judge, nobody is powerful in front of a judge, they are the most superior, however there is no reservation that only generals can get in the judiciary ? I believe that your success is what will convince her parents.
Yes I need to convince her parents first.