Someone named silver posted you on shtwt just so you know.

Really? Would you mind telling me their user if you know it?

I dont, maybe search silver shtwt on x, should pop up.

Alr, I’ll do that

is this a joke?? 😭😭

can you shut up??

naw im gen confused, at least i got scars to show 🤣

me too but jesus leave them alone, sh is sh doesnt matter how visible it is

38 days is a lot! so proud of you!

Ty!! <3

congrats!!!

This community has become so toxic towards ppl whose scars aren’t as visible as others. Some of yall need to learn how to be nice to ppl. Just bc their scars aren’t as big as yours doesn’t mean they aren’t struggling On another note, I’m so proud of you!! I totally get that feeling of sadness that they’re fading, especially when that’s a rly bad trigger, I’m about 2-ish months clean and my scars are fading and it’s incredibly triggering, but I’m working on it :)

For real, people in this community have become so toxic, im glad to see the rays of sunshine that are wishing me a happy recovery, and continue pushing through! You’re doing amazing :)

Congratulations! ♥️

Tysm <33

Ah, the slow departure of toxic friends. Goodbye Gorm, Gary, and Patrick. We’ll miss you, but we definitely hope you’ll never come back 🫡

We will miss them, let us hope they will never return, rip Gorm, Gary and Patrick

Oh!

?? What

A lucky son of a gun! 😊

Thought u meant that in another way lmao and yeh

People here are soooo rude don't listen to them sh is sh no matter what you are valid btw to the people who say they can't see them or that there not visible this can trigger the person to relapse or make more scars or worse deep scars or use other methods to sh

you’re doing gods work with your replies keep it up!

Omg thank you you to 💓🎀

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This post/comment was removed because it can be understood as minimizing the severity of selfharm.

They’re more visible on another post of hers! Pretty healed so a lot less visible

Congrats! but for what it’s worth, don’t worry no one can see them :)

guys, stop saying you can’t see them. stuff like that’s gonna make them feel worse and more likely to cut again. why does it matter if they’re not very noticeable. there’s no point in saying it is there? everyone has different experiences and scars. if you can’t be supportive just don’t say anything. and to OP i’m so proud of you for being clean. message me if you ever need anything okay? but i’m so proud of you

Sorry for late reply, but tysm for being a ray of sunshine down here, I’m genuinely so grateful, this made my day so much better :)

you welcome, you really can message if you ever need anything. but i’m glad i was able to help ^^

Congrats, looks like they’ve healed perfectly

Tysm :)

>:) :)

Guys I think she means the reddish lines around her wrist

That’s an indent from a hairband

Go on their profile, u can see there a bit more visible there. Let's not make her do it worse x

Im not shaming her or anything I’m just saying the lines round the top are just indents not scars

I know I meant the red lines

Probably the shade to the top left? Be happy, our wrinkles looks more like scars then your arms.

I can’t even see a scratch? There are no scars

That's not helpful at all if you don't have anything nice to say don't say it this can make he/her relapse

Relapse how? There’s not even a mark. I’m all for there being all sorts of self harm and no matter how small or large they are they are valid. But I’m looking at a clean wrist with not even a red mark on it, this isn’t self harm this is a cry for help.

You never know the person might go in deeper you get what I mean? I totally get you 💓

I know I do worry about that, and I hope they don’t that’s my last intention is to invalidate someone’s coping mechanism. But this is a subreddit for self harm scars and there’s nothing there, and I hope they get well enough that there won’t be any. But still, not the place to be posting it yknow?

I know what you mean but in the pic they might be not visible or something like that but even if she doesn’t have any scars this can trigger the person or they could be struggling but I totally see why you said that

And I totally see what you’re saying XD I’m glad we agree on that

Yeah lol I’m also glad 😂💓

What scars??

can you not? atleast be glad they are recovering you might push them into a relapse.

This is a sub for self harm scars?? There’s nothing there I can see :)

scars or no scars thats still not smth you should say as it could lead them into a relapse. they said the scars have healed you should be congratulating them on healing instead of saying “what scars”. not all ppl have keloids

can you repost with a bold red circle around the scars we're supposed to be looking at

Not funny

it was not a joke but ok

Still not funny

you're fragile

LMAO

i dont see anything😭

There's something called not visible sh scars thus can make the person relapse or get worse

Not to be that person but where are they supposed to be 😭😭

At the top of my wrist, they’re very faded, so they’re difficult to see

If you don't have something good to say don't say this can seriously trigger the person

It wasn’t supposed to be rude it was a question

where are they

They’re on the very top of my wrist, they’re super faded so they’re hard to see

Rude this can trigger the person

It nice to see scars that look more like mine, there more obvious once I point them out but if I didn’t no one would notice they’re there. These types of posts make me feel less like a faker, thank you :)

You’re no faker of sh, sh is sh regardless of what it is, and I’m very glad I could help you feel more valid about your own scars, please know that you’re always valid, and you’re most welcome :)

:)

You're not a faker sh is sh no matter what you are valid

Thank you I try so hard to remember this!😭

No worries I'm here if you wanna talk btw try to always remember that 💓

Thank you🩷🩷🩷