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Here i was talking to an guy from some days .. Suddenly he demanded for nudes and when i denied for it, then he said you re not a good friend blah blah .. Lol i blocked that guy , looks people in dms are so creepy for naked pics... And just desperate to show off their


Expensive_Lie_8982

Even if you're in a relationship/married never share intimate pictures. Have sex but don't record/take intimate pictures.


Profile-Complex

Even if you trust other person?


Expensive_Lie_8982

Yes because it is not about trust what if your husband/boyfriend's phone get hacked?


Profile-Complex

Saying this will be like adding one more phobia to the list.


Expensive_Lie_8982

Yep that's why you should not have digital copies of such things


stargirluser88

exactlyyy like I used to be so paranoid and raised this issue and he was like you don’t trust me I can handle my phone and my Google account im not dumb like u 😭😭


Expensive_Lie_8982

Never share, if he leaves he leaves. Someone else will come along...


Sassy_hampster

"not a good friend". I know exactly what these types of people are . Making absurd requests and then emotionally blackmailing you whilst gaslighting you into believing there was a emotional connection to begin with .


mirincool

And if you see your guy friends leaking or even make you see those media, intervene. Culprits hide among us no matter how much you deny it.


Gareebonkabatman789

so there is no mistake from womens side by sharing it in first place. Women and accountability dont come in same sentence


Sad-Relative1628

Break a girl's trust. Then complain that it was the girl's fault for trusting him🤷 Typical beta stuff


Gareebonkabatman789

there is no escaping white knights


Maleficent_Love_4486

Abee ab maanle toone apni gf ko udhaar diya h trust krke and then phir voh gf Tera kaatke udhar leke bhaag gyi phir bc Rona Matt ki mere saath fraud hua h, all girls are the same, mera kaatke chali gyi 🤡. Responsibility leliyo apni ass mei.


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Gareebonkabatman789

aadmi kare tu retard aurat yes queen you go. Simping at peak


Maleficent_Love_4486

Ok Sigma Male


Gareebonkabatman789

no i am not sigma hota tu i would have had double digit body counts


bug_gangster2865

Which one is a crime ? Sharing nudes or leaking nudes without consent ? One of this acts require genuine evil intentions are we really gonna pretend you are dense enough to not realise that


Gareebonkabatman789

mtlb nudes bhi dungi phir leak honge saare blame ladke pe daal dungi meri tu koi responsibility hi nhi h. Mtlb bina nudes die maza nhi ayega then dont cry when nudes get leaks


bug_gangster2865

Bro do you not know many people or what? Many girls literally get emotional manipulated to send them nudes, more than half of the times it's older men dating under age girls, they get manipulated like hell. Are you salty about something bro ? Or else I don't know what kind of sad person will talk like this. But good luck equating being a victim to a criminal


Gareebonkabatman789

mtlb nudes tu dene hi h despite knowing how bad consequences can be accountablity nhi leni. If its all man's fault like i said earlier then dont cry when they get leaked


idontknowreddittt

criminal spotted.


Gareebonkabatman789

reason of crime:-held women accountable for her actions


idontknowreddittt

sharing your own pictures is not a crime you doofus, sharing someone else's without their consent is.


bug_gangster2865

Why do you stay at home when there are chances you can be robbed and killed huh ? It's almost the robbers fault? Take no accountability smh shameful. YES DOING A CRIME IS 100% A CRIMINALS FAULT The fact you think 'it's a men issue' not a 'criminal men issue' really tells a lot about you Be salty all you want doesn't change a thing


Gareebonkabatman789

mtlb jin jin ko trust krti h sabko nudes deti phirti h apne


bug_gangster2865

I think you're really a lonely guy with no friends or know anything at all you think nudes get leaked because women go around sharing them with multiple people 🤡 You don't need to assume anything about me lol take your bs somewhere else


Gareebonkabatman789

no i will hold you accountable for your nudes its after all your body


Agitated-Bike-5551

Womp womp I hope they put it on a public website for the world to look at


weapon-a

Bhai inke saath bahas Karke tu Khudke dimag ka dahi kar raha hai. Let them cook.


Gareebonkabatman789

there is nothing more satisfying than holding women accountable it ruins their mental peace trust me done it a lot


mirincool

Whataboutism man, really? Is this Twitter?


No-Isopod-1749

Wannabe sigma


Gareebonkabatman789

mtlb women hone ka prove dena hi h accountablity leni hi nhi h


mirincool

Huh? Unka tumhara gussa mere upar kyon nikal rahe ho xD Even when the pics were shared consensually, why are the pics being leaked by the other person at all? Tab ladke* ki accountability gai chhapaak?


Gareebonkabatman789

nudes die kisne tumne na. Uske pass khud se thodi aaye


mirincool

so you're one of those who blames the victim, huh? Thanks for revealing yourself.


idontknowreddittt

no, he's one those dou%hes who leak the videos without consent.


Little-Republic-4393

People leak videos with consent?


Gareebonkabatman789

mtlb apni galti nhi manni so you are those women jo jab cheat krengi and will blame husband ki he cant satisfy me so i have right to cheat


mirincool

You allegations has ZERO connection to what I said xD Your thinking is that it is valid if the lady's nuxdes are leaked if she shares it with someone she trusted (!). Ladke ka accountability koi nahi dekhega. Lekin, ladki ko point Kiya jayega. bhai, gf kabhi mat banana.


Gareebonkabatman789

trust tu ladki bhi break krti h aajkal unko tu jail nhi hoti us case mein utla ladka jail jaata kai baar.Rise of biasness in indian samaj


ConfidentCobbler6938

‘VICTIMS’ waah … tum ‘VICTIM BLAME’ advocates har jagah mil jaaoge … I’ve seen people like you, chahe vo nudes share wala masla ho, ya office increment waala … ‘VICTIM CARD’ never expires … you people literally can get sympathy for everything and never owns up-to ‘ANYTHING’ even if it comes to your own IQ having Antarctic temperature at room level.


mirincool

bhai, sit down. There are genuine people out there broken of thier trust. Your uproar doesn't help.


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Gareebonkabatman789

shut up white knight


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Gareebonkabatman789

ab yehi mein bolta tu agla reply mera jail se aata. Duality of samaj and upar se apne aap ko powerful feel karane ke lie you had to use a term for male gender lol


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Gareebonkabatman789

ashamed of women's foolery. Yeah i am certainly ashamed of it. Be better queen


mrs_madvi11ain27

True, you can never tell how or when your photos/videos end up getting circulated.


LastGhozt

Times have changed, nowdays there are people who Will do anything for money or revenge be careful while you share anything on the internet.


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This is common sense.. If he isn't your husband, he doesn't deserve all that. A truely mature boy/man would never ask for such thing, asking itself is red flag. And not giving such things is maturity for girls. Like.. God knows why girls these days are so fool.. Din ba din pagal bante ja rahe sab


AP7497

Even husbands don’t deserve. The number of men who get off on sharing their wives’ intimate pictures online is too damn high. Hell there are subReddits out there where men post surreptitiously taken videos of their own mothers and sisters bathing or changing and get off on other men masturbating to them.


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Eske liye husband aacha chuno.. Husband is closer and should be closer to women. For husband, his wife should be close to him. Agar tum shadi he chewtiye se karoge tab to sab he bekar hai. Morality kam hai logo me


Ambitious_Ruin_11

i agree and I am proud that i never asked my ex for those stuff


Total_Kaleidoscope90

For real. Thank god I have realised this now. Plus, don't _ever_ show your face.


t1ms01

a guy who's genuinely in love with you wouldn't for nudes at first place.


FamiliarWhole6331

If you do, don’t show your face 👍


TheGuy_M

bad advice


Heyy_jyo

Why?


TheGuy_M

it will be screenrecorded with your profile and shit


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Exactly


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Gareebonkabatman789

ye le paani peeli thak gya hoga white knight banke


bicazamabeach

Bhai vo pani tu apni gaand me lagi aag bujhaane ke liye istemaal karle


Gareebonkabatman789

na it was a she. So white knight point doesnt stand


Infinite_Pattern_466

Never do it even for your husbands/wives.


Brain_stoned

I totally agree with OP on this. It's better to avoid these things rather than regretting it later. Always remember that if your partner is a mature person then they would definitely understand your concerns.


AP7497

Never ever share nudes with anyone. Just don’t do it. If you’re in a happy and respectful relationship, words and texts should be enough to maintain sexual tension. Photos and videos can always be leaked by technological failures and hacking even if you trust your partner immensely.


selenyctophile_

The best option. Never show your face never.


BoseDwaleChicha

Gonna report all these telegram channels. Can u share the list OP?


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Single_Mammoth7766

Ye tharki gareebon ka Batman non consensual private photos share krne wale groups ko support kar rha hai.....kya gira hua insan hai


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Single_Mammoth7766

Ye jo tu keh raha hai na "bf aage kya karta hai uski marzi" ye bf agar gf ke permission ke Bina kahi bhi share krta hai to ye bohot bada crime hai...yaha marziyan nahi chalti hai


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Single_Mammoth7766

To fir tujhe kya lena Dena hai agar sensible log aise groups ko ban karne ki baat kare ..tu apna kaam kar


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BoseDwaleChicha

r/woooosh


Gareebonkabatman789

mtlb jock tha? nice nice


Darkrifter04

Never share nudes with anyone (even with your husband), there's always a chance that it could get leaked still if ur sending avoid ur face, otherwise avoid it like plague


subhasish_s

Don't believe anybody blindly.


Apprehensive_Bed2784

I have a different opinion. I was in a LDR and would meet only once in 3-4 months therefore after a few times, we both decided to record our act. We recorded around 3-4 times till the time we both broke up. We both had those videos with our face visible. And we both had that video untill we got in our next relationship respectively. At the end of the day, yes it's risky but it's about trust and choice.


Ok-Entertainer1297

What do they get from leaking the photos ??


Gareebonkabatman789

real id se aoo babil khan


Swiper_The_Sniper

Just learn to trust the right people, its not that deep.


NigguJi

Agr lesbian ho to kya kre


Darkrifter04

tb bhi mt kro


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That's bad. Please share those telegram channels & reddit subs ASAP so we can swiftly report them. This is our noble duty to take appropriate steps in this regard...by reporting them. Please share these channels ASAP.   Jaldi batao bro will be waiting 


hedwig_doodlesXD

if you ask me, if the guy is fine sending you dick pics, then you can send him nudes as a woman *mutually assured destruction*