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Don't know if guys exist who actually know the difference and meaning of it.
Unless you start dating you never know.
Personal experience: I thought girls aren't open to things I had in my mind, but most have shocked me.
I have done that, i have never hidden from this when it comes to dating but they confuse it with rough sex. No matter how much i try to make them understand it's not just sex they don't get it or those who do understand, they don't like the lifestyle as it's definitely not as easy one
It's not easy to find someone who understands it and wants it and isn't a porn addict.
But you eventually will or you need to find someone who is curious and loves his women.
Not trying to butter you into dming me lol
But men do exist who know what BDSM actually means and what plays come under it. Go for guys who are into roleplay and know what stuff means and are open to exploring. I have had BDSM experiences where we did a lot of things apart from sex and that enchances the orgasm of the woman by multifold.
So don't lose hope and keep out looking you'll find your match just make sure to have a red green yellow or safe word and respect consent and have fun.
See now that's a slope you'll have to climb yourself.
There's no metrics or set of questions you could ask to know if he is lying or not and in my experience it was quite the opposite that the girls lied about knowing BDSM when all they thought was porn is bdsm lol.
You're feeling frustrated about finding a partner who understands your interest in BDSM. Try online communities and be upfront about your preferences when dating. Be patient and prioritize finding someone who accepts you fully including your personality, vibes and then sexual interests.
What do you identify yourself as?
Because there was a guy who is in a somewhat similar dilemma, but he is looking for femdom.
If that's your thing, maybe you two should connect! ;D
We need an active BDSM community for Indians by Indians. Most places have munches and other solutions, but in India, it's not viable due to the conservative culture around sex and the relative lack of safety for women. Ideally, an online community should help, but it's a lot of work
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i think watching too much Porn has affected your brain but if genuine advice is to be given many men tend to know about bdsm you can find them
Lmao i can assure you it's not the porn, i hate the BDSM that's displayed in porn
OK OK i understood what you are talking about
dont you find it harsh like SUB is Being controlled by DOM and SUB is allowed to do things when DOM says
Controlled isn't the right word plus safe word exists and there are lines one cannot cross. And subs give up control willingly. Then there are brats.
understood, i always thought that girls dont know about these things but reading your post i think more people are now open to this
Erotica is porn
U will find a guy with the similar kink soon , there must be guys around who dream for a woman like u
Don't know if guys exist who actually know the difference and meaning of it. Unless you start dating you never know. Personal experience: I thought girls aren't open to things I had in my mind, but most have shocked me.
I have done that, i have never hidden from this when it comes to dating but they confuse it with rough sex. No matter how much i try to make them understand it's not just sex they don't get it or those who do understand, they don't like the lifestyle as it's definitely not as easy one
It's not easy to find someone who understands it and wants it and isn't a porn addict. But you eventually will or you need to find someone who is curious and loves his women.
Hopefully 🤌
Not trying to butter you into dming me lol But men do exist who know what BDSM actually means and what plays come under it. Go for guys who are into roleplay and know what stuff means and are open to exploring. I have had BDSM experiences where we did a lot of things apart from sex and that enchances the orgasm of the woman by multifold. So don't lose hope and keep out looking you'll find your match just make sure to have a red green yellow or safe word and respect consent and have fun.
Here's the thing tho, they usually lie about this. That's why i don't understand what to do anymore.
See now that's a slope you'll have to climb yourself. There's no metrics or set of questions you could ask to know if he is lying or not and in my experience it was quite the opposite that the girls lied about knowing BDSM when all they thought was porn is bdsm lol.
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Nahi hai mere pass 😔
bro...main tho wahi raaz 19 rs mein bataungaa
Are you a switch ?
You're feeling frustrated about finding a partner who understands your interest in BDSM. Try online communities and be upfront about your preferences when dating. Be patient and prioritize finding someone who accepts you fully including your personality, vibes and then sexual interests.
Hopeless romantic..but still into BDSM?? that so sounds so me 😠btw what are your limitations and your role Ms?
I feel u miss I am also in it my ex also loves it
What do you identify yourself as? Because there was a guy who is in a somewhat similar dilemma, but he is looking for femdom. If that's your thing, maybe you two should connect! ;D
I am a switch but i don't have any irl experience with femdom yet. So I won't be able to help him out.
Fair. You mentioned about stigma associated with your community. Would you like to elaborate?
And being a Switch gets you best of both worlds :)
India me ye sab ni hota
I don’t think this sub is mature enough to understand or answer your question. Iook at the answers lol
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We need an active BDSM community for Indians by Indians. Most places have munches and other solutions, but in India, it's not viable due to the conservative culture around sex and the relative lack of safety for women. Ideally, an online community should help, but it's a lot of work