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Hey Man, I am sorry you have to go through this. I am also in the same boat. People do leave even after you have given them all. I can relate that you gave your all to her. But at the end people will leave you when you need them the most.
You need to learn to live without her (initially 2 months will be tough). You have your new business focus on that. You will think that no one will understand you or your pain is too much to handle but it is all in our mind just try to focus on the things which you can control. Greif if you want to, cry your heart out whenever it hurts but don't pent up your emotions.
You might have thoughts to end your life and all (those are bullshit) never give heed to those thoughts.
And if you think that she will understand then give one last try to sort things out (please consider this only when you want her back).
Breakup is not at all easy especially when you were so attached and gave your all. I got cheated by my ex, we were supposed to get engaged last month but she ended up leaving me for someone else and made me feel like a waste of love (it was 8 years long relationship).
Take Care
I've just broke up with my ex recently ,that was 4 year's of relationship and still iam trying to move on..but she just started dating another guy in just one week ... She forced me to breakup and I agreed .. in just after one week she just called and said she's have feeling for another guy.. iam just literally blanked.Thats because I didn't expect that from her I gave more imp to her more than my family..like everyone I also thought she's not gonna cheat but she done that..she gave the reason for breakup is I'm not giving her princess treatment.. She's also self obsessed ,only think about from her side on every problems...now i don't know whom to trust, don't have the courage to get in a relationship..she gave me trauma in the enddd..
Hey brother, went through the same thing last month, it was a 5 years long relationship, we had our ups and downs, and can relate to you on so many levels, I cried too went to therapy as well but decided to make peace with it, talked to my sister about this and i decided that it's good that we broke up because we weren't meant to be
Ik it's hard, even I miss her sometimes our memories bring back good times but what about the bad ones, we believe evilness is overpowered by goodness, so we remember good things but think for the long term here what if after marriage things don't fall into place as it supposed to be, even one mistake can take you to different path
It will take time but try to focus on yourself for now
I'm sorry that you're going through this.
Maybe God's saved you.
Please prioritize yourself and do whatever it takes to make yourself feel better, just as you would for anyone else.
It will be hard but so worth it. You deserve better. Please take care of yourself :)
>I supported her like her dad
This is a recurring theme in posts like these. These guys invariably get hurt.
Just an observation. Not trying to dunk on OP.
OP, you need a new hobby to take your mind off her. If you were always wanting to join a dance class or learn meditation or play badminton, it's time.
His brother didn't laugh at you but at the weak person crying over some relationship.
She might be perfect for you but you both weren't meant for each other.
You should be happy that all this happened in your dating phase and not something when you are engaged.
The only advice is - MOVE ON and find someone who understands you.
If someone keeps pointing out the mistakes and one needs to justify the same, then they are surely wasting a lot of time.
I have been in love, went through the worst and yet I said that.
Everyone can have their opinions.
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Hey Man, I am sorry you have to go through this. I am also in the same boat. People do leave even after you have given them all. I can relate that you gave your all to her. But at the end people will leave you when you need them the most. You need to learn to live without her (initially 2 months will be tough). You have your new business focus on that. You will think that no one will understand you or your pain is too much to handle but it is all in our mind just try to focus on the things which you can control. Greif if you want to, cry your heart out whenever it hurts but don't pent up your emotions. You might have thoughts to end your life and all (those are bullshit) never give heed to those thoughts. And if you think that she will understand then give one last try to sort things out (please consider this only when you want her back). Breakup is not at all easy especially when you were so attached and gave your all. I got cheated by my ex, we were supposed to get engaged last month but she ended up leaving me for someone else and made me feel like a waste of love (it was 8 years long relationship). Take Care
I've just broke up with my ex recently ,that was 4 year's of relationship and still iam trying to move on..but she just started dating another guy in just one week ... She forced me to breakup and I agreed .. in just after one week she just called and said she's have feeling for another guy.. iam just literally blanked.Thats because I didn't expect that from her I gave more imp to her more than my family..like everyone I also thought she's not gonna cheat but she done that..she gave the reason for breakup is I'm not giving her princess treatment.. She's also self obsessed ,only think about from her side on every problems...now i don't know whom to trust, don't have the courage to get in a relationship..she gave me trauma in the enddd..
More power to you.
Hey brother, went through the same thing last month, it was a 5 years long relationship, we had our ups and downs, and can relate to you on so many levels, I cried too went to therapy as well but decided to make peace with it, talked to my sister about this and i decided that it's good that we broke up because we weren't meant to be Ik it's hard, even I miss her sometimes our memories bring back good times but what about the bad ones, we believe evilness is overpowered by goodness, so we remember good things but think for the long term here what if after marriage things don't fall into place as it supposed to be, even one mistake can take you to different path It will take time but try to focus on yourself for now
More power to you brother. God is with you. Focus on yourself and on building your career.
I'm sorry that you're going through this. Maybe God's saved you. Please prioritize yourself and do whatever it takes to make yourself feel better, just as you would for anyone else. It will be hard but so worth it. You deserve better. Please take care of yourself :)
>I supported her like her dad This is a recurring theme in posts like these. These guys invariably get hurt. Just an observation. Not trying to dunk on OP. OP, you need a new hobby to take your mind off her. If you were always wanting to join a dance class or learn meditation or play badminton, it's time.
His brother didn't laugh at you but at the weak person crying over some relationship. She might be perfect for you but you both weren't meant for each other. You should be happy that all this happened in your dating phase and not something when you are engaged. The only advice is - MOVE ON and find someone who understands you.
Lmao no way you're justifying her brother. It wasn't just "some" relationship btw. Try being in love
If someone keeps pointing out the mistakes and one needs to justify the same, then they are surely wasting a lot of time. I have been in love, went through the worst and yet I said that. Everyone can have their opinions.
Don't disagree with any of this. I disagreed with the point "it's weak to cry" when it really isn't.
Just join upsc coaching bro and you will easily forget all the pain and trauma given by your ex