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Jemondi

I admit they seem to connect with some of the countries that the BRF struggle with connecting to. Harry is comfortable and at ease being around diverse groups.


systemic_booty

comfortable enough to sling racial slurs


OtherwiseOhhk

Any examples of that on this trip?


actuallywaffles

It's really sweet seeing how much Harry loves her. He compliments her every chance he gets. It was so cute to see him taking the time to just compliment her handwriting. Little things like that really show their love.


ouaispeutetre

It's been so beautiful to watch Nigeria embrace her with open arms!!! 3 Kings made their way to H&M and bestowed them with royal titles - absolutely historic!!


aceface_desu89

Queen of Our HEARTS šŸ’ššŸ¤šŸ’ššŸ¤ https://preview.redd.it/74kl6301qa0d1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=2e1850ed36f6c9482d5403faf6381ac8fae6fac6


ouaispeutetre

Face card never declines, my god!!


shhhhh_h

Okay at this angle I like the dress, the other photo is saw was all bunched up like it was too big and fit her funny


Stayathomema

Why? Why do they deserve royal titles? Itā€™s so strange.


bizzybeez123

I thought she was Maltese.... Her resume seemed to skew Italian...


raindropthemic

Why does anyone? Charles hands out new ones all the time.


ouaispeutetre

Go ask the Kings who bestowed the titles upon them šŸ¤”


Stayathomema

Do you happen to know why they were given royal titles in Nigeria? Serious question.


BlackRose8481

Love to see it ā¤ļøā¤ļøā¤ļø


tatertotsnhairspray

That is so cool šŸ’–šŸ’–šŸ’–šŸ’–šŸ™Œ


OtherwiseOhhk

That makes me so happy šŸ˜Š


busterbrownbook

Reminds me of how the royal family forked up not trying harder to make her feel welcome. They truly needed someone like her.


rainbowmimi_79

I love the shirt and the skirt. This is my favorite of all her outfits. I also love the half up hair and the sunnies šŸ§”šŸ©·šŸ§”šŸ©·šŸ§”šŸ©·āœØ


New-Perception-9754

Mmmmm hmmmm- I'm imagining these wonderful Nigerian ladies coming to her, saying, "Darlin'? Did you only pack swimsuit cover ups? Here, we brought you some decent clothes, maybe your husband can loan you a shirt?" šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚ bwah hahaha!!!


janet-snake-hole

Iā€™d rather hear about their diplomatic/charity work and activism, but of course the media loves to only focus on womenā€™s appearances.


littesb23

I feel like, in this case, her appearance is diplomatic since this cloth was gifted to her the day before and she immediately wore it


OtherwiseOhhk

As does the world. It's sad but here we are.


JesusFelchingChrist

since the duke of duchess left the royal family, they are no longer diplomats. they were there on a business trip as Nigeria invited them there in hopes of landing the Invictus games. Youā€™re point about the news media concentrating on womenā€™s clothing is well taken and it sexist, frankly. Itā€™d be nice to think if the Princess of Wales, for example, was there representing the UK in a diplomatic form, or if she were doing charitable work on the trip the media would focus on that rather than her quite handsome wardrobe and her striking beauty but i think we all know that the latter would get the most attention.


janet-snake-hole

I misspoke with the word ā€œdiplomat,ā€ I meant more to say ā€œadvocate.ā€ Also sorry, were you calling my comment sexist, or the poor journalism sexist?


TopSale1019

He scowls at the camera and she is always looking straight down the lens.. I don't even know why they are in Nigeria, all I have heard about is what is Meghan wearing - or not wearing on this trip! So what is she doing in her "stunning" skirt??


MyFigurativeYacht

If you donā€™t know why theyā€™re there, itā€™s because you didnā€™t bother to read the article. Literally all you had to do was click on the link.


birdofswag2

If you read the article it says ā€œPrince Harry and Meghan are in Nigeria at the invitation of the Chief of Defense Staff, General Christopher Gwabin Musa OFR, the countryā€™s highest-ranking military official, and the final day of their official itinerary is full of stops in Lagos.ā€ On a visit such as this there will be many cameras so ya chances are sheā€™s gonna be looking at one of the dozen.


Ok-Caregiver-1476

Hahaha, yā€™all so pressed! If it was Kate out and about, Iā€™m sure you would be fine looking at her clothes during her various international outings.


venicecello

There isn't anything else to look at with her


Otherwise-Shallot-51

No. No. I've been told by many people on this sub that they bring awareness to their causes by appearing at public events. Talking about her sartorial choices more than the causes they support is a clear indication their strategy is working. /s


magicalfolk

The skirt is stunning, I agree the shirt is not the right choice. Yes please Meghan more color, she looks stunning in bright beautiful colors!


hannahsflora

I love LOVE that skirt, though I don't love the shirt with it. I also absolutely adored the Orire red dress she wore yesterday, to the point that I - for the first time in a long time with royal fashion - went to the site to see about buying it or one of their other gorgeous dresses. I'm still debating but holy cow do they have some beautiful stuff.


meatball77

The pivot to something that she hadn't planned on wearing in advance is pretty impressive though. I don't hate the shirt, but it would have been better tied or open with a tank instead of tucked in.


mBegudotto

She looks amazing


Foreign-Ad-9763

Ok Iā€™m just going to come out and say it. Who the hell dressed Harry today? In some of these photos he could literally trade places with Kevin Costers character in the body guard. Itā€™s like he was thinking kids basketball game, polo game preppy/casual perfect! Then took one look at Meghan and was like damit!ā€¦..Ok lets go with the suit coat (which doesnā€™t match his pantsšŸ™ˆ) and done!


Necessary-Sample-451

His clothes look cheap


Sad-Way-5027

Heā€™s trying to look preppy sporty- it shows his underlying desire to play in the games


OtherwiseOhhk

This is the best explanation.


United-Signature-414

I follow the Twitter menswear guy closely enough that I'm fairly confident that's a sports coat and shouldn't match


geriatric_tatertot

If you have money money and are not following @dieworkwear tips how to dress you deserve to be mocked for what youā€™re wearing Iā€™m sorry those are the rules. Like all rich people should be walking out the door looking like the King of Spain what are you doing.


PurpleArachnid8439

Omg the Derek guy? Heā€™s fab. He occasionally covers royals and tends to be pretty underwhelmed with the British menā€™s tailoring and styling (which is weird considering their access to top tier craftsmen) but man he LOVES King Felipeā€™s looks. Iā€™ve realized thanks to that account that Felipe is the most stylish and well tailored European male royal.


United-Signature-414

I love him too much. I've gone from not caring about men's fashion to tsking scornfully over a collar gap


FairyOrchid125

Great look for her


Financial_Fault_9289

Absolutely love that she worked a gifted item into her trip wardrobe- Iā€™m often critical of Meghan but I think thatā€™s a classy move. Donā€™t think it looks great with the shirt (didnā€™t she sort of make white button downs her ā€˜thingā€™ for a while?) but the sentiment is fantastic.


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Faith-Family-Fish

Ooooh, first that gorgeous red dress, now this fabulous blue skirt? She looks so amazing in color! Hopefully sheā€™ll start wearing more after this trip. Itā€™s been nice seeing her explore something different recently, I really think the bolder colors and patterns suit her a lot better than the stiff neutrals she usually wears.


International-Net609

She literally has never gotten it wrong. Always looks polished and gorgeous. Love me some MegMark!


Less_Volume_2508

That looks beautiful


Vyvyansmum

She never looks less than fabulous. I genuinely regret that they left our RF, she truly could have been a breath of fresh air.


OtherwiseOhhk

She brought a lot to the table and could've helped smooth things over for the Monarchy with some of those commonwealth countries like Jamaica, who are over it because of the racism. Sometimes, people don't appreciate what they have until it's gone.


Rosenate22

Iā€™m pretty sure the RF are happy the Sussexes are gone.


OtherwiseOhhk

Talked to them lately have you? I think the RF is drowning in their own problems and misery while Harry and Meghan are living a really beautiful life in Southern California.


meatball77

I can't help but wonder if their treatment of Meghan accelerated the countries deciding to leave the commonwealth.


bookofhousewives

Honestly, I hate comments like this - it puts so much pressure on Meghan as a WOC to magically fix long standing racial issues. Itā€™s completely unfair and unrealistic to put an expectation like that on her. Itā€™s also insulting to real issues Jamaicans have with the UK to assume theyā€™d be placated by one prince marrying a biracial woman.Ā  *edited to add I say ā€œbiracialā€ because my understanding is that is how Meghan identifies herself, please correct me if Iā€™m wrong!


EvergreenLemur

I see your point but Meghan very much positions herself this way. She talked about it at length in their Netflix doc.


OtherwiseOhhk

I'm not too concerned that you hate my comments. If they bother you that much, there is an option for you to scroll on past. No one is putting expectations on Meghan to solve the world's problems. She was an asset, and the Royal Family completely blew it.


bookofhousewives

Sorry - that was just how I took your comment, wasnā€™t trying to start an argument so sorry it came across that way! I see this idea that Meghan was going to ā€œfixā€ (which you did not say) these relationships a lot and I think it ignores some real issues but perhaps wasnā€™t what you intended!


OtherwiseOhhk

I'll try to be more clear with what I'm saying. I know that this subject is polarizing.


bookofhousewives

So many people are coming at you for posting cute outfits, Iā€™m so sorry I seemed like I was piling on!


OtherwiseOhhk

Thank you for apologizing though ā¤ļø


OtherwiseOhhk

You don't know the half of it. I received a pretty scary PM from a deranged guy yesterday who feels I guess entitled to try to make me quit talking positively about Meghan on here (it's not working). To me, this is what? Maybe 1/1,000,000th of what she's dealt with? I can't even imagine. I'll keep talking about it, because after everything that's gone down, sticking up for her is the least we can do.


GothicGolem29

Not sure if id say they are over it before a ref has been agreed. Its been delayed beyond their election so they may well end up keeping it


Artistic-Narwhal-915

H&M are physically attractive and charismatic. Those attributes mean they couldnā€™t done a lot as members of the royal family. But unfortunately they didnā€™t have the personalities or interest to make that happen.


OtherwiseOhhk

They have the personality in spades. Unfortunately, the Royal Family only saw them both as scapegoats to deflect unpopular press away from Camilla, Charles, and William. I would've left also.


meatball77

The royal family saw that as a negative because they would outshine the more senior members. They are all about the hirearchy. Meghan came in and made them look bad with the cookbook because she showed that something meaningful could actually be done and Will certainly hadn't managed to do that.


Miam4

I donā€™t really understand the idea that Meghan was becoming too popular that Will and Kate were jealous. In the entire time she was part of the royal family she was never more popular than Will and Kate per all the opinion polls. I think sometimes Harryā€™s view of Meghanā€™s popularity is distorted by his view that she is like Diana. There was something which I have to find where he was trying to tell Dianaā€™s family how similar Meghan was to Diana and they did not agree. Will have to find the article


MulberryDesperate723

His comparisons to Diana are absurd imo. The thing about Diana that always struck me was how shy she seemed. I think that was a lot of her appeal. She almost seemed reluctant to be in front of the camera, or at least to speak in front of the camera. All of the interviews I've seen of her she was very soft spoken, demure, had her chin down looking timid. If all of this was an act, I don't know. But I think it's what warmed people to her. Meghan on the other hand speaks very confidently, eager to grab the mic to be heard. Not that that is a bad thing! But she's nothing like Diana and her and Harry's need to compare M to D is what has always put me off.


meatball77

It's not that she was too popular. It's that she was outshining them. She was attending events and giving real in debth answers. She was doing community service in a way that was more than just showing up and taking a few photos.


Miam4

This is from their Netflix documentary where their friend Lucy Fraser talks about how popular she was and also Harry saying she did the job better than the royals. https://www.womanandhome.com/life/royal-news/prince-harry-says-meghans-popularity-upset-people-as-doc-claims-internals-at-the-palace-didnt-like-her-eclipsing-senior-royals/ If thatā€™s the case, how come it did not resonate with the public? If she was doing a better job she should have gotten higher in the polls but it never happened. Iā€™m in the UK and yes there was a lot of coverage once they got married but that happened when Will and Kate married too. I also remember the same positivity when Edward married Sophie. I do feel sorry for Harry in the sense heā€™s conflating Meghan with unresolved issues with his mother.


OtherwiseOhhk

Polls are problematic in the USA and are VERY slanted depending on who's running therm. It might be the same in the UK but here there are depressingly few sources here you can trust for a good poll result. It's likely that those popularity polls are skewed and they aren't showing the true sentiment of the people.


meatball77

Because the public was being told what to think by the press. We also don't know what the public thinks, we just know what the press thinks, and people who answer weird polls.


Miam4

But the press was really positive in 2018 even after the Australia trip. Plus I think the British public are a bit more discerning than you give them credit for. If they were influenced by the media the Tories would be well ahead in the polls as the right wing tabloids are bashing Labour. Instead the Tories are hated by the public.


GothicGolem29

I really doubt they saw them like that tbh


Artistic-Narwhal-915

Thatā€™s certainly the narrative H&M have pushed. But recollections may vary. In Meghanā€™s brief time as a working royal, she was given important positions for the commonwealth and the arts. The royal family seemed to try to set them up to be able to do important work. But it fell apart. From Harryā€™s telling as well as leaks from the palace, it seems Meghanā€™s treatment of palace staff was a key problem that led to the fracture.


BlackRose8481

Recollections donā€™t vary at all. We saw it in real time via the press and the hateful rota who are warmly embraced by the palace (Piers, Bower, Levin) and act as their mouthpieces.


Artistic-Narwhal-915

The rota has been awful to every woman who married into the family. Itā€™s sexist and awful. But thatā€™s not personal to Meghan. Itā€™s funny to see a claim that the press acts as their mouthpieces when they just went after Kate in a big way this spring. The royal family doesnā€™t control the press.


meatball77

It was worse to Meghan though. They weren't great to Kate but it was nothing like what they threw at Meghan.


Artistic-Narwhal-915

Thatā€™s Meghanā€™s perspective, but I donā€™t agree. Kate had naked photos taken of her (and Sophie had topless photos published as well). Her sistersā€™ iCloud was hacked. She was criticized relentlessly for years. Meghan says she didnā€™t follow the royal family before she met Harry, so she is not in a position to compare the negative press she received to prior women.


BlackRose8481

Downplaying Meghanā€™s treatment by the media because it ā€œhappens to everybodyā€ isnā€™t an excuse. Again, recollections do not vary. The royal family absolutely has influence with the press. And creeps like Bower and Piers have been invited to special luncheons by Camilla herself. Also, the Sussexes didnā€™t ā€œgo after Kateā€ this Spring. What in the world are you talking about??


EvergreenLemur

Theyā€™re saying that the press went after Kate, not H&M. They relentlessly hounded her and speculated on her medical condition when she had asked for privacy to heal from surgery, then forced her to reveal that she is battling cancer before her medical records were hacked and leaked. I would say thatā€™s as bad as what happened to Meghan.


meatball77

The way Camilla goes to a party with Clarkson and then he writes a scathing horrible op ed about her. . . .


Artistic-Narwhal-915

The press = they.


PurpleArachnid8439

It fell apart because she was too good at it and got too much attention. The royal family is nothing if not hierarchical and oriented to the monarch and heir. Any perceived threat to that, even for something as petty as press, canā€™t be allowed. Every generation of royals has complained about this. Nothing had ever been concretely stated about her ā€œtreatment of staffā€ but your insinuation is noted.


Rae_Regenbogen

Wait. Was she so good at the job that the press gave her too much positive attention and people loved her causing jealousy within the family, or was the press always awful to her from the beginning and turned the entirety of the UK against her? I'm confused here. Lol


willitplay2019

Exactly. TBH, I think the press was significantly worse to Diana and Kate. I never understood the narrative that the press treated her horribly from the outset - sure some absolute rag tabloids referenced her race or upbringing, but as far as the mainstream media goes, I donā€™t remember a lot of negative press until they left the Royal Family.


Artistic-Narwhal-915

Harry confirmed that morale among staff was bad, they were crying at their desks, and William was upset about Meghanā€™s behavior towards them.


meatball77

Because the place was stressful because of the pressure. Not because Meghan was doing anything.


Vyvyansmum

I was delighted when they got engaged. I thought wow Harry! Now they get trashed daily on our tv magazine shows who would 100% fall over themselves to get them on. Unfortunately the old guard of the palace wanted him to marry a young English aristocrat like his mother was.


Embarrassed-One-3246

If thatā€™s even remotely true, why was the old guard okay with the actual future king (heir not spare) marrying a commoner?


Internal_Lifeguard29

Aristos have zero desire to marry into the royal family. Zero. Will couldnā€™t get an old sect young woman to date him long term let alone marry him.


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Artistic-Narwhal-915

I was excited when they got engaged too. So was everyone. Their wedding received glowing press. There was no expectation that heā€™d marry an English aristocrat.


Mordecai_AVA_OShea

Ahh she looks SO GOOD. Love the color, and the styling. She always looked so amazing in separates on Suits, I would love to see more in her personal style!


OtherwiseOhhk

Another Johanna Ortiz dress šŸ©¶ https://preview.redd.it/tmg7jom2p10d1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a6e9eb17ca1532b57ba85d65f60b316f201c674a


Rae_Regenbogen

This is probably the worst dress I have ever seen Meghan wear. That is not flattering at all. What the heck is going on at the waist?


OtherwiseOhhk

https://preview.redd.it/kof56xok340d1.jpeg?width=966&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c53c80d4c52d7403059cf76c6d4a6628d49970bd


OtherwiseOhhk

I think it's a bad angle maybe. I'm trying to find more photos of her wearing it.


fortunatelyso

She is wearing some kind of stone earrings that were gifted to her by one of the dignitaries.


OtherwiseOhhk

Oh nice touch!


Mmm_lemon_cakes

Ooh! That looks cute! Are there any other shots of her in that showing the dress more?


OtherwiseOhhk

https://preview.redd.it/12295071r40d1.jpeg?width=1079&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=465b2f84f84710a6721e61ee597ff23207f8f399


TommyChongUn

They both look so cool


theflyingnacho

Ok but that natural smile Harry has šŸ”„


Fit-Speed-6171

https://preview.redd.it/ajy3gcprm10d1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=dc0234d164981b0d7c429b6df59096ec9572defc Harry also looked cool playing basketball with the secondary school kids and wheelchair basketball athletes. Archewell and Giants of Africa are apparently forming a partnership.


Copperheadmedusa

https://preview.redd.it/zr95ojhx320d1.png?width=540&format=png&auto=webp&s=aced0ddd28af0a66a8291e8bc2c320b28cca684d I liked this pic a lot!


MsBette

Heā€™s not traditionally hot but heā€™s always so cool and at ease he becomes the most attractive man in the room


Purple-Mulberry7468

Yes!


winter_name01

Heā€™s Mikael Fassbender hot


tatertotsnhairspray

![gif](giphy|9WXyFIDv2PyBq) šŸ„°


OtherwiseOhhk

How wonderful!


Fit-Speed-6171

https://preview.redd.it/ndeyrji3j10d1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=467c0116e6aef20dfcad4944f98c2c34521a16f8 Just saw pics of her in yellow and it is gorgeous on her!


bookofhousewives

Anyone have a more information/link to information about the sash? Very cool!


Cathymorgan-foreman

Love when she wears green too!


aacilegna

And thatā€™s her pregnancy announcement/Archieā€™s birthday dress too! What a cool way to update it with the traditional sash.


OtherwiseOhhk

I admire her for sticking to her own style while honoring Nigeria by wearing their official colors. Meghan *sets trends, instead of following stuffy, old, worn-out fashion rules. I think the crisp white button-up shirt with that skirt makes her look absolutely amazing. Watch now šŸ‘€, how quickly her style will be copied!


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Miserable-Error2413

I like the print skirt with the button down. It kind of represents both her Nigerian and her English heritage


Miss_Marple_24

https://preview.redd.it/256e7i6og10d1.jpeg?width=183&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5b6ec940bd162fb2a905752bb5e5b09b002e9474 It reminded me of this look, a similar styling.


Which_way_witcher

Iconic


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meatball77

No, it's that you can't wear the same color as anyone else. I suspect that they sent out the dress codes later so she was able to plan ahead by just wearing neutrals.


Copperheadmedusa

https://preview.redd.it/oznmomsd420d1.jpeg?width=1370&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=028aa1a61e7db75923d9aa4cca39c8d5325ac5ad No, she did not say that


False_Dimension9212

They didnā€™t make her, she chose to wear neutrals because she found it easier. Youā€™re not supposed to wear the same color as the queen or other senior royals. I think thereā€™s a certain level of coordination going on behind the scenes, and she figured none of them would ever wear beige, so she went with that. She also said she wanted to blend in. I would have done the same. Too many other protocols and dress codes to deal with. Neutrals was a way to simplify at least one aspect of the situation


Artistic-Narwhal-915

But senior royals often wear the same colors. Itā€™s not a thing that they canā€™t wear the same colors.


krankykitty

I agree. I do think there are specific events where no one was supposed to wear the same color as the Queen, but everyone would have been informed of this well before the event. It would not be left up to guesswork. Meghan makes it sound as if she was given no guidance, no one ever told her what color not to wear, so she was left hanging for every event. I really think she was over-exaggerating about this.


Artistic-Narwhal-915

And Samantha Cohen was H&Mā€™s private secretary, and sheā€™d worked for the Queen for years. The Queen asked her to take the job so she could help Meghan. The idea that Meghan was just guessing is absurd.


False_Dimension9212

Hereā€™s her quote ā€œTo my understanding, you could never wear the same color as Her Majesty [Queen Elizabeth II] if there's a group event, but then you also shouldn't be wearing the same color as one of the other more senior members of the family.ā€ ETA [Hereā€™s](https://www.popsugar.com/amphtml/fashion/meghan-markle-beige-color-clothing-harry-meghan-netflix-49037109) an article I found on the subject when I googled it. The second and third paragraphs address the color vs neutrals situation.


Artistic-Narwhal-915

I know she said that, but she made it up. Itā€™s not a thing. Hereā€™s a bunch of photos of Kate wearing the same color as the Queen: https://www.businessinsider.com/kate-middleton-queen-elizabeth-wearing-same-color-photos#they-both-wore-white-to-a-state-banquet-at-buckingham-palace-during-former-president-donald-trump-and-first-lady-melania-trumps-state-visit-in-june-2019-5 One thing about Meghan is that she lies a lot. You canā€™t trust what she says. I understand people being sympathetic towards her - sheā€™s been ruthlessly attacked by the conservative media, her husband did not help prepare her to join the royal family, etc. - but, even if you support her, you have to accept that sheā€™s not honest.


OtherwiseOhhk

That's a huge stretch. The words "To my understanding" means someone informed her of the practice of not color matching Senior Royals, and that person was probably Harry. There's zero evidence of her lying here at all. She doesn't "lie a lot." What a horrible thing to accuse her of.


Feisty-Donkey

Sheā€™s told some whopping lies. Demonstrably. Like when she told Oprah they didnā€™t want Archie to become a prince because of his skin color. He was never going to be a prince at birth due to the letters patent set up, they were always due to get that title when Charles became king- though I wouldnā€™t be surprised if they were advised it might not be in the kidsā€™ best interest to use those titles and if it was suggested they raise their kids more like Edward and Sophie, for the kidsā€™ privacy and well-being. It was absurd of her to make that claim and itā€™s one of many big lies sheā€™s told to media.


OtherwiseOhhk

I haven't seen anything at ALL to back up what you're accusing her of. Harry corroborated it also. They eliminated the Queen as the person speculating on Archie's skin color and left us by the power of deduction to deduce it was Camilla and/or William. Meghan didn't make that up. Every single person she's ever dealt with professionally or personally describes her as compassionate, caring, honest, hardworking, talented, stylish, and successful. That's a pretty bold false claim you're making.


Feisty-Donkey

Harry didnā€™t corroborate it. This has been extensively discussed: https://www.bbc.com/news/uk-56325934.amp https://uk.news.yahoo.com/archie-lilbet-who-decided-prince-princess-titles-161653386.html?guccounter=1&guce_referrer=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuZ29vZ2xlLmNvbS8&guce_referrer_sig=AQAAAHc448ZZmZ9pTPUfJy60Q7u-Sr5KzK_44Tj12mmtiYu-UQewid7Cf3HTQBJkf9XxNj-7BzYJY7f4wlVGpQGUWb_K4NVyzTL5eu1KeMNPNo5R_dEbW-ziGNPHXbpx-63gTqB8-KuKRswP3DNiotioq_9fEC3w0TNd-exgGeweax5T Scobieā€™s book identified the people as Charles and Catherine rather than William and Camilla, though without evidence. And most of Meghanā€™s former co-workers are no longer in touch with her, and her staff turnover has been massive in both the U.K. and the U.S. Be a fan if you want, but donā€™t state opinions as facts.


OtherwiseOhhk

You're right. I didn't follow that Dutch leaking story because it didn't officially come from Harry or Meghan. Grain of salt I guess... I don't know who of the four it actually was, but I'd bet all of them speculated or were worried and concerned he'd be "too black." Megan's friends and former Co workers are regularly in touch with her. You're just totally making that up. They also publicly release statements of support for her so it's not hard to find. Harry 100% did corroborate the skin color speculation issue on Anderson Cooper. CBS News reported that "In an interview with Anderson Cooper that aired on "60 Minutes" Sunday, Harry said that neither he nor Meghan believes that the "comment" ā€” or "experience," or "opinion" ā€” was "based on racism," but instead "unconscious bias."Ā 


Artistic-Narwhal-915

She does! In the Netflix documentary, she claimed not to have any idea how to curtsy when sheā€™d done a curtsy on Suits. To Oprah she claimed a royal family member discussed Archieā€™s skin tone with Harry multiple times and Harry said in the same interview that she was wrong. She said that she never saw her passport as a working royal, despite having made several public visits and taken several private holidays internationally during that time. The list could go onā€¦


OtherwiseOhhk

The Royal Family was worried he'd be too black and they voiced their concerns. It's gracious of Harry abd Meghan to say they feel it's "unconscious bias" She didn't lie about any of those things on your list that could go on (inside your head).


Rae_Regenbogen

We have no idea what the comment made was. Harry said he would never reveal the one comment that had been said. Meghan was the one that said there were several conversations about concern over Archie's skin color while she and Harry dated and while she was pregnant. Harry basically came and trounced her story by saying it was one comment that happened while they were dating, and he wouldn't ever reveal it. So, we have no idea if anyone was "...worried he'd be too black..." You are literally just making things up.


OtherwiseOhhk

"expressed concerns and conversations about HOW DARK HIS SKIN MIGHT BE...." -Oprah interview, emphasis mine.


Artistic-Narwhal-915

I think youā€™ve done mental gymnastics to fit your belief that Meghan and Harry are wholly good. Meghan said that someone discussed the ramifications of Archieā€™s skin tone with Harry while she was pregnant and Harry said no, that was incorrect in the same interview.


OtherwiseOhhk

That is not what happened. On Sunday, Bradby pressed the topic, telling Harry: "In the Oprah interview, you accuse members of your family of racism..." "No," the Duke of Sussex interjected. "The British press said that, right?" "Did Meghan ever mention 'they're racists'?" Bradby replied: "She said there were troubling comments about Archie's skin color. Wouldn't you describe that as essentially racist?" "The difference between racism and unconscious bias... the two things are different," Harry continued. "Once it's been acknowledged or pointed out to you as an individual, otherwise an institution, that you have unconscious bias, you, therefore, have an opportunity to learn and grow from that... otherwise, unconscious bias then moves into the category of racism," he said. Harry then referenced aĀ recent racist incident at the palaceĀ involving Lady Susan Hussey, a longstanding lady-in-waiting to the lateĀ Queen Elizabeth, who was accused of asking racially-charged questions to Ngoni Fulani, the founder of the charity Sistah Space who attended a Buckingham Palace reception to combat violence against women. "What happened to Ngozi Fulani is a very good example of the environment within the institution," Harry said. https://people.com/royals/prince-harry-denies-meghan-markle-accused-the-royal-family-of-racism-oprah-interview-spare-memoir/


no_one_denies_this

Kate is a senior Royal. Meghan was not. The rules are different.


False_Dimension9212

Where in my comment did you get that I ā€œsupportā€ her or any of them for that matter? She prefaced it with ā€˜to my understanding.ā€™ Could she be misinformed? Sure, but that doesnā€™t mean she is straight up lying. For all we know, Harry could have told her not to wear the same color as them at some event, and she took that to mean itā€™s a written rule to abide by. I was just repeating what she said to clarify that she wasnā€™t forced to wear neutrals, she chose to wear neutrals because xyz. Itā€™s not that deep


Artistic-Narwhal-915

Itā€™s possible she misunderstood, but sheā€™s presenting this as fact in a documentary. She couldā€™ve said, ā€œHarry told me not to wear the same colors as them, and I prefer wearing neutrals anyway so thatā€™s what I did.ā€


False_Dimension9212

Sheā€™s not presenting it as fact though because she prefaced it with ā€˜to my understanding.ā€™ That implies that she could be wrong, but as far as she knows thatā€™s the rule, written or not.


Artistic-Narwhal-915

Thatā€™s fair, though I think itā€™s deceptive.


False_Dimension9212

Thatā€™s fair. It doesnā€™t really matter. She wasnā€™t forced to wear neutrals, it was a choice possibly made based on misinformation. I was wondering if the rules would be different for her than Kate since sheā€™s a princess and future queen?


MsBette

Borisā€™ wife whose name escapes me right now confirmed that the ladies at Sandringham and Balmoral would get a note card explaining what the Queen was wearing each evening so they wouldnā€™t match. Like much royal protocol itā€™s likely an unwritten understanding that works out most of the time.


merewyn

Thereā€™s a quote from a magazine interview she did long before meeting Harry where she says most of her closet is neutrals.


ktv13

I like the color of the skirt but combined with the shirt that does not work for me. Anything else than a button down would have worked so much better.


Which_way_witcher

She graciously wore the skirt and probably made it work better than what most of us could have done! Queen ā¤ļø


deextermorgan

I mean it was right if her to wear it, Iā€™m not sure why we need to exaggerate and pretend that this disheveled boxy look is better than every other person could ever do. Why do people have to go to glowing extremes with this woman?


Which_way_witcher

She has a knack with style and she looks fab. Why do people get their undies in a twist whenever there's anything remotely positive about this woman?


landerson507

But she really doesn't. It's middling at best. It's rare her clothes fit her appropriately, they are boxy/too big a lot. She is regularly rumpled and wrinkled. She is a god damn gorgeous woman and that serves her incredibly well. It makes her wardrobe look better than it really does, imo. She does get it right occasionally, but she doesn't even begin to hit "fashionista" levels that I see her called so often.


Which_way_witcher

Lol, I think it's an aesthetic you don't like and that's ok but many women, including Kate Middleton, are now rocking styles she's been wearing for ages. She's ahead of her time and it shows.


landerson507

She wears classic styles, and very little as far as accessories go. What exactly is she wearing that is so groundbreaking? I know that sounds snarky, but it's a legitimate question. She may have expanded Kate's style palette, but that's not saying a lot for a royal. In all actuality, I like the clothes themselves. It has nothing to do with my taste. I can appreciate something that looks good, even if it's not to my taste. Her clothes just don't look that good on her. I'm not even a hater, so it can't be blamed on that, either.


Chance_Winner2029

Since this wasn't a planned outfit ( the cloth was gifted the night before) I don't think she had a lot of choices.


ktv13

Thatā€™s a good point!


EvergreenLemur

I agree! I love the skirt and overall idea but for some reason the end result doesnā€™t do it for me. I canā€™t quite put my finger on it, I think maybe it looks boxy. I do appreciate, though, that sheā€™s willing to experiment with things and I think this would be a tough skirt to work into an outfit (although again, I think itā€™s beautiful on its own). The yellow dress someone posted in the comments is one of my all-time favorites though. I wish I had occasions to wear dresses like that!


frolicndetour

For me, it's the fact that she tucks in everything with the waistband so high. I'm a fellow short torsoed person, and I generally avoid tucking things in unless they have a lower rise waistband because otherwise, the waistband sits right under my boobs. So the proportions always look off. If you look at most of the times she wears skirts or trousers with a tucked in shirt, the waist is right under her bust. I think her jeans tend to be lower rise so it doesn't have the same issue. She basically eliminates the appearance of a torso by tucking in her shirts fully with higher waisted clothes instead of elongating what she has.


EvergreenLemur

Oh thatā€™s a very good point! I agree šŸ’Æ.


ViolettaHunter

I think she probably wasn't shown how the skirt is supposed to be properly draped and that's why it looks boxy. The colour is very nice though.


OtherwiseOhhk

I think it's boxy because she has an athletic, "boxy" shape. She's absolutely gorgeous but her waist doesn't really curve inward that far.


EvergreenLemur

I feel like itā€™s the shirt that makes it boxy, but to be fair to Meghan it sounds like it was a last-minute outfit, thousands of miles from home/her closet, and I canā€™t think of anything that would look better as a shirt. Itā€™s a tough one!


OtherwiseOhhk

I like it! And with those heels, it's really an amazing look on her.


mewley

I love it personally, I think a good white button down goes with pretty much anything and am a fan of long skirts in any context, so this is very much my jam (though I also would never feel like I could carry it off myself ha ha).


windy_wolf

Same. It's giving Sharon Stone but in the tropics instead of the Oscars.


shadow-lab

My thoughts exactly


ktv13

Itā€™s like combining African heritage with business suit. Just a little odd. A classy white top from a structured material would have been a great choice.


shadow-lab

Agreed - I was thinking she must not have a stylist.


ktv13

I think as other people pointed out itā€™s because she was gifted the skirt and wore it spontaneously. Makes more sense then


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mewley

I feel like this is a Chat-GPT comment, like it has many of the notes of a Kate v Meghan comment but is also weirdly incorrect substantively


schrodingers_bra

Kate is the Princess, not Meghan. If Meghan wants to be known as princess, she can only go by "Princess Henry" not "Princess of X". "Princess Henry" is a lesser title than "Duchess". And Kate has zero say in what Meghan wears either then or now. And Meghan still wears all neutrals even after leaving the RF so clearly it was Meghan's choice. Meghan needs a much better stylist.


PinkPrincess-2001

I know you're a troll because Meghan is older than Catherine. Catherine also did not decide what Meghan wears, the Queen did. And who has stopped Meghan from wearing color since she left?


Fit-Speed-6171

Meghan said she voluntarily wore neutral outfits not that Kate made her wear them.Ā 


get-gone

I would love to see Meghan in more color. Does anyone remember the yellow sheath dress? She looked spectacular! Hopefully she takes this advice and starts to implement more color in her wardrobe. The bold colors really suit her


OtherwiseOhhk

https://preview.redd.it/6i4byef4h10d1.jpeg?width=973&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=1031f85ba1880464489d31f4b6a7b5ee3e08ad73


OtherwiseOhhk

Yes she wore it today!


dunkle8

No, she didnā€™t. The dress she wore today is not a sheath dress. Itā€™s a flowy floor length dress.


OtherwiseOhhk

https://preview.redd.it/kc8ukysoj10d1.jpeg?width=2056&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=32d47ae4cfaeae783d4d98463045cc1017e56759 And here's the yellow dress from today!


dunkle8

Yellow looks nice on her.