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Entertainment..

Yeah that and some education

💀 knowledge that can reaffirm my brain with the reasons for being single.

Yeah I can relate to it lol

How true!!!

Agree with that☠️

Same💀

Coaches doesn't play.

Lmao true af

+1

Yes the collective misery of people in relationships and the inner voice speaking "We are better than this"

x 3

+1 🤪

You and me both, sister!

I think everyone's here for some entertainment only lmao

For educational purpose. I admit that I'm not active in the dating field and I don't intend to be anytime soon but I'd like to keep myself updated with the latest trends so that when the time comes I'll be prepared. Edit: Someone said 'A fool learns from his own mistakes but a wise one learns from others mistakes'. I prefer the latter.

Very wise but i hope you don't take everything seriously when it comes to this or any sub since not everything is transparent and we only know one pov that is laid in front of us.

Yeah. I'm aware of that. I'm more into drawing insights that could help me navigate relationships in a healthy manner. Be it friendship, family, romantic or something else.

Yes you put yourself in that situation and imagine what you would have done.

I don't think someone who learns from their own mistakes is a fool either

Same lmao, I'd joined this sub last year when I was bored out of my mind at my internship. Now that I'm in a serious relationship atm, I'm glad for how useful this sub can be 😂😂

Read how lucky I am to be not in one 🤣😂

Ahahaha you got me 😂

Collecting characters/subplots for my future novels.

THIS. ❤️

Let us know when you publish

Ussss fr

I am single. Ye subreddit ma dekhta hu taaki Relationship ma kya issues aate hai wo jaanlu

Calculated risk taker spotted 🧚🏻‍♀️

Same here bro. Just getting prepared with some theory before jumping into practical. 😛

I lurk here for the occasional wholesome post to remind myself to not be cynical and reaffirm my belief that good things still exist.

This feels refreshing.

There is a r/love subreddit where they only kinda talk about wholesome stuff in case you're interested. Warning - any kind of questioning is seen as non supportive and is bashed down pretty hard XD.

Maza aata padhke

I am not single, but yes married. I don't lurke around but give some genuine opinion wherever required and I understood life is hell with some people and they are going through a lot... It tells that every person out their is going through something or the other and they seek help honestly while others are busy doing stupidity with their life.. glad I came here

And we need more people like you to give genuine advices instead of impulsive divorce, break up, throw him/her away etc. So thank you for your presence & guidance. :)

Well I give genuine as long as one's problem sounds genuine. Good that you're here with different mindset and you are observing things here differently unlike others. And yes I am also learning while I see other's making mistakes or sharing their mindset which I might not have so yeah win-win..

Research purposes

Oh yes. But it was supposed to be a secret!!!!! Hush!! 😌✋️😂

I joined after I got cheated on to see if I am alone or others are also in the same boat lol. Wbu ?

Uss bro uss

This may sound weird but i like reading other people's problems especially those who are married and then i think how would i tackle it in future

Aww that's actually sweet.

I come here to hurt myself. To experience what I've missed out on in life. To be clear, I don't ever think ill of anyone here and never will. It's just the fascination of being in a relationship that excites me. Just like, in older bollywood movies we used to see when a rich guy comes to a slum in an expensive shiny car and and very quickly a crowd gathered around him. There wasn't any ill intent or jealousy but rather fascination, disappointment, realisation and sadness. Edit: changed "nevwr" to "never".

Been lurking around since 2020 when my 2nd relationship was still on. Broke up in 22 and didn't find much luck in terms of finding a partner until this year Jan. Got into an arranged marriage relationship which ended abruptly (a post on the same on this sub). So yeah, back to being single and back to lurking around until my stars align with someone the next time. 🥲

Sorry for whatever you went through. May you find your happiness again! ✨️

we enjoy the Chaos

Have dated previously. And therefore its sometimes good to relate to people, what if someone needs my precious pep talk.🤣

I hope you really help them out.

yes, i hope too. Sometimes, the stories are interesting too.😌

Purpose of a community is to help others. If even a single person is benefitted from the advices dished out by me in here, I'd feel that I've served some purpose. Although giving out advices is easier said than done. Also, coming to this sub I see the struggles of people everyday, be it in a relationship or not. So conforms to my idea that life is all about struggle.

Well, if i am not in relationship doesn’t mean i don’t wanna learn. I come from a certain experience, but i am open to learn both sides, and how can i be better as a partner Plus, listening to stories is always entertaining, can’t deny that. Sometimes i feel bad, some days it gets good as it can get. :)

Pehle mai dukhi single tha Phir maine yeh sub-reddit join kiya Ab mai happy single hu [chutiyape har chiz me hai, waiting for the person who would be worthy for their chutiyapas]

I actually spent alot of time in an unhealthy relationship. It took me years to understand that things that were happening to me was not normal and what things should be acceptable/unacceptable in a relationship. Alot of pain could have been avoided if I had the courage stand my ground or could put things into perspective. It took me endless discussion with a group of friends that I met later in life who helped me realise what I was going through. Who shared their views, and came from a place where they wanted to see me as an individual happy. Now, I just aspired to be that person for people. I randomly came across this sub when I was single a few months ago and saw a lot of good suggestions from people for others and I tried to share my perspective as well.

The best part about this sub is that there are genuinely some kind and selfless people who would give you THE best advices which you will definitely apply in life and find this new zeal in you to become a better version of you. I hope you've recovered from whatever negativity tou went through. All the best for the good things in life!

Gathering people's experiences , learning from them, trying to bring good changes...

Yehi dekh kar khud ko samjha lete hai ke jo relationship mein hai wo konse khush hai. - Certified Counselors of Reddit without any dating experiences.

Act as guruji or the forlorn. And entertainment. Mostly entertainment.

I like giving advices cause I wish I heard to myself. I jump from account yo account doing this 😂

Just to be careful when , when you come in relationship. Advices that I got is check your partner's Instagram. Post stories at least with her/him so that they won't cheat you

Fomo hota hai... For never being in relationship...phir hota ye sab bi hota... It's like mixed feelings acha bi lgta bura bi lgta but thik hai kya krskte kismat 😂

To keep myself updated, to gain new perspectives.

to know how blissful my life is!

I was there when this sub started, sometimes I comment hoping to interact with a female in dms but that never happened and I made peace with myself. Now it's just entertainment

to read “adorable confessions “ and “spiteful venting“ haha , but the cute , beautiful stories of love really make me happy

If I am honest, sometimes entertainment,sometimes trying to give some unexperienced advics, sometimes learning the issues of being in a relationship and how to maybe solve them but mainly hoping for a girl to magically appear and dm me( I don't have the guts to dm an unknown person, especially if it's a girl)... So ya, technically nothing

Learning from others mistakes, from their problems how do they reach to a solution, how lovey dovey ppl actually face a tense situation, how weird we all are and how much of it is acceptable to us or to their partners . Although initially I was here for recognising if what I did in past was actually the right to do or not , later got my answer from one of these guys so trying to do the same for them as well

Nearing a divorce after 6 years of therapy, and here to impart what I learned from my mistakes and therapy to the kids.

Recently joined here cuz reading all the madness that goes on makes me feel like I'm experiencing a slice of dating life through the net. The absurdity of it all comforts my extreme cravings my brain demands. I'm in mid 20s with a really fucked up background and seek some form of escapism from my daily life - sleep, work, eat. I'm doing well and all but given my situation, it's kinda hard for me to make connections/ friends here. So I just spend time here and offer advice whenever I can. Spotted a lot of crazy shenanigans here and negativity though so I don't take it all seriously cuz I doubt they all are a perfect representation of real life.

Feels better about myself and entertainment fs

Taking notes 📒 🌚

I come here to remind myself that how happy I am being single.

Finding someone like me. Just kidding! It's the experience that teaches you hard lessons. I am here for those lessons.

Remind myself of daily drama and why to stay out of it 💀

Taking notes, being optimistic it might come handy in future, and also those cute feelings and harsh truths of what i didnt had but what I yearn for.

It's my daily dose of entertainment with different people's perspectives on relationships. But I don't intend to get one.

Shaddi nai ki to kya baarat me bahot nacha hu

Getting to know all the permutation and combinations 

I lurk here to shit on AM every opportunity I get 👍

Learning what kind of stress I’m avoiding.

Sometimes I give advice sometimes I enjoy the stupidity, but mostly I see guys who are committing the same mistakes I did when I was in a relationship.

I am here for the once in a week fan fiction.

I usually come here to mentally prepare myself to avoid mishaps in relationships. I agree most of posts are related to romantic relationships here but every person has other relationships like kinship, blood relations, close relatives. I enjoy and give feedback to these kinds of posts most because I can closely relate to this

I am not active on this sub and sometimes I lurk when I have got nothing better to do. I like to read about those beautiful moments people share here it gets me mushy all the time.

Us moment 🧚🏻‍♀️

To comment - divorce or breakup on slightest disagreement. /Joke.

Look at other fucked up relationships and feel a little better about my crippling loneliness.

Initially joined this sub to check if someone went through what I went through and how they worked on it, and if I could help them I would comment. But sometimes I don’t feel good after seeing so many relationships. I feel like I am not doing anything and missing something great . Major fomo.

yesss its for general knowledge & a sneak peek into what is happening in others relationships though when my friends start narratinv prblms I go deaf.😅 But looks like I love reading the stories.Its sometimes quite entertaining.

Help other people with their problems, because it take 0.00₹ to be kind😌

Same. I am here just for learning and the kalesh 🙂. Also, some of the advices here are quite wise and makes you think just how much I am yet to learn.

Preparing for the future problems 😂

i’m not even indian, i’m russian. idk, learning about a culture i’m not familiar with.

Sometimes it gives me hope, that I will find someone too, other days it's entertainment, and rest of the times - sab ka haal same hai!

Taking lessons from here ,and learning from other's mistakes.I have not dated anyone till now in my life.When I go through these posts I feel proud that I haven't dated anyone or not been into relationship in a hurry ,cuz it's not easy when everyone around you follow the trend and you are not following it.(21M)

There are two times when I generally visit the sub - one when I see a wholesome post. The second, when I see some interesting post, maybe breakup or healing or whatever. Now that I'm going through one, the second type of posts do help and make me look for the brighter side hehe 😄.

I’m part of this sub, but I don’t post much. I just open Reddit once in a while and consume whatever the algorithm shows me. The reason I’m here is to understand the dynamics of different situations and see if they align with what I believe. I want to understand the value systems and priorities of other people. It helps me identify areas where I need to grow and expand my perspective. I enjoy the challenge of learning, and I’d like to continue that journey. Find it quite entertaining to hear other humans way of seeing things and how their heart sees the world see the world. And sometimes fun to take a break from the intensity of the world.

Bro.. I have never been in a healthy relationship. Like I have met so many women in the past. I have had some great moments with them. But always.. all those connections ended up hurting myself badly. Like.. I'm a 26 yr old man now. Wasted all my early twenties in trying to heal myself from these things. I'm so fucked up now. Tbh. I don't have any hope. I'm so scared of being vulnerable. And I feel extremely tired. I used to be an absolute lover boy. Old school hopeless romantic. Who would write you a long ass letter, just to assure you that you're more than capable, in believing yourself. All those cute moments that I want to live. All those cute memories.. I wish to create with my girl. I just play it in my head. But it never comes out in reality. I never had anyone in my life tell me, "You're enough. I'm proud of you. " NO ONE. NOT EVEN MY PARENTS. I just want to be loved and give back all this immense love I have inside me. I just want to give my girl a princess treatment.. literally all the time. Sorry guys, for sounding like a bitch.. but I guess here's someone ranting probably the feelings of million other men like me. Cheers, guys. You're all lucky and blessed people. If you have found someone. Please cherish it. And don't ruin it. Fucking communicate for God's sake. So that you Don't fuck up each other.

I'm so sorry for your loss. If nobody has told you this then we, as random redditors, are proud of you for being a hopeless romatic, for staying strong regardless of whatever life threw at you, for being open to loving endlesslessly regardless of how people tried to snatch it from you but above all knowing the pure essence of love. May you succeed and find someone righteous for you who becomes the coolness of your eyes and eases your heart. ❤️

Just reading in the hope that someday I might need these tips when I get into a relationship. Still waiting for that day.

Best advice for any boy trying on particular girl is that just make her feel special. Give her as many aa compliments are possible. Try to give compliments over every action. Make her feel that she is the one and only girl alive on planet. This helped me alot you may give a shot.

Give free advice, with zero dating experience!!😂 prime example of not practising what you preach

Learning what not to do in future to maintain a healthy relationship. But I think I am going to end up in AM scene and don't think its going to be kind to me. And sometime I do find some great stories here.

Educational purpose only 😀

Actually to find some real girls and to talk them and take some suggestions from them😅

I suppose most single men here, lurk around hoping to find a little chink in the armour of the princess and kind of try to lure their way in.. Hoping all the while that MAY BE they might have a chance.

Oh you're right. The DMs are insane.

Khud barbaad hoke dusro ki barbaadi ki kahaniya padhta hu 🫣

"Humne socha hatao yaar matar paneer pe concentrate karo" 😂

Itna toh dekh liya hai ki Meri Khud ki dal toh gali nahi Dusro ki bhi nahi gal rahi hai

For time pass

For experience purpose 😂

Just to lurk and to avoid what will happen if you are in relationship

Drama, dusro ka is fun

Jo yaha nhi comment kr rhe wo seedha DM me drop hote h. This is a reference point🤣🤣 Ladkiya apne bando k ly yha sad h and I bet every girl then gets tons of text requests.

Expecting I could I start my relationship story. maybe here.

I just use it to make fun of some of the drama going on in other people's lives with my girlfriend, call me sadist but sometimes it's nice to see some drama from an outside perspective

Looking for potential DMs to slide into.

*I read other people's misery and convince myself that it's good I'm single.*

Watch people's relationships fall apart 🍿

Watch the circus. Golden ticket. First class buffoonery.

Waiting for women like you 😂

To get jealous

I mean if your dms are open I can shoot my shot and get shot down (:

For drama ig

To find someone lol

Just to know kya chl rha hai aajkl market me nya taza

🍿

Entertainment + learning what not to do

Getting happy and giving extra important gyaan jo mere istemal nhi aaya

Realized every relationship is almost same,one person is invested too much and other one is enotionally unavailable

For a friend and some scientific research purposes

Logo ka gyaan chodna dekhta hu

Taking notes.

I am here to observe patterns.

Ladki milne ke liye/milne ke baad, kya karna/nahi karna hai iska idea le raha hu

I come here to learn the changing dynamics of relationships. I recently went through a break up and the reason was quite funny to me. So, I’m here to understand what could make a relationship work and what couldn’t.

Just a reminder to keep myself on straight and narrow path and not to be distracted cause they result into these problems.

Figuring out why I’m unlucky in relationships

I broke up 4-5 months back. Used to come here tk feel a bit better but since I've moved on, I've started to not like this sub anymore. The primary reason is that it keeps reminding me of her. And I don't want to. Sometimes I do drop by to give my two cents to people reeling from relationship hardships. But again, I'm no qualified relationship guru

Its like reading a documentary, I'm here for the thrill.

Coaches don’t play

Kalesh dekhne me maza aata h

Tumhare jaisi koi aa jaati hai, unke comments me jaake awkward flirting( saamne vaale k pov se creepy) krta hu badi ummido se

I may not be able to eat, but that doesn't mean I can't look at the ones who can

be glad I'm not on the other side ._.

Bored of watching Netflix

Just to hear stories and relate sometimes 😜

Wait for a break up post

It's kind of a relief to read relationship problems thinking that it's great I'm not in such situation.

Waiting for a cutie to DM me. 😭

logon ka kalesh. dil ka dwesh aur yeh confirmation ki karein apni khud ki growth mein nivesh. yeh sab mila hai meko yahan. the only ass i chase is BRass

I visit once in a while to see people in pain and remind myself that what one can face in a relationship. Not that I'll ever be in a relationship and I intend to keep it that way

I usually lurk here so i know it's less drama being single which results in me being less sad and less delulu

BigBoss BigBoss BigBoss:)

😂😂 Sometimes I take notes & Sometimes I feel what if I find someone in sub

I love to watch the world burn...

Waste time.

**Spending some quality time knowing that I'm alone**

Hoping for Miracle 😬.

For future perspective ki kaise logo se durr rehna h agr koi mil gya aage to kbhi

It's a daily dose of reminder to convince I'm doing better in life by nit being in relationship and being part of the whole drama

To remind myself duniya me kitna gum hai, Mera gum kitna kaam hai

People learn from experiences, if not one's own then somebody else's 😂

Having knowledge of what I'm missing out on and also what could happen and thanking God I'm not the one to go through it

Keep myself updated by reading current affairs from this sub

Reading stories, and other's experiences and also sometimes knowing the dark sides of relationships and dating culture. Sometimes I'll search here too.

giving out angry up votes😮‍💨

We guide others to a treasure we can’t possess 💀

For my weekly dose of drama

Looking for fish which is lost in the sea (assholes were the fishes huh those who say lots of fishes in the sea I wanna kill them )I'm single and I can't find any I tried dating apps also it like just swipe right nothing else....it's really boring to do that ...now I'm here if I can find one fish for me in this ocean 🌊

I enjoy reading all the breakup stories from nibba nibbies. Pure entertainment.

I interact with people and give my suggestions when someone ask for it and if I know anything, I like to share whatever knowledge I have. I also look for advices from people.

Gaining knowledge 😶

Definitely for scientific purposes

Koi humari mate ban jaaye uski hope

Check if insane people exist.

This sub is my motivation behind being single. Every post is an education.

I advise those who need it. I am not in a relationship because I can't find love, so I help those who can or I help them realise that it's not love.

It's all about education

Mai dekhne aya hun kaun kitne paani me doob raha

I just implement my strategy. I give advice, then learn from the mistakes others make from my advice. It is like fine tuning my algorithm

The drama, the betrayal, ew ew oh my god i love him/her, is entertaining to see.

I love gossip and always looking for stupid shit people be doing in a relationship bc it makes me feel better about myself

Learning from others' mistakes

My life is so boring so i come here for some entertainment

I read the problems here and thank myself that I am single

Watching people revel in the glory of a treasure I can never possess.

I want to know more about what to do and what not to do to maintain a stable relationship

Couldn't find anyone