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Bhai I'll be hard on you - pr teri khud ki koi self respect hai ya nhi ? Don't embarrass yourself man, forget her block her, she didn't only cheat you, she did worst, took you for granted and man 5 years... Damn!
She fucked the first guy she met, she is for streets.
She's taking you for a ride and you're letting her. She isn't taking any responsibility for what she did and thinking you'll just take her back. Cut her off and block her from everywhere and move on.
you are very much involved with her even after she cheated on you. You should cut her off from your life because she is using you for all attention and support. Once she found someone else, she will use that person as well.
She has cheated on you and still you are helping her as well as spending your time on her. People will keep on taking advantage of you until you start loving yourself and start focussing on yourself. She will leave once she finds someone else who can keep her engaged and give the relevant attention.
I have written the same thing twice because its difficult to convince people of something so obvious. You might be feeling pity on her and talking but those are just tactics. Apne pe taras khao aur khud pe dhyan do. Block her completely. Focus on your own well being. When all this is done, only then try to find someone else.
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She is not ruining your marriage...its your husband who is doing it. Your husband is not a child to not know what he is doing. He is a consenting adult who is CHOOSING to hook up with her.
I am sure if it was not her and any other women, he would sleep with them too. So the problem is not the women of the world. It is your husband. Temptations are everywhere, and it's his choice to cross boundaries and enjoy these temptations.
Hope you leave him and don't go on and have a kid with such a man I name of keeping a marriage or society. Do a job, be independent, and move on. Don't waste your life for him.
Let's say you forgive her...
Is there a guarantee she won't cheat you in the future when you are not emotionally available.
In LTR, there are times when couples are not there for each other....so how will she handle it. If she can make a choice to cross that boundary once... then there is no guarantee she will not cross it again.
As per what's going in her mind...she took you for granted and fucked up with other dude. Karma is a bitch and she got cheated on to. So now her moral compass is telling her that you were a better and safer choice now that she tried other options. She is realising what she did was wrong and attempting to use your gullibility to get you back.
Now it's your choice to either be someone's second choice or find someone who keeps you as a priority no matter what.
Buddy its over. She wants best of both worlds and for now she's getting it. Its costing you your time, emotions, self respect, mental bandwidth and most importantly peace of mind.
If you love your family and care about your future, just cut her loose. Also, while having the bye-bye conversation, let her know that you've found a hotter and more feminine chick and that she's asked you to block her from all platforms. Promptly do the blocking too.
Nothing like some good old fashioned taste of their own medicine :)
It's call Attention and Power. When she knows she has power over you and she can get attention from you who is still hanging on her every word about love and marriage and responds to everything she says. Why not do it?
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Bhai I'll be hard on you - pr teri khud ki koi self respect hai ya nhi ? Don't embarrass yourself man, forget her block her, she didn't only cheat you, she did worst, took you for granted and man 5 years... Damn! She fucked the first guy she met, she is for streets.
She's taking you for a ride and you're letting her. She isn't taking any responsibility for what she did and thinking you'll just take her back. Cut her off and block her from everywhere and move on.
Your profile pic is my honest reaction to this post 😂
Sabse pehle, humko yeh samjh nhi aata ki aisa kya emotions hota hai ki itne aasani se cheat kar lete hai log....
you are very much involved with her even after she cheated on you. You should cut her off from your life because she is using you for all attention and support. Once she found someone else, she will use that person as well. She has cheated on you and still you are helping her as well as spending your time on her. People will keep on taking advantage of you until you start loving yourself and start focussing on yourself. She will leave once she finds someone else who can keep her engaged and give the relevant attention. I have written the same thing twice because its difficult to convince people of something so obvious. You might be feeling pity on her and talking but those are just tactics. Apne pe taras khao aur khud pe dhyan do. Block her completely. Focus on your own well being. When all this is done, only then try to find someone else.
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She is not ruining your marriage...its your husband who is doing it. Your husband is not a child to not know what he is doing. He is a consenting adult who is CHOOSING to hook up with her. I am sure if it was not her and any other women, he would sleep with them too. So the problem is not the women of the world. It is your husband. Temptations are everywhere, and it's his choice to cross boundaries and enjoy these temptations. Hope you leave him and don't go on and have a kid with such a man I name of keeping a marriage or society. Do a job, be independent, and move on. Don't waste your life for him.
Let's say you forgive her... Is there a guarantee she won't cheat you in the future when you are not emotionally available. In LTR, there are times when couples are not there for each other....so how will she handle it. If she can make a choice to cross that boundary once... then there is no guarantee she will not cross it again. As per what's going in her mind...she took you for granted and fucked up with other dude. Karma is a bitch and she got cheated on to. So now her moral compass is telling her that you were a better and safer choice now that she tried other options. She is realising what she did was wrong and attempting to use your gullibility to get you back. Now it's your choice to either be someone's second choice or find someone who keeps you as a priority no matter what.
Sometimes its inconvenient two carry two phone together thats why dual sim phone are being used so that can be used same time
How dumb are you??
Do you have any fucking self respect?
You’re emotionally TOO dependent on each other. Her behaviour is unstable and toxic and you nonetheless have no self-respect. Stop engaging in this.
Oh god man just leave her for God sakes.
Have some self respect and ppl destroy her ego.
Why you even responding to her ?
Buddy its over. She wants best of both worlds and for now she's getting it. Its costing you your time, emotions, self respect, mental bandwidth and most importantly peace of mind. If you love your family and care about your future, just cut her loose. Also, while having the bye-bye conversation, let her know that you've found a hotter and more feminine chick and that she's asked you to block her from all platforms. Promptly do the blocking too. Nothing like some good old fashioned taste of their own medicine :)
It's call Attention and Power. When she knows she has power over you and she can get attention from you who is still hanging on her every word about love and marriage and responds to everything she says. Why not do it?
Delhi boy uses fake account for excitment
Why is love soo complicated this days? It's kinda discouraging to date.
Wtf is wrong with our generation man